I grew up with 6 women in the house. 1 mother and 5 sisters. One sister has a many accolades and medals from her time in 2003 era Iraq. The other started a small farm. The rest have various successful careers. All of them are married and love being mothers. Somehow they managed to do all of these things without government intervention or help from the feminist movement. I can personally attest to their happiness. Especially when compared to the typical feminist. Women don't need help. They're fine. They can figure it out on their own.
Didn't feminist push for women's right to work at least? If so, technically, your family still owe a little to feminism after all, but only on that point.
These days I have washed my hands of women everything thing they have done the past 5 years makes me see them as trash half the time so if feminist are shooting themselves in the foot with abolishing femininity aka attacking women why would I complain my enemies are attacking themselves and each other let them 🤔
I miss the times when being a tomboy was a concept no one gave a second thought to. Yes, I'm female and I'm fine with that, yes, I generally prefer to do more "male considered activities", I like DIY, I like my videogames, I've only ever worn trousers, no one touches that bbq but yours truly and yet in recent years it feels like an attack from all sides. You're not feminine enough or you're not masculine enough; why can't people just let you be anymore?
Somehow everyone has hit hyper individualist where you need to be a unique being due to the slight twist, bump and hue of your genitals, but also hyper collectivist "in the group or will be six feet under the ground" simultaneously.
A well-known gay makeup artist said basically the same thing, to an auditorium of women at a UA-cam convention, a few years back. “These influencers have you young beautiful girls looking like drag queens…less is more.” His comments weren’t received well.
@She Knows Don't assume that gay men are always "balanced" in femininity and masculinity. That's hurtful to the gay men who want to be masculine and lift weights and try to be like the giga chad meme. Don't be hateful towards the gay men who want to be more masculine than feminine, especially considering that judging by your tone of comment, I'd guess you try to be an "ally" to them. Assuming gay men to be feminine doesn't sound like you're being an ally to them.
Men: That guy over there is ripped and successful. I gotta hit the gym and get it together. Women: That women over there is attractive. I gotta stop everyone from being able to see her.
Nah, there's plenty of men who will try to bring down a successful man out of pure jealousy. I mean, one of the first stories in the Bible is directly about that, Cain and Abel. Similarly, there are plenty of women who take inspiration from attractive and successful women.
@@azmanabdula The first weapons were almost certainly side effects from survival tools we fashioned with our big monkey brains. Pointy rocks would have been among the first and they would have also been used in both anger and when we needed to flex our power. In that respect we're not that different from women. It's really the motivation for the vast majority of it that is different.
That is where non-binary and asexuals come in, but they are not allowed to exist because the left wants to have sex with everybody, including animals and objects in public. What is the point of claiming to never have sex when the left call you racist, transphobic, or homophobic when you refuse to date or have sex with them?
if I heard of "feral girl summer" in a vacuum, I would think it was some kind of open event for furries, and as such I would raise the possible necessity for rabies shots, just in case. Given how the main idea is basically "return to monke" and act like a wild animal, it's not too far off the mark lol
@@sparking023 Huh. Haven't heard that word used in that way for a long, _long_ time. For me, the first thing that came to mind was insane, animalistic behavior, a la pretty much all the most base forms of "protest" we've seen over the last decade and a half.
@@sangheiliwarrior86 C'mon bud, we both know there are some extremely desperate men that will sleep with these mad cows. It's just never going to be the men they "really" want.
They can get laid they just aren't gonna get commitment and resources from the Hugh status men they want. Even if they lower their standards there aren't enough simps to go around.
@@magma_fire_bagwan If you knew anything about the state of therapists and pwp's in the UK you'd know it'd be more akin to the inmates running the asylum sadly
My oldest stepdaughter is a proud feminist and BLM supporter as well as being an indoctrinated snowflake that is a victim of the patriarchy. She's unable to keep friends, cheats in every guy she goes out with because you know, feminism. Oh she cant keep a job either. Add to that her mental health issues and drug and alcohol abuse she's a real catch.
Like all cults, it attracts vulnerable victims by offering them happiness when they reach the final level of enlightenment. Then it just keeps adding new levels of Operating Screechan.
I was a gigantic tomboy all my life. I'm now sewing dresses, and do the home spa and half-hour-long skin care routine. I'm the happiest I've ever been while still being the same nerdy person on the inside
Omg, same! Been in a position for 6mo where I can wear skirts and dresses (previously couldn't due to job reqs) and I'm feeling so much better throughout the day.
Not sure what your definition of Tom Boy is, but I've known girls and women who were very Tom Boyish, liked more traditionally masculine things like messing with Motorbikes and machines in general, much preferred being one of the lads than being with other women, leading to lots of snide comments behind their back from those women, but at the same time still retained a lot of femininity. I would say though, and much to the surprise of many, when they became mothers, they did take to motherhood whole heartily.
The Spanish thing got even better, they used images without permission, altered the black woman by painting a leg (she has a prosthetic leg), the guy who made it was paid 5000€ and after the blacklash he deleted his web and all his information, truly a progressive campaign
It´s even worse, they (them) paid a posh agency who got $80000 which subcontracted to the amateur poor devil who perpetrated that commercial art crime. I´m an old school leftist and hate these postmodern, corporate puppets in the Spanish Government with all my heart.
You just can´t imagine how deluded the Spanish "Minister of Equality" is. Totally out of reality. The irony? She´s a minister because her partner strong armed the Spanish Prime Minister into giving her a Ministry with an absurdly high budget to do basically nothing. The few laws she get passed regulate things already covered by current law. Absolutely absurd.
“Feral Girl Summer” reminds me of a quote, “You know, there's nothing about you I find tantalizing. On the contrary, I find you obvious and vulgar.” -Based Jean-Luc Picard That exchange really imbedded itself into my brain as a kid. 🖖
I was reading a book by Mike Resnick many years ago and recall very clearly the line "Sooner or later youve got to stop fucking and start talking" I think those feminists know that when it comes to the latter part, theyve got nothing to offer.
@@brittybee6615 A con-artist woman who was using holographic technology to convince a planet that she was a goddess/demon they owed an ancient debt to. Fitting, really.
@@Sentinel82 Oh yeah, I think it was. That was an old Star Trek Phase 2 script, so it was actually written for Captain Kirk. It's kinda fun to watch with that knowledge, as it comes across as Picard getting so pissed off by the villain that he channels the energy of his predecessor to take her down. EDIT: Just checked Memory Alpha, yes, that was the episode.
You will never, ever see a body positivity movement for men. If anything there is a new political push for dealing with unwanted communication, unwanted behaviour, creepiness and offence. Which is why you see the likes of Truss, Sunak, Khan et al speaking of new laws to deal with the aforementioned things. Problem is, your looks and desirability are linked to how much respect and value you get as a man. Which is why low value men are deemed misogynistic and creepy for being low value men.
And you have that piece of work Amy Nickell cheering Truss on with that and use the motte and Bailey fallacy when people rightfully criticise the “harassment” policy.
Men generally call it "self confidence", which is a factor in attractiveness (basically how you present yourself). Which is an internal thing, unlike "hotness" with is external.
The traditional woman version is Grace. Both are aiming at virtue in your life, so you have the attitude and ability to face all of the pitches life can throw you
When a person enters a room full of people, everyone in that room will judge their ‘hotness’ within less than a tenth of a second. Those ratings will correlate by more than 90%. Humans are hardwired to do this. And it’s not just men judging women, the women judge the women as well (and all other combinations).
Because God forbid a woman be both good,smart and have a highly attractive body I guess? But seriously I do believe a woman can be both with a voluptuous body while not being a thot or bitch, It's just sad it seems a rarity,and imo it should not be.
@@darkzeroprojects4245 No, it's about evolutionary biology... and related to humans being herd animals. The OP just laid out some basic facts which are mostly true... although there are people who are exceptions... in this case, blind people obviously being one group of exceptions, and "oblivious" people being another group. I strongly suspect that the people who are almost always "at the bottom" of "social rankings" are probably another group. When you're AT the bottom, there's not much point in hoping a random stranger will be lower than you. I also strongly suspect that being "at the bottom" is somewhat "liberating", in the sense of it removing obstacles, reasons, NOT to be a complete ass, so long as you aren't enough of an ass to get fired from your job or worse. In the immortal words of Janis Joplin, "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose." Maybe it's Evolution's way of giving something to those at the bottom... the "silver lining to the cloud".
How do you know it correlates by 90%? Where does this number come from? Certainly it doesn’t apply across cultures, as Nigerian men prefer big fat fatties above fit women.
I recently saw an episode of 'Have Gun - Will Travel' that delt with this very issue. Paladin is chasing a female outlaw with a hefty price on her head, he captures her and they are hold up for the night in this abandoned cabin. Halfway through the night she tries to jump Paladin and escape, but fails, she goes on a tangent about how she's never been treated well by men ever in her life and Paladin, whose patience has worn thin at this point, simply answers, "Did you ever think that maybe people would treat you like a women, if you simply acted like one?"
Worth mentioning that this is a 1950s Western serial rather than some weebery. If you're thinking of "Ella West", we have this lovely piece of trivia: The lines of poetry Paladin actually quotes to Ella are: first, an English translation of lines from Goethe that Dante Gabriel Rossetti used to compliment his celebrated painting "Lady Lilith", and second, from John Keats' ballad "La Belle Dame Sans Merci".
I could not give less of a shit if someone is a “bad man” or a “bad woman” so long as they are a good person. Obviously this female outlaw saying she’s been treated badly by men doesn’t give her a get out of jail free card, and she should be held responsible for her actions. But “people would treat you like a woman if you acted like one?” to counter her saying how men have treated her badly? A woman - or man - shouldn’t have to adhere to gender roles to not be treated badly. We are all people before we are any gender. If she was being a shitty person and people responded appropriately then that’s fine, but if people were treating her badly simply because she was an individual person who didn’t happen to conform to certain gender roles imposed upon her by society then that is, in fact, sexist.
@@AviKats66 Gender roles are guidelines from millenias of civilization. Most often it works. You don't have to adhere to them if you don't want to. But don't expect to get the associated benefits of these gender roles either. You might win some but you will lose some.
@@AviKats66 You. But we were mentionning the character described in this post who expected special treatment from men while being just another outlaw, and so, given none. The fact is that most women think being treated like any other guy is being treated badly because they don't realize that the etiquette in most societies is to show special deference and respect to women.
Sexual selection is an almost universal phenomena among animals. Almost every species of animal has some way of valuing sexual partner as good, average, bad and everything in between. Beauty standards are humans not being the exception.
The funny thing its so much more than just sexual selection. Its also tied it culture both overarching and specific subcultures. How you look and what you wear is essentially a visual argument to the people around you. Obviously you should have autonomy to make the argument, but to ignore that an argument is being made is just detrimental to yourself.
@@assortmentofpillsbutneverb3756 Which is why I'll never get why me wanting a woman with a attractive body to me while being a good person and can be a good wife and bed partner is me being too demanding while feminists and such have absurd expectations of men to be and are fine to demand.
@@assortmentofpillsbutneverb3756 The old saying, before going on a job interview, was "dress to impress"... It VERY much has wider social implications. We EARN our reputations... by what we do... and DON'T do. That includes our appearance, as well as the ways in which we behave. (BTW, I'm not arguing your point... I'm reinforcing it.)
@@darkzeroprojects4245 it can be over blown in demand and expectations, just from the fact that couples grow together. Wanting it all up front especially in a younger dating market is a lot. Plus its not like guys get no say at all. That being said, there is a lot of shame and failure within western culture about men actually having a say and outlet with what theyd like from women. I mean an easy topic to dive into to explore that is Japanese visual novels. For good or for bad, there is a whole consumer industry around appealing to young mens physical and cultural archetypes on desirable women. While many are just porn, others are more an actual novel. Its hard to say that kind of market would be socially acceptable enough in the west to grow outside of dark corners of the internet haha Idk its hard for me to say men in the west have space to build actual deep archetypes of women and most of the traditional ones are seen as wrong atm
My last ex didn't. She just started with the feminist rhetoric about an old man from work undermining her. I told her I wasn't interested and when she pushed for a reason, I told her that I wasn't into feminist women. She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and kept asking me for the "real" reason. Had to move to rural Romania to find a feminine woman - best decision of my life.
True ! I’m 28 but for the longest time I’ve always wanted to be a mum and a wife. Busy house with chaos and looking after everyone really sounded like a dream to me. I have my fiancé but due to my mental health and money issues I might run out of time to have kids. Which breaks my heart because I felt like I was born to have this life I want. And now that I might not have that I feel lost and depressed.
Men are more likely to find a fat woman attractive than the other way around. If anything, women need to love poor, fat, balding men, who make minimum wage. Waiting for women to call themselves out for their own wants....
@@WiseOwl_1408 yet they bring nothing but mediocrity at best to the table. These hos be built like Oswald Cobblepot and got the nerve to have standards
The dress thing is so true. I decided to never wear pants a few years ago. I decided this because I felt more myself in them and always felt blah and frumpy in pants but sometimes I wore them thinking they were more practical or because I thought it was strange to wear a skirt/dress just to take the kids to the park or run to the grocery etc. One day I felt so frumpy in my leggings while out I said I don't care, I'm going to wear a dress no matter how strange it is and I found it life changing too. Everyone treats you more respectfully, almost like men in their suits, and I personally feel better about myself. It feels like I'm treating myself with dignity and I feel more feminine, more comfortable in my skin, I don't know just more authentic and me. I dress in a vaguely '50s style usually with circle skirts made from heavy fabrics like denim, duck or canvas that I made myself (these have more body without needing a petticoat), a tank top or fitted v neck t shirt, and a cropped cardigan on top. Flats or Keds if I will be chasing the kids. So it's not very different to modern clothes except for the skirt and I even wear leggings or tights underneath too (with boots) in the winter. If I really need to be sporty they sell running skirts and I wear one of those. It's not as inconvenient or weird as I feared it would be and I have never once recieved a weird look or comment. If anything women compliment my handmade skirts sometimes 😊 I am even still wearing my skirts in pregnancy; the great thing about a skirt is you can just pull it up above the bump! Highly recommend if it appeals 👍
Seeing a woman in a dress is like seeing a total eclipse. You feel kind of privileged having been able to witness such a rare event. A woman in a nice sundress, well, I don't think there's anything better.
So true. I was wearing a nice 50s style dress, and my Hubby needed to goto the hardware store on the way home.. and the older men, their eyes seemed to light up. A lot complimented the dress and said I looked lovely. One older gentlemen as we were leaving, almost looked sad and said he missed the days where ladies looked like ladies and it was nice to see. Aw. 🥲
@@PumpkinSeedxI have a collection of '50s and '40s style dresses I usually wear on the weekends. I have gotten similar reactions, especially from the older generations saying they miss the days when women all wore that style dress. I own a variety of handmade, vintage, and reproduction and everyone compliments the cheap ones I got on Amazon the most so vintage doesn't even have to be expensive. They're full circle skirt, princess seamed bodice with no or cap sleeves in fruit or flower prints on a white background. I haven't found anything similar for maternity so I'm in my skirts for the moment.
@@MC-ze8wj Maybe wrap dresses or tea dresses might be comfortable for pregnancy? Like a maxi one so it's long and flowy but still feminine and beautiful. I hope you find something suitable that you love to add to your amazing sounding collection and I'm sure you look absolutely fantastic in it all! 😊
I’ve personally never understood why you wouldn’t want to take some pride in yourself and your hygiene ... I wear very casual clothing but do my makeup and hair. The rest I just keep comfortable and casual. Never understood the not shaving thing because for me it feels gross and I feel worse when I don’t shave. When I used to push against my other women friends on this I’d be called a pick me or not a real woman (ironically) for not being feminist enough. My mum let me down when I was 6 and most of the men in my family stepped in to help raise me with my nan so for me I’m not into feminists or the movement at all. Don’t worry lads .. some of your woman viewers have not gone insane like this I promise 🤣
I tend to find that the women who are not ideological and have not swallowed the kool aid are already in long term established relationships. The reality of what is the case on dating apps shows why your average looking single man and below are simply just walking away and losing hope.
I and several others had to report a woman in work who obviously never washed or changed her underwear when she was on her period. This was the middle of summer and the smell form her made it impossible to come within 20 feet of her without feeling physically sick. the stench was utterly horrendous.
@Lily People bathed during the middle ages the whole idea they were all filthy is ridiculous elitist nonsense taken from the works written by the rich who had legitimate disgust for anyone below their social class, it's like watching the KKK describe black people and presume that's how they actually were, the germanic tribe in the days of ancient rome had soap, they made it themselves and took frequent baths, let alone people in the middle ages, all you need to bathe is soap and a river. As for shaving it's not a monumental problem i suppose but you will look less distinguishable from men and less objectively beautiful in that process because men aren't really anyone's idea of beauty unless they're very muscular, well defined and shaved. Ultimately do what you need to do to feel better and happy with yourself, but as the Lotus Eaters point out there's more than likely a relationship between the fall of femininity, masculinity and the family and the spiraling rates of homelessness, loneliness, depression and mental illness the west is experiencing
@@gabrielboorom2683 Man, so true. It's quite ironic the ones that reee the loudest about privilege... are actually the most privileged because they need to create their own problems to be a victim, lmao. It's nonsense. Too much time on their hands. Go bake a cake ladies, you don't have as many problems as you think you do. 🤣
Chivalry is good if the intentions behind it are honest and not patronizing . It was often done with the view that women are weak and as a way purely to get laid.
@@PumpkinSeedx men can still be abusive and rape a women who is a lady . I have been honked at by men in cars wearing no make wearing my frumpy work uniform minding my own business. Girls should be taught not put themselves in danger but sadly this is no guarantee for anything.
Based man saying based things are you surprised? I use to not like Carl many years ago but his character has really come through in the past few years and you can’t not like him now. Unless you’re a leftist
Well said. Just like we women love real men. Men and women need each other, not fighting against each other, but working together, sharing our different strengths.
Those female magazines always struck me as disgusting, even as a child when I'd see them at the supermarket. I think seeing that those ideals existed (and then witnessing them in real people) is a large reason why my child-like hopefulness was crushed into depressing dismay as a young adult.
Yeah and you know the girls most into it were the ones struggling hard. Even as a kid I noticed they weren't a good plan to dive into cause everyone who did struggled
i used to feel bad for women being played on their insecurities by those shitty glossy magazines about 20 years ago too, i'm not sure all the body positivity bullshit is any better. but well, women would rather be retarded than look insecure, they play their insecurites off like some mysterious kind of adventurous.. at some point if people want to keep bullshitting themselves, you just let them, right? the terms women use for themselves are like real estate terms, they are just sugar coating lol also, as much as they say they are doing it for themselves, they are doing it for others, other women, and their delusional ideas most men sure as shit aren't as picky , and would much rahter prefer a naturally beautiful woman, ofcourse there are exceptions there, and a bit of subtle make up to the point you can't really see it applied, sure... lol feminism killed the idea of the hot woman, this isn't south america where the weather is presented by a pair of nice tits, this is the anglosphere...
@@jdoohan1763 yeah Instagram is much the same. Dont be scoping out the competition, all the photoshop, makeup, and perfect angles will make you feel ugly
At the end of the day, the question is "can I see this woman as the mother of my children". I don't intend to have kids, but it's still the perfect litmus test.
The female beauty practices that woman is complaining about is literally a direct result of women competing with one another and not because men expect woman to do them.
@@mpetersen6 Men pick the women. And of course we like pretty and glamorous types. The thing is: these types of girls have the reputation of being hard to approach, expensive and high maintenance. But I doubt that there are a lot of guys who would - all other things being equal - prefer a wall flower.
This is all true and very interesting. I was a model in the 90s. It was unhealthy torment for me to keep my body at that weight, but I thought that was what boys liked. That it would get me approval. Instead I got ignored by boys and teased relentlessly by my (fat) mother and relatives for being skinny. Now that I take care of myself for me, don't care what people think about my appearance, and am 40 lbs heavier, I turn far more heads. I'm very natural, don't color or style my hair, don't wear makeup, am over 40. Get compliments almost every day. Because I'm happy and healthy and confident in my abilities. I'm useful. And above all, I'm kind. The most beautiful woman in the world becomes hideous if she's an awful person. A very average woman becomes a great beauty when she has the non physical qualities that make people love her ❤️
Definitely true. There was a woman I worked with about ten years ago now at a hospital, and while she wasn't stunningly attractive, probably fairly average to be honest, virtually every single man in the building fancied her. It was definitely down to how she moved and how she spoke, and just how pleasant and fun she was to be around. On the other side, there were some stunning looking women who were just outright unpleasant to even bother to talk to. Charisma plays a much bigger part than it gets credit for.
When will women learn that so much of what makes them beautiful _is_ tied to inner beauty? When one is living well/genuinely a (more or less) good person, these two things complement each other. More importantly, they are more likely to draw positive attention that runs deeper than pure physical attraction, ie the kind that fosters meaningful/long-term romantic connections. In contrast, those who actively reject beauty display arrogance rather than confidence, and over time this takes a significant toll on their bodies. Outer ugliness is all too often a reflection of deeper maladies of the psyche and soul.
A good example I would say is Audrey Hepburn , personally I don't think she was that good looking but she had poise and grace that lights up the room personally I don't think modern women really get it , but then again modern guys don't get it either Most of us dress like little boys with stained t shirts baseball hats unshaven and have no sense of presence ourselves
Sure and I’ll let them know how they’re used up and hitting the wall fast approaching as I “incel” my way out of the house, to my job and my to my account. Meanwhile they will monkey branch to the next idiot falls for their bullshit.
Feminist: "I want a man with 6 figure salary, 6 pack, 6 bed house, able to cook and hire a maid, pay for everything and treat me like a princess." Man: "Ok...but what do i get in return?" Feminist: "You get ME!"
It’s funny how this only occurs in leftist, urban areas. I see beautiful women with not so good looking men but these men are cowboys, farmer, ranchers, forest service or game wardens. They are tough, rugged and the definition of masculine. Maybe it has to do with these women being raised properly and having faith, which puts more emphasis on morality and loyalty than materialism
As a straight male Ginger myself, at some point in his adolescent life he realizes-that the universe has unconsciously and unanimously decided that they are not hot. This is the way
Actual Goblin mode is based and red pilled. I’m going full gobbo. Gonna get me a gobbo waifu and set up a merchant stall outside my cave while I count my piles of gold and silver and drink my gobbo potions. Hang on a minute I think that’s just called Judaism actually
Great pick up line- "damn girl, you... I mean, I'm having an aesthetic experience due to your various characteristics... In my mind." Works every time.
It’s such a cynical and arrogant viewpoint to assume all tradition that evolved over thousands of years isn’t LARGELY the most pragmatic course, learned through trial and error. In a libertarian culture, obviously the legal rights ensured for equality were very necessary, and I believe in all of that of course. But they threw the baby out w the bathwater.
You're right, but a trap that conservatives can fall into is thinking that all, or even most tradition is good and deserves to be around, or they treat tradition with too much respect and aren't flexible enough to adapt when the world inevitably throws curveballs at them. Also, I believe you're confusing tradition as whole with western tradition. There are jungle tribes with traditions that involve jumping off a tower with a rope tied to your penis, or pedophilic relationships between men and boys. Those traditions are thousands of years old, yet they're clearly not the most pragmatic or optimal course. There must be a balance, as in all things. Too much tradition is just as bad as too much progression. We would have realized that had we lived in the 40's and 50's. The hippies didn't just come out of nowhere with absolutely no valid points or grievances.
I love wearing dresses, especially during summer. I love those classic ones with ruffles the best. They have this feeling of purity and innocence about them, imo. They are very feminine, and I love it. I seriously don't understand these pseudo-feminists.
That’s not true. Go read the new definition and then you’ll realize she is hot and then you’ll have no choice but to like her because she’s hot. You obviously only like things because you’re told to, it has nothing to do with nature and then words and definitions used to describe that naturally occurring phenomena.
If there are women that want to be fat & hairy that's fine, but they do not get to decide that men should find that attractive or validate that feeling..
When I was in high school, A teacher talked about the horrors of corsets. How unhealthy and painful they were just to make men happy. (Men's beauty standards.) Then I went to an anime convention and one of the vendors was selling corsets. There are no modern demands for women to wear corsets. The women flocked to it. They put them on. One of the helpers was a woman who would put her foot in the other woman's back and pull back the strings as tight as she could. It tightened the belly and raised the breast and made the chest look more impressive. The women wanted pictures some of them were buying them. They were $90 a piece. They had metal bars in them and lots of stitching. All I could think about was that teacher in high school describing the way that men's demands on women caused them to suffer. And how much more impressive one of my friends chest was while wearing a corset.
I honestly find the history of fashion from the 13th century to present fashion interesting with what gets invented, what stays/ changes and what jumps from men to women.
on the grounds of going "goblin mode", I want to quote the wise words of a fella of sheer commitment and will: *"The only good goblins are the ones who never come out of their stinking holes"*
"Being hot its my identity, a self declaration" its the more narcissistic thing i heared this week. I mean...how do you know you are hot? how do you know that concepts are hot? its that why we look to the mirror? Humans are social people, we can find hot things on us or the thing we want in our life cuz that attract us, and someone with that will feel hot to us...and viceversa. So no, hotness its not a "vibe"...this is just a person triying to modyfiying reality cuz she feels miserable, triying to feel "hot" without triying to have self-critic and seld-awareness.
So many things that are considered to be feminine get a lot of criticism and so in order to be respected by men we have to become more like them. When I was a child and teenager I was teased a lot and told that I was a stupid girl and basically worthless. I would say this is a common experience that girls have. What ever we do as females is harshly criticized including how much make up we wear and when we choose not to we are told that we don't care how we look etc. Lots of women want to escape womanhood and the overt sexualization that we experience that starts when we start breast development.
9:32 Differences between a man’s idea of female beauty and a woman’s idea of female beauty. I appreciate the design of Bayonetta because the director understood this difference, which is why he chose a woman to design Bayonetta (and all of the characters). It’s why Bayonetta doesn’t reveal much skin aside from her back, why she incorporates her hair into attacks, and why she has interests in fashion and makeup. Also, she has a motherly personality. TL;DR femininity is actually good
The best part is, the picture of the beach whales wasn’t even taken on a real beach (presumably due to the “models” propensity to suffer heat stroke in temps above 20 degrees.)
9:45 One thing we should remember is that the beauty standards for women are mostly set by women, not us men. Remember all those Dove soap ads about "beauty at any size" and other such trash? The sales from those ads were very minimal and when women were asked why they didn't respond positively to those ads, they said that they didn't like those body types and wanted more fit and model-esque builds because that is what ads and products are meant for i.e. selling possibilities to people.
As a men, if I am broke but I FEEL rich, or IDENTIFY as rich. Will women still want me or they will still see me as broke??….🤷🏿 This world is becoming dumber and dumber by the day. Gone are the days where the TRUTH and FACTS mattered, now it’s just person’s feelings and what THEY think 🤦♂️
My gf is a tomboy, sometimes her legs or pits need a shave, and sometimes i have to remind her i hate it when she wears frumpy ass hand me downs that are two sizes two big and look like bargain bin donations. But, i can honestly deal with that bc she stays in great shape and is very cute in the face as well and usually takes a soft reminder very well. Never argues or has the "this is me" rant. She just is like oh sorry, slipped my mind then either shaves or wears better clothes next time
That's definitely a common girl thing, I forget to shave my legs all the time 😂 granted, I'm pregnant so it's harder to lean over but my husband doesn't care that much, I'm ginger so my legs aren't like sasquatch.
Have you SEEN the female brute horrors on the pull in the bars in 2022? Its like night of the damned where prize giant pigs have put on wigs and lipstick and can walk upright. They even sound like them.
Why is it such a problem now for women to put effort into their appearance and grooming? Lately, I love doing my makeup and putting on light, floral perfume and wearing soft, flowy dresses.
As a person that works out over 20 years, minds his diet and restrain from drinking and other things, I must say, never before by not progressing at all in the gym, I become more in shape, cause everyone around is just too lazy to do something xD My wife after 15 years of marriage is 2 kg lighter than when we met when she was 17, and she does not train at all, just minding her diet. I don't care bout whales around that much, just disgusting, but she hates these women with passion xD All the best to people that take care of their bodies!
Funny thing is that female attractiveness to males have been measured. 1. The waist to hip ratio should be around 0.67 to 0.80, 0.7 being the most attractive on average. 2. In general for both sexes, people find good personal hygeine attractive. 3. In general both sexes are attracted to symmetry. 4. Good health signals, like rosy cheeks, good skin, good nails, good teeth, full hair, etc. 5. Women that wear less make-up are also more attractive (it has to do with previous point). 6. A good rack (signals capability to feed children). 7. A good posture ( displays good skeletal health and ability to carry children). This is it. Men are very visual creatures. It's coded in to our minds, and it is pretty objective, hence why men almost always agree on attractiveness. Please do not shoot the messenger. I know the list may sound like something for picking out race horses, but these are the physical standards, there are also some emotional standards that men find attractive in women, but those are less researched and in my experience a little more subjective to each man, although the ability to make a good sandwich is kind of universal.
The only contention I might have is that shaving of armpits is not necessarily hygiene. It doesn't really make you any cleaner, and the hair is there for a reason. Contrary to Connor's belief, having no hair actually make you more sweaty. The hair wicks away the sweat and allows for more surface area, which means the sweat can evaporate faster. We have eyebrows to keep sweat from dripping into our eyes.
@@spracketskooch This. Plus shaving and waxing causes micro abrasions and damage to the skin, leaving you MORE prone to infections. This especially applies to the privates and stis.
This human-bearing and biological woman's empowerment has come from 8 years of hard physical, intellectual and emotional work with MS (Multiple Sclerosis), FMS (Fibromyalgia) and debilitating side effects from having these to lifting myself from out of physically needing to use a scooter, to using a rollator, to using a cane and now walking completely unaided. I've learnt how to do an honest self physical assessment, daily, in order to effectively committ myself to a task list. The often hardship of extreme fatigue remains to be a lingering challenge for me to find ways of adapting or overcoming. I've had to make the conscientious choice to spend energy for the day to either focus on long-term benefits of exercising and building muscle stamina and strength OR on short term and often no discernible benefit of making myself esthetically pleasing by way of shaving body hair, wearing shoes that impede my mobility/increase pain and wearing clothes that make me more uncomfortable and thereby delay or impede any improvement - and considering my physical mobility challenges likely to go unnoticed socially except as an invalid and not worth of much appraisal. (I've experienced being socially ostracized in the first part of my healing journey - and it is very much an unfortunate human characteristic that discourages one from even wanting to effort themselves of self-improvement.) Now that I am mobile and have started to interact with the world around me more socially, I'm also able to include the socially esthetic grooming practices of body hair removal. Rediscovering my femininity and beauty was also a pleasure. Yet I've also learned to be okay with it if I'm not able to do this all the time. Nurturing a healthy self evaluation and perception has definitely empowered me to be a more robust, authentic and productive member of society.
the funny thing about that pic used for the "all bodies are beach bodies is that the model on the bottom left has complained they used it with out her permission and that it is heavily edited, including editing out her artificial leg!
The merge of narcissistic intent and nihilistic debauchery, gentlemen this is double think... to merge the egotistical love to yourself with the desire of being nothing truly unholy.
Unfortunately, I had a mom who cared most about how she looked. She would tell me my style was boring (I liked modesty and being a tomboy) so I just never got into caring about how much I looked. I think it was to rebel and because I didn’t want to be like my mom. I don’t wear makeup, I tie up my hair, I wear jeans and T-shirts, sneakers. I’m a tomboy through and through. It makes me wonder if I should be a bit more feminine. I bought some dresses to wear to church (I think it matters to dress properly for church) so I guess that’s a start. This is the part where I feel conflicted about gender norms. I’ve dabbled with looking pretty and I just don’t like the attention. I’m an introvert…. I prefer to be alone. I don’t need dudes coming up to me to try and talk… especially when I’m married. It’s a conflict in me. I don’t want to be ugly but I don’t want the attention. =\
Beauty is a gift and attention is the burdun you bear with it. Just be friendly and humble and if needed, dismissive. It will help if your husband is with you too.
I am just tired of so many women expecting men to fall at their feet and serve them just for being them. In a real relationship both parties most give of themselves for the benefit of the other but most women today expect to live free of any responsibility and be revered at the same time.
@@064razor if that was truly Carls position then he’s do the show with a bag over his face and a tarp covering the rest. I’m just extrapolating the debonair British gentleman thing carls got going on to the gold member poolside scene.
Femcel: "Having to shave my legs and shower daily is so oppressive, hygiene and self-care is hateful towards women." Men: *1 and a half hours into his chest day* "Damn buddy, that's rough."
I recently went on a date with a leftist female. She looked very pretty and well kept. Later that week we went to the lake. I found out, surprisingly, she has unshaved, dyed armpits. Needless to say that interest is gone.
@@MaxiemumKarnage No. She was very pleasant, and smelt nice. It was at such odds with her beliefs. It felt as if she was trying to be a performative leftist as a way of rebelling against her parents.
Notice how even the "positive example" you present with Evie is still focused on power. Making women rediscover men as a useful tool isn't exactly motivating me to get married, Carl. Maybe that's what you want to be. But the more often you prove that the only way you can convince women to give a shit about the state of relationships and gender roles is to show them how _they_ can benefit, the more hopeless the thought of ever being seen as a human being by women becomes. Your offer to women is "trust me, you'll like being cared for and loved", your offer to young men is "trust me, you'll love being drained, exploited and used."
Welcome to being a man. Throughout history we've been the expendable ones. This is no new or fresh idea. Our sole purpose is to be able to provide in some way or another. We are tools with a brain and emotions. I'm sorry that sounds callous, but it is an honest truth.
Exactly, I used to run in these circles and my question was always "what is a benefit of marriage for men." The ones who even attempted to answer basically came down to sex, children, and or some nebulous companionship.
"You can either love women, or understand women, but not both." Unfortunately, due to social media (and the fact that women won't shut the f*** up), EVEY MAN IN THE WORLD (for the most part) currently understands women and we are all going our own way. ✌️
I can say that the reward for marriage is a family legacy, if the woman is not cooperative in that goal then its just hell to try to get there. If a man can create a family without marriage that sounds like the best choice.
The problem is divorce. Imo, it should be extremely difficult to divorce. Marriage is a wonderful thing if you commit to it through all the good and the bad. The vows “until death do us part” should matter. What’s really terrible is that women encourage other women to divorce. As a woman, you have to not listen to other women when it comes to this stuff… or just not tell them when you’re going through tough times. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years, married 16. We’ve been through a lot of shit together, we basically grow up together through life. I’ve never loved anyone as deeply as I love my husband and my son. I would die for my family. And I finally know what family means. My husband feels the same way. You can’t really get to this point, without committing to someone for life and learning to forgive each other. Ride or die.
As a man I shave my armpits, not for me, for you. You're welcome. As a side note, this all makes sense to me. If you give someone a good enough reason to do the awful things they want to do they'll take it. Like I've been told I'm a sexy smoker, I also enjoy smoking. Win win right? RIGHT?! I'm dieing slowly aren't I?
How do you get a feminist to make you a sandwich? Easy. Just tell them that men make the best sandwiches.
All the best Chef's in the World are male......
🤭🍽️
Modern problems require modern solutions!
Or tell her that she's not allowed to make sandwiches to men...
The arrested emotional development of gender ideology will do the rest.
Bravo
Gordon Ramsey and Jamie Oliver. Where are their female counterparts?
I grew up with 6 women in the house. 1 mother and 5 sisters. One sister has a many accolades and medals from her time in 2003 era Iraq. The other started a small farm. The rest have various successful careers. All of them are married and love being mothers. Somehow they managed to do all of these things without government intervention or help from the feminist movement. I can personally attest to their happiness. Especially when compared to the typical feminist. Women don't need help. They're fine. They can figure it out on their own.
on another note, you must've never had a chance to use the restroom
No father in the house, and no social benefits? 🤨 props to your mother!
@@HNedel I think hes just speaking about the fact he had 6 women in the household he could have a dad but.. who knows
Didn't feminist push for women's right to work at least? If so, technically, your family still owe a little to feminism after all, but only on that point.
Based.
Nothing pisses off a feminist more than the idea that somewhere in the world a man may be looking at a beautiful woman and enjoying it.
*Without their permission
Because the man won't be looking at them
@@David-iy1zt men tend not to look at dumpsters! Bulk upkeep too expensive....
Only because the feminist is not beautiful, thus men are not looking at her
These days I have washed my hands of women everything thing they have done the past 5 years makes me see them as trash half the time so if feminist are shooting themselves in the foot with abolishing femininity aka attacking women why would I complain my enemies are attacking themselves and each other let them 🤔
I miss the times when being a tomboy was a concept no one gave a second thought to. Yes, I'm female and I'm fine with that, yes, I generally prefer to do more "male considered activities", I like DIY, I like my videogames, I've only ever worn trousers, no one touches that bbq but yours truly and yet in recent years it feels like an attack from all sides. You're not feminine enough or you're not masculine enough; why can't people just let you be anymore?
Of all the comments here, I think this is the most pertinent and relevant.
When I grew up, no one cared. I want to go back to that.
Somehow everyone has hit hyper individualist where you need to be a unique being due to the slight twist, bump and hue of your genitals, but also hyper collectivist "in the group or will be six feet under the ground" simultaneously.
Tomboy club :3
Damn i really do wish there were more tomboys too. They just activate some part of my brain
The fact that mainstream culture has had it's standard of woman's "beauty" given by mostly gay men is quite evident.
A well-known gay makeup artist said basically the same thing, to an auditorium of women at a UA-cam convention, a few years back.
“These influencers have you young beautiful girls looking like drag queens…less is more.”
His comments weren’t received well.
Marc Jacobs and heroin chic case in point.
what can I say, we're fantastic trolls
@She Knows Should change your username to "she doesn't understand reality"
@She Knows Don't assume that gay men are always "balanced" in femininity and masculinity. That's hurtful to the gay men who want to be masculine and lift weights and try to be like the giga chad meme. Don't be hateful towards the gay men who want to be more masculine than feminine, especially considering that judging by your tone of comment, I'd guess you try to be an "ally" to them. Assuming gay men to be feminine doesn't sound like you're being an ally to them.
Men: That guy over there is ripped and successful. I gotta hit the gym and get it together.
Women: That women over there is attractive. I gotta stop everyone from being able to see her.
Well in womens defense some bloke did invent the gun,
"I cant beat this bloke, hes a monster, Ill shoot him!"
*Gets to work*
@@azmanabdula Sure but they started small with rocks and sticks and it wasn't envy that drove them.
Nah, there's plenty of men who will try to bring down a successful man out of pure jealousy. I mean, one of the first stories in the Bible is directly about that, Cain and Abel. Similarly, there are plenty of women who take inspiration from attractive and successful women.
@@SomeCanine I bet in some cases it would have been
Nothing says revenge like inventing the first stone axe and smashing it into the bigger guys head
@@azmanabdula The first weapons were almost certainly side effects from survival tools we fashioned with our big monkey brains. Pointy rocks would have been among the first and they would have also been used in both anger and when we needed to flex our power. In that respect we're not that different from women. It's really the motivation for the vast majority of it that is different.
If masculinity is toxic and femininity is also toxic that doesn't leave much of an option does it?
Could always be trans! :D
At the end of the day, it's only 2
That sort of misanthropy is egalitarian, isn't it ?
That is where non-binary and asexuals come in, but they are not allowed to exist because the left wants to have sex with everybody, including animals and objects in public. What is the point of claiming to never have sex when the left call you racist, transphobic, or homophobic when you refuse to date or have sex with them?
you can always, you know, avoid the "toxic" part
How terrible for them that "feral girl summer" coincided with some states in the US having more limits on abortion. No wonder they're furious.
if I heard of "feral girl summer" in a vacuum, I would think it was some kind of open event for furries, and as such I would raise the possible necessity for rabies shots, just in case. Given how the main idea is basically "return to monke" and act like a wild animal, it's not too far off the mark lol
@@sparking023
Huh. Haven't heard that word used in that way for a long, _long_ time. For me, the first thing that came to mind was insane, animalistic behavior, a la pretty much all the most base forms of "protest" we've seen over the last decade and a half.
“Feral girl” is this a new fettish?
@@stunner9005 no, just a fancy new term to describe unapologetic slobbery.
"The Jersey Devil" episode of the X Files comes to mind.
"If I can't get laid, then *_no one can."_*
Third Wave Feminism in a nutshell.
I would've thought if your primary insult towards men is "you dont get sex", you'd actually be capable of getting some yourself.
@@sangheiliwarrior86 C'mon bud, we both know there are some extremely desperate men that will sleep with these mad cows. It's just never going to be the men they "really" want.
@@WhipLash42o Unfortunately, I do. Another fact I could've done without knowing to be honest. Just be a woman theory.
They can get laid they just aren't gonna get commitment and resources from the Hugh status men they want. Even if they lower their standards there aren't enough simps to go around.
Yep sums it up pretty well.
Narcissism should be declared as a health crisis.
We'd have to reopen the Asylums to get enough Therapists to tackle the amount of Narcissistic people that have cropped up
@@magma_fire_bagwan If you knew anything about the state of therapists and pwp's in the UK you'd know it'd be more akin to the inmates running the asylum sadly
I've never met a feminist who is happy. Says something
My oldest stepdaughter is a proud feminist and BLM supporter as well as being an indoctrinated snowflake that is a victim of the patriarchy. She's unable to keep friends, cheats in every guy she goes out with because you know, feminism. Oh she cant keep a job either. Add to that her mental health issues and drug and alcohol abuse she's a real catch.
Literally this
It’s a state of mind. The feminists I knew just loved complaining.
Like all cults, it attracts vulnerable victims by offering them happiness when they reach the final level of enlightenment. Then it just keeps adding new levels of Operating Screechan.
Bpd is strong in that community and hate when a woman has good things going for her.
I was a gigantic tomboy all my life. I'm now sewing dresses, and do the home spa and half-hour-long skin care routine. I'm the happiest I've ever been while still being the same nerdy person on the inside
Tomboys are actually alright, the problem is the ones that go to the extremes.
If only you were the norm instead of an anomaly. Modern women must hate you.
Omg, same! Been in a position for 6mo where I can wear skirts and dresses (previously couldn't due to job reqs) and I'm feeling so much better throughout the day.
Not sure what your definition of Tom Boy is, but I've known girls and women who were very Tom Boyish, liked more traditionally masculine things like messing with Motorbikes and machines in general, much preferred being one of the lads than being with other women, leading to lots of snide comments behind their back from those women, but at the same time still retained a lot of femininity.
I would say though, and much to the surprise of many, when they became mothers, they did take to motherhood whole heartily.
the combat knitting ballet rocket-racing blood derby might become the coolest sport in history!
It's ok for men to like feminine women
Not only that, it's ideal.
It's inevitable. It's literally coded into our DNA. Newborn babies are born with the ability to recognize beauty.
Yes, it's how our species has survived and thrived. Men like feminine women, and we like masculine men.
REEEEE
Nice dogwhistle bigot
I always get in trouble for that answer.
"do you hate women/black people?"
"some of them."
👍
"No, just you."
Well most of them, to be honest
"I hate everyone equally!"
I only hate people who ask me that question, when it's so obviously all about themselves and their feewings.
The Spanish thing got even better, they used images without permission, altered the black woman by painting a leg (she has a prosthetic leg), the guy who made it was paid 5000€ and after the blacklash he deleted his web and all his information, truly a progressive campaign
Amazing. Why am I not surprised 😆
a body positivity poster, got an amputee model painting over his prostetic leg, but added armpit hair hahaha
Just shows how much they hate reality.
It´s even worse, they (them) paid a posh agency who got $80000 which subcontracted to the amateur poor devil who perpetrated that commercial art crime.
I´m an old school leftist and hate these postmodern, corporate puppets in the Spanish Government with all my heart.
You just can´t imagine how deluded the Spanish "Minister of Equality" is. Totally out of reality. The irony? She´s a minister because her partner strong armed the Spanish Prime Minister into giving her a Ministry with an absurdly high budget to do basically nothing. The few laws she get passed regulate things already covered by current law. Absolutely absurd.
“Feral Girl Summer” reminds me of a quote,
“You know, there's nothing about you I find tantalizing. On the contrary, I find you obvious and vulgar.”
-Based Jean-Luc Picard
That exchange really imbedded itself into my brain as a kid. 🖖
I was reading a book by Mike Resnick many years ago and recall very clearly the line "Sooner or later youve got to stop fucking and start talking"
I think those feminists know that when it comes to the latter part, theyve got nothing to offer.
Who was he talking to?
@@brittybee6615 A con-artist woman who was using holographic technology to convince a planet that she was a goddess/demon they owed an ancient debt to. Fitting, really.
Was that the episode where he was dealing with that woman who claimed to be "The Devil"? 🤣
@@Sentinel82 Oh yeah, I think it was. That was an old Star Trek Phase 2 script, so it was actually written for Captain Kirk. It's kinda fun to watch with that knowledge, as it comes across as Picard getting so pissed off by the villain that he channels the energy of his predecessor to take her down.
EDIT: Just checked Memory Alpha, yes, that was the episode.
You will never, ever see a body positivity movement for men. If anything there is a new political push for dealing with unwanted communication, unwanted behaviour, creepiness and offence. Which is why you see the likes of Truss, Sunak, Khan et al speaking of new laws to deal with the aforementioned things. Problem is, your looks and desirability are linked to how much respect and value you get as a man. Which is why low value men are deemed misogynistic and creepy for being low value men.
And you have that piece of work Amy Nickell cheering Truss on with that and use the motte and Bailey fallacy when people rightfully criticise the “harassment” policy.
Also, a lot of men can still be drawn to physical self improvement. I know I was, I was tired of being soft and flabby.
It’s a way for unattractive women to excuse not having to date unattractive men
We actually do have a "body positive male" movement in America.
It's called the Chicago Cubs Fan Base.
"You will never, ever see a body positivity movement for men"
I want to make this happen tho. Men put up with too much and deserve it.
"All bodies are beach bodies"
I mean, how many whale jokes can I get away with?
Thar she blows!
Last time I tried to sunbathe I woke up to a marine biologist trying to peg me with a stick of dynamite...
@@kielbasamage some people's kinks...
do you know the gravity of the situation?
Men generally call it "self confidence", which is a factor in attractiveness (basically how you present yourself). Which is an internal thing, unlike "hotness" with is external.
The traditional woman version is Grace. Both are aiming at virtue in your life, so you have the attitude and ability to face all of the pitches life can throw you
I think confidence definitely amplifies 'hotness'..
When a person enters a room full of people, everyone in that room will judge their ‘hotness’ within less than a tenth of a second.
Those ratings will correlate by more than 90%.
Humans are hardwired to do this.
And it’s not just men judging women, the women judge the women as well (and all other combinations).
Because God forbid a woman be both good,smart and have a highly attractive body I guess?
But seriously I do believe a woman can be both with a voluptuous body while not being a thot or bitch,
It's just sad it seems a rarity,and imo it should not be.
@@darkzeroprojects4245 How smart they are might become apparent in later conversation, but most men don’t care anyway.
@@darkzeroprojects4245 No, it's about evolutionary biology... and related to humans being herd animals.
The OP just laid out some basic facts which are mostly true... although there are people who are exceptions... in this case, blind people obviously being one group of exceptions, and "oblivious" people being another group.
I strongly suspect that the people who are almost always "at the bottom" of "social rankings" are probably another group. When you're AT the bottom, there's not much point in hoping a random stranger will be lower than you.
I also strongly suspect that being "at the bottom" is somewhat "liberating", in the sense of it removing obstacles, reasons, NOT to be a complete ass, so long as you aren't enough of an ass to get fired from your job or worse.
In the immortal words of Janis Joplin, "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose."
Maybe it's Evolution's way of giving something to those at the bottom... the "silver lining to the cloud".
How do you know it correlates by 90%? Where does this number come from? Certainly it doesn’t apply across cultures, as Nigerian men prefer big fat fatties above fit women.
This is why we have pigeon holes, to make the process quicker and easier.
I recently saw an episode of 'Have Gun - Will Travel' that delt with this very issue.
Paladin is chasing a female outlaw with a hefty price on her head, he captures her and they are hold up for the night in this abandoned cabin. Halfway through the night she tries to jump Paladin and escape, but fails, she goes on a tangent about how she's never been treated well by men ever in her life and Paladin, whose patience has worn thin at this point, simply answers, "Did you ever think that maybe people would treat you like a women, if you simply acted like one?"
Worth mentioning that this is a 1950s Western serial rather than some weebery. If you're thinking of "Ella West", we have this lovely piece of trivia:
The lines of poetry Paladin actually quotes to Ella are: first, an English translation of lines from Goethe that Dante Gabriel Rossetti used to compliment his celebrated painting "Lady Lilith", and second, from John Keats' ballad "La Belle Dame Sans Merci".
I could not give less of a shit if someone is a “bad man” or a “bad woman” so long as they are a good person. Obviously this female outlaw saying she’s been treated badly by men doesn’t give her a get out of jail free card, and she should be held responsible for her actions. But “people would treat you like a woman if you acted like one?” to counter her saying how men have treated her badly? A woman - or man - shouldn’t have to adhere to gender roles to not be treated badly. We are all people before we are any gender. If she was being a shitty person and people responded appropriately then that’s fine, but if people were treating her badly simply because she was an individual person who didn’t happen to conform to certain gender roles imposed upon her by society then that is, in fact, sexist.
@@AviKats66 Gender roles are guidelines from millenias of civilization. Most often it works. You don't have to adhere to them if you don't want to. But don't expect to get the associated benefits of these gender roles either. You might win some but you will lose some.
@@thibaldus3 I don’t consider “not being treated badly” a benefit of performing gender roles: I consider it a basic human right.
@@AviKats66 You. But we were mentionning the character described in this post who expected special treatment from men while being just another outlaw, and so, given none.
The fact is that most women think being treated like any other guy is being treated badly because they don't realize that the etiquette in most societies is to show special deference and respect to women.
They can call themselves hot all they like. It's not their call to make. Just narcissism. That decision falls to the people around them.
same energy as Nikocado identifying as skinny.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
But men call themselves women these days and if you play along you might go to jail.
Exactly! Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
It's not just a saying.
Sexual selection is an almost universal phenomena among animals. Almost every species of animal has some way of valuing sexual partner as good, average, bad and everything in between. Beauty standards are humans not being the exception.
The funny thing its so much more than just sexual selection. Its also tied it culture both overarching and specific subcultures. How you look and what you wear is essentially a visual argument to the people around you. Obviously you should have autonomy to make the argument, but to ignore that an argument is being made is just detrimental to yourself.
@@assortmentofpillsbutneverb3756
Which is why I'll never get why me wanting a woman with a attractive body to me while being a good person and can be a good wife and bed partner is me being too demanding while feminists and such have absurd expectations of men to be and are fine to demand.
@@assortmentofpillsbutneverb3756 The old saying, before going on a job interview, was "dress to impress"...
It VERY much has wider social implications.
We EARN our reputations... by what we do... and DON'T do.
That includes our appearance, as well as the ways in which we behave.
(BTW, I'm not arguing your point... I'm reinforcing it.)
@@Nyet-Zdyes I mean its why fashion peices and wedding dresses are a statement peice right? Haha
@@darkzeroprojects4245 it can be over blown in demand and expectations, just from the fact that couples grow together. Wanting it all up front especially in a younger dating market is a lot. Plus its not like guys get no say at all.
That being said, there is a lot of shame and failure within western culture about men actually having a say and outlet with what theyd like from women. I mean an easy topic to dive into to explore that is Japanese visual novels. For good or for bad, there is a whole consumer industry around appealing to young mens physical and cultural archetypes on desirable women. While many are just porn, others are more an actual novel. Its hard to say that kind of market would be socially acceptable enough in the west to grow outside of dark corners of the internet haha
Idk its hard for me to say men in the west have space to build actual deep archetypes of women and most of the traditional ones are seen as wrong atm
I love when women claim they are feminist early in the relationship. Saves wasted time.
Or if a man says he's a feminist you know to stay very far away from him, it's a deterrent tbh
My last ex didn't. She just started with the feminist rhetoric about an old man from work undermining her.
I told her I wasn't interested and when she pushed for a reason, I told her that I wasn't into feminist women.
She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and kept asking me for the "real" reason.
Had to move to rural Romania to find a feminine woman - best decision of my life.
Women are happiest when occupying a more feminine role. This increases their health and overall life satisfaction. Men are also happier this way.
Vouching for this, as a woman. A REAL woman.
And the men become more protective and chivalrous.
True ! I’m 28 but for the longest time I’ve always wanted to be a mum and a wife. Busy house with chaos and looking after everyone really sounded like a dream to me. I have my fiancé but due to my mental health and money issues I might run out of time to have kids. Which breaks my heart because I felt like I was born to have this life I want. And now that I might not have that I feel lost and depressed.
Men are hapier when occupying a more feminine role? 😳
As a woman I 100% agree!!! I'm always much happier when I take on a classic feminine role,which includes pleasing a man
As a 24 year old woman I totally agree ! Good on you guys , let’s keep our standards high ladies :)
These “feminists” will still expect men to all look like Jason Mamoa
Men are more likely to find a fat woman attractive than the other way around. If anything, women need to love poor, fat, balding men, who make minimum wage.
Waiting for women to call themselves out for their own wants....
They know most are not. But expect the one they get is.
@@WiseOwl_1408 yet they bring nothing but mediocrity at best to the table. These hos be built like Oswald Cobblepot and got the nerve to have standards
Lol Jason Mamoa, the dude who fondled a little girl on video?
@@tomv.8144 A couple pounds heavier doesn’t matter as long as you are ripped lol
"Don't try to understand women son. Women understand women, and they hate each other."
Al Bundy
That is... startlingly profound.
You can either understand women, or you can love women.
I don't understand women and I am one. I'm also bisexual though so maybe that helps explain it.
isnt it supposed to be "men dont understand women,women dont understand women,thats why they hate each other"
The dress thing is so true. I decided to never wear pants a few years ago. I decided this because I felt more myself in them and always felt blah and frumpy in pants but sometimes I wore them thinking they were more practical or because I thought it was strange to wear a skirt/dress just to take the kids to the park or run to the grocery etc. One day I felt so frumpy in my leggings while out I said I don't care, I'm going to wear a dress no matter how strange it is and I found it life changing too. Everyone treats you more respectfully, almost like men in their suits, and I personally feel better about myself. It feels like I'm treating myself with dignity and I feel more feminine, more comfortable in my skin, I don't know just more authentic and me.
I dress in a vaguely '50s style usually with circle skirts made from heavy fabrics like denim, duck or canvas that I made myself (these have more body without needing a petticoat), a tank top or fitted v neck t shirt, and a cropped cardigan on top. Flats or Keds if I will be chasing the kids. So it's not very different to modern clothes except for the skirt and I even wear leggings or tights underneath too (with boots) in the winter. If I really need to be sporty they sell running skirts and I wear one of those. It's not as inconvenient or weird as I feared it would be and I have never once recieved a weird look or comment. If anything women compliment my handmade skirts sometimes 😊 I am even still wearing my skirts in pregnancy; the great thing about a skirt is you can just pull it up above the bump! Highly recommend if it appeals 👍
Seeing a woman in a dress is like seeing a total eclipse. You feel kind of privileged having been able to witness
such a rare event. A woman in a nice sundress, well, I don't think there's anything better.
So true. I was wearing a nice 50s style dress, and my Hubby needed to goto the hardware store on the way home.. and the older men, their eyes seemed to light up. A lot complimented the dress and said I looked lovely. One older gentlemen as we were leaving, almost looked sad and said he missed the days where ladies looked like ladies and it was nice to see.
Aw. 🥲
@@PumpkinSeedxI have a collection of '50s and '40s style dresses I usually wear on the weekends. I have gotten similar reactions, especially from the older generations saying they miss the days when women all wore that style dress. I own a variety of handmade, vintage, and reproduction and everyone compliments the cheap ones I got on Amazon the most so vintage doesn't even have to be expensive. They're full circle skirt, princess seamed bodice with no or cap sleeves in fruit or flower prints on a white background. I haven't found anything similar for maternity so I'm in my skirts for the moment.
I saw a 60 yr old woman in a nice poodle skirt and she was positively attractive- See my comment on leotards/leggings/tights
@@MC-ze8wj Maybe wrap dresses or tea dresses might be comfortable for pregnancy? Like a maxi one so it's long and flowy but still feminine and beautiful. I hope you find something suitable that you love to add to your amazing sounding collection and I'm sure you look absolutely fantastic in it all! 😊
I’ve personally never understood why you wouldn’t want to take some pride in yourself and your hygiene ... I wear very casual clothing but do my makeup and hair. The rest I just keep comfortable and casual. Never understood the not shaving thing because for me it feels gross and I feel worse when I don’t shave.
When I used to push against my other women friends on this I’d be called a pick me or not a real woman (ironically) for not being feminist enough. My mum let me down when I was 6 and most of the men in my family stepped in to help raise me with my nan so for me I’m not into feminists or the movement at all.
Don’t worry lads .. some of your woman viewers have not gone insane like this I promise 🤣
I tend to find that the women who are not ideological and have not swallowed the kool aid are already in long term established relationships. The reality of what is the case on dating apps shows why your average looking single man and below are simply just walking away and losing hope.
I and several others had to report a woman in work who obviously never washed or changed her underwear when she was on her period.
This was the middle of summer and the smell form her made it impossible to come within 20 feet of her without feeling physically sick. the stench was utterly horrendous.
@@tgheretford don’t use the dating apps
@Lily they also had sex even though there was polio, it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t fight polio.
@Lily People bathed during the middle ages the whole idea they were all filthy is ridiculous elitist nonsense taken from the works written by the rich who had legitimate disgust for anyone below their social class, it's like watching the KKK describe black people and presume that's how they actually were, the germanic tribe in the days of ancient rome had soap, they made it themselves and took frequent baths, let alone people in the middle ages, all you need to bathe is soap and a river.
As for shaving it's not a monumental problem i suppose but you will look less distinguishable from men and less objectively beautiful in that process because men aren't really anyone's idea of beauty unless they're very muscular, well defined and shaved.
Ultimately do what you need to do to feel better and happy with yourself, but as the Lotus Eaters point out there's more than likely a relationship between the fall of femininity, masculinity and the family and the spiraling rates of homelessness, loneliness, depression and mental illness the west is experiencing
They've embraced masculinity!
A bad cosplay, I daresay.
Vomits *
Make them become tomboys.
@@FatherAndrew-Scarlet-Priest if only they could actually become tomboys, instead of just being a cheap imitation
They've embrace Goblinity!
"Go be a fleshlight dropped on the carpet."
This is GOLD!
Good news; when people reach this level of self destruction, seppuku usually follows.
Goblin mode seppuku
gaynime
I dunno, personalities like these are more likely to opt for bomb vests. They don't want to go out alone...
"Narcissism and a nihilistic abandonment of self-improvement" defines pretty much every social media trend these days.
Wow we sure went from "beauty standards are impossible" to "no such thing as beauty" really quick didn't we?
If they can't conquer it, destroy it. It's the postmodernist way.
It's perfectly simple: they get to be choosy, you don't.
@@harbl99 "How dare you suggest I debase myself by picking lesser beings!"-Miss Piggy
"If I can't become beautiful woman then no one can!!!"
"beauty standards are impossible"
but we also need to make the standards of women in entertainment strong, perfect, goddesses who can do no wrong.
Chivalry is dead and women killed it. ~ Best way to end this video, good job guys.
If you look like a lady, men will still treat you like one.
Chivalry is only dead to women that are dead inside. 🤣
They wanted victimhood so they *created their OWN CRISIS* & it's kicking their @$$e$
@@gabrielboorom2683 Man, so true. It's quite ironic the ones that reee the loudest about privilege... are actually the most privileged because they need to create their own problems to be a victim, lmao. It's nonsense. Too much time on their hands. Go bake a cake ladies, you don't have as many problems as you think you do. 🤣
Chivalry is good if the intentions behind it are honest and not patronizing . It was often done with the view that women are weak and as a way purely to get laid.
@@PumpkinSeedx men can still be abusive and rape a women who is a lady . I have been honked at by men in cars wearing no make wearing my frumpy work uniform minding my own business. Girls should be taught not put themselves in danger but sadly this is no guarantee for anything.
*_"You hate women ? "Carl - "Not everyday," haha ! You just have to love that man ..._*
I love him 🤣 he reminds me of one of my cousins and he always made me laugh and put things into perspective 🥰
Based man saying based things are you surprised? I use to not like Carl many years ago but his character has really come through in the past few years and you can’t not like him now. Unless you’re a leftist
My response is usually a blunt "yep" then me and all my friends laugh.
I hate men most of the time lol
He's not wrong
We love real women. Up, down, left and right. Always have, always will. Females are awesome and needed.
Well said. Just like we women love real men. Men and women need each other, not fighting against each other, but working together, sharing our different strengths.
Nah
WRONG! It's up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A...
SIMP ALERT
That's only because most men don't understand women.
Women understand women, and they hate each other.
"cant talk, im busy being hot" - proof women cant muiltitask
"Fleshlight dropped on a carpet"
Fuck's sake, Connor 💀🤣
Those female magazines always struck me as disgusting, even as a child when I'd see them at the supermarket. I think seeing that those ideals existed (and then witnessing them in real people) is a large reason why my child-like hopefulness was crushed into depressing dismay as a young adult.
Yeah and you know the girls most into it were the ones struggling hard. Even as a kid I noticed they weren't a good plan to dive into cause everyone who did struggled
i used to feel bad for women being played on their insecurities by those shitty glossy magazines about 20 years ago too,
i'm not sure all the body positivity bullshit is any better.
but well, women would rather be retarded than look insecure, they play their insecurites off like some mysterious kind of adventurous..
at some point if people want to keep bullshitting themselves, you just let them, right?
the terms women use for themselves are like real estate terms, they are just sugar coating lol
also, as much as they say they are doing it for themselves, they are doing it for others, other women, and their delusional ideas
most men sure as shit aren't as picky , and would much rahter prefer a naturally beautiful woman, ofcourse there are exceptions there, and a bit of subtle make up to the point you can't really see it applied, sure...
lol feminism killed the idea of the hot woman, this isn't south america where the weather is presented by a pair of nice tits, this is the anglosphere...
Baz lurhman sang it. "Don't read beauty magazines they will only make you feel ugly."
@@jdoohan1763 yeah Instagram is much the same. Dont be scoping out the competition, all the photoshop, makeup, and perfect angles will make you feel ugly
At the end of the day, the question is "can I see this woman as the mother of my children". I don't intend to have kids, but it's still the perfect litmus test.
My ears are burning. Loved this segment, big love boys
Hearing the phrase "Goblin Mode" being said by British men in a suit is both jarring and hilarious.
Carl saying internet vernacular is never not funny
"I like big butts and I cannot lie" - Abraham Lincoln
Not sure if that was Lincoln or Socrates.
@@yetanotherspuart3993 I think it might have been Hero of Alexandria.
The female beauty practices that woman is complaining about is literally a direct result of women competing with one another and not because men expect woman to do them.
I hope women realize they are all trying to sabotage each other in their attempts at obtaining a happy healthy life.
And not all men are interested in the glamorous types. Hence the attraction to the girl next door. Plus the eternal question. Ginger, or Mary Ann?
@@mpetersen6 Men pick the women. And of course we like pretty and glamorous types. The thing is: these types of girls have the reputation of being hard to approach, expensive and high maintenance.
But I doubt that there are a lot of guys who would - all other things being equal - prefer a wall flower.
Exactly.
No man ever bought Cosmopolitan Magazine, brought it home, and told the female in his life to read it, or imitate the women in it.
@@basilbaby7678
But Playboy, on the other hand...
This is all true and very interesting. I was a model in the 90s. It was unhealthy torment for me to keep my body at that weight, but I thought that was what boys liked. That it would get me approval. Instead I got ignored by boys and teased relentlessly by my (fat) mother and relatives for being skinny. Now that I take care of myself for me, don't care what people think about my appearance, and am 40 lbs heavier, I turn far more heads. I'm very natural, don't color or style my hair, don't wear makeup, am over 40. Get compliments almost every day. Because I'm happy and healthy and confident in my abilities. I'm useful. And above all, I'm kind. The most beautiful woman in the world becomes hideous if she's an awful person. A very average woman becomes a great beauty when she has the non physical qualities that make people love her ❤️
The 90s beauty standards were incredibly tough on women. Me personally? I don't judge weight by pounds. It really depends on how it's carried.
Definitely true. There was a woman I worked with about ten years ago now at a hospital, and while she wasn't stunningly attractive, probably fairly average to be honest, virtually every single man in the building fancied her. It was definitely down to how she moved and how she spoke, and just how pleasant and fun she was to be around. On the other side, there were some stunning looking women who were just outright unpleasant to even bother to talk to. Charisma plays a much bigger part than it gets credit for.
When will women learn that so much of what makes them beautiful _is_ tied to inner beauty? When one is living well/genuinely a (more or less) good person, these two things complement each other. More importantly, they are more likely to draw positive attention that runs deeper than pure physical attraction, ie the kind that fosters meaningful/long-term romantic connections. In contrast, those who actively reject beauty display arrogance rather than confidence, and over time this takes a significant toll on their bodies.
Outer ugliness is all too often a reflection of deeper maladies of the psyche and soul.
A good example I would say is Audrey Hepburn , personally I don't think she was that good looking but she had poise and grace that lights up the room personally I don't think modern women really get it , but then again modern guys don't get it either
Most of us dress like little boys with stained t shirts baseball hats unshaven and have no sense of presence ourselves
Just don't be a landwhale, be feminine, and men will like you. This isn't difficult.
I remember having an ugly woman yell at me that she was hot along other things. I told her hot flashes pass and walked away.
With Sydney Watson talking about this yesterday and The Quartering running ads on both of your videos, maybe have her on for one of these topics?
Please no
Everyone n3eds more sydney watson.
And when you do express your dislike of toxic feminism... They double down with what makes them unlikeable and call you an incel.
Sure and I’ll let them know how they’re used up and hitting the wall fast approaching as I “incel” my way out of the house, to my job and my to my account.
Meanwhile they will monkey branch to the next idiot falls for their bullshit.
Sounds like a bunch of incels.
Yea...why can't we just "man up" and be the bigger men...cause women are just smaller men, right? 🙄
@@JeffCaplan313 at least that’s what the femcels and toxic feminist say to get most Simps and normies to believe.
Stop caring king, let the cum dumps be cum dumps
Feminist: "I want a man with 6 figure salary, 6 pack, 6 bed house, able to cook and hire a maid, pay for everything and treat me like a princess."
Man: "Ok...but what do i get in return?"
Feminist: "You get ME!"
If all that is not enough you get Myalgic encephalomyelitis as well?
In return you lose 60 to 90% of everything you own within 5 years and if you cannot pay for her kids childcare men end up in prison.
Man: "Well, what can you do?"
It’s funny how this only occurs in leftist, urban areas. I see beautiful women with not so good looking men but these men are cowboys, farmer, ranchers, forest service or game wardens. They are tough, rugged and the definition of masculine. Maybe it has to do with these women being raised properly and having faith, which puts more emphasis on morality and loyalty than materialism
@@ThatAnnoyingBird true answer is simply and it’s happening
I think if you saw these women, you'd know why they are for changing the definition of hot.
Well done on wardrobe Connor.
"You'll basically be a fleshlight dropped on the carpet."
That was brutal.
As a straight male Ginger myself, at some point in his adolescent life he realizes-that the universe has unconsciously and unanimously decided that they are not hot.
This is the way
My condolences, I hope you find a soul in the next life
I've known multiple latinas w/a big thing for ginger men.
Yep. Been used to it for a while. Is what it is. Even as a ginger with blue eyes
I was not sure about Connor at first, but that sneaky whaling spear comment actually made me laugh so I’m sold now.
Actual Goblin mode is based and red pilled. I’m going full gobbo. Gonna get me a gobbo waifu and set up a merchant stall outside my cave while I count my piles of gold and silver and drink my gobbo potions. Hang on a minute I think that’s just called Judaism actually
Beauty by definition should be more ethereal than a cheap, instant "hotness"
Great pick up line- "damn girl, you... I mean, I'm having an aesthetic experience due to your various characteristics... In my mind."
Works every time.
It’s such a cynical and arrogant viewpoint to assume all tradition that evolved over thousands of years isn’t LARGELY the most pragmatic course, learned through trial and error. In a libertarian culture, obviously the legal rights ensured for equality were very necessary, and I believe in all of that of course. But they threw the baby out w the bathwater.
You're right, but a trap that conservatives can fall into is thinking that all, or even most tradition is good and deserves to be around, or they treat tradition with too much respect and aren't flexible enough to adapt when the world inevitably throws curveballs at them.
Also, I believe you're confusing tradition as whole with western tradition. There are jungle tribes with traditions that involve jumping off a tower with a rope tied to your penis, or pedophilic relationships between men and boys. Those traditions are thousands of years old, yet they're clearly not the most pragmatic or optimal course. There must be a balance, as in all things. Too much tradition is just as bad as too much progression. We would have realized that had we lived in the 40's and 50's. The hippies didn't just come out of nowhere with absolutely no valid points or grievances.
Every article you guys cited just made me immediately think about a Nurgle cultist making those arguments.
It's like a joint working project with Nurgel and Salannesh 😁
Slannesh cultists grooming kids and getting monkeypx via drinking piss at birthday orgys are a close condender
I love wearing dresses, especially during summer. I love those classic ones with ruffles the best. They have this feeling of purity and innocence about them, imo. They are very feminine, and I love it. I seriously don't understand these pseudo-feminists.
She can call herself hot all she wants.
The results will still be the same no man and sex.
Of any quality
How hot you are when you're young doesn't mean jackshit, a good woman is someone who you'll love even when her beauty fades.
That’s not true. Go read the new definition and then you’ll realize she is hot and then you’ll have no choice but to like her because she’s hot. You obviously only like things because you’re told to, it has nothing to do with nature and then words and definitions used to describe that naturally occurring phenomena.
If there are women that want to be fat & hairy that's fine, but they do not get to decide that men should find that attractive or validate that feeling..
Are these the same women who demand that men be physically fit and well kept and that men with dad bods/beer bellies and excessive hair is not fine?
When I was in high school, A teacher talked about the horrors of corsets. How unhealthy and painful they were just to make men happy. (Men's beauty standards.)
Then I went to an anime convention and one of the vendors was selling corsets. There are no modern demands for women to wear corsets. The women flocked to it. They put them on. One of the helpers was a woman who would put her foot in the other woman's back and pull back the strings as tight as she could. It tightened the belly and raised the breast and made the chest look more impressive.
The women wanted pictures some of them were buying them. They were $90 a piece. They had metal bars in them and lots of stitching.
All I could think about was that teacher in high school describing the way that men's demands on women caused them to suffer. And how much more impressive one of my friends chest was while wearing a corset.
Women judge Women. Men like women.
It's a double myth men didn't come up with the corsets and if they were well fitted they weren't uncomfortable.
Just like a friend of mine said once: "Women are the first people to sexualise womens"
@@Dave-ks9fi And yet men have been wearing trusses for a long time. To the point where it was a stock Looney Tunes gag.
I honestly find the history of fashion from the 13th century to present fashion interesting with what gets invented, what stays/ changes and what jumps from men to women.
on the grounds of going "goblin mode", I want to quote the wise words of a fella of sheer commitment and will:
*"The only good goblins are the ones who never come out of their stinking holes"*
"Being hot its my identity, a self declaration" its the more narcissistic thing i heared this week.
I mean...how do you know you are hot? how do you know that concepts are hot? its that why we look to the mirror?
Humans are social people, we can find hot things on us or the thing we want in our life cuz that attract us, and someone with that will feel hot to us...and viceversa.
So no, hotness its not a "vibe"...this is just a person triying to modyfiying reality cuz she feels miserable, triying to feel "hot" without triying to have self-critic and seld-awareness.
Articulately put
So many things that are considered to be feminine get a lot of criticism and so in order to be respected by men we have to become more like them. When I was a child and teenager I was teased a lot and told that I was a stupid girl and basically worthless. I would say this is a common experience that girls have. What ever we do as females is harshly criticized including how much make up we wear and when we choose not to we are told that we don't care how we look etc. Lots of women want to escape womanhood and the overt sexualization that we experience that starts when we start breast development.
9:32 Differences between a man’s idea of female beauty and a woman’s idea of female beauty.
I appreciate the design of Bayonetta because the director understood this difference, which is why he chose a woman to design Bayonetta (and all of the characters). It’s why Bayonetta doesn’t reveal much skin aside from her back, why she incorporates her hair into attacks, and why she has interests in fashion and makeup. Also, she has a motherly personality.
TL;DR femininity is actually good
Amen and amen! Bayonetta caters to everyone in its fanservice.
The best part is, the picture of the beach whales wasn’t even taken on a real beach (presumably due to the “models” propensity to suffer heat stroke in temps above 20 degrees.)
Either that or the risk of sand in the skin folds.
9:45 One thing we should remember is that the beauty standards for women are mostly set by women, not us men. Remember all those Dove soap ads about "beauty at any size" and other such trash? The sales from those ads were very minimal and when women were asked why they didn't respond positively to those ads, they said that they didn't like those body types and wanted more fit and model-esque builds because that is what ads and products are meant for i.e. selling possibilities to people.
As a men, if I am broke but I FEEL rich, or IDENTIFY as rich. Will women still want me or they will still see me as broke??….🤷🏿 This world is becoming dumber and dumber by the day. Gone are the days where the TRUTH and FACTS mattered, now it’s just person’s feelings and what THEY think 🤦♂️
Calling yourself hot is like giving yourself a nickname.
They call me Tommy Long Schlong!
Or designating your own pronouns
My gf is a tomboy, sometimes her legs or pits need a shave, and sometimes i have to remind her i hate it when she wears frumpy ass hand me downs that are two sizes two big and look like bargain bin donations. But, i can honestly deal with that bc she stays in great shape and is very cute in the face as well and usually takes a soft reminder very well. Never argues or has the "this is me" rant. She just is like oh sorry, slipped my mind then either shaves or wears better clothes next time
That's definitely a common girl thing, I forget to shave my legs all the time 😂 granted, I'm pregnant so it's harder to lean over but my husband doesn't care that much, I'm ginger so my legs aren't like sasquatch.
Women need to wake up and realize they were used
They won't.
Feminists can never admit they were wrong.
*used by other women
My hunting dog is happiest fulfilling its role. It probably would be less happy being a novelist.
and certainly less successful
Have you SEEN the female brute horrors on the pull in the bars in 2022?
Its like night of the damned where prize giant pigs have put on wigs and lipstick and can walk upright. They even sound like them.
Ah yes, the great British (checks notes) 'slampig'. They most come out at night, mostly.
Why is it such a problem now for women to put effort into their appearance and grooming? Lately, I love doing my makeup and putting on light, floral perfume and wearing soft, flowy dresses.
Yes! Flowy dresses are much more convenient than tight jeans.
As a person that works out over 20 years, minds his diet and restrain from drinking and other things, I must say, never before by not progressing at all in the gym, I become more in shape, cause everyone around is just too lazy to do something xD My wife after 15 years of marriage is 2 kg lighter than when we met when she was 17, and she does not train at all, just minding her diet. I don't care bout whales around that much, just disgusting, but she hates these women with passion xD All the best to people that take care of their bodies!
If you have an active lifestyle, do chores, go up and down stairs, and don't over eat you will be alright.
@@Eluderatnight I agree :)
The men also don't take care of themselves. It is very sad that our society is like this.
@@sarcodonblue2876 that's very true, and I agree its super sad. Especially that imo, for men its a bit easier.
Excellent analysis. Connor is upping the game here.
Funny thing is that female attractiveness to males have been measured.
1. The waist to hip ratio should be around 0.67 to 0.80, 0.7 being the most attractive on average.
2. In general for both sexes, people find good personal hygeine attractive.
3. In general both sexes are attracted to symmetry.
4. Good health signals, like rosy cheeks, good skin, good nails, good teeth, full hair, etc.
5. Women that wear less make-up are also more attractive (it has to do with previous point).
6. A good rack (signals capability to feed children).
7. A good posture ( displays good skeletal health and ability to carry children).
This is it. Men are very visual creatures. It's coded in to our minds, and it is pretty objective, hence why men almost always agree on attractiveness. Please do not shoot the messenger. I know the list may sound like something for picking out race horses, but these are the physical standards, there are also some emotional standards that men find attractive in women, but those are less researched and in my experience a little more subjective to each man, although the ability to make a good sandwich is kind of universal.
The only contention I might have is that shaving of armpits is not necessarily hygiene. It doesn't really make you any cleaner, and the hair is there for a reason. Contrary to Connor's belief, having no hair actually make you more sweaty. The hair wicks away the sweat and allows for more surface area, which means the sweat can evaporate faster. We have eyebrows to keep sweat from dripping into our eyes.
@@spracketskooch This. Plus shaving and waxing causes micro abrasions and damage to the skin, leaving you MORE prone to infections. This especially applies to the privates and stis.
The end point of this is the complete destruction of the concept of objectivity. Seems like it will be a literal hell.
I'd like to see the women who say they get to decide their own hotness. Actually no, I don't want to see them.
Thank you for your work, gentlemen.
This human-bearing and biological woman's empowerment has come from 8 years of hard physical, intellectual and emotional work with MS (Multiple Sclerosis), FMS (Fibromyalgia) and debilitating side effects from having these to lifting myself from out of physically needing to use a scooter, to using a rollator, to using a cane and now walking completely unaided.
I've learnt how to do an honest self physical assessment, daily, in order to effectively committ myself to a task list. The often hardship of extreme fatigue remains to be a lingering challenge for me to find ways of adapting or overcoming. I've had to make the conscientious choice to spend energy for the day to either focus on long-term benefits of exercising and building muscle stamina and strength OR on short term and often no discernible benefit of making myself esthetically pleasing by way of shaving body hair, wearing shoes that impede my mobility/increase pain and wearing clothes that make me more uncomfortable and thereby delay or impede any improvement - and considering my physical mobility challenges likely to go unnoticed socially except as an invalid and not worth of much appraisal. (I've experienced being socially ostracized in the first part of my healing journey - and it is very much an unfortunate human characteristic that discourages one from even wanting to effort themselves of self-improvement.)
Now that I am mobile and have started to interact with the world around me more socially, I'm also able to include the socially esthetic grooming practices of body hair removal. Rediscovering my femininity and beauty was also a pleasure. Yet I've also learned to be okay with it if I'm not able to do this all the time. Nurturing a healthy self evaluation and perception has definitely empowered me to be a more robust, authentic and productive member of society.
the funny thing about that pic used for the "all bodies are beach bodies is that the model on the bottom left has complained they used it with out her permission and that it is heavily edited, including editing out her artificial leg!
The merge of narcissistic intent and nihilistic debauchery, gentlemen this is double think... to merge the egotistical love to yourself with the desire of being nothing truly unholy.
High quality content as usual. Thankyou gentlemen
Unfortunately, I had a mom who cared most about how she looked. She would tell me my style was boring (I liked modesty and being a tomboy) so I just never got into caring about how much I looked. I think it was to rebel and because I didn’t want to be like my mom.
I don’t wear makeup, I tie up my hair, I wear jeans and T-shirts, sneakers. I’m a tomboy through and through.
It makes me wonder if I should be a bit more feminine. I bought some dresses to wear to church (I think it matters to dress properly for church) so I guess that’s a start.
This is the part where I feel conflicted about gender norms. I’ve dabbled with looking pretty and I just don’t like the attention. I’m an introvert…. I prefer to be alone. I don’t need dudes coming up to me to try and talk… especially when I’m married.
It’s a conflict in me. I don’t want to be ugly but I don’t want the attention. =\
Beauty is a gift and attention is the burdun you bear with it. Just be friendly and humble and if needed, dismissive. It will help if your husband is with you too.
I can’t believe someone turned the Mehmet my Son video into a meme format.
I am just tired of so many women expecting men to fall at their feet and serve them just for being them. In a real relationship both parties most give of themselves for the benefit of the other but most women today expect to live free of any responsibility and be revered at the same time.
Carl should do the segment in a tank top to attract a more female audience.
Wife beater and a pint can of Stella. Bonus points for a dodgy sunburn
Carl won't do it. He's a married man and he values his relationship.
@@064razor if that was truly Carls position then he’s do the show with a bag over his face and a tarp covering the rest. I’m just extrapolating the debonair British gentleman thing carls got going on to the gold member poolside scene.
Femcel: "Having to shave my legs and shower daily is so oppressive, hygiene and self-care is hateful towards women."
Men: *1 and a half hours into his chest day* "Damn buddy, that's rough."
I recently went on a date with a leftist female. She looked very pretty and well kept. Later that week we went to the lake. I found out, surprisingly, she has unshaved, dyed armpits. Needless to say that interest is gone.
@@randomusername5242 Did she smell like a cat's litterbox despite not owning a single cat too? If so, I know the type.
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No. She was very pleasant, and smelt nice. It was at such odds with her beliefs. It felt as if she was trying to be a performative leftist as a way of rebelling against her parents.
@@randomusername5242 That's really unfortunate, actually. You'll find someone better though.
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It really is. I am hoping so, I just got divorced at 30 and I'm not going to waste my time wallowing.
Connor is great. He has quickly become on of my faves.
Notice how even the "positive example" you present with Evie is still focused on power.
Making women rediscover men as a useful tool isn't exactly motivating me to get married, Carl. Maybe that's what you want to be. But the more often you prove that the only way you can convince women to give a shit about the state of relationships and gender roles is to show them how _they_ can benefit, the more hopeless the thought of ever being seen as a human being by women becomes.
Your offer to women is "trust me, you'll like being cared for and loved", your offer to young men is "trust me, you'll love being drained, exploited and used."
Welcome to being a man. Throughout history we've been the expendable ones. This is no new or fresh idea. Our sole purpose is to be able to provide in some way or another. We are tools with a brain and emotions. I'm sorry that sounds callous, but it is an honest truth.
Exactly, I used to run in these circles and my question was always "what is a benefit of marriage for men." The ones who even attempted to answer basically came down to sex, children, and or some nebulous companionship.
"You can either love women, or understand women, but not both."
Unfortunately, due to social media (and the fact that women won't shut the f*** up), EVEY MAN IN THE WORLD (for the most part) currently understands women and we are all going our own way. ✌️
I can say that the reward for marriage is a family legacy, if the woman is not cooperative in that goal then its just hell to try to get there. If a man can create a family without marriage that sounds like the best choice.
The problem is divorce. Imo, it should be extremely difficult to divorce. Marriage is a wonderful thing if you commit to it through all the good and the bad. The vows “until death do us part” should matter.
What’s really terrible is that women encourage other women to divorce. As a woman, you have to not listen to other women when it comes to this stuff… or just not tell them when you’re going through tough times.
I’ve been with my husband for 20 years, married 16. We’ve been through a lot of shit together, we basically grow up together through life.
I’ve never loved anyone as deeply as I love my husband and my son. I would die for my family. And I finally know what family means. My husband feels the same way.
You can’t really get to this point, without committing to someone for life and learning to forgive each other. Ride or die.
From selecting your own pronoun to selecting your own adjectives.
As a man I shave my armpits, not for me, for you. You're welcome. As a side note, this all makes sense to me. If you give someone a good enough reason to do the awful things they want to do they'll take it. Like I've been told I'm a sexy smoker, I also enjoy smoking. Win win right? RIGHT?! I'm dieing slowly aren't I?
I like this new guy. More of him, please.
I'm a woman and i feel no hate from you guys
They have been worse in the past.
"Goblin mode" Why do they keep taking names of the villains from fiction is really bizzare.
Because that's who they identify with...