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  • @kimdoig6550
    @kimdoig6550 3 роки тому +805

    I was 42 when I was pregnant with my only child. We had some test results indicate that there was a 25% chance that something was wrong with the baby. I was scared to death for days. Try to remember that if the weatherman reported a 25% chance of rain you probably wouldn’t take an umbrella. Praying that all goes well.

    • @onceuponamelody
      @onceuponamelody 3 роки тому +37

      That's such a good way of looking at it!

    • @blushingmommy
      @blushingmommy 3 роки тому +9

      I love this perspective. 💜🥰

    • @Mrselmo55
      @Mrselmo55 3 роки тому +5

      This was so perfect! I hope Leigh Ann sees this perspective

    • @thegrayfamily5237
      @thegrayfamily5237 3 роки тому +1

      Beautiful way to look at it

    • @amynicoleRN
      @amynicoleRN 3 роки тому +2

      THIS IS SO GOOD

  • @eharding7
    @eharding7 3 роки тому +649

    Listen, we sacrificed our bodies to eat cookies every day until that baby got in you and we are READY to eat the cookies so baby-roni stays healthy when he/she is out too. You ask, you shall receive. Let me get out my chocolate chip recipe now. 🍪🍪🍪- seriously though, always praying for you guys, I have faith that baby will be healthy, happy, and adorable.

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +121

      I don't deserve y'all 🥺thank you so much for being so sweet and supporting us! I wish I didn't have to call for more cookies but you're right, it's what we need 💙

    • @RosarioMataH
      @RosarioMataH 3 роки тому +2

      @@leighannsays cookies on the oven, baby-roni is going to rock this and come out healthy and happy

    • @EyseaSol
      @EyseaSol 3 роки тому

      Same thought here. Still eating cookies! Thinking positive, sending light. 💚

    • @brookesheridan394
      @brookesheridan394 3 роки тому

      Okay this comment made me bawl, I love this community 🥰

    • @AZOrchid
      @AZOrchid 3 роки тому

      AMEN! All the cookies for baby-roni!

  • @ArielRenee21
    @ArielRenee21 3 роки тому +498

    Imagine this: it’s fall, you and Grant are home and introducing Babyroni to Luna and your family. Babyroni is perfect with 10 fingers and 10 toes, a precious face, and the best new baby smell. It’s a beautiful, cozy fall day and you think back on all the ups and downs that led to this moment and smile at your baby because they’re in your arms and none of the challenges matter anymore. The first positive test that didn’t work out, the hyper-stimulation, the pain (in the butt!) of taking shots everyday, and now this. Because all of the time, energy, emotion, blood, sweat, and tears were all worth it. ♥️♥️ you’ve got this mama. We’re all here rooting for you ♥️

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +102

      😭😭😭 thank you so much for this. im barely holding my tears in reading everyone's comments and this is just too kind and thoughtful. I'm so grateful for your support 💙

    • @pattiboudreaux8720
      @pattiboudreaux8720 3 роки тому +7

      This is so perfect 😍

    • @lyndalobster649
      @lyndalobster649 3 роки тому +2

      THIS IS EVERYTHING!!

    • @RachelCameron87
      @RachelCameron87 3 роки тому +3

      Best 👏🏻 comment 👏🏻 ever 👏🏻 😭🥰🥰🥰

    • @samanthalakin-
      @samanthalakin- 3 роки тому +3

      this is not even my baby and I am bawling over this comment at 7 am 😭😭 this is so sweet

  • @shawnahoffman4940
    @shawnahoffman4940 3 роки тому +307

    My nephew has a one of a kind heart. Not only did he have two severe heart defects that were repaired when he was 6 months old but his electrical system was written about in a medical journal. He was in heart failure the first 6 months of his life. He’s 20 years old and in college to be a pediatric cardiologist like the one that saved him. You would never know he has a special heart-he will have to eventually have a pacemaker and seems the cardiologist every year but he lives a normal life. Just a little story that having a baby with a heart problem can have a happy ending. :)

    • @MonibooFinebean
      @MonibooFinebean 3 роки тому +2

      love that story !

    • @shawnahoffman4940
      @shawnahoffman4940 3 роки тому +1

      @@MonibooFinebean Thank you. He is his mama’s (and his Aunt’s) pride and joy 😊

    • @LaLaBlahBlahh
      @LaLaBlahBlahh 3 роки тому +2

      That’s interesting - I also was born with a really complex heart defect and I’m studying premedicine as well! ♥️ all the best to him!

    • @njmamaplansmichelle3024
      @njmamaplansmichelle3024 3 роки тому

      Wow what an awesome story

  • @katievancampen
    @katievancampen 3 роки тому +224

    Grant is so steady, and calm, and positive. Cross bridges as you get there, kind of a guy. What a blessing to have him in your corner! All the best to baby- you are going to come out of this JUST FINE.

    • @brandiruble2987
      @brandiruble2987 3 роки тому

      yes he is chilllax guy jelp her ground

    • @sophiecooke4075
      @sophiecooke4075 3 роки тому

      So true ❤️ we all need this energy in our lives!

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +3

      I'm so lucky it to have him 😭💙

    • @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei
      @DeborahSutherlandDebinPei 3 роки тому

      I imagine its part his personality and part education given his job. They are blessed 🙌

    • @blondieb6946
      @blondieb6946 3 роки тому

      My Joe is very much like your Grant. Having a partner that is so calm and level headed truly helps keep me grounded and feeling safe. I am the worrier in our relationship. I also feel so lucky to have him by my side.
      I have been disabled since 2014, he’s been my rock. It’s been a lot. I couldn’t have gotten through all of this without him. Marriage/life isn’t easy at times. Stress and worry isn’t easy to endure alone, having someone by our side to support us moving forward is such a blessing.
      Grant is going to be an absolutely wonderful dad, and you are going to be a great mother.

  • @XyRah329
    @XyRah329 3 роки тому +597

    I’m going to pass on a Nelson Mandela quote that really speaks to me:
    “May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.”
    Choose the crib. Decorate the nursery. You’re surrounded by love and support. 💛

  • @CoffeeBreakwithDani
    @CoffeeBreakwithDani 3 роки тому +500

    Prayer warriors unite! Lifting you in prayer sweet friend!

    • @BriMyselfAndEye
      @BriMyselfAndEye 3 роки тому +3

      💕🙏🏼🍪

    • @Michel-ek9ld
      @Michel-ek9ld 3 роки тому +8

      Yes! Lifting you and baby up that you both remain healthy and baby continues to develop in complete and wonderfully-made perfection. In Jesus’ name, amen!

    • @lisamariesweet1297
      @lisamariesweet1297 3 роки тому +1

      Yes and Amen!

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +3

      thank you so much Dani!! You are so sweet and I appreciate you so much 💙

    • @tomasscott7088
      @tomasscott7088 3 роки тому

      instablaster

  • @AlexJo30
    @AlexJo30 3 роки тому +274

    As a mama with lupus, taking plaquenil, and just went through all the neonatal lupus testing and precautions (& all the extra doctors and appointments) sending you all the prayers and positive vibes! Our happy healthy babe is turning one in July with no heart issues 💕 hopefully your little one is also just trying to prepare you for the teenage years 😘

    • @brendadawson4912
      @brendadawson4912 3 роки тому +7

      I’m a mom (to 5 kiddos) with Lupus as well. I was on plaquenil (and steroids) for years as well. All of my kids are fine. And I had scares while pregnant as well. My youngest is 12 now. I’m sure everything will be fine. I will be praying for you guys.

  • @heidiwhitehill5532
    @heidiwhitehill5532 3 роки тому +220

    Long time viewer and never commented. Lifting you up in prayers. This baby is a fighter and strong!

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +30

      thank you so much! I believe this baby will make it through this.

    • @Stephlovesnapping
      @Stephlovesnapping 3 роки тому +1

      @@leighannsays absolutely!!! Be strong, you guys are amazing parents, you’ll have an amazing baby. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @karenn993
    @karenn993 3 роки тому +130

    Just remember that doctors have to tell high risk patients all the possibilities. And possibilities are not the same as probabilities! Baby will be fine! I admire the way you work through the possibility of bad news.

  • @AlexisJay611
    @AlexisJay611 3 роки тому +205

    My sister-in-laws baby had the craziest scenario with her heart! She was 1 in 3 cases. They discovered the issue because her HR was 250! She had heart failure and they did have to shock her at birth (there are a lot details) My sister in law went to a 4-6 dr appts/week for the last 3 months of her pregnancy. The baby today is perfectly healthy now. It was an absolute miracle. I have faith that your baby will be good! Keep your heads high and keep praying! I’ll be praying too!

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +34

      thank you so much for sharing this story with me! its so encouraging to hear from everyone with great outcomes after hard pregnancies. im so glad your SIL's baby is healthy!

  • @abbieadams7443
    @abbieadams7443 3 роки тому +85

    I hope baby is watching this in the future and runs in to hug you and Grant for loving them so much and going through so much to bring them into the world ❤

  • @svoots
    @svoots 3 роки тому +123

    Leigh Ann, Im a pediatric hospitalist and attend deliveries all the time. I work in the special care nursery. Ive seen many moms with lupus. Because you have well managed lupus I truly believe that your baby will be nice and healthy :) sending you lots of love and prayers

  • @allyf.4773
    @allyf.4773 3 роки тому +175

    I have the lupus antibodies and after 3 heart healthy kids, my 4th was diagnosed with complete heart block at 22 weeks, she had a pacemaker placed at 3 months. She just turned 3 and is THRIVING! I'd love to share our story with you, mama ❤️

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +29

      thank you so much for sharing this with me! I'm so glad she is thriving and you've had so many healthy babies! 💙

    • @allyf.4773
      @allyf.4773 3 роки тому +19

      @@leighannsays I also wanted to say, I had a fifth baby and was on plaq from the beginning and she was born heart healthy 💜

    • @brandiruble2987
      @brandiruble2987 3 роки тому +4

      wonderful beauiful . I know two kids born w heart issues both had many surgeries for blockages and such One is 11 now doing great has sibling now other 5yr mid child does well too.

    • @JanetCowan
      @JanetCowan 3 роки тому +1

      My 2nd daughter is the same! Just commented up thread, happy to share my experiences with you Leigh Ann!

  • @Emily09442
    @Emily09442 3 роки тому +64

    I never comment but I’ve been watching you for years and just wanted to tell you my heart felt every bit of this. My daughter was born at 27 weeks and I had those same thoughts about how can I buy anything for her when I don’t know if she’ll even come home and thankfully she did come home💛 I am praying so hard for you guys. A verse that I hold dear to my heart is “prepare your fields for his blessings” Gods got this. I’m so happy you have an amazing support system!

  • @shadyberry
    @shadyberry 3 роки тому +74

    My aunt has Sjogren's and my cousin had heart block. She had a pacemaker placed at 3 days old, and she is a healthy, active 7 year old now! Keeping my fingers crossed for good outcomes 🤞🤞🤞

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +24

      thank you so much for sharing this with me!! positive stories are so encouraging especially right now ❤️

    • @rachel09msu
      @rachel09msu 3 роки тому +6

      I’ve had mine since I was 8 days old and I’m a healthy 30 year old woman hoping to start my own family one day too!

  • @kylepifer9509
    @kylepifer9509 3 роки тому +49

    I had all my kids in the 80’s. I had every possible thing with them all .1st preeclampsia 2nd pre diabetes. 3rd.diabetes insulin dependent. I felt them early also. They all were fine and lived to give us 9 grands. Your will too.👍🏻👏🏻👶🏼

  • @sarahbernhard4939
    @sarahbernhard4939 3 роки тому +87

    I have a connective tissue disease and take Plaquenil. I also have hereditary high blood pressure. I was so nervous when I got pregnant that I didn’t tell most people in my life that I was pregnant until I was about 6 months along because I was so worried about complications. Luckily my daughter, now 19 months old, is extremely healthy! Stay positive! It sounds like you have an amazing team of healthcare providers, everything will be fine ❤️❤️❤️

    • @professionalcommenter
      @professionalcommenter 3 роки тому +1

      Do you have EDS?

    • @sarahbernhard4939
      @sarahbernhard4939 3 роки тому

      @@professionalcommenter No, I have something similar to lupus but I don’t quite check all the boxes so my doctor just calls it connective tissue disease.

    • @amandaleggett
      @amandaleggett 3 роки тому

      @@professionalcommenter Are you a fellow EDS zebra?

  • @chelseybeauvais8339
    @chelseybeauvais8339 3 роки тому +52

    I’ve been following you for 8 years and am an L&D nurse and this hit so hard!!! I’m crying and can’t be praying enough for y’all!

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +10

      thank you so much for your prayers. i appreciate more than you know!

  • @kierstinunshelved8680
    @kierstinunshelved8680 3 роки тому +21

    I was born with multiple heart defects and went through 4 open heart surgeries before the age of 4. Now, I'm 22, stable cardiac-wise, and about to graduate from college. Sometimes just hearing of someone thriving with heart problems older than you (or your child) can be reassuring. Prayers!

    • @kierstinunshelved8680
      @kierstinunshelved8680 3 роки тому

      There is also so much more that works in medicine for CHD kids and communities online and through hospitals for families. I hope your baby is happy and healthy, but know that there is so much more hope & support today in 2021 than there was in 1997 when my parents went through this,

  • @elisabethhenderson6204
    @elisabethhenderson6204 3 роки тому +21

    My whole family is praying, your baby WILL NOT have heart issues.

  • @mommaofcutie
    @mommaofcutie 3 роки тому +14

    It’s so, so scary to think something could be wrong with your baby. Your baby is so blessed to have you in his/her corner. Praying for zero health complications for your little one.

  • @whatgwenloves
    @whatgwenloves 3 роки тому +24

    My son has a severe heart defect and has had two heart surgeries so far. He'll be 1 years old on Saturday. He is doing well! We found out about his heart at my 20 week anatomy scan, so I can relate to how terrifying it is to hear news like that. I found it very comforting to hear that I wasn't alone in having my world rocked. You're not alone. 💕

  • @lisamariesweet1297
    @lisamariesweet1297 3 роки тому +3

    I am a big believer in the power of prayer, and I’ll continue to keep you all in my prayers. It’s already obvious that your baby is a strong, tough little one, and I really believe you and Grant and baby are gonna get through this, and be that much closer and stronger for it. And one day, you’ll be telling your child just how special they are and just how far the Lord has brought them.
    Love and hugs and blessings!❤️

  • @tiffuhkneerahbee
    @tiffuhkneerahbee 3 роки тому +21

    A coworker of mine was diagnosed with cancer this past week; and our coworker (who always does) came in with some great faith advice. Obviously, continue to listen to your doctors and definitely process everything that is happening but also place your hands on baby and pray over baby every day. I do think often times all we can do is give it to God and have faith. Continued prayers, good vibes and love to you guys. 😘

  • @amykate8140
    @amykate8140 3 роки тому +43

    Sometimes as parents it gets really scary. Sending you all love cookies and most importantly prayers.

  • @AmandaandlolaNL
    @AmandaandlolaNL 3 роки тому +165

    Luna starting our family meeting in the dining room that bark meant “cookie people hustle we need the cookies cause we are a one - huddle up people”

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +21

      awww that is exactly what she meant 🥰🍪

    • @AmandaandlolaNL
      @AmandaandlolaNL 3 роки тому +11

      @@leighannsays she gets us. We are her people

    • @brandiruble2987
      @brandiruble2987 3 роки тому

      @@AmandaandlolaNL we are I remember when Luna into our lives and Leighann found her back in Houston after house purchase. Luna had both my daughter and my own heart at first site esp adjusting to little backyard.

  • @amydevereaux6385
    @amydevereaux6385 3 роки тому +6

    Don’t let fear take away from the joy of pregnancy. I am praying for you and Grant and your sweet baby!! I’m sure you’ll have a healthy happy baby!! 💜

  • @alwaysinbloom12
    @alwaysinbloom12 3 роки тому +6

    Just remember: even though there could be “worse” things, you’re allowed to feel sad, upset, or anything you want about this, even if it’s only potential. I’m a bereaved mother & it sucks to say the least, so your fears and grief are valid. I’m not into toxic positivity- just feel the sad feelings and put them to the side. We’re thinking of you guys & can’t wait for you to meet your perfect baby. Because they *will* be perfect, no matter what happens!!

  • @laurenbond5958
    @laurenbond5958 3 роки тому +8

    My daughter was born with PVS and she had to have open heart surgery at 8 months but today she’s a very rambunctious almost 2 year old. Just because babies have heart issues doesn’t mean they can’t be happy healthy perfect babies. ❤️ much love & prayers to you and your growing family

    • @laurenbond5958
      @laurenbond5958 3 роки тому

      DID GRANT SAY BABY R??? Does that mean y’all have a name already???

  • @jessicarinehart1799
    @jessicarinehart1799 3 роки тому +57

    Okay if baby turtles 🐢🐢🐢 wasn’t a sign that everything is going to be okay, I don’t know what is!! Prayers for you all 💜

  • @nancyec3794
    @nancyec3794 3 роки тому +9

    God brought this miracle baby into your life and he will protect you and the baby. I have total faith that God would not bring you this far to take the baby away or cause him or her to be born with a heart problem. I will be praying for you and this precious baby daily. Just remember God is a God of miracles and he will prove it with a healthy baby coming into your life in about 18-20 weeks. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @geobruin
    @geobruin 3 роки тому +14

    hi friend! I have Lupus (SLE) with high anti-Ro/SSA - so high that that heart block is basically guaranteed in my future pregnancies. My rheum has told me that my levels are extremely uncommon and if anyone's got a lower level than mine, everything should be OK. I am rooting for you, it's going to be OK.

  • @Desirae383
    @Desirae383 3 роки тому +224

    Perks of more ultrasounds are seeing that cutie patootie more 😘

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому +30

      thats what my sister said too 💙

    • @renaash3699
      @renaash3699 3 роки тому +8

      I had high risk pregnancy being 38 years old and having Sjogrens with my 12 year old, and you will love seeing that sweet baby so much. Make sure you get DVD's if they do that for you.

    • @karensang1
      @karensang1 3 роки тому

      Exactly!

  • @nicoleb1023
    @nicoleb1023 3 роки тому +4

    I’m a mom of three, have lupus and have been taking plaquinil for over 10yrs. All 3 kids are fine. Breathe mama, you’ve got this.

  • @christineschroth1537
    @christineschroth1537 3 роки тому +4

    I had some really bad (life changing) news at my week 20 anatomy scan. Hope everything turns out okay for you and the baby gets born happy and healthy!

  • @teresafrankel
    @teresafrankel 3 роки тому +31

    Sending prayers for the chubbiest, rosy cheeked, gurgling and cooing healthiest hearted baby that has ever been born. (And for some reason I'm seeing a boy). Love you and Grant.

  • @rachaelkasper5445
    @rachaelkasper5445 3 роки тому +2

    I'm so glad your baby's growing so well and is such a little party kiddo! One thing I found helpful during my pregnancies (when I had worrisome things to think about) was just sitting in my rocking chair, rubbing my bump, and singing softly to the baby. The love just melted the worries away and I felt stronger to cope with worries after that bonding time. You've got Grant, great doctors, a wonderful family showering you all with love and prayers...and you've got one precious baby who has an amazing Mom and Dad.

  • @BeautyJunkie517
    @BeautyJunkie517 3 роки тому +4

    I had 2 high risk babies, and you definitely have the right attitude. With my first I let myself be so consumed with worry that I was literally shocked when they handed me a healthy happy baby. I had prepared myself for the worst so much that I forgot to prepare myself for actual motherhood. Stay positive, and like you said you have a greater chance of healthy baby, focus on the good.

    • @kirstenglae
      @kirstenglae 3 роки тому +1

      I did the same with my first after I was told I had Single Umbilical Artery (also high risk). I consumed myself with googling, and had crippling fear of the worst. My baby ended up being healthy in every way, and I really regret the stress and worry I put myself and baby through.

  • @bln3814
    @bln3814 3 роки тому +2

    Feeling the baby move is the only thing I miss about being pregnant. It is the coolest thing. Sending so much love and prayers your way!!

  • @mikaelapeters4300
    @mikaelapeters4300 3 роки тому +3

    It takes so much strength to have processed through all of this quickly enough to share this difficult news on the internet with such bravery and a well-rounded perspective. Inspired my your strength today!! Prayers for your little family

  • @shellywidlansky7691
    @shellywidlansky7691 3 роки тому +8

    Parenthood can be the scariest thing at times, sending you guys all the positive energy and virtual hugs

  • @gigidodson
    @gigidodson 3 роки тому +46

    So glad Dr. Grant got to go to the big one!
    Such excitement!
    I think its a boy? Just a guess.
    I cry EVERY TIME i hear a babies heart beat. I guess it was such a huge deal when I heard my babys heart. I get teary every time

    • @lizmccormick3822
      @lizmccormick3822 3 роки тому +19

      I swear I heard her say “him” and the dr say “him”.

    • @gigidodson
      @gigidodson 3 роки тому +5

      @@lizmccormick3822 That will be one very loved baby.
      Im eatin cookies !

    • @kellswalker88
      @kellswalker88 3 роки тому

      I know this isn’t important but is Grant a Dr.? Or work in the medical field ?

    • @lizmccormick3822
      @lizmccormick3822 3 роки тому

      @@kellswalker88 yes Grant is a Dr. not sure what kind though.

  • @LLJerseyGirl
    @LLJerseyGirl 3 роки тому +13

    From the moment you shared Grant with us, I felt like he was perfect for you...every vlog and all the things from Luna, cooking, DQ, and your pregnancy...he’s a rock. Keeping you all in my prayers. 🙏🏻💗 And bridges freak me out...so that music had me on edge, LOL.

  • @shalanahunt
    @shalanahunt 3 роки тому +12

    It sounds like you have a great team and are getting lots of early information, so that is all positive!! Sending healthy baby and mama dust!

  • @AngelaDianneMiller83
    @AngelaDianneMiller83 3 роки тому +1

    Lupus Warrior (SLE) mama here! On Plaquenil before, during, and after my pregnancy, had to be on Lovenox my entire pregnancy (because I was positive for those antibodies), was weekly monitored and my little man was born without any heart conditions or health complications. My hope is that your sweet little one is blessed with the same! 💕

  • @backwardsbrilliance
    @backwardsbrilliance 3 роки тому +7

    I said a prayer for you three ❤️ You are so strong and such an inspiring example of positivity, Leighann. You and Grant are going to be such great parents!

  • @krisradecki4640
    @krisradecki4640 3 роки тому +2

    I’m a Lupus mom on Plaquenil as well, and went through the same pregnancy angst you are right now. All the talk of heart issues scared the crap out of us too, but we have two healthy strapping young men to show for it. God’s got your back, and He’s got that baby’s back too. What you focus on expands, so try not to focus like mad on the scariest parts. Keep the faith. You’re going to be a beautiful family of three one day soon! ❤️🙏👍

  • @elizabethanne1632
    @elizabethanne1632 3 роки тому +22

    I’m a naturally anxious person and have to actively talk myself out of the “what if [bad thing]” and into the “but what if [really good thing]?” headspace all the time. Sending so many prayers and high fives from Milwaukee - for your health, for baby, and for your peace of mind (and Grant too, of course!). You’re also officially on my mom’s Sunday School prayer chain - she asks me about “my friend LeighAnn” (have I explained UA-cam? Yes. Does it matter at this point? No!) ❤️❤️❤️

    • @hollyrenee544
      @hollyrenee544 3 роки тому +2

      I do too. I worry about a lot. Anxiety isn’t fun at all!

    • @BrandyH-eh9up
      @BrandyH-eh9up 3 роки тому +1

      Same. I’m a big worry wart

  • @Thecourseofhistory
    @Thecourseofhistory 3 роки тому +2

    I never comment on videos, but I think it was a blessing from above that Grant was allowed to go with you to that appointment. With so much information to process, I would’ve wanted my hubby there. You have a lot of people praying for you, sending good vibes, and eating cookies!

  • @whoathatsanicememe3093
    @whoathatsanicememe3093 3 роки тому +6

    Ultrasound technology is amazing and a blessing. But try to remember it's not perfect and sometimes what may seem really, really scary turns out to be pretty much nothing. I know you'll still worry but try to remember that your body and babies body are wonderfully and beautifully made.
    Keep praying and keep taking care of yourself.
    Edit to Add: I will pray for you and your family as well as your doctors.

  • @pamcooke61
    @pamcooke61 3 роки тому +1

    I am so glad I saw this video. My daughter had lupus as well. She takes 200 mg of the exact same medication every day for the last 12 years. She has been in remission for a long time (thank God)! Wishing all the best and will drop in now and then to see how you are doing.

  • @sugarcoat8024
    @sugarcoat8024 3 роки тому +6

    My husband and I are praying for you, he doesn't even watch your videos but when I said you uploaded with an update and I need to stop what I'm doing to watch he said "Of course, I hope she's okay."

    • @sugarcoat8024
      @sugarcoat8024 3 роки тому

      Also, about to go gorge myself on cookies for you.

    • @leighannsays
      @leighannsays  3 роки тому

      that is so sweet. thank you so much 💙

  • @tamaraostler6313
    @tamaraostler6313 3 роки тому +1

    I’m 19 weeks as of today and tested positive with SSA antibodies 3 years ago. It sounds like I’ve had VERY similar appointments and conversations with high-risk doctors as of late. I asked for a repeat blood test for SSA antibodies (& of course they tested for more than that). Tests came back negative & everything else was in the normal range so I’m glad you’re getting retested for that. At this point I won’t have to get an echocardiogram done to look at baby’s heart but it sounds like it’s a great thing for you to do - to have peace of mind but also have all hands on deck in the case that something goes wrong. All your worry about baby developing any level of heart block is so normal, I’ve felt it all too. Going to your appointments and keeping on top of things is a perfect place to start. I know google can be so scary but at the end of the day you can only do all that’s within your control. It’s been recommended for me to have a fetal doppler at home, so I think you made the right choice in ordering one. Hopeful that all continues to go well! Looking forward to hearing about your test results and following your pregnancy journey going forward. Really resonates with me! Stay positive!

    • @tamaraostler6313
      @tamaraostler6313 3 роки тому

      Also just as a small tidbit of side info it’s taken us about 2.5 years of trying before having a successful pregnancy - all doctors I’ve seen have been very surprised that baby was conceived naturally & not through IVF. Congratulations on embarking through that journey to parenthood & I’m happy to hear it was successful for you!

  • @SamyRae
    @SamyRae 3 роки тому +13

    I'm so sorry about your bad news, and I'll be praying for you all!

    • @brandiruble2987
      @brandiruble2987 3 роки тому +3

      sending you good vibes and thoughts too. dr can do so much for babies now. I know two kids born w congential heart fauilue both as doing well ones 11, other 5.

    • @emmyde5183
      @emmyde5183 3 роки тому +1

      Sending you hugs and best wishes from the UK, sincerely, take care yourself my dear xx

  • @sunnyjim1223
    @sunnyjim1223 3 роки тому

    Praying for you, baby, Grant, and Luna. I know this probably doesn’t help, but when my mom was pregnant with me, they thought I might have a congenital issue. I came into the world a few weeks late, but I came into healthy. You have a plan. You have a great medical team. You have all of our prayers. You also have His plan and His love to bring you strength and peace.

  • @karabeck3200
    @karabeck3200 3 роки тому +19

    Being high risk is a lot. It hits you in the face like whoa. The high risk ob/gyns are sooo smart and amazing. Nerdiest doctors and I felt so safe. 🙏 you seem like you have a great game plan and everyone is working in sync!!

    • @ameliasandoval8663
      @ameliasandoval8663 3 роки тому

      ^^^ this. I have incompetent cervix, PPROM, 2 preterm deliveries, polyhydramnios, placental abruption. If you find a good one,, they know their stuff!

  • @CaeDee22
    @CaeDee22 3 роки тому +1

    I have lupus and ssa antibodies too. 3 healthy pregnancies and 3 healthy kids! Glad you have good doctors on your team. Praying for you!

  • @jillr759
    @jillr759 3 роки тому +5

    I hear you as a 3 time IVF patient. You and your baby will be fine , I really feel in my heart Leanne and Grant your baby will be fine. Sorry if I misspelled your name!

  • @MultiMelcat
    @MultiMelcat 3 роки тому

    I know so many people from far and wide are praying for that sweet baby. I know that I’ll be praying for your strength. Baby is LITERALLY giving Grant fist bumps like, “Don’t worry guys, it’s all good.” Your dress is giving me beautiful Terrazzo vibes. You both are prepared, you are strong, you have overcome so many obstacles, and the blessing that will begin at the end of this journey will be the greatest you’ve ever known. Sending SO much love to you!!

  • @echoetj
    @echoetj 3 роки тому +9

    I’m glad it’s a maybe and not a yes, but I’m sorry it’s there. It’s never nice to hear anything is “wrong.” Thank goodness Grant is a Dr! I can only imagine the comfort that can bring. I’m a nursing student and it’s nice to see the medical side and be able to research things and not just see the scariness of it all! I’m glad things are good everywhere else!!!

  • @inkgoddess1966
    @inkgoddess1966 3 роки тому +1

    Grant is so calm. He's good for your soul. Baby will be great! Prayers sweet friend.

  • @grislove14
    @grislove14 3 роки тому +9

    Tiny bubbles is most definitely the feeling I can relate to with baby movements! 🥰
    We will continue to be optimistic for you guys!! Baby is going to develope well and strong! ❤️ Sending you both a big warm hug! 🥰🥰

  • @SuzanneLight
    @SuzanneLight 3 роки тому

    Leigh Ann I am adding you and your baby to my prayer journal today! I'm going to be asking and believing for a completely healthy baby and delivery! Protected by our Mighty God 🙏❤

  • @bnikiz
    @bnikiz 3 роки тому +16

    Praying for you all. As a mom of 3 every pregnancy is scary and I can’t begin to imagine what you are feeling. “Cast your burden on the Lord, and He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the righteous to be moved” Psalm 55:22 You’ve got this 🙏🏻

  • @yassy279
    @yassy279 3 роки тому +1

    I seriously pray for you and your baby every single night in my prayers. I know that everything will turn out ok and the baby will be just fine. I have strong faith you’ll see this through with positive results 💕 I will continue to pray for you and the baby and to give you peace of mind 🥰 definitely a plus that you get to see the baby more often!

  • @jenniree29
    @jenniree29 3 роки тому +3

    I just feel in the deepest pit of my soul that this baby is going to be perfectly perfect. I have faith that he/she will be healthy. I refuse to think otherwise. 💙💜💙

  • @beckyorton8312
    @beckyorton8312 3 роки тому +2

    I feel like I’ve been following you long enough to know, but I didn’t realize Grant is a doctor. Sending you lots of positive vibes.

  • @pocketrocket1995
    @pocketrocket1995 3 роки тому +8

    You don’t have to decorate ...or have a crib...or have a baby shower before you give birth.....I lost a child and when I had my second child I did none of that stuff.....I just waited and when I brought my second child home from the hospital we had a big home coming party with everyone there .....it was the best shower party ever .....your baby won’t sleep in a crib for the first few weeks anyway....you’ve got this.... praying for your family.

  • @anonymous.hippopotamus
    @anonymous.hippopotamus 3 роки тому

    Feeling the baby!? Oh my heart! As a mama, that is something I miss so much! I still get a phantom kick every so often, but it's such a sweet time when you feel life in there. Congratulations, and wishing you all the best!

  • @Rhiles44
    @Rhiles44 3 роки тому +14

    The moving feeling is so unreal. When my daughter moves it just makes me laugh because she’s going bananas but no one can see or feel it but me and I find it hilarious.

  • @melissageorge2705
    @melissageorge2705 3 роки тому

    I was high risk. My blood pressure was high, I had gestational diabetes, and defying the odds of a big baby with GD, my baby was small. I was being monitored weekly, it was stressful. Baby girl came into the world at 5 lbs 4 Oz and is miss personality 4 months later. Sending you all the good prayers and vibes! Baby is just waiting for all the love you and Grant have to give ! ❤️

  • @vanessaramirez423
    @vanessaramirez423 3 роки тому +9

    I am 16w5d pregnant and I have SLE. It's comforting to see someone with a platform discuss some of the issues and concerns people with lupus deal with in pregnancy and in general. I have many of the same worries with my pregnancy and watching your video today made me just burst into tears.. and I don't mean that in a bad way. I guess I just feel like sometimes no one understands.. I am praying for a normal anatomy scan for myself in a few weeks and watching this video has made me hopeful! So thank you! Praying for your sweet baby as well as mine that everything will be wonderful and normal going forward. Lots of love💕

    • @scorpio427
      @scorpio427 3 роки тому +1

      Sending lots of love and positive vibes 💕

  • @annegamble7698
    @annegamble7698 3 роки тому

    Leighann and Grant, You have legions of people praying for you and that precious baby. Take care.

  • @Allymallymals
    @Allymallymals 3 роки тому +19

    I pulled you a tarot card and I asked “ How is Leigh Ann and Grants baby?” And I pulled The Sun card!
    The sun card (in my deck) depicts a mama mouse with a baby in its pouch! And they’re in a field of full bloom flowers. It’s a joyous omen of completion and harvesting the fruits of your labor. Success, radiance, and enthusiasm.
    I know tarot isn’t science but know I’m sending only good vibes and I’ll be making cookies this weekend 💜🌞🍪

  • @kathyfitzmaurice2881
    @kathyfitzmaurice2881 3 роки тому +1

    When baby is running around and exhausting you, you will look back and say well there was nothing to worry about! Prays to baby and both of you ♥️♥️

  • @dianafreeman419
    @dianafreeman419 3 роки тому +13

    1- that pic of the baby is so cute!!!
    2- the heartbeat made me tear up with joy. I had a home doppler with my two boys and I was obsessed lol. Whenever I was sitting still I had it on.
    3- baby was totally giving dad a strong high five 🥰

  • @rubytuesdayism
    @rubytuesdayism 3 роки тому +2

    Oh mama, this is indeed more than you bargained for! After having my son, no matter how hokey it sounds, I really believe our Littles chose us to be their parents-your sweet little cherub chose you to be their mama & papa no matter the struggles. Lean deeply into eachother & have all the feelings, even if sad or hard, and even if briefly, you deserve to feel it all❤️I’m sending you so much love & holding the positive energy in my heart even when you can’t-you’re not alone & your little one is so loved✨👼🏼🙏🏽

  • @tinahall4448
    @tinahall4448 3 роки тому +8

    You guys are sooooo awesome for sharing this journey with all of us! I only hope that you feel the support and prayers sent your way! I pray for you often and will double up! We are going to speak positivity into existence! You guys are the best parents already! ❤

  • @ardithcassell2560
    @ardithcassell2560 3 роки тому +1

    You guys are the perfect team. Sit and wait must be difficult but you have each other and your faith. I’ll be praying for the baby’s heart and mom and dad.

  • @callmeclaireee
    @callmeclaireee 3 роки тому +33

    I’ve been waiting all day for this update 💞 hope all is okay.

  • @InCourageWeWalk
    @InCourageWeWalk 3 роки тому

    I know it is so hard to not worry but don’t let that stress steal your joy and peace and enjoyment of this time. Especially since there is a greater chance of you precious baby being perfectly healthy! Lifting you all up in prayer and claiming a healthy baby and rest of pregnancy!

  • @shoshtastic
    @shoshtastic 3 роки тому +6

    All good thoughts for you guys. At my 20w we found that my little guy had only one kidney. From then had appts with genetics to see if any chance of other genetic issues, went for a fetal echo to check the heart for any potential structural issues, lots of extra visits to see if there were any other structural issues in the urinary system. It was stressful and I got a lot of stats about possibilities for other issues, but I now have a happy, healthy toddler who just happens to have one kidney.

  • @pamg.7742
    @pamg.7742 3 роки тому +1

    My heart goes out to y'all. There's every chance that nothing will come of this, so just keep thinking positive thoughts as much as you can. Good luck to you.

  • @Mrselmo55
    @Mrselmo55 3 роки тому +3

    I am just praying for your family Leigh Ann! I’m praying God gives you peace as you wait through the risk period. You are doing everything you can & that’s all you can do! Have faith & know your viewers care. You are so brave to share your story & I know so many ladies are being helped or encouraged through this. Sending lots of love to you.

  • @janicerepass6996
    @janicerepass6996 3 роки тому

    Stay positive! I'm pretty sure that mommy and baby turtle was a good sign! In every pregnancy, there is always a chance that "something" could go wrong. You just know more than what most parents-to-be know about the possibilities. But, they are not probabilities. Stay strong. We are all praying for you and that precious baby squirming around inside!

  • @Vociferoustart
    @Vociferoustart 3 роки тому +10

    I've been waiting on this since seeing your IG story. Haven't watched yet but just want to stop in and tell you that you are so loved and have so many people rooting for you and baby Roni. Love you ❣️❣️❣️

  • @allisond9750
    @allisond9750 3 роки тому

    Praying for that little baby! Hoping you and Grant have comfort through the uncertainty. You said it, this baby is unstoppable!!

  • @MamaKN
    @MamaKN 3 роки тому +8

    I saw a high risk doctor for my third pregnancy and had a total of 15 ultrasounds. I made myself miserable with the “what if’s”, and wish I would have had a better attitude! Baby was born big and perfect 💚

  • @audreypatrie206
    @audreypatrie206 3 роки тому

    I always described feeling the baby move like getting one of those goldfish in a bag and while you’re holding it the fish bumps into your hand. It’s not exactly like that, but that’s the best description I could come up with!
    Also, I have lupus and have the antibodies, and my 3 children didn’t have any problems! This baby was meant to be and God will take care of him/her!!

  • @kendraatkins
    @kendraatkins 3 роки тому +12

    praying for you and your baby, hope you'll have a smooth pregnancy

  • @kookienutquacker8692
    @kookienutquacker8692 3 роки тому +1

    Life will always has twists and turns, hills that climb up and then go down a bit. Just remember that the glass is always half FULL, full of love, hope and little babies pushing back.

  • @mbbee83
    @mbbee83 3 роки тому +6

    Rounding up all the cookies for the next 20 weeks, sending you lots of love. You've got this mama!

  • @ShannonAndy
    @ShannonAndy 3 роки тому +1

    Praying for y'all Leighann!!! I've got good feelings that baby is going to be just fine and will be delivered as a happy healthy little bean. Sending all my love!

  • @kittles201
    @kittles201 3 роки тому +5

    It’s cookie time!!!! It’s definitely not the sort of news that you want to hear, but it sounds like you have a great team and it’s good that you’re aware and can keep an eye on everything. Sending you so much love!

  • @patin319
    @patin319 3 роки тому +2

    I am praying so that you and your baby have a healthy pregnancy and a safe delivery........! 🙏🏼💙💗

  • @tuftyloves
    @tuftyloves 3 роки тому +7

    Owlet sells a belly band you can wear that monitors the heart and movements!

  • @rannasmithson512
    @rannasmithson512 3 роки тому

    Don't let all your thoughts be on the small percentage of bad news that is not for certain! Please only be positive because you don't need to stress your self out because it's not good for you or the baby! I truly believe that everything we'll be good and baby will be just fine; your baby is strong and kicking like a champ! Prayers your way

  • @tiffanybrown79
    @tiffanybrown79 3 роки тому +3

    I explained how my baby felt is like a fish out of water flopping. Not butterflies.
    And Im definitely praying for y’all! I’ve been watching you for a long long time! You remind me of my little sister. And I cried with you like you are my sibling. 💕

  • @melissahutton2354
    @melissahutton2354 3 роки тому

    Praying for you and Grant and Little One. Parental worry is unlike anything else. It can be paralyzing. Take it one day at a time and lean on that incredible husband of yours. Your baby doesn’t know anything about heart blocks right now...it’s happily swimming along in the little home you’ve created for them. Happy as can be when it hears your voice and Grant’s voice. You are doing everything you can and you are doing an amazing job. We are all behind you and supporting your family.