I have had closure based on a very logical reason with a women. She was perfect, genuinely stunning, and came from a very wealthy family. In the end she decided that I was too 'tight' with money despite always paying when we are outside, and buying her gifts, etc, but we would be out every single day numerous times, and so I was spending a bit too much so I tried to slow it down, and she came from the type of family where that type of money wasn't anything to glance over at, and so that became the end of us.
My H.S. girlfriend went from warm to ice-cold and refused to explain, she only gave tears. Several years later she showed up running into some of my family members and asking about me... I gave her the same silence she had given me.
You seeking "closure" hands them the power. If you've been ghosted, try your best to take it on the chin (even if it's painful). They may in time realise they made an error, but probably not (they are a woman and will rationalize it away).
If she handles her love interests in such an impulsive manner and throws men away cheaply and she’s kinda 30s plus then it’s highly likely that ALL of her relationships will end equally badly and probably more quickly. If she’s tried to break up with you before your Birthday to get you to crawl back is such a woman worth begging back into your life. The “closure” is she treats people poorly and that is all you need to move on.
I have broken up with about 10 of my 12 long-term partners/wives. I am mid-50s now and have the 666 Chad qualification. The ones I dumped got the best answer I could come up with, not necessary the truth. For example, many of them were upgraded for more attractive or successful girls. What am I going to say to them, I am dumping you because I can do better or because you aren't career successful enough...of course not, you create a story that softens the blow. Well, guess what...women will do the same thing so why aske them the question in the first place. If they were really into you they would have told you without your having to ask.
I have had closure based on a very logical reason with a women.
She was perfect, genuinely stunning, and came from a very wealthy family.
In the end she decided that I was too 'tight' with money despite always paying when we are outside, and buying her gifts, etc, but we would be out every single day numerous times, and so I was spending a bit too much so I tried to slow it down, and she came from the type of family where that type of money wasn't anything to glance over at, and so that became the end of us.
My H.S. girlfriend went from warm to ice-cold and refused to explain, she only gave tears. Several years later she showed up running into some of my family members and asking about me... I gave her the same silence she had given me.
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You seeking "closure" hands them the power. If you've been ghosted, try your best to take it on the chin (even if it's painful). They may in time realise they made an error, but probably not (they are a woman and will rationalize it away).
If she handles her love interests in such an impulsive manner and throws men away cheaply and she’s kinda 30s plus then it’s highly likely that ALL of her relationships will end equally badly and probably more quickly. If she’s tried to break up with you before your Birthday to get you to crawl back is such a woman worth begging back into your life. The “closure” is she treats people poorly and that is all you need to move on.
I have broken up with about 10 of my 12 long-term partners/wives. I am mid-50s now and have the 666 Chad qualification. The ones I dumped got the best answer I could come up with, not necessary the truth. For example, many of them were upgraded for more attractive or successful girls. What am I going to say to them, I am dumping you because I can do better or because you aren't career successful enough...of course not, you create a story that softens the blow. Well, guess what...women will do the same thing so why aske them the question in the first place. If they were really into you they would have told you without your having to ask.