9 yrs of being a good girl then within 9 mths He is saying she is a studio vixen? it makes perfect sense now.... he cheated beat up the girl all in-front of their son at times, then when the girl decided she cannot take it anymore and leaves, he stalked her, then his paranoid mind made up lies about the girl and he tried to destroy her character. If anybody knows about psychology they would realize that these guys that behave this way all hv the same pattern. Thumbs UP girl make the world know what he really is.
SHE MADE HIM LOOK BAD TOO!!! A SHE FIRST GO PON INTERVIEW A TALK ABOUT THE MAN AND A DO SONG ABOUT THE MAN AND HE SHOULDN'T RETALIATE??? YES HIM WRONG FI BEAT HER AND HIM ADMIT SEH HIM CHEAT ON HER!!!! HE GAVE HER CREDIT AS BEING A GOOD MOM!!!! SHE HASN'T EVEN REALIZED THAT SKATTA USE HER PAIN AND HEART ACHE TO FUCK HER, HOW COULD SHE FUCK HER AND HER EX FIANCE CO-WORKER??? SHE ALSO CONTRADICTING HER SELF DIDN'T SHE SAY HE TOOK CARE OF HER SO HOW COMES THE FRIDGE EMPTY??? SHE NOT TELLING THE ENTIRE TRUTH!!!!
David Jarrett she did not make him look bad.... she never tell him fi beat her and cheat on her.... u r saying she should have said nothing? she made him look bad becuz she talked about the injustice she was facing with him.... karma is a bitch. can't plant corn and expect to reap peas. you have men that preys on weak girls. thats y she fuck scatta... she not strong mentally and she is obviously a weak person to let foota abuse her so long. If a scatta a give her the courage fi lef foota and lik out on him it's a good thing. the songs he wrote lik the nail on the head and the truth hurts. better she do this than let some other girl fall in the same trap.
David Jarrett I guess you did not listen to his interview he mentioned that they fought yet he didn't say y... she mentioned that if she said something about him cheating, he would hit her. him beat the girl cause he is a mental case and he needs therapy
@@oneikasuckra why black people emphasis on the black part, that manipulation is like saying some people that is african ancestry yall want to say she his mix base on what she says, beyonce on all these people, not all black people is black as ashes and broad nose, some are brown skin and might be light like you see in nigerian, but maybe no black people other than africa is a 100 percent 5 percent mix blood can change your physchical appearance
BEATING HER IN FRONT OF THEIR SON.... it seems like every one is missing what she is saying,,, how can you ignore BEATING ME IN FRONT OF MY SON???? gwan yah girl, do your thing, more strength more blessings,
I watched this interview and want to cry... Sometimes people will not see your worth until you have gone. God go with you Ishawna... Continue to be strong for you and your son. nuff love.
I witnessed my aunt getting a bloody face when I was five years old and I've never forgotten how horrific it was. She stayed with that man for years, had a bunch of kids and even married him. Battered wife syndrome is no joke. Any "man" who puts his hand on a woman is a disgrace. There's NO justification WHATSOEVER!!!!!!
She is making valid points.She is a smart girl. She answered her questions pretty well. Wish her the best. Hope she finds that groover and her careers takes off.
She wants to buy house.. He bought BMW.. for hype..makes no sense..clear example of stubborn men who don't believe or love God.. from the moment she started to take her career seriously, he started to attack her...dam...I felt that..! I promised myself I would never leave unless I can take care of myself permanently afterwards, many times I attempted to leave and he started telling me how it have worse people than him out there..so in essence he is better than anyone I can end up with afterwards..I dont even want another man in my life.. I just want to leave and have success and be single because men out here who don't believe in God and who don't listen to their women are inherently misguided and misinformed even by the Church as the only thing they preach is wives must be submissive to their husbands with no consideration for the women who the Bible spoke of who went against their husbands and was ordered to do so by God .....because their husbands ego was more important than their marriage and the people of the community
Heard his part and heard her part. She sounds like a survivor that grew up and left her abuser. She was young and naive when she entered the relationship with Foota. Young girls in this type of situation end up in worse situations or dead. She is a very strong young woman and that fact that she is speaking out shows her strength. Keep your head up sista. She is speaking out of her heart, you can feel it. I feel her energy thru this.
That's how most Jamaican's are, we don't know how to listen. Sometimes you are not allowed to get a word in a conversation. If we could only learn to just LISTEN.
After watching this interview I'm definitely convinced. I can tell from the emotion in her eyes that she's being sincere, I know his type because that's how I am as well, down to a tee. Just being honest. I hope she gets the help she needs to overcome this obstacle.
100 Percent FACTS....real recognizes the truth and based on the patterns of male manipulation, pride, womanizing, jealousy and plain being disgusting you can just tell....I'm glad she left and decided to TAKE her life back and do it bigger than her past toxic demons with that dutty cruff bwoy weh a style fi di public but cyah feed im family...God complex but nuffa dem ah Satan
progress yah isahwna gwan do yuh ting, you are a good girl, many will talk and try to cut you down , but you will rise , i wish you all the best, foota yuh use to beat di girl man, an mi nuh respect no man that beat woman, she is happy and free now
I believe every bit of what Ishawna spoke out of her mouth. Thumbs up to Ishawna for finding the strength to move on. Only who feels it knows and who have been in a similar situation can truly relate to her dilemma
When a man comes out and try to publicly disgrace the mother of his child it's easy for us to believe he is abusive. I am a Jamaican woman am I know that domestic abuse towards women is prevalent sad but true.
Good idea. She can raise awareness about the issue. She's a public figure, plus someone who has experienced it, so she would be perfect as a spokesperson.
KMT...I don't care what Ishawna did or what she's doing now. I don't support domestic abuse or any form of abuse there of. All these men on here are supporting the abuser as if it's something good.Shame on you.
slim Johnson they Jamaicans? So Jamaicans are the only set of abusers on earth? Being horny has nothing to do with physically abusing a woman. These men need self control.
slim Johnson I wont suppose to woman continually abusing a man either. .. both ways are wrong so I don't see why they all want to say she must do something fi get beating.. these men smh
I did a course at UTECH with I Shawna she is a level headed decent and intelligent woman not the loose type.The truth is if a woman want to leave you let her go on and trying to smear her character is not manly a dutty gyal behaviour dat .Gwaan Ishawna big up an bless up you are a valuable real estate just develop yourself and mek the price and value increase and mek them know you are not for sale.
I dislike how aggressive he is getting with her. I feel this happens to much where the woman is attacked for the breakup. The guy can say whatever to hurt the woman reputation and it is okay. I believe her because she said things that only women who have truly been through those thing says.
Yes my girl, congratulations on putting you and your son first. My son father nearly kill me and my daughter, but praise be to the most high mi get our. I feel so much happier without a man a stress out mi rass
Some of you are so dense. Placing focus on why no food was in the house and that its unbelievable. She is basically saying his priorities are not right. No woman with ambition wants to sit and waste her life with a man who is going nowhere. As far as the cheating part and who did who or whomever that's none of my business. I'm 100% against abuse, so I'm glad she was finally able to stand up and make a change. I wish her the best.
I feel for her and I'm glad she spoke out. For people to judge her and question why she chose to stay in an abusive relationship for 9 years is just plain stupid. Until you've been in that situation, you will never understand. It's very easy to judge. But good luck to her and I wish her all the best in life and her career.
I hear the emotions in her voice from the start of the interview I feel is so much for this girl. From those time when she made the song murderer and I watched the video I kept wondering if futta hyphe was beating her, now those taught have being confirm. That to show everyone that it not just now or because of any sexual deviance make she leave. Ishawna live you life yaah me girl and take care a you son, it pays to learn ... i know will choose a great man to be with next time. Even when futta chat bout hw him cheat and ishawna know, and him say it as if it was nothing I was so pist. kmt
Hey I am proud of you I went through it I was married to my abuser for seventeen years but I got out like you I was eighteen years old he was my first in everything so I understand why and where you are coming from just b glad you did not marry him the situation could have been worse so God bless
yep! I had a 12yrs relationship with my children father...full of mental abuse...when I decided to move on with my life he did the same thing...try to put me down in every way he could even try to take the boys....when he failed he stop communicate with the kids...
+cheryl-ann battle i know how that is our children are adults he still acts foul he recently tried to get me back and when i rejected he did what he has been doing all along kick our kids to the curb because i dont want him but God has been there every step of the way he is my source life an strength god saved me
Wow!!! I just ran across this "on stage" interview with foota and ishawna and I think it's sad but true. I am proud of how Ishawna found a way to honestly tell the public. In too many relationships today, people are being abused and not saying anything. This is wrong and the abuser who refuses to accept reality of the situation will abuse again. Real relationships are not about control, abuse or infidelity rather commitment, honesty, truth and solidarity. Learn to appreciate what you have at home, while you still have it by showing love....it's not always greener. Stay safe...........
The duncest question in the world- why u never leave. She was 18 when she met him. A child herself. She was like play dough and very easily manipulated. She then had a child. Then she loved him. Those factors are why she ended staying through abuse. It is psychology 101. I am glad as she got the courage to leave Many dont leave. Girl. Big up to you!!!
Ishawna is telling the truth typical abusive relationship... he beats her gives her a gift..does dumb shit and beats her for speaking up and over again... Its a cycle trust me
Dirty men out deh a waste good women. Mek I’m kibba im mouth. Go with God girl. The Jamaican systems needs to protect Jamaican women and children. Pay the police them more, get rid of corruption.
Shawna have Ledford glued to is chair and left him speechless, Ledford has nothing more to say to her. Smh Domestic violence is red flag. Ishawna thanks for RUNNING💔🚩
I applaude you Ishawna!! Nuff women especially Jamaican women are scared to speak out because its becoming the 'norm' for men to just beat their partners. Big up yourself, and keep going with your career. Stay focused, you can do it!
I respect her so much. Not a lot of women can admit that they are being abused. Not a lot of women come out as survivors in these situations. She took responsibility for not leaving when she should have and understands the long term implication this would have on her son. And she had the courage to leave and understood loosing everything to leave did not matter because life and safety was more important. I appreciate that she shared her story and maybe it will help someone else. Pay it forward.
big up Chronixx and Balanzmuzik two of Jamaica's best artist right now....don't have to sell uno soul for people to hear you... people get with the program and follow them youth yah....
These ppl saying her answer rehearse cause she said the same on raga if she had said something eles she a lier ...cah please Jamaican..she is saying the SAME thing because its the truth not rehearsed.... no one shud be really sitting here judging cuz everybody life have mishaps.
She's not lying , insecure , jealous men can't get the better of a woman , will seek to use physical strength as intimidation, she's smart , she used what she got to empower herself n with that empowerment she can now protect herself , that's what's making him mad, because she's shining and his one time beating stick is way above him now .....badmind
In Jamaica you have to go to court, they will give you a date (mine was like one week later which is a long time when you're feeling threatened). Then everybody comes to court the same time just to wait pretty much all day to get through. Then they interview you for at least two hours (they handwrite everything in a big book). Then if they think it's a plausible case you get a temporary protection order and a few weeks later they make you and your abuser come back to court at the same time to decide whether they will drop it or grant a temporary restraining order. So you actually have to be in the same small hallway with your abuser for hours before being questioned simultaneously 😩😩😩
Omg these women dont notice the pattern of a dysfunctional relationship. many women in Jamaica are in relationships like these. i know its hard when we love some one but examples need to be set for the children. if he doesnt appreciate u, you'll have to find better. shes a nice looking girl, she can find someone who will respect her and NOT be abusive
Good girl for speaking up about domestic violence and good you found the courage to leave. I can tell it took a lot out of you to do this.Now i understand your song murderer."Bless" ya heart but take Lady Saws suggestion and do right by your son and both of you try to make peace for his sake.Rise above this pretty girl. Remember the "feelings" will heal, then you have to look back and deal with what you said. It takes two hands to clap...And so what if you even left him because he didnt eat under the table lol..Sounds legit to me..Money cant replace that....cough...
Some rejected men have a nasty habit of attacking womens sexuality to humiliate and degrade them. Its such an ancient low down trick to be laughed at. Fox calling the grapes sour
Wow! I have nothing but respect for Ishawna!!! Her open and candid discussion regarding her relationship with her abusive ex, must've been a challenge. Especially when you are following the abusers interview a week later and the person you are being interviewed by appears to be seeking specific responses/words, from you. I now have to go listen to the abusers interview to see if the same happened during his interview. The process for getting a restraining order, as she has explained it, is insane and simply adds fuel to the concept that women's rights to be free from harm, doesn't seem to matter (systematically) in some places...and THAT is a crying shame.
I like the way you speak, you just keep it real you try build him up, but he his still in the dark,,you are trying bring him to the light ,most Jamaican man when they are making money they not think positive
Domestic violence is real. Emotional, physical abuse is a serious terroristic act to especially women in our culture. 1st question is "y u stay?". Emotional abuse usually precedes physical abuse. Emotional abuse is also subtle. It's not as easy to get out as we all think. I am a victim of domestic violence. I choose to be a victorious by standing up and fighting. My fight is getting my children and I away and start counseling. It wasn't and still is not easy. I just know after 10 yrs of marriage another day, another sorry won't change you. It takes alot of strength and great courage to walk away. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Domestic violence is a big problem in Jamaica that nodody ever talk about.
domestic violence is a big big problem everywhere, most men don't respect women period point blank and it's not just physical
bisnisldy1
Honestly! Domestic Violence is extremely high in Jamaica.
Thats bad
Domestic abuse Some of it mental illness.
I was in an abusive relationship, and left for the sake of my daughter, the pattern is the same. This woman is very brave, and definitely not lying.
Marie Wilson she was also in denial
Jah know me friend and good man like me out here single...
6 years later and this interview is moving. She spoke well and set an example for many females
These years only display the type of person she is.
Well said young lady,
I believe her.. Takes a brave person to come forward about these things 🙌🙌🙌
Bmw when u need foođ in your house black man again
9 yrs of being a good girl then within 9 mths He is saying she is a studio vixen? it makes perfect sense now.... he cheated beat up the girl all in-front of their son at times, then when the girl decided she cannot take it anymore and leaves, he stalked her, then his paranoid mind made up lies about the girl and he tried to destroy her character. If anybody knows about psychology they would realize that these guys that behave this way all hv the same pattern. Thumbs UP girl make the world know what he really is.
You could not have said it better. The writing is on the wall!!
SHE MADE HIM LOOK BAD TOO!!! A SHE FIRST GO PON INTERVIEW A TALK ABOUT THE MAN AND A DO SONG ABOUT THE MAN AND HE SHOULDN'T RETALIATE??? YES HIM WRONG FI BEAT HER AND HIM ADMIT SEH HIM CHEAT ON HER!!!! HE GAVE HER CREDIT AS BEING A GOOD MOM!!!! SHE HASN'T EVEN REALIZED THAT SKATTA USE HER PAIN AND HEART ACHE TO FUCK HER, HOW COULD SHE FUCK HER AND HER EX FIANCE CO-WORKER??? SHE ALSO CONTRADICTING HER SELF DIDN'T SHE SAY HE TOOK CARE OF HER SO HOW COMES THE FRIDGE EMPTY??? SHE NOT TELLING THE ENTIRE TRUTH!!!!
David Jarrett she did not make him look bad.... she never tell him fi beat her and cheat on her.... u r saying she should have said nothing? she made him look bad becuz she talked about the injustice she was facing with him.... karma is a bitch. can't plant corn and expect to reap peas. you have men that preys on weak girls. thats y she fuck scatta... she not strong mentally and she is obviously a weak person to let foota abuse her so long. If a scatta a give her the courage fi lef foota and lik out on him it's a good thing. the songs he wrote lik the nail on the head and the truth hurts. better she do this than let some other girl fall in the same trap.
No bredda. That's not what I mean. He admitted he beat her but she didn't say why. I can only speak from my experiencee!!
David Jarrett I guess you did not listen to his interview he mentioned that they fought yet he didn't say y... she mentioned that if she said something about him cheating, he would hit her. him beat the girl cause he is a mental case and he needs therapy
Most Jamaican man feel that women can't leave them so they will do anything to degrade the woman. Continue to be strong girl.
Trinidadian men too
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I believe her. I felt her pain, she was very sincere. Big black dutty Foota swyper a need kick in his batty. He's a punk.
Lol
Dwl!😂
Big black dutty foota😂😂😂
I total believe her
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN!!! MY GOODNESS...
shes very beautiful
true...my heart is with her
for real she's stunning inside n out
Yeah she is a stunning black queen
@@oneikasuckra why black people emphasis on the black part, that manipulation is like saying some people that is african ancestry yall want to say she his mix base on what she says, beyonce on all these people, not all black people is black as ashes and broad nose, some are brown skin and might be light like you see in nigerian, but maybe no black people other than africa is a 100 percent 5 percent mix blood can change your physchical appearance
I believe her and shes right. bless up ishawna
I respect her so much more after seeing this
Terese Fagan mmm
BEATING HER IN FRONT OF THEIR SON.... it seems like every one is missing what she is saying,,, how can you ignore BEATING ME IN FRONT OF MY SON???? gwan yah girl, do your thing, more strength more blessings,
Flo u nuh easy enuh 😀😀😀
Domestic violence is a big thing in Jamaica. The government should do something about it
You're right, but unfortunately it's big everywhere and it's only getting worst.
I believe every single word she said ‼️💯
Me too!!
she is beautiful n well spoken. great interview ishawna
I watched this interview and want to cry... Sometimes people will not see your worth until you have gone. God go with you Ishawna... Continue to be strong for you and your son. nuff love.
The man was most likely jealous of her.
I witnessed my aunt getting a bloody face when I was five years old and I've never forgotten how horrific it was. She stayed with that man for years, had a bunch of kids and even married him. Battered wife syndrome is no joke. Any "man" who puts his hand on a woman is a disgrace. There's NO justification WHATSOEVER!!!!!!
True.girl
True word
She is making valid points.She is a smart girl. She answered her questions pretty well. Wish her the best. Hope she finds that groover and her careers takes off.
Me nuh check fi any man wey beat or abuse woman.
Hugh Anthony Porter amen
For real Foota is a ugly guy
AGREED
i believe all she says she speaks well explains clearly
She wants to buy house.. He bought BMW.. for hype..makes no sense..clear example of stubborn men who don't believe or love God.. from the moment she started to take her career seriously, he started to attack her...dam...I felt that..! I promised myself I would never leave unless I can take care of myself permanently afterwards, many times I attempted to leave and he started telling me how it have worse people than him out there..so in essence he is better than anyone I can end up with afterwards..I dont even want another man in my life.. I just want to leave and have success and be single because men out here who don't believe in God and who don't listen to their women are inherently misguided and misinformed even by the Church as the only thing they preach is wives must be submissive to their husbands with no consideration for the women who the Bible spoke of who went against their husbands and was ordered to do so by God .....because their husbands ego was more important than their marriage and the people of the community
I felt that one "my loyalty became slavery "
Real talk momma well said
Heard his part and heard her part. She sounds like a survivor that grew up and left her abuser. She was young and naive when she entered the relationship with Foota. Young girls in this type of situation end up in worse situations or dead. She is a very strong young woman and that fact that she is speaking out shows her strength. Keep your head up sista. She is speaking out of her heart, you can feel it. I feel her energy thru this.
preach
Well said sis.
Ritseeniyah Georges - Haughton I know exactly how she feels
Ritseeniyah Georges - Haughton true thing sista mi feel har energy she was speaking from her heart fi true!
Ritseeniyah Georges - Haughton ....well said and i agree.
This host just needs to let IShawna tell her story. He's interrupting too much!!
Remember its his show so maybe that's y he interrupted so much..
Yes
That's how most Jamaican's are, we don't know how to listen. Sometimes you are not allowed to get a word in a conversation. If we could only learn to just LISTEN.
Felt the same way
I'm saying
I work in child protective services and I can tell the impact on children that lived through domestic violence is devastating.
I luv you more after this interview, I felt ur pain.... your pain is heard!
This interview made me love Ishawna. Still do.
Glad you left. You are a young beautiful woman, take care of yourself. Be strong, stand tall and keep doing your all to be better.
I love u girl true talk
And the sad thing is that people are still trying to bash her today. She put in the work and she deserves her dues.
Positive conversation any man wah knock ah woman is ah fish
At least she is not ungrateful
Kmt a dat ya worry boh
After watching this interview I'm definitely convinced. I can tell from the emotion in her eyes that she's being sincere, I know his type because that's how I am as well, down to a tee. Just being honest. I hope she gets the help she needs to overcome this obstacle.
100 Percent FACTS....real recognizes the truth and based on the patterns of male manipulation, pride, womanizing, jealousy and plain being disgusting you can just tell....I'm glad she left and decided to TAKE her life back and do it bigger than her past toxic demons with that dutty cruff bwoy weh a style fi di public but cyah feed im family...God complex but nuffa dem ah Satan
Zero tolerance on domestic violence!!! Understood her stand point, she's strong
you are a very good woman. I feel your sincerity sister it's too bad some of our black brothers can't get it together. All the best sister.
progress yah isahwna gwan do yuh ting, you are a good girl, many will talk and try to cut you down , but you will rise , i wish you all the best, foota yuh use to beat di girl man, an mi nuh respect no man that beat woman, she is happy and free now
Dwfl lolzz😂😂😂😂 mi si yo
💯💯💯
I believe every bit of what Ishawna spoke out of her mouth. Thumbs up to Ishawna for finding the strength to move on. Only who feels it knows and who have been in a similar situation can truly relate to her dilemma
Her story is close to mine only mine was more worst
But thank God for the courage to leave and now living like a queen 😊
Queen o there goes that word again,
Ever women want to be a queen. Humble yourself.
You are definitely a queen.
@@shaneshane4376 u still be a queen amd humble at the same time smh
wow. very intelligent, beautiful, and articulate young lady
When a man comes out and try to publicly disgrace the mother of his child it's easy for us to believe he is abusive. I am a Jamaican woman am I know that domestic abuse towards women is prevalent sad but true.
true
It seem like it is common down here in the southern part of the United States.
I feel for her
Ah she diss di mon inna chune an yuh nuh wan mon fi ansa?? Ooman yuh maddddd
Jamaica should make ishawna be an advocate for Domestic violence in jamaica.
Good idea. She can raise awareness about the issue. She's a public figure, plus someone who has experienced it, so she would be perfect as a spokesperson.
Who feels it knows it....amen
Yes
KMT...I don't care what Ishawna did or what she's doing now. I don't support domestic abuse or any form of abuse there of. All these men on here are supporting the abuser as if it's something good.Shame on you.
Because they are the same thing.
Yes these man are a disgrace I can't stand them... ABUSERS
slim Johnson they Jamaicans? So Jamaicans are the only set of abusers on earth? Being horny has nothing to do with physically abusing a woman. These men need self control.
slim Johnson I wont suppose to woman continually abusing a man either. .. both ways are wrong so I don't see why they all want to say she must do something fi get beating.. these men smh
slim Johnson I understand what u mean
u can see the pain in her eyes
i love this girl an how she speaks
Girl I felt your pain ,foota is a woman beater he is a waste man I hate guys that beat women ...you did the right thing Ishawna leave the weak man .
Just watching this interview, girl my eyes is full of water...I was in an Abuse's relationship and me of to run so that I could live to see this day.
I did a course at UTECH with I Shawna she is a level headed decent and intelligent woman not the loose type.The truth is if a woman want to leave you let her go on and trying to smear her character is not manly a dutty gyal behaviour dat .Gwaan Ishawna big up an bless up you are a valuable real estate just develop yourself and mek the price and value increase and mek them know you are not for sale.
I dislike how aggressive he is getting with her. I feel this happens to much where the woman is attacked for the breakup. The guy can say whatever to hurt the woman reputation and it is okay. I believe her because she said things that only women who have truly been through those thing says.
Him ah buy car before food
Real talk girl a lot of females are facing this issue ... may God give them the strength to walk away..
Yes my girl, congratulations on putting you and your son first. My son father nearly kill me and my daughter, but praise be to the most high mi get our. I feel so much happier without a man a stress out mi rass
sound very intelligent
Well said young lady
Some of you are so dense. Placing focus on why no food was in the house and that its unbelievable. She is basically saying his priorities are not right. No woman with ambition wants to sit and waste her life with a man who is going nowhere. As far as the cheating part and who did who or whomever that's none of my business. I'm 100% against abuse, so I'm glad she was finally able to stand up and make a change. I wish her the best.
Rockstarbarbie33 jurdddsdt is the way trrrrw ejjà
Blueprint of my story
Woman is only talk Dem part she broke up with the man January and still fk another man so far and u saying just a friend
I WISH HER THE BEST....ND I WILL STILL LISTEN TO HER MUSIC
I feel for her and I'm glad she spoke out. For people to judge her and question why she chose to stay in an abusive relationship for 9 years is just plain stupid. Until you've been in that situation, you will never understand. It's very easy to judge. But good luck to her and I wish her all the best in life and her career.
I believe her... At first she said nothing and now she's speaking up... Good!!! I'm glad she got out if it! Good for you girl
My restraining order would come before anything, I'm not leaving until I got it.
Yuh did a help foota nyam it tuh
I hear the emotions in her voice from the start of the interview I feel is so much for this girl. From those time when she made the song murderer and I watched the video I kept wondering if futta hyphe was beating her, now those taught have being confirm. That to show everyone that it not just now or because of any sexual deviance make she leave. Ishawna live you life yaah me girl and take care a you son, it pays to learn ... i know will choose a great man to be with next time. Even when futta chat bout hw him cheat and ishawna know, and him say it as if it was nothing I was so pist. kmt
Hey I am proud of you I went through it I was married to my abuser for seventeen years but I got out like you I was eighteen years old he was my first in everything so I understand why and where you are coming from just b glad you did not marry him the situation could have been worse so God bless
true
yep! I had a 12yrs relationship with my children father...full of mental abuse...when I decided to move on with my life he did the same thing...try to put me down in every way he could even try to take the boys....when he failed he stop communicate with the kids...
cheryl-ann battle hush...God is always with you...will never leave u
+cheryl-ann battle i know how that is our children are adults he still acts foul he recently tried to get me back and when i rejected he did what he has been doing all along kick our kids to the curb because i dont want him but God has been there every step of the way he is my source life an strength god saved me
Chanel Young hush hon...them soon get big n them same kids will help you...my 3 work and help me...i don't need a thing...praying for you always
Best of luck to you. Every woman has their own battle and you'd be surprised how many women are living in maximum security.
Stay strong girl!! Blessings to you and your son.
I love ishawna
Pupa Jesus no food Ina house an u have a BMW hmmm foota!!!!!!!
Majority of abused women stay in the relationship. Don't judge it's hard to get out.
I totally understand this. You never know until you been threw it
Very deep & real, well spoken Ishawna ratings fi you HIGH...
You could hear the tears in her voice
Fr me feel it yow
like how she was so emotionally stable through the interview.
I believe every word she have said.Take control of your life.
YES SPEAK UP ISHAWNA!! Don't take no bull from no man.
tearz tearz big up u self ishawna
She’s soo prettyyyy😍😍
Wow!!! I just ran across this "on stage" interview with foota and ishawna and I think it's sad but true. I am proud of how Ishawna found a way to honestly tell the public. In too many relationships today, people are being abused and not saying anything. This is wrong and the abuser who refuses to accept reality of the situation will abuse again. Real relationships are not about control, abuse or infidelity rather commitment, honesty, truth and solidarity. Learn to appreciate what you have at home, while you still have it by showing love....it's not always greener. Stay safe...........
Happy that she walked away. He wants to destroy her because she found her voice.
I love ishawna after all this, realest girl ever
Island Queen for real
omg cried who feels it knows hun u motivate mi girl love yuh hun
do yuh thing mi love you
The duncest question in the world- why u never leave. She was 18 when she met him. A child herself. She was like play dough and very easily manipulated. She then had a child. Then she loved him. Those factors are why she ended staying through abuse. It is psychology 101. I am glad as she got the courage to leave
Many dont leave. Girl. Big up to you!!!
Hands down to u girl I believe u str8 and ur very pretty and intelligent jah know
Ishawna is telling the truth typical abusive relationship... he beats her gives her a gift..does dumb shit and beats her for speaking up and over again... Its a cycle trust me
Dirty men out deh a waste good women. Mek I’m kibba im mouth. Go with God girl. The Jamaican systems needs to protect Jamaican women and children. Pay the police them more, get rid of corruption.
Shawna have Ledford glued to is chair and left him speechless, Ledford has nothing more to say to her. Smh
Domestic violence is red flag. Ishawna thanks for RUNNING💔🚩
I applaude you Ishawna!! Nuff women especially Jamaican women are scared to speak out because its becoming the 'norm' for men to just beat their partners. Big up yourself, and keep going with your career. Stay focused, you can do it!
I respect her so much. Not a lot of women can admit that they are being abused. Not a lot of women come out as survivors in these situations. She took responsibility for not leaving when she should have and understands the long term implication this would have on her son. And she had the courage to leave and understood loosing everything to leave did not matter because life and safety was more important. I appreciate that she shared her story and maybe it will help someone else. Pay it forward.
She is a GODDESS.
She is so beautiful and real tho
She would kill you wide bun
***** AND U BELIEVE DAT? SHE'S A LIAR
***** Lmao
Dude you obviously want a girl that nice.. Is obvious you are hating on the chick with your bitter bad minded bloodcloth
***** lol good question
Sis is intelligent and it intimidates somes people🔥🔥🔥
big up Chronixx and Balanzmuzik two of Jamaica's best artist right now....don't have to sell uno soul for people to hear you...
people get with the program and follow them youth yah....
Dont you touch a woman abusively and try to justify it
Yes, I agree. I can't stand it myself. There's NO justification on attacking someone...period.
These ppl saying her answer rehearse cause she said the same on raga if she had said something eles she a lier ...cah please Jamaican..she is saying the SAME thing because its the truth not rehearsed.... no one shud be really sitting here judging cuz everybody life have mishaps.
Got to relize most of these people here is dunse and illiterate. Fucking skums of the earth.
I agree! If her story didnt change that means she's telling the truth
She's not lying , insecure , jealous men can't get the better of a woman , will seek to use physical strength as intimidation, she's smart , she used what she got to empower herself n with that empowerment she can now protect herself , that's what's making him mad, because she's shining and his one time beating stick is way above him now .....badmind
She is a very intelligent woman. I understand what she went through.
jamaica need to tighten up on that , im america you get a protection order within the hour of walking in to a police station,,,
In Jamaica you have to go to court, they will give you a date (mine was like one week later which is a long time when you're feeling threatened). Then everybody comes to court the same time just to wait pretty much all day to get through. Then they interview you for at least two hours (they handwrite everything in a big book). Then if they think it's a plausible case you get a temporary protection order and a few weeks later they make you and your abuser come back to court at the same time to decide whether they will drop it or grant a temporary restraining order. So you actually have to be in the same small hallway with your abuser for hours before being questioned simultaneously 😩😩😩
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Years madness, all day 🙄
Omg these women dont notice the pattern of a dysfunctional relationship. many women in Jamaica are in relationships like these. i know its hard when we love some one but examples need to be set for the children. if he doesnt appreciate u, you'll have to find better. shes a nice looking girl, she can find someone who will respect her and NOT be abusive
Good girl for speaking up about domestic violence and good you found the courage to leave. I can tell it took a lot out of you to do this.Now i understand your song murderer."Bless" ya heart but take Lady Saws suggestion and do right by your son and both of you try to make peace for his sake.Rise above this pretty girl. Remember the "feelings" will heal, then you have to look back and deal with what you said. It takes two hands to clap...And so what if you even left him because he didnt eat under the table lol..Sounds legit to me..Money cant replace that....cough...
Janice I absolutely agree
Some rejected men have a nasty habit of attacking womens sexuality to humiliate and degrade them. Its such an ancient low down trick to be laughed at. Fox calling the grapes sour
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Wow! I have nothing but respect for Ishawna!!! Her open and candid discussion regarding her relationship with her abusive ex, must've been a challenge. Especially when you are following the abusers interview a week later and the person you are being interviewed by appears to be seeking specific responses/words, from you. I now have to go listen to the abusers interview to see if the same happened during his interview.
The process for getting a restraining order, as she has explained it, is insane and simply adds fuel to the concept that women's rights to be free from harm, doesn't seem to matter (systematically) in some places...and THAT is a crying shame.
i love ishawna she is real man.
She so pretty. She will find someone who values her
Pray that She does ❤
Oh she will. I will pray. I cannot believe anyone could hurt such a beautiful human. I will pray he someday get the same treatment
I like the way you speak, you just keep it real you try build him up, but he his still in the dark,,you are trying bring him to the light ,most Jamaican man when they are making money they not think positive
what a positive talk...low down man talking about oral sex. ...true or not...low down bad.
Thank God your in a better space now and thanks for sharing....God bless you
Be strong. Don't listen to the wicked people backing abusive men. Some of these men are worthless. The next woman will find out.
Domestic violence is real. Emotional, physical abuse is a serious terroristic act to especially women in our culture. 1st question is "y u stay?". Emotional abuse usually precedes physical abuse. Emotional abuse is also subtle. It's not as easy to get out as we all think. I am a victim of domestic violence. I choose to be a victorious by standing up and fighting. My fight is getting my children and I away and start counseling. It wasn't and still is not easy. I just know after 10 yrs of marriage another day, another sorry won't change you. It takes alot of strength and great courage to walk away. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏