Facing It Together: The Male Survivors of Domestic Abuse | Loose Men
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- Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
- Earlier this year Loose Women launched a groundbreaking domestic abuse campaign called 'Facing It Together'. As well as shining a light on the stories of female survivors, male charities told us they’d had an 80% increase in calls to their helplines directly after our campaign launch. And with one in seven men experiencing abuse in their lifetime, it's important that Loose Men is involved. Vernon recently sat down with two survivors whose lives were made hell by the women they were married to, to find out how they were able to move on.
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From series 27, broadcast on 17/05/2024
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Please make Loose Men a regular show...it would be so helpful to men these days.
There desperately needs to be none toxic programmes like this dedicated for men. It might help to quiet the destructive forces online like the Manosphere.
Yess he’s deffo needed🙏🏾
Get a grip!
Sad but necessary 😢
I think loose men should be on a lot more often, also the subject of male abuse should be highlighted a.lot more it’s more common than we realise.
it’s deffo not very common at all and it’s hard to take male victims seriously when not a single man takes female victims seriously
Whole heartily agree that “Loose Men” should be a show!
As a victim of male domestic abuse I had no idea just how many men are being abused by their partners. Sadly men don’t report it 😔
A permanent Loose Men show would be so helpful to all men. Men don't talk about these types of topics between themselves. They don't get emotional with each other. They are more likely to go out with friends to joke and talk about sport. Women talk to each other in a much more emotional and personal way. There is so much shame attached to all domestic abuse.
This is simply not true. My male friends have always shared their feelings, and we have talked at great length about my experience of domestic abuse.
In my experience it is a popular misconception that all women talk to each other or even most. Think this stems from the one sided men are meant to be stronger therefore, thry don't talk. That's not true either. Some women and men talk and some really don't.
@@Ps-tc9ko It's an opinion couched in sexism towards men, and it needs to stop.
There was actually a male version of The View in the States, but it didn't do well despite positive reviews.
I'm so glad people are starting to talk about this. It's about time women who behave disgracefully are held accountable and also for the Men who are victims of disgusting women to get the same support a female victim would get. 👏
As a survivor of domestic abuse for 10 years I can sympathise with these guys! I was in a gay relationship for 10 years and the abuse started straight off the bat! Why didn’t I leave? God only knows, I just wanted to be loved I guess.. at any costs! I’m very happily single now!
Sending you a hug. You didn't deserve that.
Respect to you. The toughest thing to do is self reflect and understand why. The next relationship you have will be how it should be. Take care 💪
@@LoneRangerG5 that’s very kind but I’m single and I plan to be a normal gay and stay that way lol
I agree, that there should be a permanent Loose Men programme. I’m also a survivor of domestic abuse, from my parent’s relationship and marriage of 4yrs, had a very difficult and painful divorce/custody/visitation, with 22yrs of separation from a malignant narcissistic mother, whom I haven’t seen for 17+ years no contact whatsoever. We are only now going through the financial settlement process, which she is also making difficult.
It is so so upsetting, I think sometimes people feel ashamed to bring up this subject 😢
I know I was.
We really need to see more of Loose Men we are all human beings and this is only got to help in relationships in general. Good work Vernon good work. Vernon.
I can relate to these men my son was in a 16 year relationship with his partner I only see some of it not all she was so abusive it bothered me but now they are apart he seems happier now he walked away as enough was enough she moved away this was 3years ago
I was in a domestic abuse relationship for 7 years and for me looking back it wasnt the violence or the name calling...it was the negative and suffocating atmosphere and the environment that really broke me down. The walking on egg shells and the isolation. The relationship ended 6 years ago now but the scars, void inside and my now lack of confidence, self worth and self esteem will always be with me like a internal dark cloud i cant shake off.
Remember Joey (Friends) with Katie (?) She ridiculed him, "what little me?" while punching him "playfully" on the arm and chest. He ended up padding himself with six jumpers! Though it was dealt with in a comic way it really got the point across, that men also have the right to have their noes taken seriously, it's not something to joke about.
Make loose men into a tv show itv.
Please don’t!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Get rid of vernon
It happened in the States. It flopped.
This is awful! What horrible evil women doing this to men who think they are loved... It's just awful. Men out there who recognise this, PLEASE reach out to anyone you can. I would travel the world to rescue my son, I can't imagine this feeling ever goes away.
Loose men should be a regular. Men need to know they are not alone either ❤️ edit: I’m reading the comments and my heart breaks, I’m sorry for those who have been through this. As someone who has gone through a form of domestic abuse I understand how hard it is ❤️
I rather watch loose men then loose women
Ooooh
Really important topic to be discussed more, well done to the men here for speaking out about what they went through
Nice to see, men seems to get forgotten way too much these days 👍
As a woman i want to see loose men!
Thank you for shedding light on this issue.
This is a brilliant segment
You should show this to the loose women and teach them to treat men the same as they do women… evident in the reaction of the guy from baby reindeer. They said ‘he encouraged it’ when a man is the victim but made a sad video and campaign when a woman was the victim.. crazy the difference in reaction. No mention of the increase of male victims coming forward from baby reindeer either…
Richard himself said he indulged in it and egged it on a bit because he liked the attention. All you have to do is watch with an open mine and you’ll see that.
Loose men is needed 👏
A friend 30 years ago and a boxing champion would be abused by his wife. She would use physical and verbal abuse and threaten him that he would never see the kids. After 5 years he finally walked away.
2:08 - I’m shocked that someone of Vernon’s experience was saying ‘incomprehendible’ when there is no such word. It’s incomprehensible.
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Thank you, loose women, for shedding light on this issue. All victims of DV deserve help and support regardless of gender.
Maybe next, you could do one about LGBT victims.
This sounds all well and good but it’s not just the part about speaking up - over 18 months ago my emotionally abusive ex wife was caught having an affair, and she then proceeded to play victim - accusing me of all sorts and fully got away with it. The reason? Not ONCE did the authorities hear me out. Not once. She drained my bank accounts, She left, cried wolf, disappeared with my son, and no one would tell me nothing until it was time to pay child support - and then spousal support. I spoke to the charities but unless I had thousands to hire a barrister and go to court, it was a “that’s how it works”
That Jordan Banjo looks 35-40, can't believe he's younger than that.
That's what life and kids do to you😂😂😂
Exactly.
The police don't give a toss. After asking for help, the mofos arrested me !!
Same For Me The Police Are A Fing Joke.
Supports are not enough for males mental health, divorce watch Pearl, basically not worth getting married as a man everything is pretty much against us, been abused physically, mentally and financially women are very calculating and know how to play the law.
as a woman... i agree. i hate what air head narcissistic feminists have done to men.
It's quite sad to witness people being lumped together in different categories. Sadly, that's the world we live in. However, the irony is that we exist in a patriarchal society where men are saying the odds are against them while they're , at large, also the ones creating the laws and shaping our society. Unfortunately, there are still many countries in the world where women are yet to gain rights. Plenty of them are financially, emotionally, and physically dependent on their partners, many of whom treat them terribly and act entitled (as in the case of the ex-minister of Kazakhstan who murdered his wife and tried to destroy the evidence), so I would have to say the male disadvantage boils down to what society people are from and how the judicial system in each of those countries work, I suppose. However, in my opinion, there are only the abused. There's no denying that a long-term commitment is risky, regardless of what gender people in a commitment are. Always, always a risk.
Very True And If They Look A Certain Way Then The Corruption In The Police Force These Souless Woman Play Right Up To.
I genuinely believe every man has been abused by a woman at least once in his life.
Its good that the domestic abuse on men is more being put out there now days, I was attacked lots of times by the mother of my children I did not defend myself due to being brought up in believing men should not attack woman so I just hide it away due to shame, sadly even when a man gets away from a domestic abuse relationship where a children are involved it is far to easy with the way the system and courts are that the domestic abuse still continues though mother blocking children of from contact with there dads, I am depressed most the time thinking of my children and have nightmares a lot even panic attacks at times due to this.
Wow this isn’t an isolating domestic violence awareness situation here studies show some men go through the same traumatic experiences.
Richard looks like a completely different guy 🥰
Ver very scary behaviour!
That presenter doesn’t come across warm at all
Vernon Kay 😍
Two words: Alex Skeel....
Can some one please tell Joe to let others speak
Just one of the many reasons men have given up on women.
It took a while and isn't natural but i won't help women in situations where they may (or do) need my help either... Your on your own with that problem thanks to previous abuse and accusations after helping some before..
Thank the sisters but im out 🤘
Laws are anti male in relationships soooo, been nice n real but ciao... Such a bad life business deal...
This sounds Queen Camilla.
Just like Harry and Megan Hope Harry wakes up soon
Here we go. 🙄
No evidence lol u all are sad. Seek help
Chileeeee🙃
Ffs get a grip
who?
I hope this isn't aimed at the survivors of domestic abuse. Because if it were, I'd say that was a disgusting comment.
@@MrSimonLiu well said.
Incomprehendable is NOT a word Vernon- it's actually incomprehensible... yet another failure of the English education system
Think you've missed the point of the video
Exactly! Get a grip - stop correcting the language, start correcting your understanding!
what a lot of lies he told
What is this word oh week men ffs
*weak. You’re part of the problem… do better
Your comment made me sick. You've obviously got no idea what it means to be abused.
These are Not weak men, TV hard man Steve McFadden (phil Mitchell) reported domestic violence, also the Caroline flack incident clearly not a joke. People take it serious when it's a Mason Greenwood situation on a woman though. Ether way you have to stand up to and fight against abuse.