Agree to Disagree (feat. Grayson Chrisley) | Unlocked with Savannah Chrisley Ep. 82

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  • @NWgirlstuckinFL
    @NWgirlstuckinFL 2 місяці тому +136

    Grayson never yelled one time in this entire conversation.

    • @DeniceGreer-gj6gc
      @DeniceGreer-gj6gc 2 місяці тому +1

      I would allow him to go if you guys can compromise and he shows that he can be mature enough to handle it now by doing all things you say he is not doing and can prove he can handle it

  • @sweetashoneyb323
    @sweetashoneyb323 2 місяці тому +174

    Grayson is still grieving and processing things in his own way.
    Savannah, please, LET HIM MAKE HIS OWN DECISIONS! ITS HIS LIFE

    • @debrae.6263
      @debrae.6263 2 місяці тому +2

      And he can pay to right?

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +5

      @@debrae.6263 maybe he can. We don’t know but why should he have to? Savannah and Chase didn’t pay for their college did they? And she graduated high school a year early so she could start college a year early. Why are they tables turned for Grayson?

    • @Roma-SRyan
      @Roma-SRyan 2 місяці тому +1

      how about u guys show some grace to Savannah

    • @tatum2739
      @tatum2739 Місяць тому

      @@whereswaldo23Savannah was mature enough to do so. Idk anything about Grayson but if he’s mature too then he should as well. I’m sure it’s hard being a sister and the parent

  • @marleypongracz8700
    @marleypongracz8700 2 місяці тому +86

    Grayson stayed at a normal tone never raised his voice and he’s very mature give him GRACE savannah

    • @Roma-SRyan
      @Roma-SRyan 2 місяці тому +3

      give Savannah grace. have u guys forget, she's his SISTER having to raise him. She put HER life on hold HAVING TO BECOME A MOTHER

    • @amandav.3304
      @amandav.3304 2 місяці тому +2

      People that aren’t in the older sibling/ parent category will never understand. So unless you are, pls be quiet. It’s a hard hat to wear.

    • @shortycb2349
      @shortycb2349 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Roma-SRyanyes she did, but she complains about this all the time. Her life stopped, her life is over, blah blah. She’s controlling and manipulative, this video really shows it.

    • @at4everTia
      @at4everTia Місяць тому

      🤣ppls comments have nothing to do with the original..she said he raised his voice, he didn't.

  • @reneecarol2130
    @reneecarol2130 2 місяці тому +107

    Savannah is raising her Voice,while Greyson is trying to talk. He was telling you and you weren't listening to his point and saying that he was raising his voice.
    Sheesh,a Different Perspective is Always nice Savannah. :)

    • @cyn3971
      @cyn3971 2 місяці тому +23

      She did some gaslighting there big time.

    • @reneecarol2130
      @reneecarol2130 2 місяці тому +16

      @@cyn3971 If this is what they do,I can't imagine being Grayson.
      He's been on here before and In My Opinion,It's the Same thing, Unfortunately.
      I wish him nothing but the best.

    • @joanmanning198
      @joanmanning198 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@cyn3971 💯

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +4

      @@cyn3971 100% thought the same !!

  • @ruhokie81
    @ruhokie81 2 місяці тому +353

    All I heard was that he NEEDs this ! He obviously is craving a “normal” life. When he said he didn’t want to have to think or hear about Mom and Dad everyday that broke my heart. He just wants to go fly and be like other kids his own age. Savannah, you’ve done an incredible job, I can’t imagine how hard it is for you to have him leave! At least he realizes if he wants to stay there he has to work hard and not get in trouble. Many don’t even think about that they just live in the moment. Grayson is ready , and that means you and your parents have done an amazing job raising him. ❤️🙏🏼

    • @cyn3971
      @cyn3971 2 місяці тому +14

      You said it best!

    • @juliepowell1715
      @juliepowell1715 2 місяці тому +19

      I agree 100%! Please Savannah listen to him. He wants a normal life. He is ready. I am a mom of 3 grown children.

    • @117Pinkyflower
      @117Pinkyflower 2 місяці тому +10

      Excellent statement!

    • @summerw5773
      @summerw5773 2 місяці тому +7

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤AMEN!

    • @debragwood
      @debragwood 2 місяці тому +3

      LET HIM GO YOUR BEING A HORRIBLE HUMAN BEING THIS FAMILY HAS RUINED HIS LIFE SO FAR

  • @freed1994
    @freed1994 2 місяці тому +94

    Ya'll, i agree with Gray, this is an OFF camera conversation, but that being said, BELIEVE in him Savannah. I agree with Gray 😊 Let him go and growwww ❤ Let him go prove he can kill it !!! He's a Chrisley !! ❤God's got him 🙏 Love you guys ❤

    • @Mystique-lu8ed
      @Mystique-lu8ed 2 дні тому

      That live for the spotlight! At least the Savanah and Chase do!

  • @axaordonez7782
    @axaordonez7782 2 місяці тому +74

    Let Grayson break the generational chain ❤❤❤❤❤❤ he will do great

  • @randomsimplethings
    @randomsimplethings 2 місяці тому +98

    As a Mama of 3, this young man seems like he's ready to spread his wings and do the next step. How wonderful that he has such a responsible big sister to help him navigate this next chapter. Praying for you all!

  • @user-M6700
    @user-M6700 2 місяці тому +66

    He is not raising his voice to you - he's trying to get his point across. Listen to him and pick your battles! He is absolutely correct about working making money and then quit to go to school later. Let him go to college in January and he will be just fine! He has to find his own way and you have to support him in that.

  • @latriciacleveland6509
    @latriciacleveland6509 2 місяці тому +45

    When he said the reason he wants to go away is because he does not want to continue to hear about his parents, that was enough for you to take a pause and create a safe space for him to express. As a therapist, that statement came from a hurt place that should have been enough for you to sit in that moment with him.

    • @Godschild9108
      @Godschild9108 2 місяці тому +1

      I totally agree

    • @brunetteone4082
      @brunetteone4082 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed

    • @tatum2739
      @tatum2739 Місяць тому

      He needs therapy then, not run away with unresolved problems to forget about. Thats a recipe for disaster

  • @izzy1minton
    @izzy1minton 2 місяці тому +28

    I’m dying cause he’s so calm and your the one clapping back 😂

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +5

      Right!? She’s accusing him of yelling while she’s yelling and he’s just looking like … 😌

  • @ShannonDalek
    @ShannonDalek 2 місяці тому +86

    Savanna- You sound like your father. He hasn’t even failed yet and you are accusing him of failing. Let him live.

    • @jj234ate
      @jj234ate 2 місяці тому +3

      She does sound like Todd but I think it’s because she loves Gray so so much that she can’t help but worry. If I’d been through what these kids have it would be hard for me to let him go too.

    • @fawnedcan4215
      @fawnedcan4215 2 місяці тому +6

      Grayson thinks like Julie, he’s being practical

    • @Alex_10vesu-rx5yw
      @Alex_10vesu-rx5yw 2 місяці тому +1

      I said the same thing.

    • @amandavoss6335
      @amandavoss6335 Місяць тому

      If he's not ready and going for the wrong reasons, he will fail his classes, and she will have to pay for the extra time for him to catch up!

    • @RoyHill-ok1gc
      @RoyHill-ok1gc Місяць тому +1

      Savanah don't worry about Grayson he will be fine! I know he sounds like a ungrateful brat just let him live his life the way he wants! Just forget about him because he is at a age he doesn't and won't agree with anything you have to say, it's his age and he will go thru this until he grows up and goes thru the experiments of life! Believe me he has his own views , nothing is going to change him until he decides to do it on his own...love you, Savanah and just go along with your life....peace and harmony! Huggs

  • @lisawood126
    @lisawood126 2 місяці тому +231

    Savannah honey, you need to let Grayson grow.. I know it’s easier said than done. But he needs to find his own way, of course he will fall and make mistakes. We all have done that. But he needs a soft place to fall. I’m sure it’s hard to balance the Big Sister/ Parent thing. He needs his sister!

    • @michellejones716
      @michellejones716 2 місяці тому +13

      If he can pay for it, even if it's a class at the time, he should go. If after a year his grades are good, attitude is good, parents can help him pay for it. You have to let him make his own decisions and love him thru it.

    • @JuliaWilson-xb2ws
      @JuliaWilson-xb2ws 2 місяці тому +10

      He should go to college

    • @martyjohnson5453
      @martyjohnson5453 2 місяці тому +2

      She don’t care if he go to college it’s the fact that she has to pay for it. no big school is going to give that boy alone and I’m sure she’s right if she does pay, she just throwing away money

    • @tu3688
      @tu3688 2 місяці тому +5

      She has a say if money is coming out of her pocket.

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +4

      @@michellejones716 I agree. I don’t understand why she is giving him grief about wanting to start a semester early whenever she graduated high school a whole year early so she could start college a year early. It seems like she is not being fair and doesn’t
      want to grant him the same opportunities that were afforded to her. Also, I’ve heard her mention several times about being a single parent with a single household income, yet her single household income is well beyond most Americans’ dual household income, so I don’t really think finances are issue. I’m disappointed in this podcast.

  • @ahnagirl04
    @ahnagirl04 2 місяці тому +40

    I think Savannah is struggling to let him go. It changes dynamics in their safe little family unit they’ve created. I wish him well in his journey, and pray God brings Todd and Julie home asap.

  • @shellykast9922
    @shellykast9922 2 місяці тому +68

    I think Grayson has a calm spirit about him. I think I support him on this Savannah. It might be what he really needs to do, for him. Grayson has my vote on this one. Blessing to all.

  • @user-pg6iz8jx6j
    @user-pg6iz8jx6j 2 місяці тому +69

    Grayson is a smart guy. He knows what's right and what's wrong. Let him decide. He won't do anything stupid.

  • @ghfan4ever33
    @ghfan4ever33 2 місяці тому +110

    Savannah please let Grayson go to college. Be there to support him if/when he needs it but this is his life and he should get to go to college if that is what he wants to do. The hardest thing about being a parent is stepping back and letting our kids grow up and make mistakes. But the most rewarding thing is stepping back and watching our kids do great things.

    • @Roma-SRyan
      @Roma-SRyan 2 місяці тому

      Savannah needs support too.

  • @raquelbrown285
    @raquelbrown285 2 місяці тому +36

    Should’ve been an off camera conversation… but Grayson deserves to grow and experience things on his own like everyone else!

  • @kc3074
    @kc3074 2 місяці тому +41

    I cannot believe how grown up Grayson is! I think it will be good for him to go away to college and experience college life. A change of scenery will be good, especially after the way life as he knew it was turned upside down. I can only imagine how difficult his Senior year was with all of his peers knowing what was going on with his parents!

  • @amyc8442
    @amyc8442 2 місяці тому +41

    As a mother I think Grayson should be able at this point live a normal life and make his own decisions for his future. You’re not going to be able to tell him what to do without alienating him.

  • @teresahodgkinson3216
    @teresahodgkinson3216 2 місяці тому +61

    Savannah, let him go. Trust him. He is trust worthy. Support him.

  • @zoiealyse2009
    @zoiealyse2009 2 місяці тому +30

    Grayson deserves the experience of college. Its going to bring him so much joy between the friendships he'll make, the fun game days, parties, gaining more learning and academic knowledge. It also that time that transitions teenagers into adults. He shouldnt be robbed of that experience. Its also such a fleeting window of time to do it and its only 4 years

  • @haleywhitten1947
    @haleywhitten1947 2 місяці тому +26

    Grayson has always had a good head on his shoulders…. He has always been so logical and so balanced. PLEASE let him spread his wings, you’re his sister and yes guardian at the moment but not his mom. He’s GOT THIS. Todd and Julie raised a good man 🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @cyn3971
    @cyn3971 2 місяці тому +34

    Grayson is a Champ! Very mature and emotionally intelligent.

    • @rosemarylee1264
      @rosemarylee1264 2 місяці тому +3

      you can’t let the risk of a negative public opinion hold Grayson back have faith. Bad PR can always be beaten with the truth.

  • @juliesimonson9181
    @juliesimonson9181 2 місяці тому +35

    GRAYSON ROCKS ! He SHOWS UP FOR YOUR PODCAST EVEN WHEN HE DOESN’T FEEL GOOD. Allergies suck this year ! He’ll kill it in the sports field 😉👏‼️

  • @kristinkimberger9157
    @kristinkimberger9157 2 місяці тому +57

    Savannah, let Gray make his own decisions and be there for him

  • @christopherstewart9266
    @christopherstewart9266 2 місяці тому +21

    Believe in him Savannah. He is educated and humble. Give him his opportunity. U lived ur life. Allow him to make his mistakes. Just guide him

  • @scarlettbryant2150
    @scarlettbryant2150 2 місяці тому +18

    You need to support your brother in what he needs to grow as an adult

  • @jj234ate
    @jj234ate 2 місяці тому +26

    This literally breaks my heart ❤️ in two…I can literally feel the hurt and see the hurt from Grayson..he’s being so strong.

  • @cindymccomb4531
    @cindymccomb4531 2 місяці тому +29

    Grayson has grown into SUCH a handsome young man!!! I pray he stays grounded, keeps his principals in order..
    your parents and you, Savannah, have done an amazing job with this young man!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 prayers for all of you..

  • @HelpDHelpU
    @HelpDHelpU 2 місяці тому +18

    As someone who has graduated from college, college is for you to go and find yourself. I went to college at 17 I had never moved away from home didn’t really know what I was getting myself into but I was allowed to go & I did just fine. If you don’t allow him to make his own decisions he will resent you for it. Don’t be manipulative either Savanna by saying you won’t help him thinking that you will get the results you want from him it will just lead to even more resentment

  • @caisearbhan4738
    @caisearbhan4738 2 місяці тому +66

    Big Grayson supporter here. I believe it's extremely beneficial for him to attend school. The experience will not only be advantageous for him, but it will also allow him to establish some space from the family problems he has no power over. His eagerness to pursue further education shows his aspiration for self-differentiation, which is essential for independence. With his strong sense of judgment, Grayson is bound to excel!!

  • @AprilFaith3
    @AprilFaith3 2 місяці тому +23

    Agree, I’m 70 with 3 grown sons, two went to college 1 didn’t. Let Grayson do what he plans to do, it will be healthy for him to go make his accomplishments and a few mistakes. He will learn Savannah 💗 Just be a patient big sister! God Bless Y’all 🌸

  • @kerryquinn24
    @kerryquinn24 2 місяці тому +25

    Let him go and grow! We can’t always control things for others, even when we think we know best. That was a lesson this Mama of 4 had to learn.

  • @ayo2969
    @ayo2969 2 місяці тому +14

    If he gets accepted BE PROUD! In his defense he seems to have a better head on his shoulders then you or Chase had at that age. His life experiences has already put him ahead of most kids his age!

  • @phyllisgooden3526
    @phyllisgooden3526 2 місяці тому +64

    We love Grayson! He is wise beyond his years. DefinitelyTodd Chrisley's son❤️

  • @anitadanielsen169
    @anitadanielsen169 2 місяці тому +109

    Savanah, you need to listen to him. He's his own man today! He's not going for the wrong reasons. Leave him alone because he'll one day just leave you.Dont tell everyone what to do!! Worry about yourself.

    • @Katz1950
      @Katz1950 2 місяці тому +3

      Great, it she shouldn’t have to pay for it…..he can apply for loans!

    • @louisehorn8983
      @louisehorn8983 2 місяці тому +3

      Don't be so rude. savanna has been though a lot. Sure it's hard for to let go. How ever I do think he should go.

    • @tu3688
      @tu3688 2 місяці тому +3

      He can get loans and get a job.

    • @anitadanielsen169
      @anitadanielsen169 2 місяці тому +1

      @@tu3688 he wants an education first. He'll figure it out.Its his life!!!

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +1

      @@anitadanielsen169 👏👏 💯 🎯

  • @alexisnunnally7461
    @alexisnunnally7461 2 місяці тому +19

    He’s honestly making great points! I say let him go!

  • @phyllisgooden3526
    @phyllisgooden3526 2 місяці тому +19

    Such a wise young man! I think he will make 'wise' decisions and if he messes up, then he's got the right attitude.....to get thru it.

  • @juliesimonson9181
    @juliesimonson9181 2 місяці тому +15

    Savannah let him go when he wants because he’s so mature for his age . And be grateful he now wants to go too college . He’s right he’s worked since he was 6 so that’s why he’ll be wiser than most the students . I know it’s hard to think of him moving out but let him fly ❤

  • @rkwilson262
    @rkwilson262 2 місяці тому +23

    Please let him be his own agency. He knows what he wants. Just be there to hold him if he falls and needs your love.

  • @tammyvickers7779
    @tammyvickers7779 2 місяці тому +10

    Sweetheart plz let him go and grow. He needs this. I have two grown boys and I had to let them spread their wings. He’s a good kid. Support him.

  • @user-dh8tr9jl4m
    @user-dh8tr9jl4m 2 місяці тому +20

    My HEART goes out to such a family change dynamic. Savannah has to step up. Todd and Julie, now.
    God bless you all

  • @whereswaldo23
    @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +37

    8 minutes in and I have anxiety listening to Savannah yell and gripe at him and she’s projecting on him like he’s starting it. No. She is. She treats him like a 4 year old. He’s almost 18 and he’s more of a man and mature than her and Chase were both at his age. Savannah’s parents weren’t in prison when she was 17. In fact she was squealing like a 12 year old getting her Mercedes at her sweet 16 party.
    She needs to remember who and where they are in life. Grayson has had way more on his plate than she ever did at his age.
    I love the family and the show but her immaturity and controlling character is so cringy here. If this doesn’t stop I won’t listen to the rest.

    • @peggystein7994
      @peggystein7994 2 місяці тому +4

      She made my anxiety hit a high note as well. Dang… she needs to cut him some slack.

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +6

      @@peggystein7994 I agree. I listened a bit longer and she seemed to let up, but then towards the end she started up again and accused him again of yelling when he wasn’t. I couldn’t hardly stomach it. Very disappointed in her behavior but I think we got a glimpse of her true character. I couldn’t possibly live with someone so controlling.

    • @peggystein7994
      @peggystein7994 2 місяці тому +3

      @@whereswaldo23 he’s such a calm, intelligent young man! I think he has “ his head on straight “ and knows what he wants for himself.Seems very determined and strong. I pray he follows his own path.

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +4

      @@peggystein7994 me too. He’s like an old soul. ❤️

    • @melissataylor4745
      @melissataylor4745 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed!!

  • @gramnenew6196
    @gramnenew6196 2 місяці тому +23

    Geez!!!! Savanna RELAX!!

  • @jj234ate
    @jj234ate 2 місяці тому +63

    I honestly think it’s hard for Savannah because it’s hard to let him go..she has become a mom now.

    • @cate4338
      @cate4338 2 місяці тому +7

      she thinks its amusing to be a control freak because her father made a tv show out of it - only Savannah is actually insufferable with the loud voice and irrational harassment - Todd is smarter in regards to 'people'

    • @louisehorn8983
      @louisehorn8983 2 місяці тому

      Yes

    • @loua3926
      @loua3926 2 місяці тому +8

      I say BS! She’s a bully, not a mom!

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +2

      @@cate4338 absolutely. Very well said.

  • @judybrowdermoss2533
    @judybrowdermoss2533 2 місяці тому +30

    We do love Grayson. Sorry you kids have to go thru this. It is a nightmare. It's not your problem Grayson. Just you finish school and go to college and love your family. This will pass. Pray to God everyday. That is so important. Your life will never be the same if you keep pray in your young life. Make your parents proud. They are hurting as well. Respect your big sister and help her as much as possible. Take care of grandma as well. We be seeing you on tv with your parents real soon. Years and time go buy real fast. Just don't be angry. It's our system. We have to learn to do it their way. It's a hard lesson to us all. Love you and praying for you and your beautiful family Grayson. ❤❤❤😊

  • @shawnjacksonss1792
    @shawnjacksonss1792 2 місяці тому +18

    Gray didn't raise his voice. But Savannah did

  • @jenniferwhitmire9768
    @jenniferwhitmire9768 2 місяці тому +12

    I just wanted to jump through my tv and hug you both while I was folding my laundry. Savannah, your're really doing all you can for your family and carrying a load by yourself at your age that honestly, your not yet prepared for, and I say that with all due respect. If you were prepared, you would have had a kid at the age of 10 or 11. My mama bear heart just hurts for both of you with the family dynamics you are trying to manage. Prayers for all of your family!!

  • @brandioswaltschultz7355
    @brandioswaltschultz7355 2 місяці тому +16

    My oldest daughter went to University of South Alabama at 17 and she did great a few hard learning lessons. Gray will be just fine

    • @martyjohnson5453
      @martyjohnson5453 2 місяці тому +2

      She just doesn’t want to be in debt from his actions

    • @brandioswaltschultz7355
      @brandioswaltschultz7355 2 місяці тому +2

      @martyjohnson5453 Thank you and I definitely see your point. I hope you are having a blessed week

  • @tammyvickers7779
    @tammyvickers7779 2 місяці тому +10

    He is not raising his voice Savannah. He has a real calming spirit about him. Now YOU on the other hand….lol. You get loud lol 😆. It’s just your spirit and your passion when you feel strongly about something. I’m the same way. LOL. But Grey wasn’t raising his voice. 🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @jj234ate
    @jj234ate 2 місяці тому +31

    People need to cut Savannah some slack!!!! She has had to step into the parent role. It’s obvious that she loves Gray with every fiber of her being. It’s now her responsibility to look out for him. They’ve been close since he was little. Such an amazing bond. This has got to be hard for them both

    • @bbd1920
      @bbd1920 2 місяці тому

      Yes, but as a mother, she has to let go. If she doesn't, 37:59 he will pull away. 😢 The judge in their parents' case should have his/her ass kicked for putting them without both parents.

  • @gailknowles3804
    @gailknowles3804 2 місяці тому +27

    Savannah, you sound just like Todd. Grayson is a good kid, almost a grown man. He needs to spread his wings and fly. He knows the consequences of not making the grade. He has a plan and that's more than I did at his age. Let Grayson fly! I'm going to sell T-shirts that say "FREE GRAYSON CHRISLEY"

  • @aprilstimson4679
    @aprilstimson4679 2 місяці тому +9

    My son was exactly the same nearly impossible to wake up didn't clean his room but when he finished school and started working he suddenly became responsible and wakes up to an alarm clock cleans it was totally like night and day change

  • @jchandler320
    @jchandler320 2 місяці тому +2

    I also love that Grayson is letting you know that eventually he’s gonna leave for good. But also low key giving you good examples of him being himself and doing things for himself. Commendable considering you are both going through the same situation but at different level of responsibility in your lives 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @TerriLMason-li8uw
    @TerriLMason-li8uw 2 місяці тому +7

    Praying for y’all and for Grayson to make right decisions for his future. God be with each of you! 👍. Pray Todd and Julie be home soon!! ❤

  • @evac6395
    @evac6395 2 місяці тому +14

    I know it’s super tough right now for you both. You’ve said it, and so have your parents and Nanny Faye - Greyson is a good kid. Maybe letting him go will give him some more confidence and independence and let him be like other people his age. You both got thrown off the deep end with everything your family has gone through and you had to grow up really quick. Give him a semester to see how it goes and have some conditions in place. I think you guys are both doing amazing and as a mom I think that your family has done a great job with Greyson and he will be ok. Wishing you all the best

  • @sharonbetcher5063
    @sharonbetcher5063 2 місяці тому +12

    I love to hear what Savanna has to say , whether if it's good news or bad news. Got to get it off her chest !

  • @tanyabraziel-dobbs7820
    @tanyabraziel-dobbs7820 2 місяці тому +15

    Let him go! He is a good kid and you should give him a chance to show you. He will do great

  • @Mostlovedmeemaw
    @Mostlovedmeemaw 2 місяці тому +6

    Savannah I really feel Grayson is very mature for his age … let him prove he can be responsible and let him know you will always be there for him if he falls … your daddy did it for you ❤

  • @stephanieclyburn1805
    @stephanieclyburn1805 2 місяці тому +8

    I'm a parent! Let him go. If it's something he learns from, great! He might go and succeed all your expectations. You have to let him show you ❤

  • @carrollbridges6427
    @carrollbridges6427 2 місяці тому +8

    He'll do just fine because it's his choice, and Grayson is mature enough to handle college, and it will help him in more ways than people think

  • @cyn3971
    @cyn3971 2 місяці тому +6

    I wanna give Grayson a big hug. Did you listen to what he said? @ 3:58 ... Let him be! Also, he's his own person, not anyone else in the family. So what if he wants to go to football games and parties and doesn't clean his room, that's every kid going to college and most kids going to college don't know what they want to do. He's got a plan. Let him live! And it's not the same!

  • @marybourland1672
    @marybourland1672 2 місяці тому +8

    I love when you bring your family members on. I love to hear the wisdom that comes from Nanny Faye, prayers to you and your family 🙏

  • @brittaniesmith9820
    @brittaniesmith9820 2 місяці тому +5

    Oh....I've agreed with everything that Savannah has ever said so far...I love her. Until just this one thing I don't agree. I am not a parent, but I'm a 42 year old adult having been through some childhood trauma. Grayson is wanting passionately this opportunity. It's some both maybe some time away to further process as well as finding his own way. I've had my best realizations on life and coming through things when I've been alone and on my own. And Savannah you are amazing and so supportive. Grayson will look to you for support I'm sure if needed and always. This quote screamed that to me: "...well with you I don't sneak out I ask you..." That's a wonderful sign and means he knows he can come to you no matter what. ❤

  • @atminllc
    @atminllc 2 місяці тому +7

    He wants a normal life. He NEEDS this Savanah.

  • @DarleneChauvin
    @DarleneChauvin 2 місяці тому +4

    Listen to the kid. He is a mature young man. He has been through a lot which matures you a lot. Education is a good decision. He is not asking for you to pay for it. College helps young people grow up. He will learn so much taking business.

  • @ayo2969
    @ayo2969 2 місяці тому +4

    Savannah you have to remember you are a temporary parent but forever his sister! Don't risk pushing him away with your differences, you've had such a tight relationship with each other. Don't let that bond get ruined, for a temporary position...lol stop Todd-ing him so much!❤

    • @ayo2969
      @ayo2969 2 місяці тому +1

      I typed my message before you even talked about it. Listen to him,absorb it before responding

  • @beebeez90
    @beebeez90 2 місяці тому +5

    Grayson is a smart and intelligent young man. Hes actually mature for his age. He’s not a kid anymore. He deserves to live his own life as Grayson, not under the shadows of “mom and dad”. Let the young man experience life and become independent. Everyone doesn’t have the same experiences in life and everyone learns differently. Trust him, as his big sister I know it’s hard to let go especially after what happened but, you need to step back and become his biggest supporter. If not, it’s just going to cause friction between y’all two. At the end of the day he WILL do what he needs to do as an individual and a young man experiencing life and bettering himself and his future. He is his own person. Trust him and trust the process that he is going to become a great and successful man in the near future.

  • @denisemonk6170
    @denisemonk6170 2 місяці тому +6

    Perfectly said Grayson. You nailed it

  • @tiffanyirene1242
    @tiffanyirene1242 2 місяці тому +4

    I know it may be hard to hear and a lot may not agree or like it…but I love that Grayson is confident and knows he can still say his opinion. Not saying it’s right or wrong, but the fact that he feels safe enough to say it says a lot about how he was and is still is raised

  • @themrsrouse3165
    @themrsrouse3165 2 місяці тому +76

    You’re SO WRONG on this one Savannah!!! I’m SHOCKED!!!!

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +26

      I’d like to say me too but I can’t. She’s treated him like a 4 year old for the last year. She needs to back off or she’s going to push him away.

  • @user-ng2wo2pv3j
    @user-ng2wo2pv3j 2 місяці тому +11

    Grayson is mature and responsible for his age, he is behaving very respectfully, he is NOT yelling (why are saying he's yelling?), he has undergone such deep trauma and is trying to tell you what he needs and you are not hearing him. Listen to him. He is a great kid! Support him and let him go.

  • @melaniedietz7021
    @melaniedietz7021 2 місяці тому +5

    I agree with Grayson...don't hold him back...pump him up and who's to say its a mistake? Mistakes happen everyday

  • @ashleyspence6916
    @ashleyspence6916 2 місяці тому +2

    I agree with Grayson!!! You don’t have to agree with him Savannah! Just BELIEVE in him and give him a shot! You don’t need to keep him at home as a security blanket. He will never forget how his sister supported him! Your situation was DIFFERENT than his

  • @vanessahardrick4115
    @vanessahardrick4115 2 місяці тому +6

    OMG! He had grown up since the last interview. He is soooo handsome ❤

  • @blanchenickelson154
    @blanchenickelson154 2 місяці тому +6

    Give Grayson a chance to see what he can do, remember you learn by doing and it may be a mistake and if it is he will learn…

  • @RinasAMaker
    @RinasAMaker 2 місяці тому +5

    TBH - I’m happy to hear that Grayson wants to go to college, especially EARLY. Let him grow by letting him go. When he said (roughly), “I don’t want to hear about Mom & Dad everyday and know what I’m going to be doing every weekend” could be saying a lot. I know it’s a heavy burden on the family, but don’t make it the center of every conversation with the kids. He knows the situation, the details, the dates, etc., he doesn’t want to hear about it everyday. I’m pretty sure that’s an unpopular opinion, but he sounds so frustrated and angry. 🤷‍♀️

  • @tfmb.
    @tfmb. 2 місяці тому +3

    I know you all are taking on so many roles right now but don’t ever lose track of your real brother and sister roles with each other❤

  • @jenniferlogue6739
    @jenniferlogue6739 2 місяці тому +8

    You’re gonna have to let go of your fears and just have trust in him to know right from wrong . The more you strangle him to control he will back off take it from a parent who has twins of a son and daughter and has learned the hard way because I was a lot like you having fears but my two have showed that they are capable of learning for themselves for their next chapters both my kids are in college my daughter went away and realized she hated it and transferred home and transferred to community college to finish her semester and now she is transferring to a university in Chicago in the fall and my son is staying at community until he is ready himself to transfer to a bigger university

  • @lisabenneett4735
    @lisabenneett4735 2 місяці тому +5

    Savannah sounds far more immature than her little brother. He didnt raise his voice one time, yet she kept stating that he did. She sounds so whiny...She is the one with the tone, but yet for reasons beyond Grayson's control, she has power over him. It's so unfair for both of them. I just hope he doesn't come to resent her for it.

    • @whereswaldo23
      @whereswaldo23 2 місяці тому +2

      She refused to listen to him and she didn’t talk to him. She talked at him. Very disappointing.

  • @ValeriePaulsen
    @ValeriePaulsen 2 місяці тому +3

    Savannah… I heard in Grayson‘s voice how he was afraid you would stop speaking to him is his from the abandonment. He felt when your parents went to prison. Thank you for telling him you’re not gonna stop talking to him. I think he needed to hear that. How tough this must be on you to step in as his parent.
    At the same time, what a strange argument that he wants to go to college early and you don’t want him to lol but I get it’s the reasons that he wants to go in your mind. But I think he might need it.

  • @crosscountrylife4253
    @crosscountrylife4253 2 місяці тому +6

    I think with all Grayson has been through he don’t want to mess up his life cuz he gets it. He has seen what his older siblings have done and he don’t have someone coming after him about bad decisions. 2 friends cuz he gets how the media is a smart choice. He finished highschool early let him start life early. If it doesn’t work out then he can go the real estate way .

  • @kellyscountryliving4150
    @kellyscountryliving4150 2 місяці тому +4

    He’s ready. He needs to be able to go to college if he wants too. You should be proud of him for wanting to make something of himself.

  • @GerardoHernandez-sf1wt
    @GerardoHernandez-sf1wt 2 місяці тому +18

    Grayson do what you want - you get to decide your life, it won't be a mistake everything happens for a reason.

    • @victoriadavis4339
      @victoriadavis4339 2 місяці тому +1

      At this point
      He doesn’t have the Freedom to choose
      IF HE IS FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON HIS
      SISTER!
      HE and apply grants? Loans or scholarships
      Which he should be doing anyway
      😊

  • @GAMMY_08
    @GAMMY_08 2 місяці тому +23

    Gray Gray is gonna love ALABAMA! The football games are electric and it’s a great school! Southern hospitality is what you’ll find there.

    • @brandioswaltschultz7355
      @brandioswaltschultz7355 2 місяці тому +1

      Roll Tide Roll

    • @brandioswaltschultz7355
      @brandioswaltschultz7355 2 місяці тому +3

      Gray is very mature. He's a old soul. He will be fine Savanah just a new journey. Sending All Christlys love and prayers 🙏 ❤️

    • @JuliaWilson-xb2ws
      @JuliaWilson-xb2ws 2 місяці тому +2

      My parents went to Alabama. He will love it.

  • @mariefils3857
    @mariefils3857 2 місяці тому +2

    Savannah, I’m praying for you, your siblings, and your parents.
    I applaud you for raising your siblings. You are the #1 sister of the world, and I’m rooting for you.
    As much as you are giving him all the love and care he deserves.
    I know you are scared, and don’t want him to get hurt.
    Greyson misses his parents a lot.
    I can hear it in his voice. You and your parents did a great job raising him.
    He is going to be ok.
    Give him a little bit of trust while you’ll still going to be involved in his life while in College.
    I love your relationship.
    So much passion and love.
    He’s a smart kid.
    Praying for God’s guidance🙏🏾❤️

  • @mitzipoovey
    @mitzipoovey 2 місяці тому +6

    Savannah, you have to give up control and trust that Gray knows right from wrong.

  • @estherfarris3802
    @estherfarris3802 2 місяці тому +3

    Let him grow
    Bless his heart. He has grown up in front of us
    Why don't you want him to go to college. Didn't you go to college at 17

  • @dalskinnn1561
    @dalskinnn1561 2 місяці тому +3

    Savannah, let him go to college. If he fails, he fails. He’s been through enough. He is ready!

  • @William-vj6wz
    @William-vj6wz 2 місяці тому +2

    I am on team Grayson. He is at a point in his life that he wants to feel and act like all of the kids around him but he has been placed in a position where he is being held back do to his parents. After raising children of my own, I can tell you that it is the best thing in the world for him to fly and spread his wings on his own terms. He has to grow and learn and he is really maturely expressing that. When we as adults try to hold our kids back it is not coming from anything other than what we want even when we think we are protecting them. It's Faltime to let him go and let him see life through his eyes and make choices for himself. Any success or failure becomes lessons for future self so fly Grayson fly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @themrsrouse3165
    @themrsrouse3165 2 місяці тому +6

    Wow, Savanna! I get what you’re saying but you should ALWAYS Encourage your Child or Siblings!!!

  • @cyn3971
    @cyn3971 2 місяці тому +5

    Grayson is the wisest in the family, next to Nanny Faye. Sassy has the attitude and is gaslighting him.

  • @Jax-N12
    @Jax-N12 2 місяці тому +15

    Savanna you are a force to be reckoned with I am so proud of you and glad you asked Linsey not to show up at the court house her greed is why y’all’s parents are locked up I hope she turns her life around for her kids

  • @annebradley3125
    @annebradley3125 2 місяці тому +5

    let that boy live..he has to find his way..let him

  • @Carnivore-Explosion
    @Carnivore-Explosion 2 місяці тому +3

    this is so exciting. i love it when you bring on your siblings most of all Nanny faye. she is awesome.

  • @Alexisc.11
    @Alexisc.11 2 місяці тому +4

    Cant wait for this episode been waiting on return of Gray!!

  • @lorriminter7083
    @lorriminter7083 2 місяці тому +2

    I really want to say that as a parent ..we teach our kids and we let them have wings to fly ...Gray sounds like a good kid with a good head on his shoulders ..
    But we all make mistakes but we learn from them...

    • @lorriminter7083
      @lorriminter7083 2 місяці тому

      But I ask my kids ....do you always hear me ...they said yes they do

  • @CierraMullins
    @CierraMullins 2 місяці тому +1

    hi sav, i have watched the chrisley’s from day one and i know that there was a lot of hard decision making when you went to school early. having grayson learning on his own will make him choose what kind of life he wants to live. i would support financially to an extent in order for him to discipline himself. kids are never gonna learn unless you let them spread there wings a little bit. i know this situation is very difficult, but grayson has to live his life instead of someone else’s.

  • @jamieeee820
    @jamieeee820 2 місяці тому +4

    He was never yelling