When I was four my mom was pregnant with my little sister and my mom and dad went to an ultrasound appointment where they told them that they saw fluid on her brain. They of course did not tell me that and they didn’t even tell me her name. The next morning my mom said I woke up and went to them and said that an angel cane to me and told me that bailey would be okay and they were so surprised because I knew nothing about it. When they went into their next ultrasound they told them that the fluid was gone and now my little sister is 18 and she has a tiny little bald spot in her hairline and we say that’s where the angel took the fluid out.
After 7 miscarriages and a septate uterine surgery, I finally got pregnant and had my three boys. When I had my 20 week ultrasound with my first born, the girl doing the scan asked me if I was planning on getting an amnio. I don’t think they are supposed to tell you anything but she said it so matter of fact and it really bothered me. I then had a meeting with the doctor and he told me my son had a weird space at the base of the brain that was much bigger than it should be. He also told me my baby had short limbs which were soft indicators of Down syndrome. Let’s just say this ruined the next 20 weeks of my pregnancy, and I was a basket case the entire time. Fast forward 17 years and my son is graduating high school as the valedictorian. Praying for you.
I've actually heard this happen to people more times than I should admit.... And the babies have always turned out fine!! Time for a different approach. How are people supposed to enjoy the pregnancy??
Meboop I think all the testing makes it worse. I think the doctors have to mention any little thing they see on an ultrasound to protect themselves from lawsuits.
There’s a difference between drama and trauma. You’ve been through trauma. No one watching this would ever think you’re being dramatic. She does look really cute ❤️ thinking of you.
Please don't apologize or minimize your feelings or fears. You have been through every parent's worst nightmare and it is a testament to your strength and love for your children that you are picking yourself up and going through this again. I will be keeping you guys in my thoughts and your sweet baby is so lucky to be loved by such caring and loving parents. xx
Sweet girl, please don’t apologize for your tears. You’re not being dramatic, you’re being real with how you’re feeling. God hears your prayers and feels your pain. Praying for you and your precious baby.
I cried when you said , " I wana run away " I remember this same feeling. The story of Job is what God in my heart when I lost my baby, hold on to faith, pray and praise, he is good no matter what. I will keep you in my prayers. ❤
I was told at my anatomy scan my son had a much smaller head than he was supposed to and that he may have clubbed feet. I went home and cried and cried. It took a weeks for me to get proper answers, but after a month or two of appointments and extra ultrasounds, I was told he was perfectly fine. His head growth was fine, his feet were fine. Sending you guys all the positive thoughts and vibes! ❤️
@@staci7107the same, in the second anatomy scan yesterday they said me that my baby boy has dilated kidneys. I don’t wanna believe it I know that everything will be fine. They just make money rescheduling me for the next scan! Nobody know anything before his birth! Maybe I will cancel next appointment and just don’t go to the scan because don’t wanna listen anything before his born.
You don’t sound whiny. You sound like a mother. You never know with the ultrasound exactly what’s going on. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Try to stay positive. I know it’s hard. ❤️
Your FIRST RESPONSE to pray and give glory to God is amazing and something to be admired!! Your marriage is beautiful and so is your faith. Keep holding onto it! Prayers that everything is perfect and healthy with baby girl
I know someone who went through something similar. She was told that there was something wrong with the baby’s head at a 20 week ultrasound. The doctors tried to convince her to terminate her pregnancy because “the baby would be born a vegetable”. Her daughter was born as healthy as could be! She had an extra skin growth on the base of her neck, almost like a mole, that she had removed a few days after birth. She is now 4 years old and PERFECT! Keep your head up and have faith! ❤️
When i was born i had spina bifida my parents were told back in the 70's i wouldnt live past 5. Im 44 dont give up! You will be in my prayers im sick for the both of you .
Lauren, I am praying for you. My heart hurts knowing how worried you both feel and how hard it is to just wait around. But here’s a positive story: my sister in law was expected to be severely disabled because her brain did not look right. My mother in law had to wait months to find out if this baby would be okay, the dr even recommended she terminate. But she didn’t want to. By the next ultrasound the issue with her brain was completely gone. She was born a healthy baby girl and is now a 26 year old beautiful and smart and healthy woman! Keep the faith. Thinking of you all. 💕
My daughters ultrasound showed an abnormally large skull and they were told it could be hydrocephalus but EVERYTHING TURNED OUT JUST FINE. HE IS A PERFECTLY NORMAL HAPPY LITTLE FOUR YEAR OLD BOY. ALL WILL BE WELL BABY GIRL PRAYING FOR YOU FROM IOWA 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m praying for you. I don’t know you, but I have watched some of your videos. I just lost my daughter recently and the best thing I can tell you is that God knows what he is doing. He has a plan. He never said that we wouldn’t go through troubles but he did say he would be right here with us through everything ❤️
One of my best friends was told she should terminate as her baby had markers for down syndrome. And she refused. Her son was born full term and 100 percent normal baby boy. Don't give in to the fear. They are wrong alot
Dear Heavenly Father, please calm this couples minds that everything will perfectly fine with their baby girl. Show them that dont know come to know you by answering this couple's minds Lord. Free them of the heartbreak of losing a child that their other baby is waiting on them and you are replacing the baby they lost with this one Lord. God I pray your blessings on this Christian couple and family they are few and far between. Give them strength Lord as only as you can. Thank you Lord for leading me to this video to watch. Maybe I can help them in some small way. These things I ask in Jesus Name, Amen.
My heart goes out to you. We started receiving scary news when I was pregnant with Finn... after 9 years of infertility it was traumatic to hear this. He wasn’t growing fast enough. They put me on bedrest and for some reason at an ultrasound I went into labor, my water broke and Finn was born at 24weeks & 4 days. BUT GOD! Miraculously he survived after almost loosing him 3 different times and is at Nemours in Orlando. We too are thankful to live near such amazing hospitals. He was due September 6th, so he still had a little while to go. I am praying for your sweet girl and for your minds to continually be renewed. May the enemy’s lies be shut down in the name of Jesus. ❤️ Darcy WILL live!
I was told the same thing and encouraged to "drive to another state and get rid of it" we never would have done that but imagine if someone had listened!! My baby was born completely healthy.
I know how y’all feel that happened to us around 20weeks when we found out our baby boy had Spina bifida, they told us he had water on his brain( hydrocephalus )we read everything to prepare which seemed to be a lot of bad things and really upset us, but with lots of prayers it definitely wasn’t as bad as we read about, he is our blessing.Hang in there, praying for your baby girl.
I’m not watching lol I don’t wanna cry today but I will say this before I leave the house this morning I will get down on my knees and pray for you and your family but I need you to think positive and keep faith God shows out in these times he is amazing and he has you guys in the Palm of his hands ♥️ sending love and light health and wealth 🙏🏽
Girl there is absolutely no such thing as over dramatic when it comes to worrying about your kids life! ESPECIALLY when you have experienced loss before. I am praying hard for you guys! ❤️
They said the same to me when I was pregnant over 36 years ago..they said my son's skull was too small...he is a grown man with a master's degree. Don't worry sweetie. Praying for you. Tests aren't always correct. Bless you.
Same to me too! I have same testimony about this! My son (now 7 months old healthy baby) was scanned shadow on his brain or something and I was sent to scan again at much advance place! Every thing turns out just fine!! Baby is very healthy and strong! 💛
Lauren, Every single time I went to my doctor during my pregnancy with my son they gave me something new to worry about. He turned out more perfect than I could have ever imagined.... I'm sending you my prayers and thoughts but point is just try to keep your head up and hold onto your faith. God gives his strongest soldiers his hardest battles. I know these are just words and wont make you feel a whole lot better but keep going girl. Your doing great!
you know what's the worst feeling, hearing this news and carrying this beautiful baby while you walk around with no resolution or clarity.. its a helpless feeling, but truly we are never in control of life. The drs are doing their job, be grateful when their worry and doubts turn out to be nothing. Hold on to your faith, God makes no mistakes ❤ sending you both the biggest hugs ever!
🙏 🙏 🙏 Jesus just wrap your arms around this couple and touch this precious baby! We pray for a completely healthy baby girl from the top of her HEAD to the souls of her feet, she is healthy! ❤
I had something similar happen to me. They saw something looking like an amniotic band on my baby’s shoulder and neck (which can cause him to be born without him arm, death in some cases etc.) I had to wait an entire week to see a MFM and nothing ended up being wrong. It was awful, I’m praying for you both. I’m praying it’s nothing and Darcy is perfectly fine. Hugs mama ❤️
I have to admit that your husband is the reason why I subscribed to your channel because of how he spoke about our amazing God! Bless him and bless you both and your growing family! May God watch over you all! Praying for you guys! Also never apologize about your feelings ever, they are yours and you are entitled to feel however you need too!!!
Just commenting so you can come back to this video and see how far you have come. Congratulations on having a very healthy, beautiful baby girl ♡ you did such a great job Lauren and God will continue to bless you and your family.
Thinking of y'all and praying for good news! My husband and I know all too well the fear and anxiety of when a doctor is unsure and leaves you with so many questions. God has carried us through every single one of those times and I know he will continue to carry you guys through as well. Love y'all! 💕💕💕💕💕
Please don’t ever apologize for your feelings, I literally cried because i didn’t feel my baby move for 30 minutes (currently 27 weeks) you are becoming a mother and you are entitled to feel every way you feel about this information. I pray that the baby is healthy and I pray that everything turns out fine. Sending all the love and prayers! 💕
Praying for a healthy, whole baby! You speak DIRECTLY to Darcy’s body and tell it how it needs to be! We have the authority! If I were you guys I wouldn’t put this out there for everyone to see because of the unbelief. Unbelief will hinder the outcome. Speak life over Darcy. Pray in The Spirit. Take communion!
I lost my baby girl at 16 weeks due to trisomy 18 chromosome anormality syndrome. I know how you feel. Keep your hopes up. I am pregnant again one month after. I am now 9 weeks pregnant. So far so good. I'll be having more testings in two weeks. Fingers crossed for me and for you guys.
evollove c I also lost my son (Marcus) due to trisomy 18 (Edwards syndrome) I lost him 38 weeks My thought and prayers are for you and your family ,these days they can tell something is wrong (with some more test) hopefully your little bubba will be fine Totally understand how you feel 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
So sorry for your loss! I lost my nephew from trisomy 18. He was still born but the doctors didn't know he had it so they revived him and he lived for one month.
Praying! 💗 I didn’t get the same new but at my 20 week ultrasound they kept going over and over her brain and I knew deep down they were concerned about something. Dr came in and said she was missing connective tissue between her cerebellum and said worst case she will have DandyWalker Syndrome.. look it up it’s quite scary and then they said it could be nothing. I went back a month later they said tissue is there but not fully connected... went back a month later and all was ok. I know it’s hard to not think the worst because of your past. Hopefully everything turns out perfectly fine.
Rachel Kiewitt this comment gave me some extra hope. I’m currently waiting to get fetal MRI to see if they are correct and that he truly is missing his Corpus Collosum (I’m not sure if that’s the same structure they said your little girl was missing but it sounds similar in description). We’ve slowly been feeling better about it and having peace that our son is okay.. it still helps to see false alarms
I know how you feel, with my son at 20 week ultrasound same thing happened, they told me his heart has a whole, he could have DS and then don’t worry might be nothing, 2 weeks i just cried, he was born perfectly healthy 5 year old now, I refused all other testings just to avoid more negative news, i figured all is in God’s hands and he knows us even before we were in our mothers womb.
Hi Lauren, new subbie here from Krista of Krista Boman Ruth. She asked all of her subbies to say a prayer for you and your family. So even tho I'm a new subbie, know that I am praying right now for your baby. Your feelings are valid so don't feel bad about that. And bc you've been thru something scary previously, that doctor was very insensitive to say that. Please keep us informed ❤💚💜💙💛
At my 20 week ultra sound with my Third child there was a shadow on her heart and her left kidney was enlarged. The specialist said she would probably have downs syndrome. They offered an amniocentesis and he knew doctors that would perform an abortion that far along. I nearly hyperventilated in the office. Needless to say my baby is 2 and beautiful and healthy. Praying for you!
Had something similar like this where I was told on that scan that something was wrong with baby. First with my son 8 years ago and then with my daughter who will be 3. We were given the option of amniocentesis but we chose not to do it and instead focused on what we could do as parents to keep us together. I was an emotional wreck and couldn’t hold myself together. My husband and I just looked at each other in front of about 6 specialists at that hospital and told them we would be ok with whatever outcome God had in store for us. They told us this with my son which broke me cuz he’s my first.. Then to hear it again with our daughter. As cliche as this sounds, do not give up and know that I’ll be praying for y’all! We serve an amazing God and know that with him nothing is impossible! Keep your head up high and know that everything will be ok!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Reason I'm here in to be strengthened by such testimonies. Just got the news this week. I was wrecked at first. But then the Holy Spirit picked me up. I'm keeping my faith and hope in the only one who creates life, God Almighty. In the mean time, I'm carrying my baby and I'm gonna rejoice. Hoping for the best. Thanks for sharing
sending many prayers your way! 🙏🙏🙏 I have 3 children and received the same news about my middle child and she is perfectly fine and 14 years old now ♥️
It's so frustrating!! I'm now 21 weeks and at my 19 week ultrasound they said there was fluid on the brain but told me not to worry. Ive been freaking out ever since and have had the worst anxiety and depression over it. They said it usually corrects itself but I just have to wait until my 3rd trimester scan and that feels like a life time away. I guess all I can really do is trust my doctors and hope they're doing all they can do. I'm so sorry you're going through this it's honestly the most heart wrenching thing to go through. Send you all the positive vibes 💕
I actually had the same thing in my ultrasound at 26wks. And I’m happy to say I have a happy healthy 4 year old 💕💕 don’t apologize for crying, or sounding whiny. You honestly care so much for this baby and it shows !
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability through this! I totally understand where you are coming from! I had 5 miscarriages, then got pregnant with quadruplets and had a miserable pregnancy and was on hospital bed rest for a month and ultimately ended up going into labor and delivering at 23 weeks and all four passed away! We know that we lost our babies to help others. We then went through IVF and got pregnant with twins and lost one twin at 13 weeks but now have a beautiful 3 year old son! I love yalls faith! Hold tight to that! Because last year after giving up on having another baby I got spontaneously pregnant with a baby girl! God has a plan for y’all and for your story! You have a right to run away and disconnect! But please know that your story will change lives! Got bless y’all! I will definitely be praying for y’all! And I am hear if you just need to talk.
My heart goes out to you both! 💗 I went through a similar experience 2 years ago with my first baby. At our 20 week scan we didn’t expect anything bad and the tech was acting strange & the doctor came in later with the devastating news that our baby had anencephaly & that her skull did not form & she had only 2 heart chambers. I cried hysterically & it didn’t feel real to us. I went into labor at 27 weeks & our Angel was stillborn. I am now currently 12 weeks with our second & This time around I’m more worried & just hoping my upcoming appointment goes well and baby is healthy.
I'm praying for you and the baby. I was 20 weeks and they told me they seen a spot on her brain. I needed an amniocentesis. I was devastated....I had to wait 7 days for the amnio results...she was ok. But I still had to wait to see if my next ultrasound was ok. My kayla is now 13yrs old. The smartest wittiest little firecracker. God bless you guys
I was born with Spina Bifida Occulta and a strange lump on my back. Doctors didn’t know if I’d ever be able to walk or have bowel and bladder function. Imagine if the ultrasound lead my parents to abort or make a wrong decision? I’d not have grown to be a dancer, RN and mother of 2 girls! I’m now 41yo. Never lose hope 🙏🏼
Hi Lauren ! This is the first video of you that I watched. I’m 22 weeks pregnant right now also with a cute baby girl, and as a mommy to be who has JUST gone through the exact same scan, I can totally imagine the worries and fear and you and your husband are going through right now. I just wanted you to know that you are well supported in this tough journey. I just prayed for you and your baby ! May our Heavenly Father protect and bless your child and may this journey of yours become a testimony of His immense love and faithfulness!!!!
Laura huni I went through my last pregnancy having medical people telling me loads of different things that were worrying but my baby girl is totally fine... Praying for you xxx
Sending you hugs and prayers. In 2016 I had gotten pregnant with my 4th baby everything was good up until my 30th week ultrasound. I felt like my whole world came crumbling down they told us she had hydrops and only a 20% survival rate. We went to labor and delivery that same day checked in waited for the MFM until next morning. She reviewed our case and was giving a 0% survival rate. We decided to deliver her via emergency csection she only lived for 55 minutes and passed away in my arms. 12 months later we found out we are pregnant again but I was into my 2nd trimester when we found out. We had Doctor appointments every week until I gave birth to my rainbow baby girl. I definitely know your pain. Prayers sent your way.
My son in Utero showed extra fluid on his ventricles in his brain which indicated developmental delay and we were offered a termination, but we hung on and had scan after scan. Our baby’s duodenum wasn’t joined to his small intestine, and so at birth needed a life saving operation so he cld feed. He also needed a tracheotomy at 14 months as he couldn’t breath . He’s 19 yrs old nw and perfectly normal. I pray ur pregnancy is going to be ok. Hang on in there, and never give up. So sorry to see u so sad and upset. I’ve been there and understand how scary it all is, and the waiting is so painful and frightening . Sending you healing wishes and love 💐🌸🌹🌈🙏🏼😘🇬🇧
Just wanted to encourage you all to remain positive. I have a beautiful two year old boy. Originally they said they couldn’t find a heart beat. Then they had ran several test. Tons of fluid in the neck and brain according to the ultrasound. So many scary outcomes that could happen if I didn’t abort. He was born completely healthy, 9.13 lbs, and 22 inches long. He is THRIVING. Continue to have faith and stay in prayer. Praying for you guys. 🥰💕
About 3 days ago I had a doctor tell me my baby has the same problem. Keep your head up. I know it’s scary and it will be but you could be completely fine. Prayers for you and your amazing family ❤️
“We don’t live at the hospital, we live near it..” that lightened you. Your conscious is in there pulling through this pain. Everything is going to be ok!
I know this is such a difficult time but •try• not to stress, there is still a possibility that everything is okay. I’ll be praying for you and Darcy. ♥️
We keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I got told things at my 20 week scan that was scary and the doctors ended up being wrong. With faith and positive thoughts you never know what can happen.
I love you and your sweet family so much. I understand why you’re so scared. Especially it being out of your hands. You know what you need to do mama. Give it to god, your faith inspires me and He will continue to watch over you and that little girl. Sending all my love and prayers.
❤️✨Oh sweetie, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. This video showed up as a suggested video for me and I somehow felt an instant connection. I’m not much of a prayer but that’s all I’ve done since watching. Never apologize for crying and please don’t think you’re being dramatic. All we ever want is for our kids to be safe and healthy and if something jeopardizes either of those, we as parents have no rules to our reactions. I’m so sorry that you have to wait for answers when you should just be able to enjoy every second of pregnancy. I hope you both find some comfort and peace in your prayers. Wishing you all the best❤️
My heart goes out to you both. No you are not over-reacting and Christian life is not without tragedy. But..there is Hope, Faith and Grace. So my prayers are with you and your precious little one🙏🙏that all is well❤
Just found ur channel. Praying for your family. I lost my 2nd child at 7 weeks pregnant. Got pregnant fairly quickly after that. With that pregnancy I was told my baby had fluid on the back of the neck and I had a 1 in 200 percent chance of her having down syndrome. We cried. We prayed. Our thoughts were all over the place. But today she is 16 months old, beautiful, healthy and thriving!! Keeping your family in our thoughts.
That’s so painful. I’m almost 20 weeks, 3rd pregnancy, only miscarriages before and it’s terrifying every time I go to the doctors because I’m expecting something bad. I feel your pain! You’re not dramatic at all and I pray your baby is okay. 💜
Lauren and Cory, I am not usually one to leave comments on a video, but I want to let you know that I am praying for you. I'm so sorry about this news and I really hope that your baby girl is 100% ok. My heart goes out to you both. The Lord's plans are not without purpose. ♥️
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I am currently 25 weeks pregnant and during my 20 week scan the doctor told me that my daughters head is “somewhat” scaphocephalic. Doctors have to use these kind of terms so that they don’t get sued but they also HAVE to tell us if they doubt anything. I literally had my 3rd ultrasound done last week and still have not found out what is up with her head. It has been 5 weeks of worrying so far. I’m praying for you and really hope that we both have healthy happy babies!
Praying for you guys and your family. Try to stay positive through this. I have my anatomy scan on Wednesday and I’m so nervous. Pregnancy is a great thing but so scary all at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing
You are such a beautiful couple! Please do not apologize for anything, you've been through the loss of a child and you have very real fears that hopefully will not happen again. God bless both of you for your strength and endurance. Praying for you and your amazing family!💝
Prayers going out to the two of you and your sweet little baby girl. Don’t ever apologize for worrying about your children or think you’re being dramatic, it’s your job!
God can perform miracles they told me during my pregnancy that I had stage 4 cervical cancer and that my child would not make it and that I needed to abort her but I did not they also told me how old your sounds looked strange but I didn't listen I continue to pray every chance I got to Jesus Christ the ultimate healer and I didn't take any chemo or any treatments and I begged God if he would just spare me I promised him I would be best mother I could be and he spared me and I was able to give birth to my child who is now eleven years old completely healthy and I never took any treatments or chemo and my cancer just disappeared the doctors were amazed so keep your head up keep praying and having faith pray every single chance you get
I had a lot of scans with Lily and I never questioned anything because she was my first pregnancy. Lily was diagnosed at 3 with Autism. She’s a precious gift and is loved to the moon and back. I pray for your precious daughter Darcy and wish you well with a healthy pregnancy.
Same thing happened to us and We were so upset and cried for weeks. He came out to be an absolutely beautiful baby boy happy and healthy. I’ll be praying for you and your family. God bless 🙏🙏🙏🙏
If the baby has something wrong love that baby even more! Ive been through two miscarriages and I have a baby girl now....its out of your control god wont give you what you cant handle 🙏❤🙏
You are NOT being dramatic! It’s only human nature to worry about the unknown. Prayers that sweet Darcy is perfect in every way. “You can’t BS the BSer.” Preach, Corey!
Being a new mom myself, i understand your fear. I’m 37 and was very fearful that my child may be born with defects. I have a happy and healthy baby. Keep the faith. ❤️🙏🏻
So sorry for the bad news and I hope everything comes back fine with baby Darcy! God gives his hardest battles to his greatest warriors. Praying for your beautiful family❤
At 20 weeks I was told there was a shadow on my baby’s brain... which ended up being a cyst? I had to wait for referrals and go through so many hoops to figure it all out. They got the point where a few months later they said Her Brain was bleeding. I was in so much stress and worried so much bc every appt it was no news or worse news. Somehow at 30 weeks they did an mri, and she was perfectly fine!!!! Sometimes when you’re small the ultrasound pics up differently, that’s what they told me...? But baby is ok! And I’m praying yours is too! I know how you feel.
Kasey Grezlik my 1yr old had a cyst at her 20 weeks scan and my sisters 1 year old had one also. High risk doctor told us both it’s something they see often. The cyst does go away. Our babies are perfectly fine. I pray peace in this situation, in Jesus name.
Same with me! They said the same thing about “water” or “fluid” in my babies brain they sent me to a sonographer specialist and when they checked it was perfectly fine. A lot of times the doctor just needs a 2nd opinion or the baby needs to grow more in order for them to see clearly. Praying for your little one!
I pray that your baby girl is healthy and happy and has all the love in the world💞. May God bless her and ease your worries. Praying so so hard for you🤞🏻
Oh honey, I haven’t been following you until now. I have my 20 week ultrasound on the 31st, this is my very first pregnancy that I’ve made it this far I have had 4 losses in the past. I am so sorry that this ultrasound went this way... I am also sorry for your loss of your other sweet baby. You don’t have to apologize for crying and for being real with your feelings. You have every right to feel the way you do and I think it’s amazing that you are putting this out there like this. You are not being over dramatic at all I can’t imagine how hard this is for you guys. I will be praying for your family. Sending lots of love and light your way. Just think positive.
My daughter went through the same worries with all 3 of her children. They ALL had markers for down syndrome. So each pregnancy was the same stress and worry. ALL 3 children are fine! Don't stress too much. Keep praying AMD keep your faith! Baby is still in utero and a lot can change before birth. 😘
Winnie Palmer is the absolute best, I gave birth to my daughter there and I love it ❤️ I’m praying for you guys, they saw a spot on my daughters heart and we needed to go and see a specialist to do another ultrasound and everything came out fine, I’m truly praying for you guys 💖 hope everything comes out okay💖
I'm sorry momma! Remember to still be open to a positive outcome. Try to find comfort in this very hard situation, because it really could be nothing or something very simple and not big enough to change development or anything like that with baby. I myself was born with a condition on the brain and I am 100% fine and fully fully functional. Much love to you and your family momma. May God bless you and yours, may he guide you through this difficult time and knowing that he is there all the way through. In the name of God, Amen.
Hi sweet girl. I miscarried last September, and I am currently 19 weeks with my rainbow baby girl. I had my anatomy scan the other day, and everything was perfect except she had bilateral Choroid Plexus Cysts on her brain. My midwife told me not to worry where everything else was perfect, but of course I’m scared for the worst which is a Trisomy 18. I’m going to see a high risk specialist next Monday, praying for you and baby💗
This is my first video I’ve seen of you guys... My prayers are with you guys. Just had my 2nd son in February. When I was 8 weeks pregnant with him, I got bloodwork back that he could possibly have Down Syndrome. For months, they kept saying “everything should be fine”... I know how frustrating it is with the “fake smiles” and the BS. God has a plan and He has you all in his hands. Please keep us updated.
Your faith is strong! I admire you both so much. I will be agreeing with you and everyone else in prayer that everything will be fine. God will sustain you. 💕
I'm so sorry for what you're feeling. We lost our baby to anencephaly. My doctor suggested a medical abortion but we chose an early birth to meet her and also wanted to be able to donate all her perfectly functioning organs to newborns in need of an organ to survive. I felt her kicking on her way out of my birth canal upon arriving. Then upon grabbing her to lay her on my chest I sensed it, my other half also had this sallow look on his face because he knew her heart stopped. He is very sensitive and in connection to spirit realm at all times. He said he saw my mom, my Godmother my uncle and both sets of grandparents who all transitioned over, standing all around me while giving birth and felt a hand upon his shoulder that was a touch of comfort in which he explained had immediately told him she didn't make it. He just has this sense of knowing things and that day he got that message. Our doctor looked up at him in dis belief of what he had said and then confirmed it. We gave her the name Philomena after the patron saint of babies, because if she wasn't going to be coming home with us then we wanted her spirit to be welcomed in her presence and to reside in her loving arms for all eternity in the kingdom of heaven. Lots of healing prayers for your heart and for both of your peace of mind. Remember God makes no mistakes... Trust, believe and keep faith. 💞
Stop apologizing ❤️ it’s okay to be upset. Real, raw emotions. Sending you and your family so many prayers 🙏 Blair is watching over her baby sister. Stay strong mama💗
When I was four my mom was pregnant with my little sister and my mom and dad went to an ultrasound appointment where they told them that they saw fluid on her brain. They of course did not tell me that and they didn’t even tell me her name. The next morning my mom said I woke up and went to them and said that an angel cane to me and told me that bailey would be okay and they were so surprised because I knew nothing about it. When they went into their next ultrasound they told them that the fluid was gone and now my little sister is 18 and she has a tiny little bald spot in her hairline and we say that’s where the angel took the fluid out.
I wish I could love this comment. It brought tears to my eyes.
I absolutely love this. What a great example of a miracle and God's gracious love.
Wow absolutely amazing a Yahweh is a miracle worker🎉❤😮
Wow!! Thank you Jesus!!!
This, single handedly, was the thing I NEEDED to read today. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart!❤️
After 7 miscarriages and a septate uterine surgery, I finally got pregnant and had my three boys. When I had my 20 week ultrasound with my first born, the girl doing the scan asked me if I was planning on getting an amnio. I don’t think they are supposed to tell you anything but she said it so matter of fact and it really bothered me. I then had a meeting with the doctor and he told me my son had a weird space at the base of the brain that was much bigger than it should be. He also told me my baby had short limbs which were soft indicators of Down syndrome. Let’s just say this ruined the next 20 weeks of my pregnancy, and I was a basket case the entire time. Fast forward 17 years and my son is graduating high school as the valedictorian. Praying for you.
How did it ruin the next 20 weeks?
Reanna Valadez Not knowing what might be wrong with my child.
I've actually heard this happen to people more times than I should admit.... And the babies have always turned out fine!!
Time for a different approach. How are people supposed to enjoy the pregnancy??
Meboop I think all the testing makes it worse. I think the doctors have to mention any little thing they see on an ultrasound to protect themselves from lawsuits.
Happy to hear your son is doing well! 🙌🏻Praise God!❣️
There’s a difference between drama and trauma. You’ve been through trauma. No one watching this would ever think you’re being dramatic. She does look really cute ❤️ thinking of you.
Amanda C. Plus Three agreed. It’s trauma speaking, not drama.
100 % agree
Yes, agreed. Praying for you all.
Please don't apologize or minimize your feelings or fears. You have been through every parent's worst nightmare and it is a testament to your strength and love for your children that you are picking yourself up and going through this again. I will be keeping you guys in my thoughts and your sweet baby is so lucky to be loved by such caring and loving parents. xx
My daughter desirae is due when you are and got bad news also still leaving it on god's hands Im... not sure I can take it...Prayers for both babies
NEVER apologize for crying or being who you are! Anybody would do the same. I’m keeping you all in my prayers!!
Sweet girl, please don’t apologize for your tears. You’re not being dramatic, you’re being real with how you’re feeling. God hears your prayers and feels your pain. Praying for you and your precious baby.
I cried when you said , " I wana run away " I remember this same feeling. The story of Job is what God in my heart when I lost my baby, hold on to faith, pray and praise, he is good no matter what. I will keep you in my prayers. ❤
I was told at my anatomy scan my son had a much smaller head than he was supposed to and that he may have clubbed feet. I went home and cried and cried. It took a weeks for me to get proper answers, but after a month or two of appointments and extra ultrasounds, I was told he was perfectly fine. His head growth was fine, his feet were fine. Sending you guys all the positive thoughts and vibes! ❤️
I was told my son has club feet and dailated kidneys. It's awful waiting for the confirmation scan.
@@staci7107the same, in the second anatomy scan yesterday they said me that my baby boy has dilated kidneys. I don’t wanna believe it I know that everything will be fine. They just make money rescheduling me for the next scan! Nobody know anything before his birth! Maybe I will cancel next appointment and just don’t go to the scan because don’t wanna listen anything before his born.
You don’t sound whiny. You sound like a mother. You never know with the ultrasound exactly what’s going on. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Try to stay positive. I know it’s hard. ❤️
Your FIRST RESPONSE to pray and give glory to God is amazing and something to be admired!! Your marriage is beautiful and so is your faith. Keep holding onto it! Prayers that everything is perfect and healthy with baby girl
I know someone who went through something similar. She was told that there was something wrong with the baby’s head at a 20 week ultrasound. The doctors tried to convince her to terminate her pregnancy because “the baby would be born a vegetable”. Her daughter was born as healthy as could be! She had an extra skin growth on the base of her neck, almost like a mole, that she had removed a few days after birth. She is now 4 years old and PERFECT! Keep your head up and have faith! ❤️
When i was born i had spina bifida my parents were told back in the 70's i wouldnt live past 5. Im 44 dont give up! You will be in my prayers im sick for the both of you .
I was born with spinabifida
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rynoklh I too have sb.
@@acoriana82 may i ask your name:) My names Ryan nice to meet you:)
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Lauren,
I am praying for you. My heart hurts knowing how worried you both feel and how hard it is to just wait around. But here’s a positive story: my sister in law was expected to be severely disabled because her brain did not look right. My mother in law had to wait months to find out if this baby would be okay, the dr even recommended she terminate. But she didn’t want to.
By the next ultrasound the issue with her brain was completely gone. She was born a healthy baby girl and is now a 26 year old beautiful and smart and healthy woman! Keep the faith. Thinking of you all. 💕
My daughters ultrasound showed an abnormally large skull and they were told it could be hydrocephalus but EVERYTHING TURNED OUT JUST FINE. HE IS A PERFECTLY NORMAL HAPPY LITTLE FOUR YEAR OLD BOY. ALL WILL BE WELL BABY GIRL
PRAYING FOR YOU FROM IOWA
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I’m praying for you. I don’t know you, but I have watched some of your videos. I just lost my daughter recently and the best thing I can tell you is that God knows what he is doing. He has a plan. He never said that we wouldn’t go through troubles but he did say he would be right here with us through everything ❤️
One of my best friends was told she should terminate as her baby had markers for down syndrome.
And she refused. Her son was born full term and 100 percent normal baby boy.
Don't give in to the fear. They are wrong alot
Immediate chills and tears. Sending so much love and prayers your way. It’s all in God’s hands.
We will pray with you "I can do ALL things through Christ which strengthens Me." Phil 4:13
Dear Heavenly Father, please calm this couples minds that everything will perfectly fine with their baby girl. Show them that dont know come to know you by answering this couple's minds Lord. Free them of the heartbreak of losing a child that their other baby is waiting on them and you are replacing the baby they lost with this one Lord. God I pray your blessings on this Christian couple and family they are few and far between. Give them strength Lord as only as you can. Thank you Lord for leading me to this video to watch. Maybe I can help them in some small way. These things I ask in Jesus Name, Amen.
Marilyn Ward I said this prayer for them. It was beautiful
My heart goes out to you. We started receiving scary news when I was pregnant with Finn... after 9 years of infertility it was traumatic to hear this. He wasn’t growing fast enough. They put me on bedrest and for some reason at an ultrasound I went into labor, my water broke and Finn was born at 24weeks & 4 days. BUT GOD! Miraculously he survived after almost loosing him 3 different times and is at Nemours in Orlando. We too are thankful to live near such amazing hospitals. He was due September 6th, so he still had a little while to go. I am praying for your sweet girl and for your minds to continually be renewed. May the enemy’s lies be shut down in the name of Jesus. ❤️ Darcy WILL live!
Jessica Hill hi
Hi 🙋🏼♀️
Nemours is an amazing hospital. They have taken great care of my daughters. Prayers for your miracle baby!
I have TWO female friends who were told their baby would be born with Downs Syndrome and encouraged to abort.
BOTH had perfectly normal babies .
Jackie Ann in this day and age, I can’t imagine anyone encouraging abortion because of Down syndrome.
My mom was encouraged to abort because they said I’d have Down Syndrome. I do not!
My cousin was told same about her son and he was born 100% normal.Doctors are not always right.
I was told the same thing and encouraged to "drive to another state and get rid of it" we never would have done that but imagine if someone had listened!! My baby was born completely healthy.
My mom was told the same about my little sister and she doesn’t have Down syndrome!
I know how y’all feel that happened to us around 20weeks when we found out our baby boy had Spina bifida, they told us he had water on his brain( hydrocephalus )we read everything to prepare which seemed to be a lot of bad things and really upset us, but with lots of prayers it definitely wasn’t as bad as we read about, he is our blessing.Hang in there, praying for your baby girl.
Always keep your faith, bigger than your fears.
Hang in there Lauren. You are so strong!
I’m not watching lol I don’t wanna cry today but I will say this before I leave the house this morning I will get down on my knees and pray for you and your family but I need you to think positive and keep faith God shows out in these times he is amazing and he has you guys in the Palm of his hands ♥️ sending love and light health and wealth 🙏🏽
Faith can move mountains! I hope and pray everything turns out well with your guy's baby girl!
Girl there is absolutely no such thing as over dramatic when it comes to worrying about your kids life! ESPECIALLY when you have experienced loss before. I am praying hard for you guys! ❤️
They said the same to me when I was pregnant over 36 years ago..they said my son's skull was too small...he is a grown man with a master's degree. Don't worry sweetie. Praying for you. Tests aren't always correct. Bless you.
I had a scare like this with my daughter... Everything turned out fine.... And your baby will be fine too💙 🙏💙
Same to me too! I have same testimony about this! My son (now 7 months old healthy baby) was scanned shadow on his brain or something and I was sent to scan again at much advance place! Every thing turns out just fine!! Baby is very healthy and strong! 💛
Lauren,
Every single time I went to my doctor during my pregnancy with my son they gave me something new to worry about. He turned out more perfect than I could have ever imagined.... I'm sending you my prayers and thoughts but point is just try to keep your head up and hold onto your faith. God gives his strongest soldiers his hardest battles. I know these are just words and wont make you feel a whole lot better but keep going girl. Your doing great!
you know what's the worst feeling, hearing this news and carrying this beautiful baby while you walk around with no resolution or clarity.. its a helpless feeling, but truly we are never in control of life.
The drs are doing their job, be grateful when their worry and doubts turn out to be nothing. Hold on to your faith, God makes no mistakes ❤ sending you both the biggest hugs ever!
Just carry on with the pregnancy hun... Sometimes they can be wrong...just keep going im praying for you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Jesus just wrap your arms around this couple and touch this precious baby! We pray for a completely healthy baby girl from the top of her HEAD to the souls of her feet, she is healthy! ❤
I had something similar happen to me. They saw something looking like an amniotic band on my baby’s shoulder and neck (which can cause him to be born without him arm, death in some cases etc.) I had to wait an entire week to see a MFM and nothing ended up being wrong. It was awful, I’m praying for you both. I’m praying it’s nothing and Darcy is perfectly fine. Hugs mama ❤️
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Alexis Reyes does it really matter? 🙄 sorry his.
I have to admit that your husband is the reason why I subscribed to your channel because of how he spoke about our amazing God! Bless him and bless you both and your growing family! May God watch over you all! Praying for you guys! Also never apologize about your feelings ever, they are yours and you are entitled to feel however you need too!!!
My heart shattered for you when you said you’re used to getting bad news. Sending so much love and prayers your way. ❤️
Just commenting so you can come back to this video and see how far you have come. Congratulations on having a very healthy, beautiful baby girl ♡ you did such a great job Lauren and God will continue to bless you and your family.
Thinking of y'all and praying for good news!
My husband and I know all too well the fear and anxiety of when a doctor is unsure and leaves you with so many questions. God has carried us through every single one of those times and I know he will continue to carry you guys through as well. Love y'all! 💕💕💕💕💕
Please don’t ever apologize for your feelings, I literally cried because i didn’t feel my baby move for 30 minutes (currently 27 weeks) you are becoming a mother and you are entitled to feel every way you feel about this information. I pray that the baby is healthy and I pray that everything turns out fine. Sending all the love and prayers! 💕
Praying for a healthy, whole baby! You speak DIRECTLY to Darcy’s body and tell it how it needs to be! We have the authority! If I were you guys I wouldn’t put this out there for everyone to see because of the unbelief. Unbelief will hinder the outcome. Speak life over Darcy. Pray in The Spirit. Take communion!
I lost my baby girl at 16 weeks due to trisomy 18 chromosome anormality syndrome. I know how you feel. Keep your hopes up. I am pregnant again one month after. I am now 9 weeks pregnant. So far so good. I'll be having more testings in two weeks. Fingers crossed for me and for you guys.
evollove c I also lost my son (Marcus) due to trisomy 18 (Edwards syndrome) I lost him 38 weeks
My thought and prayers are for you and your family ,these days they can tell something is wrong (with some more test) hopefully your little bubba will be fine
Totally understand how you feel 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
We lost our son Harley Ray, August 22, 2006 to Trisomy 18. He was born to heaven at 36 weeks. Praying for you all. May God watch over your babies.
So sorry for your loss! I lost my nephew from trisomy 18. He was still born but the doctors didn't know he had it so they revived him and he lived for one month.
I pray you have ur baby too hang in there stay strong
Praying! 💗 I didn’t get the same new but at my 20 week ultrasound they kept going over and over her brain and I knew deep down they were concerned about something. Dr came in and said she was missing connective tissue between her cerebellum and said worst case she will have DandyWalker Syndrome.. look it up it’s quite scary and then they said it could be nothing. I went back a month later they said tissue is there but not fully connected... went back a month later and all was ok. I know it’s hard to not think the worst because of your past. Hopefully everything turns out perfectly fine.
Rachel Kiewitt this comment gave me some extra hope. I’m currently waiting to get fetal MRI to see if they are correct and that he truly is missing his Corpus Collosum (I’m not sure if that’s the same structure they said your little girl was missing but it sounds similar in description). We’ve slowly been feeling better about it and having peace that our son is okay.. it still helps to see false alarms
I know how you feel, with my son at 20 week ultrasound same thing happened, they told me his heart has a whole, he could have DS and then don’t worry might be nothing, 2 weeks i just cried, he was born perfectly healthy 5 year old now, I refused all other testings just to avoid more negative news, i figured all is in God’s hands and he knows us even before we were in our mothers womb.
Lauren, please stay strong.
I know it’s so incredibly hard. My heart is breaking for you.
I’ll keep your family in my prayers 💔
Hi Lauren, new subbie here from Krista of Krista Boman Ruth. She asked all of her subbies to say a prayer for you and your family. So even tho I'm a new subbie, know that I am praying right now for your baby. Your feelings are valid so don't feel bad about that. And bc you've been thru something scary previously, that doctor was very insensitive to say that. Please keep us informed ❤💚💜💙💛
At my 20 week ultra sound with my Third child there was a shadow on her heart and her left kidney was enlarged. The specialist said she would probably have downs syndrome. They offered an amniocentesis and he knew doctors that would perform an abortion that far along. I nearly hyperventilated in the office. Needless to say my baby is 2 and beautiful and healthy. Praying for you!
Brittney Coward very similar story to yours and my lil man just celebrated his 7th bday perfectly healthy! Glad your little girl is ok.
Had something similar like this where I was told on that scan that something was wrong with baby. First with my son 8 years ago and then with my daughter who will be 3. We were given the option of amniocentesis but we chose not to do it and instead focused on what we could do as parents to keep us together. I was an emotional wreck and couldn’t hold myself together. My husband and I just looked at each other in front of about 6 specialists at that hospital and told them we would be ok with whatever outcome God had in store for us. They told us this with my son which broke me cuz he’s my first.. Then to hear it again with our daughter. As cliche as this sounds, do not give up and know that I’ll be praying for y’all! We serve an amazing God and know that with him nothing is impossible! Keep your head up high and know that everything will be ok!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Reason I'm here in to be strengthened by such testimonies. Just got the news this week. I was wrecked at first. But then the Holy Spirit picked me up. I'm keeping my faith and hope in the only one who creates life, God Almighty. In the mean time, I'm carrying my baby and I'm gonna rejoice. Hoping for the best. Thanks for sharing
sending many prayers your way! 🙏🙏🙏 I have 3 children and received the same news about my middle child and she is perfectly fine and 14 years old now ♥️
It's so frustrating!! I'm now 21 weeks and at my 19 week ultrasound they said there was fluid on the brain but told me not to worry. Ive been freaking out ever since and have had the worst anxiety and depression over it. They said it usually corrects itself but I just have to wait until my 3rd trimester scan and that feels like a life time away. I guess all I can really do is trust my doctors and hope they're doing all they can do. I'm so sorry you're going through this it's honestly the most heart wrenching thing to go through. Send you all the positive vibes 💕
I actually had the same thing in my ultrasound at 26wks. And I’m happy to say I have a happy healthy 4 year old 💕💕 don’t apologize for crying, or sounding whiny. You honestly care so much for this baby and it shows !
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability through this! I totally understand where you are coming from! I had 5 miscarriages, then got pregnant with quadruplets and had a miserable pregnancy and was on hospital bed rest for a month and ultimately ended up going into labor and delivering at 23 weeks and all four passed away! We know that we lost our babies to help others. We then went through IVF and got pregnant with twins and lost one twin at 13 weeks but now have a beautiful 3 year old son! I love yalls faith! Hold tight to that! Because last year after giving up on having another baby I got spontaneously pregnant with a baby girl! God has a plan for y’all and for your story! You have a right to run away and disconnect! But please know that your story will change lives! Got bless y’all! I will definitely be praying for y’all! And I am hear if you just need to talk.
My heart goes out to you both! 💗 I went through a similar experience 2 years ago with my first baby. At our 20 week scan we didn’t expect anything bad and the tech was acting strange & the doctor came in later with the devastating news that our baby had anencephaly & that her skull did not form & she had only 2 heart chambers. I cried hysterically & it didn’t feel real to us. I went into labor at 27 weeks & our Angel was stillborn. I am now currently 12 weeks with our second & This time around I’m more worried & just hoping my upcoming appointment goes well and baby is healthy.
How did everything turn out for you?
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I'm praying for you and the baby. I was 20 weeks and they told me they seen a spot on her brain. I needed an amniocentesis. I was devastated....I had to wait 7 days for the amnio results...she was ok. But I still had to wait to see if my next ultrasound was ok. My kayla is now 13yrs old. The smartest wittiest little firecracker. God bless you guys
I was born with Spina Bifida Occulta and a strange lump on my back. Doctors didn’t know if I’d ever be able to walk or have bowel and bladder function. Imagine if the ultrasound lead my parents to abort or make a wrong decision? I’d not have grown to be a dancer, RN and mother of 2 girls! I’m now 41yo.
Never lose hope 🙏🏼
Hi Lauren ! This is the first video of you that I watched. I’m 22 weeks pregnant right now also with a cute baby girl, and as a mommy to be who has JUST gone through the exact same scan, I can totally imagine the worries and fear and you and your husband are going through right now. I just wanted you to know that you are well supported in this tough journey. I just prayed for you and your baby ! May our Heavenly Father protect and bless your child and may this journey of yours become a testimony of His immense love and faithfulness!!!!
Laura huni I went through my last pregnancy having medical people telling me loads of different things that were worrying but my baby girl is totally fine... Praying for you xxx
Sending you hugs and prayers. In 2016 I had gotten pregnant with my 4th baby everything was good up until my 30th week ultrasound. I felt like my whole world came crumbling down they told us she had hydrops and only a 20% survival rate. We went to labor and delivery that same day checked in waited for the MFM until next morning. She reviewed our case and was giving a 0% survival rate. We decided to deliver her via emergency csection she only lived for 55 minutes and passed away in my arms. 12 months later we found out we are pregnant again but I was into my 2nd trimester when we found out. We had Doctor appointments every week until I gave birth to my rainbow baby girl. I definitely know your pain. Prayers sent your way.
My son in Utero showed extra fluid on his ventricles in his brain which indicated developmental delay and we were offered a termination, but we hung on and had scan after scan. Our baby’s duodenum wasn’t joined to his small intestine, and so at birth needed a life saving operation so he cld feed. He also needed a tracheotomy at 14 months as he couldn’t breath . He’s 19 yrs old nw and perfectly normal.
I pray ur pregnancy is going to be ok. Hang on in there, and never give up. So sorry to see u so sad and upset. I’ve been there and understand how scary it all is, and the waiting is so painful and frightening . Sending you healing wishes and love 💐🌸🌹🌈🙏🏼😘🇬🇧
Just wanted to encourage you all to remain positive. I have a beautiful two year old boy. Originally they said they couldn’t find a heart beat. Then they had ran several test. Tons of fluid in the neck and brain according to the ultrasound. So many scary outcomes that could happen if I didn’t abort. He was born completely healthy, 9.13 lbs, and 22 inches long. He is THRIVING. Continue to have faith and stay in prayer. Praying for you guys. 🥰💕
About 3 days ago I had a doctor tell me my baby has the same problem. Keep your head up. I know it’s scary and it will be but you could be completely fine. Prayers for you and your amazing family ❤️
“We don’t live at the hospital, we live near it..” that lightened you. Your conscious is in there pulling through this pain. Everything is going to be ok!
I know this is such a difficult time but •try• not to stress, there is still a possibility that everything is okay. I’ll be praying for you and Darcy. ♥️
We keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I got told things at my 20 week scan that was scary and the doctors ended up being wrong. With faith and positive thoughts you never know what can happen.
I love you and your sweet family so much. I understand why you’re so scared. Especially it being out of your hands. You know what you need to do mama. Give it to god, your faith inspires me and He will continue to watch over you and that little girl. Sending all my love and prayers.
❤️✨Oh sweetie, I’m so sorry you have to go through this. This video showed up as a suggested video for me and I somehow felt an instant connection. I’m not much of a prayer but that’s all I’ve done since watching. Never apologize for crying and please don’t think you’re being dramatic. All we ever want is for our kids to be safe and healthy and if something jeopardizes either of those, we as parents have no rules to our reactions. I’m so sorry that you have to wait for answers when you should just be able to enjoy every second of pregnancy. I hope you both find some comfort and peace in your prayers. Wishing you all the best❤️
My heart goes out to you both. No you are not over-reacting and Christian life is not without tragedy. But..there is Hope, Faith and Grace. So my prayers are with you and your precious little one🙏🙏that all is well❤
Just found ur channel. Praying for your family. I lost my 2nd child at 7 weeks pregnant. Got pregnant fairly quickly after that. With that pregnancy I was told my baby had fluid on the back of the neck and I had a 1 in 200 percent chance of her having down syndrome. We cried. We prayed. Our thoughts were all over the place. But today she is 16 months old, beautiful, healthy and thriving!! Keeping your family in our thoughts.
That’s so painful. I’m almost 20 weeks, 3rd pregnancy, only miscarriages before and it’s terrifying every time I go to the doctors because I’m expecting something bad. I feel your pain! You’re not dramatic at all and I pray your baby is okay. 💜
Lauren and Cory,
I am not usually one to leave comments on a video, but I want to let you know that I am praying for you. I'm so sorry about this news and I really hope that your baby girl is 100% ok. My heart goes out to you both. The Lord's plans are not without purpose. ♥️
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I am currently 25 weeks pregnant and during my 20 week scan the doctor told me that my daughters head is “somewhat” scaphocephalic. Doctors have to use these kind of terms so that they don’t get sued but they also HAVE to tell us if they doubt anything. I literally had my 3rd ultrasound done last week and still have not found out what is up with her head. It has been 5 weeks of worrying so far. I’m praying for you and really hope that we both have healthy happy babies!
I pray your baby will be born healthy and happy!!
My heart is breaking cause I can see how terrified you both are. I’m sending every positive piece of energy I have to your sweet baby girl. ♥️
Praying for you guys and your family. Try to stay positive through this. I have my anatomy scan on Wednesday and I’m so nervous. Pregnancy is a great thing but so scary all at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing
You are such a beautiful couple! Please do not apologize for anything, you've been through the loss of a child and you have very real fears that hopefully will not happen again. God bless both of you for your strength and endurance. Praying for you and your amazing family!💝
Oh Lauren. I’ll keep you all in my prayers. Everything is going to be ok💕.
Prayers going out to the two of you and your sweet little baby girl. Don’t ever apologize for worrying about your children or think you’re being dramatic, it’s your job!
God can perform miracles they told me during my pregnancy that I had stage 4 cervical cancer and that my child would not make it and that I needed to abort her but I did not they also told me how old your sounds looked strange but I didn't listen I continue to pray every chance I got to Jesus Christ the ultimate healer and I didn't take any chemo or any treatments and I begged God if he would just spare me I promised him I would be best mother I could be and he spared me and I was able to give birth to my child who is now eleven years old completely healthy and I never took any treatments or chemo and my cancer just disappeared the doctors were amazed so keep your head up keep praying and having faith pray every single chance you get
God is faithful!!!
Praise God!!
Your Testimony is powerful God is faithful 🙏🏻
I had a lot of scans with Lily and I never questioned anything because she was my first pregnancy. Lily was diagnosed at 3 with Autism. She’s a precious gift and is loved to the moon and back. I pray for your precious daughter Darcy and wish you well with a healthy pregnancy.
Feel this hug. She's going to be okay. I feel it.
Same thing happened to us and We were so upset and cried for weeks. He came out to be an absolutely beautiful baby boy happy and healthy. I’ll be praying for you and your family. God bless 🙏🙏🙏🙏
You both are so strong. I’m praying for you, Cory, Brody and Darcy ❤️💕
If the baby has something wrong love that baby even more! Ive been through two miscarriages and I have a baby girl now....its out of your control god wont give you what you cant handle 🙏❤🙏
You are NOT being dramatic! It’s only human nature to worry about the unknown. Prayers that sweet Darcy is perfect in every way.
“You can’t BS the BSer.” Preach, Corey!
Being a new mom myself, i understand your fear. I’m 37 and was very fearful that my child may be born with defects. I have a happy and healthy baby. Keep the faith. ❤️🙏🏻
So sorry for the bad news and I hope everything comes back fine with baby Darcy! God gives his hardest battles to his greatest warriors. Praying for your beautiful family❤
At 20 weeks I was told there was a shadow on my baby’s brain... which ended up being a cyst? I had to wait for referrals and go through so many hoops to figure it all out. They got the point where a few months later they said Her Brain was bleeding. I was in so much stress and worried so much bc every appt it was no news or worse news. Somehow at 30 weeks they did an mri, and she was perfectly fine!!!! Sometimes when you’re small the ultrasound pics up differently, that’s what they told me...?
But baby is ok! And I’m praying yours is too! I know how you feel.
Kasey Grezlik my 1yr old had a cyst at her 20 weeks scan and my sisters 1 year old had one also. High risk doctor told us both it’s something they see often. The cyst does go away. Our babies are perfectly fine. I pray peace in this situation, in Jesus name.
^^ this also happened with my son and it went away by the 3rd trimester
Same with me! They said the same thing about “water” or “fluid” in my babies brain they sent me to a sonographer specialist and when they checked it was perfectly fine. A lot of times the doctor just needs a 2nd opinion or the baby needs to grow more in order for them to see clearly. Praying for your little one!
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My son had a cyst on his brain too. It went away after birth. He's currently a healthy almost 10 year old little guy
Thinking of and praying for you. Never apologize for sharing your feelings. Sending prayers and love to you all.❤
I pray that your baby girl is healthy and happy and has all the love in the world💞. May God bless her and ease your worries. Praying so so hard for you🤞🏻
Gosh, I know it will be a hard and agonizing 2 weeks Lauren, let’s hope for the best.
Oh honey, I haven’t been following you until now. I have my 20 week ultrasound on the 31st, this is my very first pregnancy that I’ve made it this far I have had 4 losses in the past. I am so sorry that this ultrasound went this way... I am also sorry for your loss of your other sweet baby. You don’t have to apologize for crying and for being real with your feelings. You have every right to feel the way you do and I think it’s amazing that you are putting this out there like this. You are not being over dramatic at all I can’t imagine how hard this is for you guys. I will be praying for your family. Sending lots of love and light your way. Just think positive.
My daughter went through the same worries with all 3 of her children. They ALL had markers for down syndrome. So each pregnancy was the same stress and worry. ALL 3 children are fine! Don't stress too much. Keep praying AMD keep your faith! Baby is still in utero and a lot can change before birth. 😘
Winnie Palmer is the absolute best, I gave birth to my daughter there and I love it ❤️ I’m praying for you guys, they saw a spot on my daughters heart and we needed to go and see a specialist to do another ultrasound and everything came out fine, I’m truly praying for you guys 💖 hope everything comes out okay💖
I'm sorry momma! Remember to still be open to a positive outcome. Try to find comfort in this very hard situation, because it really could be nothing or something very simple and not big enough to change development or anything like that with baby.
I myself was born with a condition on the brain and I am 100% fine and fully fully functional.
Much love to you and your family momma.
May God bless you and yours, may he guide you through this difficult time and knowing that he is there all the way through. In the name of God, Amen.
I have no words, and nothing anyone will say will make your worry dissipate but I, along with everyone else is praying for you and your sweet baby. 💕
I too was told my son had brain tumor issues and it was a false alarm. He is in perfect health.
Hi sweet girl. I miscarried last September, and I am currently 19 weeks with my rainbow baby girl. I had my anatomy scan the other day, and everything was perfect except she had bilateral Choroid Plexus Cysts on her brain. My midwife told me not to worry where everything else was perfect, but of course I’m scared for the worst which is a Trisomy 18. I’m going to see a high risk specialist next Monday, praying for you and baby💗
Prayers for your baby. She will be strong. I pray to the Lord.
This is my first video I’ve seen of you guys... My prayers are with you guys. Just had my 2nd son in February. When I was 8 weeks pregnant with him, I got bloodwork back that he could possibly have Down Syndrome. For months, they kept saying “everything should be fine”... I know how frustrating it is with the “fake smiles” and the BS. God has a plan and He has you all in his hands. Please keep us updated.
Your faith is strong! I admire you both so much. I will be agreeing with you and everyone else in prayer that everything will be fine. God will sustain you. 💕
I'm so sorry for what you're feeling. We lost our baby to anencephaly. My doctor suggested a medical abortion but we chose an early birth to meet her and also wanted to be able to donate all her perfectly functioning organs to newborns in need of an organ to survive. I felt her kicking on her way out of my birth canal upon arriving. Then upon grabbing her to lay her on my chest I sensed it, my other half also had this sallow look on his face because he knew her heart stopped. He is very sensitive and in connection to spirit realm at all times. He said he saw my mom, my Godmother my uncle and both sets of grandparents who all transitioned over, standing all around me while giving birth and felt a hand upon his shoulder that was a touch of comfort in which he explained had immediately told him she didn't make it. He just has this sense of knowing things and that day he got that message. Our doctor looked up at him in dis belief of what he had said and then confirmed it. We gave her the name Philomena after the patron saint of babies, because if she wasn't going to be coming home with us then we wanted her spirit to be welcomed in her presence and to reside in her loving arms for all eternity in the kingdom of heaven. Lots of healing prayers for your heart and for both of your peace of mind. Remember God makes no mistakes... Trust, believe and keep faith. 💞
I’m sending so much love and positivity your way. I hope so much that your baby girl is absolutely fine! 💕
Keep your head up girl don’t stress it doesn’t help the baby just try to stay positive 🙏🏻💕
I started praying before I even started the video. Sending so much love your way❤❤❤
Stop apologizing ❤️ it’s okay to be upset. Real, raw emotions. Sending you and your family so many prayers 🙏 Blair is watching over her baby sister. Stay strong mama💗