Poet, please don't listen to whatever miserable soul told you nobody would want you. They are flat out wrong. You are thoughtful, intelligent, creative, attractive, curious, caring, working to make your life better (with therapy! there's no shame in therapy!), you have been incredibly smart about keeping your debts low. You are doing your best with what you have, I am amazed at how far you have come despite what I have seen you go through on this channel. You were a full-time caretaker while dealing with your own mental and physical health issues, you are grieving his loss now, you are still trying to maintain a relationship with your most accessible child (I don't know how else to label him, I hope I am not being offensive). Are you perfect? Of course not. None of us are perfect. That is what makes us interesting and challenging and absolutely human. Nobody is ever 100% healthy and stable "enough" to be in a relationship. If we had to be healthy and stable financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, to have a partner, most of us would be single. But you are OPEN. Open to love, open to a relationship, and that's all you really need to be able to find someone. All of your qualities (thoughtfulness, intelligence, creativity and everything else!) are what you have to offer anyone around you. And whoever is lucky enough to be in a relationship with you will feel so so lucky to be with someone like you. What you have to offer is on the inside and it cannot be bought or sold or learned in a university. It's sad that somebody has to inflate their self-esteem with their worldly possessions and then turn around and try to tear you down for not doing the same. Please don't let them get to you.
Poet, stop! You have so much to give to ANYONE! Time is irrelevant to meeting and loving someone. It's your life. Period. As far as families, most are fractured. It's just that most people will never, ever tell their personal truth out loud. They think it makes them look less than. Which is absolutely ridiculous. You will meet someone . Maybe this evening, maybe next year. You are in charge of Poets life. No one else. Life is short. Enjoy as much as you can. You're a beautiful, precious person. One last thing!! There are a ton of men that will understand every aspect of your situation. Believe me. They will love you unconditionally. I promise you that. ❤❤❤
Poet there's lots of men out there that would be interested in dating you. Your a genuine lovely human being with a massive heart and your an attractive Lady. Don't be too hard on yourself. You have everything to give in a relationship most of all your personality. My lady friend is 65 and im 44 and we are very happy. You'd be surprised how many younger men are attracted to older women. Maybe you could find a younger man.
Don’t let one insensitive rude person make you feel less valued as a person. None of us are perfect, including the person that made those comments. Take this year to smooth out your life and just breathe. The first year of loss and grief is very overwhelming. Take time to sort out you and your life. We never know what life will bring us in the future. Concentrate on the now. You are a good and kind individual and much valued and loved by God.
I am sorry that someone thought it was ok to tear you down. I love your honesty in your videos. Many of the things you have talked about have caused me to think & soul search regarding myself. Thanks for being so real. My name is Pam & I'm in Colorado.
I’m so sorry honey about those mean comments😢 people can be cruel. and I’m not over saying this you are extremely attractive woman and have a heart of gold. We all have family issues one way or another. it truly bothers me that someone commented to bring your self-esteem down. sometimes people are just a holes . it’s almost like adult bullying. You live your life and be happy because you deserve it😊
Poet, you are a beautiful soul. Simplicity and frugal 😊. Many men appreciate that in a woman. There are so many women that are gold diggers. Your very pretty and don’t have to cake makeup on to look like someone different. You are not high maintenance. You have a LOT to offer anyone. At our age we have had a lifetime of baggage called wisdom. The men have the baggage also but there are a lot of lonely men. Men sitting in the same spot you are. Your doing great navigating this new world. Your going to be alright. Much love to you❤
You know that old saying misery loves company well I think you just experience that that person who said those things to you is a very lonely miserable soul. You just keep on with your hopes and dreams and don’t let anybody tell you that no one would want you because the way I see you is a very confident, very forthcoming and honest and those are some of the qualities that men would want so you just keep on with the way you’re living your life and don’t pay attention to the haters
I’m sorry you are hurting. You are kind, brave and wanted! Social Media is brutal. Just having an online presence like UA-cam takes guts, I couldn’t do it. The mean comments would cause me too much pain and depress me. Possibly you could find a female roommate to share an apartment. ❤
You have so very much to offer Poet!! You are all of the things people mentioned above. Don’t allow a mean-spirited woman to shake you. You know who you are and so do we. What a loving and kind soul you are shines through always. 💕 Brenda
Hi Poet! Oh Poet, you are so beautiful and caring and kind, I definitely think any man would be thrilled to have you! You are gorgeous! All my love and hugs, and stay cool. It is supposed to feel like 109 today here in Maryland. It already is so hot and humid at 8:45 am. Love you Poet! ❤️🥰🩷 P.S. you’re also incredibly smart!
You are a strong beautiful soul Poet ,One day you will meet someone again and that’s not a bad hing ,You have a lot to offer someone .You are beautiful person inside and out your kind ,intelligent well read .and great speaker ❤your a win win and someone will be very lucky to a have a lovely lady such as you .❤
Poet, Ignore the miserable comments. Someone has to be very miserable themselves to take anyone else down. You are worthy. You are so beautiful and caring and kind and I love your accent
Please come back soon. Take no notice of other horrible people. Loss of a spouse is so so difficult. I bet one day im going to hear you say " im going on a date"
Don’t worry to much of what that person had to say. They don’t pay your bills. You do you. If you meet someone then you will be the only one who has a say so. Just because you meet someone doesn’t mean you have to move in and get married etc. you can find someone just for companionship, there’s nothing wrong with that and there is no time limit on how long you must grieve or not. I hope you blocked that person.
You should never feel like you are nothing and no one would want you. No one knows who may come our way. You're a beautiful person with a kind soul. Grief and loneliness are so hard on a broken heart. If you feel you would like to move on, I hope that someone comes along . Take care of you Poet. ❤🫂
You can always call me..I have fear ..pain of loss is just like pure fear..I now that the fear of being alone is the biggest one..the people tryed to comfort me with words that god takes good people,so I am asking my self why am i here,because I am a bad person? I struggle a lot
Oh yikes, I don’t know what whoever said, but that was very mean. Someone will want you, when someone connects with you It’s definitely not what they have or what you have that is just all stuff. It’s the connection of the soul. I don’t even know what to think And I fully understood what you meant not so much dating like we did in our 30s at a older age it’s more of a companionship shame on whoever said something negative,you do not listen to them. You have enough to offer to the right person.❤
Poet, don't let people torpedo your thoughts and ideas!! You have given so much of your life to others in various ways . So you're not perfect well. nobody is. You are kind, deep thinking sincere and capable of greatly loving someone. You will be loved for YOU not your money,status etc. If they can't see your value, that's truly sad on their part. Don't let some random Joe Blow define you or your value. Sounds like a real jerk🎉. Remember how much Sky loved and valued you...He was intelligent and kind, wasn't he? You can trust and know that he saw plenty to love you for. Others will see all the goodness in you too! Believe in yourself just as he did!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Poet, it’s your life. You do what you want to do. ❤. We are here to support you. Please , just make sure you would date someone for the right reasons. You have yourself to offer , and that’s a lot !
Poet stop talking about yourself saying that you have nothing to offer. You have yourself and anybody would be lucky to have you in their lives. Im using my Husband's phone. My name is Robyn from NZ❤
Don't say that about yourself! You are beautiful! ❤ Don't let someone have power over your thoughts like that. God created us all, not perfect, but pretty much perfect!! 😊. Never let another drag you like that, you are too good!!
Hi Poet. I am 75 years old. My 81 year old husband died 9 months ago. I have been romanced scammed and now i don't trust dating. I honestly don't remember how it happened. But with what time i have left, i must spend it with family. I don't have the time or energy to spend on another man. Im worn out!!!
One more thing!!! Get back on your dating apps!! Stop listening to negative advice!!! Why are you here? Because God isn't even close to being done with your story!!! There are wonderful, kind, precious, respectful men out there. Men that would absolutely love to be in a relationship with you. With all of the "baggage" , or paperwork as I like to call it, that comes with it. Just wait. You will see. Just stop listening to the negative crap. In the words of my precious southern father, whom was a judge and a gentleman.Tell Everyone To Go Pound Sand Up Their Asses!!!
time...time..I thought a those things...we're fairies from a fractured fairy tale...time...like yourself...so what...if we spend rest of our life that way...better than constant drama...guessing ...❤
Comments people drop to others declaring them unsuitable are very Alice In Wonderland .. but without the wit and purpose of the adventure. We'd guess that the entire planet is populated with partner / mate seekers of all ages. The poet you is a person whose interests and plain old caring is just what a decent snd humble soul would want very much in his life. So date. You are real, your future relationships are real. Comments left by the withering hopeless, are not. Regards @ GigTop
Poet, please don't listen to whatever miserable soul told you nobody would want you. They are flat out wrong. You are thoughtful, intelligent, creative, attractive, curious, caring, working to make your life better (with therapy! there's no shame in therapy!), you have been incredibly smart about keeping your debts low. You are doing your best with what you have, I am amazed at how far you have come despite what I have seen you go through on this channel. You were a full-time caretaker while dealing with your own mental and physical health issues, you are grieving his loss now, you are still trying to maintain a relationship with your most accessible child (I don't know how else to label him, I hope I am not being offensive). Are you perfect? Of course not. None of us are perfect. That is what makes us interesting and challenging and absolutely human. Nobody is ever 100% healthy and stable "enough" to be in a relationship. If we had to be healthy and stable financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, to have a partner, most of us would be single. But you are OPEN. Open to love, open to a relationship, and that's all you really need to be able to find someone. All of your qualities (thoughtfulness, intelligence, creativity and everything else!) are what you have to offer anyone around you. And whoever is lucky enough to be in a relationship with you will feel so so lucky to be with someone like you. What you have to offer is on the inside and it cannot be bought or sold or learned in a university. It's sad that somebody has to inflate their self-esteem with their worldly possessions and then turn around and try to tear you down for not doing the same. Please don't let them get to you.
Perfectly stated. I am offended by what was said and I did not read it. Thank you!
I saw the comment and it was very mean-spirited.
I agree great point!! ❤
Never ever let someone who does not even know you influence what you do. You are an amazing woman❤️
THIS!
Poet, stop! You have so much to give to ANYONE! Time is irrelevant to meeting and loving someone. It's your life. Period. As far as families, most are fractured. It's just that most people will never, ever tell their personal truth out loud. They think it makes them look less than. Which is absolutely ridiculous. You will meet someone . Maybe this evening, maybe next year. You are in charge of Poets life. No one else. Life is short. Enjoy as much as you can. You're a beautiful, precious person. One last thing!! There are a ton of men that will understand every aspect of your situation. Believe me. They will love you unconditionally. I promise you that. ❤❤❤
Poet there's lots of men out there that would be interested in dating you. Your a genuine lovely human being with a massive heart and your an attractive Lady. Don't be too hard on yourself. You have everything to give in a relationship most of all your personality. My lady friend is 65 and im 44 and we are very happy. You'd be surprised how many younger men are attracted to older women. Maybe you could find a younger man.
Don't listen to other people you will find someone
Don’t let one insensitive rude person make you feel less valued as a person. None of us are perfect, including the person that made those comments. Take this year to smooth out your life and just breathe. The first year of loss and grief is very overwhelming. Take time to sort out you and your life. We never know what life will bring us in the future. Concentrate on the now. You are a good and kind individual and much valued and loved by God.
I am sorry that someone thought it was ok to tear you down. I love your honesty in your videos. Many of the things you have talked about have caused me to think & soul search regarding myself. Thanks for being so real. My name is Pam & I'm in Colorado.
I’m so sorry honey about those mean comments😢 people can be cruel. and I’m not over saying this you are extremely attractive woman and have a heart of gold. We all have family issues one way or another. it truly bothers me that someone commented to bring your self-esteem down. sometimes people are just a holes . it’s almost like adult bullying. You live your life and be happy because you deserve it😊
Poet, you are a beautiful soul. Simplicity and frugal 😊. Many men appreciate that in a woman. There are so many women that are gold diggers. Your very pretty and don’t have to cake makeup on to look like someone different. You are not high maintenance. You have a LOT to offer anyone. At our age we have had a lifetime of baggage called wisdom. The men have the baggage also but there are a lot of lonely men. Men sitting in the same spot you are. Your doing great navigating this new world. Your going to be alright. Much love to you❤
You know that old saying misery loves company well I think you just experience that that person who said those things to you is a very lonely miserable soul. You just keep on with your hopes and dreams and don’t let anybody tell you that no one would want you because the way I see you is a very confident, very forthcoming and honest and those are some of the qualities that men would want so you just keep on with the way you’re living your life and don’t pay attention to the haters
I’m sorry you are hurting. You are kind, brave and wanted! Social Media is brutal. Just having an online presence like UA-cam takes guts, I couldn’t do it. The mean comments would cause me too much pain and depress me. Possibly you could find a female roommate to share an apartment. ❤
You have so very much to offer Poet!! You are all of the things people mentioned above.
Don’t allow a mean-spirited woman to shake you. You know who you are and so do we.
What a loving and kind soul you are shines through always. 💕 Brenda
Hi Poet! Oh Poet, you are so beautiful and caring and kind, I definitely think any man would be thrilled to have you! You are gorgeous! All my love and hugs, and stay cool. It is supposed to feel like 109 today here in Maryland. It already is so hot and humid at 8:45 am. Love you Poet! ❤️🥰🩷 P.S. you’re also incredibly smart!
You are a strong beautiful soul Poet ,One day you will meet someone again and that’s not a bad hing ,You have a lot to offer someone .You are beautiful person inside and out your kind ,intelligent well read .and great speaker ❤your a win win and someone will be very lucky to a have a lovely lady such as you .❤
I just can't forget about you...block those ugly people...block....you are here for me....i like you and relate to all your generous ways❤
What if you meet people like you met Sky? Online? You have plenty to offer Poet, you are so sweet and loving and anyone would be lucky to have you ❤️😘
Material things mean nothing, we are so much more than that. If you want to meet someone l hope you do and have a wonderful life ❤
Poet, Ignore the miserable comments. Someone has to be very miserable themselves to take anyone else down. You are worthy. You are so beautiful and caring and kind and I love your accent
Don’t let others determine what you do with your life. If a comment upsets you just delete it. Your videos are helping others🫶🏼
Hi Poet. I love your heart and words every day!
Thank you
Please come back soon. Take no notice of other horrible people. Loss of a spouse is so so difficult. I bet one day im going to hear you say " im going on a date"
Don’t worry to much of what that person had to say. They don’t pay your bills. You do you. If you meet someone then you will be the only one who has a say so. Just because you meet someone doesn’t mean you have to move in and get married etc. you can find someone just for companionship, there’s nothing wrong with that and there is no time limit on how long you must grieve or not. I hope you blocked that person.
You should never feel like you are nothing and no one would want you. No one knows who may come our way. You're a beautiful person with a kind soul. Grief and loneliness are so hard on a broken heart. If you feel you would like to move on, I hope that someone comes along . Take care of you Poet. ❤🫂
You can always call me..I have fear ..pain of loss is just like pure fear..I now that the fear of being alone is the biggest one..the people tryed to comfort me with words that god takes good people,so I am asking my self why am i here,because I am a bad person? I struggle a lot
Oh yikes, I don’t know what whoever said, but that was very mean. Someone will want you, when someone connects with you It’s definitely not what they have or what you have that is just all stuff. It’s the connection of the soul. I don’t even know what to think And I fully understood what you meant not so much dating like we did in our 30s at a older age it’s more of a companionship shame on whoever said something negative,you do not listen to them. You have enough to offer to the right person.❤
You have so much to offer. I think your a wonderful women. ❤
Poet, don't let people torpedo your thoughts and ideas!! You have given so much of your life to others in various ways . So you're not perfect well. nobody is. You are kind, deep thinking sincere and capable of greatly loving someone. You will be loved for YOU not your money,status etc. If they can't see your value, that's truly sad on their part. Don't let some random Joe Blow define you or your value. Sounds like a real jerk🎉. Remember how much Sky loved and valued you...He was intelligent and kind, wasn't he? You can trust and know that he saw plenty to love you for. Others will see all the goodness in you too! Believe in yourself just as he did!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Poet, it’s your life. You do what you want to do. ❤. We are here to support you.
Please , just make sure you would date someone for the right reasons. You have yourself to offer , and that’s a lot !
Poet stop talking about yourself saying that you have nothing to offer. You have yourself and anybody would be lucky to have you in their lives. Im using my Husband's phone. My name is Robyn from NZ❤
Don't say that about yourself! You are beautiful! ❤ Don't let someone have power over your thoughts like that. God created us all, not perfect, but pretty much perfect!! 😊. Never let another drag you like that, you are too good!!
Hi Poet. I am 75 years old. My 81 year old husband died 9 months ago. I have been romanced scammed and now i don't trust dating. I honestly don't remember how it happened. But with what time i have left, i must spend it with family. I don't have the time or energy to spend on another man. Im worn out!!!
❤I understand . I’m sorry for your loss and what’s happened . ❤
One more thing!!! Get back on your dating apps!! Stop listening to negative advice!!! Why are you here? Because God isn't even close to being done with your story!!! There are wonderful, kind, precious, respectful men out there. Men that would absolutely love to be in a relationship with you. With all of the "baggage" , or paperwork as I like to call it, that comes with it. Just wait. You will see. Just stop listening to the negative crap. In the words of my precious southern father, whom was a judge and a gentleman.Tell Everyone To Go Pound Sand Up Their Asses!!!
Please stop talking that way about you. You are a beautiful beautiful person.❤❤ please...
it's okay that you have those thoughts...you'll have lots of thoughts...you'll be okay.. on your own....you can talk to yourself...I do❤😂
time...time..I thought a those things...we're fairies from a fractured fairy tale...time...like yourself...so what...if we spend rest of our life that way...better than constant drama...guessing ...❤
😊
Comments people drop to others declaring them unsuitable are very Alice In Wonderland .. but without the wit and purpose of the adventure.
We'd guess that the entire planet is populated with partner / mate seekers of all ages. The poet you is a person whose interests and plain old caring is just what a decent snd humble soul would want very much in his life.
So date. You are real, your future relationships are real.
Comments left by the withering hopeless, are not.
Regards
@ GigTop