Guys, NEVER fw a girl that u took from somebody because if you was able to take her away from her boyfriend then somebody else is gonna be able to take her away from u
This is such a reality check for me. There was this girl i liked back in school and i think she did give me some choosing signals and i know that she had a little interest in me. We did speak to each other sometimes and sometimes we would break the touch barrier by hugging. Problem is that i acted too beta in my teen years so obviously she notice that. Sometimes the choosing signals would be obvious such as staring and smiling at each other to her asking me if I liked any other girls in our school but i was too beta to make the first approach. There was a time where she would tell me that i need to stand up for my self because she has seen people take advantage of me in school, i obviously would try to defend myself but it wasn't much. After all this, i think her interest levels in me back in school must of definitely dropped a lot. This has been one of my biggest regrets in my life and it still haunts me today. 😔
Sorry if this is long to read, I don't want anyone to make the same mistake I did. If there is a girl that you like and she gives you choosing signals, don't be afraid to make the first move.
Hey brother...you and me both....even before stumbling on this channel I have been looking back on life and trying to think of how many opportunities I had of relationships that I didn't see at the time. Hell....1 of them was a girl I worked with at McDonald's. I couldn't tell she was flirting with me at all because my heart was with my EX wife. For 1 she came to the job on her day off we walked to her house and I met some of her folks and the dog. 2 she came to my house unannounced....in the rain...I was living my the EXES family. 3...she cried when I told her I was getting married married the ex. Looking back I am SO FREAKING stupid.....😔. She was different and I did find her interesting...I was so dense I didn't know. There were a few others too.....a girl I went to college with...I was dating someone else then; we borderline could have dated because she threw hints and body language. I would say this.....she lost interest because your actions didn't fit her lifestyle or her ideology. You not standing for self....was something she didn't like and she did not want to have to stand up for her man...on occasion it's fine....when you not around probably. Bottomline though...I think all men and women slap themselves for the opportunities that didn't happen. I KNOW I do. The ambiance of the person is what I would have wanted to gotten.
I use to think maybe things happen for a reason and I wasn't meant to be in a relationship with those girls that gave me choosing signals. But that's bs don't say this to yourself because those weren't just missed opportunities you were also missing out on alot of early experience. Thats why we watch these videos to make up for the experience we were lacking
@@mujin3794 most of the shit he fake tho bro I work at Walmart and all the females that work there be staring hard flirting ect alotta of them just want attention g u most likely ain’t miss nun
Thank you so much for the girl in a relationship giving choosing signals, this happened at work to me. I talked to a pretty ass girl in a relationship at work just to say hi and make small talk. She kept laughing and giggling and then sbe straight up offered me her phone so i can type in my snapchat and add her. I was shocked but played it cool. She even hit me up first after i posted a sexual meme that was meant for jokes. I just stepped back doe and im not chasing her or showing neediness. As much as i want her, im also realistic and think she prolly just wants attention or validation. She was even sending me cute snaps of herself. I feel like she is interested for sure but the fact that she has a boyfriend sort of just ruins it all for me. Nowadays we havent texted for a while now and when i see her at work our convos are dry at times but she still shows strong signals... ima just lay back and keep doing me.
@@nathanfrench6268 thanks bro he probably did.. as h*rny as i am due to being single for a long ass time i still decided to back off even though this girl is really pretty. Im just too cautious to not end up getting the runaround and getting played yk.
In October I started working at a warehouse, I was 14 days deep into retention. This one chick at the place instantly was feeling me, and she was also the hottest at the job. Tbf tho most the chick's are very average including the hot chick, but she had a phat back man and I was so tempted. The choosing signals I experienced were 1. She'd twirl her around me or when speaking to me 2. She'd smile at me (I'd never smile at anybody tho coz I have a rbf, but I did smile back at her) 3. She sometimes walked upto me and then just froze in her tracks 4. Whenever I needed her help, she was there ready to help, she'd lean in whilst giving me the help, I feel like she'd be smelling my perfume. 5. After a while my streak got big, and after 65 days in, she'd start freezing in her tracks around me, she was afraid to say my name so she'd just walk up to me quietly. She'd start putting her hoody up when she saw me coming around. She started looking in other directions pretending she wasn't looking at me. She was deeply attracted to me, and I was quite attracted to her. But I definitely just wanted to smash, whereas I can tell she wanted a relationship. She was in her 30s and I'm 24. Also every woman at the job gave me at least one of these signals that this girl gave me.
Alright y'all, let me elaborate a bit. Those scenarios where she does hit you up and says she likes you, they DO happen (it happened to me) but you shouldn't except them to fall into your lap. My girl that I got was because I went up to her and asked her out myself. You gotta go out there and grab your girl. Simple as that.
Might be wrong here, but as a young Christian, what is the point of me trying to get dates with women if I a) know I'm not going to marry them b) can't have sex with them before marriage and c) know that I'm not going to marry any woman until my late 20s/early 30s???
@@gokunowork2674 That’s true, which is why I don’t date. I don’t love these modern women, high value women are like diamonds in the rough but no point going through heartbreak at a young age
Guys i need some help with smth. Basically theres a girl who puts me on her close friends on ig but idk if its a choosing signal or she just has a lot of people on her close friends list. what do i do in this situation
On social media it’s different bro then real life situations girls usually “ shoot their shot “ by liking you’re posts or commenting on you’re story girls typically don’t approach guys in real life
F what Duke Dennis says, just feel yo self with style and confidence you’ll get what I mean if u already hadn’t. It gets easy asl on approaching when u don’t care if they reject you or not.
@@nathanfrench6268 I'm talking about of the guy is too scared n maybe isn't sure if she's giving him choosing signals or not. if u just wanna approach... approach nun hard
Yea fellas…y’all might as well just approach, had this girl I would catch hella eye contact wit at the gym but i seen her talk to everybody else so I just decided if she wanted to talk to me she would approach me like she does everyone else, she never did she would just constantly look at me…now I haven’t seen her at the gym in over a month…so I never even got to speak to her and see where it could’ve went 😂 so yea just gone and shoot man
Don't do it at the gym, it's make ur life uncomfortable just acknowledge their stare with a head nod you wanna look abit stand offish, I had woman approach me asking if I was done with the machine simply because I ignored them and acted as if she wasn't there, once she asks you a question that's ur chance.
DO NOT analyze these wrong a girl i worked with on a school project started sitting closer to me at lunch and i thought she was following me but i mightve been delusional ngl but she kept on walking behind me even though she could of walked infront of my desk and she rejected me bro DO not if you truly think you're chopped you're chopped bro dont try it bruh it happened 3 days ago bro still recovering 😭🙏
dude as an istp myself I am always attractive to women kinda like the James Bond type and I like two types idgaf about the others 80% whatever tf they are and I be chillin under my own command 😏
I used to work at a sporting goods and this girl used to come to talk to me and talk shit about her man to me . She mentioned that she was looking for shoes for her bf and asked me what I would recommend. She said oh the ones he’s wearing are soo ugly he looks like a clown. I was like wtf
@@oluwadamilolabello5430yo bro if shes in a relationship n shi making moves on you n shi bro dont get involved in dat cause she would do the same shi to you
@@oluwadamilolabello5430Bruh how are you kissing somebody else’s girl like cut that off, you either have her alone(Do not recommend because she is already willing to make out with other guys while in a relationship) or you don’t have her.
Bro your the side dude, just continue the same get the cheeks once in a while, at least you know you not getting played. Unless you want a relationship, dont go with her
I asked this girl if she still wanted to link and she said I don’t know so I said I didn’t want to link and she proceeded to leave that message on delivered can you tell me what I did wrong 🤔
i need help yall i really like this girl and i have the motivation to get closer wit her but like i dont know what to talk with her about like at all. i really want to talk with her but i dont know what to say. any advice ? id really preciate it
u can literally talk about anything they’re just dudes with long hair don’t listen to the don’t make her think you’re weird beta men she won’t think you’re weird if she’s attracted to u and her interest is high just be yourself and the conversation will flow. if she doesn’t talk at all her interest could be low or that’s just her personality just find a new girl. Do not start off with compliments, ask questions and she’ll feed it back to you sometimes, get to know her and ask questions like tell me about yourself what do u like to do what’s your standards for a guy like how a nikka gotta break down to you what made you fck with me type sht what is your ideal type like what interest you Out of 1-10 how much do you see us dating What are you looking for in a dude what’s your ideal place for vacation what type of qualities do you look for a nikka What would your mom and your dad say if you was to bring a nikka like me to your crib What’s are your interests and what’s going on in your life What’s your favorite tv shows, favorite season What are your hobbies Have u lived somewhere else before Favorite movies What’s important to u tell her your principles and morals What do u value most in a relationship And just listen to the girl talk make eye contact and maintain masculinity add on to everything y’all say like if u ask her what her favorite movie and y’all like the same sht just add on to it or if she dont feed your question back just talk about it And ask risky questions like what’s your body count, favorite position. It is not weird
@@iboxopps since yk a lil some let me ask you, is it to much validation to tell this girl your talking to that she looks good when she changes her makeup, hair, or nails?
@@daddypfp734 i would talk about her hair, clothes and nails but not her makeup because then you’ll probably never see her without makeup. validation is not a bad thing but don’t od it or you’ll boost her ego and don’t fall for the “i’m ugly” trap just be like hell yeah. and u don’t wanna tell her what she hears everyday. say good compliments like keep taking these flicks like that like i won’t get up on you, who told you you could dress like that you better stop dressing up like that fr ima put something on u shii like that
I’ve only had a girl like me once (I was 14). Idk why she approached and kissed me first. I’m now 20 and never had a girl like me or think I’m attractive again. I’m the most dense guy on the planet so unless you shout “I like you”, I will miss all signals.
Hey kam I talking to this girl and we’ve been texting lately on snap and talking in school but I’m tryna get to that next step but I’m not sure if she’s throwing out choosing signals
Man it’s this girl at the gym that got a bf and she always be looking at me and always finds a way to get in my area, she bad af I be wanting to slide but I just feel like she want attention so I be chilling but damn it be tempting
Girls like rebellion and the "bad boy" is just that, he doesn't conform to others. He makes "offensive" jokes that most ppl wouldn't make and he says things that are outrageous but with supreme confidence. Girls like small scale conflict, it keeps things interesting to them and the "bad boy" is a walking small scale conflict. That's why you don't over compliment a girl, you're not giving any resistance when you just keep telling her what she wants to hear.
a girl told me one time when looking at photos of people in my school when they were younger that I looked cute, is this an example of a choosing signal? or was she telling I haven't looked good in a while?
First of all you don’t want a girl calling you cute. You want her calling you handsome or hot. If she doesn’t lust after you the relationship isn’t worth the time and effort.
turn to Jesus Christ he loves all of us more than anything and he literally died for us. He took in the punishmrent for our sins thru on the cross. It wasn’t cuz we deserved it, but cuz he loved us. 1 John 4:10 “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” it was thru his love that he died for us and we can be forgiven
Why the hell are you scared for shes just a girl a human just like you just the opposite sex besides just like kam said women like confidence practise small talk with her compliment her but dont treat her like a queen or she'll treat you like a fan
Start with "what's up".....ask her how to do something. Just start and keep going for a minute or 2.....the best initial conversations are ones on something mutual such as music movies....foods etc
don’t focus on the subject or topic of the conversations, highkey if it’s someone that’s interesting enough for you both sides will keep bouncing off each other
pretty much. I asked how are you...that led to 5 minutes of conversation on her sleep and other things from the night before. Years back...I asked a girl "where you get those pants " (fad style of pants in 20 years ago) that led to 20 min of her going on about stuff. Just start with something about the person and it "should" turn into verbal tennis.
One of my cousins friends told me i can come by her place whenever like 3 times. She has a bf and lives with him. I didn't really say anything just said ok but never asked for her number or anything
Aye cam I watch your stuff a lot because it has more of a propensity for younger guys what’s your instagram because the link is broken I could really use your advice
Guys, NEVER fw a girl that u took from somebody because if you was able to take her away from her boyfriend then somebody else is gonna be able to take her away from u
fax
If she decides to go then she fo the streets
Ahh the good ol butterfly effect
Only goes bad if you go into it with a loverboy mindset as long as u have the abundance mindset then you should expect her to leave you too
these hoes are for everybody...she's never yours, it's just your turn
This is such a reality check for me. There was this girl i liked back in school and i think she did give me some choosing signals and i know that she had a little interest in me. We did speak to each other sometimes and sometimes we would break the touch barrier by hugging. Problem is that i acted too beta in my teen years so obviously she notice that. Sometimes the choosing signals would be obvious such as staring and smiling at each other to her asking me if I liked any other girls in our school but i was too beta to make the first approach. There was a time where she would tell me that i need to stand up for my self because she has seen people take advantage of me in school, i obviously would try to defend myself but it wasn't much. After all this, i think her interest levels in me back in school must of definitely dropped a lot. This has been one of my biggest regrets in my life and it still haunts me today. 😔
Sorry if this is long to read, I don't want anyone to make the same mistake I did. If there is a girl that you like and she gives you choosing signals, don't be afraid to make the first move.
Hey brother...you and me both....even before stumbling on this channel I have been looking back on life and trying to think of how many opportunities I had of relationships that I didn't see at the time. Hell....1 of them was a girl I worked with at McDonald's. I couldn't tell she was flirting with me at all because my heart was with my EX wife. For 1 she came to the job on her day off we walked to her house and I met some of her folks and the dog. 2 she came to my house unannounced....in the rain...I was living my the EXES family. 3...she cried when I told her I was getting married married the ex. Looking back I am SO FREAKING stupid.....😔. She was different and I did find her interesting...I was so dense I didn't know. There were a few others too.....a girl I went to college with...I was dating someone else then; we borderline could have dated because she threw hints and body language. I would say this.....she lost interest because your actions didn't fit her lifestyle or her ideology. You not standing for self....was something she didn't like and she did not want to have to stand up for her man...on occasion it's fine....when you not around probably. Bottomline though...I think all men and women slap themselves for the opportunities that didn't happen. I KNOW I do. The ambiance of the person is what I would have wanted to gotten.
I use to think maybe things happen for a reason and I wasn't meant to be in a relationship with those girls that gave me choosing signals. But that's bs don't say this to yourself because those weren't just missed opportunities you were also missing out on alot of early experience. Thats why we watch these videos to make up for the experience we were lacking
@@mujin3794 most of the shit he fake tho bro I work at Walmart and all the females that work there be staring hard flirting ect alotta of them just want attention g u most likely ain’t miss nun
Bro the past is the past don’t overthink
Never tell women how you feel. Don't tell them about your problems. Women need a man who is confident and takes control of things.
I think it's okay to talk about your problems. But not in a whining way. It's okay to explain situations, just be working towards a solution.
That just complicates things you need to build a connection and communicate
I never was rejected either😭 cuz I had that same mindset
When u talked abt fantasizing abt her texting u first, I felt that😭🤣🤣
Wise beyond your years bro. Thank you
What you said about choosing signals being fraudulent sometimes is real game bro. Keep doin what you doin. 💯
i’m not chasing no bih ion gaf bout nun of tht ion gaf ima treat her like a regular bih
😂😂😂
LMAOO preach
Real
Dead homiezz 🤣🤣💯💯
no cap
Bro i swear too god u a real one👑
Thank you so much for the girl in a relationship giving choosing signals, this happened at work to me. I talked to a pretty ass girl in a relationship at work just to say hi and make small talk. She kept laughing and giggling and then sbe straight up offered me her phone so i can type in my snapchat and add her. I was shocked but played it cool. She even hit me up first after i posted a sexual meme that was meant for jokes. I just stepped back doe and im not chasing her or showing neediness. As much as i want her, im also realistic and think she prolly just wants attention or validation. She was even sending me cute snaps of herself. I feel like she is interested for sure but the fact that she has a boyfriend sort of just ruins it all for me. Nowadays we havent texted for a while now and when i see her at work our convos are dry at times but she still shows strong signals... ima just lay back and keep doing me.
Idk why but it seems like modern women think being wild is good. I think God made u back off and it was a good decision. Head up 👑
@@nathanfrench6268 thanks bro he probably did.. as h*rny as i am due to being single for a long ass time i still decided to back off even though this girl is really pretty. Im just too cautious to not end up getting the runaround and getting played yk.
@@dan_4531 😂😂😂 I can relate
Bro your that weirdo that post “dirty memes” on snap 😂 weirdo asl. Lame ahh nikka
2:06 “nah I’m not on females” is WILD
In October I started working at a warehouse, I was 14 days deep into retention. This one chick at the place instantly was feeling me, and she was also the hottest at the job. Tbf tho most the chick's are very average including the hot chick, but she had a phat back man and I was so tempted.
The choosing signals I experienced were
1. She'd twirl her around me or when speaking to me
2. She'd smile at me (I'd never smile at anybody tho coz I have a rbf, but I did smile back at her)
3. She sometimes walked upto me and then just froze in her tracks
4. Whenever I needed her help, she was there ready to help, she'd lean in whilst giving me the help, I feel like she'd be smelling my perfume.
5. After a while my streak got big, and after 65 days in, she'd start freezing in her tracks around me, she was afraid to say my name so she'd just walk up to me quietly. She'd start putting her hoody up when she saw me coming around. She started looking in other directions pretending she wasn't looking at me. She was deeply attracted to me, and I was quite attracted to her. But I definitely just wanted to smash, whereas I can tell she wanted a relationship.
She was in her 30s and I'm 24. Also every woman at the job gave me at least one of these signals that this girl gave me.
what about the dudes?
Alright y'all, let me elaborate a bit.
Those scenarios where she does hit you up and says she likes you, they DO happen (it happened to me) but you shouldn't except them to fall into your lap. My girl that I got was because I went up to her and asked her out myself. You gotta go out there and grab your girl. Simple as that.
Facts bro I never got rejected either for the same reason but now I gotta baby mama😂😂😂😂
Are u gonna get married in life
@@wokenowitzkitv hell no bruv it’s hard out here for a pimp
@@EASTSIDEWOODAPLUGG ¨BEING MISOGYNISTIC IN GTA ONLINE !!!!"
"Fortnite_20200505033802" you aint no pimp wit yo goofy ass gaming videos nigga
@@jangerardpieter9840 imma rapper do a little bit more research goofy
@@EASTSIDEWOODAPLUGG yeah 🖕🏿that marriage shit
Another blessing 🙏🏾
Might be wrong here, but as a young Christian, what is the point of me trying to get dates with women if I a) know I'm not going to marry them b) can't have sex with them before marriage and c) know that I'm not going to marry any woman until my late 20s/early 30s???
@@wxntta Not at 20 though 😅
@@wxntta I already know what I like and what to avoid through observation and contemplation
U still want to have game cs most women like game, youn have to fuck them
love and lust arent the same
@@gokunowork2674 That’s true, which is why I don’t date. I don’t love these modern women, high value women are like diamonds in the rough but no point going through heartbreak at a young age
Thank you god for blessing us with a new kam video 🙏
Wat god do u serve???
Guys i need some help with smth. Basically theres a girl who puts me on her close friends on ig but idk if its a choosing signal or she just has a lot of people on her close friends list. what do i do in this situation
close friends on ig don’t mean nothing🤷♂️
On social media it’s different bro then real life situations girls usually “ shoot their shot “ by liking you’re posts or commenting on you’re story girls typically don’t approach guys in real life
Follow Duke Dennis' guide. 1 look don't go, 2 looks maybe(depending on situation, if she moving w her friends yh), 3 looks hell yeah
bro you are not Duke Dennis 😂 what works for him won't work for you follow your own guide
F what Duke Dennis says, just feel yo self with style and confidence you’ll get what I mean if u already hadn’t. It gets easy asl on approaching when u don’t care if they reject you or not.
@@prodjxyln this advice is for beginners bro not everyone is like you. you gotta follow aumn to find your own style
@@nathanfrench6268 I'm talking about of the guy is too scared n maybe isn't sure if she's giving him choosing signals or not. if u just wanna approach... approach nun hard
thanks i needed this reality check lmao
as a dude who had someone starring at me and got uncomfortable 💀 I know the pain that comes with the signals, so trust me guys just take the shot
My Thursday just got better with your vid my boi🔥🙏
say mane you not lyin in this video i have learned a lot dork you bro and it work frl i highly appreciate you for this shit frl 💯💯💯
They love to be chased and I ain’t chasing I guess I will miss out then
what if she compliments my fit and keeps looking at me? cause this always happen 😭
When u get no choosing signals 😭
on me, we all finna be single for the rest of our lifes
U guys will find atleast one trust
I get nothing because I don’t talk to any girls
Ultimately do we need to find just one girl to settle down with forever? Because how long and until age are you going to see pursuit girls for? 😃
Fax but this content is aimed at us in high school bruh
9:20 got me bro, she had a bf but was fuckin with me and in the end I had to tell her we cant be friends.
I’m in japan lol, so I can’t tell if it’s choosing signals or curiosity
1st person i heard use the term choosing signals real important to know
i control reality dude it’s what I desire
What if she shows all those signals in person but then straight up declines your follow request on instagram? Wtf does that mean lol
1:49 you lyin stop jocin
Well said💯
Any chance you'd be down for how you go about asking her out? Like it ain't difficult, but lot of us probably could do it better or more smoothly
Everytime I go up to a female that shit never works that's why I'm not doing ts no more so if I miss out I miss out fuck it💯
Approaching is dead, them hoes killed it. Let em come 2 u.
Just want attention why I don’t pay them no mind
Yea fellas…y’all might as well just approach, had this girl I would catch hella eye contact wit at the gym but i seen her talk to everybody else so I just decided if she wanted to talk to me she would approach me like she does everyone else, she never did she would just constantly look at me…now I haven’t seen her at the gym in over a month…so I never even got to speak to her and see where it could’ve went 😂 so yea just gone and shoot man
Don't do it at the gym, it's make ur life uncomfortable just acknowledge their stare with a head nod you wanna look abit stand offish, I had woman approach me asking if I was done with the machine simply because I ignored them and acted as if she wasn't there, once she asks you a question that's ur chance.
Checking out the merchandise bruh 👀
The only chick that ever gave me obvious choosing signals was hella young lmao. She was 17 and i was 24
You risk it didn't you?🤣🤣🤣you gon catch that case😅😅
Keifer you are weird
Give her one more year then hit her up
@@Luvfromariiwtf😂😂
@@voykillem8139 hella late but y’all got me weak ash😂😂
you're work on here is inspiring and respectful. i subscribed immediately.
Let em choose make ya move but only if it's cool
DO NOT analyze these wrong a girl i worked with on a school project started sitting closer to me at lunch and i thought she was following me but i mightve been delusional ngl but she kept on walking behind me even though she could of walked infront of my desk and she rejected me bro DO not if you truly think you're chopped you're chopped bro dont try it bruh it happened 3 days ago bro still recovering 😭🙏
If you can’t tell them how you feel how do you address inviting them to a date, like what language do you use
There's this girl that always looks at me everytime she walks in the library but then again she got a lotta homeboys
i have started asking the girls what the guys are doing and saying to make them so excited.
dude as an istp myself I am always attractive to women kinda like the James Bond type and I like two types idgaf about the others 80% whatever tf they are and I be chillin under my own command 😏
I used to work at a sporting goods and this girl used to come to talk to me and talk shit about her man to me . She mentioned that she was looking for shoes for her bf and asked me what I would recommend. She said oh the ones he’s wearing are soo ugly he looks like a clown. I was like wtf
What if you like a chick but scared yo homes gon Dawg you
Bro it happens all the time now and days you just gotta keep it moving unless they are telling you sum up with her you might wanna listen then
Who gives a fuck what they say, the only thing that matters is ur happiness.
What if the girl is in relationship,and yet she's showing me choosing signals,yet we have kissed and smooched, does it mean she likes me?
She maybe just checking you out. What I would do is make the first move brother
@@MFN243 first move?
You mean asking her out?
@@oluwadamilolabello5430yo bro if shes in a relationship n shi making moves on you n shi bro dont get involved in dat cause she would do the same shi to you
@@oluwadamilolabello5430Bruh how are you kissing somebody else’s girl like cut that off, you either have her alone(Do not recommend because she is already willing to make out with other guys while in a relationship) or you don’t have her.
Bro your the side dude, just continue the same get the cheeks once in a while, at least you know you not getting played. Unless you want a relationship, dont go with her
my man is baaack
On point 👍🏼
WOMAN LOVE DOMINANT MASCULINE MEN
yo shit bro this is fire
Black Cupid I swear
I asked this girl if she still wanted to link and she said I don’t know so I said I didn’t want to link and she proceeded to leave that message on delivered can you tell me what I did wrong 🤔
You just look upset by saying that gang, just move on😂
Should’ve just left her on read to start dawg
@@doriansmokcraq9218 yeah u right
@@PapiDv All good man we live to learn, next one will be ez money
even if a female like you she may not give you any choosing signals
this one this one I have this happen too me all the time
i need help yall i really like this girl and i have the motivation to get closer wit her but like i dont know what to talk with her about like at all. i really want to talk with her but i dont know what to say. any advice ? id really preciate it
u can literally talk about anything they’re just dudes with long hair don’t listen to the don’t make her think you’re weird beta men she won’t think you’re weird if she’s attracted to u and her interest is high just be yourself and the conversation will flow. if she doesn’t talk at all her interest could be low or that’s just her personality just find a new girl. Do not start off with compliments, ask questions and she’ll feed it back to you sometimes, get to know her and ask questions like
tell me about yourself
what do u like to do
what’s your standards for a guy like how a nikka gotta break down to you
what made you fck with me type sht
what is your ideal type like what interest you
Out of 1-10 how much do you see us dating
What are you looking for in a dude
what’s your ideal place for vacation
what type of qualities do you look for a nikka
What would your mom and your dad say if you was to bring a nikka like me to your crib
What’s are your interests and what’s going on in your life
What’s your favorite tv shows, favorite season
What are your hobbies
Have u lived somewhere else before
Favorite movies
What’s important to u
tell her your principles and morals
What do u value most in a relationship
And just listen to the girl talk make eye contact and maintain masculinity add on to everything y’all say like if u ask her what her favorite movie and y’all like the same sht just add on to it or if she dont feed your question back just talk about it
And ask risky questions like what’s your body count, favorite position. It is not weird
@@iboxopps since yk a lil some let me ask you, is it to much validation to tell this girl your talking to that she looks good when she changes her makeup, hair, or nails?
@@daddypfp734 i would talk about her hair, clothes and nails but not her makeup because then you’ll probably never see her without makeup. validation is not a bad thing but don’t od it or you’ll boost her ego and don’t fall for the “i’m ugly” trap just be like hell yeah. and u don’t wanna tell her what she hears everyday. say good compliments like keep taking these flicks like that like i won’t get up on you, who told you you could dress like that you better stop dressing up like that fr ima put something on u shii like that
@@iboxoppsbro what do i do shes always by her friends
I’ve only had a girl like me once (I was 14). Idk why she approached and kissed me first. I’m now 20 and never had a girl like me or think I’m attractive again. I’m the most dense guy on the planet so unless you shout “I like you”, I will miss all signals.
I think you're attractive, bro.
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Hey kam I talking to this girl and we’ve been texting lately on snap and talking in school but I’m tryna get to that next step but I’m not sure if she’s throwing out choosing signals
Yo kam do you know the gospel?
Man it’s this girl at the gym that got a bf and she always be looking at me and always finds a way to get in my area, she bad af I be wanting to slide but I just feel like she want attention so I be chilling but damn it be tempting
Yall say women bad yet yall sit here plot behind on a nigga who could be yo brother back lol u dudes is confused and clowns
Bro can you do a video on what's makes bad boy exciting to women
Girls like rebellion and the "bad boy" is just that, he doesn't conform to others. He makes "offensive" jokes that most ppl wouldn't make and he says things that are outrageous but with supreme confidence. Girls like small scale conflict, it keeps things interesting to them and the "bad boy" is a walking small scale conflict. That's why you don't over compliment a girl, you're not giving any resistance when you just keep telling her what she wants to hear.
You look like vampleek
lmaoo i was thinking he looks more like goonew
Ayeee you tapped in 😂
Yo where can I dm u? I have some questions but I wanna dm u directly
ig or discord maybe
a girl told me one time when looking at photos of people in my school when they were younger that I looked cute, is this an example of a choosing signal? or was she telling I haven't looked good in a while?
First of all you don’t want a girl calling you cute. You want her calling you handsome or hot. If she doesn’t lust after you the relationship isn’t worth the time and effort.
turn to Jesus Christ he loves all of us more than anything and he literally died for us. He took in the punishmrent for our sins thru on the cross. It wasn’t cuz we deserved it, but cuz he loved us. 1 John 4:10 “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” it was thru his love that he died for us and we can be forgiven
ion think he knows what aloof means bruh
I need help I like this girl at high SCHOOL but I'm scared to talk to her
Why the hell are you scared for shes just a girl a human just like you just the opposite sex besides just like kam said women like confidence practise small talk with her compliment her but dont treat her like a queen or she'll treat you like a fan
Tell me about it bruh I’m dealing with the same thing that’s how I started watching Kams videos.
This generation i tell ya
Just go talk to her. The worst thing that can happen is her saying no it’s not gonna kill you to go up to a girl you like and start a conversation
there nun to be scared about there prolly just as scared too
Kam why is this girl liking my instagram story but left my message on delivered?
She’s an Attention seeker. Leave her alone she don’t like you
That's the ultimate disrespect. she tryna get u to double text
She just wants attention
block her
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Your goated
how do i initiate convos with women
Start with "what's up".....ask her how to do something. Just start and keep going for a minute or 2.....the best initial conversations are ones on something mutual such as music movies....foods etc
don’t focus on the subject or topic of the conversations, highkey if it’s someone that’s interesting enough for you both sides will keep bouncing off each other
pretty much. I asked how are you...that led to 5 minutes of conversation on her sleep and other things from the night before. Years back...I asked a girl "where you get those pants " (fad style of pants in 20 years ago) that led to 20 min of her going on about stuff. Just start with something about the person and it "should" turn into verbal tennis.
Women playing games
Had a btc hmu one time only cuz our numbers were put up on paper at work lol kinda weird but whatever it wasn't that serious
Faxx
Why is bro such a genius
First
what's good
Can u find someone atractive and still not being in love?
Yeah u can
Yes
Make a video on a men getting Erectile dysfunction plz!!!
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The only time I get even close to experiencing these things is from women in relationships
One of my cousins friends told me i can come by her place whenever like 3 times. She has a bf and lives with him. I didn't really say anything just said ok but never asked for her number or anything
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YOO Kam bro wsg I just made a thumbnail for this video and I dmed you on ig abt it bro hmu pls🙏
Aye cam I watch your stuff a lot because it has more of a propensity for younger guys what’s your instagram because the link is broken I could really use your advice