Totally agree with the menstrual cup helping! For me it was: menstrual cup -> sex toy by myself -> real person, and it's the best decision I've ever made because it made the experience waaaay more comfortable and relaxed for me 😊
Girl your growth is unreal. So cool to see how much more comfortable and confident you have gotten over the years. Thank you for letting us be a part of it ❤
honestly 🥺🥺🥺 thank you so so much!! and thank *you* for allowing me to grow in this space and talk openly about the things that are often incredibly hard to share online 💚🫶🏻
I am a 26 year old woman and I have never had sex at all. 90% of the reason is being scared. I am just straight up scared about being with a person in that way and being naked etc, it freaks me out but at the same time I am ready to have sex. I was ashamed of being a virgin for a long time but now I do not care. I will do it when I am ready with the right person. I just hope that I don’t leave it for so so long. This is the first time writing this out loud and it felt good to share with an amazing community. ❤❤
22 YO male here, but same. I’m in no rush though. It probably doesn’t help that I am perpetually uncomfortable around other people at the best of times lol.
I'm 20 and same. I am never 100% relaxed. Even when with my best friends. I'm not relaxed even when I'm by myself! I just can't imagine myself being vulnerable with another person. I just feel like I can't do it. I never had a crush and I don't know. I hate my life lol
Thank you for this! As a 22 year old who hasn’t even had her first kiss I feel so bad, sometimes I feel that is something that is just never going to happen to me, that the right person will never come and I’ll just feel ashamed about this forever. I needed to hear this, it really made me feel better 💜
Dont worry. The right person exists somewhere out there, you just need to find it. Also dont rush anything, dont rush the most special and intimate thing just for the sake of doing it or lets see how its like. Sending love ❤.
Oh no, don't feel bad about it! Society always makes us believe romantic love is like the most important thing in life. That's not true at all! In fact many people don't even feel romantic attraction in general. I hope all your wishes come true! Don't stress yourself!
please please pleaseeeee don’t worry!! all this happened for me when I was 24, but age means nothing! please just enjoy loving and living your own best life and things will happen for the best at the right time 💚💚💚
@@HollyGabrielle Thank you for your words 💜 I’ve been watching your yt videos for a long time, I admire you a lot! (sorry for my English, it’s kinda rusty 😂)
Since I'm the only girl in my whole family tree, Holly is the only one who tells me these things. I'm few months younger than Holly and it feels like Holly is my big sister who gives me life advices
I wanted to give my personal insights on the pain that can occur. I have been together with my partner for now almost six years and even after so long my body can still react very different. Sometimes it is very painful and we have to stop/do something else and other times I feel no pain at all. I have learned to not worry about it because so many factors can play a role (stress, menstrual cycle, etc.) So for anyone who is confused or worried, you are normal and pain levels can vary❤
mid 20's here too and i haven't had sex bc on several reasons mostly hygiene issue (i've got severe OCD) 🤧 say no to social pressures--you decide your own life! kudos to you for bringing up many issues concerning sex, and thanks for the nice girl talk, holly 💕
I am 17, never dated, kissed, so you can imagine my sex life: nonexistent. I even think no boy has ever had a crush on me. This is the first time I watch a video about this topic and feel so safe, comfortable and understood. I like your honesty and your spontaneity. I felt like the big sister I never had was talking to me.
you have no idea how much this video has helped me holly - I’ve always seen so much of myself in you and as a fellow 25 year old with extremely limited romantic experience until very recently it just feels such a relief and comfort to know someone has felt the same and has worked through their fears/anxieties!! im in my first relationship now with someone who I’ve genuinely felt any sort of romantic attraction towards and im really excited to experience new things and find out what I like/dislike with someone i feel safe and confident with ❤
Best part of any new experience is having someone that you trust go through it with you, as long as you have a laugh and not make it a competition, it's all good
Holly, I adored this video because of your vibe, how you approach the topic and your way of expressing these concepts ❤ amazing, girl! You should be proud of yourself ❤
Holly, you deserve alot of praise for doing this video. Your a great UA-camr. Your videos/vlogs are always interesting and helpful and educational to watch. It's nice that you feel comfortable and confident to open about these topics. So I will do the same a little bit to help kick off on a guys behalf, I haven't even had my 1st gf yet and I'm 25. Sometimes I care and think it's never going to happen for me, as I feel like no one will like me for me and other times I couldn't care at all about it. Still haven't had my 1st time as feel scared wouldn't be any good myself or would hurt the girl in the process lol. These kind of videos always gets you thinking about life for yourself/ourselves. Thanks for doing this video. Stay safe and every other female and any male watching these don't put pressure on yourself whatever you do just be happy with your choices.😊
Holly said ‘no beating around the bush..No pun intended’ and I just spat my tea out…🤣🤣🤣🤣 I needed a laugh today and I am partial to a double entendre 🤭
I like your sensible and calm explanations. Totally agree that everyone should decide for themselves when it feels right doing it, even at late twenties like myself, without giving a damn about society's pressure... because it's nobody's business. 😉
I was 19 the first time i had sex and people are so shocked when i tell them and I honestly don’t understand why. Let’s just normalize each person doing it whenever they are ready
12:35 Feeling like you are about to pee during sex even with an empty bladder could be a sign that your body wants to squirt (no, this is not the same as pee). This is a normal bodily response that many people experience when they're G-spot is stimulated which can happen during penetration. If you relax into the feeling (maybe put some towels down or you can even get waterproof sheets) then you may be able to ejaculate. Of course it could be that penetration is just pushing on your bladder as well but it sounds identical to my experience Oh also, LUBE MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER!!
31, haven’t had sex, I’ve been in two long-term relationships for half my life, first was 6 years, the other was seven which ended last year (the most devastating break-up of my life).. grew up in a Catholic country, sex is taboo, and we are uneducated here (hence, the high teenage pregnancy rates). I feel like the lack of sex led to the downfall of my two relationships - now I kinda feel left out and I don’t know if I will ever be ready. It just feels uncomfortable for me and I’m very scared of pregnancy, STDs, and even just doing the deed.
I follow you now for a few years and your growth is so amazing & so happy to experience this growth with you 🥰 with the toilet thing: i have sex regularly for about 5 years now and sometimes i still have the feeling i have to use the bathroom during it like every 5 seconds, its quite annoying sometimes but also gives you little time to cool down a bit again
i think the guilt comes from just, when u experience a new thing like that u naturally start questionning wether it was a good or bad decision to do it. Totally normal tbh, but thank u sm for the vid i think we should talk about it more often
its all about having fun and learning about what you like. And if you are laughing about something that happened (I once fell out of bed whilst on top....) then all the better as you're with someone who you are comfortable with and that's the key thing with sex
Thank you so much for sharing this ❤ I never really heard about bleeding during/after sex until I spoke to my friends who experienced similar things with their first times! I am going to the doctors to check if there’s anything else going on as it’s happened to me a couple of times but it might be just me being tight ☺️
love you beautiful holly. thank you for sharing your journey , not sure if you answer this or not but do you wish your first would’ve been with current partner / how did you navigate discussing previous partners with current. Bless you. ❤️
Definitely looking forward to the contraception video - feel like every option has downsides and I’ve heard bad things about the copper coil also like copper toxicity or something?
I would love to get a copper coil because it seems to be the best non hormonal contraception. But my doctor won't offer it to younger persons because she work for a long time in a fertility centre and she saw a lot of people having trouble getting pregnant after having the copper coil. I feel so lost because I really don't want to go through all that hormonal stuff again but at the same time I'm so scared of the negative aspects of a coil
@@tammi55 my doctor told me that actually it’s the hormonal one that can see more infertility cases just cause when people come off it, it can take a while for their periods to come back etc. But I did have the copper coil and I did unfortunately suffer from copper toxicity and now suffer with mental health problems that I didn’t suffer with before. The irony is, I went on the copper IUD because I was scared that the hormonal one would impact my mental health! I’m sure there are people out there who have good experiences with the copper one but it just wasn’t for me :(
Thank u sm for talking about this. Im also someone who recently started having sex and never put anything inside down there so every time sex would be painful and uncomfortable. I thought there’s something wrong w me but I’m glad to know it’s normal Also wtf the queefing 😭😭 that also happened to me and i was so confused and embarrassed omg i didn’t know it was normal
Holly! I think it's just great that you are making these topics visible and helping to de-taboo them. A lot of things would feel a lot more normal if you knew the experiences of others. Honestly, I don't remember how old I was when I "lost" my virginity. I think I was about 21 and felt like I was already "way too old" to be a virgin. To think that alone is absolute nonsense! But as you just said, this pressure comes from society, which tells you that you are an "old" virgin. In retrospect, I also believe that I personally should have rather waited for another partner. Since you have addressed pain during sex I would also like to adress this here. When I was still on the pill, there was not a single time where I could have had sex without lubricant. Just the idea would have brought tears to my eyes. However, since I stopped taking the pill, it works much better. However, I still find that some lubricant can not hurt :) In addition, the pill has virtually switched off my sexual drive. And the most important advice I can give to anyone is: communication is key! With my ex-partners I never dared to talk about the fact that I can't come without clitoral stimulation. One partner even pushed my hand away once because he felt it interfered with having sex. With my fiancées, I addressed this from the beginning. Since then I have much more fun during sex and I don't want to miss it anymore.
My first time was at 18. My recommendation is to simply feel safe and comfortable with the person you're with. My partner was the experienced one in my case. He took care of me, listened to me and went at my pace. He even had food for afterwards. Foreplay is important to relax. The vagina is a muscle if it is tense it will hurt. On a side note, I also recommend first having sex when you know you'd be able to have it frequently afterwards. I remember going at it like bunnies once I was really comfortable
You might not have bled because you used a menstrual cup which ruptures the hymen during insertion. Also the peeing sensation is normal and sometimes it's just squirt in disguise or what makes you eventually finish like a sneezing sensation also.
Her mentality of normalising sex with anyone without having relationship with them is wrong. This kind of thoughts normalises having sex with step father, cousin and then it will even normalise having sex with siblings. Thats y we humans are having values.its ok to accept wrong as wrong and do right.
first time also doesnt always have to work out at all! me and my bf have been together for 4 months and weve tried a couple of times and we couldnt make it work at all bc he "didn't fit". it is scary and if ur an overthinker ur gonna ask urself all the questions (do i not love them enough, do they not turn me on,.......) but in the moment if theyre a good partner, and a good person, it wont even feel uncomfy we were laughing at it actually (before my overthinking hit the scene) but the point is its no problem at all (the only problem is how expensive condoms r seriously wtf) and its perfectly normal that ur first time (first couple of times) dont go smoothly!! i still struggle w it since it always seems to go smoothly in movies and shows but i remind myself that its okay and that u dont have to get pleasure strictly from penetration and if its not it, just do sth else🩵 and the bottom line is: stop if u feel pain. i know that pol say its supposed to be painful but if it is, maybe u can try fingers first to try to get used to sth being inside u snd get more comfortable. remember that its okay to stop any time!
Totally agree with the menstrual cup helping! For me it was: menstrual cup -> sex toy by myself -> real person, and it's the best decision I've ever made because it made the experience waaaay more comfortable and relaxed for me 😊
yesssssss yes yes!!!! the menstrual cup was game changing for me in soooo so many ways, and I wish more people tried them ✨
Girl your growth is unreal. So cool to see how much more comfortable and confident you have gotten over the years. Thank you for letting us be a part of it ❤
honestly 🥺🥺🥺 thank you so so much!! and thank *you* for allowing me to grow in this space and talk openly about the things that are often incredibly hard to share online 💚🫶🏻
@@HollyGabrielle could not be happier to be here 🫶
Couldn't agree more!! ❤
I am a 26 year old woman and I have never had sex at all. 90% of the reason is being scared. I am just straight up scared about being with a person in that way and being naked etc, it freaks me out but at the same time I am ready to have sex. I was ashamed of being a virgin for a long time but now I do not care. I will do it when I am ready with the right person. I just hope that I don’t leave it for so so long.
This is the first time writing this out loud and it felt good to share with an amazing community. ❤❤
22 YO male here, but same. I’m in no rush though. It probably doesn’t help that I am perpetually uncomfortable around other people at the best of times lol.
@@cam5556 Hi Cam, I am exactly the same, just hoping that I will get over that at some
point in my life.
I'm 20 and same. I am never 100% relaxed. Even when with my best friends. I'm not relaxed even when I'm by myself! I just can't imagine myself being vulnerable with another person. I just feel like I can't do it. I never had a crush and I don't know. I hate my life lol
its really not a big deal, at all. sex for straight women is pretty underwhelming if I am honest. women rarely even climax.
Same. I’m 31, been in two long-term relationships and my fear is just too much. I have no idea when I’ll feel ready.
Thank you for this! As a 22 year old who hasn’t even had her first kiss I feel so bad, sometimes I feel that is something that is just never going to happen to me, that the right person will never come and I’ll just feel ashamed about this forever. I needed to hear this, it really made me feel better 💜
Dont worry. The right person exists somewhere out there, you just need to find it. Also dont rush anything, dont rush the most special and intimate thing just for the sake of doing it or lets see how its like. Sending love ❤.
Oh no, don't feel bad about it! Society always makes us believe romantic love is like the most important thing in life. That's not true at all! In fact many people don't even feel romantic attraction in general.
I hope all your wishes come true! Don't stress yourself!
please please pleaseeeee don’t worry!! all this happened for me when I was 24, but age means nothing! please just enjoy loving and living your own best life and things will happen for the best at the right time 💚💚💚
Dude, no need to worry. I am 27 in 2 days and I still haven't even kissed a girl. Enjoy life as it is!
@@HollyGabrielle Thank you for your words 💜 I’ve been watching your yt videos for a long time, I admire you a lot! (sorry for my English, it’s kinda rusty 😂)
Since I'm the only girl in my whole family tree, Holly is the only one who tells me these things. I'm few months younger than Holly and it feels like Holly is my big sister who gives me life advices
I’m here for you!! 💚 we all are 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
I wanted to give my personal insights on the pain that can occur. I have been together with my partner for now almost six years and even after so long my body can still react very different. Sometimes it is very painful and we have to stop/do something else and other times I feel no pain at all. I have learned to not worry about it because so many factors can play a role (stress, menstrual cycle, etc.) So for anyone who is confused or worried, you are normal and pain levels can vary❤
oooo this is so so interesting!! thank you for sharing 👌🏻✨
I’m also sooooo so so glad that you and your partner are able to work through it 💚🫶🏻
Vaginisum is another reason
This big sister advice is honestly the best, ty Holly
mid 20's here too and i haven't had sex bc on several reasons mostly hygiene issue (i've got severe OCD) 🤧 say no to social pressures--you decide your own life! kudos to you for bringing up many issues concerning sex, and thanks for the nice girl talk, holly 💕
Thank you holly i think you give people so much confidence and permission to just be who we are and accept ourselves. You have encouraged me so much.
I am 17, never dated, kissed, so you can imagine my sex life: nonexistent. I even think no boy has ever had a crush on me. This is the first time I watch a video about this topic and feel so safe, comfortable and understood. I like your honesty and your spontaneity. I felt like the big sister I never had was talking to me.
SAME
I’m 20 and the same, don’t worry
It will come to us when we need it❤️
@@kateryna5284 thank you
I'm 21 and same! We don't need to rush!
you have no idea how much this video has helped me holly - I’ve always seen so much of myself in you and as a fellow 25 year old with extremely limited romantic experience until very recently it just feels such a relief and comfort to know someone has felt the same and has worked through their fears/anxieties!! im in my first relationship now with someone who I’ve genuinely felt any sort of romantic attraction towards and im really excited to experience new things and find out what I like/dislike with someone i feel safe and confident with ❤
Thank you for being so honest Holly, it’s so refreshing to hear someone speak so openly about it 🤍
Best part of any new experience is having someone that you trust go through it with you, as long as you have a laugh and not make it a competition, it's all good
Holly, I adored this video because of your vibe, how you approach the topic and your way of expressing these concepts ❤ amazing, girl! You should be proud of yourself ❤
aww thank you!! this is so so nice to hear 💚✨ it really means a lot to me 😊😊
Holly, you deserve alot of praise for doing this video. Your a great UA-camr. Your videos/vlogs are always interesting and helpful and educational to watch. It's nice that you feel comfortable and confident to open about these topics. So I will do the same a little bit to help kick off on a guys behalf, I haven't even had my 1st gf yet and I'm 25. Sometimes I care and think it's never going to happen for me, as I feel like no one will like me for me and other times I couldn't care at all about it. Still haven't had my 1st time as feel scared wouldn't be any good myself or would hurt the girl in the process lol. These kind of videos always gets you thinking about life for yourself/ourselves. Thanks for doing this video. Stay safe and every other female and any male watching these don't put pressure on yourself whatever you do just be happy with your choices.😊
Holly said ‘no beating around the bush..No pun intended’ and I just spat my tea out…🤣🤣🤣🤣 I needed a laugh today and I am partial to a double entendre 🤭
hahaha 😂😂😂 glad I could provide the entertainment 😉🌳
I like your sensible and calm explanations. Totally agree that everyone should decide for themselves when it feels right doing it, even at late twenties like myself, without giving a damn about society's pressure... because it's nobody's business. 😉
Please go on with this kind of content, my girl! You are really amazing!
thank you for sharing these!! mean a lot to me!! love u some much!!🥰
Holly thank you so much for making this video, it’s so important to talk more openly about all of this, you are the best!
I was 19 the first time i had sex and people are so shocked when i tell them and I honestly don’t understand why. Let’s just normalize each person doing it whenever they are ready
Honestly, 19 is so so young. People are insane!
@@ellen5276 i know!!
12:35 Feeling like you are about to pee during sex even with an empty bladder could be a sign that your body wants to squirt (no, this is not the same as pee). This is a normal bodily response that many people experience when they're G-spot is stimulated which can happen during penetration.
If you relax into the feeling (maybe put some towels down or you can even get waterproof sheets) then you may be able to ejaculate.
Of course it could be that penetration is just pushing on your bladder as well but it sounds identical to my experience
Oh also, LUBE MAKES EVERYTHING BETTER!!
Thank you for sharing your personal experiences.
This type of videos are SO important! Thank you, Holly❤
You're so brave Holly. proud of you!
Thank you for being so honest! 😊
31, haven’t had sex, I’ve been in two long-term relationships for half my life, first was 6 years, the other was seven which ended last year (the most devastating break-up of my life).. grew up in a Catholic country, sex is taboo, and we are uneducated here (hence, the high teenage pregnancy rates). I feel like the lack of sex led to the downfall of my two relationships - now I kinda feel left out and I don’t know if I will ever be ready. It just feels uncomfortable for me and I’m very scared of pregnancy, STDs, and even just doing the deed.
I follow you now for a few years and your growth is so amazing & so happy to experience this growth with you 🥰 with the toilet thing: i have sex regularly for about 5 years now and sometimes i still have the feeling i have to use the bathroom during it like every 5 seconds, its quite annoying sometimes but also gives you little time to cool down a bit again
you support me much whenever and wherever I am
You are so brave and great!!! Love you!~
i think the guilt comes from just, when u experience a new thing like that u naturally start questionning wether it was a good or bad decision to do it. Totally normal tbh, but thank u sm for the vid i think we should talk about it more often
its all about having fun and learning about what you like. And if you are laughing about something that happened (I once fell out of bed whilst on top....) then all the better as you're with someone who you are comfortable with and that's the key thing with sex
Hi Hollie Happy Easter have a good one whatever you do 🐰🥚🐣🐇🐇🦦🦦
Thank you so much for sharing this ❤ I never really heard about bleeding during/after sex until I spoke to my friends who experienced similar things with their first times! I am going to the doctors to check if there’s anything else going on as it’s happened to me a couple of times but it might be just me being tight ☺️
love you beautiful holly. thank you for sharing your journey , not sure if you answer this or not but do you wish your first would’ve been with current partner / how did you navigate discussing previous partners with current. Bless you. ❤️
Definitely looking forward to the contraception video - feel like every option has downsides and I’ve heard bad things about the copper coil also like copper toxicity or something?
I’m loving creating this one, and I’ll be trying to cover as much as I can 💚🤓
I would love to get a copper coil because it seems to be the best non hormonal contraception. But my doctor won't offer it to younger persons because she work for a long time in a fertility centre and she saw a lot of people having trouble getting pregnant after having the copper coil. I feel so lost because I really don't want to go through all that hormonal stuff again but at the same time I'm so scared of the negative aspects of a coil
@@tammi55 my doctor told me that actually it’s the hormonal one that can see more infertility cases just cause when people come off it, it can take a while for their periods to come back etc. But I did have the copper coil and I did unfortunately suffer from copper toxicity and now suffer with mental health problems that I didn’t suffer with before. The irony is, I went on the copper IUD because I was scared that the hormonal one would impact my mental health! I’m sure there are people out there who have good experiences with the copper one but it just wasn’t for me
:(
Thank u sm for talking about this. Im also someone who recently started having sex and never put anything inside down there so every time sex would be painful and uncomfortable. I thought there’s something wrong w me but I’m glad to know it’s normal
Also wtf the queefing 😭😭 that also happened to me and i was so confused and embarrassed omg i didn’t know it was normal
Holly! I think it's just great that you are making these topics visible and helping to de-taboo them. A lot of things would feel a lot more normal if you knew the experiences of others. Honestly, I don't remember how old I was when I "lost" my virginity. I think I was about 21 and felt like I was already "way too old" to be a virgin. To think that alone is absolute nonsense! But as you just said, this pressure comes from society, which tells you that you are an "old" virgin. In retrospect, I also believe that I personally should have rather waited for another partner.
Since you have addressed pain during sex I would also like to adress this here. When I was still on the pill, there was not a single time where I could have had sex without lubricant. Just the idea would have brought tears to my eyes. However, since I stopped taking the pill, it works much better. However, I still find that some lubricant can not hurt :) In addition, the pill has virtually switched off my sexual drive.
And the most important advice I can give to anyone is: communication is key! With my ex-partners I never dared to talk about the fact that I can't come without clitoral stimulation. One partner even pushed my hand away once because he felt it interfered with having sex. With my fiancées, I addressed this from the beginning. Since then I have much more fun during sex and I don't want to miss it anymore.
Love this so much thank you, ur amazing!
So refreshing, thank you.
its Awesome it's to see you very confident like that
Love you holly my friend you are such a good role model! From Jess (og subscriber)
My first time was at 18.
My recommendation is to simply feel safe and comfortable with the person you're with. My partner was the experienced one in my case.
He took care of me, listened to me and went at my pace.
He even had food for afterwards.
Foreplay is important to relax. The vagina is a muscle if it is tense it will hurt.
On a side note, I also recommend first having sex when you know you'd be able to have it frequently afterwards.
I remember going at it like bunnies once I was really comfortable
Thank you for the video!❤
thank you Holly, I appreciate this video so much 🙏
one question: was someone at home while you filmed this? 😅
im 15 and ive done it
@Holly Girl it's the honest for me make some ginger for your flu 🤧 and get well soon
I wish you the best of everything for future videos
Loved this video 🥹
I love all ur videos holly
i have not learned much doen there. i dont know where and how to do it down there.
thank. you. holly. that is all
Holly, you're the prettiest and funniest girl in London, England!😊🇺🇸💙🌷🇬🇧💜👍. And the outtakes makes me laugh!😀🎇👍. Happy Wednesday!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇬🇧💜💜💜💜💜💜😊🎇👍
Thank you so much for sharing
Did your boyfriend care that you were a virgin ? Like did it bother him or something like that? I would really like to know.
Who was Holly’s first kiss?
It wasn't her boyfriend???
@@tinkerbell9282 I don’t think so!
Her mom and dad
Her first kiss and first time was Charlie
not to be too TMI, but have you thought about whether your need to pee might actually be your body preparing to squirt?
was your current boyfriend your first time?
I miss the cambridge holly tho 🥺
Cambridge Holly was an era 😉 but people have to realise that everyone grows and changes . . . I mean, if we didn’t, that would be strange right?! 🙈
We know the first one was with Charlie ....
No need to mention that. I'm not sure if that's a comfortable topic.
when I have sex with my bf I feel literally nothing, what does this mean?
He’s not good in bed try korean heard they’re good
Really?
I'm virgin first, but maybe u need different things to enjoy I heard that not all women enjoy penetration...maybe the foreplay
❤
you were saying you are asexual few years ago, what changed I wonder
i explained it in this video: ua-cam.com/video/g_dX9lo4GVk/v-deo.html ✨
You might not have bled because you used a menstrual cup which ruptures the hymen during insertion. Also the peeing sensation is normal and sometimes it's just squirt in disguise or what makes you eventually finish like a sneezing sensation also.
The reason you feel guilt after doing it, is becuase spiritually your only supposed to do it with your husband. It’s called fornication
3:05
Im 37 and still virgin
Her mentality of normalising sex with anyone without having relationship with them is wrong. This kind of thoughts normalises having sex with step father, cousin and then it will even normalise having sex with siblings. Thats y we humans are having values.its ok to accept wrong as wrong and do right.
omg hii
First one😮
lol
What do you mean by they?
neutral pronoun, not plural :)
Islam is the only true way of life ✨️ And we only let someone be intimate with us in marriage. That's for the better of society at large.
first time also doesnt always have to work out at all!
me and my bf have been together for 4 months and weve tried a couple of times and we couldnt make it work at all bc he "didn't fit". it is scary and if ur an overthinker ur gonna ask urself all the questions (do i not love them enough, do they not turn me on,.......) but in the moment if theyre a good partner, and a good person, it wont even feel uncomfy
we were laughing at it actually (before my overthinking hit the scene)
but the point is its no problem at all (the only problem is how expensive condoms r seriously wtf) and its perfectly normal that ur first time (first couple of times) dont go smoothly!! i still struggle w it since it always seems to go smoothly in movies and shows but i remind myself that its okay and that u dont have to get pleasure strictly from penetration and if its not it, just do sth else🩵
and the bottom line is: stop if u feel pain. i know that pol say its supposed to be painful but if it is, maybe u can try fingers first to try to get used to sth being inside u snd get more comfortable. remember that its okay to stop any time!
Hi Holly im here for you and i hope we can be friends would it be ok if i pass my email on if ok amazing community support 😊😊😊😊