Arie Learns Bekah M.'s Age - The Bachelor
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- Bekah M. reveals her age to Arie on their one-on-one date. (From The Bachelor Season 22, Episode 4) Watch The Bachelor Mondays at 8|7c on ABC!
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She’s so dreamy. She almost seems more mature than him in her way of communicating.
That’s exactly why I thought she was going to say a much higher number
agreed !
@Babydoll it’s true
In real life she’s actually very immature
Not many people now bekah is my aunt and i was just with her today but no one will believe me
Arie: I don’t know if she’ll be ready
(Bekah has a child a year later, her own house, and her second child on the way)
🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
lol
anne smith i mean she clearly is very happy and if you’re not ready why would you have a second child with your significant other
anne smith lmaooo
LPempty because accidents happen lol
lindsaylovexo she seems like a responsible mother who cares and loves her family. Aka her changing into someone like this even if it was an “accident” proves that yes she was ready
She is so freaking cute. She’s too cute for the bachelor.
Næp Sæck ikr I’m gay for her 😂😍
yeah she's too young
Yeah needs to do princess birthday party
Næp Sæck she has her own podcast on youtube her channel is bekah martinez
cswtx apparently she’s too young yet she’s already had a baby and has another on the way. She’s mature for her age and is ready
He low key acting like a Dad
*RIGHT!?* GLAD U CAUGHT THAT TOO
he high key acts like a dad the whole damn season ugh how did i not realize it until I rewatched clips from that season
"oh my god, young pussy I like it"
@@A580-f5e FR
That’s what happens when there is such an age difference....
I think she is really mature for her age!
She is but not to the point of settling down in a serious relationship long term. She is still figuring herself out and discovering what she wants especially at that age. He is basically saying that he doesn't want to be someone's teacher, he wants a woman to be in a secure place in her life and knows what she wants because thats where he is at. Some older men like a younger woman that they can teach, guide and mold. I don't think that is what he wants.
I got married at her age. Some people are ready for different things at that age.
Bcdf 1930 I think she is... But at the same time I think she just wants to have fun. And while that provides a thrill in a relationship. In some aspects it can become kind of an obstacle for them.
C0_0KI3 Well said!
She's a good actress
What I don’t understand is half the girls on this show were 23. Literally MONTHS older than her most likely. So why did no one call them out🙄
This was Arie's season, he was 36. The two Bachelors since then were 27/28. It's not exactly the same thing age-gap wise.... and also people WERE totally up in arms about the girls on recent seasons being really young and immature. They DID get called out.
@@jammastrjess I think she meant on Ari’s season specifically! As in various other women on his season were 23 but it felt or was treated different than 22. However I realized both of you commented on this video ages ago 😂😅
It doesn't make sense at that age really not. Im young and i thought i wanted that but its just fantasy.
“Do you like to like still like to go out” lmao that was funny
You forgot the "like" before Do, lol
😂😂😂😂
Aw the look in her eyes. You could tell she knew she had just dropped a bomb and it would probably be a deal breaker. She held it together really well by even attempting to continue to make eye contact despite feeling so vulnerable.
Really Though what does that have to do with her reaction?
Also, it’s not pervy for someone who’s 22 to date someone in their 30s.
Arie said "like" about as many times as a teenaged girl anyways.... it's all good!
JackieR107 now I’m probably gonna notice every time he says “like” for the rest of the season. That’s gonna be annoying
Katie Huynh eeep! Sorry! 😂😂
That's me too.I did not realize how many times he said, "i love that" till snl pointed it out on their latest parody of the bachelor it is so true.
She's probably like, "this guy is like a pussy" lol. Cause he's like I dont like to party anymore... like... But to be serious Bekah is like really hot
What's his bucket said "you know what I mean" like 75,000 times.
I’m currently 22 and I could not POSSIBLY imagine dating a 36 year old omg😂
Sam Ryan sameeeeee
I would 🙂
Hey hey heeeey! Watch yo dirty mouth
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Yeah definitely depends the person. I understand his discomfort. Its reasonable. Theyre in different stages of life. I dont like Arie but I respect him considering this seriously and it worked out for the best
Corinne and taylor were 23 and nick was 36, no one cared!
Yeah well we see just how mature Corinne was and how she ended up.
Yeah but everyone knew how immature corrine was so no one was justified nicks choice
Yeah, but I don't think Nick was that mature, so maybe the separation didn't seem so great.
"way out of his league"?! She's a nanny, not a rocket scientist. She's cute, yes, but not much cuter than he is handsome. He's from a famous family and fairly well to do. She's a cute girl...that's great but do you know how many cute girls are out there her age - loads.
I think it’s because her age was “hidden” until this reveal.
She is one of the most beautiful women who ever went on the show. I haven't watched one episode, but I can say if he doesn't close the deal with this girl because he is thinking about a forever that cannot be guaranteed no matter how much thought and time you put into this process, it's his loss.
Davies Sidney i dont think its ever a good idea to choose your mate for life merely based on their looks, but thats just me🤷♀️
The definition I have of the quality 'Beautiful' is 'Exciting to the senses' 'Evoking emotional and intellectual admiration'. It transcends pulchritude.
Davies Sidney is that not still based on physical impressions though?🤔 Especially since you said that youve never watched an episode yet are still claiming shes the most beautiful woman appear on the show. Im not trying to disagree/agree with your claims, but I still stand by my initial comment that you shouldnt base that kind of decision on physicality alone.
It's not based on physical impressions per se. Beauty unqualified, is comprehensive. It constitutes the Voice, Bearing, Intelligence, Gait etc. Just all the attributes that someone can possess that elicit enchantment. I watch this clip and see her pushing back on his ideologies about dating and I already see enough qualities to reasonably conclude that she is beautiful. And not just physically. For me anyway. But I also saw the other clip where she arrived in a nice car and said just enough. She is cool. And that's what I'm saying, If I'm on the show and I had my druthers, I would stop everything, run off with her and see what happens.
I take it you don't think she has much more to bring to the table than physical beauty?
She's super-CUTE, but not BEAUTIFUL.
She’s super mature for her age and he never questioned that before i don’t get why it’s such a big deal
Mature for her age but not enough as to reach a certain point in life for marriage and kids. But you are right, the guy knows this girl for weeks. How come he never asks her. That just shows how surfaced their talks had been.
Nguyễn Thị Tú Oanh Ummmm I got married at 22.... and have been happily married for just shy of 9 years. Not all 22 year olds are the same.
Nguyễn Thị Tú Oanh
Well she’s married with a child now
@@bunny_0288 Okay but happily married to a 40 year old? What's the age gap between you and your spouse? That was a part of his concern.
Age is but a number Arie. Bekah is actually very mature and well spoken.
Age isn't just a number. Maturity comes from life experience. Most people at 22 are not mature enough for a real relationship or even understand what a real relationship is.
Interesting point. But for that I have to say I disagree. Everybody has a different life. Some at 22 are very mature for their age. They may have paid for college alone by working a full time job, they may have lost a parent and raised their siblings, they may have moved out and worked to pay their rent. Others who are let's say 32 may still live off their parents wealth, never had to study at college and balance that out, never learned to pay their own bills. Each life brings different experiences and thus maturity comes at different ages.
IamEm plsz don't knock people who live with ther parents I'm trans and have to live with mom and I'm still young at 33
What makes you think I was knocking her down. I am 22 and live with my parents. My sister lives with my parents at 24. That isn't the point. I was saying Arie was being rude for not giving Bekah a chance.
yea but... he looks like a dad lol
when you realize in 4 years he will be 40 and she will be 26
rebecca anderson I’m 27 my girl is almost 42....
rebecca anderson ps: both female, been together for 3 years. Age is Just a number
oh no I have nothing against it, it definitely is different though. Just thinking about how he was 14 when she was born is crazy to me. I'm not hating. I bet you guys are a beautiful couple.
Im 24 and my bf is 31!!!
I'm 25 and my current bf is 9 years older than me.
today she’s 26 with two kids and a house in california! love you bekah!!!
Love how here she was seen as the youngest and godd she has her whole life to live, and now she’s pregnant and ready to settle like, yesss don’t judge a book by its cover damn
Andrea and finishing her degree at her University. 😄
Usually the girls on the Bachelor are so annoying but she is so cool!!!!!
The difference between this conversation and the ones Peter would have....lol
Peter has two brain cells and they are fighting eachother for survival
"Excuse you what?"
Lol and two seasons later everyone is 21-25
FR LMAO
Arie's concerns are valid...
Cynthia Waithera yes they are. Yes she seems very mature for her age but definitely not on the level of settling down and getting married to someone with a lot more life experience than her.
Well now she’s a mother so
She's clearly so intelligent and thinking 10 steps ahead and more advanced than him just by how she expresses herself so logically and by the questions she asks. How'd someone this bright end up on The Bachelor in the first place?
What planet did you come from? Weirdo. Her answers were irrational overall. Why are you bloviating about her intelligence? Lol.
Dude she’ll turn 23 in the next month. All the suspense about age is for the ratings boost.
No way. 23? Sorry, but that is pretty much the same as 22. ;)
Arie for the first time shows up his vocabulary. I never heard him say anything beyond beautiful, awesome, like like like, i love it, cool. How does he sell houses, this house is so, like, beautiful, and like, awesome, like, you would love it. So you pay in cash? Like, your money is so cool. I start to realize his conversations are dull and surface, although he stroke me as a very fun character 5 years ago. Hope things heat up soon.
Yeah, I feel like with these girls he has not surfaced a real connection yet, so it is hard to have a conversation that is meaningful to them. These relationships he is "forming" aren't there yet, which is why when he is at a loss for words he just starts kissing them, and he cannot keep up a proper conversation.
“Like, your money is so cool.”
WHEN ME AND MY BF WERE WATCHING THIS SEASON WE HATED WHEN HE SPOKE BECAUSE HE JUST SAID NOTHING, AND "YOU KNOW" A BUNCH, HE IS VAPID
Being articulate does not necessarily mean you have depth. I don’t know where you got that idea from but you need to get a life. Just from reading your comment I can sense you are dull. Much duller than him.
@@vince4213 HAHAHAH talk about someone needing to get a life.. you’re the one who’s got the vote in that aspect bud. i’ll never understand this theory under which people feel it’s necessary to personally attack someone because they have a difference of opinion. it’s a pretty easy notion to arrive at that people who can’t form more than a handful of words while having a conversation, probably don’t have much depth to them.
I thought she would be like 19 lol I'm not crazy, they made a big deal about her age...
Yeah I thought so too or like 18 I was thinking lol
You have to be 21 to go on the show. But 22 is just leaving college age, Aries concerns were completely valid, although I believe she’s very mature acting and was totally ready for marriage.
She recently said on the podcast that she tried to tell him when they were alone and the producers swept him away. They wanted it to be a big deal but looking back she is one of the most mature people to appear on the show.
Arie was such a great Bachelor because he wasn't afraid to ask the girls deep questions. For instance, when he asks BeKah M., "Like, do you like to, like, still, like, go out a lot?" That was a real turning point in their relationship. Personally, I don't think they were able to recover.
I don't think we'll ever, as a nation, find someone who can live up to his legacy. Thank God for Amazon, where you can purchase full past seasons. We will never forget you, Arie Jr. Thank you for your service.
Siobhan Connolly the amount of the word like in that question 😂
i think the whole age difference being a problem isn't coming from the fact that its big gap but rather from a place where their lives are in different places. If they decide to grow old together, growing old is going to be different. He wants to settle down and I'm sure he means it in a nice way, because he doesn't want to slow her life down because of him or for him to be the reason she misses out on having fun. Yes people get married young, but personally, I feel like that happens with 2 young people, where they are moving through life in the same stages.
Markel is 23 and nobody's talking about that!
I actually thought 23 was young too, I thought, hmm maybe she'll be around until mid season. I actually thought bekah was 25 or something (my age).
Bekah is the youngest person ever in the Bachelor Franchise.
Rachel S no she’s not the youngest person on it was 21
*the girl was 21, Mackenzie on Chris’ season and Cassandra on Juan Pablo’s season
Celeste Jacquet i believe her age is only a big deal is because he is an older bachelor.
Arie really likes her. Judging by their conversations ya know, they just flow with ease. The topics they talk about are a lot deeper compared to those with the other girls. Don’t get why people are making a big deal about her age.....she’s young but whatevs. It’s reality tv after all
She is looking at him like, are you serious!!! , who cares about my age, look at me NOW am full of life and love for YOU. but you know men are all the same, they aren't made for love , i hate this part of the show 😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
He has had his fun. He wants to settle down in a monogamous relationship. 10 years ago her age would have totally be irrelevant but he wants different things now. Whats wrong with that? If anything I admire his evolution as a person and a man. You shouldn't want the same exact things especially in a partner In your 30's as you did in your early twenties.
Alisha C i don't think she is fun because she still young , but because she is so smart, there is a big difference. Yes im with you, people change with time they get to be less joyful, and because of that im angry about him, life gives you the chance to have joy again, with such a lovely woman, just be happy, follow your heart.
No one is saying that she is fun because she is still young. When I said "he" had his fun, I was referencing his carefree nature in his twenties about who he dated. I don't think he is less joyful I think he is trying to be rational with choosing his mate along with following his heart. He is thinking ahead about how her life might be affected as well in being with someone older who wants to live a more stable and settled lifestyle. He also doesn't want to feel like he is holding her back from doing what she wants as a woman in her early twenties. There are other woman that are in a stable position in their life and want commitment and a family sooner than later that are full of life and can give him joy too. You shouldn't just follow your heart when deciding on who to be with, there has to be a level of rationale in making this decision. Like "Can I see myself getting old with this person?" "Do we have a common ground with our fundamental beliefs?" "Are we going in opposite directions of our life right now or on a similar path?". I don't think he could answer all of those questions with certainty with her.
With Bekah it's hard to know what you're getting. She has short hair, hangs out in pot country, sometimes colors the hair, sounds like a man, seems real mature but in real life probably goofy.
what pure folly. you know you're full of shit.
The “He’s 24” before Jessica even existed.
😂😂😂
Jacob Painter HAHAHA
Stunning, She looks like Jacqueline Kennedy
Lol you are right she does!
Yep!! 😃
Why they making big fuss about her age this season!?😏😏 Its like bekah is the only one woman who dated morethan 10 years gap to the bachelor. The past season didnt brag the age
Janica Mae Sildo for the drama and make people watch
The problem is that there isnt one damn woman near his age there. And he ditched the only 30 plus the first night
I don't follow that either. They seem to have always had women on that were much younger than the men. Not sure why they are scared of getting women on the show closer to the age of the men.
LOL she's 22 what about the other girls on this season who are 23 and 24? Why does only Bekah M's age matter that's not really fair. :/ NOT every young person is NOT ready for a life long commitment. Some people are actually mature at that age and are ready. It really all depends on the person more so than the age. He needs to give her a chance and see where it goes, I am glad he gave her the rose but sounded very hesitant BUT she also kind of admitted that she is not ready. If she clearly stated that then what is he doing and what is she doing here? He wants a wife and she literally just said to him she isn't ready. I don't get it.. I love Bekah but I am not sure what will become of them if he is ready and she is saying she isn't? But I think its kinda crazy to say she might not be ready because of the age difference you never know until you try and there are other girls not being questioned about there ages. I think its weird and shady first of all that he didn't even know her age that is like one of the first things you do when you meet someone you find out there age. This situation is odd to me if you're going to question just this 1 girl that isn't fair because of other girls this season being 23 and 24 and some might be more mature than others and are ready. Glad he gave her a chance though. :)
Its true people all over the world marry at a young age and it works out very well.
Write a whole published article why don’t u
Why are they making her age such a big deal like is not the first time in bachelor history where there is an age gap I think she's very mature and so full of life don't see the problem
I was 33 when i met my now husband. He was 21. Very happy together 12 years later.
She is the cutest human being alive omg
I love her so much. She’s thriving in life now and her little family is sooo cute ❤️❤️
Why does this show even cast 22 year olds if they just get eliminated for being too young? His loss!
I’m 22 and getting married! Yes at 22 you can know what you want. ❤️
He's so crushed
That reaction right there, is the reason why she didn’t tell him how old she was. Or the girls in the house. She’s really mature, you can see that because of how everyone treats her, they don’t treat her like a child because she doesn’t act like a child and knows what she wants. But now that her age is revealed is like they won’t take her seriously anymore and it sucks.
Funny how she is such a smart ass and he is such a dud!
B: “I didn’t want you see me through the lens of my age”
A: “Well I haven’t”
B:“Because you haven’t known lol”
A: “I know”
Her eyes are so sparkly 😭
I really don't like him
Monserrat Treviño He's secretly demanding and girly.
I dont like him either. He seems sketchy and his emotions towards some of the women feel very very fake.
It dosn't matter. You don't have to date him so why do you care?
She's just sharing her opinion, calm down.
Mia CW I care because hes going to keep hurting women. I dont think he is on this show for the right reasons
She’s really a star I love her 😭
She's sooo pretty goddamn! she reminds me of Betty Boop.
That hair is so perfect for her 🥰
Girl go live life and have fun! He’s borning anyways
Yarea W he's not boring he's really adventurous.
b ob he was the most boring ass bachelor ever
She looked like she was about to cry when she had to tell him her age
I’ve never watched the bachelor and don’t know who this girl is, but she looks like Giannina from Love Is Blind
She was one of the most captivating bachelorettes on the franchise. A star quality about her. Ala Audrey Hepburn ish...should have become an actress
I just want to say that she's very mature for being 22...I mean she has an amazing personality and loves Arie so much. She's shown no sign of meanness and she's really ready for marriage! If she wasn't ready...she wouldn't be own the show right now...she's come so far! And age doesn't matter if you truly love someone!! Just my opinion on the issue!!😁
She’s mature for her age, and he actually seems so unsure about where he’s at in his life. He seems like the type of person who thinks that maturity comes with age when in reality there are people who are 40 still living with there parents, and there are 21 year olds who have a steady job and a home of their own.
I really like her. She's mature and seems really fun.
I was 23 (now 30) when I met my now husband .. he was 37. I was never into going out though and loved a more quiet life. Writing poetry, drawing, listening to music, and of course gardening! Age doesn't always reflect how a person will live their life.
Diana Martiniuc-Cameron exactly !
She’s probably the prettiest among the girls so cute
Age is just a number after all! And honestly, the connection and chemistry between them is AMAZING!!! love love love them together 😊❤️
pweeesh I thought she was going to say 18 or somthing
Me too
The second she said she’s 22, immediately Arie’s like taken aback and pull up the barrier and be like ok no.
From episode 1, Bekah: "What are 3 things that make you excited in life?" Arie: "Excitement"
“Do you like like to like, like stuff? Do you know what I mean?”
Confidence. I love her confidence.
That right there is a Creeper...watch his face and body language change when she reveals her age he gets supwr excited inside bc he knows hes not landing a youngy in his "that creepy guy over there" personal life
she is so pretty 😔
When I was 22, I was still exploring the world. And I never ever think about marriage.
Ugh...like, like, like, like, like.....
Drinking game: take a shot every time Arie says, “you know what I mean”
Mirha Khan literally .
I feel like they complimented each other so well :( the best relationship I ever had was with someone who was over 10 years older than me. But honestly she looks wise beyond her years, something Arie obviously hasn’t caught up with. So I guess it’s good it didn’t work out
she looks like a disney princess its crazy to see her in this after watching a bunch of the chatty broads!!
The problem with being "ready" is that people usually jump into marriage with someone they probably would not have considered when they were younger. They lower their standards, especially women, while the guy they dated in college was probably a better choice. Its almost as if everyone is expected to date the wrong person in their early twenties and then they somehow find the right person right after they finish college. From experience, I know I dated a few women that would have been much better wives than the one I did marry.
Consistently Random Thats pretty horrible thing to say about yout wife...
Don't worry, we are separated.
Jesus Christ the way you threw your poor wife under the bus😂😂😂😂😂
Make me look bad? You don't even know my name and no one else does either. I'll post about my personal business if I feel like it. Therapist? Eww gross!
Gossip Queen? You're one to talk!
LIKE LIKE I LIKE LIKE THINGS BECAUSE I LIKE LIKE YA KNOW LIKE....🙄its a trend
Lizardgrimlins Artis it's a horrible damn trend!
I like her and she is really mature for her age. I don't think that she would have gone on the show if she wasn't open for the opportunity if he was the right person for her. I am sure she knew that this is usually what happens at the end of the show. Plus, I think it is the shows fault, to be honest. I think in the beginning when they are choosing all the women, Arie should have a say in the age of the women. For example, I prefer taller, brunette women between the ages of 25-40. Age is just a number. Women who are 40 still act catty and immature and aren't ready to commit. I am glad that he kept her around.
Took a shot everytime he said "like" - I am on dialysis now #prayforme
As someone who is 24 and dating someone who is 30. Age does matter! A lot happens with a person between 22 and 36. A lot happened to me between 18 and 24. People grow.
The right thing to say to her is, "wow, you've really shown wisdom beyond that age. The question isn't whether you're mature enough to be married at all, but am I the right person, and would you want the laid back lifestyle I want to live now?" And they're not together now because he found the person who fit with that lifestyle and she found the person who fit hers, both of them mature, great parents, as far as I can tell.
I think he has valid reasons to be concerned. I think it’s not so much the age gap but more about the fact that there’s still a lot she probably wants to experience and she’s most likely not ready for marriage and kids like he is.
This is Lowkey predatory lmao HIS REACTION HAD ME ROLLING 😂
Why the hell people in bachelor or bachelorette use “like” so much is it mandatory to use that word in the show 😂
No joke, thus is my experience with any older guy I date.
I hate it when they say “you’re so young, you have more experience to go through”
The fact that she is going to be a mommy so soon is *boom*
I'm just going to say in real life this doesn't matter much. My boyfriend is 27 years old than me, we are the happiest we've ever been in our lives. I do think 22 is too young for marriage, but the age gap is nothing to worry about. Plus of she is mature beyond her years like i was at 22, she can handle it especially because he's an older man
When he found out he obtained an accent from the shock lol. Oh my Guaddddd lol
I didn't watch this season, but I like the vibe i'm feeling from this girl!
I've never wanted to watch the bachelor but their chemistry and DAMN she is so pretty and smart.... makes me wanna watch
the only real convo that happened on this show. love Bekah!
Lol he can't even say a valid reason he's ready except he gets up early which has nothing to do with marriage... He's just judging her for her age
she’s sooooo pretty
Out of all the women on the bachelor, she sticks out the most to me. She just looks so cute and unique. The short haircut, the hoop ear rings.
she actually so gorgeous!
She looks like a sim literally perfect
She’s too educated for him and pretty!
And he’s way too rich for her poor ass.
The number of likes spoken in this video is more than the likes for this video
idc what nobody says she would’ve been great for him. the chemistry is so natural and she ended up getting pregnant not too soon after the show anyway 😂😂😂
"Do you like to like, go out like a lot?" He could have phrased it differently and said, "I'm kind of a lame homebody, so hopefully we're compatible that way otherwise, I don't want this to cause problems later down the line when you're bored with me."
Late to the party, but not all homebodies are "lame and biring" though...just like not all party people are constantly exciting 24/7. Not everyone has to go out all the time and be wild to be considered exciting.
She's so pretty😭❤️
Like. Like...Like.
Pepper1188 Do you like to, like, still go out, like, those things, like.
Like I thought I was like the only who like noticed.
I was getting annoyed with all the likes....it made him sound immature
I'm, like, from, like, California and that's, like, all you hear.
Ironically, despite being the youngest contestant, she was the most mentally mature of them.
How many times can a 36 year old man say "like"... go Arie!