This Is How Women Really Want You To Speak To Them

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  • @Nytellem
    @Nytellem 23 дні тому +227

    The more you understand women the less respect you have for them and the less you take them seriously.

    • @sandiegoexport8944
      @sandiegoexport8944 17 днів тому +49

      You can't be mad at a plant for being a plant. It is what it is. Be mad at yourself for allowing the wool to be over your eyes for so long. Now you know the game and the rules. Play or quit. It's up to u.

    • @scottmahony4742
      @scottmahony4742 17 днів тому +7

      💯

    • @Patrick-ox8nw
      @Patrick-ox8nw 16 днів тому +5

      True

    • @kingfemii
      @kingfemii 12 днів тому +2

      ​@@sandiegoexport8944 Quit 😂😂😂😂

    • @sandiegoexport8944
      @sandiegoexport8944 11 днів тому +1

      @@kingfemii haha can't blame you

  • @tjgotbands
    @tjgotbands 24 дні тому +74

    masculine energy don’t be afraid to put em in their place. the deepest core of a woman desires that straight up

  • @Occult1sm
    @Occult1sm 27 днів тому +214

    "She wants the attention more than she want you" that's a bar

  • @ericschooff268
    @ericschooff268 4 дні тому +8

    All you need is a nice fit, a fresh haircut, and be in shape. That’s something every guy can control.

  • @TonySparxx
    @TonySparxx 21 день тому +101

    The dark skin girl knows why they went for the white girl and it’s not for her skin complexion

    • @jose131991
      @jose131991 16 днів тому +27

      Facts 😂 she just wasn’t it

    • @xxaymanking3513
      @xxaymanking3513 7 днів тому

      Thats the most sorry excuse ever ong if I ever hear that shi I am gon say yes that’s because ur dark skin yes yes I am tired of that sorry as excuse

  • @lyonclanproductions7537
    @lyonclanproductions7537 10 днів тому +22

    fun fact too this is why women also want men that are married. Men that are good with There wifey dont give a damn about no other women. You provide you protect and your about your business and women love that masculinity.

  • @RichardForbes-n5p
    @RichardForbes-n5p Місяць тому +133

    You treat them how they deserve to be treated by not dealing with them.

    • @WIXNGFRMLUVOKC
      @WIXNGFRMLUVOKC Місяць тому +13

      Facts even tho you talking to them Dont mean you gotta even give them to much attention facts 💯🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @jonjones776
      @jonjones776 24 дні тому +2

      They hate that 😂 they hate that word "deserve" they get triggered by it. They want all for nothing. But no no, that aint how things work

  • @osathehealer
    @osathehealer 18 днів тому +18

    When bro said a lot of y'all dudes be pandering and faking like you voting for Kamala, I knew he was a real one. Salute young man. As an older dude I can tell this is real game you spittin. Pay attention young fellas.

  • @timhamock2996
    @timhamock2996 12 днів тому +22

    Women don't like the nice dudes even if they say they do. Women love confidence and a pinch of ego. Plain and simple. I had to learn the hard way

    • @bigzachful
      @bigzachful 4 дні тому +1

      Unfortunate but true. If I could change their inner feelings and mindset with a wave of a magic wand I would!
      But this the reality. So you gotta act and carry yourself like you that guy and never be too nice.
      Just flirt and joke and then don’t pay too much attention

  • @driverdotwav
    @driverdotwav 9 днів тому +6

    “If you been dating her for years I ain’t talking about you” that’s so true dawg, I almost fucked up a good thing one time tryna alter my personality already in a relationship

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 9 днів тому +1

      Of course not, because she's already pegged you as a certain type, and if you change in any way she can't predict your behavior as well

  • @stanleypierre5042
    @stanleypierre5042 Місяць тому +60

    They want you to speak to them like this to an extent 😂. U gotta know how to mix up the bold/assertiveness while still being cordial and respectful too tho

  • @Anonymous-dh4fl
    @Anonymous-dh4fl 8 днів тому +12

    the women aside, you made a great talk about caring about what people think and overthinking, the scariest thing is that in some of us its so deeply rooted that it can affect you in every aspect of life from when you wake up to when you go to sleep.
    I believe when you resolve this issue many aspects of dating , social life, & the way you interact with life in general, get instantly fixed /improve greatly.

  • @bigredatjsu
    @bigredatjsu 6 днів тому +7

    Coming from an OG, This young ninja know what he’s talking about

  • @Arthur-u7e6l
    @Arthur-u7e6l 10 днів тому +19

    Chase excellence not women.

    • @heights8467
      @heights8467 4 дні тому

      Right . I heard a woman recently say if u saying u not chasing women then that means u gay......... "manipulation

  • @cello_thomaz1557
    @cello_thomaz1557 28 днів тому +37

    “I don’t care mentality” I 100% agree with your statement lotta guys don’t know how to enjoy themselves around a women have this expectation of (is she gonna like me or not) fellas just treat women with respect and kindness being a good person remember she’s a human , individual, has insecurities and weakness , she got bills , reg job, and she haves her broke days like yourself she’s not god or a goddess. Enjoy the moment don’t take it serious. My advice when it comes to women just make sure that you listen like deadazz and pay attention and speak clearly.

    • @lampgod999
      @lampgod999 18 днів тому +7

      exactly, stop being attached to the outcome just be present and enjoy connecting with another human being

  • @Mustang_Dan
    @Mustang_Dan 10 днів тому +8

    As a fit dude, I put on like 10 pounds this year and haven’t lifted in months due to circumstances I won’t get into. I still look good since I was so in shape but the not lifting part has really hurt my muscle definition already. I still rock a tight shirt cause I’m still in shape but I’m just not that muscular anymore like I was. These women at work are still thirsting so hard, leaving their numbers in my tool box while I’m on lunch and stuff. Crazy.
    Anyways, don’t worry about looking like you’re trying too hard with a beater or tight shirt. Show your ish.

  • @maxsho4706
    @maxsho4706 Місяць тому +53

    Basically looks as best as possible push and pull method and stop carrying about what other ppl care ab you and get out of ur head when ur overthinking and im the best in this room mentally and keep them on emotionl roller coaster

    • @tjgotbands
      @tjgotbands 24 дні тому +3

      facts

    • @WilliamWasp-27
      @WilliamWasp-27 19 днів тому +1

      Im surprised this isn’t pinned cause this it nothing but absolute FAX

  • @Jkellie-vo9od
    @Jkellie-vo9od Місяць тому +24

    I BOW DOWN AND PRAISE AND WORSHIP YOU O LORD GOD SAVIOUR MIGHTIEST HOLIEST MGIHTIEST MIRACULLOUSEST MIGHTIEST EJSUUS GOD SPRIIT HOLIEST MIGHTIEST CHRIST GOD SPIRIT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR PROVIDING FOOD

  • @el-huncho7658
    @el-huncho7658 20 днів тому +26

    Bro said attention to woman is like crack 🤣 it’s true

  • @isaackurtz6905
    @isaackurtz6905 28 днів тому +14

    I learned if she ain’t giving u the green light u might as well run the red light like it was
    Meaning if you shot your shot n bricked get yo rebounds and just lay it up then head down the opposite court without celebrating 🎉

  • @I-Ki-Gai
    @I-Ki-Gai 23 дні тому +20

    This young man’s advice is on point. Listen up and take heed fellas

  • @duduman05
    @duduman05 Місяць тому +38

    If there's a chick that you my find attractive and you cool with her. But she playing games when it comes to one on one time. Just say whatever you want. You already not getting the cheeks right now anyway. Just say whatever you want to her, talk crazy. I'm not saying insult or talk shit. But just talk more candidly like whatever. And ignore her. She'll eventually come around

    • @RichObiQuan
      @RichObiQuan Місяць тому

      My nigga knows. That’s exactly i be doing to those selected few

  • @alexsanchez3635
    @alexsanchez3635 4 дні тому +2

    As a Over thinker I appreciate this .

  • @TECHAKAICHI
    @TECHAKAICHI 29 днів тому +19

    He’s like the sublime consciousness of UA-cam. I bet y’all don’t remember that dude. He was one of the first to break down videos like this.

    • @dr3725
      @dr3725 26 днів тому

      What happened to him? I haven't seen him in like 3yrs

    • @TECHAKAICHI
      @TECHAKAICHI 25 днів тому +4

      @ He announced his departure from UA-cam quite some time ago. He basically moved on to his life and said he was moving on to better things. More than likely, we’re never gonna see him again.

  • @bmsproductions1
    @bmsproductions1 Місяць тому +128

    Don’t delete this please dog

    • @Gxbriel8
      @Gxbriel8 Місяць тому +18

      gotta bring back the don't delete it comments

    • @GuyVick
      @GuyVick Місяць тому +2

      He deleted the last video

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages 23 дні тому +1

      😂

    • @el-huncho7658
      @el-huncho7658 20 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @el-huncho7658
      @el-huncho7658 20 днів тому

      @@Gxbriel8bro always deleting frl

  • @carlostheearthling1778
    @carlostheearthling1778 6 днів тому +1

    Young Homie is a faxer. Sending facts

  • @mogulme6190
    @mogulme6190 Місяць тому +74

    You tripping, just be yourself. Either she gone fuck with it or she not

    • @Remember-Death
      @Remember-Death Місяць тому +35

      Telling men to "just be yourself" is not a winning strategy... especially when "just being yourself" hasn't worked for most men. The average man is a Beta, so telling a beta to be himself is a recipe for disaster. Men must *Do What Works.* And just "being yourself" only works when you understand a little bit of GAME.

    • @contraRArian
      @contraRArian 25 днів тому +10

      Becoming something much more than yourself is more efficient. Those are the rules.

    • @The623vato
      @The623vato 24 дні тому +7

      The point of this video literally went over your head

    • @BigJAllDay21
      @BigJAllDay21 20 днів тому +4

      @@Remember-Death you must be a beta yourself, being yourself if all you need to do. If you that dawg and you know your yourself is that dawg, no need to act like anything else. Simple. Especially when yu got your money up and life together, women gonna flock like birds

    • @zyairfitzpatrick8991
      @zyairfitzpatrick8991 20 днів тому

      @@contraRArianThats called being fake 😂

  • @ericburke25
    @ericburke25 Місяць тому +19

    bro i needed this video more than you’ll ever know today. and of course you know i hit that like button

  • @JSAVAGE925
    @JSAVAGE925 27 днів тому +6

    11:40 mane the woman I’ve been with for 6 years now, when I first went for her, I started off wanting her, call it try hard, etc, she was taking to me & I think two other men, I came across at first line she was my only option, she was the only one I wanted, I didn’t even do this directly on purpose, but she as a woman wasn’t dumb, she knew I wanted her frr but guess what, that had me coming across too easy, you found almost say simp energy in her opinion, in reality, I just know my worth & what I want but it’s 2024 now, it was 2018 then, you ain’t getting a woman being too nice, you fucked, I probably was fucked at first, but then she goes I’m moving further along with this one dude, we moving to the next stage, what I do, ight, I backed off, in reality in my head bc I didn’t have no game at the time real talk, never really have, you don’t have to have game though, just learn how to act. Game is just words. Words only get you the # unless she wants you, she had gave me her # first, I ain’t even have to go for it. But when I started after her, she was the only option bc I didn’t even want to try for nobody at all at the time actually, was coming out of a former long relationship but she had caught my eye, but anyway, in ever just gave up on her but I got back to fucking around with my ex, but I never just gave up on her, you still gotta show persistence like he’s saying, but when I had that the option, guess who wanted to then hangout, then I finally got out with who I wanted, the. Here comes my other ex calling. Yeah that’s all she wrote, who I’m with didn’t back off. Point is, don’t come across as a simp, never show the woman up front that she’s the only option, don’t be too easy.

  • @FlyhighhVasque
    @FlyhighhVasque 5 днів тому +1

    Damnnnn don’t give all the sauce out ganglo

  • @kingandreee4372
    @kingandreee4372 Місяць тому +25

    I haven't watched SmoothGio in 5 years.

  • @2TORYK
    @2TORYK Місяць тому +20

    KoldheartKam!! Do a video on how to tell if shes a freak

    • @raxksnate
      @raxksnate Місяць тому

      ts is clearly obvious to know if shes a freak

    • @Daemon1995_
      @Daemon1995_ Місяць тому +1

      piercings, goes to church

  • @dayvidheaven992
    @dayvidheaven992 10 днів тому +1

    Bro you don’t understand how much it helped

  • @TrulyE3x
    @TrulyE3x Місяць тому +48

    Don’t give af
    She a homie mentality

  • @garretdoi6218
    @garretdoi6218 8 днів тому +3

    Snow bunny is more prettier,😍💯%, than than the others…

  • @tyanderson5042
    @tyanderson5042 9 днів тому

    My brother spittin nothing but facts. Love to know other brothers share the game 💯💯💯💯

  • @ironcladgungrave
    @ironcladgungrave 18 днів тому +1

    bro spitting nothin but straight facts😂👏🏾

  • @anatolio8689
    @anatolio8689 7 днів тому

    Great points. Thanks. I will say half of this game doesn't even need to be played with a good faithful woman, but those are < 10%.

  • @J.A.Richardson-wt8ue
    @J.A.Richardson-wt8ue 14 днів тому +2

    You got a old soul my brother!😊

  • @Xmen800
    @Xmen800 Місяць тому +8

    Big fan of your vids Kim keep it up dude 👍

  • @omegawicked1
    @omegawicked1 Місяць тому +5

    Yessir never over think

  • @3-dreticle826
    @3-dreticle826 17 днів тому +4

    Thug maxing ain’t it bro. But it doesn’t expose the truth that most females like that energy from BM no matter what ethnicity they are.

  • @antoniocoburn-sl4kl
    @antoniocoburn-sl4kl 5 днів тому

    Now this is some sound advice right here. You just gotta new subscriber bro. 😎

  • @shortmarkets7529
    @shortmarkets7529 28 днів тому +1

    In the club tell them they have you bricked up as you touch skin 😂100% Deasha the king for that one. It works!

  • @pokefam5336
    @pokefam5336 5 днів тому

    Was just scrolling by but had to stop, comment and like. Spot on brother.

  • @igorvrucina1724
    @igorvrucina1724 8 днів тому

    the most important thing is that you talk to her like you dont need anything from her. that is a game changer

  • @tjgotbands
    @tjgotbands Місяць тому +8

    toxic masculinity >😊

  • @Crashypeng
    @Crashypeng 8 днів тому

    Love you’re energy sometimes dawg 😂

  • @dee5268
    @dee5268 Місяць тому +5

    Bars my boy💯

  • @KOBRAMVNE
    @KOBRAMVNE 21 день тому +1

    This one of the best video you made family 💪🏾🙏🏾

  • @lasfinezt
    @lasfinezt 26 днів тому +1

    Great advice, you have to be beast mode out here at all times

  • @AceeTheChosen
    @AceeTheChosen Місяць тому +18

    Boy this man Kam be yapping bad sometimes like play the vid gangg😂

    • @Gxbriel8
      @Gxbriel8 Місяць тому +8

      nah, the more he talks the better the video is, I be laughing the whole video when he does his comments

    • @amcspaceape1580
      @amcspaceape1580 Місяць тому +3

      True 😂 he's saying an entire dialogue over 2 seconds of video

  • @nodribbler
    @nodribbler 20 днів тому +6

    We need to see you infield bro. Other than that you just behind the keyboard

  • @brians2328
    @brians2328 19 днів тому +1

    DEXTER was finna put paws 🐾 on the 🐰 !!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @bigcitiboyish
    @bigcitiboyish 24 дні тому +2

    Me over here with my 4 baby mamas while being an overthinker😭😭😭I need to start underthinking. Ion want no mo kids

  • @BDuB626.
    @BDuB626. 4 дні тому

    this young nigga smart

  • @kaxmavis8983
    @kaxmavis8983 Місяць тому +1

    dude spits fax everytime

  • @TJ_Trades
    @TJ_Trades 7 днів тому

    3:00 you cookin 🔥🔥

  • @FlyhighhVasque
    @FlyhighhVasque 5 днів тому

    LET HIM COOOKKKKK ‼️‼️

  • @eddieas
    @eddieas 8 днів тому +2

    What were those shoes the dude and the snowbunny both had on?

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 4 дні тому

      Asics

  • @EriPages
    @EriPages 23 дні тому +2

    Never give free attention.

  • @Godflowtino
    @Godflowtino 10 днів тому +1

    4:54 they standing like dinosaurs...why slouch?

  • @Godflowtino
    @Godflowtino 10 днів тому

    2:27 on the left is I'm checking for your friend and the friend is a do not enter with food

  • @ianrogler4509
    @ianrogler4509 12 днів тому

    True story up here. Thumbs Up

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 13 днів тому

    Masterful vid my guy💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @bestlifeever1211
    @bestlifeever1211 9 днів тому +1

    304s ain’t the prize

  • @chrisjackson8042
    @chrisjackson8042 9 днів тому

    Great vid. Subscribed 👌🏽

  • @kirrimann1
    @kirrimann1 21 день тому

    For sure man. Good knowledge

  • @yungsavag5553
    @yungsavag5553 14 днів тому

    Good video love the reaction and game real spill

  • @kreuger_sod6485
    @kreuger_sod6485 29 днів тому +12

    Bro talked to much let the video play

  • @CLG111
    @CLG111 4 дні тому

    This is my first time coming across one of your videos but it's pretty interesting how right you are about how overthinking can paralyze you. It's an interesting situation, the more knowledge that one acquires the more thinking that you do which leads to overthinking which is a bad thing. The less knowledge you have the less thinking that you do and you're less prone to overthinking. Which means you're more likely to have positive social interactions

  • @redditlandia-u2j
    @redditlandia-u2j 6 днів тому

    .... Alan Roger Currie, just read his books, that's all I say.

  • @hayitsaice5363
    @hayitsaice5363 Місяць тому +1

    Bro i know a dojo member when i see one💯 to da moon 🌙

  • @bmsproductions1
    @bmsproductions1 Місяць тому +1

    Great video 💪❤️ keep up the good work man

  • @Daemon1995_
    @Daemon1995_ Місяць тому +1

    can you make one about when you're texting them daily or so and the vibes are right and then when you ask for hangout she's interested and everything but then when you set up the meet she never replies and basically ghost you?

    • @yvukr
      @yvukr Місяць тому +1

      This was answered in this video: treat people as they treat you. If she disrespects your time, don't talk to her anymore. If she was interested she would be hands over knees to keep your attention / make an excuse, and reschedule even if she genuinely couldn't make it. Putting up with behavior like this rather than disregarding it determines what you get/receive in life.

    • @Daemon1995_
      @Daemon1995_ Місяць тому

      @@yvukr thanks g

  • @jcermeno1368
    @jcermeno1368 4 дні тому

    💯

  • @StoicWisdom267
    @StoicWisdom267 Місяць тому +1

    Quick question: I started new job 4 months ago. Havent hit on/flirted with or asked anyone out there. Several of the CNA's there I talk to a few times a shift. One of them always seems to be in my vicinity for no reason and recently some of my dept co workers have told me they overheard her asking about me. Problem is... another cna who just started and works with her... i ran into a few months back and asked her out at another job and got rejected outright from her. They both work together now- and I think my social credit there is being affected by fact they know she rejected me a few months back. And dont know if I should ask this one out- and risk getting a rep there for hitting on and asking girls out. Should I?

    • @porkerpete7722
      @porkerpete7722 Місяць тому +7

      They say never date at work.

    • @chad5577
      @chad5577 Місяць тому +3

      If you can’t get a read, then don’t think too deep bro. It’s probably not your shot if you need to ask someone else.

    • @FreshStar21
      @FreshStar21 21 день тому +3

      Try talking to her a bit more and see what kind of energy she’s giving you, like if she feeling you or not, you never know if you don’t try and if she’s not really feeling you then you can forget about them both and keep it pushing and focus on getting your paper as you have so far and look outside for women that are interested in you, that’s my take on it

    • @zachnunya8749
      @zachnunya8749 7 днів тому

      Is this a nursing home type job situation?
      I spent 6 single years in nursing homes. I was always one of the only dudes. So no competition.
      If you can pull off a flirty joking around kinda vibe. Like compliment all the women, even middle aged and fatties or whatever. Keep it Light hearted and not serious. Just having fun at work not simpin. They’ll all start getting jealous for the attention and it’ll trickle everywhere even to the hot ones. They can’t resist competition to see who can get the most attention from you. Don’t try to get with any of them fr. Don’t come out and say it bragging, but just Create the allusion that you have a bunch of girls you date outside of work. If anything comes up about the girl that rejected you laugh it off and don’t even address it. Be patient. They’ll all be trying to to get witcha over time.
      It does help if you’re handsome.

    • @StoicWisdom267
      @StoicWisdom267 7 днів тому

      @@zachnunya8749 when i ask women randomly on the street to rate me up front I always get a 7 to 9 on a scale of 10 so I'm assuming I dress/look decent enough. I'm pretty jacked (no gear) so when I wear compression shirts, I'm pretty huge w the v taper and have veins popping out everywhere. Will def try this approach with them- thanks!

  • @jordandavis1785
    @jordandavis1785 Місяць тому

    Great Video Kam, how are you doing?

  • @zeethree
    @zeethree 8 днів тому

    Yeah he snatched the girl but he also caught some strays. RIP

  • @jimsalaj8618
    @jimsalaj8618 11 днів тому

    Liked and subscribed !!! 🔥

  • @Milesmorales14x
    @Milesmorales14x Місяць тому +5

    Does it work with Christian girls??? I’m attracted to Christian girls

  • @discorabbit
    @discorabbit 11 днів тому +1

    yall like the bigbacks

  • @itscard0man
    @itscard0man 11 днів тому +1

    Wheres the original video

  • @dylana.9057
    @dylana.9057 Місяць тому +1

    whats the name of the vid Kam is reacting to ?

    • @Takashii85
      @Takashii85 Місяць тому +3

      Would be nice if these analysis vids actually put up the original vid in the description..

    • @emanueldargan
      @emanueldargan 28 днів тому +1

      Smooth gio

  • @TaseanHishaw
    @TaseanHishaw Місяць тому

    Cook 💯🙏

  • @AYYYEEEEYOOO
    @AYYYEEEEYOOO 13 днів тому +1

    Not to mention white girl got a bf and she outside thotting

  • @pedroakaalex
    @pedroakaalex Місяць тому

    W video 🔥

  • @ceazardagreat9152
    @ceazardagreat9152 3 дні тому

    Im a black Hebrew Israelite im not attractive to wyt women i love ❤ black beautiful queens

  • @Jime0326
    @Jime0326 Місяць тому

    Thank you.

  • @joashjoash6153
    @joashjoash6153 10 днів тому

    8:33 Facts

  • @k2dae142
    @k2dae142 18 днів тому

    Always watch your womans eyes as if they are hungry you not satisfying her hunger

  • @abelitooking
    @abelitooking 7 днів тому

    original video name 👀

  • @borto3275
    @borto3275 Місяць тому +1

    old title was crazyy😭

    • @Frieza-0
      @Frieza-0 Місяць тому

      What was it?

  • @coolsly64
    @coolsly64 19 днів тому

    Ok what you do about the C- blocker now to get to the girl that actually likes you.... I just dealt with this one at the bar over the last couple of weekends her girl was onit for me she laughing at all my jokes and can't take her eyes off me big-big birtha (her girl) be blocking me so what should I have done now not to be called out by women to other women that I am some kinda creep.. I know how things would have been handled back in the day u'd have a friend block her friend so you can get her alone so just you can talk...

  • @Godflowtino
    @Godflowtino 10 днів тому

    Sitting between the old beast is hilarious of course they want the lean protein

  • @Godflowtino
    @Godflowtino 10 днів тому

    Yea she had a boyfriend 5:30 until homie hit the pause on em

  • @plainman9887
    @plainman9887 26 днів тому +3

    How do I attract six figures for money?

  • @jorgethecoach
    @jorgethecoach Місяць тому

    🔥

  • @Milesmorales14x
    @Milesmorales14x Місяць тому +5

    I don’t like the way these women dress…

    • @I_lovethicthighs
      @I_lovethicthighs Місяць тому +4

      Real

    • @Tommygunn258
      @Tommygunn258 10 днів тому +3

      They aren't exactly girlfriend material, based on how they dress it's easy to see their character

  • @arkhainesyn9065
    @arkhainesyn9065 23 дні тому

    Nothin but game here