I agree!☝🏽 If I meet a guy, he better tell me if he’s married or not because I don’t want to be pulled into some BS. One thing I can’t stand is when a guy knows he is not available and he still pursues me and hides the fact he’s married or in a relationship. I don’t appreciate being drawn into a love triangle because I don’t do third party relationships. Some guys hide it well, I need to be careful not to fall into that trap.
Yes I hate that as well but we have to Continue to ask questions And remember what their answers are because they don't be remembering LOL I Always tell my friends I may forget what my friends tell me my mama tell me my daughter tell me but I never forget what a man tell me 🤣🤣
Thank you so much sis I appreciate you That's all I know how to do is keep it real, we have to be open about our experiences it can save our life and yes you will see me in the next video/post have a wonderful day 😊
Well said, and you look great. I truly admire how well you take care of yourself. It used to be that older women could school the younger women, but now older women need to be reminded of the same foolishness. I pray that God will send you someone worthy of your love....May God bless you greatly 💌
Awww thank you so much I really appreciate you for saying that You are so right we do still have to be reminded Of the same foolishness Cause I know we all desire love and we don't want to be treated in kind of way I will be by myself And continue dating in JC Jesus Christ because He will never leave me nor forsake me
Thanks you not old your beautiful smart and you have a Good Heart and you know what you want and don’t want your get what you put out Thank God , God Bless You and Your Family sis I hear You that’s make two of us Stay Strong what for You God going to give it to You and no one else words are Power we get what we say we are who we say we are You are not old You are seasoned God Bless
Thank you so much sis I appreciate you saying that, That's right there's life and death in the power of the tongue we have to speak what we want Oh yeah thanks for reminding me that's the word I be meaning to use seasoned God bless you as well
Oh yeah that's right we can't even forget the emotional cheating It's like what do we for me I've been single 10 years plus so I guess that works for me LOL
One way I know for sure if they're pattern change something's going on if they're secretive with their phone and sometimes a woman's PH downstairs will be off-balance
Your not lying at all, I have to tell God to reveal them to me and trust HE will. I’ve always been a person that liked to take my time; not long ago I had a woman tell me about her ex husband, that was trying to talk to me and he is married to the woman he cheated on her with didn’t even tell me he was married. I wasn’t even interested in him I just took my time then boom God let that come out. Then there was another time another married man who I actually worked for tried me too, I put that man business all over FB and went EEOC.
Wow that's crazy that's why we have to take our time cause they think they're so slick like we're not gonna find out what's going on Praise the Lord you found out that information and you shut him down
After several NYC college roommates and apartment shares I have no interest in relationships or anyone else’s germs, so save your chicken wings, collard greens, pinto beans or chitterlings🖐🏽
You are pretty! Also I never EVER messed with other women's husbands because I believed in karma too and thought if I didn't do it my husband would be faithful. Karma forgot about protecting me because that buzzard was cheating.
Thank you so much what you talking bout Karma!!! I never wanted it to come back to me not saying I haven't Did some stuff in my younger years It's never been anybodies husband though, I admire relationships too much that's messed up But you know them buzzards will get there's too 😆
People lie; if you suspect they are in a relationship, they probably are. Sad to say but you can't believe everything you hear, everything someone tells you. 🙏🙏🙏 about it!
When a man wants to cheat, he’s not telling the other woman he’s married or in a relationship. Women these days have to snoop and find this information. What’s sad these days are the amount of women that fight over these men that are cheating/ playing them.
Karma doesn't come back to people without a conscience. People kill others and lay down and go to sleep. It depends on the situation when it comes to marriage. It's so many unhappily married people. Cheating has been going on since the beginning of time. People need to consider polygamy. Truthfully that's all it is
Should these videos be for ppl that date somebody’s husband or should the video be for the women who allow their husbands to date 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ IJS men would stop if women would stop being doormats. These married ppl r more single than the single ppl. These marriages these days are so open to the point where I don’t even understand y ppl even get married anymore just to have an open marriage idk I think more videos need to be made to advise these married folks because they are doing damage not only in their marriages but also in the dating pool……just my 2 cents but I’m glad you’re schooling ppl though
LOL right I think both once you sit back pay attention and analyze everything A light bulb should go off somewhere LOL but yeah if you look at all the celebrities getting married and next thing you know they're getting divorce it's just not the same it's not like back in the day Relationships last a little longer and some of them had morals but these days for some reason marriage now is a joke When I think about living with a man again I get anxiety and I don't suffer with anxiety but that frightens me LOL It's too much work and I don't have time to be playing inspected gadget If I can't trust you I'm turned off immediately
@ the anxiety these days aren’t even from are you faithful or not it’s what & who ur cheating with these days u don’t know if you calling Barbara or Byron 😩😩😩 but even back in the days when I look back at those marriages I don’t want ANY of them just to say I spent a lifetime of hell with somebody no thanks
I totally agree with you. There's more married men doing this I've seen it. Karma should go for both, because a woman always knows when a man is cheating. It takes two to tangle.
Yes I totally agree I've also seen some successful long-term relationships but some of them I still be Shaking my head saying I couldn't do it and its not worth it, lol you don't know what you're getting these days they have all different types of fetishes they like animals 😂
I agree!☝🏽
If I meet a guy, he better tell me if he’s married or not because I don’t want to be pulled into some BS. One thing I can’t stand is when a guy knows he is not available and he still pursues me and hides the fact he’s married or in a relationship. I don’t appreciate being drawn into a love triangle because I don’t do third party relationships. Some guys hide it well, I need to be careful not to fall into that trap.
Yes I hate that as well but we have to Continue to ask questions And remember what their answers are because they don't be remembering LOL I Always tell my friends I may forget what my friends tell me my mama tell me my daughter tell me but I never forget what a man tell me 🤣🤣
If you respect someone else's relationship it automatically translate to you respecting yourself.
That's a perfect way to look at it
That’s right, never underestimate what someone would/would not do as it relates to “their man”. Stay safe.💯
So So true
I APPRECIATE YOUR transparency, truth, and wisdom. See you in the next video/post.
Thank you so much sis I appreciate you That's all I know how to do is keep it real, we have to be open about our experiences it can save our life and yes you will see me in the next video/post have a wonderful day 😊
@LadyOnyc Thank you for responding.
You're welcome 😊
Facts Sis! 👍🏾 Your mental health, dignity and safety should always be your top priority ❤
Absolutely so true
AMEN, AMEN 🙏 Yes Indeed I tell my Granddaughter the truth and Yes,you're so right. Live and Learn ❤❤❤❤
Hallelujah Amen yes we have Keep it real so they can learn from our experiences
I been saying this from day one ☝️ thanks sis for this video ❤
Wow you're so welcome
Amen to this 👏🏼🙌🏼
Thank you 😊
Well said, and you look great. I truly admire how well you take care of yourself.
It used to be that older women could school the younger women, but now older women need to be reminded of the same foolishness. I pray that God will send you someone worthy of your love....May God bless you greatly 💌
Awww thank you so much I really appreciate you for saying that You are so right we do still have to be reminded Of the same foolishness Cause I know we all desire love and we don't want to be treated in kind of way I will be by myself And continue dating in JC Jesus Christ because He will never leave me nor forsake me
Why You Bust Me out Sis ? 🤣
You could Not have explained it No Better....I Truly Feel You.
Lol 😅 I did ? 🤣
Thanks you not old your beautiful smart and you have a Good Heart and you know what you want and don’t want your get what you put out Thank God , God Bless You and Your Family sis I hear You that’s make two of us Stay Strong what for You God going to give it to You and no one else words are Power we get what we say we are who we say we are You are not old You are seasoned God Bless
Thank you so much sis I appreciate you saying that, That's right there's life and death in the power of the tongue we have to speak what we want Oh yeah thanks for reminding me that's the word I be meaning to use seasoned God bless you as well
Absolutely 💯
Thank you so much
Great segment 👍🏾
Yes I agree
So true and let’s not forget Online too! Emotional cheating
Oh yeah that's right we can't even forget the emotional cheating It's like what do we for me I've been single 10 years plus so I guess that works for me LOL
You are so right😮
They will not listen but blame the wife, etc.🙄
Both parties will have their portion in hell fire.
Lol 😅
I once over heard an older woman in a nail salon say if they ain’t married she don’t won’t them I was 🫢
Wow that's crazy but I've heard that too but it works for them because they don't want the negro up under them all day long LOL
Yeah, that sounds super nasty of that lady.😬
And that’s how the STD’s get around
I believe once you get a certain age, you are going to share , this is why I'm remaining single.
Yes so true me too I just don't have the energy anymore for the games
these men are scandalous......how do u know if ur husband got a mistress they lie n come back home like nothings going on
One way I know for sure if they're pattern change something's going on if they're secretive with their phone and sometimes a woman's PH downstairs will be off-balance
Your not lying at all, I have to tell God to reveal them to me and trust HE will. I’ve always been a person that liked to take my time; not long ago I had a woman tell me about her ex husband, that was trying to talk to me and he is married to the woman he cheated on her with didn’t even tell me he was married. I wasn’t even interested in him I just took my time then boom God let that come out. Then there was another time another married man who I actually worked for tried me too, I put that man business all over FB and went EEOC.
Wow that's crazy that's why we have to take our time cause they think they're so slick like we're not gonna find out what's going on Praise the Lord you found out that information and you shut him down
Amen sis, you got it thanks for the wisdom.
You're welcome sis the say each 1 teach 1 and we all can learn from each other
After several NYC college roommates and apartment shares I have no interest in relationships or anyone else’s germs, so save your chicken wings, collard greens, pinto beans or chitterlings🖐🏽
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I know that's why it's not worth it
You spoke nothing but facts darling 💕
Thank you so much sis
Big lesson learned . Never ever ever again!!
Wow I know that's right sis but we learn from our experiences
@ I didn’t know he was married at first 🤦🏾♀️😡
That's that grimy mess they do it's just to much
You are pretty!
Also I never EVER messed with other women's husbands because I believed in karma too and thought if I didn't do it my husband would be faithful.
Karma forgot about protecting me because that buzzard was cheating.
Thank you so much what you talking bout Karma!!! I never wanted it to come back to me not saying I haven't Did some stuff in my younger years It's never been anybodies husband though, I admire relationships too much that's messed up But you know them buzzards will get there's too 😆
WORD!!!
Thanks 😊
Not interested in nobody's leftovers.......
🤣🤣🤣 You know those leftovers be stale LOL
People lie; if you suspect they are in a relationship, they probably are. Sad to say but you can't believe everything you hear, everything someone tells you. 🙏🙏🙏 about it!
So true
Big facts!!! People get hurt this way. 😮
Yes We have to protect ourselves as well as our sanity
Absolutely true!
Yes Smh
When a man wants to cheat, he’s not telling the other woman he’s married or in a relationship. Women these days have to snoop and find this information. What’s sad these days are the amount of women that fight over these men that are cheating/ playing them.
Exactly it's not worth it in the end it's just a waist of time 🙄
Real Talk 💯
Yes as we become wise we see 👀 things more clearly
Karma doesn't come back to people without a conscience. People kill others and lay down and go to sleep. It depends on the situation when it comes to marriage. It's so many unhappily married people. Cheating has been going on since the beginning of time. People need to consider polygamy. Truthfully that's all it is
Wow that's another way of looking at it
Bingo!!!!
I like that Bingo 😆
Facts
That's right
Should these videos be for ppl that date somebody’s husband or should the video be for the women who allow their husbands to date 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ IJS men would stop if women would stop being doormats. These married ppl r more single than the single ppl. These marriages these days are so open to the point where I don’t even understand y ppl even get married anymore just to have an open marriage idk I think more videos need to be made to advise these married folks because they are doing damage not only in their marriages but also in the dating pool……just my 2 cents but I’m glad you’re schooling ppl though
LOL right I think both once you sit back pay attention and analyze everything A light bulb should go off somewhere LOL but yeah if you look at all the celebrities getting married and next thing you know they're getting divorce it's just not the same it's not like back in the day Relationships last a little longer and some of them had morals but these days for some reason marriage now is a joke When I think about living with a man again I get anxiety and I don't suffer with anxiety but that frightens me LOL It's too much work and I don't have time to be playing inspected gadget If I can't trust you I'm turned off immediately
@ the anxiety these days aren’t even from are you faithful or not it’s what & who ur cheating with these days u don’t know if you calling Barbara or Byron 😩😩😩 but even back in the days when I look back at those marriages I don’t want ANY of them just to say I spent a lifetime of hell with somebody no thanks
I totally agree with you. There's more married men doing this I've seen it. Karma should go for both, because a woman always knows when a man is cheating. It takes two to tangle.
Well you said a mouth full.. I see it even with married women, I stopped hanging with married people.
Isn't just crazy it make you sit yoself down somewhere LOL 🤣
Karma will come back good or bad. Always Remember that.
Now that's a fact either way 💯
I don't mess with some body men or married man
I know that's right
I know right 😂
Yes I totally agree I've also seen some successful long-term relationships but some of them I still be Shaking my head saying I couldn't do it and its not worth it, lol you don't know what you're getting these days they have all different types of fetishes they like animals 😂
U not lien hun
Thank you 😊
Yeah obviously you don’t date someone else’s husband. It’s called common sense.
Absolutely 💯