To be fair, they just do what they're told by those with power. They've been told to be worker drones, so... In the past it was their husbands and fathers who had power, now they have economic equality the only institution with power over women is the state.
@@T_Kelso except men really didn't really have that much power in the past, if any. Women always had most men wrapped around their fingers, they just understood it was bad form/bad optics to girlboss openly.
@@HarryPearce7 We've always had power, just not the kind of power they say we have. A father's love involves discipline, instruction, protection, and affection - if given well, the girl grows into a good woman. That good woman finds herself a man who will provide the spousal equivalent of that goodness her father showed her, who learned from his father how to be that kind of man. The misappropriation and repression of those good, manly traits is one facet of how they have managed to bring our civilization so low.
@@HarryPearce7 power is necessary to check power. Average man will have to start asking the hard questions about how to retake power their ancestors once had.
Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as strong as it ever was. -Donald Kingsbury In this case the problem may be even stronger than it ever was. Insightful and enjoyable. Come back soon Chris.
It's criminal that in America we've taken away the high school classes like Home Economics or Shop Class in favor of saying everyone must go to college or your life is worthless. It should be acceptable for women to aspire to be mothers who's job is to raise the next generation. Society shouldn't force them to take out 100k in loans when they're 18 to get a degree so they can work in HR for 30k a year and let everyone on Twitter know how miserable they are. Traditions are solutions to problems we forgot we had. By shirking the tradition of women caring for the children we've found an old problem.
You know home economics still exist right? Some places have changed the name but the same things are being taught. Stop getting your info third hand from news sources that benefit from you being afraid and outraged because it isn't in their interest to tell you the truth it is in their interest to lie to you and make you panic so you keep watching. There are problems but you don't know what they actually are.
The government got behind feminism and "women in the workforce" to get more tax money out of them on top of forcing parents to rely on State schools to help raise their kids. Doubt me? Look around at the past few generations. I rest my case.
Dude, I must've went to a good high school, because we had all of that. This was like 10 years ago. Had a full, professional wood shop and auto shop. The auto shop could literally do some things that the local mechanics couldn't. We had home ec from Jr. High up where one could learn to cook, sew, etc. We even had advanced wilderness survival classes. The only thing we didn't have was a gun safety course, but that's probably because everyone gets it at home. The more I hear about and see other places, the more I think Wyoming (where I live) is the freest place on the planet. I could literally go set fireworks off in my yard right now without fear of being arrested, and I don't even think the neighbors would complain.
Separating love and sex is a terrible way to live your life... imagine believing that your body has no value so you can just give away without a thought. That's goes for men and women both I firmly believe that this concept of loveless sex is the first horn call of the fall of civilization
Phat agree, the descent into amoral decadence has done more harm to the concept of human love than anything else. The concept behind no fault divorce in the US is that it’s better for the interests of the parents, to say nothing of their children. Sex without emotion, responsibility, and consequence has led an entire generation to view the practice as little more than a biological act.
Here's something I noticed, ask any single father if he can do everything a married couple can do. He will clearly say no because he understands that mothers bring something unique. When you ask single mothers they will never admit that fathers are important.
Or, when he abandoned wife and kids, she had no choice but to do everything and find that she kinda could, although it is beyond exhausting. If she said no, I can’t do it alone, will husband return? Nope. So she gets on with it. Men who leave make themselves redundant. Don’t blame the mums left holding the baby for that. Men who stay make themselves indispensable. Men who understand commitment are awesome.
@@aviolet3981 What about the men who were backstabbed and betrayed? Why should they commit to someone who did that to them? (I was betrayed by someone who I loved. No kids involved.) It's irrational to categorize all the blame on one side when every case is different.
@@aviolet3981 the woman is the one who decides who she wants to have kids with, men aren't really that selective with that. Women are still responsible for the men they choose, don't blame men for some of us being shitty, there will always be shitty people, you have to avoid them and look for decent people
@@carsonhunt4642 yep and most recent was like war of Iraq and no one recalls how that was just ww2 all over again, like nam, and oh what you know ww1, the civil war that was actually about stopping the whole government thing to begin with, (I say death to the kings and that includes government no more kings tax enough is enough.)
There are a lot of married women who think of things as if they are single. From what I can tell men take marriage more seriously these days in the west.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz On the other hand Marriage means something else to people that are encouraged to leave on a whim with the hard earned resources of the person who took the marriage seriously.
My parents bought a wood stove for our ranch house when I was ten. I thought it was a stupid purchase, but then I experienced a few winters where the wires on sticks didn't handle the snow and sleet, and I learned how wise of a purchase it was.
The saddest part is that this is going to really hit home for these people when their job has discarded them at the end of their career for being too old, their party days are over (I'm barely 40 and eating a slice of cake kicks my ass), and it is MUCH too late to have kids and a family now. Instead they will sit alone, freezing and hungry in the dark, realizing only now that without people to carry on the system you were born into, the state is incapable of providing what it does not produce. Immigrants? They stopped coming or left as the country was driven into the ground. Good luck.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 Yeah, that was a comment on how your body stops letting you party at some point around mid 30s I'd say. I have a 4 and 2 year old right now. I left it a little later than I should have but it's not impossible I'd say yes to a third.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 Theoretically, yes. There have been studies into sperm decaying as well though I'm not positive how bad that is. Also, let's be honest. Most guys are not Leonardo DiCaprio, Ric Flair, or Robert Deniro. They can't attract women that are much younger than they are. Sure, those at the top can. Maybe say... I'll be generous and say the top 15%. Even if they have a lot, that's still reduces the gene pool which leads to other problems.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 it's really not. Due to how the body works higher ages have more genetic complications than younger couples. There is a reason humans can have kids at a young age.
My mother wasn’t exactly traditional, she still worked but she always managed to do her best with us and I can’t help but feel it’s a grave insult to many of our mothers thst somehow the patriarchy made them do this instead of their endless love and sacrifice for us their children. She now works from home and looks after an entire family and is honestly one of the most inspirational people I’ve ever met God bless the mothers
Well good for you and your mother, I guess. But most woman today would rather be single and childfree than sacrifice their own happiness for kids that most of the time turn out to be ungrateful lil sh*ts anyways!
Yeah, these men are douchbags for insulting women who need to work to put a roof over their heads. Women have always had to work unless they were of an upper class and had the luxury of not needing to.
My mother has always worked for a living, too, but she’s a baker and a cook. She worked at a bakery, then as the school lunch lady so she could see us more often, now as a cook for a small cafe owned by the daughter of family friends from church. She always bakes the cakes for our school graduations and for most other public events for our town (I come from a very small town with a permanent population of about 500). She’s still being a mother by working. She cares more about the people she’s working with and for than the job she’s doing. She’s investing her time in her family and the people around her and she’s built a fairly substantial friend group as a result. She’s the kind of mother that likes to get involved in the community, not to be a Karen or a helicopter parent, but because she genuinely likes working with people. I hope to meet a young woman my age like her one day.
My mother has always been a teacher. She made pennies compared to my father, an engineer, and always gravitated towards taking care of the house, which is fine. Both parents can work jobs, as long as those jobs end at normal hours and don't call you after work. One can be more job-focused and the other more house-focused. Normally its more natural for the mother to assume the house keeping role, since she will most likely stay with the kids when they are small. It's ok, I'd be happy to reverse it when kids grow up and I know plenty of families where that happened.
Let's hope that enough good men will find enough good women so that you, I or any other don't have to take one for the team and knock up some feminist monstrosities.
We live in the loneliest society. The lack of genuine romantic connection and increase in casual relationships over happy married couples should scare anyone.
I'm 31 years old. I gave up on dating when my ex cheated on me with another woman, she was praised for it, I got thrown to the curb as a bigot for not wanting to share a relationship with her, and MeToo created an extremely toxic environment making dating impossible. Add all that to all the failed relationships I've witnessed from my extended family members, my close friends, and even my own sister, I have given up on finding a relationship and now only desire stability while making my life useful in another way. I am just now coming to terms with letting go of dreams.
Have you gone outside lately? Because I am surrounded every day by perfectly normal humans interacting and living life as humans always have, including dating, marrying, and having children. You need to spend less time on the internet and more time in the real world.
@Kathleen Gerber right now I'm content with bettering my own life and being a good uncle to my nephew. If fate wills it, I'll start a relationship. Right now it's not a priority for me.
I'm only a year or so older than you brother, I too was cheated on, but the straw that broke my back was watching her father throttle my infant child with her because the infant was crying too much when I had asked him to babysit his granddaughter so I could sleep after a double shift. I left, trying to take my daughter with me, the family law courts took her away, I had my rights stood on and trampled, police treated me like a monster, holding me at mace and gunpoint, they took MY posessions away because SHE claimed she bought them, ignoring receipts with bank statements. I never got those items back. My one consolation prize was the magistrate gave me 50% custody, I have papers stating I have 50% and I can visit my daughter whenever I want but the police never enforce it. I live in Australia, the more I look around at people in the public the more my seething hate for them all and the system grows. There's no hope for me, one day I'll break. But I hope that people like you can heal and move on, find support in others. Good luck, you need it, I know I needed it.
I taught school for 10 years. Then I got married and didn’t have to work. So I’ve been a stay at home wife for over a decade. I love taking care of my home and husband. Life is good.
It’s pretty simple if you’re country’s population of 18-30 year olds can’t afford to be financially secure, buy a home , car , food then it’s unlikely they will take the extreme financial risk to get a wife and have kids.
Not the main reason. so why are 25-30 years who are well off marriage and not gettting ran though, and have 3 children by 30 ? stop blaming the economy and deflect from toxic femininity. Why poor women in the third World have soo many children if it is the economy LMAO. Feeling is not reasoning.
@@floridamankyle5461 facts is poor women in the Philippines living in one room have husband's and 8 kids why the rich one doesn't. The average birthrate goes down the richer the country becomes already proven enough this BS feeling comments. So nothing to do with 304 culture and girl power movement? Lmao
I just had my son 3 yrs ago. I would love to try for 1 or even 2 more but with my wife and I both working we still barely scrape by. They don't want it to be economically viable. They don't want us to reproduce.
I'm from the first generation of my father's line that wasn't poor, going back hundreds of years. He was one of six; his father, one of twelve; his father, one of five; and so forth going back to their literal Slav-ery in the Old World. But they were happy, and they grew up strong and healthy, generally in favor with God and men.
Become ungovernable. Turn to crime if it helps you raise a larger family. This government and system has lost its divine right to rule. So usurp its authority by any means necessary.
The dude is a moron and is picking and choosing data to fit his preconceived notions and ignoring anything that doesn't fit his narrative. Studies over the past 60 years all point to the fact that women cheat more and evolutionary psychology would also presume that it has always been that way, the history books also corroborate that idea. Women are getting positions over men not due to ability alone they are being artificially put into positions over men "for equality". They are also getting university spots over men for the same reason. Mormons have been the leading growth religion in the US for many decades and this person is acting like this is a new thing. Smh. I haven't seen somebody so misinformed on this topic in quite awhile but you all seem to just accept BS if it comes from somebody that seems to be in a position of authority and says things confidently.
My boomer mom and mother in law said I should go back to work and put our son into daycare. I told them that I wanted to raise my own son and not have a stranger raise him. They think money = happiness. I think they are insane.
I absolutely agree with Carl I'm a housewife and mother of 3. And it's not like I didn't have the choice I have a degree in nursing I served in the military. My duty is to God family and country. Y'all have a blessed day
Thank you for your service. But yes. You do't live in a big city. I live in a moderately sized city and I had to go back to work part time. Of course I told my boss that the moment my kids need me, I'm off for the day, and I don't care if she fired me. I'm now the lead therapist. My boss is great.
This is fundamentally it, women should be able to do whatever they want - the only people telling them they can't currently are feminist activists who really just care about themselves. For example if you look up what toxic femininity is, it just describes the stereotype of the traditional housewife and purposefully paints them in a negative light.
@@elizabethkraszewski6603 well put 😂 when I had my kid I moved from the city I was born in raised in to a house in the countryside. The house was more expensive, but I'm not paying for it with my soul like I was living in the city. I go back to visit family occasionally & it feels like leaving the garden of Eden to visit hell for a while.
They were allowed to do it to themselves, and every thought of self-correction was beaten out of them systematically. While they may be suffering the just consequences of their own choices, the forces that encouraged them toward destruction are enemies of all mankind.
Enslaved Women: Raising the next generation in her own home on her own time and inscribing her values onto her children Liberated Women: Punch a clock for a faceless corporation who would replace you in 2 weeks if you died. Get an abortion because making spreadsheets for $60,000 a year and living alone in a studio apartment is more important than raising a family. L0gik
As a single man not far off from 30, not meeting anyone and having children by now is, in my eyes, one of my greatest failures, but the women around me just aren't worth the risk. It's one hell of a catch 22.
This. I'd love to have children and I'm sure if I never manage it then it will be my greatest regret. But I'm not having children just to have them taken away from me forever, made to hate me, serve as a financial debt slave for some two decades at least, and probably also find out they really weren't mine to begin with. I wish I could carve my progeny out of stone and breath life into them, improving largely on Pygmalion's idea.
Date younger women. Early 20s. Ditch them at any red flag. No hoes no daddy issues no left wing nuts etc. You have to train them. Age gap helps. Be confident and competent. Be the leader of your life and she will follow. These women are more common the further from the cities you are. Good luck.
@@impudentdomain Out of the question. So many of the problems facing the global west today have been exacerbated by people running away from them in search of greener pastures. Besides, I will not abandon my culture and place of origin to go insert myself uninvited into another culture and take their women as my own. I intend to do what I can to mold the culture back into proper shape. I don't have high hopes, but it's all there is to be done about the whole situation.
12:00 - It's very simple. When you take away someone's dream of a family, a well paying job and ability to own their house and suddenly you've also taken away all their motivation. Delayed gratification only works if the person gets the reward at the end and many men are seeing there's no reward at the end, just an ever shifting goal post.
By buying women's votes, western countries have replaced fathers and husbands by "the government" Only non-working single mothers and the rich can have as many babies as they want. Non-working single mothers are rewarded with more money and housing for having more kids. If married to a working man they get less money. The middle class are taxed heavily to pay for the poor. If the father works he'll have to work hard. The super wealthy avoid taxation and have plenty of resources and can do what they want. Regarding the next generations: Children will be taxed heavily to pay for care of the many aged, and they'll struggle to afford their own kids and won't have much time to care for their parents. The benefits of having kids has been socialised, while the cost to the middle class remains with the parents and the fathers are seen as entirely disposable if the mother wants to kick them out and claim their income and assets.
I had a colleague at work that had a gap of 7 years between his first and second child. Why? Because he had his first while he was a factory worker at a certain salary and the second came when he changed his occupation into a software developer.
I was married once. It turned into an uneven slavery that made me so depressed I had to be put on multiple antidepressants. The current family law system directly incentivizes women to be bad actors.
This is the kind of thing I'm trying to spread awareness about but it seems almost everyone outside of the niche MGTOW community is blissfully ignorant of it, and often utterly incapable of comprehending it or believing it.
As a woman in my last year of college, I have to say that the "new and improved" social norms are already making me miserable. I never wanted a full-time job, but I have one now and I'm studying to get a more rigorous one because that's what I've been told to do since I was a child. I want to be a wife and mother someday, but when I tell people that, they look at me like I'm mentally handicapped. Their faces say "you have know any better," but I do. I don't want to live like this forever, doing meaningless office work until I age out and die alone with my cats. (Obvious exaggeration, but still a possibility) We need to reel back all this so-called "empowerment" because the overwhelming majority of it isn't giving power to anyone. A lot of women would probably be happier in a domestic role (obviously NOT all, but a good chunk), but they either are too nervous to go against the grain or don't even see that as an option. Sorry for the long rant. This is a topic I am particularly passionate about.
there is no going back , women working is not on option anymore , its a must due to the workforce inflation when they all joined and workers pay getting lowered significantly as a result. now that costs of living are so high most men cant provide for wife and kids, she will likely have to provide financially as well.
The way I see it is that instead of giving woman the opportunity to choose to go into whatever kind of work of life they choose, We are just forcing woman to work, So really what's changed, I don't see the difference between a society that prevents woman from working and one that forces woman to work, To me there is no difference at all.
@@ilanraeayalabaciu2957 what is women's roll in society? Cause seeing as women and pro women people think they have or should have none and can do whatever they want and anything else is oppression. I ask this cause what you just said could be applied to men ,they have no choice but to work as that is their role but apparently men have responsibilities where women have choices.
The funny thing is... Anybody who has a lot of experience around women, knows... Women have WAY more influence over each other, than men ever did. Women generally care way more about being accepted by each other, and they care way more about what other women think about them, then men do about each other. ie: If women shame other women into thinking that just being a 'housewife' is some sort of embarrassing failure... Many women will change their their life decisions based on that.
It's the female equivalent of the fact that the IQ of a group of boys is equal to the greatest IQ among them divided by the number of boys in the group. "Let's drink reaper hot sauce. It was too stupid to do alone, but with the TWO of us..."
Most of the happy and in-relationships women I know are either like minded hobbyists (outcasts from “female society” such as it is nowadays) or are the queen-bee contender types who don’t bend to the opinions of others. Both types have had their happinesses and successes despite feminism rather than because of it, their partners simply treated them as just that, partners. Gods knows where you find more of such people though, most of their friend group are either male, taken or the types that are fun to spend some limited time around but good luck being seen as more than a coat rack or taxi-share when they don’t hook up and leave on their own terms.
Yes and no. Yes, women's friends have huge influence, especially before marriage/children. But no, in the sense that their desired romantic partners can have a huge influence on them. If a hot guy rejects them, it really hurts them quite a lot, and can shape their preferences. That requires men that are more attractive than the women though. That is hard to accomplish, and there's a huge genetic filter there as well.
I have 6 kids with my wife (one is adoptive) and it is annoying how people treat us as if we just luckily stumbled into a stable marriage and family. I get it, it is NOT easy. Not easy to have a stable marriage, or get into one. But we didn’t just accidentally get married and just hoped it would work itself out. We worked our asses off for each other.
In a sense, you kind of did get lucky. You got lucky enough to find the magical unicorn woman who was _willing_ to work her ass off for you, and who is appreciative of you doing the same. There is luck involved in hoping you find someone who actually takes marriage seriously and treats it as lifelong. Most people don't have that view anymore.
@@Rockhard1492 Yep, OP is missing the point that his peers are telling him he is LUCKY that the chance even occurred, most people won't get that chance and then some who do aren't able to take that promise to its conclusion for various reasons, the nuclear family can only happen under certain circumstances.
Chris is wrong about equality in universities. It never happened. Men went to university out of obligation. The goal was to attain specialized knowledge or skills, which in turn earned an income for his family and kept the lights on for his civilization. It was never about his own personal fulfillment or anything about himself. The push for women in universities was intended for the direct benefit of women right from the start, in a way that was never the case for men.
It can be argued that the one exception was for the religious universities, where one would often have to join a monastery in order to be able to attend. That was usually for a kind of spiritual fulfillment, but it also usually came with loss of family.
But it really doesn’t benefit women even now as women hold the majority of student loan debt largely due to getting worthless degrees or they get good degrees but don’t like the career and drop out into lower wage, less demanding jobs.
There were plenty of men in the early 20th century who would get an English degree which they in turn never used, but they did develop bonds with fraternity mates and with other classmates that would last a lifetime. Stoner is a novel which talks about these exact sorts of people who ended up usually as future school faculty (if not in some factory or office job). School used to be about more than just teaching people skills (now useless skills).
It's almost like women don't understand on a fundamental level what it is too be a man or what it entails. Maybe men should stop taking advice from people who have no idea at all what it means to be a man.
I'd love to get married & have a children. But dating @ 25 is just impossible these days. Most women my age make more money in 1 month than I do in an entire year. Thanks to hospital debt, I lost all my savings overnight & put my parents in financial trouble, now living with my elderly father, praying I'll be able to pay the property taxes when he dies. Not to mention I'm scarred & mildly disabled. All of that makes me a "Low Value Male" to women. I've tried to date, but every woman I've talked to recently is vapid & shallow, only caring about my income, or if I have a car to drive them places. Everything is transactional, nothing is cooperative/constructive.
Not to be cruel, my guy, but you're the only one with any chance of changing any part of that equation. The "move" advice above isn't bad, but it's not the only answer, either. You sound unhappy where you are, physically and spiritually. Moving to a better, more affordable locale is one change; seeking God and community is another; learning some new skills and getting your diet/exercise equation balanced is another, still. Just don't keep doing what you're doing how you're doing it, since it doesn't seem to be producing the results you want.
@@robertbeisert3315 Good advice, honestly. But I think I understated how little I earn. I currently have less than $800 in my bank account, living paycheck to paycheck with a measly $300 a month for disability. I try to save, but inflation's taking half of what I make. Even if I saved all my money for a year, I'd have less than $10k. But I guess that's what I deserve for not going to college & being in a fire before I was able to go to a trade school. Now I can't do the physical jobs I used to, which paid marginally more. Right now I'm just trying to figure out a career that I can actually do, physically & mentally, given my situation.
I was raised by a single mother. If young boys do not have a father they will go find one or two or 7. I was lucky the ones I chose were all positive influences. Ask any economist worth their salt and they will tell you the single parent family is the absolute plague of the inner city.
I'm 27 been single for a few years and my God dating has become impossible. They all seem to have a bunch of kids and expect you to immediately be the new father or all they care about is their job.
I swipe tinder as more of an observation on society that an actual dating app, and holy fuck the amount of single mothers is unreal. Most that aren't single mothers (or obvious bots) seem like activists, who write things like "swipe left if you voted leave!" (etc.)
You are replaceable at work. You are not replaceable as a mother. My mother passed away over 30 years ago and I still miss her. I married a widower with three daughters and I know that no matter how much of a mother role I played, they still miss their mother everyday as they should! Why? Because a mother’s role runs that deep. I can’t believe that women would throw away or look down on that role.
Men have emotions. But women ARE emotions. And once a woman hates something it goes into the soul of her being. These women have been brain washed to HATE anything and everything that remotely approaches family and motherhood. And they hate it with everything within them. This cannot be undone. This "bell" once rung can never be "unrung".
When I was younger I looked down on women who chose children over a career. I didn't have my first child until i was 36. Now I wish I could go back and start having kids earlier so I could have more! Being a mum is so much better than I imagined.
I was homeschooled for seven years by my mother. She worked just as hard as my factory-worker father. She is so grateful that she could spend that time with us in our most important years. It saddens me greatly that most women will not be able to feel that same joy in raising their children, because f*minism tells them that it is a lesser experience than being a wage slave.
Is the tax break for men or just women? Like Chris said, the benefit is just for the woman (I believe) in Hungary. No added incentive for men to want children.
There is not only that woman specific help in Hungary. There are benefits to get money to buy a house if you are going to have children. It's called "CSOK" and the more children you have, the more money you get. There is also the same kind of deal to purchase cars for families with more than 3 children. This benefits men as well as women.
Both women and men are equally responsible for this. If woman have no kids and works, she can expect earned state pension because she paid taxes all her life, just like men
Their is a huge growing number of men who simply aren’t interested in picking up the pieces of some woman who threw themselves around during their twenties an are now interested in ‘settling’ for a guy in their 30’s who will support an foot the bills until the kids old enough to start school then get ‘graped’ in divorce court. Pay to have the woman to raise your child to hate you because her initial interest was in not dying alone.
Doesn't help that so many of us guys have seen our friends get screwed over in a marriage and divorce along with never getting to see their kids but a few days here and there. They have made marriage largely a bad deal for men
Pretty much, even heard about a guy whose wife since the 1980s suddenly got bored and left, taking his house, his retro car collection and his children and leaving him like many other men, stuck in a studio apartment fighting to keep his nose above water while his wife reaps his wallet and another man's girth. If even borderline ancient relationships are vulnerable to sudden catastrophic combustion that will leave you wishing you were dying alone with nobody to wipe the sweat from your feverish brow, what hope do people just getting in have to find a stable life together?
@@kielbasamage wait. If men aren't going after women much then how are these women divorcing men and then going out and getting men? Your assessment of the situation is flawed. Usually it ends up in misery for both then and the women it is just the women keeps taking money from the man
@@thomgizziz "Wait; if women aren't going after abusers, then how are abusers continuing to get married and able to abuse women." Go to a conversation with women talking about their experience with abusers, say that, and see what happens.
If women carry on behaving how they've come to behave and carry on getting fatter and fatter whilst claiming it's healthy and body positive, I'm not surprised they'll all be single. Well done, feminism. Well done! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Every time I hear the name Rollo Tomassi, I think of the hardcore band and get excited. Then, every time, I realize the person is talking about the dude, and get disappointed.
Nah he's way too dogmatic in his made up beliefs now. His first couple books are a good source for understanding some of the darker aspects of female dynamics but he's just pure grifting now on his UA-cam channel. Saying the most controversial thing possible to get more clicks
Had an argument with a young women in my university about abortion due to whats gone on in America. We we're unable to find any common ground as she described the featus as a parasite, not an embryo, not a baby, a parasite, truly women thse days are brainwashed into believing that child rearing is a bad thing.
I've seen that mentality spread in online spaces. It baffles me how that way of thinking can spread so far in the same group that preaches tolerance, empathy and inclusion.
I don't think I'll be having a child for many reasons and fears including worrying I don't have the patience to be the mum. But never would I describe a baby as a parasite. Unfortunately in a few childfree groups I'm in (which I'm thinking of leaving) people speak horribly about children and parents. Child rearing is a blessing for many but for me I'm not so sure so I won't risk taking the plunge. It's possible to be childless by choice and not be horrible about kids but I hate to say that many of us are foul.
@@frishter They claim those traits the same way a tyrant claims a crown of gold and a cape of fine ermine; it makes them look righteous and just as they do their work upon those they despise.
"Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problem. Take away the set of solutions and the problems come back as big as it ever was." Wow. That was excellent!
Too many women are fussy and social media makes them think they too can have a Thor or a brad pitt. The below average looking women with weight issues are even demanding men that are 9s and 10s. If you are an average looking dude who is in shape you haven't got a hance.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz I know. It's crazy. I think it was a study by OkCupid dating site. Women are surprisingly easily groomed by social media to expect unrealistic goals and what all men should look and act like.
@@markymark7803 Personally I say people haven't starve enough in this country. Whenever I think about all our modern problems I remember Yumi Parks saying "Man I wish I had the time to protest for ducks." Nothing makes you more grounded than being extremely hungry.
@@markymark7803 women are easily groomed, period. That is why lebians act like grapists towards other women and it works for a hot minute and they can get away with it. It makes sense in evolutionary biology but it is terrible in current society.
@@prettyboyjeremy you don't want people to be extremely hungry because that is when the government can do really terrible things because people are easy to control. You haven't thought this through, mate.
*Western Countries regarding industry:* _"We don't need our own domestic production, we can just import from elsewhere for cheaper without needing to support or fund domestic institutions, facilities, workers etc."_ *Western Countries regarding birthrate:* _...._ There isn't a lot of societal incentive or reward to have children anymore, for comparison in the 1990s if you were a low income family you were basically guaranteed a council house and a space at the local school and controversially to some, financial support, there was a base respect or status for mothers and fathers of the local community, to put it into perspective, Police officers on the beat used to remove their headwear when talking to parents and would refer to them as mum or dad in front of their children.
for me there's no economic incentive to chase family, the young women who're still single are some flavor of dysfunctional (think early to mid 20s) the government is actively replacing fathers with welfare and the housing market is bonkers to the point I've given up on owning one why chase the carrot on a stick when I can live a content, not satisfied but content minimalist lifestyle? because the way I see it I'm damned either way this way is just less stressful
Europe is trying to "fix" Declining of birth rate by importing people from 3rd world countries who are having more babies. I would say that it isn't a good way of fixing it.
@@jimbothegymbro7086 You're roughly the same age, right? early to mid 20s? Sadly, I don't know exactly what advice to give, I'm lucky to be European from an ex-commie country, which means we're lagging behind America and other countries (most people in their 40s and beyond lived hard lives while the young ones are split between those whose learned to their parents and those who did not, with the stereotypical Gen Z being born in 2004 or later). I am in my early 20s and while there are plenty of hoes and idiots on dating apps, there's still some normal ones I can meet through my friends.
@@totallynuts7595 as crazy as this is going to sound maybe communism helped in this regard, don't get me wrong it's horrid and shouldn't have happened but at least you've gotten some cultural resilience out of it, I live in Australia so we're just as crazy if not worse than the Americans and life has simply been too easy for too long so these issues have festered, hopefully things get better but I've got a saying, expect the worst hope for the best
It's easy to call people parasites when, like Carl, you totally overlook the legal and financial peril which the legal system puts men who marry and have children into. Something I believe he'll probably get burned by later down the line.
@@torachan23 I would sooner be a "childless parasite" than mere fodder. And they want us to rear more tax slaves for them, who will have less rights and wealth than we did. If governments want people to have children they need to stop making their countries ever shittier places in which to raise them.
There is very little incentive to start a family, economy makes it so average people have to get in debt to provide a decent life for kids. The emotional commitment of getting with a person, specially when we don't know about our right or wrong choices motivated by seeing people engaged in toxic relationships with no actual emotions or material relationships that only benefit those involved.
@@EfferusZangetsu now the challenge is finding a women who wants you while you have nothing, just as she hits peak desirability. Does not come naturally.
@@liamhenry3010 It is hard, but you have to give girls.some credit. They can see potential. If you are young and want to attract a good quality girl, have some goals be working towards them and have a plan for your life. Women can see that and admire that in a man.
Dont know why but the last few minutes of this podcast had me come to the realisation that Extinction Rebelion is a rebelion bent on bringing about the extinction of mankind
I see it quite a lot at work and amongst my friend group. A decent number of guys simply won't ask women out since they'd rather not risk getting MeToo'd
@@johnbrown1867 friend of mine asked someone he liked out over text, she said no so he thought nothing of it, a few weeks later he got dragged into a meeting. Luckily he had the receipts so he got off but nothing happened to her at all, no fall back on her at all. Shits fucked mate
If you aren't exciting enough to women, then ask for a date, the "Creep" accusation can ruin things for life. Women will have to start asking average men in large numbers. Hopefully they will do so before the Chads and pump and dump them.
These are the kids and grandkids of the generation that was given easy, no-fault divorce. Men weren’t obliged to stay by society or law, so they left. These kids grew up usually with their mum only, with financial struggles. They had kids without getting married at all (what’s the point, marriage doesn’t last) or found themselves repeating a pattern laid by their own parents divorce. As 3rd gen kid of single mums, the security of marriage is gone so it makes sense to avoid kids.
Yeah the incels complain about women initiating divorce but my dad was the one that cheated and left. My mum was just the one that bothered to do the paperwork.
@@_my_insomnia_blink562 No, it is because of women bandwagoning and groupthinking into 'modern feminism' which is about blaming men for their faults deserved from their own actions, not men. Get a bit of a check on reality, miss.
At this stage we need to get our people out of the big cities, move together and build our OWN media, parallel institutions and eventually schools OUTSIDE this rotten system. There are no solutions inside the Liberal paradigm.
I'll see your political variable and quote a YTer that goes by Ak Nation TV, "There is no solution" He may even be selling a t-shirt with said declaration
Hi both, as an older woman I think this is a class issue as well.Working class woman have ALWAYS worked, usually in menial jobs granted because they couldn't manage on one wage.Womens income drops of a cliff when she becomes a mother and I remember how back in 60s they were made to feel that they were burdens. Is there any wonder a lot of girls who followed felt the only way out of the enforced dependency was getting an education
Problem with female nature is that, even if she is at home doing nothing but enjoying her kids, while her husband works 24/7. She will see herself as the victim
So thankful I'm married, and to a quality man and not someone I picked from desperation. You start off traditional young and there's not much support outside, but as I get older... the tables are turning in turns of whose lifestyle is more glamorous. Apparently time at home with kids and being able to do home projects and create things is more attractive to my peers as they age. Hopefully my circle of influence is positively influenced by me. If not, at least I have a good life!
@@dertythegrower When I refer to my circle of influence, I am referring to the ladies I know in person. I'm not sure I would ever be able to compete on a large scale with thousands of girl boss influencers, but the influence I have can at least be more meaningful with those I can actually talk with and have over in my home ❤️
Nope you going to have to pay much higher tax to support these leftovers, likely will never get anyone them when it is your turn. Peak wahmunism I guess.
@@josephinenelan4204 there merely on websites and have a checkmark next to there name....... those are the "influencers" they say jump and they get people going is this high enough?
The future needs decent people. There is a shocking lack of respect for human life in the healthcare field. The fact than many people are there are there are in it for the money doesn't quite explain this.
They are mostly all there for the money. Where I am it seems just a natural outcome of having massively powerful public unions. If you give so much for the role, you will get ppl going into it for what you give rather than what the role itself gives.
@@firstandforemost87 Big pharma provides perverse incentives. They influence what medical schools teach. That's how the opioid epidemic started. The single mother epidemic & leftist teachers affect the quality of people applying for those jobs.
I totally read the title of this video as "The Future is Black" and it actually seemed like a realistic title given the kinds of things put out by media in recent years.
One thing I noticed is that if you want to be a housewife and stay at home mother there is a lot of pushback. Even if you are educated with work experience. People act like you are less than or inferior. It is deep in the culture.
Yes, I can confirm as a housewife that I get a lot of pushback for giving up my independence but now I also get a lot of pushback that is sort of jealous sounding; it's hard to describe but people will say things like "well you're so privileged to be able to stay at home" or "not everyone can afford to homeschool their children or live on a hobby farm" so now they're scolding me for being soooo privileged when before I was subjugating myself 🤷 you can't make others happy so I would just say be a housewife if that's what you want and don't worry about the rest.
@@MC-ze8wj Housewives who homeschool their children on a homestead are the most powerful force on the planet. The more children are raised this way, the more independent families created, the less reliant on the system we become and the more those in power are threatened.
It breaks my heart that so many women are brainwashed. I'm a mother of two and these goofballs make me laugh every moment of every day. My life was so grim before they were born. Now I'm working from home, do college from home, and I'm homeschooling my kids. I haven't lost out on anything. I just have better coworkers 😆
Yes but men not exacly wining it either.. And specialy the young ones will radicalize Not to mention the fact that thanks to migration the ratio of men vs women is just off the chart. Every single person who is responsible for this mess deserve nothing less than bullet. This is recipe for civil wars all over Europe becouse bunch of marxists progressives are not willing to take lesson from mistakes we did here in Eastern Europe.. Not sure if it is out of arrogance or becouse of lust for power. either way it is sad
To make matters worse (hopefully I'm getting this correct), due to the housing shortage here in Britain, for every 10% the average rent increases the fertility rates go down 5%.
be careful of linking it just to economics because some nations with very low birth rates have started giving couples money, rent, and other benefits to have children and it doesn't seem to be working.
Your housing prices would stabilize if you dealt with the massive influx for foreign intruders arriving at your door step…and got rid of the ones who already make your cities a dangerous place to be.
The issue I take with the "Men and women aren't enemies" point raised at around 18:20 in the video is, they demonstrably are, and women were the ones who instigated and began to wage said war. They are at war in such things as higher education, where quotas are present for women, but not for men. Where there is an order of magnitude more grants for women than men. Where they are scored higher than men purely because of their gender, "to address historical grievances" (yes, this is a real argument, said to me personally by a real professor in the college I attended). They are also believed in almost every case where they claim sexual misconduct on the part of the male, which often results in the male getting removed from his studies. They are at war in such things as the job market, because again quotas are present to protect women but not men. They are eligible to complain to HR but men are not. They are at war in such things as family courts, where women are the beneficiaries of favourable court decisions both in regards to the distribution of wealth in a separation and in child support and in child custody. I recall a guest video that Sargon hosted several years back wherein a man was told to quit his job because it "wasn't stable", then was told he wasn't earning as much as he could based on the wages of the previous job that he quit because the judge forced him to, and was punished for both. They are at war in policing. A woman can beat her husband black and blue, and he might call the police, but if she broke a nail while punching him then he is the one who gets taken away. They are at war in such things as child custody, where a large portion of the custodial parent (usually mothers) interfere with the visitations of the other parent (usually fathers) as a form of revenge. They are at war in regards to telling lies about the other parent to pit the child against them. I've barely even scratched the surface of how women wage war against men. They do so daily, they do so via the documented outlets of female aggression: reputation destruction, gossip and innuendo. They do so because they stand to gain something from doing it. In higher education, they will be given better odds of having their application approved and they will also be given better grades. If they claim sexual misconduct they can take revenge against a man who rejected them, even if that was all he did. In the workplace, claiming victimhood gets them closer to a promotion; either by eliminating a more promising candidate, or by removing a higher up. Not only that, they can open a GoFundMe page or similar and rake in a good deal of money. In courts they get more favourable outcomes, both for crimes they committed and in divorces. In child custody not only do they get to be the custodial parent more often, but they can sabotage their ex's visitations and get away with it. I knew a guy whose ex wife refused to allow him to see his children for twenty years, first by claiming domestic abuse, and after he proved that allegation false in court, by direct violation of a court order. And the courts did nothing to her. So please, don't gaslight me. I've seen enough of the pain women can inflict just because they feel like doing so or because they might gain some trifling momentary advantage.
The irony that Mormans and The Amish will take over in a few centuries is amazing since the push to get rid of established religions and family households. To those who rejected the allure of technological dopamine and lustful sins, I salute you. Now, I'm going to return to my single status and wagey-cagey job as a product of modern Western Culture.
Regardless of birthrates Mormans are starting to take on wokeness and since the religion was started and maintained by explicitly racist white dudes will dissolve if the leadership doesn't back off this tepid neo con Romneyite mentality it won't withstand in its current form.
There aren’t enough of them. Fundamentalist Middle Eastern and African peoples will take over simply by breeding at a much higher rate whilst all first world democratic races aren’t breeding enough to replace themselves.
Just like all studies it is bunk. In about 10 years they will say another group will be the main group taking over. These things come out every decade. And none of it ever pans out.
Here's the thing. Break up that question of whether a woman would date an unemployed man if: a) He was attractive, and b) He was unattractive? I bet the answer would not be the same. My suggestion would be that the former would be "I can change him and make him commit" and the other will be labelled a loser, a no-hoper and a virgin for life.
It's true. So many women are willing to go to the ends of the earth for some attractive loser with a rap sheet than to grab up a successful, employed average dude.
For the most part, the answer is still no. Women generally only date across or up the hierarchy. It’s why middle class career women have insanely high rates of singleness/low fertility, no partners left for them because men their age that successful date younger women.
@@Swordofswordom 60+ years? I mean, what did we expect? Shit cultural values plus financially and socially incentivized betrayal and exploitation... This was only ever going to end like this. Monogamy is learned. Humans at default are horny hairless monkeys out for number one. Even babies aren't safe...
It used to be a common attitude in various civilizations and societies that a person was never quite a full adult until they had children. As I compare the adults of today to the adults of my childhood I’ve been trying to figure out why the ones from before seemed so much more adult. I’ve thought clothes and hair styles, speech patterns, relative age…but I honestly think part of it is that when I was a child nearly all adults were married with kids…and now there is little difference between a college students life and a 50 year olds day to day lives.
When you have your own children you're invested into society, you want things to get better, being a childless adult you're solely focused on yourself and only care what society can do for you now (at the expense of the future, which is what the baby boomers did)
I think you are correct, but also we didn't coddle people in the past, unless you were a child of priviledge you had to get out of the house and fend for yourself at a relatively young age.
More that back in the day the only way to do well was to work hard and behave. Now? Binge drinking on the weekends, near zero hope of buying a property(even if you spend jotting done emergency or change will decimate any savings you can accrue), jobs that barely cover the ever increasing bills n rent, low loyalty prospective partners advertising themselves online via apps and speed-dating preferences (what was it, 70%? of women will only select from the top 15%? of men for a hookup). The death of community cultures (when did you last converse with your neighbours?), the decline of religion and large stable institutions bringing common ground for conversation. We are literally packed in like sardines With ever less control of our own lives now. Convenience culture has removed peoples need for self sufficiency and maturity.
If I were a moustache twirling corporate monster that was only interested in profit, I too would be finding all sorts of novel and sneaky ways to persuade millions of young girls that being mothers is wrong and the route too happiness is work and shopping.
You don't sound like a smart moustache twirling corporate monster here. Because in that case you would run out of income sooner or later. If you are a smart moustache twirling corporate monster; you want people to reproduce fast and as much as possible. More people = more income, more consumers, more wage slaves, more voters, more canon fodder, etc.
Carl: "You selfish parasite." Me to Carl: What kind of miracle workers are you expecting individuals to be in the present day, when all the incentive structures (legal, financial, educational, cultural, etc.) are arrayed in the opposite direction? How many people are going to be able to swim against the current through these raging flood waters? By willpower alone?
@@HarryPearce7 thats total ridiculousness. So unless you are wealthy, every persons marriage is unhappy and on the brink of divorce? Thats nonsense. Why then are the wealthy more likely to get divorced than the poor and middle income? Are good relationships a lot more difficult to create in the modern day? 100%. But its ridiculous and pointless to convince yourself that its just totally impossible. There are many people with happy marriages and families today.
@@Locke350 All of these families live beneath the Sword of Damocles and could be torn apart by divorce at a moment's notice. As much as I like Carl, he's not acknowledging that it will take reform of the divorce laws to make starting families less risky.
@@haydencapps When 50% of all marriages end in divorce--and end because the woman simply gets tired of it at that--it is a devastating investment for a man. Much as a woman shouldn't be a whore, men should not invest in bad investments.
I am glad they are addressing this because this was a cultural punchline against women of color for so long and nobody actually addressed white women increasing single mom status especially since 16 and Pregnant and The Kardashian Klan made it cool.
Me nither, I’m so dissapointed in the whole world that I’m not willing to have kids so that they can suffer, and even live worse than I did when I was a kid. In adition to that, I’ll have kids sobthat they go to school, maybe coledge and that work a 9 to 5, live a life of debt and credit? No way, I just love them too much.
I've noticed that even the virgin woman and males also prefer to be alone. I've seen them have great opportunities but for whatever reason there desire is non existent. It's like the desire to be single brings more happiness for some reason. People are assuming they are sad about being alone, but I think it might be the opposite these days. Very strange times.
MGTOW is radical feminism for men. Men and women need to work together and get along if they want to be happy. It all starts with mutual respect for each other.
@@Chris44351 So it's only bad when *men* do it? Explains why you only come *here* to talk fake-ass kumbaya. "Radical feminism for men"... You should be on your knees thanking Lord God Almighty there's no such thing.
@@Chris44351 And trust!! A lot of people forget that one too, it's fundamental and without it people will be much more hesitant to make children together.
My mother warned me never to lose the ability to support myself and my kids. I have seen so many women of my generation end up providing all or the majority of support for their families. It makes me fear for a woman who has low-pay job skills and stays home with children for a long period of time.
I work as a plumber and cannot afford to buy a home in the city I live in. Once I learn enough skill I will have to move somewhere else and fingers crossed my marriage prospects will increase. Its such a hard struggle stressing about money that its hard to find a woman, especially since the largest factor women judge men by is how much they make. Sigh, the modern world is depressing as hell. I wish I was born decades ago.
You realize you're describing a prostitute, right? Technically a gold-digger, but that's just a prostitute with a long-term business plan. As the columnist Lewis Grizzard once said "Just find a woman you hate and buy her a house."
To label all people without children as parasites is a gross injustice. There are those, myself included, that had to make heartbreakingly difficult decisions regarding children based on whether or not to bring a child into the world only to be faced with the child's short life filled with pain, suffering and grief.
For women marriage is win win. For a man to get married is insanity. She will lawfully be able to to take everthing you have including your children. Men, DO NOT GET MARRIED. Change the law.
The government already made the equal pay act in uk, us, and canada back in the 1960 era... the females talking about a gap are misinformed and uneducated on laws
Equal Pay Act exists in many country.. women work less so they dont make less in that average they misconstrue to blab about the non existant wage gap.
Not even men want to be in the office! We just go because if we don't, we'll be out of a home, a car, gaming PC's and food on the table. Would be pretty sweet to just be a stay-at-home dad actually. All you need to worry about is the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids.
@@MDE_never_dies Yep. Give me the option of not having to be successful and I'll skip work for the rest of my life, and only wear comfy sweatpants and a bathrobe for the rest of my days basically. Incidentally, this is my plan if I were to somehow end up being filthy rich and wouldn't need to worry about work anymore. I'm just gonna kiss social conventions goodbye, doing and saying whatever I feel like.
I've only known one stay at home dad, he found it dreary and a bit soul crushing, got depressed and had an affair, his wife left him in the end. He thought it would be great too at the start. It's not as easy as it looks, but I'm sure there are men out their who could adapt to it if they can find a women who wants that arrangement.
@@kazapeach9487 Well I currently live on my own, so I have to do all my cooking and cleaning as it is. I don't find it that hard. The hard part is juggling all of that with work at the same time. If I was somehow relieved of work, then the daily cooking and cleaning would be a breeze by comparison really, even if I had to cook and clean for another person as well as myself.
@@sevenproxies4255 it's not the looking after yourself and the house that's the problem it's looking after the kids as well. Depending on your circumstances it can be extremely isolating and, well, ask any parent, it's really hard work. It can't be described to be honest until you go through it yourself, but then you will get it a few years in when you are still being run ragged by them😄. I've got 3 boys, stayed at home with them for many years... Would not have had it any other way, but it was not easy. The are all tweens and teens now and they are great company, we are always chatting and laughing. They are worth every penny and every sacrifice you make. There may be stages along the way though when you wonder if you've made a terrible mistake🤣🤣
@@kazapeach9487 Sure thing. Children will ramp up the difficulty level. But at the same time, your own children are about the most worthy investment and challenge to accept in life. And I do have a good track record with seeing worthy challenges and investments through in other areas.
Or society will completely stagnate and fall apart because women are incapable of learning their place without beatings and unlearning their false sense of individualism.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz this will not hurt men as much as women; *especially since men advance society* and can literally make an alternative lol Men can just make sex-robots, virtual realities or probably genetically engineer a woman. Women cannot do shit about this other than complain. Sure, it is a dark reality (for women) but these "consequences" favor men
Women rejected average hard working dudes like myself so that they can go have Chad babies and be struggling single mothers, knowingly. That's a big massive L for me I guess. What can one do? You can't make someone love you. They either do or they dont. Women would just rather go it alone than marry average these days.
Or they don't have babies and end up lonely at 40 because the cock carrousel is not eternal... and they still don't want to look at the average joe because they've got a diploma, you know.
... or maybe some mature women aren’t desperate and don’t wanna settle/marry a man who isn’t good for her. And it isn’t always the wife’s fault for divorce; what about the men who just walk out on their family only to be having an affair? Then people like you most likely blame the daughters for being “fatherless” when they were never even given a chance. Life isn’t fair, and that’s the harsh reality of it. Love will come to you when it’s TIME it should NEVER be rushed. You win some and you lose some, and of course same goes for women. Would be nice to see man and women respecting each other but all I see is them going at each other’s throats. How sad.
@@erisunflower All i can do is offer a future. If she rejects it, it's on her 100%. I dont know what's "not good" about providing a place to raise a family but maybe the modern woman's priorities have changed. I've moved on regardless.
I live in Norway, one of the richest countries in the world compared to its population. I'm 24, both me and my fiancée want to have children, but we want to own a home first, this is the most common reason I've heard amongst people my age in regards to why they don't have kids. Sadly the housing market here is just completely fucked so that's not an option for most of us. I'll still have kids no matter what before I'm 30, but it sucks not being able to get a loan for a house in my home country. My current plan is to get a remote job in Norway and then live in a poorer country in Europe so that I can raise my kids in a proper home (and a far better climate). Portugal is the goal.
A moment of silence please for all those "selfish parasites" out there who wanted children but for whatever reason beyond their control can't have them.
I would kill to be married. But every time a woman finds out I never went to college and that I dont like getting drunk every weekend, and dont engage in political activism, they immediately lose intrest. Never mind the fact I make more money then they ever will. The fact I want a stable relationship instead of endless nights puking into bathroom toilet at the local bar makes me bad.
@@StarboyXL9 You joke but in all honesty yes. I have actually joined several religous groups (not amish specifically, there are none in my area) with the hope thingsight be better.
@@impudentdomain you haven't talked to people in Asia or South America have you? They aren't any different. They are exposed to the same media as western women and act the same. Your only chance is if you stay in those countries and can still earn the same amount of money as you did in the US. If you bring them back you will have a hard time holding on to them because they will search for a bigger fish because you don't have something that is even close to a real relationship with them.
Hence the reason "They" are shipping across the channel hundreds of thousands of young men ...to replace the indigenous males who at no longer around. ... As Ex President of France Nicholas Sarkozy stated .... " the people's of Europe will be encouraged to breed with migrants , if not , FORCED"
Making a sandwich for your husband: Oppressive
Making a sandwich for paying customers: Empowering
Galaxy brain 1,000 IQ. We're breaking the logic barrier whuuuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
Doing what your husband, who loves you, tells you to do: Oppressive.
Doing what your boss, who hates you, tells you to do: Empowering.
STOP BEING ANTISEMITIC, I'M SURE MR. GOLDBERG SHEKELWITZ WILL BE UPSET!!!
Yeah, but what kind of sandwich?
Doing both... BEAST MODE
"Women most affected by the result of their own choices. Men have to step up" Wow, so deep.
To be fair, they just do what they're told by those with power. They've been told to be worker drones, so...
In the past it was their husbands and fathers who had power, now they have economic equality the only institution with power over women is the state.
@@T_Kelso except men really didn't really have that much power in the past, if any. Women always had most men wrapped around their fingers, they just understood it was bad form/bad optics to girlboss openly.
@@HarryPearce7 We've always had power, just not the kind of power they say we have. A father's love involves discipline, instruction, protection, and affection - if given well, the girl grows into a good woman. That good woman finds herself a man who will provide the spousal equivalent of that goodness her father showed her, who learned from his father how to be that kind of man.
The misappropriation and repression of those good, manly traits is one facet of how they have managed to bring our civilization so low.
@@HarryPearce7 Perhaps my comment makes more sense if "power" is replaced with "respect".
@@HarryPearce7 power is necessary to check power. Average man will have to start asking the hard questions about how to retake power their ancestors once had.
Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as strong as it ever was. -Donald Kingsbury
In this case the problem may be even stronger than it ever was.
Insightful and enjoyable. Come back soon Chris.
It's criminal that in America we've taken away the high school classes like Home Economics or Shop Class in favor of saying everyone must go to college or your life is worthless. It should be acceptable for women to aspire to be mothers who's job is to raise the next generation. Society shouldn't force them to take out 100k in loans when they're 18 to get a degree so they can work in HR for 30k a year and let everyone on Twitter know how miserable they are.
Traditions are solutions to problems we forgot we had. By shirking the tradition of women caring for the children we've found an old problem.
Amen
You know home economics still exist right? Some places have changed the name but the same things are being taught. Stop getting your info third hand from news sources that benefit from you being afraid and outraged because it isn't in their interest to tell you the truth it is in their interest to lie to you and make you panic so you keep watching. There are problems but you don't know what they actually are.
The government got behind feminism and "women in the workforce" to get more tax money out of them on top of forcing parents to rely on State schools to help raise their kids. Doubt me? Look around at the past few generations. I rest my case.
Annnnnd these women in HR are also underpinning the problems we're having with woke companies today. All of this crap is intertwined.
Dude, I must've went to a good high school, because we had all of that. This was like 10 years ago. Had a full, professional wood shop and auto shop. The auto shop could literally do some things that the local mechanics couldn't. We had home ec from Jr. High up where one could learn to cook, sew, etc. We even had advanced wilderness survival classes. The only thing we didn't have was a gun safety course, but that's probably because everyone gets it at home. The more I hear about and see other places, the more I think Wyoming (where I live) is the freest place on the planet. I could literally go set fireworks off in my yard right now without fear of being arrested, and I don't even think the neighbors would complain.
Separating love and sex is a terrible way to live your life... imagine believing that your body has no value so you can just give away without a thought. That's goes for men and women both I firmly believe that this concept of loveless sex is the first horn call of the fall of civilization
“Bu- but it feels good” 👁👄👁
@@sithticklefingers7255 it's almost like the real world really doesn't care about human feelings... weird that
@@sithticklefingers7255 Bu- but I like the attention and I feel so empowered
Phat agree, the descent into amoral decadence has done more harm to the concept of human love than anything else.
The concept behind no fault divorce in the US is that it’s better for the interests of the parents, to say nothing of their children.
Sex without emotion, responsibility, and consequence has led an entire generation to view the practice as little more than a biological act.
Simps, Thots and the Complacent =EVIL LIFE
Here's something I noticed, ask any single father if he can do everything a married couple can do. He will clearly say no because he understands that mothers bring something unique. When you ask single mothers they will never admit that fathers are important.
Thats not quite it. A man knows that 2 people can do a better job than one. While a woman thinks she can do everything and dont need no man.
Or, when he abandoned wife and kids, she had no choice but to do everything and find that she kinda could, although it is beyond exhausting. If she said no, I can’t do it alone, will husband return? Nope. So she gets on with it. Men who leave make themselves redundant. Don’t blame the mums left holding the baby for that. Men who stay make themselves indispensable. Men who understand commitment are awesome.
@@aviolet3981 What about the men who were backstabbed and betrayed? Why should they commit to someone who did that to them? (I was betrayed by someone who I loved. No kids involved.)
It's irrational to categorize all the blame on one side when every case is different.
@@aviolet3981 the woman is the one who decides who she wants to have kids with, men aren't really that selective with that. Women are still responsible for the men they choose, don't blame men for some of us being shitty, there will always be shitty people, you have to avoid them and look for decent people
@@aviolet3981 Who hurt you? lol
''All nations and all empires first felt decadence gnawing at them when their birth rate fell off.''
Israel birth rates are fine
I don't think it's decadence they're going to be feeling gnawing at them over the next several years.🤔🧟
History always repeats itself.
@@carsonhunt4642 no, but it often rhymes😉
@@carsonhunt4642 yep and most recent was like war of Iraq and no one recalls how that was just ww2 all over again, like nam, and oh what you know ww1, the civil war that was actually about stopping the whole government thing to begin with, (I say death to the kings and that includes government no more kings tax enough is enough.)
There are a lot of married women who think of things as if they are single. From what I can tell men take marriage more seriously these days in the west.
Can probably thank left wing ideology for that. It's the ideology of hedonism without responsibility, after all.
Of course. Marriage means more to people who cant just up and leave on a whim.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz On the other hand Marriage means something else to people that are encouraged to leave on a whim with the hard earned resources of the person who took the marriage seriously.
I can attest. With my own mum.
Of course men are taking marriage more seriously, they stand to lose the most if it goes wrong (which it statistically is more and more likely to do).
Doomer optimism! Thanks for having me guys
I’ve just finished building my wood stove, installing it tomorrow and gathering wood for the winter. That is the state of the world today.
Be thankful they allowed you to chop that wood even.
The best part about wood stove burners is that it really winds up the climate alarmists.
Just make sure your gathering wood from places your allowed to or they'll arrest you for that as well
@@DrJams And remember to remind them that this is THEIR fault.
My parents bought a wood stove for our ranch house when I was ten. I thought it was a stupid purchase, but then I experienced a few winters where the wires on sticks didn't handle the snow and sleet, and I learned how wise of a purchase it was.
The saddest part is that this is going to really hit home for these people when their job has discarded them at the end of their career for being too old, their party days are over (I'm barely 40 and eating a slice of cake kicks my ass), and it is MUCH too late to have kids and a family now.
Instead they will sit alone, freezing and hungry in the dark, realizing only now that without people to carry on the system you were born into, the state is incapable of providing what it does not produce. Immigrants? They stopped coming or left as the country was driven into the ground. Good luck.
being 40 is a good age to get kids for a man.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 Yeah, that was a comment on how your body stops letting you party at some point around mid 30s I'd say. I have a 4 and 2 year old right now. I left it a little later than I should have but it's not impossible I'd say yes to a third.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 Theoretically, yes. There have been studies into sperm decaying as well though I'm not positive how bad that is.
Also, let's be honest. Most guys are not Leonardo DiCaprio, Ric Flair, or Robert Deniro. They can't attract women that are much younger than they are. Sure, those at the top can. Maybe say... I'll be generous and say the top 15%. Even if they have a lot, that's still reduces the gene pool which leads to other problems.
@@yourealittlebitfat4344 it's really not. Due to how the body works higher ages have more genetic complications than younger couples. There is a reason humans can have kids at a young age.
It's funny because aside from all the age related ailments, having children is probably one of the best ways to feel like a kid again.
My mother wasn’t exactly traditional, she still worked but she always managed to do her best with us and I can’t help but feel it’s a grave insult to many of our mothers thst somehow the patriarchy made them do this instead of their endless love and sacrifice for us their children.
She now works from home and looks after an entire family and is honestly one of the most inspirational people I’ve ever met
God bless the mothers
Well good for you and your mother, I guess. But most woman today would rather be single and childfree than sacrifice their own happiness for kids that most of the time turn out to be ungrateful lil sh*ts anyways!
Yeah, these men are douchbags for insulting women who need to work to put a roof over their heads. Women have always had to work unless they were of an upper class and had the luxury of not needing to.
Well said! We work - guilt! We stay home - guilt! Your mother sounds like a gem, god bless ✌🏻
My mother has always worked for a living, too, but she’s a baker and a cook. She worked at a bakery, then as the school lunch lady so she could see us more often, now as a cook for a small cafe owned by the daughter of family friends from church. She always bakes the cakes for our school graduations and for most other public events for our town (I come from a very small town with a permanent population of about 500).
She’s still being a mother by working. She cares more about the people she’s working with and for than the job she’s doing. She’s investing her time in her family and the people around her and she’s built a fairly substantial friend group as a result. She’s the kind of mother that likes to get involved in the community, not to be a Karen or a helicopter parent, but because she genuinely likes working with people.
I hope to meet a young woman my age like her one day.
My mother has always been a teacher. She made pennies compared to my father, an engineer, and always gravitated towards taking care of the house, which is fine. Both parents can work jobs, as long as those jobs end at normal hours and don't call you after work. One can be more job-focused and the other more house-focused. Normally its more natural for the mother to assume the house keeping role, since she will most likely stay with the kids when they are small. It's ok, I'd be happy to reverse it when kids grow up and I know plenty of families where that happened.
If my choice is between knocking up and marrying some feminist and the demise of our species.
Farewell sh!tlords!
Based
Very based and quite redpilled as well.
Understandable. Have a nice day.
You took those words right out of my mouth :D #WeAreDoomed
Let's hope that enough good men will find enough good women so that you, I or any other don't have to take one for the team and knock up some feminist monstrosities.
We live in the loneliest society. The lack of genuine romantic connection and increase in casual relationships over happy married couples should scare anyone.
this is why I chose to abstain from it. Getting betrayed deep helped m rethink a lot of things, but i'm 31 and set in my ways now on this.
We live in a death cult.
@@JeffCaplan313 I wiouldn't call it a death cult, i'd call it a communist one.
@@ArgentWolf95 When deaths outpace births, we officially live amidst a death cult.
I'm 31 years old. I gave up on dating when my ex cheated on me with another woman, she was praised for it, I got thrown to the curb as a bigot for not wanting to share a relationship with her, and MeToo created an extremely toxic environment making dating impossible. Add all that to all the failed relationships I've witnessed from my extended family members, my close friends, and even my own sister, I have given up on finding a relationship and now only desire stability while making my life useful in another way. I am just now coming to terms with letting go of dreams.
Have you gone outside lately? Because I am surrounded every day by perfectly normal humans interacting and living life as humans always have, including dating, marrying, and having children. You need to spend less time on the internet and more time in the real world.
@Kathleen Gerber right now I'm content with bettering my own life and being a good uncle to my nephew. If fate wills it, I'll start a relationship. Right now it's not a priority for me.
I'm only a year or so older than you brother, I too was cheated on, but the straw that broke my back was watching her father throttle my infant child with her because the infant was crying too much when I had asked him to babysit his granddaughter so I could sleep after a double shift.
I left, trying to take my daughter with me, the family law courts took her away, I had my rights stood on and trampled, police treated me like a monster, holding me at mace and gunpoint, they took MY posessions away because SHE claimed she bought them, ignoring receipts with bank statements. I never got those items back.
My one consolation prize was the magistrate gave me 50% custody, I have papers stating I have 50% and I can visit my daughter whenever I want but the police never enforce it.
I live in Australia, the more I look around at people in the public the more my seething hate for them all and the system grows.
There's no hope for me, one day I'll break. But I hope that people like you can heal and move on, find support in others. Good luck, you need it, I know I needed it.
@@Rexhunterjlearn to get your own justice is what I’d advise… you’re a man! You don’t have to depend on others for justice!
I taught school for 10 years. Then I got married and didn’t have to work. So I’ve been a stay at home wife for over a decade.
I love taking care of my home and husband. Life is good.
Girls today get influence from senators and tweeterers who push modern bandwagon selfvictomhood and antimale content daily
every major female influencer literally blames all men on a monthly basis... work on that, ladies... libsoftiktok is prime example of proof
Are you sure pleasing a boss instead isn’t better?! How dare you
Heya sis in arms😉
Based!
It’s pretty simple if you’re country’s population of 18-30 year olds can’t afford to be financially secure, buy a home , car , food then it’s unlikely they will take the extreme financial risk to get a wife and have kids.
Not the main reason. so why are 25-30 years who are well off marriage and not gettting ran though, and have 3 children by 30 ? stop blaming the economy and deflect from toxic femininity. Why poor women in the third World have soo many children if it is the economy LMAO. Feeling is not reasoning.
You comment nothing but facts.
@@floridamankyle5461 facts is poor women in the Philippines living in one room have husband's and 8 kids why the rich one doesn't. The average birthrate goes down the richer the country becomes already proven enough this BS feeling comments. So nothing to do with 304 culture and girl power movement? Lmao
Facts
You will own nothing and you will be happy and childless eating bugs in a borrowed pod.
Dude, I'm not paying full price for a beat up car hundreds of guys has skeeted in.
A Kia Soul??
Yes you will. Men love used cars because they’re cheap and relatively reliable.
What if it’s a demo derby car fitted with armour plates and chain tyres and skulls in the trunk
I just had my son 3 yrs ago. I would love to try for 1 or even 2 more but with my wife and I both working we still barely scrape by. They don't want it to be economically viable. They don't want us to reproduce.
Just have another and move to a cheaper town.
Have the child and wing it, figure it out after the fact
I'm from the first generation of my father's line that wasn't poor, going back hundreds of years. He was one of six; his father, one of twelve; his father, one of five; and so forth going back to their literal Slav-ery in the Old World.
But they were happy, and they grew up strong and healthy, generally in favor with God and men.
Become ungovernable. Turn to crime if it helps you raise a larger family. This government and system has lost its divine right to rule. So usurp its authority by any means necessary.
Reuse everything you used last time. Only thing you need is breast milk and nappies!
Nice to see Chris doing the rounds!
This is an intelligent and helpful collab that should be on major network opinion spots.
I’ll say😍
The dude is a moron and is picking and choosing data to fit his preconceived notions and ignoring anything that doesn't fit his narrative.
Studies over the past 60 years all point to the fact that women cheat more and evolutionary psychology would also presume that it has always been that way, the history books also corroborate that idea.
Women are getting positions over men not due to ability alone they are being artificially put into positions over men "for equality". They are also getting university spots over men for the same reason.
Mormons have been the leading growth religion in the US for many decades and this person is acting like this is a new thing. Smh.
I haven't seen somebody so misinformed on this topic in quite awhile but you all seem to just accept BS if it comes from somebody that seems to be in a position of authority and says things confidently.
@@poempadgett4664 agreed if I was a bummer I'd have a shot on him first, if anything for the intellectual discussion and cigarette afterwards
@@graytoby1 ugh 🤦🏻♀️
My boomer mom and mother in law said I should go back to work and put our son into daycare. I told them that I wanted to raise my own son and not have a stranger raise him. They think money = happiness. I think they are insane.
It's a good thing you broke the cycle.
Yep. Nothing to be gained about being the richest person in the graveyard.
Boomer materialism truly is a sickness.
I absolutely agree with Carl I'm a housewife and mother of 3. And it's not like I didn't have the choice I have a degree in nursing I served in the military. My duty is to God family and country.
Y'all have a blessed day
You dont live in a big city though, we can tell 😅
Thank you for your service. But yes. You do't live in a big city. I live in a moderately sized city and I had to go back to work part time. Of course I told my boss that the moment my kids need me, I'm off for the day, and I don't care if she fired me. I'm now the lead therapist. My boss is great.
This is fundamentally it, women should be able to do whatever they want - the only people telling them they can't currently are feminist activists who really just care about themselves.
For example if you look up what toxic femininity is, it just describes the stereotype of the traditional housewife and purposefully paints them in a negative light.
@@elizabethkraszewski6603 well put 😂 when I had my kid I moved from the city I was born in raised in to a house in the countryside.
The house was more expensive, but I'm not paying for it with my soul like I was living in the city.
I go back to visit family occasionally & it feels like leaving the garden of Eden to visit hell for a while.
Respect
Those degenerate hos did it to themselves
Yep 👍🏻
They were allowed to do it to themselves, and every thought of self-correction was beaten out of them systematically. While they may be suffering the just consequences of their own choices, the forces that encouraged them toward destruction are enemies of all mankind.
"I'm definitely prejudiced in favor of humanity."
God-Emperor approved.
Enslaved Women: Raising the next generation in her own home on her own time and inscribing her values onto her children
Liberated Women: Punch a clock for a faceless corporation who would replace you in 2 weeks if you died. Get an abortion because making spreadsheets for $60,000 a year and living alone in a studio apartment is more important than raising a family.
L0gik
fEmaLE eMPowERmeNt
Man having all those things must surely make up for the fact that these ladies have no kids.
Apparently this spites the patriarchy lol
Is this where the youth's say....Based? You're 100% correct.
Based
@@RipleysSanatorium Hey! The, uh, the thing!
As a single man not far off from 30, not meeting anyone and having children by now is, in my eyes, one of my greatest failures, but the women around me just aren't worth the risk. It's one hell of a catch 22.
Don’t do it ❌
This. I'd love to have children and I'm sure if I never manage it then it will be my greatest regret.
But I'm not having children just to have them taken away from me forever, made to hate me, serve as a financial debt slave for some two decades at least, and probably also find out they really weren't mine to begin with.
I wish I could carve my progeny out of stone and breath life into them, improving largely on Pygmalion's idea.
Date younger women. Early 20s. Ditch them at any red flag. No hoes no daddy issues no left wing nuts etc. You have to train them. Age gap helps. Be confident and competent. Be the leader of your life and she will follow. These women are more common the further from the cities you are. Good luck.
@@Guy-Mann get a passport, go to a nation where people still respect traditional roles
@@impudentdomain Out of the question.
So many of the problems facing the global west today have been exacerbated by people running away from them in search of greener pastures. Besides, I will not abandon my culture and place of origin to go insert myself uninvited into another culture and take their women as my own.
I intend to do what I can to mold the culture back into proper shape. I don't have high hopes, but it's all there is to be done about the whole situation.
12:00 - It's very simple. When you take away someone's dream of a family, a well paying job and ability to own their house and suddenly you've also taken away all their motivation. Delayed gratification only works if the person gets the reward at the end and many men are seeing there's no reward at the end, just an ever shifting goal post.
By buying women's votes, western countries have replaced fathers and husbands by "the government"
Only non-working single mothers and the rich can have as many babies as they want. Non-working single mothers are rewarded with more money and housing for having more kids. If married to a working man they get less money. The middle class are taxed heavily to pay for the poor. If the father works he'll have to work hard. The super wealthy avoid taxation and have plenty of resources and can do what they want.
Regarding the next generations: Children will be taxed heavily to pay for care of the many aged, and they'll struggle to afford their own kids and won't have much time to care for their parents. The benefits of having kids has been socialised, while the cost to the middle class remains with the parents and the fathers are seen as entirely disposable if the mother wants to kick them out and claim their income and assets.
As an Iranian man, this is way too relatable. Funny how the outside world believes only women have it bad here because of Islam and blah blah
I had a colleague at work that had a gap of 7 years between his first and second child.
Why?
Because he had his first while he was a factory worker at a certain salary and the second came when he changed his occupation into a software developer.
I'm a Mormon mom of 9 kids. Just doing my part to take over the world.
God bless
I bet it echoes
Please do, we fucked up.
God bless.
How do you afford it?
I was married once. It turned into an uneven slavery that made me so depressed I had to be put on multiple antidepressants. The current family law system directly incentivizes women to be bad actors.
This is the kind of thing I'm trying to spread awareness about but it seems almost everyone outside of the niche MGTOW community is blissfully ignorant of it, and often utterly incapable of comprehending it or believing it.
You’re right, I think the law is a HUGE factor
I wasn't married, but I can feel your pain.
After seeing what my older brother went through, I saw it as a trap. Leaves a lot more time for hobbies.
Why sign a contract with a person that is encouraged and heavily rewarded for breaking the contract.
As a woman in my last year of college, I have to say that the "new and improved" social norms are already making me miserable.
I never wanted a full-time job, but I have one now and I'm studying to get a more rigorous one because that's what I've been told to do since I was a child. I want to be a wife and mother someday, but when I tell people that, they look at me like I'm mentally handicapped. Their faces say "you have know any better," but I do. I don't want to live like this forever, doing meaningless office work until I age out and die alone with my cats. (Obvious exaggeration, but still a possibility)
We need to reel back all this so-called "empowerment" because the overwhelming majority of it isn't giving power to anyone. A lot of women would probably be happier in a domestic role (obviously NOT all, but a good chunk), but they either are too nervous to go against the grain or don't even see that as an option.
Sorry for the long rant. This is a topic I am particularly passionate about.
there is no going back , women working is not on option anymore , its a must due to the workforce inflation when they all joined and workers pay getting lowered significantly as a result. now that costs of living are so high most men cant provide for wife and kids, she will likely have to provide financially as well.
The way I see it is that instead of giving woman the opportunity to choose to go into whatever kind of work of life they choose, We are just forcing woman to work, So really what's changed, I don't see the difference between a society that prevents woman from working and one that forces woman to work, To me there is no difference at all.
@@ilanraeayalabaciu2957 what is women's roll in society? Cause seeing as women and pro women people think they have or should have none and can do whatever they want and anything else is oppression.
I ask this cause what you just said could be applied to men ,they have no choice but to work as that is their role but apparently men have responsibilities where women have choices.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy personally I don't believe woman should have to work, men should work yes, but not over work, that's my opinion
@@CyberPunkBadGuy I think if a society forces woman to work then that society has failed
The funny thing is... Anybody who has a lot of experience around women, knows... Women have WAY more influence over each other, than men ever did. Women generally care way more about being accepted by each other, and they care way more about what other women think about them, then men do about each other. ie: If women shame other women into thinking that just being a 'housewife' is some sort of embarrassing failure... Many women will change their their life decisions based on that.
It's the female equivalent of the fact that the IQ of a group of boys is equal to the greatest IQ among them divided by the number of boys in the group.
"Let's drink reaper hot sauce. It was too stupid to do alone, but with the TWO of us..."
Most of the happy and in-relationships women I know are either like minded hobbyists (outcasts from “female society” such as it is nowadays) or are the queen-bee contender types who don’t bend to the opinions of others. Both types have had their happinesses and successes despite feminism rather than because of it, their partners simply treated them as just that, partners.
Gods knows where you find more of such people though, most of their friend group are either male, taken or the types that are fun to spend some limited time around but good luck being seen as more than a coat rack or taxi-share when they don’t hook up and leave on their own terms.
Que my 17 y.o daughter stage left.... 😄
Def
Yes and no. Yes, women's friends have huge influence, especially before marriage/children. But no, in the sense that their desired romantic partners can have a huge influence on them. If a hot guy rejects them, it really hurts them quite a lot, and can shape their preferences. That requires men that are more attractive than the women though. That is hard to accomplish, and there's a huge genetic filter there as well.
*_"I'm black, and I find that offensive" - Get over it, I don't care about your 'Feelings.' Seriously, I'm so sick of it ..._*
Off to jail for you
I don’t give a f*ck about them .
I have 6 kids with my wife (one is adoptive) and it is annoying how people treat us as if we just luckily stumbled into a stable marriage and family. I get it, it is NOT easy. Not easy to have a stable marriage, or get into one. But we didn’t just accidentally get married and just hoped it would work itself out. We worked our asses off for each other.
In a sense, you kind of did get lucky. You got lucky enough to find the magical unicorn woman who was _willing_ to work her ass off for you, and who is appreciative of you doing the same. There is luck involved in hoping you find someone who actually takes marriage seriously and treats it as lifelong. Most people don't have that view anymore.
@@Rockhard1492 Yep, OP is missing the point that his peers are telling him he is LUCKY that the chance even occurred, most people won't get that chance and then some who do aren't able to take that promise to its conclusion for various reasons, the nuclear family can only happen under certain circumstances.
Chris is wrong about equality in universities. It never happened.
Men went to university out of obligation. The goal was to attain specialized knowledge or skills, which in turn earned an income for his family and kept the lights on for his civilization. It was never about his own personal fulfillment or anything about himself.
The push for women in universities was intended for the direct benefit of women right from the start, in a way that was never the case for men.
It can be argued that the one exception was for the religious universities, where one would often have to join a monastery in order to be able to attend. That was usually for a kind of spiritual fulfillment, but it also usually came with loss of family.
But it really doesn’t benefit women even now as women hold the majority of student loan debt largely due to getting worthless degrees or they get good degrees but don’t like the career and drop out into lower wage, less demanding jobs.
There were plenty of men in the early 20th century who would get an English degree which they in turn never used, but they did develop bonds with fraternity mates and with other classmates that would last a lifetime. Stoner is a novel which talks about these exact sorts of people who ended up usually as future school faculty (if not in some factory or office job).
School used to be about more than just teaching people skills (now useless skills).
It's almost like women don't understand on a fundamental level what it is too be a man or what it entails. Maybe men should stop taking advice from people who have no idea at all what it means to be a man.
Good call!
I'd love to get married & have a children. But dating @ 25 is just impossible these days. Most women my age make more money in 1 month than I do in an entire year. Thanks to hospital debt, I lost all my savings overnight & put my parents in financial trouble, now living with my elderly father, praying I'll be able to pay the property taxes when he dies. Not to mention I'm scarred & mildly disabled.
All of that makes me a "Low Value Male" to women. I've tried to date, but every woman I've talked to recently is vapid & shallow, only caring about my income, or if I have a car to drive them places. Everything is transactional, nothing is cooperative/constructive.
You have to find women who live in non rich areas... more than you? get out more
Sorry but disabled men shouldn't be able to get women.
If that's really true you need to move. You live in the wrong place.
Not to be cruel, my guy, but you're the only one with any chance of changing any part of that equation. The "move" advice above isn't bad, but it's not the only answer, either.
You sound unhappy where you are, physically and spiritually. Moving to a better, more affordable locale is one change; seeking God and community is another; learning some new skills and getting your diet/exercise equation balanced is another, still.
Just don't keep doing what you're doing how you're doing it, since it doesn't seem to be producing the results you want.
@@robertbeisert3315 Good advice, honestly. But I think I understated how little I earn. I currently have less than $800 in my bank account, living paycheck to paycheck with a measly $300 a month for disability. I try to save, but inflation's taking half of what I make. Even if I saved all my money for a year, I'd have less than $10k. But I guess that's what I deserve for not going to college & being in a fire before I was able to go to a trade school. Now I can't do the physical jobs I used to, which paid marginally more. Right now I'm just trying to figure out a career that I can actually do, physically & mentally, given my situation.
I was raised by a single mother. If young boys do not have a father they will go find one or two or 7. I was lucky the ones I chose were all positive influences. Ask any economist worth their salt and they will tell you the single parent family is the absolute plague of the inner city.
I'm 27 been single for a few years and my God dating has become impossible. They all seem to have a bunch of kids and expect you to immediately be the new father or all they care about is their job.
I swipe tinder as more of an observation on society that an actual dating app, and holy fuck the amount of single mothers is unreal.
Most that aren't single mothers (or obvious bots) seem like activists, who write things like "swipe left if you voted leave!" (etc.)
Just lie and use them for sex. They’re basically casualties of the Gender War still ongoing since the sexual revolution.
@@Jackaljkljkl which is ironic because brexit was just a symbolic W at best
You are looking in the wrong places.
@@Jackaljkljkl Where do you live? Did you try other apps like Bumble?
You are replaceable at work. You are not replaceable as a mother. My mother passed away over 30 years ago and I still miss her. I married a widower with three daughters and I know that no matter how much of a mother role I played, they still miss their mother everyday as they should! Why? Because a mother’s role runs that deep. I can’t believe that women would throw away or look down on that role.
At work people are just a number
I sure won’t be missing that old bitсh
Men have emotions. But women ARE emotions. And once a woman hates something it goes into the soul of her being.
These women have been brain washed to HATE anything and everything that remotely approaches family and motherhood. And they hate it with everything within them. This cannot be undone. This "bell" once rung can never be "unrung".
Men are replaceable as fathers though. That's one of the main reason we are where we are now. The state took over the father's role.
My Mum is replaceable , absolutley dead inside , narcissist and non empathetic.
When I was younger I looked down on women who chose children over a career. I didn't have my first child until i was 36. Now I wish I could go back and start having kids earlier so I could have more! Being a mum is so much better than I imagined.
I want to be a mom before 30
@@leedlbagginshield8492 all I wanted to be in my early 20s was to be a father now at 29 couldn't Care less about it.
I was homeschooled for seven years by my mother. She worked just as hard as my factory-worker father. She is so grateful that she could spend that time with us in our most important years. It saddens me greatly that most women will not be able to feel that same joy in raising their children, because f*minism tells them that it is a lesser experience than being a wage slave.
don't feel sorry for those demons. The hated children to begin with.
She probably would be better off without kids.
Don't feel sorry for women. They are getting exactly what they deserves, since their outcomes are purely based on their decisions.
Is the tax break for men or just women? Like Chris said, the benefit is just for the woman (I believe) in Hungary. No added incentive for men to want children.
There is not only that woman specific help in Hungary. There are benefits to get money to buy a house if you are going to have children. It's called "CSOK" and the more children you have, the more money you get. There is also the same kind of deal to purchase cars for families with more than 3 children. This benefits men as well as women.
Both women and men are equally responsible for this. If woman have no kids and works, she can expect earned state pension because she paid taxes all her life, just like men
Their is a huge growing number of men who simply aren’t interested in picking up the pieces of some woman who threw themselves around during their twenties an are now interested in ‘settling’ for a guy in their 30’s who will support an foot the bills until the kids old enough to start school then get ‘graped’ in divorce court. Pay to have the woman to raise your child to hate you because her initial interest was in not dying alone.
I understand you but try finding a non promiscuous guy or a guy who understands why promiscuity is bad. They only think it's bad for women.
Men turn down whores all the time
@@Woo_Woo_Woman There are plenty of non promiscuous men. Pick your crowds and friends better.
@@Woo_Woo_Woman I'm middle aged and my body count can be counted on one hand. Francis here is spitting facts.
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Doesn't help that so many of us guys have seen our friends get screwed over in a marriage and divorce along with never getting to see their kids but a few days here and there. They have made marriage largely a bad deal for men
So very true , just getting divorce graped myself , haven’t seen my kids for about 16 months .
Pretty much, even heard about a guy whose wife since the 1980s suddenly got bored and left, taking his house, his retro car collection and his children and leaving him like many other men, stuck in a studio apartment fighting to keep his nose above water while his wife reaps his wallet and another man's girth. If even borderline ancient relationships are vulnerable to sudden catastrophic combustion that will leave you wishing you were dying alone with nobody to wipe the sweat from your feverish brow, what hope do people just getting in have to find a stable life together?
@@kielbasamage wait. If men aren't going after women much then how are these women divorcing men and then going out and getting men? Your assessment of the situation is flawed. Usually it ends up in misery for both then and the women it is just the women keeps taking money from the man
@@thomgizziz 80/20 rule. Women are marrying and divorcing the same pool of guys.
@@thomgizziz "Wait; if women aren't going after abusers, then how are abusers continuing to get married and able to abuse women."
Go to a conversation with women talking about their experience with abusers, say that, and see what happens.
If women carry on behaving how they've come to behave and carry on getting fatter and fatter whilst claiming it's healthy and body positive, I'm not surprised they'll all be single. Well done, feminism. Well done! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Rollo Tomassi would be a great guest. He often quotes the following:
'Women are becoming the men we wanted to marry' - Gloria Steinem
Every time I hear the name Rollo Tomassi, I think of the hardcore band and get excited. Then, every time, I realize the person is talking about the dude, and get disappointed.
Nah he's way too dogmatic in his made up beliefs now. His first couple books are a good source for understanding some of the darker aspects of female dynamics but he's just pure grifting now on his UA-cam channel. Saying the most controversial thing possible to get more clicks
Gloria Steinem, CIA operative.
Had an argument with a young women in my university about abortion due to whats gone on in America. We we're unable to find any common ground as she described the featus as a parasite, not an embryo, not a baby, a parasite, truly women thse days are brainwashed into believing that child rearing is a bad thing.
I've seen that mentality spread in online spaces. It baffles me how that way of thinking can spread so far in the same group that preaches tolerance, empathy and inclusion.
@@frishter They only feign those traits, they don't possess them.
I don't think I'll be having a child for many reasons and fears including worrying I don't have the patience to be the mum. But never would I describe a baby as a parasite. Unfortunately in a few childfree groups I'm in (which I'm thinking of leaving) people speak horribly about children and parents.
Child rearing is a blessing for many but for me I'm not so sure so I won't risk taking the plunge. It's possible to be childless by choice and not be horrible about kids but I hate to say that many of us are foul.
@@frishter They claim those traits the same way a tyrant claims a crown of gold and a cape of fine ermine; it makes them look righteous and just as they do their work upon those they despise.
Forcing birth of fetuses is not good
"Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problem. Take away the set of solutions and the problems come back as big as it ever was."
Wow. That was excellent!
Not true as a general statement, at all. There are many bad traditions.
Too many women are fussy and social media makes them think they too can have a Thor or a brad pitt. The below average looking women with weight issues are even demanding men that are 9s and 10s. If you are an average looking dude who is in shape you haven't got a hance.
Women view 80% of men at below adverage.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz I know. It's crazy. I think it was a study by OkCupid dating site. Women are surprisingly easily groomed by social media to expect unrealistic goals and what all men should look and act like.
@@markymark7803 Personally I say people haven't starve enough in this country.
Whenever I think about all our modern problems I remember Yumi Parks saying
"Man I wish I had the time to protest for ducks."
Nothing makes you more grounded than being extremely hungry.
@@markymark7803 women are easily groomed, period. That is why lebians act like grapists towards other women and it works for a hot minute and they can get away with it. It makes sense in evolutionary biology but it is terrible in current society.
@@prettyboyjeremy you don't want people to be extremely hungry because that is when the government can do really terrible things because people are easy to control. You haven't thought this through, mate.
*Western Countries regarding industry:* _"We don't need our own domestic production, we can just import from elsewhere for cheaper without needing to support or fund domestic institutions, facilities, workers etc."_
*Western Countries regarding birthrate:* _...._
There isn't a lot of societal incentive or reward to have children anymore, for comparison in the 1990s if you were a low income family you were basically guaranteed a council house and a space at the local school and controversially to some, financial support, there was a base respect or status for mothers and fathers of the local community, to put it into perspective, Police officers on the beat used to remove their headwear when talking to parents and would refer to them as mum or dad in front of their children.
Tbf that's the trend everywhere in the world. West and east Asia are simply first.
for me there's no economic incentive to chase family, the young women who're still single are some flavor of dysfunctional (think early to mid 20s) the government is actively replacing fathers with welfare and the housing market is bonkers to the point I've given up on owning one
why chase the carrot on a stick when I can live a content, not satisfied but content minimalist lifestyle? because the way I see it I'm damned either way this way is just less stressful
Europe is trying to "fix" Declining of birth rate by importing people from 3rd world countries who are having more babies.
I would say that it isn't a good way of fixing it.
@@jimbothegymbro7086 You're roughly the same age, right? early to mid 20s? Sadly, I don't know exactly what advice to give, I'm lucky to be European from an ex-commie country, which means we're lagging behind America and other countries (most people in their 40s and beyond lived hard lives while the young ones are split between those whose learned to their parents and those who did not, with the stereotypical Gen Z being born in 2004 or later). I am in my early 20s and while there are plenty of hoes and idiots on dating apps, there's still some normal ones I can meet through my friends.
@@totallynuts7595 as crazy as this is going to sound maybe communism helped in this regard, don't get me wrong it's horrid and shouldn't have happened but at least you've gotten some cultural resilience out of it, I live in Australia so we're just as crazy if not worse than the Americans and life has simply been too easy for too long so these issues have festered, hopefully things get better but I've got a saying, expect the worst hope for the best
It's easy to call people parasites when, like Carl, you totally overlook the legal and financial peril which the legal system puts men who marry and have children into. Something I believe he'll probably get burned by later down the line.
They want you to be cogs in the machine just as much as the Left does. But they want you to do it in a way that THEY approve of.
@@torachan23 I would sooner be a "childless parasite" than mere fodder. And they want us to rear more tax slaves for them, who will have less rights and wealth than we did. If governments want people to have children they need to stop making their countries ever shittier places in which to raise them.
British simp.
There is very little incentive to start a family, economy makes it so average people have to get in debt to provide a decent life for kids. The emotional commitment of getting with a person, specially when we don't know about our right or wrong choices motivated by seeing people engaged in toxic relationships with no actual emotions or material relationships that only benefit those involved.
Getting together young, when you both have nothing and building your life together is probably the safest way.
@@EfferusZangetsu now the challenge is finding a women who wants you while you have nothing, just as she hits peak desirability. Does not come naturally.
@@liamhenry3010 It is hard, but you have to give girls.some credit. They can see potential. If you are young and want to attract a good quality girl, have some goals be working towards them and have a plan for your life. Women can see that and admire that in a man.
@@andyworkman8699 I'm going to have to object to that, if women are so good at seeing potential why are there an increasing number of single mothers?
@@liamhenry3010 I did say if you wanted to attract a "quality" woman
Dont know why but the last few minutes of this podcast had me come to the realisation that Extinction Rebelion is a rebelion bent on bringing about the extinction of mankind
Indeedy
They're not the only ones, but they're certainly the most shout-y of the bunch.
Yup, a full on Death Cult.
They're communist subverters, but yeah. That's their goal.
Love seeing all the bank adverts before the vids shilling how devoted to the net zero death cult they are.
I love Chris as a guest. His podcast is awesome!
Traditional woman here. Fortunately there are still some traditional men and traditional women who still exist...
Getting rarer and rarer by the day
mostly not in suburban and city areas.
What are the odds that it’s a 1:1 ratio though?
There are significantly less transitional women, as is always the case.
Finding a nail in a haystack is easier.
I see it quite a lot at work and amongst my friend group. A decent number of guys simply won't ask women out since they'd rather not risk getting MeToo'd
Smart men.
Yup ive been interested in multiple women at work, but you couldnt pay me enough to wade into that mine field.
@@johnbrown1867 friend of mine asked someone he liked out over text, she said no so he thought nothing of it, a few weeks later he got dragged into a meeting. Luckily he had the receipts so he got off but nothing happened to her at all, no fall back on her at all. Shits fucked mate
@@alexwest6469 yup women ask where are all the good men? Right here on the sidelines waiting for the nonsense to subside.
If you aren't exciting enough to women, then ask for a date, the "Creep" accusation can ruin things for life.
Women will have to start asking average men in large numbers. Hopefully they will do so before the Chads and pump and dump them.
These are the kids and grandkids of the generation that was given easy, no-fault divorce. Men weren’t obliged to stay by society or law, so they left. These kids grew up usually with their mum only, with financial struggles. They had kids without getting married at all (what’s the point, marriage doesn’t last) or found themselves repeating a pattern laid by their own parents divorce. As 3rd gen kid of single mums, the security of marriage is gone so it makes sense to avoid kids.
More like women were incentivized to leave.
@@Cbd_7ohm not in my country. We don’t have alimony either. But we do have youth disenchanted with marriage, claiming to never want kids.
Yeah the incels complain about women initiating divorce but my dad was the one that cheated and left. My mum was just the one that bothered to do the paperwork.
When I was growing up, I had huge respect for all women, now I just avoid their craziness.
Incel?
its easier to just be alone, why waste my time with petty nonsense.
Should only respect people who deserve it, regardless of their sex.
You cant even speak your opinion in 2022 without being called an incel out of reflex by all the bluepilled normies
@@_my_insomnia_blink562 No, it is because of women bandwagoning and groupthinking into 'modern feminism' which is about blaming men for their faults deserved from their own actions, not men. Get a bit of a check on reality, miss.
There is no political solution 👌
totally agree, look at how much of a failure Japan has been with trying to control dating/relationships
At this stage we need to get our people out of the big cities, move together and build our OWN media, parallel institutions and eventually schools OUTSIDE this rotten system.
There are no solutions inside the Liberal paradigm.
MGTOW called it; prepared accordingly.
I'll see your political variable and quote a YTer that goes by Ak Nation TV,
"There is no solution"
He may even be selling a t-shirt with said declaration
Well, the solution is less political control.
Hi both, as an older woman I think this is a class issue as well.Working class woman have ALWAYS worked, usually in menial jobs granted because they couldn't manage on one wage.Womens income drops of a cliff when she becomes a mother and I remember how back in 60s they were made to feel that they were burdens. Is there any wonder a lot of girls who followed felt the only way out of the enforced dependency was getting an education
Problem with female nature is that, even if she is at home doing nothing but enjoying her kids, while her husband works 24/7.
She will see herself as the victim
So thankful I'm married, and to a quality man and not someone I picked from desperation. You start off traditional young and there's not much support outside, but as I get older... the tables are turning in turns of whose lifestyle is more glamorous. Apparently time at home with kids and being able to do home projects and create things is more attractive to my peers as they age. Hopefully my circle of influence is positively influenced by me.
If not, at least I have a good life!
Cheers.. many girls follow influencers whom are feminists and very much bashful to all men as a whole.. think about that moreso
@@dertythegrower When I refer to my circle of influence, I am referring to the ladies I know in person. I'm not sure I would ever be able to compete on a large scale with thousands of girl boss influencers, but the influence I have can at least be more meaningful with those I can actually talk with and have over in my home ❤️
Nope you going to have to pay much higher tax to support these leftovers, likely will never get anyone them when it is your turn. Peak wahmunism I guess.
@@josephinenelan4204 there merely on websites and have a checkmark next to there name....... those are the "influencers" they say jump and they get people going is this high enough?
Based!
The future needs decent people. There is a shocking lack of respect for human life in the healthcare field. The fact than many people are there are there are in it for the money doesn't quite explain this.
I volunteer at a hospital and see what you mean.
They are mostly all there for the money. Where I am it seems just a natural outcome of having massively powerful public unions. If you give so much for the role, you will get ppl going into it for what you give rather than what the role itself gives.
@@firstandforemost87 Big pharma provides perverse incentives. They influence what medical schools teach. That's how the opioid epidemic started. The single mother epidemic & leftist teachers affect the quality of people applying for those jobs.
@@freecat1278
You were sent sword for questioning your betters in beeg farmah
I totally read the title of this video as "The Future is Black" and it actually seemed like a realistic title given the kinds of things put out by media in recent years.
One thing I noticed is that if you want to be a housewife and stay at home mother there is a lot of pushback. Even if you are educated with work experience. People act like you are less than or inferior. It is deep in the culture.
Yes, I can confirm as a housewife that I get a lot of pushback for giving up my independence but now I also get a lot of pushback that is sort of jealous sounding; it's hard to describe but people will say things like "well you're so privileged to be able to stay at home" or "not everyone can afford to homeschool their children or live on a hobby farm" so now they're scolding me for being soooo privileged when before I was subjugating myself 🤷 you can't make others happy so I would just say be a housewife if that's what you want and don't worry about the rest.
Who cares what people think. Do you.
@@MC-ze8wj Housewives who homeschool their children on a homestead are the most powerful force on the planet. The more children are raised this way, the more independent families created, the less reliant on the system we become and the more those in power are threatened.
sperm banks should be abolished
Oh really? What if the couple is infertile?
Then it's evolution doing its job.
@@abnegazher Lol
......why?
NationalRaifuAssociation- because people who shouldn’t have kids use it like gays.
It breaks my heart that so many women are brainwashed. I'm a mother of two and these goofballs make me laugh every moment of every day. My life was so grim before they were born. Now I'm working from home, do college from home, and I'm homeschooling my kids. I haven't lost out on anything. I just have better coworkers 😆
That's a generous estimate.
A better way to word it would be:
"45% of women doomed to become crazy cat ladies"
Or worse, feminists
Nobody's gonna be able to eat soon, so no. Those cats are gonna die.
Future property. Or meat. 🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭🌭
Yes but men not exacly wining it either.. And specialy the young ones will radicalize Not to mention the fact that thanks to migration the ratio of men vs women is just off the chart. Every single person who is responsible for this mess deserve nothing less than bullet. This is recipe for civil wars all over Europe becouse bunch of marxists progressives are not willing to take lesson from mistakes we did here in Eastern Europe.. Not sure if it is out of arrogance or becouse of lust for power. either way it is sad
@@TheHylianJuggalo they can eat her.
To make matters worse (hopefully I'm getting this correct), due to the housing shortage here in Britain, for every 10% the average rent increases the fertility rates go down 5%.
be careful of linking it just to economics because some nations with very low birth rates have started giving couples money, rent, and other benefits to have children and it doesn't seem to be working.
@@impudentdomain Thats why I started with "To make matters worse".
@@impudentdomain I'd bet good money that the benefits barely scratch the surface of the costs of having children though.
Your housing prices would stabilize if you dealt with the massive influx for foreign intruders arriving at your door step…and got rid of the ones who already make your cities a dangerous place to be.
@@ComicGladiator they aren't tangible benefits but real nontheless
The issue I take with the "Men and women aren't enemies" point raised at around 18:20 in the video is, they demonstrably are, and women were the ones who instigated and began to wage said war.
They are at war in such things as higher education, where quotas are present for women, but not for men. Where there is an order of magnitude more grants for women than men. Where they are scored higher than men purely because of their gender, "to address historical grievances" (yes, this is a real argument, said to me personally by a real professor in the college I attended). They are also believed in almost every case where they claim sexual misconduct on the part of the male, which often results in the male getting removed from his studies.
They are at war in such things as the job market, because again quotas are present to protect women but not men. They are eligible to complain to HR but men are not.
They are at war in such things as family courts, where women are the beneficiaries of favourable court decisions both in regards to the distribution of wealth in a separation and in child support and in child custody. I recall a guest video that Sargon hosted several years back wherein a man was told to quit his job because it "wasn't stable", then was told he wasn't earning as much as he could based on the wages of the previous job that he quit because the judge forced him to, and was punished for both.
They are at war in policing. A woman can beat her husband black and blue, and he might call the police, but if she broke a nail while punching him then he is the one who gets taken away.
They are at war in such things as child custody, where a large portion of the custodial parent (usually mothers) interfere with the visitations of the other parent (usually fathers) as a form of revenge. They are at war in regards to telling lies about the other parent to pit the child against them.
I've barely even scratched the surface of how women wage war against men. They do so daily, they do so via the documented outlets of female aggression: reputation destruction, gossip and innuendo. They do so because they stand to gain something from doing it.
In higher education, they will be given better odds of having their application approved and they will also be given better grades. If they claim sexual misconduct they can take revenge against a man who rejected them, even if that was all he did.
In the workplace, claiming victimhood gets them closer to a promotion; either by eliminating a more promising candidate, or by removing a higher up. Not only that, they can open a GoFundMe page or similar and rake in a good deal of money.
In courts they get more favourable outcomes, both for crimes they committed and in divorces.
In child custody not only do they get to be the custodial parent more often, but they can sabotage their ex's visitations and get away with it. I knew a guy whose ex wife refused to allow him to see his children for twenty years, first by claiming domestic abuse, and after he proved that allegation false in court, by direct violation of a court order. And the courts did nothing to her.
So please, don't gaslight me. I've seen enough of the pain women can inflict just because they feel like doing so or because they might gain some trifling momentary advantage.
The irony that Mormans and The Amish will take over in a few centuries is amazing since the push to get rid of established religions and family households. To those who rejected the allure of technological dopamine and lustful sins, I salute you. Now, I'm going to return to my single status and wagey-cagey job as a product of modern Western Culture.
but it won't be mormons and amish, it will be muslims, you know the people who do not agree with anything the woke believe in.
Regardless of birthrates Mormans are starting to take on wokeness and since the religion was started and maintained by explicitly racist white dudes will dissolve if the leadership doesn't back off this tepid neo con Romneyite mentality it won't withstand in its current form.
There is an alternative: Become Amish
There aren’t enough of them. Fundamentalist Middle Eastern and African peoples will take over simply by breeding at a much higher rate whilst all first world democratic races aren’t breeding enough to replace themselves.
Just like all studies it is bunk. In about 10 years they will say another group will be the main group taking over. These things come out every decade. And none of it ever pans out.
Here's the thing. Break up that question of whether a woman would date an unemployed man if:
a) He was attractive, and b) He was unattractive? I bet the answer would not be the same. My suggestion would be that the former would be "I can change him and make him commit" and the other will be labelled a loser, a no-hoper and a virgin for life.
So well said.
A man is not attractive AND unattractive. The word you’re looking for is “or”.
It's true. So many women are willing to go to the ends of the earth for some attractive loser with a rap sheet than to grab up a successful, employed average dude.
For the most part, the answer is still no. Women generally only date across or up the hierarchy. It’s why middle class career women have insanely high rates of singleness/low fertility, no partners left for them because men their age that successful date younger women.
Preach it, Brother! Preach it!
"Men and women are not enemies"
Divorce stats PROVE otherwise.
50%+ for how long now?
@@Swordofswordom 60+ years? I mean, what did we expect? Shit cultural values plus financially and socially incentivized betrayal and exploitation... This was only ever going to end like this. Monogamy is learned. Humans at default are horny hairless monkeys out for number one. Even babies aren't safe...
And I have zero sympathy for them at all.
Same
Same .
It used to be a common attitude in various civilizations and societies that a person was never quite a full adult until they had children. As I compare the adults of today to the adults of my childhood I’ve been trying to figure out why the ones from before seemed so much more adult. I’ve thought clothes and hair styles, speech patterns, relative age…but I honestly think part of it is that when I was a child nearly all adults were married with kids…and now there is little difference between a college students life and a 50 year olds day to day lives.
When you have your own children you're invested into society, you want things to get better, being a childless adult you're solely focused on yourself and only care what society can do for you now (at the expense of the future, which is what the baby boomers did)
I think you are correct, but also we didn't coddle people in the past, unless you were a child of priviledge you had to get out of the house and fend for yourself at a relatively young age.
Children is your stake in the game, if you got none people can't really read or trust you.
More that back in the day the only way to do well was to work hard and behave.
Now? Binge drinking on the weekends, near zero hope of buying a property(even if you spend jotting done emergency or change will decimate any savings you can accrue), jobs that barely cover the ever increasing bills n rent, low loyalty prospective partners advertising themselves online via apps and speed-dating preferences (what was it, 70%? of women will only select from the top 15%? of men for a hookup).
The death of community cultures (when did you last converse with your neighbours?), the decline of religion and large stable institutions bringing common ground for conversation.
We are literally packed in like sardines With ever less control of our own lives now. Convenience culture has removed peoples need for self sufficiency and maturity.
@@IRMentat Decline of religion relates to improved education, atrophy of religious influence and scientific developments.
If I were a moustache twirling corporate monster that was only interested in profit, I too would be finding all sorts of novel and sneaky ways to persuade millions of young girls that being mothers is wrong and the route too happiness is work and shopping.
Cheap labor >> real labor
You don't sound like a smart moustache twirling corporate monster here. Because in that case you would run out of income sooner or later. If you are a smart moustache twirling corporate monster; you want people to reproduce fast and as much as possible. More people = more income, more consumers, more wage slaves, more voters, more canon fodder, etc.
Carl: "You selfish parasite."
Me to Carl: What kind of miracle workers are you expecting individuals to be in the present day, when all the incentive structures (legal, financial, educational, cultural, etc.) are arrayed in the opposite direction? How many people are going to be able to swim against the current through these raging flood waters? By willpower alone?
There are people with average incomes that still have kids.
@@Locke350 In very miserable, unfulfilling marriages that are on the brink of divorce at any given second
@@HarryPearce7 thats total ridiculousness. So unless you are wealthy, every persons marriage is unhappy and on the brink of divorce? Thats nonsense. Why then are the wealthy more likely to get divorced than the poor and middle income?
Are good relationships a lot more difficult to create in the modern day? 100%. But its ridiculous and pointless to convince yourself that its just totally impossible. There are many people with happy marriages and families today.
@@Locke350 All of these families live beneath the Sword of Damocles and could be torn apart by divorce at a moment's notice. As much as I like Carl, he's not acknowledging that it will take reform of the divorce laws to make starting families less risky.
@@haydencapps When 50% of all marriages end in divorce--and end because the woman simply gets tired of it at that--it is a devastating investment for a man. Much as a woman shouldn't be a whore, men should not invest in bad investments.
Love Chris, hope to see Carl on his show again soon.
I am glad they are addressing this because this was a cultural punchline against women of color for so long and nobody actually addressed white women increasing single mom status especially since 16 and Pregnant and The Kardashian Klan made it cool.
I owe nothing to this corrupt, decaying country.
Me nither, I’m so dissapointed in the whole world that I’m not willing to have kids so that they can suffer, and even live worse than I did when I was a kid. In adition to that, I’ll have kids sobthat they go to school, maybe coledge and that work a 9 to 5, live a life of debt and credit? No way, I just love them too much.
With the rising cost of living you would wonder how anyone could afford to have children at least those on a basic wage.
You vill eat zee boogs and you vill be happy. Naow get in zeh pod.
Thank God I'm married. It's brutal out there.
Family court is pretty brutal too if you're a man.
@@xekisFor me it's worth the risk.
City women are so bandwagoning the femi groupthink now.. rural or country women know better
@@unscriptedwithantonio for how many other men though
@@Jaco059 I can't speak on that.
I've noticed that even the virgin woman and males also prefer to be alone. I've seen them have great opportunities but for whatever reason there desire is non existent. It's like the desire to be single brings more happiness for some reason. People are assuming they are sad about being alone, but I think it might be the opposite these days. Very strange times.
"THE FUTURE IS FEMALE!!!"
Lonely, bitter, spiteful, resentful, hateful, female.
Good job ladies you did it.
Weak men allowed it it seems 🤔
Kick 'em when they're down. Now kick them until they like it.
MGTOW for life.
MGTOW is radical feminism for men. Men and women need to work together and get along if they want to be happy. It all starts with mutual respect for each other.
@@Chris44351 I'm not MGTOW but I don't see it as equivalent to feminism. MGTOW aren't demanding any hand-outs or special treatment
@@Chris44351 So it's only bad when *men* do it?
Explains why you only come *here* to talk fake-ass kumbaya.
"Radical feminism for men"...
You should be on your knees thanking Lord God Almighty there's no such thing.
@@Chris44351 no it’s not. Radical feminists want to bend society to their will. MGTOW wants to withdraw from it.
@@Chris44351 And trust!! A lot of people forget that one too, it's fundamental and without it people will be much more hesitant to make children together.
My mother warned me never to lose the ability to support myself and my kids. I have seen so many women of my generation end up providing all or the majority of support for their families. It makes me fear for a woman who has low-pay job skills and stays home with children for a long period of time.
I work as a plumber and cannot afford to buy a home in the city I live in. Once I learn enough skill I will have to move somewhere else and fingers crossed my marriage prospects will increase. Its such a hard struggle stressing about money that its hard to find a woman, especially since the largest factor women judge men by is how much they make.
Sigh, the modern world is depressing as hell. I wish I was born decades ago.
You realize you're describing a prostitute, right? Technically a gold-digger, but that's just a prostitute with a long-term business plan.
As the columnist Lewis Grizzard once said "Just find a woman you hate and buy her a house."
To label all people without children as parasites is a gross injustice. There are those, myself included, that had to make heartbreakingly difficult decisions regarding children based on whether or not to bring a child into the world only to be faced with the child's short life filled with pain, suffering and grief.
@Layne Staley No I have a genetic disorder.
There are always exceptions, but we try to speak to the rule, else nothing would change.
@@windradyne8724 This is why the rhetoric MUST be clear and with no ambiguity. Otherwise you will disenfranchise those whom ordinarily agree.
Blah blah blah, fucking excuses.
The real parasites are the world economic vampires telling us to eat bugs, don’t call yourself that. They are being simрs for the real problem.
For women marriage is win win. For a man to get married is insanity. She will lawfully be able to to take everthing you have including your children. Men, DO NOT GET MARRIED. Change the law.
At least they got into the workplace, right? Can't keep wages down if women stopped pursuing careers over family
The government already made the equal pay act in uk, us, and canada back in the 1960 era... the females talking about a gap are misinformed and uneducated on laws
Equal Pay Act
exists in many country.. women work less so they dont make less in that average they misconstrue to blab about the non existant wage gap.
wage gap, debunked instantly by the EqualPay Act. Many country have the same law since 1960s.
To state the obvious: It explicitly keeps the wages down by doubling the workforce.
Women entering the workplace basically killed the single income household. They created a surplus of workers so now employers can pay less.
Not even men want to be in the office!
We just go because if we don't, we'll be out of a home, a car, gaming PC's and food on the table.
Would be pretty sweet to just be a stay-at-home dad actually. All you need to worry about is the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids.
@@MDE_never_dies Yep. Give me the option of not having to be successful and I'll skip work for the rest of my life, and only wear comfy sweatpants and a bathrobe for the rest of my days basically.
Incidentally, this is my plan if I were to somehow end up being filthy rich and wouldn't need to worry about work anymore. I'm just gonna kiss social conventions goodbye, doing and saying whatever I feel like.
I've only known one stay at home dad, he found it dreary and a bit soul crushing, got depressed and had an affair, his wife left him in the end. He thought it would be great too at the start. It's not as easy as it looks, but I'm sure there are men out their who could adapt to it if they can find a women who wants that arrangement.
@@kazapeach9487 Well I currently live on my own, so I have to do all my cooking and cleaning as it is. I don't find it that hard.
The hard part is juggling all of that with work at the same time. If I was somehow relieved of work, then the daily cooking and cleaning would be a breeze by comparison really, even if I had to cook and clean for another person as well as myself.
@@sevenproxies4255 it's not the looking after yourself and the house that's the problem it's looking after the kids as well. Depending on your circumstances it can be extremely isolating and, well, ask any parent, it's really hard work. It can't be described to be honest until you go through it yourself, but then you will get it a few years in when you are still being run ragged by them😄. I've got 3 boys, stayed at home with them for many years... Would not have had it any other way, but it was not easy. The are all tweens and teens now and they are great company, we are always chatting and laughing. They are worth every penny and every sacrifice you make. There may be stages along the way though when you wonder if you've made a terrible mistake🤣🤣
@@kazapeach9487 Sure thing. Children will ramp up the difficulty level. But at the same time, your own children are about the most worthy investment and challenge to accept in life. And I do have a good track record with seeing worthy challenges and investments through in other areas.
If you have children and teach them to be better than you were, you are inflecting positive change in humanity over time.
Good, They'll only learn their actions are wrong if they have consequences.
Or society will completely stagnate and fall apart because women are incapable of learning their place without beatings and unlearning their false sense of individualism.
Unfortunately their choices will hurt all of us before they even consider learning from them.
We all have to suffer the consequences tho!
Their actions are already having consequences and I don't see that much learning going on.
@@ALovelyBunchOfDragonballz this will not hurt men as much as women; *especially since men advance society* and can literally make an alternative lol
Men can just make sex-robots, virtual realities or probably genetically engineer a woman.
Women cannot do shit about this other than complain.
Sure, it is a dark reality (for women) but these "consequences" favor men
Women rejected average hard working dudes like myself so that they can go have Chad babies and be struggling single mothers, knowingly. That's a big massive L for me I guess. What can one do? You can't make someone love you. They either do or they dont. Women would just rather go it alone than marry average these days.
Or they don't have babies and end up lonely at 40 because the cock carrousel is not eternal... and they still don't want to look at the average joe because they've got a diploma, you know.
... or maybe some mature women aren’t desperate and don’t wanna settle/marry a man who isn’t good for her. And it isn’t always the wife’s fault for divorce; what about the men who just walk out on their family only to be having an affair? Then people like you most likely blame the daughters for being “fatherless” when they were never even given a chance. Life isn’t fair, and that’s the harsh reality of it. Love will come to you when it’s TIME it should NEVER be rushed. You win some and you lose some, and of course same goes for women. Would be nice to see man and women respecting each other but all I see is them going at each other’s throats. How sad.
@@erisunflower All i can do is offer a future. If she rejects it, it's on her 100%. I dont know what's "not good" about providing a place to raise a family but maybe the modern woman's priorities have changed. I've moved on regardless.
@@erisunflower 83% of divorces in the US are initiated by the woman
@@erisunflower Way to prove him right!
I live in Norway, one of the richest countries in the world compared to its population. I'm 24, both me and my fiancée want to have children, but we want to own a home first, this is the most common reason I've heard amongst people my age in regards to why they don't have kids. Sadly the housing market here is just completely fucked so that's not an option for most of us. I'll still have kids no matter what before I'm 30, but it sucks not being able to get a loan for a house in my home country. My current plan is to get a remote job in Norway and then live in a poorer country in Europe so that I can raise my kids in a proper home (and a far better climate). Portugal is the goal.
A moment of silence please for all those "selfish parasites" out there who wanted children but for whatever reason beyond their control can't have them.
So great to see these two giants together. Fantastic work from both Chris and Sargon! Keep it up please!
MGTOW MEN ! WITH CURENT LAW IN PLACE , FAMILY COURT JUST GO YOUR OWN WAY ! Men Going Their Own Way
I would kill to be married. But every time a woman finds out I never went to college and that I dont like getting drunk every weekend, and dont engage in political activism, they immediately lose intrest. Never mind the fact I make more money then they ever will. The fact I want a stable relationship instead of endless nights puking into bathroom toilet at the local bar makes me bad.
get your passport, head out to Asia or South America, to cultures who are still traditional
Have you considered marrying Amish?
@@StarboyXL9 You joke but in all honesty yes. I have actually joined several religous groups (not amish specifically, there are none in my area) with the hope thingsight be better.
get out brothers. all the you work hard for is no worth over there
@@impudentdomain you haven't talked to people in Asia or South America have you? They aren't any different. They are exposed to the same media as western women and act the same. Your only chance is if you stay in those countries and can still earn the same amount of money as you did in the US. If you bring them back you will have a hard time holding on to them because they will search for a bigger fish because you don't have something that is even close to a real relationship with them.
Hence the reason "They" are shipping across the channel hundreds of thousands of young men ...to replace the indigenous males who at no longer around. ...
As Ex President of France Nicholas Sarkozy stated .... " the people's of Europe will be encouraged to breed with migrants , if not , FORCED"
He’s high on the kalergi plan.
We Danes really Liked your Queen too! my condolences to the British People
Married to the government like secular nuns