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  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee  3 роки тому +227

    SUBSCRIBE TO THE CHANNEL! NEXT VIDEO IS JUICY!

    • @jessicamassey8427
      @jessicamassey8427 3 роки тому +6

      Hey Breeny, just started watched your videos.... Amazing. Thank you so much for being an inspiration to women out here.
      Please can you do a pep talk on how to maintain boundaries or doing it scared? What can we do when we try to put them in place n panic? Everyone talks about boundaries but when you have been through traumatic situations in life they are hard to set. Please help!
      God bless you sis....🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽

    • @lyonesslife9354
      @lyonesslife9354 3 роки тому

      Can we talk about that grounding? 9:25

    • @desireevofficial5690
      @desireevofficial5690 3 роки тому

      @@jessicamassey8427 00 OP p OP⁰

    • @safa1757
      @safa1757 3 роки тому

      I just discovered your chanel days a ago i love you so much !! God bless you ♡ you realy saved me , you the best . I learned a lot i need to watch your video over and over again to knw that am worth ppl do realy make us believe we worth nothing .

    • @capristirling3358
      @capristirling3358 3 роки тому

      I love ur Volga it’s helping eating disorders

  • @toyinviola
    @toyinviola 3 роки тому +1976

    “I’d rather be myself than be treated like I’m worth nothing” sooo powerful girl!! & such an important lesson for us girls to accept and uphold for ourselves

    • @nowletsgetgoing
      @nowletsgetgoing 3 роки тому +1

      An entire word 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @iamgod8901
      @iamgod8901 3 роки тому +4

      Is that wig? If it is what's the name please. I love your talk just yesterday I discovered you but gal I have listen to most of your videos today

    • @amit15299
      @amit15299 3 роки тому

      FOR REAL!

    • @Andreabella_518
      @Andreabella_518 3 роки тому

      You are gorgeous

  • @Yanisoskingdom
    @Yanisoskingdom 3 роки тому +553

    it all starts with your childhood. If you were taught to be worthy at a young age, you will act this way forever, but if you've had a difficult upbringing that makes you question your parent's love for you, you'll end up questioning everyone else's love towards you and eventually your own love towards yourself.

  • @graymaplanka
    @graymaplanka 3 роки тому +1163

    "I cost what I cost"
    -Breeny Lee, 2021

  • @AnuAgboola
    @AnuAgboola 3 роки тому +594

    Ladies; please check this with friendships too!! No more toxic friendships! Know your worth in friendships! Level up with friends don’t let them treat you like rubbish!

    • @rasheenas_show1187
      @rasheenas_show1187 3 роки тому +11

      💯💯I JUST said this!

    • @cecelila5844
      @cecelila5844 3 роки тому +4

      Facts!

    • @lilrabbitcuz
      @lilrabbitcuz 3 роки тому +9

      THANK YOU!! Peer pressure is something else. Friends forcing to drink or have casual sex no sis

    • @genevievevision2life150
      @genevievevision2life150 3 роки тому +8

      True that👌💯
      I let them go and now they want to enter back into my life, nah ah. Not in 2021
      This year is my Breakthrough and the years that follow.
      I am not tolerating anyone that only knows you when they want to use you and not even a "hi" text, never again

    • @grace2excell
      @grace2excell 3 роки тому +1

  • @shelbeefaith5540
    @shelbeefaith5540 3 роки тому +1227

    “If you want to know what your self worth looks like, look at all of the things you are tolerating in your life right now.” I needed that. Your videos always hit so different. 🙏🏽

    • @CeeceeH1819
      @CeeceeH1819 3 роки тому +8

      🎯

    • @KaramjitKB
      @KaramjitKB 3 роки тому +7

      Woah I reached this comment at the exact same time she spoke the words on the video 😂😂

    • @hlb333
      @hlb333 3 роки тому +1

      🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @qaqambamaseko7032
    @qaqambamaseko7032 3 роки тому +714

    "The highest price a man can put on you is marriage"
    - Breeny Lee
    Preech sister!

    • @sincerelycedrinna
      @sincerelycedrinna 3 роки тому +12

      and that's on Mary had a little lamb

    • @lilrabbitcuz
      @lilrabbitcuz 3 роки тому +1

      What does that mean

    • @elvirajameson3753
      @elvirajameson3753 3 роки тому +15

      @@lilrabbitcuz That women think a ring means something. He can still cheat & leave you destitute.

    • @grace2excell
      @grace2excell 3 роки тому

  • @chryspap2493
    @chryspap2493 3 роки тому +586

    "the reason we don't set boundaries is because we don't want to be rejected" This really touches me, i can see my self in it!!

    • @nomkhosiphahla8134
      @nomkhosiphahla8134 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah I'm starting to learn to accept rejection too..Have faith in God..God will never leave us

    • @chryspap2493
      @chryspap2493 3 роки тому +5

      @@nomkhosiphahla8134 I know, I feel really disappointed sometimes but I believe that God finally gives us what we worked hard to get!

    • @breanna7245
      @breanna7245 3 роки тому +7

      @@chryspap2493 I struggle with rejection too. Rejection is God’s protection.

    • @chryspap2493
      @chryspap2493 3 роки тому +2

      @@breanna7245 I believe in this too!!

    • @lachibolala114
      @lachibolala114 3 роки тому

      This is so true. My guy once told that he knew that no matter what he does i will come back to him just because of fear of rejection. I have tolerated so much of this for 3 years and despite that he dumped me for his new gf

  • @NissaTheGamer
    @NissaTheGamer 3 роки тому +369

    I’m 20 years old and I just ended things with a 22 year old guy I was dating because he did not put in as much effort as I was. Plus, he clearly was not in a place to be in a relationship emotionally, mentally, and physically in his life right now. I ended it because I knew my worth and knew I deserved to be treated better. Blocked and deleted.
    I’d rather be alone for another year than to be treated like trash. 💯

    • @tmack8460
      @tmack8460 3 роки тому +33

      Adjust your life to their absence rather than adjust your boundaries to their disrespect.

    • @ndalivlogs4356
      @ndalivlogs4356 3 роки тому +7

      Me too sis. I did it yesterday and I’m soo hurt. But it’s better then being in a bad relationship

    • @lilrabbitcuz
      @lilrabbitcuz 3 роки тому +1

      You didn’t know this before y’all got into a relationship sis

    • @NissaTheGamer
      @NissaTheGamer 3 роки тому

      @@lilrabbitcuz No. Because we weren’t official yet. We were talking for almost two months but since I knew my worth and knew what I deserved, I left. How about you think before you jump to conclusions. ☺️ have a nice day!

    • @NissaTheGamer
      @NissaTheGamer 3 роки тому +1

      @@ndalivlogs4356 No fr! I’ve been through this before and I said to myself in my head “I am NOT going through this again!” And ended it.

  • @Zumazumbai
    @Zumazumbai 3 роки тому +959

    Girl, let me TELL YOU... you always come at the RIGHT TIME! ✨

  • @AndrewSky101
    @AndrewSky101 3 роки тому +156

    “ I cost what I cost & I’m not desperate for you to buy ME” using the bag analogy🔥🔥🔥

    • @alliecano980
      @alliecano980 2 роки тому

      Energy 🙏🏻💅👑🔥🔥

  • @buhletamar8709
    @buhletamar8709 3 роки тому +498

    Can we talk about how much of a melanin queen she is? The sun definitely compliments her

    • @xxjellytots
      @xxjellytots 3 роки тому +15

      She's stunning, total girl crush

    • @sadecoco1502
      @sadecoco1502 3 роки тому +4

      I agree. She is absolutely breathtaking, and beautiful ❤️🌻

    • @yalexaalvarez3410
      @yalexaalvarez3410 3 роки тому +2

      Ikr 😍😍😍😍 she’s beautiful

  • @sandrineella5327
    @sandrineella5327 3 роки тому +80

    "a person will only treat you how you allow them to treat you" FACTS!!! I didn't know you had these as podcasts as well! Girl im about to listen to each of them every single morning because you stay dropping some gems!!!!

  • @kalynpressley3412
    @kalynpressley3412 3 роки тому +298

    That ending tho,
    "I cost what I cost, period.
    I said what I said."
    Yassss, speak Queen , speaaaaaaaaak!!!

  • @melanyfriedland856
    @melanyfriedland856 3 роки тому +88

    This hit me deep because it is so true and we often just push this feeling down. "You will always know when you are devaluing yourself because it don't feel good for your soul"

    • @CeeceeH1819
      @CeeceeH1819 3 роки тому +7

      Indeed. Having peace of mind, body, and SOUL is precious

  • @Badgirlsheebah
    @Badgirlsheebah 3 роки тому +326

    The more you stay, the more the person devalues you damn... going thru this.... 😊 she spoke to me

    • @jessicaakpan6085
      @jessicaakpan6085 3 роки тому +16

      Same baby gal, but damn we got to level up, no more being too emotional anymore

    • @nomkhosiphahla8134
      @nomkhosiphahla8134 3 роки тому +1

      This is very true..

    • @evolvingshan7970
      @evolvingshan7970 3 роки тому +5

      So was I love ... do you what is best for you ... my ex taught me women are emotional while men are logical ... become more logical and life becomes so much easier . You got this love ... I’m still healing , learning and evolving .💜 We are rooting for you

    • @Badgirlsheebah
      @Badgirlsheebah 3 роки тому

      @Evolving Shan your right thanks for the advice😍

    • @rafalos-zx6go
      @rafalos-zx6go 3 роки тому

      What part did she say that?

  • @lottaleben-p7x
    @lottaleben-p7x 3 роки тому +29

    "We accept the love we think we deserve."

  • @tacos6977
    @tacos6977 3 роки тому +352

    I'm 18 so I don't even think about marriage at this point but I think I learned from you to speak up and speak my truth and only speak kind words and hοld my head high, with God by my side. It's difficult sometimes, but I try everyday my best. I learned from you to trust myself and listen to what doesn't feel good to me no matter what.

    • @HaHaLooLoo
      @HaHaLooLoo 3 роки тому +19

      wow god has blessed you for seeing this video from such a young age

  • @AzetheReal
    @AzetheReal 3 роки тому +160

    I’m a man. I watched a few of your videos because my girlfriend has an issue with self esteem and because she seeks validation from me it’s hard to address her problem without her panicking. Between you and I, I’d want to marry her but if she doesn’t see value in herself I can’t take that risk. I commend you for not being feminist in your advice and speaking in a direct manner. You sound like me, so I’ll send her your videos in hope it hits different for her.

    • @lavishlovergirl
      @lavishlovergirl 3 роки тому +1

      I hope she gets the message

    • @babyc.3015
      @babyc.3015 3 роки тому +2

      I hope y'all have talked abt it

    • @wendypope9668
      @wendypope9668 3 роки тому +3

      How has your lady been? Has she been watching the videos and feeling a bit better about herself 🙂#Curious

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui 3 роки тому +2

      I don't understand this, "If she doesnt see a value in herself - I cant take that risk".
      Why? How is that a risk?

    • @dianawinda4061
      @dianawinda4061 3 роки тому +9

      How is her advice not feminist, and why is "feminist advice" indirect?

  • @afolabiadeneeke5210
    @afolabiadeneeke5210 3 роки тому +134

    “I cost what I cost” the energy for 2021 and that’s on period 🤎

  • @TheLifelover12
    @TheLifelover12 3 роки тому +8

    I saw a quote that said "you're too afraid to leave because you know they won't chase after you, and that is your answer"

  • @fidaus540
    @fidaus540 3 роки тому +192

    "what came first,the lack of confidence or you tolerating low down dirty behavior" PREEECH

  • @xoxomangakcorxoxo
    @xoxomangakcorxoxo 3 роки тому +82

    I needed this today. I am haunted by my high school memories because I was so desperate for love. I thought I was dirt. I let people treat me poorly and I would slouch and hate myself. Now, I feel better about myself and I won't let these guys who are worse looking, stupid, poor, and terrible personality take advantage of me.

  • @elinahenriksson7992
    @elinahenriksson7992 3 роки тому +151

    I literally prayed God for this a min ago🤍

  • @bluebutterflies8329
    @bluebutterflies8329 3 роки тому +27

    We accept the love that we believe we deserve. Once you love yourself unconditionally, you won't settle for less from others✨

  • @bettybutter6689
    @bettybutter6689 3 роки тому +84

    I’ve noticed you wear this fur coat anytime you talk about leveling up & your videos always come at the right time

  • @DOE.T
    @DOE.T 3 роки тому +13

    Yessss “you don’t set boundaries because you don’t want to be rejected.” Factssss

  • @ellenko2684
    @ellenko2684 3 роки тому +114

    Perfect timing, I was just asking God about this and not letting a man treat me less than I deserve. Its scary walking away, but its worth it ❤

  • @King.Cori.
    @King.Cori. 3 роки тому +24

    I'm a guy and this was amazing!!! That last I said what I said was it!! Much respect! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 3 роки тому +143

    YESSSSS HUNNNY!!! i just cut this guy off because he wasnt consistent. Im so glad i didnt give away my cookies..I dont have time for that in any relationship. ty for the confirmation

    • @deedee2m477
      @deedee2m477 3 роки тому +13

      Same I literally jus removed him from my Snapchat lol ignoring me cya!

    • @chrissymarsha2282
      @chrissymarsha2282 3 роки тому +24

      Blocked a guy who told me he needed “time” ... I found it abnormal for ME to be waiting a week for a guy. Tf I look like waiting for a guy? He was still watching my Instagram, though, but it still wasn’t enough. I’m not accept the “bare minimum” from guys

    • @NissaTheGamer
      @NissaTheGamer 3 роки тому +10

      @@chrissymarsha2282 OMG GIRL THIS JUST HAPPENED TO ME!!!! 💀💀 he was saying he was going through stuff but was still watching my story and posting like huhhhh?? Blocked! 😌✨

    • @chrissymarsha2282
      @chrissymarsha2282 3 роки тому +4

      @@NissaTheGamer 🤣🤣🤣

    • @pukulsrod3070
      @pukulsrod3070 3 роки тому +4

      literally broke up w my bf today cause of this! he needed more time away from me than to be in a relo

  • @indigobb
    @indigobb 3 роки тому +28

    Okay you’re literally giving all of us the parenting we deserved and I appreciate it so much !

  • @thankunext1625
    @thankunext1625 3 роки тому +213

    Ayeee the boogee fur is back! That's when you know Breeny's about to spill some real wisdom 🔥I love this energy

  • @deli1847
    @deli1847 3 роки тому +13

    I love to see women like you. I am 19 years old and still need to grow mentally. Women like you inspire me and help me to keep going and not giving up. Going through learning about yourself can be tough. Stay strong boys and girls ✨

  • @kudzienicolle
    @kudzienicolle 3 роки тому +29

    What you tolerate shows what your value is🙌🏽

  • @jroyal2229
    @jroyal2229 3 роки тому +21

    My Mom till this day still tell me that “I’m valuable” ✨

  • @graymaplanka
    @graymaplanka 3 роки тому +137

    See what the sun do on that melanin chileeeeee😭😍

    • @vn9933
      @vn9933 3 роки тому +5

      COME ON MELANIN♥️

    • @eddiedelarge12
      @eddiedelarge12 3 роки тому

      Did This Chocolate Beauty With This Adorable Accent ...Did Something to Her Face or NOSE ???? 🤔...no queen

  • @saharakarri6011
    @saharakarri6011 3 роки тому +32

    I needed this! It felt wrong to leave friends who didn’t value my time, but now i see that i did the right thing. I deserve more! Thank you breeny x

  • @elsugga3736
    @elsugga3736 3 роки тому +57

    There's a strong correlation between parents (mothers) telling their kids to avoid standing for themselves because "it's disrespectful" and people enduring their relationships. It's all about saving yourself.

    • @user-gx5hf2fn9j
      @user-gx5hf2fn9j 3 роки тому +13

      Preach!!!! I went thru this as a child. Everything I said was a problem , if I was honest about my feelings being hurt I was deemed as being “Grown”. It gave way for men especially to treat me any kind of way because I was always scared to stand up for myself.

    • @elsugga3736
      @elsugga3736 3 роки тому +10

      @@user-gx5hf2fn9j You've done the first step, acknowledging the roots of the problem will allow you to solve it. Just know that people only give what they have and most likely didn't knew better, now you can break this cycle.

    • @CM-pt9pt
      @CM-pt9pt 3 роки тому +6

      this is what my mom instilled in me and now as an adult, 25, i am learning to undo this. this is why my relationships have failed and i have always been stepped on

    • @elsugga3736
      @elsugga3736 3 роки тому +3

      @@CM-pt9pt wishing you all good things

  • @rhodaodain7005
    @rhodaodain7005 3 роки тому +3

    I actually cried because I just realized I don't love myself the way I thought I did. I don't value myself and I think I'm unlovable, coming to terms with this is so hard but so refreshing cause now I can change that.

  • @Kjradiant
    @Kjradiant 3 роки тому +108

    I really needed to here this. I’m literally in tears because the timing is insane. As in just last night I had to make a decision to set a boundary and have been worried but also aware that I was doing the right thing. Thank you for this one! 🖤🖤👑👑👑

    • @amiebaker5448
      @amiebaker5448 3 роки тому +6

      yesss girl!!✨✨

    • @anaromeradiez4070
      @anaromeradiez4070 3 роки тому +9

      My darling im sure you are gonna do great! Congratulations for your bravery! Remember you are suported 🥰😘😘😘

  • @cozmowiz5593
    @cozmowiz5593 Рік тому +1

    "You are responsible for your emotional intelligence. It's not about who hurt you or made you this way. It's about what YOU can do to fix YOUR problem. Playing the blame game will leave you stagnant."

  • @valentinamarialucia
    @valentinamarialucia 3 роки тому +180

    Im tolerating online dating! I hate it. I don’t think I can find love there. I always feel like shit when I use it, but I use it because I thought you can’t find love in this generation otherwise. I won’t use this shit anymore

    • @MyHammerGirl
      @MyHammerGirl 3 роки тому +61

      I totally hear you..I deleted the apps and decided to work on myself instead. I firmly believe that I have to become the person I want to attract. Best wishes for you!

    • @oliviajoy1589
      @oliviajoy1589 3 роки тому +27

      Delete them! Work on yourself and attracting good people in real life

    • @valentinamarialucia
      @valentinamarialucia 3 роки тому +4

      @funnyDayz @olivia joy guys I will thank you for the reply ✨

    • @ReadyorNot811
      @ReadyorNot811 3 роки тому +7

      I feel the same. I dont go out so idk how I'll meet someone new

    • @valentinamarialucia
      @valentinamarialucia 3 роки тому +10

      @@ReadyorNot811 when COVID is gone we’ll go out and live life ✨✨

  • @MiiSsMiiNa
    @MiiSsMiiNa 3 роки тому +2

    I come from an abusive home..my parents almost killed my self worth and my confidence..
    but I was stronger I ran away and now after severe scars..I am taking the bigger step..to work on my self worth..and this video ..I didn't look up for it, it was here, just as if it was meant that I hear your precious worth

  • @lelensibande996
    @lelensibande996 3 роки тому +50

    you for sure read "if God before me who can be against me" the day you recorded this video, and the thing is you weren't here to ask us, you came to TELL US and I love to see it!

  • @salsasoul4112
    @salsasoul4112 3 роки тому +51

    Knowing my worth is why I've been celibate for a few years. I feel so good. Why? Because I refuse to allow carnal desires to consume me. I'm disease free and my vaginal Ph ain't interrupted LMFAO 😝😂 I've stopped accepting mediocrity from myself first. Then, with everyone else. Great video. Thank you so much for your time 💖

  • @textliebe3141
    @textliebe3141 3 роки тому +43

    If you want to know what your self worth is look at the things you‘re tolerating.
    Period.🙏🏼❤️

  • @777SO
    @777SO 3 роки тому +13

    “I👏🏽HAVE👏🏽VALUE👏🏽 NO ONE CAN TAKE IT AWAY ... I COST WHAT I COST PERIOD! I SAID WHAT I SAID GOODBYE” I love you Bree🙏🏽♥️

  • @evagermaine5352
    @evagermaine5352 3 роки тому +22

    ‘I cost what I cost. PERIOD. And I said what I said. Goodbye’🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @liberianbeauti3529
    @liberianbeauti3529 3 роки тому +4

    It hit me so hard when she said “I’ll rather have some love then no love” that has been me. Accepting anything that a person does or say because I don’t want to lose them.

  • @maryweather5731
    @maryweather5731 3 роки тому +27

    I used to think that it was so easy to get out of bad relationships at the drop of a hat when the smallest red flag came about. But it happens so subtly. One brick is laid then all of a sudden you have a house. I had never broken up officially woth anyone before and let it go on for a little over half a year but when I did I never looked back. Now I can gladly say from that experience ill never allow myself to be treated anything less than what I truly deserve as God's child again.

  • @laurenbell6772
    @laurenbell6772 3 роки тому +8

    You’re a blessing girl 🙌🏽 adding that affirmation that "i'd rather be by myself than to be treated like I'm worth nothing" to my list & repeating it everyday

  • @someonesomewhere9254
    @someonesomewhere9254 3 роки тому +38

    I rather be by myself than to be treated like i worth nothing

  • @cassiemengato
    @cassiemengato 3 роки тому +7

    "A STANDARD communicates what is it that you NEED to feel SAFE" 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @atzirytrujillo5072
    @atzirytrujillo5072 3 роки тому +34

    This is a sign 💙

  • @goldenbrowns6403
    @goldenbrowns6403 3 роки тому +11

    “I cost what I cost”. The end of an old Era and the beginning of a new Era. Thank you sis ❤️. You look stunning 🥰

  • @FredaO.Boateng
    @FredaO.Boateng 3 роки тому +27

    Why is breeny looking amazing in every single video upload 😚😚😭

  • @simonesquared
    @simonesquared 3 роки тому +47

    love u

    • @caglavita5954
      @caglavita5954 3 роки тому +1

      Omg Simone I thought of you when I was watching this lol. You're always talking about knowing your worth, keeping your standards high and it's so true!! Luv you sis

  • @SaharaColeman
    @SaharaColeman 3 роки тому +31

    How gorgeous is this thumbnail pic?! Light is hittin 🤩🔥🔥🔥

  • @LinaSchonten
    @LinaSchonten 3 роки тому +7

    Wow. I resonated with the importance of having parents that validate you.. Because I see how in my “relationships” how I look for older men to validate me 🥺😭

  • @emilyg8914
    @emilyg8914 3 роки тому +31

    I so needed this rn !!! whenever I tell guys I’m waiting for marriage they try to push my boundaries it can be tempting but God is over everything❤️

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 3 роки тому +4

      Don’t say a thing sister. Those words brings out the predatory nature of the wrong men. They will see you as a conquest and try to make a fool out of you by seducing you. Keep quiet about that and if it ever comes up be vague. Say something like I’m not ready.

  • @betteryou6098
    @betteryou6098 Рік тому +1

    I loved how she said, parents needs to validate you so that you can’t let others tell you how much your worth, or even worse thinking that you’re less and not worthy at all

  • @lebo_shozi
    @lebo_shozi 3 роки тому +33

    You are so relevant at all times . It’s like you always talking to me

  • @hillarybart
    @hillarybart 3 роки тому +12

    You’re literally the big sister I never had. Thank you!!

  • @toyinviola
    @toyinviola 3 роки тому +64

    Yesss Breeny 🔥🔥 I’m sure not the only one who saw your first level up video and was forever changed!! I’m so happy your channel blew up and led to this direction because wow you have truly helped me know my worth and increase my self-esteem! Thank you so much Breeny 🥺🤍

  • @MaryJane-zt3pn
    @MaryJane-zt3pn 3 роки тому +13

    This is just gonna be on repeat till my stubborn brain gets it. We all need this instilled in us.

  • @Nehway
    @Nehway 3 роки тому +14

    I will literally drop everything to join your masterclass. This was a WORD!

  • @ladywade111
    @ladywade111 3 роки тому +12

    Honestly, Breeny is the real MVP of UA-cam

  • @TysonMichael77
    @TysonMichael77 3 роки тому +8

    Ladies listen, you are the damn thing ❤️ love yourself. You deserve so much more in life 🙌🏾 you must value yourself first. If someone doesn’t respect you, reflect back on what you want and how you should be treated and then set boundaries. You deserve to be respected

  • @hollynjabo7322
    @hollynjabo7322 3 роки тому +6

    I literally paused this video and went ahead and sent a message I’d put off for a while. I need to listen to this EVERYDAY!!!

  • @kindraprioleau2322
    @kindraprioleau2322 3 роки тому +16

    You are an amazing speaker and teacher! I have been going through many things in my life that I’m working on piece by piece. But I never seem to put any energy into myself. This year I’m being selfish is a good way. Protecting my energy and the amount of effort I give. Thank you for laying it out for me in a way that didn’t feel forced. You are beautiful!!

  •  3 роки тому +18

    Exactly. The highest price a man can put on you is : being his wife. Perfectly said.
    My daddy told me that long ago.

    • @lilrabbitcuz
      @lilrabbitcuz 3 роки тому

      It’s actually gf and wife or else you’re just gonna be having random sex forever

    • @Carmelgal92
      @Carmelgal92 2 роки тому +1

      Even then the wrong man will disrespect his wife been there. Put out the best energy and standards to make sure we attract the right man who values marriage. Some can pay the down payment (marriage) but cant afford the monthly payments & maintenance (values).

  • @mariapass4962
    @mariapass4962 3 роки тому +12

    This was me once I felt like I sold myself low very low never will I again you are so right when you learn how to love yourself you way of thinking change

  • @TumiEdun
    @TumiEdun 3 роки тому +25

    Love your videos so much! During lockdown I’ve been levelling up in so many ways - coming out of my shell, putting myself out there more and your videos really helped with that🤍 thank you!!!

  • @Igobymeliss1220
    @Igobymeliss1220 2 роки тому +2

    "I cost what I cost. Period." Thank you for this my eyes are now open to where I need to grow and your message will stay locked in my mind forever. 🙏🏾

  • @khethiwezulu5341
    @khethiwezulu5341 3 роки тому +29

    Look at God, this came when I really needed to hear.

  • @Simsimmaification
    @Simsimmaification 3 роки тому +4

    " I cost what I cost. Period." Love it

  • @malaikadesire2354
    @malaikadesire2354 3 роки тому +14

    This has literally brought tears to my eyes, you’ve said everything that im battling 🥲🥲 thank you I actually NEEEDED to hear this

  • @shimmer410-o2i
    @shimmer410-o2i 3 роки тому +1

    She's gonna make a great mom.

  • @annaperry3934
    @annaperry3934 3 роки тому +8

    I'm watching this every morning till it's ingrained

  • @andreeailie9053
    @andreeailie9053 3 роки тому +1

    Raising your vibration and learn to love yourself. I am valuable and I deserve the best.......Do not lower your expectations and never give up on your dreams🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @deegray87
    @deegray87 3 роки тому +3

    My parents have never reformed self value. I come from family of negativity which is why I keep myself away from them. My dad values me at low frequency by saying i can't do something . Ive had to focus on myself and where I wanna be life

  • @n.c.6211
    @n.c.6211 3 роки тому +2

    "If you don't love yourself you are a bottomless pit" Yes!!!

  • @kenyatah907
    @kenyatah907 3 роки тому +5

    You’re literally always posting my exact struggle it’s crazy at this point

  • @sophietucker3163
    @sophietucker3163 3 роки тому +2

    Breeny you are the reason I now see myself as a queen and have a man who loves and respect me and gave me commitment before anything else cause that was a standard I set, a boundary I set. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 3 роки тому +9

    “ The bag cost what it cost and that’s my boundary “- Breeny
    Until you love yourself you won’t ever feel loved.

  • @Mechilove
    @Mechilove 2 роки тому +2

    Ur simply a genius babe😂😂😂I watched ur video just yesterday same day a guy I had an appointment with called and cancelled ,I sent him a smiling emoji saying very well then ,next time is ur call I went about my day ,he called around 2pm asking me to come I said nope I had other engagements he was scared 😂😂😂he started begging me to come and when I finally did coz he is a good spender😂😂😂I said to him next time you cancel our date you will never see me again he was shocked like what!!!!!!!i I told him I came coz he was the one
    I was so happy within my self love you breeny

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 3 роки тому +4

    I sooo needed to hear this today, than you for the reminder Breeny! It is soo true that you manifest people and situations in your life based on how you view yourself and your beliefs about you! We need to stop waiting for others to love and validate us and learn how to validate ourselves! We are God's daughters and are soo loveable and worthy! Never forget that ladies! 🙏🏻💞

  • @alicekacil8378
    @alicekacil8378 3 роки тому +1

    I'm very blessed, I'm 17 years old and I've never had a bf and I've always given myself value, but after following your videooooo
    I COST WHAT I COST.

  • @EV32178
    @EV32178 3 роки тому +10

    Love from Paris 💞
    I'm 32 and I know my worth wayyyyyy better ❤️

  • @diazms2902
    @diazms2902 3 роки тому +2

    God’s timing is always right. He knows I needed to see this! Thank you sis ❤️

  • @dogeatdog6157
    @dogeatdog6157 3 роки тому +4

    "Know your worth" =/= Everyone is valuable

  • @parrish1908
    @parrish1908 3 роки тому +1

    I have value! No one can take it away and no one can add to it either! I cost what I cost period!!!!! Yes my favorite part! You preached a worddddd

  • @serena-ic
    @serena-ic 3 роки тому +5

    I HEAR YOU .... SIS❤️. Self-Love is a daily work in progress for me. I am proud to say I am more self-aware of its value in me than ever before. Thank you for the continued reinforcement of its importance in lives of us all especially in all of us Beautiful women of Color 🖤 🤎🖤🤎🖤🤎👏🏾🤗😘🥰

  • @MaverickQ2
    @MaverickQ2 3 роки тому +2

    This video brought tears to my eyes. You hit the nail on the head. I will not tolerate crap anymore.

  • @johnblessing7487
    @johnblessing7487 3 роки тому +3

    I cost what I cost,this one hit me,breeny contents always hit different

  • @officialjasmineclarke
    @officialjasmineclarke 3 роки тому +5

    Wow... This is worth replaying over and over until it gets deep in our spirit.
    I love this genuine wisdom, Thank you! ♥️

  • @carolechero
    @carolechero 3 роки тому +2

    This video is so POWERFUL, Speaks to the soul👏🏽

  • @paulineaird5040
    @paulineaird5040 3 роки тому +5

    Wow I was nearly crying listening to this. Thank you.

  • @maggief1851
    @maggief1851 3 роки тому +2

    I felt depressed today,this mad me feel much better.I got our of my bed and worked out for 3 hours

  • @janhvidixit5911
    @janhvidixit5911 3 роки тому +4

    omg I love this. This rejuvenated me like I was really about to start my hoe phase but after watching that video and this video, I'm back to focusing and working on myself instead of loneliness and the devil getting a foothold in my life.