playlist when you’re always the second option

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  • @junz_riot
    @junz_riot  10 місяців тому +1

    Update :
    Join me on twitch : junz_riot !

  • @charleh5380
    @charleh5380 2 роки тому +207

    the sadness I feel when I realize that the only person I actually think is a real friend will always have replacements and others and if they abandon me I'll be alone for years again. they always will and I always won't.

    • @j3lly639
      @j3lly639 2 роки тому +4

      I find it easier to befriend lonely people like me because we get to spend more time with each other. I’m paranoid about people not liking me cuz their other friends are much better, so I understand

  • @wolfyx1603
    @wolfyx1603 2 роки тому +102

    Hey dude, be strong. I believe in you :) I'm really horrible in words, but trust me. No one of course can tell you, how your story is going to move on, no one shares the same life and experience.
    Try to see an advantage in beeing left over. When no one cares about you, you can do the world's biggest shit and literally no one would care. Enjoy the time you have for yourself, when there's no need to share and spend it for other people who will just take it unnecessary. Find yourself a passion you wanna follow, everything's gonna be okay.
    I wanna say here again clearly, that this helped ME. No one is the same, no one shares the same experience. I'm just trying to show some of you somehow that there's a better time waiting for you and that there's no wrong in beeing on yourself :) Of course, everything is easier said than done.
    If you wanna tell something, talk about your problems, feel free to do so. I hope I can be a little help or a careful listener then (even with my non-fluent English skills):)

    • @wolfyx1603
      @wolfyx1603 2 роки тому +4

      I never really cared when a friendship broke down, if they don't want to, why should I run after them. Friends come and go, that's how life is. You're the only person you need, so love yourself, take care of yourself. Don't change yourself for other

    • @hilalsahraozaslangoz5597
      @hilalsahraozaslangoz5597 2 роки тому +1

      Thx 💖

    • @wolfyx1603
      @wolfyx1603 2 роки тому

      @@hilalsahraozaslangoz5597 so so glad it helped you :)

    • @hilalsahraozaslangoz5597
      @hilalsahraozaslangoz5597 2 роки тому

      @@wolfyx1603 💜🦋🖤

  • @idontneedanam3
    @idontneedanam3 2 роки тому +11

    Sometimes letting things go was not for your happiness,
    Instead u had to let go for them.

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 роки тому +1

      don't give up

  • @jellylamagal7468
    @jellylamagal7468 2 роки тому +55

    izana being da background hits hard...
    no matter how many people hates him ill always love him,hes a great character , he just wanted ahappy live but ended up orderinn soemone to kill his sister
    but da way he adored nd loved shinichiro his deathh mudt have been misery for him....whixh made him end uo hatung on mikey becuz he couodbdt save shinichiro whike he was da "first" for shinichiro..

    • @moonnniee
      @moonnniee 2 роки тому +4

      i couldn’t read this seriously because of the typos lmao im so sorry😭😭😭😭

    • @jellylamagal7468
      @jellylamagal7468 2 роки тому +1

      @@moonnniee lmaos isiiskok I amkealosts of miayake

    • @moonnniee
      @moonnniee 2 роки тому +2

      @@jellylamagal7468 undesrstandable

    • @hihungryimdad
      @hihungryimdad 2 роки тому

      @@jellylamagal7468 i mke lets ef mikstakes to!

    • @jellylamagal7468
      @jellylamagal7468 2 роки тому

      @@hihungryimdad ong

  • @bensiebear3830
    @bensiebear3830 2 роки тому +11

    The title- I- Spot on-

  • @PayTheBidwell
    @PayTheBidwell 2 роки тому +147

    I ain't the second chosen, not even the last chosen lmao no one chooses me no matter what 😂😂😂

  • @massielmeza2570
    @massielmeza2570 2 роки тому +18

    Girl:u know being the second option hurts
    Me:yes i know
    Girl:but do u know what hurts more?
    Me:not being an option
    Girl:yes..

  • @liamonthemoon1466
    @liamonthemoon1466 2 роки тому +27

    for always being the second option I love this playlist

  • @ilikebumblebees354
    @ilikebumblebees354 2 роки тому +9

    The moment you realize your not even an option in there book.

  • @sukhpreetk3396
    @sukhpreetk3396 2 роки тому +19

    This makes me feel like the villian and i like it..

  • @chloeschroader9986
    @chloeschroader9986 2 роки тому +2

    ill my "friends" say bad thangs but to my face they say they love me i give all i have to them but no im not good im a replacment . the one person who like me hits me kicks me they hurt me so yeah i dont get someone ill help you you will be ok but ill cry and cry and you wont look at me and help but its ok bc i dont need you music is my FRIEND SO AHAHH YOU LOST THE BEST PERSON YOU WILL EVER MEAT so SO JOCKS ON you all...

  • @carapharneliaaa
    @carapharneliaaa 2 роки тому +95

    I could literally save everyone of my "friends" or ppl i know but none of them would do the same for me, they would say "thank you" in a rush and then completely forget about me again
    Anyways ty, this playlist is amazing!!

    • @junz_riot
      @junz_riot  2 роки тому +9

      aaa people… (sorry if my English is bad but I’m French so yeah)
      maybe you have to try to be less nice with the people you know they wouldn’t do anything for you, or maybe just try to be nice with the person it’s worth for ! but don’t forget to take care of yourself and try to love u more, I hope everything will be good for u aaa take care!!! and tysm!!

    • @carapharneliaaa
      @carapharneliaaa 2 роки тому +4

      @@junz_riot Thank you for the advice! :)

    • @Thestudent-o9r
      @Thestudent-o9r 2 роки тому +2

      @@carapharneliaaa ты заслуживаешь лучшего

    • @Thestudent-o9r
      @Thestudent-o9r 2 роки тому +2

      @@carapharneliaaa I russian so english not good

    • @carapharneliaaa
      @carapharneliaaa 2 роки тому +2

      @@Thestudent-o9r I tried translate your comment Thank you :DD

  • @Sakkiiz
    @Sakkiiz 3 роки тому +137

    This will always be one of my favorite playlist

    • @junz_riot
      @junz_riot  3 роки тому +2

      aaa np it means a lot !

  • @Hkzmk
    @Hkzmk 2 роки тому +2

    I'm really late to this playlist, But make sure to take care of your self! Things can get hard from time to time and it really sucks. But you need to remember that your health and happiness matters too, Don't let people tell you how to act, look, be, Be you and just live your life. I know it sounds dumb coming from some random stranger online but I can help you and you can talk to me if you ever need to right? You'll do that right? If you ever need to vent or just let anger, sadness, stress out let me know. I'm here for you and I'll never leave your side. You can tell me anything even if it's the worst of best thing ever, I'll still listen to what you have to say and I'll try my best to make you smile and feel loved.
    Life isn't supposed to be easy but you don't deserve to go through horrible things, Is there a reason why this is happening? Who knows. But what I know is that you can't give up just yet, You have to keep on trying and just do things you've always wanted to do, Wear what you want, Enjoy every minute of your life. Bad thing happen but so do good things.
    If you try hard enough you can achieve your goals or dreams! Don't overwork your self and forget that your human too. You need to remember that you can achieve dreams and goals that you have as long as you try. I know it can be hard but you just have to keep on trying and whenever you fall get back up and try again. Think of it as a wall falling and then getting rebuild stronger each time it falls. You are so strong and brave I'm just so proud of you!!

  • @jonathantalkington3976
    @jonathantalkington3976 2 роки тому +8

    I can relate too this playlist I think my friends are real friends but there actually not real friends even tho they say they are but they were never there when I needed it but I was there for them when they needed it and I think about that all the time!

  • @bc8724
    @bc8724 2 роки тому +8

    This is a pretty good playlist I'm glad it exists:)
    I've come to the point where it's ok for me to be the second option or not an option at all.
    It's always the same.
    I'll find someone better,someone that is able to care.
    But until now,it gets pretty lonely,but I'm glad that at least i get to hang out with my cousin even tho she lives further than me.
    It gets lonely though,it gets tiring,it gets bad,and then everything repeats itself with some emptyness that will be stuck inside me for no reason.
    But it's fine,it happens.
    -bc

  • @angelica.normand5512
    @angelica.normand5512 2 роки тому +2

    It kills me when i know that the only person i thought was my actual beat friend is actually just using me, and he makes me feel like crap, he gasslights my feeling and i always have to listen to him
    And when i hang out with other peiple he gets a convenient oanic attack or becomes uncomfortavle vecause hes not the only person in my life
    How is it possible to hate and love him
    Its bot like i can just get rid of him, were planning on moving in together in 3 years so he can get out of his horrible house
    Im not mad at him for wanting helo but he makes me feel like shit and he knows it
    I kinda just want him to helo me out, i want everyone to realize that ive been so focused on fixing everyone, keeping my family together, sorting out drama that i didnt even want ti be part of that i havent had time to fix myself
    Something happen a while back with a guy that was older than me and i thought it was fibe because i was young and i havent even had time to process that and to top it all off, the only person who treated me like a human, who understood that help goes both ways, my best friend killed herself a little after that...
    I want someone who knows and accepts me, im so done wuth being the family fuck up and the therapy friend so i throw myself into books and movies i go into a world where things are fucked up but i feel more at home there than i do in my own life
    Is it weird that when i sleep at night i imaging an imaginary person who doesnt even exist holding me, thats when i feel safe
    Its not that i dont feel safe at home its just that i truly feel um judged in a story where the world is ending or is just straight uo fucked up, worse than our world...
    And that another reason why i feel so bad is i know things could ve worse, i love my family and a few friends but am i selfish for wanting it to be better?
    Any advice?
    Thanks for reading

  • @-BuryAFriend54.
    @-BuryAFriend54. 2 роки тому +1

    VENT.
    Yeah , maybe i'm selfish to think that but.. my best friend is really more important than me. Why ? Everyone love her more than me , she has more friends than me , she can make friends easily while me i'm just jealous of others people , thinking they will make her go away from me. It's just not fair how everyone have their attention on her while me.. i'm just standing there. Even my parents told me that if some people pay attention to me it's because i'm with her , how am I supposed to feel? I want to cry so badly , I want.. I want to tell her about this but she will just say that I'm trying to make her feel bad even more. No , i'm not , I just want to feel okay too. You are venting to me everyday, why shouldn't I ? I can't even disagree to you otherwise you will.. leave me. It's ALWAYS like this. Just.. I don't know. I don't like school , It's taking all of my hapiness away from me. I have to forget about my feelings , or it will kill me. I did so much for her , for me , for people.. all for nothing at all.

  • @maruchanaranja
    @maruchanaranja 2 роки тому +1

    they went out without me again, didn't even told me

  • @jennbeanie3499
    @jennbeanie3499 2 роки тому +17

    This playlist is amazing, I love it

  • @girlymiko
    @girlymiko 2 роки тому +5

    yeah, i was never an option either way

  • @Duhman2
    @Duhman2 2 роки тому +5

    Yoo this playlist is ahhhh the best ❤️

  • @ch4rln
    @ch4rln 2 роки тому +1

    Izana as the bg hits different

  • @yola5763
    @yola5763 2 роки тому +12

    I'm not even the second choice XD I'm probs the 5th or 6th and there's only 4 in my friend group-

  • @junezsqi
    @junezsqi 2 роки тому +5

    i hate being her second opinion, i’ve been by her side for the last 4 years but what happens? she acts like i’m not even there for two of her “best friends” SHE JUST MET i didn’t do anything to her and she’s my only hope. i have no one else but her it really hurts what should i do?

    • @xFlynnxisyourmom
      @xFlynnxisyourmom 2 роки тому +3

      It's really hard to give somebody up and this is a sign of your friendship slowly drifting away. The distance grows as you talk less so at least try to talk to her but we all know that not all friendships last forever. Have you heard of the sentence "Hold the friendship with loose hands"? This is a difficult one, but in it, there’s so much freedom. This isn’t to say you shouldn’t give your 110 percent into your friendships, but rather, you should understand that some things are out of your control. Whether this means lowering your expectations or giving yourself some time and distance, relinquish your control over this relationship. It’s perfectly OK to feel emotional. Whether it be anger, disappointment, frustration, betrayal, loss, or hurt, feel every single emotion because that’s crucial to a healthy recovery. Pretending you’re fine when you actually aren’t is only a disservice to yourself because it robs you of that time to be vulnerable and grieve. Let yourself feel those emotions so you can process them and eventually get over it. Even though this friendship meant the world to you, just remember this isn’t your only friend. Look around at all the important people in your life and appreciate them. This attitude of gratitude will keep you from dwelling on what’s past. So be grateful for the people around you now and invest in those relationships. The best thing you can do for yourself is to forgive because anger only hurts you in the long run. You don’t want to have bitter feelings towards someone years from now… that’s a lot of negative weight to carry! Reminder to always drink water and stay healthy, I hope this helps!

  • @nattybug444
    @nattybug444 2 роки тому +8

    Pov: you put your friends first and let people play with your trust and heart but they don’t know about the times you ate lunch behind everybody, or the amount of times you cried in the bathroom, or the amount of times you had a headache but had to keep comforting. Ouch! This isn’t a pov is it?

  • @vikinizetic2707
    @vikinizetic2707 2 роки тому +2

    I'm not even an option

  • @enwthtluv
    @enwthtluv 2 роки тому +1

    Reluctant choice

  • @Teddy-so9fq
    @Teddy-so9fq 2 роки тому +1

    One of my "friends" started being super toxic to me, and of course i have other friends but they all have closer friends, so i got a gf and we stopped being friends with the toxic friend, she started being friends with him again the other day and i felt betrayed so i broke up with her, so now im alone.

  • @urmom-mv6tr
    @urmom-mv6tr 2 роки тому +11

    Me:No one will ever choose me*crying
    Me also:eeew that sounded so cringe-

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 роки тому +1

      stay strong.

  • @serenadams8588
    @serenadams8588 2 роки тому +16

    Why don't people care about me the way I care about them? Why am I so replaceable?

    • @junz_riot
      @junz_riot  2 роки тому +2

      Because people can’t see how good you are, try to care for the good people, try to care when it’s worth, but don’t forget to keep your kindness to yourself first and give yourself some love first, take care of yourself ❤️

    • @serenadams8588
      @serenadams8588 2 роки тому +1

      @@junz_riot thank you❤

    • @samanthaerinn
      @samanthaerinn 2 роки тому +1

      no but fr they make me feel so expendable 😭😭

  • @Ilovekarma1215
    @Ilovekarma1215 2 роки тому +1

    I’m not the second choice I’m the last person ☺️

  • @turquoise4209
    @turquoise4209 2 роки тому +2

    ngl im probably the 6th option

  • @veronicalara1172
    @veronicalara1172 2 роки тому +1

    OMG the playlist of my life 😅

  • @queen-lk7ll
    @queen-lk7ll 2 роки тому +1

    I mean, at least I am an option

  • @ThatOneAutisticCat
    @ThatOneAutisticCat 2 роки тому +9

    Jokes on you this was the second playlist I sat down and cried too this fine hour of 2 am

  • @usagiiiiiiiii
    @usagiiiiiiiii 2 роки тому +2

    My gf broke up with me because she loves someone else I mean it's okay to me but she liked him told me she liked him and still dated me she lied to me she said she wanted a relationship with three people and I thought it was fine but she lied she never wanted to she just didn't want to hurt my feelings but it hurts even more knowing she never loved me all the time after starting to love him and it hurts getting lied to... But I'm happy that the relationship of us both ended a couple days ago

  • @dagmarfaberdamkjr8450
    @dagmarfaberdamkjr8450 2 роки тому +39

    How are you guys being sad being the “second” choice im not even on the list

    • @lightlylemony
      @lightlylemony 2 роки тому

      we can see why 💀💀💀 it aint a competition luvs 💞

    • @lahna44
      @lahna44 2 роки тому +2

      @@lightlylemony dude they’re venting wtf is wrong w u

    • @mariss6972
      @mariss6972 2 роки тому +1

      Lmao same here, the person I called best friend for 3 or more years and now turns out they actually hate me and replaced me with my enemy

    • @dagmarfaberdamkjr8450
      @dagmarfaberdamkjr8450 2 роки тому +2

      @@lightlylemony so you are saying that you understand why they dont like me YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ME

    • @whitesandybeach7974
      @whitesandybeach7974 2 роки тому

      You’re second to no one :D

  • @h4rm0nyyy55
    @h4rm0nyyy55 2 роки тому +4

    3rd*

  • @Snowyy55
    @Snowyy55 2 роки тому +8

    I always put others in the first place since i dont want them to feel the same way i fee no one really appreciates me for what i do besides my grandparents they will be on my side and they will always understand me . Do you think i should put myself on the first place?

    • @wolfyx1603
      @wolfyx1603 2 роки тому

      I don't know how exactly you feel, which experiences you've had, this is just what I would do and what helped me. :)
      When no one puts you on their first place, don't do so as well. Be your own first place. Self-love, appreciation,... is not wrong, weird or toxic. Yes, it isn't easy to do so and it really sounds rude now, hell i didn't want that o.o
      What I did several times: to see if someone really cares about you, take a pause of your friendship with them, distance a bit. If they don't let you go and if they still try to hold this contact, they really care about you. If they don't even bother it, if they don't seem to notice it, they never cared. :)

    • @wolfyx1603
      @wolfyx1603 2 роки тому

      Sorry if that really sounds not-carrying or idk what :/ Idk how much people are really wanting this friendships and connections. I never really cared when a friendship broke down. Friends come and go, I knew that. I am the only one i really need, I never wanted to change for somebody else.

  • @Klavaan
    @Klavaan 2 роки тому +1

    yep thats me i save everyone but they not save me :(

  • @chrissy7117
    @chrissy7117 2 роки тому +2

    It you get this idk if you did this but do you think you could make a playlist woth fingers crossed?

  • @Ilove_cats9_
    @Ilove_cats9_ 2 роки тому +1

    The thumbnail. It reminds me of a webtoon, called "bastard".

  • @Starcl0wn
    @Starcl0wn 2 роки тому +6

    Why yall always cut out the entire song of murder and just put the end the whole song hits different

  • @NeuviAndAventurineNo1FAN
    @NeuviAndAventurineNo1FAN 2 роки тому +1

    i click cause of izana kurokawa

  • @txb_
    @txb_ 2 роки тому +3

    they come, when they're bad, but i'm not a fucking peace of cake

  • @maiseytyler6385
    @maiseytyler6385 2 роки тому +1

    hi .

  • @safiyyah6363
    @safiyyah6363 2 роки тому +3

    im a simple person, i saw izana, i clicked it.