Story 1 has the same vibes as when you catch your SO cheating on you by looking into their phone and they get mad at you for looking in their phone like that’s the main problem
Story #2 is a breeding ground for him to start being resentful towards her. He already postponed the trip once due to needing support for job issues, now he is going to postpone because she's in the early stages of pregnancy. Nope... not the AH. Your word is your bond. If everytime they make serious life decisions, but only she can change her mind because different feelings come about, then there is no need to pay attention or believe what she says, because she'll flip flop as soon as it doesn't totally benefit her. Something about this feelings like a manipulation/control tatic as well. It wouldn't have hurted to wait until after his trip to start. Why the rush?
Story 02: The wife sounds like she’s not use to compromising AT ALL. First, she couldn’t wait a few months to get off birth control. Now she wants the hubby to cancel a once in a lifetime trip.
2nd story- NTA- The woman has to grow up and take accountability. If you quit your birth control, that’s your fault. Let the man take the trip and call a friend or family member. And if she’s needing support, that’s unfair to invite herself to the trip- that would damper his time. Sis has to lay in the bed SHE made.
Scenario 2 he's not the a-hole. Trips can't be cancelled with a refund that close and for that reason. At 3 months pregnant she has morning sickness but probably not even showing. To keep the peace, he can try to reduce the trip from 3 weeks to 1-2 weeks. Once she is further along, he won't have the opportunity for at least another 3 years.
I got super bored one day and did a deep dive on her. So she used to be 300lbs, lost weight and had the loose skin removed. Her before and after photos do show that her lower body hasn’t changed much since then. However I’ve seen a lot of surgery bodies so to me it’s obvious she’s had several rounds of lipo to make that exaggerated shape. Butt is real but the body shape isn’t fully natural.
Story 1 has the same vibes as when you catch your SO cheating on you by looking into their phone and they get mad at you for looking in their phone like that’s the main problem
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The ex-husband went from $80000 to $30 something paid by HIS OWN BUSINESS, and SHE will gave to pay HIM!!??!! No way! He would be taken down!!!
Okay!!! It’s one thing to be nice but letting someone take advantage is a whole other thing
Story #2 is a breeding ground for him to start being resentful towards her. He already postponed the trip once due to needing support for job issues, now he is going to postpone because she's in the early stages of pregnancy. Nope... not the AH. Your word is your bond. If everytime they make serious life decisions, but only she can change her mind because different feelings come about, then there is no need to pay attention or believe what she says, because she'll flip flop as soon as it doesn't totally benefit her. Something about this feelings like a manipulation/control tatic as well. It wouldn't have hurted to wait until after his trip to start. Why the rush?
Story 02: The wife sounds like she’s not use to compromising AT ALL. First, she couldn’t wait a few months to get off birth control. Now she wants the hubby to cancel a once in a lifetime trip.
2nd story- NTA- The woman has to grow up and take accountability. If you quit your birth control, that’s your fault. Let the man take the trip and call a friend or family member.
And if she’s needing support, that’s unfair to invite herself to the trip- that would damper his time. Sis has to lay in the bed SHE made.
Scenario 2 he's not the a-hole. Trips can't be cancelled with a refund that close and for that reason. At 3 months pregnant she has morning sickness but probably not even showing. To keep the peace, he can try to reduce the trip from 3 weeks to 1-2 weeks. Once she is further along, he won't have the opportunity for at least another 3 years.
I got super bored one day and did a deep dive on her. So she used to be 300lbs, lost weight and had the loose skin removed. Her before and after photos do show that her lower body hasn’t changed much since then. However I’ve seen a lot of surgery bodies so to me it’s obvious she’s had several rounds of lipo to make that exaggerated shape. Butt is real but the body shape isn’t fully natural.
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