TikTok Streamer Still Refuses to Clean His Room
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Powenvy, a guy who has recently blown up for not cleaning his room and letting roaches invade his home. It's the internet in 2023 people, anything goes. Buckle up.
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The fact that it takes his parents kicking him out for him to even start cleaning but he STILL doesn't clean it thoroughly scares me
This sentence don't make no sense
@stupidmonkey8057 neither does yours
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@@stupidmonkey8057 neither does yours
@@stupidmonkey8057 maybe the lack of punctuation makes it a bit dense to piece together, but i'd argue he constructed it better than your sentence lol
If he can live like this, he needs to have his immune system studied since it looks like he has every disease known to man piled up in his room 💀
He has the cure for everything
@@suarez6969**distant Nurglite chanting intensifies.** Yeah, the "cure".
at least he didnt get COViD
exactly- like how can you live in a nice house but manage to make your room so.. Dirty? (I don’t know how to really explain it, honestly.)
@@suarez6969vaccine*
Having a dirty room is one thing.
Having a dirty room, coming online, and proudly showing the whole of tiktok is just a whole different level of stupid.
Anyone else assuming he got "stood up" because the girl saw these videos?
This isn't just a dirty room. He has cockroaches... It's beyond dirty.
@@BG-yz7hh that and his maturity levels
This person is living in a trash can 🗑️
My room was never this messy but it was pretty gross I’d NEVER post it online and act proud
i had a friend who lived like this. it was very sad over all. she'd been shuffled around from different family members because no one really wanted her. finally she had family that let her stay in their gorgeous home. she had a beautiful room, massive with an en suite bathroom and she completely trashed it like this. you couldn't even walk without stepping on trash. she had piles of shampoo bottles (at least 30+) because she'd get tired of one scent, toss it on the floor, buy a new one, and not pick up the old bottle. i had empathy for the mental health stuff but after awhile, it just turned into an utter lack of respect for her family that had taken her in that i couldn't abide by. she would laugh about trashing their expensive house, and make snide comments about how they should afford a maid if they didn't like it. i've dealt with things in my life too. there's been times when i also had moldy bowls of food left around because i physically could not clean them. but for me, it's a different factor entirely if you're living with others (in their home) and have pets that also are exposed to this. it goes beyond just a personal struggle. i could empathize with my friend and offer to help her pick up a few things knowing what she came from. what i couldn't empathize with was the entitlement and making it all into a joke...like she had a right to trash their home. i get the same kind of vibes with this kid. if it is a mental health issue, i can empathize with that and be compassionate. but seeing his pets in that condition and knowing this isn't his own home...it changes things.
please tell me they kicked her out...
Yeah i understand that. Like i sometime have mental health issues and just cannot clean, but being rude and making comments like that, then those people dont need your understanding.
She isn't acknowledging that her mess can affect others and are being rude about it. If her room is messy and its not bothering anyone and shes not being a jerk about it then thats fine, but not having any understanding of how it can affect others, then that is not okay and it makes sense why she would be kicked out unfortunately.
She needs help, but her being rude about it won't help her... and she cant put that on others and needs to find the help herself. Its very sad indeed and i hope one day shell find the help she needs.
@@milkyway120 actually no, she told me she was leaving one day and i get a phone call from the family frantic because they can't find her. turns out she didn't tell them she was leaving and just....left.
why u even friends with her..
Was her room as messy as your comment? Have you even heard of paragraphs?
Roaches : survive nuclear war
Roaches : die in Tiktokers room
**Diamond City Radio starts playing**
Hilarious. Well done!
The amount of bacteria he might have in his house is honestly starting to scare me.
It would be an interesting experiment to try honestly, take a swab from each wall and see what's there
@@SkinnypeoplelietooThat sh** gon be nastier than a well-used medieval dungeon 💀
Real
i bet you his room is literally is more disgusting then 9 viruses
hello
I feel terrible for his parents. Roaches are beyond difficult to get rid of past a certain point and if they are in his room they are definitely spreading through the house
I don't feel bad for his parents. They're the ones allowing him to live this way. They have given him zero expectations and standards to live by, and there's clearly no real consequences for him trashing his room like that. This is what they've raised, so this is what they get to deal with.
@@Sister_Felinity_Imaculatago cry about it ppl can live however they want
@@Sister_Felinity_Imaculatayes but at a certain age you have to take accountability for yourself. My mom didn’t raise me or my sister to clean so our room was disgusting. Since we were five. When social services came by they noted how gross our room was. We had trash bags filled with trash and just trash everywhere. But we are 18 now, and it’s on us to keep our area clean. It still gets pretty dirty sometimes, as we just weren’t raised to have a healthy cleaning routine, but it’s getting better. We see the floor vast majority of the time and dishes don’t stay in the sink for weeks now. It is his parents fault for letting him get like this, but when he became an adult he has to try to keep himself accountable.
@@Sister_Felinity_Imaculata💯
@@jamesAGarfield608 When that way of life includes filling up half your room with rotten food or trash, letting cockroaches infest your house and not even bothering to finish the meals you buy, then the idea of "people can live however they want" starts becoming less valid. Especially when this mf is living with his parents
His mom needs to ban him from eating or drinking in his room, period.
Real! That would fix a bunch of that mess in there.
Omg yeah. I bet he only spends like, 10 seconds with his family everyday.
U can eat or drink whereever u want go cry about it
@@jamesAGarfield608 not when you make such a shit of your room!
@@jamesAGarfield608in his circumstances, he should be banned
There was a period when I was deeply depressed, and my room was full of junk. It was gross, and pretty nasty. But honestly even at its worst, it never got this bad.
Agree... hygiene is tough in combination with mental health problems... But this guy just does it on purpose, or at least it feels like this...
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Watching this video now and saw this comment, finally motivated me to clean up as I watch!!
His constant smirks and smiles tell you all you need to know, he knows what he's doing and he's happy to love like this. Even if such an environment is "staged" his parents are enablers.
I mean he can't stage too much. He had multiple species of roaches in there with EGGS. That means the roaches have been in there for a while
he is old enough to take responsibility
You're asuming a lot of things while having no context whatsoever.
Now I’ve never been a fan of calling people disgusting and gross but this guy realllly makes me rethink that choice
If he wants to live like this he should be in the dumpster.
Cap
He needs to be drafted into the military. That’ll fix his issues!
The thing is, you can be a Total A**hole and make bank nowadays for being an internet Clout chaser!!!!!:/
@@brightbkh07Nah...it won't
moral: don't let your room get to the point where its the bacteria kicking you out and not your mom, IF she hasn't kicked you out already for being a straight up biohazard.
NO!!!! That kid needs DISCIPLINE!!!!! Something the family unit neglects to do!!!!!
I'd kick my kids out of they did this
I would have been thrown out if I dared to show that mess and let people know I lived like….I can’t think what!
@@sgt_slobber.7628 "kid", dude looks fcking 24, he isnt a kid, he is a functional (debatable) adult (debatable) and he should know what should be done and what shouldn't be. cleaning that room isn't even hard, maybe a few hours of taking out the trash and an extra hour to vacuum and clean and that's it
If it gets to that point you should leave anyway.
Moral for today:
Clean your room and don’t be a dumbass.
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A good tip is taking things out of your room like dishes or trash when you get up to go out of your room anyways
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom Reddit Mod: Too busy banning people for using the word "Female"
Yeah
My room is NO WHERE near this bad but I have the strongest urge to clean it right now
6:30 okay if you think it's cool that a cockroach went into your coffee you're too far gone to be helped
idk, I think that looked more like a bed bug rather than a cockroach tbh - or my eye sight is just failing me
Even as satire, he still had to make his room look that disgusting. You don't just find roaches and mold in your house by normal means. 😂
yeah, I usually discard this kind of stuff as satirical, but you don't go this far for a joke lol
There's one mold patch in my house
It appeared because of a water leak in the plumbing system
Got rid of it easily
This guy has like 15 of it in his room
Mold is in your house literally right now. Ask your nearest health department. Their is no way for us to completely rid any space of it. There's different types of mold tho some worse than others. Just letting you know...sorry in advance 😂
@@eclecticraeennobody asked 💀
This is just insane to me. Being messy is one thing, I leave stuff out and stuff doesn’t r get put away. But never food and garbage. This is a disgusting way to live and something he has complete control over
Yeah, as someone with depression, anxiety, adhd, and a very *minor* hoarding problem, seeing shit like this guy makes me feel a lot better about myself lmao.
Another thing i don't get is that, it isn't even hard to clean up that mess (aside from the smashed table and trash chair, hholy that thing should be burnt in hell). He doesn't have like blood stains or anything, just alot of trash, take out the trash and get a new carpet, maybe a few hours of work at most.
fr im autistic and get super depressed but even then my rooms not as bad as his💀💀
Hey Naoto
@@na0mi2kautism isn't an excuse to make your room messy
It’s not the horrible way he lives that bothers me, it’s how comfortable and confident he is living this that. Im genuinely disappointed in the human race right now
this is why i cant believe this is real. he cant be this comfortable
Sad part is, theres whole houses like this
Hoarders..
I've been Disappointed in humanity since a kid because of (personal reasons)😕
We use to stone women for be witches and believe kings were put in power by divine powers ... and yet this is what makes you disappointed lol it is very disappointing tho
6:25 that roach probably died from the radiation in that room 💀💀💀
Or the stench
🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵"Well I don't know, but I've been told, Uranium Ore's worth more than gold.."
I’ve never wanted to clean my house more than right now.
I am objectively a messy person. I try my best to keep my place clean, but it always ends up going to shit. I'm always feeling super ashamed of it, which makes me depressed, and leads to me cleaning it even less, as I have no incentive. This dude makes me feel a hell of a lot better about myself. Legit inspire me to clean, a few weeks back.
I can relate to you man. However I will admit that a lot of it came from overworking myself and losing all energy to take care of myself. Now I feel that I’m in a relatively better place I can focus on keeping my place clean. The depression loops needs to be broken my friend and sometimes it just takes a tiny change to make you feel the difference and really start to put yourself first overall. Wishing the best for you bro 🫶
this made me finish my laundry on my chair
This guy's house is literally a hypochondriac's biggest nightmare.
Even a non-hypochondriac's nightmare
a hypochondriac would have a fatal heart attack the moment they get 5 miles near this house
I've developed hypochondria just from watching this video
As a hypochondriac this video makes my skin crawl 🤮🤮
As someone that grew up with a hoarder parent i want to say that there are very different types of people that 'don't clean'. This guy dosen't clean because he dosen't want to. There are people that phisically or mentally can't do it alone but nobody helps them so the home ends up a giant mess. If you know someone with such a home help them instead of calling them names and ignoring them. I hope that guy and his family get help
You answered why he doesn’t clean…he doesn’t want to and is lazy. He is not disabled or a hoarder like your parent. Some
people are just not clean and tidy and they are cool with it (and may “clean” when threatened by a loved one [or hell, the law if with hoarding] or it gets so bad they can’t even stand it).
@@jennzifurand now that his mess is the reason he's getting any attention, i doubt he's gonna change
@@joseislanio8910nah he'll change once a mice gets in and that mf and bites him.
Yes this, in the case of even mild hoarder parents it is also just so hard to get the motivation, especially with mental illnesses tacked on top. Like I could spend 12+ hours cleaning everything in my room and bathroom, making everything perfect, just to step out to the rest of the house being a mess, that I can’t touch or move. And it really sucks seeing how everyone is just going after this guy when my room isn’t much better, sans the roaches and hopefully as much moldy dishes
Not an excuse. That's just mentally inferior.
Fun fact: Large roaches in your house just happen, they're everywhere and its unavoidable. Small roaches in your house means an infestation.
That's cap. If you have any roaches in your house, that's a problem. Don't try to justify the fact that YOU have large roaches, so you try to pass it off as normal. Call an exterminator and get off UA-cam 😂
@@Rude_Boi if you’re too dumb to do a simple google search that’s on you
large roaches create little roaches
The original poster is correct. The large ones are called American roaches and live mostly outdoors (here in FL it's not common for people to have basements so they get in through drains). One getting in your bathroom every few months is common. The smaller ones are called German roaches and if you get them, it's an infestation from being dirty. It's thoroughly disgusting to see any roach in your living space. Since moving here I've become OCD about my space being meticulous, and I still find a few a year in my shower. Can't wait to move back up north
We have plenty of American roaches here in Arizona as well. Our monsoon season brings them out of hiding and they seek shelter inside our houses. I am not a fan. @@karaw1430
The way he subjects the people living there to these conditions, it tells me a lot about his character and the people who raised him.
He is surprised he was stood up by a girl. I wouldn't get near him for money. Yuck.
My Mom is a maid and there was an unspoken rule. My room could have as much clothes, cardboard etc on the floors and tables. But, as long as it's not trash or food it's fine.
Because some mess is different hazards. That being said HOLY FUUUUCK. This mans room is a biohazard!
Edit: I live in the "storage room." 3 metal shelves with bins and my moms dressers. So it's INCREDIBLY EASY for my room to look messy with just todays laundry on the floor
It's genuinely impressive he's still alive in "good" health. I'm 99% sure that all this mold is deadly
I think Maybe not deadly but he could probably get very sick from the long exposure
@@screech2730 considering he brushes his teeth and showers once a week with dead roaches/mold everywhere, it's amazing he is still alive and not in the hospital.
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1:31 - You have my deepest thanks for warning me.
7:33 "look how hair my good looks😏"?
"yeah tbh my good looks hair"
My living spaces were never this bad because my parents actually raised me to keep clean, but if my room did get too untidy or messy for their liking I always got the same ultimatum.
"You clean it, or we're cleaning it with a garbage bag."
Even if you fail to appeal to someone's higher morality or social pressures that is an ultimatum that goes right for the material goods and it is quite effective.
My parents did that as well. However I've always had issues with prioritization and organization. Due to a number of personal things I won't share but I still manage to handle it because they taught me other ways of dealing with it so that I could be cleanly. It's possible to do. Doesn't have to be perfect just needs to be safe and healthy cleanliness. You could be disorganized and clean at the same time.
This person seems to choose to do this but I don't know why. Obviously I don't know him personally. But I think it has to do with something relating to either attention or something else. But it seemed he wasn't taught a lot of these skills and then at an older age he was told to keep clean but doesn't realize. But he also knows to start with trash and dishes clearly so I don't know what's up with him honestly
Like if I can improve my habits so can he.
@@Its_Asteria I have a habit of putting things in a pile. Like recyclable trash one pile each, dirty clothes - one pile, school stuff - one pile.
The important things like keys have their spots and they are always there regardless of how drunk I was when I came home. When I'm home the key for the house door can either be in one specific comparment of my backpack or in a specific bowl with 2-3 other keys.
It may look like a chaos, but when I need to look for things, I just need to think about in which pile it belongs and there it is!
@@Its_Asteriamy room is a garbage XD, but I always make sure I don't have plates and rotten food in my room, and sometimes, I'm very awake and I actually clean my room.
I'm not surprised I cleaned for a woman whose son was a "streamer." Twice a week, and every time, it looked like a bomb hit. Food, trash, dirty clothes wherever he felt like dropping it. Wrappers stuffed in couch cushions. I'd fill a trash bag every time note 2 times a week. Bathing might happen once a week, and sometimes, you could tell wet wipes and nothing else for weeks, though he did change clothes every day. The smell......not for the faint of heart. No amount of Febreeze is going to solve that.
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My ex-husband was bad. It's amazing how fast these types of people make messes!
This is actually making me want to deep clean.. My room, myself, my family, hell the whole house.
😂😂😂
7:33 "Look how HAIR my GOOD looks."
I was wondering if anyone would mention that
2:53 😂"This is what killed the dinosaurs" 🤣
The tiny microorganisms got obliterated
"My parents saw one of my videos because a family member saw it and now they wanna kick me out of the house" The fact that you live with your parents and they seem to have no idea of the state of your room is absolutely insane 😳
And they let him keep his toaster oven after seeing this =-= They are going to have to call someone to clean it... and never let food be there again. But the REAL question is... how bad is the house that they don't notice the roaches?
no august you don’t get it. he’s not wasting food, he’s giving it to the bugs. they live there too :)
He's so kind :)
too kind and humble.
I would've kicked him out years ago.
@@bhumibolrushing7830I would've evicted his fetus.
A good host ❤
Child Protective Services couldn’t save this kid from me if he was my son! Picking a roach off your toothbrush and proceeding to brush your teeth with said toothbrush is horrifying!
I have executive dysfunction, adhd, and depression thus I have difficulty cleaning my room. I am watching this video in order to gain motivation to clean my room. And I have realized that my room looks like the after stage of a cleaning ad compared to his room
I have been, unironically saying, we need to bring back shaming people. Doing away with it was the downfall of our society. People need to feel shame again.
One thing I really appreciate about August is him pre-warning us to not eat/finish food quickly when the video is about gross things. As someone whose food comes back up really easily when I see gross stuff, the warning has saved me several meals.
I have two thoughts about this. 1. He says his parents are threatening to evict, implying he lives with them, but a relative saw his tiktoks and informed them about his room- how the fuck could this be going on under someones roof WITHOUT their knowledge? There's no way it doesn't stink to high heaven and the roaches can't just be confined to his room.
2. I know the "i'm tired" after five minutes of cleaning is likely just a bit or sheer laziness, but I also wouldn't really be shocked if he's genuinely serious about feeling tired and is actually suffering severe mold exposure symptoms.
That’s actually an excellent point about the mold. if he’s not just being a lazy POS I bet you’re totally right
Also I wondered the same thing about how his parents don’t know wtf is happening in their own home
I can kinda understand how his parents wouldn't know, all of our rooms are upstairs but my moms is downstairs so she never comes upstairs plus we're all 16+ so she just expects us to do our part, maybe it was the same for him??
These were my first thoughts.
He might also be exhausted more easily if he isnt eating much. There's a ton of food with a bite or two missing and that's not going to get you through heavy duty cleaning.
I mean if his parents own the place he lives or are paying his rent but live elsewhere, they could definitely not know. But yeah, maybe check up on your adult children every so often, especially if they live on your property.
i’m mentally ill and i often have trouble keeping myself and my surroundings clean, but this is just another level. i sympathise with him of course, but as you said, it feels like his parents are enabling this. if he lived alone the story would be very different :/
Yeah...and......no.
@@MiyakoPisces4.0 ?
Sympathizing with him just enables this behavior..he deserves to be kicked out.
Yeah but... you don't stream it on tiktok as healthy normal and something you are proud of. =-= I hope
@@bhumibolrushing7830 So he can die in the streets? He doesn't need to be kicked out, he needs mental help and intervention, because he is obviously depressed and/or mentally unwell.
Life changing tip: don't watch this while eating in the dark not speaking from personal experience
@ 10:43 there is a security camera on the wall in his room? Creepy.
Pray for August's mental health, the stuffs he watches for us
"because my mom made me"
imagine the nerve of a parent expecting their child to clean their room. What is this world coming to?
You really shouldn't watch 1 extreme case video on UA-cam and go "WhAt'S tHe WoRlD ComInG tO?" That's just plain ignorant. Don't let one video dictate your seemingly simple perspective, by all means. 🤔
@@kipechawolfeortiz8791 maybe YOU should learn not to be so literal
A HUGE GOD DAMN R/WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH@@kipechawolfeortiz8791
@@kipechawolfeortiz8791 That joke flew over your head 💀
@@mali-catThat wasn’t a joke lol
Nope. Absolutely tf not! No way in hell would I allow my home to get like that and ESPECIALLY wouldn't tolerate my own children doing this under my roof! I am consistently cleaning and organizing throughout the day to ensure everything stays sanitary and well-kept. If you stay on top of it, it isn't so hard to do. You just pickup after yourself immediately and do smaller chores throughout the day so they don't turn into huge messes to be cleaned.
Same! I am doing the same thing when I have future children one day!
Not to mention he's talking to roaches like they're his friends.
That roach finally got to see his family again 7:00
10:00 bro’s probably got covid 20, 21, 22, and 23 hidden in his enchiladas 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
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COVID didn't actually start in China, it was from Chinese take out left in this guy's room for a few years.
This is disgusting. Idk who would ever sleep with a guy who literally admits he doesn't shower and who lives like this. Not only that but who would ever want to go hang out with someone in a room that looks like this and literally talks about his roach infestation like they're FRIENDS? But also what parents allowed it to get this bad? I shudder to think about what other smells and scenes are in this place. The kicker is that he's not even ashamed to show this to people on the internet, like how do you NOT see a problem with this?!
He needs the Lord
@TypeAPositive Your lord isn't gonna do shit, he needs therapy
He knows he's insufferable and is using it to his advantage. I refuse to comment on anything he makes.
Around the point in my life where I was so depressed that I attempted suicide, my room had ants and looked fairly similar to his room. But the difference between my situation and his is that it looks like he might have a support system nearby, has not only people noticing his behavior but is also showing off his behavior online and laughing about it, and is absolutely not afraid about people knowing about it. But I wonder if he jokes about it to cope with feeling unfit or overwhelmed to clean his room.
There is laziness, and then there is mental illness. Once the bugs and the mold comes into play, that's usually when lazy people start to clean their environment. I believe there's something wrong with him mentally and he might be doing these videos as a weird coping mechanism. Either way, I hope he gets some sort of help. A mentally well person doesn't live with cockroaches happily.
To talk about my personal experience, I often had ants due to not throwing away sugary foods, mold grew rapidly in the bathroom and food in my bedroom. My garbage can became full, so I turned to the floor. I typically tried to get rid of ants when I saw them, but didn't bother to properly toss my food that I knew would bring them in the first place beforehand. I wore weeks old dirty laundry because I was too depressed to wash. I kept my appearence up just enough to have people not suspect my mental illness- which obviously didn't work too well.
But I did try to hide this from my family and roommates. I always kept my door closed, everybody out, and when people made surprise visits I would throw all of my trash into the closet. If my hair was too itchy and greasy, I would do a quick shampoo. If I stunk to high heavens, I did an underarm wash and a lot of deodorant. I wore crusty socks. It was disgusting.
So because of my personal experience, I do have to wonder if he has depression or another mental disorder, but what I can't wrap my head around is why he would share this.
I'm sorry that you went through that dude. You're strong for going through it and I'm proud of you, even if you don't know me I want you to know that. My room isn't as bad as that but it has cups, plates (because my mother usually brings the cat food in there), and sometimes bowls, while there's clothes scattered around, my bed is messy and is laced with dirt and hair from my dog, trash on my drawers, shoved random toys from my sister's into my closet, etc.
and my mother has used the word 'hoarder' to describe me. I don't take showers often (every 1-2 weeks), and I don't usually put on deodorant which isn't very good if I want to smell good, but I'm wearing my jacket daily in school so my friends don't notice. But that isn't fit for someone my age (almost twelve years old.) And I feel really ashamed of myself that I can't even take care of myself from being so unmotivated and mentally unwell (without any help).
Thank you just for reading this stuff, it's not your problem but I felt like I needed to get this off my chest. Thanks again stranger. :)
I am sorry you went through that, it's tough and hard to admit, thanks for sharing. I have a friend who has been the same for a few years due to mental health. I've given help where I can and been as understanding as I can but I don't know how to help honestly or if I'm doing enough just being there and being non judgemental. I think I'm one of the only people they trust to reveal that struggle to. They have been kicked out of house shares though, and is very ashamed and upset about it but can't seem to get out of it. When I see them I body double or do the jobs they can't face to make it a little better. If you don't mind, do you have any advice from a perspective of someone who has been there before? What would have been a godsend to you at the time?
@@SoulxSpectre edit: For some reason I didn't check the pronouns and I thought you use "he" on your friend- sorry if they use different ones.
You sound like an incredible friend. It's unfortunate to say this, but you're already putting in all you can to help him. Being there by his side, letting him vent, being nonjudgemental and letting him know you're there for him if he needs you is for the most part all a single person can do to help another person with depression. There isn't typically one "godsend" that can save a person- even winning a billion dollar lottery is no promise that a person will no longer be depressed.
Usually when a person is depressed to that point, it's because they see no reason to keep clean, and don't have the energy to do so. Keeping clean comes as a cycle of repetition for caring for themselves, which someone with depression will struggle doing. Why bother with the mold and the smell, if you don't have the energy to wake up in the morning, and don't care about anything anymore?
Also, I will say, with this level of depression, it's common for a person to have suicidal thoughts (I'm not sure if your friend does). And I'll estimate that 95% of the time, it's not that the person doesn't want to live per se, it's that they don't want to live like that, and have nothing they see as something that justifies living through depression/stress/pain. This can come from hating their current life and situation, hating society, and/or hating their past.
My only recommendation is to keep your friend close, let him know you care for him deeply, encourage him in anything he chooses to do that will help him grow, and keep an optimistic attitude around him. Already it sounds like you're a great support system and a great person.
Depression will never disappear entirely, but the symptoms will slowly and steadily decrease with love and care.
@@SoulxSpectre I can give you a list of a couple things you can do to help him additionally if you're not doing these already:
1.) Hang out with him, probably at least once a week. Encourage him to leave his room, to step out and enjoy the outdoors and the public. This one is especially helpful if he doesn't have much of a social life, or a routine.
2.) Surprise him with little gifts, doesn't have to be huge or expensive, but the more thought, the better. I sobbed from happiness when my friend gave me a handmade card.
3.) If he struggles with cleaning, encourage him to care for himself. If he's comfortable with it, get him a trash can, some cleaning supplies. Make it consume as little energy as possible to care for himself, and to be able to get going to take care of his hygiene on his own.
4.) I find that routine is a great way to help someone with depression this severe. Have a schedule where he cleans his laundry every Thursday, dusts every Tuesday, etc., and make sure he doesn't feel ashamed if he wasn't able to clean that day. Someone with only 40% energy that day putting in 40% is them giving their 100%.
That is the most disgusting place to live. Imagine him getting his own house!
It’s bad enough that you have to live like that but it’s a _whole lot worse_ when you have to show it off online and act like people would enjoy it. I can already tell this dude is gonna have a disastrous future ahead of him.
His college professors and future employers need to see his social media as a case study.
The fact that hes 18ish and has to regulate what he eats due to his oral health should be a huge alarm for him.
He was most likely joking about that. He's wearing braces, which if his teeth are really that brittle, then a soft breakfast sandwich should not apply as much resistance to his teeth than those. He's being absurd on purpose. :P
yeah you didnt see any empty glasses of milk in there did you
@@rihndou The crust of Ciabatta rolls are pretty hard and crunchy if you tend to get it toasted, then let it cool, since that was a Starbucks sandwich and they do ask if you want to toast it. I bet he accepted it getting toasted indirectly by not really going down there and ordering his own dang sandwich untoasted (mommy bought and paid for it). There's also other sandwiches like the foccacia one that would have been perfectly fine for him to eat crust of breadwise toasted, meaning soft and hot/warm.
I'm wondering if his orthodontist told him to avoid hard crust breads (yes even if the inside is soft) or foods that are heavily toasted while wearing his braces. I also wonder how well he brushes his teeth.
@@rihndouhis braces are pretty elaborate-looking, and as someone who wore braces, man they hurt. They really bloody hurt and your teeth feel like glass shards whenever the tightness is adjusted, but I have 0 regrets
I’d be SICK if I ever had to live in a room like that. I’m extremely picky about my living space being clean, and seeing food left out for a long time and seeing it decompose is a massive trigger for me and I will gag a LOT. The mere thought of it makes me sick as well. I have the misfortune of having one of my 3 roommates be very messy and it’s driving me mad. At least I give my place a good clean every now and then and it’s only temporary (and I have a room all to myself)
reminds me of my friend erik, on about every level. even the rats. erik was deeply mentally unwell, the lack of cleanliness was a symptom, and he is no longer with us, so seeing shit like this is always a bit alarming!
To add to the wasting food part it’s clear he has some stress related eating disorder and that’s making him have low energy. Not anorexia but definitely under eating. I’ve gone through something similar in my kid and teen years though not to this extent. Living on my own is what made me realize this about myself. He probably doesn’t know that he’s under eating since he thinks he’s full, not realizing that his body stopped being hungry at that moment in a shallow type of way. That’s what I’ve experienced so yeah. He’s definitely got it way worse. His parents instead of kicking him out shouldn’t allow him to eat meals in his room anymore instead making him eat downstairs. That would not only cut down the clutter and give him enough nutrients to the point where he can actually see his situation somewhat for what it is and improve himself.
“if you ever feel bad about your room being dirty, don’t. there’s a tiktoker that infested a cockroach’s house.”
- Layze
I just learned the difference between untidy, messy, disorganised, and hoarded.
A room is untidy when a general organization system is in place but not used
A room is messy when there is no organisational system.
A room is disorganised when the organisational system is misused.
But those first three are not inherently bad. As people view things differently,
For example my system may appear disorganised but it is actually just structured in a strange way. But that system makes sense to me.
A room is hoarded when there is food rotting.
This room is hoarded. He has never gotten rid of a single thing.
How many people are eating in their room? To me that seems like a recipe for disaster.
As someone who struggled with heavy depression resulting in very bad living conditions this hurts to watch because he'd easily be able to fix this. I wasn't.
Idc how depressed you think you are...if you live like this you deserve to be on the street
@@bhumibolrushing7830 no one, I repeat, not a single soul struggling with depression deserves to live on the streets.
Depression is not a matter of higher level, conscious thinking. It originates deep in your psyche, and most treatments are highly ineffective. So you saying "idc how depressed you THINK you are..." is not the way to approach depression.
Because it's not a thinking disorder.
It begins in the limbic system.
It is a mood disorder.
Not even this young man deserves to be unhoused. He needs a support worker, because he is clearly autistic and needs someone compassionate yet firm to straighten and help him out.
@@bhumibolrushing7830i was at the same point
If you dont want live, you dont care about how dirty your room is.
People should not be shamed for it. No, they should get help from others and start little by little.
Please show compassion to others!❤
I am glad that you are better now😊
@@bhumibolrushing7830 wow my friend, you have no idea what you're talking about and yet so many problematic words came out. It wasn't as bad as that but I won't go into details but if you think depressed people that aren't capable to look after themselves (and yet pay rent btw) are supposed to live on the street you are a lost soul
I have a huge problem with cleaning, which results in a very messy room. At the very least, im capable of acknowledging that it's an issue and not something to be proud of. That said, I might need to clean when im off work sometime soon.
As long as there are no roaches in there then it's fine ig
@@HuffyPupnah fam. Be a responsible adult and take care of the things you don't want to do first.
Cap
I'm the same.... If I saw a roach I'd clean it immediately. It's mostly clutter for me, the chaos adds up and I just can't keep up with it.
I do too, honestly when I get in a bad spot but I did a deep clean and feel so much better you can do it!
The people shaming him definitely only add fuel to the fire, ive been in a place like this, the more hate i recieved, the more energyless and depressed i became. Depression is a huge reason why living spaces can be like this
Not all depression cases are alike, and he looks really proud and comfortable with the filth :(
@@MrsStormtrooper that happened to me too. Eventually I just embraced my own garbage pile.
It seems like he’s doing this on purpose because he keeps posting about it so…. I really don’t think that’s it, in his case. It not that hard to pick up some chip bags or something you brought up to eat and take them to a garbage can….
I thought I could power through eating and watching this. Just got to 5:59 yeah. Nope. Bye. I’ll be back later 😅😂
This man's so room is toxic that it is almost uninhabitable by cockroaches.
You hit the nail on the head about why he doesnt plug his Twitch anymore. He admits in a stream from 4 days ago that the reason he doesn't stream as much anymore is because of the money he makes from his 'short form content' i.e. TikTok.
I like how he just says these things need to be “taken down” as if he’s just going to leave it on the counter for momma bear to deal with.
The fact that i got an old spice bodywash ad before this video says alot about the topic of this video
I’ve been going through some tough stuff mentally, and my room is definitely not in the best condition, but this is a whole other level
1:38 “It’s about to get bad”
Oh how I wish I could headed this warning. I was eating and watching this while on break at work
I have spotted several human safety violations in this guy's house.
1.: That knife on the floor needs to go into the sink.
2.: Those roaches need pest control called on them.
3.: Do not feed the roaches your food.
4.: That bathtub needs cleaned because it has mold growing on it.
5.: His whole house needs cleaned.
6.: He should probably bathe more than once a week.
7.: Don't leave several pop bottles in your room.
8.: Don't wait until your parents threaten to evict you from their house to clean your room.
9.: That food needs thrown away. It's not safe to eat.
10.: I couldn't live in this house.
Only 10?
I'm assuming you're still on the video's intro. :)
@@rollanddevUA-cam comments don't lend themselves particularly well to 5000 word essays, so I think the 10 points are acceptable for the sake of abbreviation 😂
And those poor pet rats! They can't live in that environment, surely
Don't forget the dirt on his upper lip
I couldn't live in that house? Try to imagine it for the parents or the animals.
I can't imagine living like this. I thought my room was 'messy' but man how is this physically possible. AND WHY IS HE HAPPY WITH SHOWING THE WORLD THIS
Where is the embarrassment?
Someone needs to call the HazMat team. There is no way that this place is not Radioactive by this point.
My room doesn't look nearly as bad as this dude's, but this video still got me to clean my room. Thanks for that. lol
If I had my own house, I surely would NEVER... I repeat NEVER invite this man over to my house
I was a messy teenager because I grew up with a full-time housekeeper. After she left I had to figure it out on my own and it wasn't easy. My son ended up being as messy as me as a teen because I did everything for him. (Fyi: we never had bugs) He has since learned to clean but still asks me to do stupid little things he can do for himself when I'm around him. I'm guessing this guy either had a Mom who did everything for him or a maid.
He’s currently living with his parents, they don’t do shit. Idk what’s wrong with him but the enabling is coming from neglect, not overcompensation
As someone who was born and raised in NYC I have serious issues with roaches. I cannot fathom how he can live like that 😢
The thing is if you take out your trash and don't let food stay out this doesn't happen. You can have a cluttered room, a messy room even, without making it a health hazard
I was thinking the exact same thing. He just needs to pick up his trash and not leave food in his room. His room is bad don't get me wrong but it is easily fixable. I really don't get his problem.
This is mental illness. I have a cousin like this and my little brother was like this for a long time. I used to hate going in his room. When I say omg. Both of them. I visited my cousin in 2000 in Va, when I went to stay with her, her room was appalling. I actually got her to clean it up. My brother was very different. He got better over time and now isn't like this anymore.
I genuinely hope this man gets help. This is usually caused by trauma/mental ilness and i hope he can get help
My thoughts exactly. If someone lives like this, they definitely have mental health struggles
This, it’s essentially showing the ugly side to mental illness, it’s not uncommon. Most people who struggle with it don’t publish it so it seems rare.
A mix of mental illness and also clout chasing.
8:06 That's black mold; if I remember correctly, that stuff's LETHAL. I hope his parents act soon.....
Hold tf up, mold can turn lethal if black? How do you die from it?
This worries me. Every time I see this guy I want to clean my room
Minus the roaches because I had ants, my room used to be like this when I was 11-15. The only difference was, my mother would clean it despite me asking her for me to clean it myself. She would berate and insult me the entire time while throwing away the things I should’ve still had. She didn’t care, she was just angry. I was depressed and had horrible difficulties letting ANYTHING go. We figured out when I started not cleaning my room and it was when my grandmother died. I was and always will be very close to her. On top of that, my home life became more and more abusive and broken. My room became a depression nest. I had to carve a path through the junk covered floor to get to my junk covered bed if I wanted to sleep. What really helped my room and mental state was getting a kitten. Something to love, care for, and raise. I needed to be cleaner for both of our sakes. I’m now 24 and my fur baby is 7 1/2. I’m married, have my own apartment, I’m going to graduate college soon, and I’m getting even healthier. So, I can’t judge this guy. He may have his own thing going on that we can’t comprehend. He needs support and guidance, without us giving him the cheat sheet (referring to my mother cleaning my room). P.S. my apartment is clean and any mess that is made is never judge by my husband. He just helps me instead of doing it for me like my mother did ❤
I had a friend who's room was like this. I never berated her over it but had that kind of shock response where you just laugh. I was 14 when I saw her room the first time. A couple years later I sort of figured it wasn't normal and it wasn't funny either so I used to try and help her clean but she would get very upset. Like receded into herself and wouldn't want to talk to me. We were so close I was with her every other day for years. I got her to a point where she would let me clean the garbage and more gross stuff and I would make piles of her stuff organized by whatever it was and she would put the stuff away. So for a while it was pretty clean and I didn't mind helping her like that. Then she got into a relationship with this girl who would yell at her and throw her stuff away whenever I wasn't around and my friend let things go. She got so much worse and started doing stuff she would never do before like ignoring the litter box. The weirdest part was all our other friends ignored it and acted like it was fine. There was broken glass all over her floor one time and they sat down on it. Like it wasn't a problem. But their houses didn't look like that, it was like they just pretended and then would talk about how she was living behind her back. IDK why everyone from her own family to her friends and relationships would refuse to offer help. She never got better and only got worse, eventually got into drugs. I always think if people supported her instead of enabling or shaming things could have ended different.
Same, but I still hoard my stuff because fucj this jew minimalism shit
I dated a guy like this in high school everytime i walked into his room I ended up cleaning it, and he got so mad I did, said I was making him look bad infront of his mom, he ended up dumping me because I kept his room clean apparently that made me controlling.
All this man eats is salt water, sugar water, saltines, and takeout.
8:22 I'm pretty sure that black stuff in the corner of your shower is called mold, knowing you
He picked up 4 things and thought his room was clean? I would've received such a hiding if my room was a third that gross.
bro prob has 100 roaches tickling his feet
Ill admit, i have issues cleaning my room sometimes due to a lack of motivation(i dont know if its the adhd talking or if i should go to a psychologist for depression) and, y'know what? Thanks August, you showing this guy off is giving me some fear-driven motivation to clean so i dont end up like that guy. I shall check this vid every time i feel drained for too long.
August's rant about the "coffee" stain had me in TEARS.
bro now I'm scared that even missing one day of cleaning my room will result in a big mess
This guy needs to get a life
I support his mission to aid the evolution of new better molds by providing them a safe space
im saving this for when i don't feel like cleaning my room
my room regularly gets worse than this due to severe depression. i physically cannot clean my room half the time.. however this? this is not depression. this is someone who wants attention.
I have a similar issue. Not to this extent but I'm mostly disorganized and such but old food and roaches? Fuck no. I may be disorganized and struggle to clean but I do clean, to prevent things like that from happening.
My main issue is disorganization and prioritization. But ive made improvements.
I really hope he makes those improvements so he can be healthy. Especially since he also seems to have pets, he should do better for those rats I BEG
@@Its_Asteria, mine is mostly clothes and trash, but im also a hoarder. specifically a food hoarder. so i have a lot of food just in my room for a multitude of reasons.. im getting better but i still have issues with it. my room has currently been sorta clean (not bad, just not perfect) for around 3-4 months now.. but those poor rats. i used to have rats, during the height of my room being in the absolute worst state and i got rid of them/gave them to a friend because they deserved better. rattie kisses to you !!
yeah I'm the same, but that FBI couldn't get that ish out of me.
I don't have it this bad but sometimes I am an absolute mess because of depression and it shows. I warn people that my house is a mess and crusty because I want any of my friends who come over to not have very high expectations. Both me and my dad aren't always the cleanest, especially ever since my mom died. I would never advertise it though and my house isn't even this bad, we don't have roaches and most garbage is contained in plastic bags at the very least, especially food items. This guy just found out he can get fame out of the shock value from it though. I can't understand wanting to show the internet that.
Yeah, same here- especially recently. All I can manage to do is sleep lately and my room is pretty gross… Seeing this guy just makes me feel bad for not cleaning 😅
This guy is literally so good at baiting, he has like every commentary youtuber talking about him,
I mean keeping stuff clean can be difficult, but this is another level.
My cleaning tip to anyone thinking about it put a trashcan next to wherever you spend the most time and next to where you eat then take it out regularly. More about maintaining than getting it initially clean helps a lot
Collective shaming wont work. We are a society now where somebody giving constructive criticm is a troll and someone trying to teach you is attacking you personally. Theres no hope.
He will be untouched at 50 years of age. Unless he pays for this. At first I thought this was a really bad photo but no, he really looks like that.
It's so icky all the roaches n stuff is just insane that someone could ever live like that