Answering TMI girl talk questions you're too afraid to ask your friends *tipsy*
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To all the ladies who havent been with a guy: please don't worry or rush into it. Most men arent good at *it* and having a partner who loves and cherishes you is WAY more important. Stay safe and happy girlies
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@@Zauberhafte I mean depending how old u are that shouldn’t be that major lol
This.
Noted, but then why sleep with them if they arent that good and how do u remain attracted in that way...?
I'm a guy, but when I wasn't ready to have sex I literally told my boyfriend straight on "Hey I'm not ready" and he just said it was okay. That's the ONLY acceptable answer. Do NOT let anyone pressure you :(
I think im pretty approachable tbh lol
Fucking PERIOD, hun, damn straight. No means no, you don’t need to give a reason.
um ok
@@sirenhood ?
Gay ahahahahahahaha
I’m 19 turning 20 in a month and I have never done anything with a guy. I feel so behind in everything and seeing people younger than me opening up about what they’ve done makes me feel so behind. I just don’t see why a guy would ever want me in that way. I think I’m not good enough for any guy. I don’t have any friends to go out with and when I do go out I just feel so alone. I don’t really know what to do. I really feel like I’m missing out and running out of time. I just feel like I’ve past the age of having fun and not worrying about making mistakes. I feel like I’m not allowed to make mistakes anymore.
Edit: Hello everyone it’s been four months since I posted this comment and things haven’t really changed much as far as not having a boyfriend. But I just wanted to say that this comment section has been such a huge help. I really thought I was alone in this but seeing how this is the most liked comment and how others also relate has helped me so much. You guys have no idea how often I come back to this comment section and read all your kind words. It really helps me . Thank you so much guys ❤
Brooo I felt the same for years but I was j not attracted to many people and then when I did find someone I liked I was never confident enough to go after them. I j got my first kiss this year and I'm in college! it's totally normal, you j can read people well and know what's for you. Trust me you will find it, j focus on being yourself and be ballsy if you like someone ;) confidence is the key
Same except I’m 21 if that makes u feel better
You're still very very young and you can always make mistakes in your life even at fifty. But don't worry you're still young enough to make "young people mistakes". You should try to work on your mindset, even see a therapist if you can and just enjoy life even alone. Because if not, you're going to waste your young years being sad and afraid of living your life.
Hi girlie :) I didn’t lose my v card til I was 19, I’m 27 now and honestly still making mistakes 😅 you’re constantly growing and changing in life , there are no restrictions x
heyyyy it’s okay!! i’m 20 and haven’t even done anything with a guy either. you’re barely gonna turn 20! you have your whole life to experience everything:) after high school ends everyone gets on their own life schedule, not everyone goes the same speed anymore. just have fun while you can:)
The trick to shaving without getting razor bumps is to shave WITH the grain!! Shave downwards, if you are starting from the top (towards your belly button) shave downwards towards your lips, then shave from your inner thigh towards your labia. I NEVER get razor bumps when shaving like this. If I were to do it the way she explained she does I’d probably have loads of scars from ingrown hairs!!
I always do it this way but still get the worst razor bumps. I dont know why, any advice?
@@gracecoyne3851 maybe your razor is dull? maybe you’re simply sensitive? it could be many reasons. in that case i would recommend a calming lotion to use afterwards.
But then you don’t get that close shaveee 😭😭😂
@@decemberchristiansen562 you do with the correct razor
shave with the grain at first, and then go left, right, and up. its the only safe way to get a close shavee
As a girl, I was with a guy who was pressuring me to go on birth control so he could take my v card. Now, im with a guy who constantly asks to binge shows with me and prefers that over sex. Upgrades girlies!
So happy for you girl ☺️
As a guy if a guy only wants sex he is playing you 100% don’t believe the jokes “you make me horny” “your too hot” all shi he just wants to use you
it’s so crazy to hear that some people don’t have a bad first time. y’all who had a good first time are so lucky. i’m jealous
@@silfverjessicaI think you are definitely correct sex ed plays a really good role on top of feeling comfortable with yourself as well
mine wasn’t bad but it wasn’t good. it was sooo weird and awkward i didn’t do anything cuz i didn’t know what to do or say
I had a pretty good first time- it DID last 2 mins but i dont have any complains. However it was ruined later by finding out he was cheating in that time so if it makes you feel better know that even good first times can become horrible later 🥲😅
my first time was awful lol, my bf at the time struggled to get it in and it was so painful and i was bleeding all over the place. i was comfortable and ready but my hymen said not todayy
@@-bexxomg that would of stressed me outtt
it feels like everyone knows exactly what they need to do to take perfect care of their face and private parts and it’s honestly overwhelming to me i feel v lost
Don’t worry, a lot of people had to try a lot of things to find something that works for them. Personally I’m still figuring it out😭
Uff, feel that. I think what works best for me is actually just applying normal moisturizer to my face every day and for the privates... my bf doesn't mind if I'm shaven or not so I just let the bush be a happy little bush xD Just make sure it's not smelly or sweaty, but that's really easy if you shower regularly. :D
just be patient with yourself and experiment x
yep seconded - people only know cos of a lot of trial and a lot of error too - i've got some stuff down pat but its taken yeeeaaars to figure out what works for me
For the private parts-- girlie literally dont do anything to them, just wash with water and NOTHING ELSE. Let her be natural and healthy 😌💅 for the face honestly i used to use all kinds of crap for the moderate acne i get and nothing worked and i literally just wash with water. Find what works for you! 🤗
As a 17 year old, hearing all the girls talking about the things they have done already makes me feel so horrible. I'm genuinely dont know how to do anything because my parents never forced me to do a lot of things and they never educated me. I'm so left behind on pratically everything honestly. Its to the point i rely on other people to teach me these things but i dont have anyone. I am all alone. This video helped me sooo much thank youuu 💖😊
yes literally i was on ft today with 2 friends and this girl said that her bsgf did it yk and then js turned 14 ummm??
I’m 16 but same..
same
@@ale_playzWTF why do children have sex these days
exactly itss so messed up@@idontcarewherejustfarr
Girls who like girls, the 'boy' advice here goes for us too! Just cause it's directed towards men doesn't mean the same rules around consent, trust, communication, drive, ect, ect goes for women too.
Thank god.. watching this video I felt so left out and unheard like I don’t even exist. I was just scrolling endlessly trying to find a comment about including queer women. So glad I found one. ❤️
FACTS!!!!
Same goes for us mlm guys, lol
I always feel left out in the sorts of videos for this reason thank you
@@Avi-qn1sm mlm guys are still guys, this isn’t for you
Y’all I didn’t do the deed till I was 23!! Don’t ever feel rushed queens, take your time you’re a dime and worth it
Thats so nice to read!! Im 21, never ever did anything, ive never dated anyone in my life, and only kissed a total of four boys through my life
17f here, it's so normalized in highschool or atleast my highschool..it's pretty gross tbh what ever happened to cute little dates or a walk in the park 😮💨
@L0n3_03 100%!! Good thing you’re not like the others, you’re a prize 🏆
I'm 22 and I am soo happy I waited til now to do it
to anyone feeling like they are running out of time: i promise u aren't. wait for the right person who you have a deep connection with. it is so crucial for the first time to be really comfortable with that person.
Girls who never been with a man, from a man: A lot of men don’t know what to do nor are good at it. If you’re not someone who just goes around but wants to settle and have something actually good, here are some factors that show if he’s a keeper.
He does aftercare! He makes sure that everything’s okay during and after. He won’t force anything or talk you into stuff. He likes your down
Stairs ;) and he’s probably obsessed with it trust me. He appreciates your body and loves it
Thank you for this!
When I was young I shaved 🐱 I trimmed I did it all. Then when I met my husband at 22 & was getting married at 24 he told me he likes it all natural 🌳 😂 so I just trim it now & shave the bikini line. Marriage is so stress free, you feel so confident in lingerie, naked etc. All those fears from when your young worrying about what guys will think goes away.
My 30 year old self realizing how dumb i was when i was younger. Melissa you’re an amazing role model, Love these videos🥰
If your sex drive is down, it’s not always “depression”. Sometimes, you’re literally busy, and it’s the last thing on your mind, and that’s okay. Relationships and life are more than sex.
I also think not having a high drive all the time is normal, at least for me. I feel it every once in a while then don’t feel it again for months.
@@tylajo.moonflowerthis might actually be a hormonal problem. I’m assuming you’re a girl. If so, tell your OB/GYN about low libido and see about getting blood work done. Sometimes even young women don’t produce enough of certain hormones. The main ones for sex are estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. Yes, women produce testosterone too, and if we don’t produce enough, it can really kill your sex drive. My GYN ran labs to check my hormone levels. Turns out my testosterone levels were low. Now I have a topical testosterone cream I rub on my underarm every day. It’s a much milder way of getting a little extra testosterone than pills or shots. You don’t want TOO much of that or else you start getting more “manly” effects like extra body hair, reducing breast size, and other things you really don’t want! I get just enough of the hormone that it’s helped my libido get back to “normal” (for me)
@@tylajo.moonflower could be greysexual. Its more common then people think! And its totally cool :p
@@marleywolfdog I think so too but it’s something to figure out. I go through phases of being in the mood for days and then not have those feelings at all for weeks or so.
@@tylajo.moonflower I'm the same. I don't particularly feel the need for a label though :)
I love how much you have been more open on ur channel. as the years have gone by you have changed so much and I'm loving it ❤❤❤ your amazing keep being you beautiful 😘
Yesss !!! This comment
Love these girl talks … they make us feel more connected and it’s just so awesome to be real and know that even you go through the same things as us … thanks for opening up to us girly much love ❤️
The end where you got on your feet 😭😭 AHHHH, one of my favorite videos everrr literally loved how real u were, it’s nice to see we all think and go thru a lot of the same things!💘😭 You should def make a part 2!!❤️
I just wanna applaud you for being so cool and being there for girls who have questions! When I was younger and needed advice on something with a boy, I talked to someone I thought was my friend, and she gave me advice but then she ended up telling everyone in class and she started avoiding me. She told people I was weird or coming onto her lol when I wasn't. Looking back, I know she was the weirdo lol. Talking to friends about intimate things should be normalized. I just wanna thank you for setting a healthy example!
him since I was 12. He’s super respectful and kind. He recently asked me if I was up to do “stuff.” He said whatever I’m comfortable with is ok. And if not at all that’s ok. I feel like it’s too early, I’m fifteen!!! But I am ready for that. But I don’t know how to do ANYTHING!! I don’t want people to look down on me because I’m so young. Any advice Anyone???
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What’s the place? I’d love to find out a good place to go.😁
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this feels like real sister talk omfg 😭 i love itt
This might be one of my favorite videos yet! I’ve been watching you for years and I see so much growth 😭💛 keep doing you boo!! 😘
I love the energy you give girl 🫶🏻 you definitely are a whole vibe! I love how comfortable you are and open! You definitely know what your speaking about ❤️ love watching your videos 🥰🥰
As a girl I felt so safe watching this video ♥️ I have been subscribed for years and I love the growth Melissa 💕
Can we all just appreciate the amount of effect Melissa
puts into these videos I love watching ur videos love you Melissa your my comfort UA-camr
This is actually my first time watching Melissa and i already feel comfortable 😭😭
my first time was not w my boyfriend but w someone i trusted not to make fun of my or judge me for it being my first time. we dont talk anymore for good reasons but im eternally grateful that he made me feel safe at that point and time and listened to me.
Its so weird that i got into a relationship with my bf over 2 and a half years ago not even knowing these were "expectations." He never brought a thing up to me about any of the things in this vid and he never made me feel like i needed to be rushed for anything. Tbh he never once made me feel uncomfortable with these topics. Im glad i got a good one! ~MD stay safe girlies ❤
him since I was 12. He’s super respectful and kind. He recently asked me if I was up to do “stuff.” He said whatever I’m comfortable with is ok. And if not at all that’s ok. I feel like it’s too early, I’m fifteen!!! But I am ready for that. But I don’t know how to do ANYTHING!! I don’t want people to look down on me because I’m so young. Any advice Anyone???
I wish I had videos like this from someone like you when I was younger oh my goodness, but I’m so so happy I have this now, you’re so helpful in lessening stigma and most importantly teaching so many of us really important things about our own bodys thank you so much
I was fully ready for this vid to be like all the others just mentioning a period and then talking about guys but this was real asf and I felt like I was right there talking to u. love this vid
This is the first video I’ve ever seen of yours but I love how open you are, you seem like you have such a great personality! Def subscribing ❤️❤️❤️
I love watching your videos you can be talking about nothing & I’ll still watch! keep doing you sis, I hope you’re doing swell ❤️🔥
Hahaha I LIVE for this Melissa!! More drunk 2am girl talks & q&a’s 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 HERE FOR IT! FAVE VIDEO EVER
OMG you answered my question!!!! I didn't think you would notice my question. I have been fangirling 🤗for like 30 mins lol. I appreciate the answer and I will take it into consideration !!! Thank you Melissa 💛
which question was yours? if ur okay w answering-
I love how open-minded you are with the audience. 🤩🤩💗💗💗 Definitely following you now!
hopping into this comment section super late to add: used to shave, mostly because i was really insecure about what men would think. stopped shaving (just trimming) when i got to uni and lo and behold! not a single man cares even one tiny bit. tbh not shaving has been the most liberating decision i’ve made for my s*x life so far. do what makes YOU comfortable, like she said the men do not care !! and if they do, they are not worth your time (seriously). Edit: just finished the vid and don’t worry about things like smell/taste etc. just make sure you’re drinking water/eating fruit and a healthy diet and that’s all you need! also on orgasms: most women cannot finish from penetrative s*x, so the key is head, cl*toral stimulation with their hands, and toys :) good luck all
Solid advice!
we need more of these i feel like we’re on ft and drinking together 💗💗
We definitely need more of these girl talks!!! 🤍
Girl honestly love your videos !!!!! The amount of times you make me actually laugh is insane because when I watch others “acting” I just watch like 😑 but you legit make me LOL 😂 I Appreciate your videos & your personality because I can relate a lot to you! Your video took me on an emotional rollercoaster 😂🥹🥺
We love an honest Queen🤗❤❤❤❤❤!!!!! I wish you had a podcast with just you. I love hearing you talk and you're so real I could listen to you on a range of topics all day. You feel like a bestie🤗!
You gave me alot of good advice!! Thank you so much Melissa I’m sharing this with my younger sisters 🥰💗
Megan knees 😂😂😂😂 I am dying. Lmao this video was so good! Thank you for being honest about these things esp because I’m sure so many women, including myself agree with you! We gotta be more open about this topic 🙌🏽
I have an older sister but she’s also inexperienced and we don’t talk about things like this. I don’t talk with my mom about it either. This is so so comforting to have as a resource so thank you for putting some of my fears to rest😅
Love your videos and thank you for sharing your life with us! You definitely don’t need to but I think I can speak for a lot of us when I say we feel like your besties lol you’re so real with us and it’s so refreshing! So thank you:)!
I’m 23 and I’ve never been in any relationships or had much romantic experiences. This video makes me feel more prepared for a future relationship if it happens, and people here in the comments make me feel less alone about being a late bloomer. 💖💕
Ladies if your bottom region smells “off” but you don’t have anything obvious going on like (yeast infection, STI, etc.) look into boric acid suppositories. I’m older, almost 40 haha but after having babies, a hysterectomy and being with the same partner for years and years. I didn’t understand why I couldn’t get things “under control” in that area. I thought it was just age and related to having sex with my SO but I found out that it was BV which I am sure many of us have and are already familiar with. However, we are never told about this and we are also not told u can order a cheap bottle of boric acid suppositories online and have this problem fixed PERMANENTLY. They seriously saved my self confidence and sex life. My partner didn’t go “down” on me for years bc I am sure he never knew when I would be “off” but I also wouldn’t let him bc I was so self conscious about it. Now he always wants to haha sooo if this is something ur not aware of. Look into it!!! I’m telling u it is life changing.
I have BV ! And same thing 😩 do you have a link ? ☺️
YESSS GET THAT KITTY EATEN
To all the girlies out there. Don't rush yourself into a relationship even if your ready you have to know that your really ready. You don't need to rush and get yourself into stuff you may not like. If your partner is pressuring you they are a red flag because you need to know when your ready to do stuff with your partner. You need to get to know that person very well don't go at it in the first few days. (If there is anymore you want add on please do!)
you being tipsy just made it funny while being highly informational lmao
Definitely loving how open you have become 💖 loving the girl talk thank you 💕💕
sneaking into girl talk 😈‼️
love the vibes in this vid, would love to see more of ur advice ✌🏾
Honestly love videos like this. Would love to see a video with some of your favorite hairstyles or Instagram hairstyles that you have done. ❤️❤❤
I get so excited when I get the notification of a new video from you. I just love watching your videos
Melissa you need to try laser! I used to get waxed at EWC for YEARS and I loved it, but I switched to laser & I’ll never go back. It’s about the same price and I’ve gotten amazing results. I barely grow any hair after 10 sessions & haven’t had ingrowns since the beginning sessions. My skin has never been more soft and light. Loved your video btw 💖 been watching you for years
I’m 31 and still heavily benefitted from this video as a single lady with some crazy anxiety 😂🎉
Dude I loveee these videos, it makes me feel safe tbh 😭💕
Sameeeee 😭
If a guy ignores your feelings/concerns about him watching p-rn just tell him “Okay, I guess I’ll start an OnlyFans since it’s not cheating.” And see how he responds. 😂
You’re a Queen , if he continues to watch it he does not respect you. Know your boundaries. ❤
I'm ngl, those feel different
@@bnyx1004 the point is men will understand about how the woman feels abt them watching pron
@@nalintina I don't think they will. Watching, and becoming a sex worker are different. The emotions might be the same.... jealousy. But still extreme and different.
My question is wth is wrong with a guy watching porn. I mean like... that's what it exists for 💀💀
@@bnyx1004 it is the same, just switched around.
This my first time seeing your channel and I love how blunt u are, your advice seems good and I’m gonna try it out
Love how confident you are, very encouraging (I am a lesbian so there is a language barrier so to speak but I'm still very glad that I get to hear all this info because it's good knowledge in general)
how do sexuality and language connect
No fr I was so lost💀
@@sjakeyuns bc a lot of 'terms' used in this video are more known to hetero sex and not lesbian sex
@@user-od1lu7tt3g OHHH SORRY I READ IT WRONG
It was incredibly painful for me my first time I was about to cry and almost passed out it was like that the first few times after I think it depends on the person and your partner
Please do more of these types of videos! I really enjoyed watching it ☺️
Ok SIS!! Love the maturity and tips! Also i love your nails 😍
I never grew up with a mom or older sister and you have helped me so much, thank you love you
I think this has to be my most favorite hygiene video
I’m 15 soon 16 and it’s not that I’m growing up fast or nothin, but I like knowing how to carry myself and what to expect if I do feel like I wanna do something, AND I’m watching this video because I’m very picky about my hygiene so I like knowing everything and what’s normal and what’s not and how to carry myself.
Same
i’m tipsy too watching this. i just found you from this video and i love your energy sm.
This taught me a lot and made me very comfortable, thank you
I definitely agree with going out by yourself sometimes. And stay off the phone. Doing this every now and again gives me a sense of pride. Even though I don't want to go out by myself a lot lol
Love the vid girl , so real and ur hilarious 💖
I needed that reassurance from this video so much because recently a guy ghosted me after he realized I wasn’t going to be the easy type on the first date. He dropped me off early too :( I really liked him but true colors are showing now
New subscriber! I love you so much already. First of all, you are STUNNING second of all you're like a big sister to me you know all the things i basically asked about 😂
Thank you for keeping it 💯 love you girl 💜
youre SOOO PRETTYYY omg
also great vid! ty
I love how she ended the video with a demonstration 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The queen is back with another video ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love these girl talks 😭🤍
You are so freaking pretty omg I’m in love with your lashes💗
NEW VIDEO! 🥳🌸💗
I love and enjoy watching your videos 🐝✨
I’m currently in my very first relationship and I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over a year now so sometimes I do get anxiety every now and then. Thanks Melissa! this really helped me wit a few questions I had especially riding lol ;)
I think the biggest thing to having a good first time is to communicate with your partner. Tell them if it hurts, if you want something else, or if you want to stop. If you don't communicate these things, you probably are going to have a bad time. If you don't feel comfortable communicating these things, you shouldn't be having sex. The person you have sex with should make you feel comfortable enough to have those talks, both before, during, and after.
I just found your acc and let me just say this was so helpful thank you my love you definitely gained my support
THE SHAVNG PART IS SO TRUE, I GET COMPLETELY CLEAN AND THE NEXT DAY I ALR GOT SUM GROWING
This video is great for anyone who is struggling with anxiety when it comes to dating. The relatable anecdotes and tips make it a helpful and entertaining watch.
ugh I loooove when you make these kinds of videos :)))
this was so thoughtful and I really loved it 🥰
Argan oil is really helpful with razor burn/bumps down there and under your armpits. It also help with making hair softer for shaving
This is cool I grew up with a mom who never really showed me any of these things so thank you.
Honestly this. Video. Was. It.
Love you !! ❤️😭
Thank you for answering these questions I don't even know that I need it lol is nice to know that someone else have the same problems or thoughts
I have never seen your videos before but you are so nice and I am subscribing immediately
This is first video i watched of yours and i'm already loving you sis! 🥰🤣
something embarrassing i have to admit is that when i saw the summer's eve feminine wash, it reminded me of when i used it as a body wash because nobody taught me what it was and what it's used for. especially being physically active and seeing the "Active" on the bottle omg 😭😭
Oooh girl I did the same thing 😂😭
Ur my fav UA-camr I’m so glad you posted 😎
“I’ve done it in a pool, I’ve done it in a hot tub, I feel like that’s not too crazy.”
Me: honey wHaT
“I’ve done it in a playground”
Me: * dead*
You made me feel so comfortable, thank you
girrll start a podcast! i love your talks to us :)
This girl is soo funny, interesting, and pretty!!! I love this video and her attitude!
Guys should 9 times out of 10 make the first move, but in my opinion its what makes them more attractive
If a guy has the courage to talk to a girl knowing he could get shot down, thats a W in my books
‘Don’t expect it to taste like a rainbow- it’s not fucking skittles it’s a Virgina’😂😂icon
I told my partner I was too afraid to kiss and he waited till I was ready to finally kiss him. Very sweet. Although when it comes to sexual gestures or affectionate ones, I definitely cherish the affectionate ones, I laughed incredibly with him yesterday and it's all I think of, hand on my waist and hugging me tightly, he asks me which of his gestures I liked, and I told him it's funny because it's not the sexual things that are on top, but that one about the waist. It makes me roll in my bed at night with butterflies.
Today for the first time ever i wink wink ykyk to myself 😅 and it it has been hard coming to terms with growing up and having those feelings but it is getting easier a tiny I think. It’s hard when you are in the middle of child and adult. These types of videos help me a lot, I love having open conversation about it in a world where not a lot of people do, thanks ❤
this video is such a perfect vibe
lol " You shouldn't be doing that bitch" I love Melissa and her advice!!!🤣🤣❤