I think barb is the reason that peter is like that, and she pushed him to get engaged to hannah ann when he clearly loved madison. I hope he moves away from his parents house and away from barb.
I third this. He said he loves Alabama. I don't live in Alabama, but I do live in the South. We will be proud to make you an honorary Southerner, Peter. C'mon down. 😊
Agreed. Kind of Surprised Madison seems to be very sheltered and like someone , who even though she is in her 20s wouldn’t be aloud to watch the bachelor.
Yinhui Li Because guess what?! Even in an easy relationship, compromising and communication are KEYS. Relationships are ongoing journeys. You’re going to self-sacrifice on BOTH ends in order to make it work.
RH Productions he seems to love and support peter... he smiled when Madi said she disagrees, and barb leaned over at 2:36 and said “say something bad, help me out” in Spanish to her husband. So it’s very telling
Actually Madison was the one who compromised taking him back after he slept with the others. He didn't compromise and just expected her to get over it.
Isn’t part the show when they reach the last three they go on the over night sleep over they always have sex. Lol Majority if the time it happens pls hahaha It’s like going on a roller coaster ride and complaining it’s to fast when already now once you go on that what it does ✌️😀
His mom LITERALLY said “say something bad to help me out” in Spanish when they asked his dad how he felt. What kind of mother is she?! Bashing her son and the person he loves on live TV or in general!
what kind of person dows that! Legit she said " say something bad, help me" I don't even watch the bachelor but for any couple if the guys mom is that cray cray they need to keep her at arms distance unless this girl did something horrible and there is a good reason for being so against her 🤷🏾♀️
Nobody should make choices based on their families input, since the family does not know what each person needs to be fulfilled and joyful. Sometimes input makes things much more complicated than it needs to be.
Aisha Too bad Madison is going to break up with him probably by the end of the year and be on BIP. Hannah Ann spoke the truth...He’s a little boy in a man’s body just looking for a GF to take his mind off of Hannah B . He’s not ready..Madison will learn the hard way
Exactly your right if you wanted to jump off a bridge and your mother told you no you shouldn't do it your right totally toxic to want the best for your kids.......why are you getting so many likes Jesus Christ.
But he is 25 and parents should not be involved n their adult children love life’s unless it is an abusive situation. They should keep their opions to themselves.
Lol you remember movies where the wife was a bitch or a girlfriend was crazy and your just begging at the tv for the man/woman to see what she really is, and hoping that his friends will tell him the truth and that he sees where they are coming from. This is that movie. But in real life which is really disconcerting especially because there's so much hate towards someone's opinion.
ABSOLUTELY!!! I had so much love & respect for Chris in that moment because Peter & Madi needed that support. Never has any family been so involved in a season, Bachelor or Bachelorette. I am horrified for Peter. His mother is the definition of the words manipulative and nasty. To wish your own son failure on national televison is outright disgusting. He is a grown man. He made a mistake, like humans do. He owned up to them and apologized the only way he knew how. Show some grace and support for your child instead of being rude and vindictive because he didn't choose "your way." I, for one , wish Peter, Madi, & Hannah Ann love & support. I truly hope they all find happiness even though it may be hard. Barb can SUCK IT!
"He's gonna have to fail to succeed." That is the most disgusting thing a mother can say to their children and their significant other especially on national TV. How in the world would you think that telling your son that his relationship is going to fail and saying straight up that you don't like the person their dating is ever okay?! Learn a thing or two about class before you go open your mouth again please and thank you.
No it isnt. Sometimes you have to let you kid fail to learn a lesson. It is called life. You cant always catch them when they fall. Kids learn NOTHING from that
But this is definitely not the time nor place to say something like that. You're not always going to get along with your children's girlfriend/boyfriend but that does not excuse the fact that she belittled Madison and Peter's relationship on national TV. Especially when Madison did nothing but stick up for her morals and beliefs. Also Peter is not a child, he's a grown adult who doesn't need his parents to choose whether or not the person he loves is "good enough"
I think the mom is completely right . Madison LEFT him. hannah ann loves him whole heartedly. plus maddison completely disrespected peters mother and she was 3 hours late ?! how selfish can madison be
@@chloetheg9687 Her and Peter were late because they had to talk things out so that they could meet their parents and it wouldn't be completely awkward. Madison left Peter after his whole family belittled her into thinking that they weren't going to work. Madison was the adult in this situation
Peter will never be a man as long as his mother dictates and dominates his life. You raise a boy to become a independent adult. I raised a boy toward becoming a man. My son at 25 built a awesome career and built his first home and this mom never told my son who to date. Peter move out from mommies apron strings and live on your own. You are too old to still be living at home. Lord help any woman that he marries and don’t kid yourself mommy will hate whoever he marries.
Carolina Blue according to Chris Harrison on rose and rosee with his girlfriend Lauren zima he said that peter is currently staying at Chris Harrison’s house
Thats exactly she said, they are not on the same page. You cant have a good relationship with someone who doesn't have the same values. They know their son better than any viewer.
It is absolutely appalling that a MOTHER would not support her own son in his journey to find love. She is a selfish and emotionally manipulative woman, I can't believe mothers like Barb exist. It is disgusting and she ought to be a shame of herself. Rolling her eyes and shaking her head at Madison for giving love to her son and then clapping on Hannah Ann who roasted the shit out of Peter. Absolutely shocking.
Honestly after what Peter did to Hannah Ann there is no way I could be with him. Some of the things he said to Hannah Ann. Well I can see he gets his manipulation skills from dear ole Barb. I would be disgusted with myself if I did get back with him. I mean Madi can make her own choices, but she already doesn't trust Peter. Like this would make me trust him even less. I'm so proud of Hannah Ann though. Honey go off. She held her own. She told Peter the truth and did it in an eloquent and very well spoken way. I loved it. I was clapping and laughing my butt off. Honestly, Peter does not deserve either one of them. Run ladies. He is not worth it. Golden boy Peter lost his shine tonight.
peter’s mom in spanish told his dad “say something bad too help me” right after she got booed by the crowd for outwardly saying that his and Madison’s relationship is doomed and everyone knows it.
The fact that Hannah Anne mentioned that Peter told her he needed to talk to Hannah B for "closure" makes it seem like he just doesn't know what he wants and he's not totally over Hannah B...
Imagine dating a few men you Really like and have come to know well over time. Please imagine that. Really: do it... Have you done it? This is their situation. The bachelor and bachelorette fall in love with multiple people. Closure IS needed so the one not chosen is made to feel better and hopefully deals with heartbreak a bit better.
@@bunny_0288 I agree, that way marriages work out better. But that's not how it Really happens and we all know it. Many people get married after dating for about two years, but this show allows much less time so guess what? Go figure.
@@markuse3472 I guess I've never understood the whole "closure" thing. When I broke up with boyfriends, they were dead to me, and I never wanted to see them again. Lol. Clean cut and move on.
Mama didn't get her way and now she is being a spiteful child. No wonder Peter only wants people who play emotional games with him. It is what he grew up with.
Penelope Labr Madison’s facial expression said it all. She’s keeping it classy and not saying anything disrespectful even if she wanted too! I know his mom loves him at the time she needs to let Pete figure out his own path for himself.
Why? It is his parents. He loves them. They have a right to say whatever they want. Madison left Peter once and they are afraid she’ll do it again. Parents get automatic respect even if you don’t like their style or obvious anger towards Peter’s choices.
BARBARA literally said in Spanish “Di algo mal también, ayúdame”. Which translates to: say something bad, help me out. OMGGGGG THATS SO RUDE AND MEAN!!!
Wtf just went back to hear that and she did say that. Yeah she’s trying to axe Maddie. That’s just malicious. Maddie run, AGAIN girl. Doubt Peter’s willing to run with you so go far far away
My goodness, Peter's mother just made a fool of herself on national TV. No matter what your feelings, you should not embarrass your son with YOUR feelings. What chance are you giving your son when you talk like that.....disgusting on so many levels.
Think about it... everyone wants to say his mom is horrible but Peter Weber came into the bachelor saying his family is very important to him before ever knowing Madison. Hannah Ann was all in and Madi never was, she always asks Peter to compromise, their relationship never sparked to me honestly, come on she like broke up with him twice and she's so rigid you can tell she's not all in, when she talks she sounds like she's trying to talk herself into the relationship logically not emotionally....his mom and family cant see any spark either so of course they are going to be honest when it comes to Peter's heart......"it's telling to me that there is so many obstacles to even get to this point, you don't even start a relationship like that ...when you're getting into a relationship, that beginning should be the brightest spot, and it was anything but.."-Peters Dad
A previous girlfriend of Peter's came forward today saying Barb was horrible back when they dated years ago, his mother broke them up & manipulated the entire situation.
Peters Mom was so disrespectful and rude!!! No matter what she is the adult in the situation to sit there and disrespect Madison a young beautiful girl who holds so much respect for herself in today’s day and age she should be blessed if Peter ended up with her. Madison after everything Barb said about her she still said she had nothing bad to say about his parents and if she loved Peter she loved his family. She has more class than his mom could ever have.
True, Maddy is poised and so gorgeous, I really hope she and Peter work out if it is a true love, but I hope Maddy gets the support she needs and is not being attached by Peters mother and father, who seem to be very scary people.... It is almost sinister, I think his mother is more in love with her son than her own husband, she needs to see a shrink ASAP
I agree! I can see loving your child and wanting the best for them but she is out of control. She needs to have more faith in her son and believe she has raised him well enough to make good choices for himself and give him the opportunity to see this thru.
Seeing how Peter’s Mom responds and treats him... makes me now understand where Peter gets his indecisiveness from. It seems like he grew up in a household where he could never make his own decisions... his mother controlled all the narrative. We got to see first hand her seething hatred when Peter made a decision for himself on live TV was absolutely shocking. It is very sad ...
You could see Peter’s mom clapping when Hannah Ann gave him the ring back, too. Who does that? I understand that he wasn’t following through with what he said and he probably deserved it, but from your own mom? I just don’t get it.
Barbara is so angry she didn’t get her way with her son that she’s lost any sense of civility. You don’t have to like Madison but that is Peter’s choice and as a mom you should support him. Even if it is a mistake, that’s a lesson that Peter needs to learn on his own.
I mean she did literally just say and express that tho as well as express her truthful opinion when asked... its up to him if he decides to listen to his mommy who thinks she knows him so well, when clearly they dont know each other that well at all. Only Peter knows Peter. She was more than likely excluded from the vast majority of his adult life friendships and relationships but she believes seeing him over a period of time is more information... its a who truly knows who comparison thats always been up for debate. All I can say is that Peter does indeed know Peter and Peter has a mouth and can speak for himself. Also not all peoples definition of success or what it takes to be considered successful is the same...
Boy & King I think something Madison said on the show really applies here: both of them have no clue what real everyday life is like with eachother so I find it super reasonable to not jump into an engagement and actually put in the time and the work into seeing if the relationship is practical. Again, that’s Peter’s life to live. Also, a mom who reacts like Barbara did is not a mom who’s been excluded from the vast majority of adult life and friendships. To me, she seems like a mom that’s used to being in the middle of it and super involved. That probably added some insult to injury since Peter has decided to defy her in such a public way.
this is embaressing for the mom and for her son. I would advice this girl to run for the hills. This guy has bagage. Huge bagage and this mother in law is toxic.
Peter's mother has very poor boundaries, is controlling of the entire household, is enmeshed with her sons, and plans on staying in control of Peter. A histrionic personality, this mom needs to be told to back off...and it seems that Madison has the backbone to do it. Now Peter needs to cut the umbilical cord that keeps him harnessed to his mother. The remedy to that is to move away and limit his time with the dysfunction in his family. Madison is a grounded young woman whose heart is huge and forgiving. With her, Peter might have the future and family he's needed all his life. Time to stand on your own Peter. The choice is Peter or Mom....that is the existential question.
There are key ingredients of borderline/histrionic/narcissism in The Soup called "Barb." Her name interesting, as a play on words. A Barb, is a sharp projection near the end of an arrow or fishhook, it's angled in such a way as to make it difficult for extraction. So, yes, she has her proverbial hook in her son, and it's going to be quite the challenge to extract himself, so speak. I hope he seeks therapy, and finds freedom.
Exactly, she was even trying to control her husband and telling him in Spanish to "say something bad to help me out." I was horrified. I speak Spanish and many people may not have caught that soundbite who don't speak the language.
Madison, Daddy's little girl, has the "pout" routine down pat. Very controlling - Peter's mother is emotionally controlling, but Madison's lip routine is equally controlling (and she didn’t even raise him;) 🤮 Just goes to show - how we tend to choose in our partner: exactly the dysfunction we are use to - until/if we wise up.
Bruh Barbara Webber is the most ANNOYING thing ever. I realize her children and husband fly planes but she must be a pretty damn good pilot too for how close she flies that helicopter over Peter.
She’s not annoying. She’s his mother. He decided what he wanted and then changed his mind. A mother’s intuition is like no other. I think peter and Madison both didn’t know what they wanted. They were both torn and they shouldn’t have ended up with one another how can you say you’re in love with Hannah and in love with Madison, and then propose to Hannah leave her and go with Madison that makes no sense so I understand his mom. People can’t hate on her for saying how she feels about this she knows her son better than any one of is
she claims that the reason she liked Hannah Ann more was that when peter “gave his heart” to two people, Hannah Ann was the only one who reciprocated those feelings. The logic is inherently flawed, because it’s wrong to give your heart to more than one person
Obviously Peter’s mother has controlled and manipulated that family for years. She knew after talking with Madison she wouldn’t be able to control her. Her over the top, inappropriate crying, repeatedly telling Peter “Oh I love you, Bud, I love you so much, Bud” was gross and inappropriate. She’s disgusting and needs to take a seat in the back while her son lives his own life.
Melanie G. I so agree. I’m a mother of two grown sons and it is difficult to see them make poor choices in some things but I let them choose and live their life. And I am always there to love and lift them up when life knocks them down. But they are adults and no one including myself needs to butt into their business. We teach our children life skills, our values, work ethics and to respect authority and them self’s as they are growing up. But there comes a time that we have to let them be independent and not try to control them.
I literally can’t watch this it’s so cringy and embarrassing. Does she realize she’s saying all this on national television and the people she’s not saying the nicest things about are in the same room as her 💀😂
... Because she got to witness that mess of a family. How do you even start a life with someone so attached to their mother & their mother hates you? You can’t.
I was appalled that when Hannah said that Peter wasn't a man, his mom clapped for her. As in she has Hannah's back more than her sons, that is wrong on so many levels. She will never see the good things he has with Madison when she is looking at her through such hateful goggles. I would never want my parent to humiliate and treat me the way that his mother did tonight. I'm so sorry for this situation.
That's why it irks me to hear all these other people saying, "She's a mom protecting her son." No. You didn't support him or his decision. You didn't love him enough to respect him, but instead belittled him on national TV!!
Regardless of how Barb feels, Madison absolutely does not deserve this. She doesn’t even know Madison. And she’s hurting her son by making it about herself
Peter's mom just hated Maddie when she disagreed with her when she's telling her not to change Peter. It's so insane to think Peter still should keeps party everyday when he is in a relationship. Maddie is a strong person and a fighter. She can't stand bullshit. Barb has damaged her relationship with her son, either it works out with Maddie or not.
Peter did found love with Madison, and the Mama knows finally, this is it. Its wasn't about a woman that been bangin him like in the past. Mama was afraid of losing her son to Madison, she felt threatened, b/c the love was real.
Peter’s mom should reflect herself. That is why Peter is like that because of their upbringing. Peter is not a real MAN because Barbara is not acting like a MOM. #justsaying
No, I think that’s the problem. She’s acting like his mom. She’s still mothering him even though he’s a grown man. I get that no matter the age parents will always be parents and want what’s best for their child, but to hope for your adult child to fail in order to learn, that negative outlook, the passive aggressiveness, I agree, no wonder Peter is always confused and second-guessing himself.
She fits every box for Narcissistic Personality Disorder. True narcissists never self reflect or self evaluate. Instead, they find fault/blame others...their favorite people to blame is someone that failed to provide them with narcissistic supply. Narcissistic supply is their life line... they are always on the lookout for new supply. They're basically like a deflated balloon that relies on narcissistic supply to fill up. Hannah Ann successfully provided her with "love" and told her all the right things ...played the role the way Peter's Mom wanted. Madison failed to provide an adequate supply... she was authentic and unsure... truly communicating how she felt. This was of no use to Barb... it angered her that Madison didn't 'get' her purpose... to shower her with adoration and blow up her deflated balloon. Barb doesn't realize that when you have God for strength, you don't rely others to be your fuel.
I don’t get why they’re so against Madison. She was at their vow renewal. Barb was so warm and loving towards her. She done flipped the switch. Barb should turn the disappointment towards Peter for his shady actions
@@bumpin0 something happened alright! Mom talk, talk, talk, telling everyone who will listen and agree with her. I have a feeling everyone is under her spell Better be.... or you can see how she would turn on you by the way she turned on her own son's choise & put it out there on national tv. Whooooa! She would tear you up and roll her eyes and make you feel beneath her if you didnt take her side. Why she is gonna kick and scream and cry to show her passion for (her) son. No wonder the whole family is against this union. Peter's father could not even look up when mom was speaking. Oh brother... bet he was proud. What a sweet family. Ouch!
I have no respect for peter’s mother. She is so rude and disrespectful toward Madison and peter. I’m so glad she’s not my mother and I’m glad my mother would never treat me or anyone like that
Are we all forgetting how Peter totally screwed Hannah Ann. (He pulled an Arie) I’m just glad that we saw someone man up in the finale and that was Hannah Ann, she told him!
YES! Why does no one care that he did the same thing as Arie? Lauren and Arie got death threats against their CHILD and everyone was so excited when Peter went back to Madison
Woah, so because she won't give him her body unless there's a ring on her finger and no other women involved, she didn't give her heart? This mother is crazy. Let HIM decide. Make your point, then shut up and support him. LEAVE AND CLEAVE, BABY! Everybody's get together story is different. WEIRD PARENTS.
The whole reason why this is all so hard is because his parents don't accept her. She chooses to save herself ok... THAT IS NONE OF YOUR CONCERN!! You won't be the one sleeping with her eventually, HE is. Good golly!! If it doesn't work out, than it doesn't work out! YOUR SON IS HAPPY!! YOU SHOULDN'T BE WAITING FOR HIS RELATIONSHIP TO FAIL YOU SHOULD BE SUPPORTING HIM AND LOVING HIM THROUGH IT ALL!! Geeze!!
@C Patouhas Couldn't agree with you more. The fact that his mother said she was upset that Madison was 3 HOURS late after they traveled across the world to meet her, didn't even apologize, proceeds to say she isn't in love with their son, and then as his mother is expressing these concerns she's smiling and laughing it off. I found that SO disrespectful. Anyone who doesn't see the disrespect Madison had towards his parents, and the lack of empathy she had when his mom was expressing her concerns, clearly has something wrong with them too.
@@collintinsley4755 Lmao, no I think you're the crazy one. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Calling someone crazy just because their opinion differs from yours just screams crazy in itself.
People that are taking barbs side do not get it!!! This isn’t about Maddie at all! It’s that shes making him feel like shit for the choices he’s making. The constant eye rolling, snarky comments. even if its the wrong choice, she should support him n not do all the extra shit she’s doing to control the situation and their entire family! She’s literally whispered to the dad to say something bad about Maddie ! like what?!! She’s acting like a spoiled child that didn’t get her way! She’s only mad bc he didn’t make the choice SHE wanted! And I said it once n I’ll say it again. She is a controlling, narcissistic ahole!Even the way she controls the dad.it’s so hard to watch.When my daughter makes shitty decisions,I give her my advice n always say to her “ but whatever u decide I support” & I have n always will. Also...I decoded what she whispered to the dad when Peter asked his DAD not her for advice : “aver di algo mal también, ayúdame” which means, go ahead say something bad too, help me”!!! If that’s not a controlling narcissist...idk what it is!!!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️
Agree. He looks both uncomfortable and embarrassed. It also appeared to me like he wanted to support Peter, but nope he remembered he had to go home with Barb. Poor Man. Poor Peter.
Totally agree absolutely as a mother have one daughter my heart is very sad I strongly believe Peter and Madison both have real true relationship if focused on each orther communicated well and forget about orthers problems
“This isn’t just Peter choosing me, this is me choosing Peter.” Sing it sister!! Dude that mom is a crazy, controlling, and idiotic to think that this is an easy choice for him to make. Relationships are hard anyway but broadcasting it on TV? Yeah that makes it easier.
@@bumpin0 It is the son's decision who he loves. And it is the parent's decision to stand by him and support him. She is overstepping and is out of line
Think about it... everyone wants to say his mom is horrible but Peter Weber came into the bachelor saying his family is very important to him before ever knowing Madison. Hannah Ann was all in and Madi never was, she always asks Peter to compromise, their relationship never sparked to me honestly, come on she like broke up with him twice and she's so rigid you can tell she's not all in, when she talks she sounds like she's trying to talk herself into the relationship logically not emotionally....his mom and family cant see any spark either so of course they are going to be honest when it comes to Peter's heart......"it's telling to me that there is so many obstacles to even get to this point, you don't even start a relationship like that ...when you're getting into a relationship, that beginning should be the brightest spot, and it was anything but.."-Peters Dad
Matthew Alanis and that’s a fair argument, maybe her accent did alter what we were hearing. It’s common for Spanish speakers in Central America and South America to leave off the S. However, in regards to the bachelor, that doesn’t excuse her behavior towards Madison and Peter. And furthermore, I speak Spanish so I’m not sure why you’re bringing up a translator.
When Barb spoke to her husband in spanish she said “say something bad too. help me.” I’m sorry but this is who your son is in love with. Why would you wanna shame her in front of thousands if not millions of people? Have respect.
No she didn't say bad. I'm fluent in Spanish and she said 'dile algo más también, ayudame'. People mistaken her saying 'mal' which means bad. All she said was say something more, help me. People are so ridiculous and try to find reasons to hate this woman it's disgusting.
RubiiRae I’m also fluent (cuban as well as Barb) and i understood “dile algo mal tambien. ayudame.” the fact that she was still asking for help to prove her point shows a lot though. let the man say what he wants to say.
@@BB-jd9pd Well it's not even the correct way to say it in Spanish if you meant 'dile algo malo también, ayudame''. And you said you're fluent and you're Cuban? Geez I guess the education system has failed you. Anyhow, I don't agree with Barb's behavior on national TV, she should've kept quiet but what came out of her mouth isn't of malicious intent. She was already angry with the show and Peter, and then they threw in Madison, which btw, Peter didn't ask to reconcile with her, Chris made the decision for Peter and Peter stupidly went along with it. Was it irrational for her to said what she said on TV? Yes. I don't know what point you're trying to prove by attacking Barb. Maybe that shows what kind of ugly person you are on the inside.
i hope u have a blessed day. and never ever go after someone and saying their an ugly person inside. you don’t know me nor my character, and defending a young women online does not in any way shape or form make someone an ugly person.
Farha He’ll end up breaking up with her. As soon as he gets home and his mother starts putting serious pressure on him he’s going to break. Total mama‘s boy.
If peter was a real man, he would've stopped his mother mid SENTENCE, rather than letting his mother berate the one that he loves on national television. Good luck finding someone to marry you while trying to grow a backbone, pete
He’s not going to argue with his mom on national television. That would only make the already awful, embarrassing situation that much worse. I’m sure he had it out with her off camera.
Peter's mom reactions and comments was so disturbing to me, I'm actually losing sleep over this. My mom taught me well and was very supportive of my choices. Even when my choices were not good for me. I am Madison and my husband is Peter. I'm more religious and I see my husband would rather socialize and does. There's alot of sadness because of this choice to marry. I'm a mother of sons and I would NOT do to them what Barbara did out in public. That was very disturbing to see. I understand her worry. This is an unequally yoked pair. It's workable but not the best choice. I know from experience. I still love you both Peter and Madison. God bless you both. The mother is a issue and a bad one at that. She was very hurtful to her own son Peter and Maddie and to many of us, because we watched it. It's time Peter, overdue at best...you need to move out your parents home.
Very rude!!! How bout we fail to invite you to the wedding, fail to invite you to the hospital when your first grandchild is born and fail to invite you to your grandchild's first birthday party. Failing to include them in their successes would be exactly what her and all the naysayers deserved but Maddie wouldn't be as cruel as Barb was to her tonight.
I could not believe those words came out of her mouth. What the hell. Why blame Madison. Also, they had already met Madison on the renewal wedding vows. As far as make them wait three hours to meet them is a wrong statement. This is Peters journey.
I'll say this much... If she wants to see that relationship fail, she should just keep up what she's doing. So many times parents are the root cause of breakups. It's so upsetting to see that she can't support her son.
I feel so sorry for Maddy, she is being attacked by this middle aged woman who surs her words, cries and seems not in control of her own life . I believe Barbara has personal issues of her own .
I could not support my son marrying someone who is so unwilling to compromise. Peter wanted her because she walked away. You always want what you can’t have.
Really Mariah totally valid argument, but would you insult your son and his girlfriend on national television? and it’s one thing to not agree with the relationship, it’s another to consistently put them both down. at some point the parent needs to realize that their opinion only matters so much. the people whose opinions matter are the ones in the relationship (so long as there is no abuse, of course)
I'm glad he standed up for the girl he loves no matter what anyone says. It's their journey let them make their own mistakes that is life you live and learn.
As a lady in faith .... if he ain't walking the same path break up. I know people think the mom was harsh but I believe her statement true and even his brother said hey can you handle no more "fun" with the ladies... If he truly wanted her he would of not done what he did... he thought he could and get the third later thru marriage... not my life so best to both of them
With all due respect, I disagree with how Peter’s mother handled everything. At a minimum, she could trust her son and be supportive. The fact that she has gone to such great lengths in her manipulative overreacting, it is quite clear that she is so disturbed that she cannot control Peter as to whom he will marry - and is so clearly pissed - that she will stop at nothing (now) to ENSURE her own son fails at this relationship just to feed her own pride. This has a horrible Dr. Phil episode gone wrong written all over it. Sorry Peter. The rest of the world can clearly see your heart and that you literally proposed to Hannah Ann to please your mom. The fact that you couldn’t keep up the charade for your family is not on you - anyone with a pair of eyes can see you tried the route of keeping everyone happy - but you did what was right in the end. The heart wants what the heart wants and there’s no amount of manipulation that can prevent a bad decision if you’re being true to yourself. Be strong Peter - in the end your mom will HAVE to come around. And Mattie? Go girl!!! Keeping it 💯
Jillyy 72 100% Disagree!!! Mad Maddie is No Better! She will be controlling Peter & holding shit over his head the rest if his life! She was so negative the hole show & decided to leave. When the going gets tough you stay period! You don't leave!
Victim: “I am telling you that I love Madison and that should be enough... please” (2:17) Instigator: mouthing and murmur - (2:27) Target: ... - (2:30) Host: “Dad, what is your take on this” (2:34) Instigator: “Pero di algo mal tambien, ayudame” - “But say something bad too, help me” (2:35) Mediator: Annoyed? Hesitant? (2:38)
Her son is not a saint. He slept around and that’s why Madison was conservative about giving her heart. He has to earn it. He might fall in love too easily but not everyone is the same. She’s protecting her heart. She will know if he’s worth it by his actions... only time will tell
Definitely feel as if Peter’s mom hates the fact that she can’t control her son. 🤣 And she absolutely 100% hates the fact that our sweet Madison speaks her mind. I’m so proud of Madison for speaking up. Mom needs to stay out of her son’s personal life because as someone who has gone through a similar situation, in the end her son will follow his heart, which means disconnecting with his family if need be to be with the love of his life. His mom needs to go find Jesus and get rid of all that hate and anger. I definitely don’t see his mom getting her way. The harder she tries the further she’ll push him away. Go Peter & Madison!
Absolutely I have one daughter 3 son all adults no one marriage yet but breaks my heart I will never want any mother to say anything like this to my daughter who ever they choose let them be all the parents need to do show your true love to your children with 100% support wish them all the blessing from God
Amy Flowers no that’s not true no one should like Madison she’s not right for Peter, he shouldn’t have even gone on the show if he’s gonna play the good guy while breaking someone else’s heart messed up
Did you not see why she doesn't like Madison? She was 3 hours late didn't want to meet them thats rude. It wasn't just his mother his whole family didn't like her. Never going to work out.
I think Barb is disappointed in her son, and hurts for him knowing as his mother that his future won't be happy with Madison. She knows her son is making a big mistake, and unlike many (but not all) American mothers out there, she doesn't just sit back. As a mother, she's going to warn him about the big decision he's making, she has every right to do so and be upset over the fact that he played with a beautiful girl like Hannah Ann's feelings. He did her wrong, and walked away from someone who would love him unconditionally. It wasn't just about the sex thing, Barb mentioned Hannah Ann's radiant energy and love that she immediately felt when meeting her, first impressions are important. Madison is a great girl, but she doesn't have that same warmth to her. I can get where Barb is coming from, she knows he son messed up big time treating a good girl like Hannah Ann like that.
basically his mom thinks she can control everything in her sons life and dad just does nothing. thats what i got from this. he just goes with whatever she wants and has no opinion.
Mine was worse....only Italian!!! Here we are still together after 31 years, solid as when we first married - keep your opinions to yourself and she was still causing issues until she died 4 yrs ago.....even with her own daughters' marriage!!!! Drama all about her and her knowing better we are all finally at peace 🙏
She’s so controlling that she had to speak to her husband in a different language to make sure he supported her!!! Then he was allowed to answer Chris. Yikes
Peter picked the wrong girl. Hannah Ann was much better for him and he disgraced himself for leading her on when he proposed to her. He treated Hannah Ann like dirt
@@martinober6345 lol like dirt? No he didnt. He made the mistke of proposing while still having feelings for Madison. It was obvious he loved Madi and was gonna pick her, but his parent convinced him to pick Hannah Ann. Thats not treating her like dirt, its just making wrong decisions and saying the wrong things that hurt someone else. He is only human, he has problems and issues. The real villain here tho is the mother
The way Peters face shines every time he sees her and the way she smiles opens her arms to Him, you know it’s love. Peter wants a closer relationship with God, and Madi is ready to walk with him through that journey. Don’t give up on your love guys!
So true, I hope Maddy parents have a word with this alcoholic woman , she is not behaving normally. I have a young son 27 , i love and support him and I love anyone who shows him love, he got some right and some wrong, and I have never interfere, I allow him to be an adult and work it out and he did . I also show respect to people and I would never be mean to another persons child like she is to Maddy.
With a mom like that who needs villains and enemies on this show.. If they ever break up he will have a hard time finding someone else because no woman wants to have that as a mother in law!! Yikes
17M views I wasn’t asking for your opinion on the situation, nor asked you to explain what your thoughts where. I was simply translating what the mom was saying in Spanish to the dad
Adwoa Mk they actually broke my heart! Peter needs to stick up for himself you can just tell he never does when it comes to his mother. If you notice dad had the same expression throughout the whole session meanwhile his mom is mean mugging or rolling her eyes
Landa JB I kind of wished, though, she saved face and just said “You know, Chris, I have my own opinions but I will be happy for my son” and leave it at that, but lady went for it, guns blazing. She could have been more diplomatic about it. But then again, we wouldn’t be discussing much if she hadn’t done that😂
@@macystewart9480 Her judgement isn't the issue, besides she broke up with Peter previously then came back. It's up to Peter at this point to handle his family.
Never allowed? Are you kidding me dude? Like what are they gonna do? Lock her up in chains and make her repeat "I hate Peter" till she actually starts to hate him? Parents can offer advice to this grown lady, that's all.
I think his mom just caused damage to their relationship. Peter is a big boy let him make some choices for himself. She was pretty harsh and said words she cannot take back.....
@@christinanguyen5033 oh definitely...whether it works out for peter and maddie or not. Even his dad not being supportive had to be painful to him. His mother speaking in Spanish.....come on, seriously, she needs help. Its almost like she has to be in control or else she loses it and cries...waaaaaaa waaaaa ..lol Mamas way or the highway...Peter take the first flight out to anywhere and never come back!!! His mom is an embarrassment!!
Madison doesn’t have an ounce of class if she can’t even simply apologize for being late and making comments about not wanting to meet the family... she didn’t even care to explain herself! She corny....
My dad said "Peters dad was a wimp in that moment". Saying something you dont believe in to please your wife at the expense of your son and this innocent girl is appaling.
Yea but to be honest... By bringing Barb into it, he sabotaged Peter ever finding a wife.... I mean what sane woman would want a mother in law like Barb.
The real winner of this season is all of the women who won't have to have Barb as a mother-in-law
You are so right!
HAHAHAHAHAHAH
Seriously! Good grief
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A fucking men. I had a MIL like this(she was Italian) and fuck that shit. Never again. Not worth any relationship to go through that hell.
I think barb is the reason that peter is like that, and she pushed him to get engaged to hannah ann when he clearly loved madison. I hope he moves away from his parents house and away from barb.
Agreed🙌🙌🙌
I third this. He said he loves Alabama. I don't live in Alabama, but I do live in the South. We will be proud to make you an honorary Southerner, Peter. C'mon down. 😊
yelissa cordero 5000% that lady is a narcissist. Peter needs to run if he wants any kind of happiness in this lifetime.
@@nbencier yeap!
Also, everything Madison repeated to Peter before she left was all of Barbs words
Madison should not have to compromise her faith and values. Period.
Better yet she should have never enter this kind of show knowing what it takes.
Exactly
Agreed. But at the very least be forthright about her values from the beginning.
Agreed. Kind of Surprised Madison seems to be very sheltered and like someone , who even though she is in her 20s wouldn’t be aloud to watch the bachelor.
Yinhui Li Because guess what?! Even in an easy relationship, compromising and communication are KEYS. Relationships are ongoing journeys. You’re going to self-sacrifice on BOTH ends in order to make it work.
the husband just knew that he should keep quiet, there was no compromise in their relationship.
RH Productions he seems to love and support peter... he smiled when Madi said she disagrees, and barb leaned over at 2:36 and said “say something bad, help me out” in Spanish to her husband. So it’s very telling
RH Productions exactly! His balls are in her stomach! 🤣
He married a latina, he knew what he was signing up for.
@@chloebrandii i cant believe she said that stuff in Spanish. I hear it now
Mister Orangutan dude it’s terrible
Actually Madison was the one who compromised taking him back after he slept with the others. He didn't compromise and just expected her to get over it.
i know it. barb is clearly only focused on manipulating the entire situation.
@Adam Kallin well said!! 👏🏽
Isn’t part the show when they reach the last three they go on the over night sleep over they always have sex. Lol Majority if the time it happens pls hahaha It’s like going on a roller coaster ride and complaining it’s to fast when already now once you go on that what it does ✌️😀
Wow
great point!!!!!
I'm beginning to see a pattern. Peter picks the woman who left; the other dude picked the woman who left...men always want what they can't have.
Duh
No
"The other dude" . I love that (* Arie's voice*)
Not true, it hasn’t played out like this in every season. Those are just 2 examples out of sooo many seasons.
@@JuneInjoy 3 men Peter, colton, arie.
His mom LITERALLY said “say something bad to help me out” in Spanish when they asked his dad how he felt. What kind of mother is she?! Bashing her son and the person he loves on live TV or in general!
Madison didn't deserve to be treated so badly by Peters mother. Peter did this to himself. His Mother and Father should be ashamed.
OMG good catch Samantha! I missed that!!
what kind of person dows that! Legit she said " say something bad, help me" I don't even watch the bachelor but for any couple if the guys mom is that cray cray they need to keep her at arms distance unless this girl did something horrible and there is a good reason for being so against her 🤷🏾♀️
@Tiny Rick I sure the hell wouldn't.
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These people are fools, this is how ridiculous American television has become.
Agree
I'm an American, but even I can't help but agree. Lol.
But for real, don't generalize Americans like that *biscuit eater*
I love the show the bachelor.....
This comment is very accurate 👍🏻
Did she not realize there was a possibility other people know how to speak Spanish?
😂 well said.
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You mean there are Mexicans and Central Americans in the USA. Come on. That's ridiculous.
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spiegel not to mention people from Spain... 😳
Now we understand why Peter is the way he is. I actually want the relationship to work just out of spite to his mother.
Nobody should make choices based on their families input, since the family does not know what each person needs to be fulfilled and joyful. Sometimes input makes things much more complicated than it needs to be.
Aisha Too bad Madison is going to break up with him probably by the end of the year and be on BIP. Hannah Ann spoke the truth...He’s a little boy in a man’s body just looking for a GF to take his mind off of Hannah B . He’s not ready..Madison will learn the hard way
Well, that's not a toxic family at all.
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌exactly
Exactly your right if you wanted to jump off a bridge and your mother told you no you shouldn't do it your right totally toxic to want the best for your kids.......why are you getting so many likes Jesus Christ.
But he is 25 and parents should not be involved n their adult children love life’s unless it is an abusive situation. They should keep their opions to themselves.
@@richardlug6139 hes 28
Lol you remember movies where the wife was a bitch or a girlfriend was crazy and your just begging at the tv for the man/woman to see what she really is, and hoping that his friends will tell him the truth and that he sees where they are coming from. This is that movie. But in real life which is really disconcerting especially because there's so much hate towards someone's opinion.
why wouldn’t peter defend madison and tell his mother to stop insulting who he loves???
Because this show is cheaper than fuck, and pretty much as fake as wrestling.
exactly!!
Lol he kinda did. If he went too hard on her ppl would say he mis-treated his Mother on Tv..
It's a lose/lose.. I think he handled it decently
Sean Yager yea. i don’t blame peter for what he did bc that’s what he’s been raised to do. madison better be glad she doesn’t have to put up with that
Katie Smith Because he's not ready for a relationship and is a spineless coward.
*Chris Harrison stepped up as Peter’s family tonight.* 💖
He did. Great man
ABSOLUTELY!!! I had so much love & respect for Chris in that moment because Peter & Madi needed that support. Never has any family been so involved in a season, Bachelor or Bachelorette. I am horrified for Peter. His mother is the definition of the words manipulative and nasty. To wish your own son failure on national televison is outright disgusting. He is a grown man. He made a mistake, like humans do. He owned up to them and apologized the only way he knew how. Show some grace and support for your child instead of being rude and vindictive because he didn't choose "your way." I, for one , wish Peter, Madi, & Hannah Ann love & support. I truly hope they all find happiness even though it may be hard. Barb can SUCK IT!
Because he manipulated his failure as well. Sorry...but a day late...trying to reclaim his reputation
Deborah Douglas Barb is a controlling, manipulating, and demeaning Narcissist! Toxic and controls every member of her family!
Barb acts like she is the only parent here. Madison has parents too.
"He's gonna have to fail to succeed." That is the most disgusting thing a mother can say to their children and their significant other especially on national TV. How in the world would you think that telling your son that his relationship is going to fail and saying straight up that you don't like the person their dating is ever okay?! Learn a thing or two about class before you go open your mouth again please and thank you.
Agreed. I was like, this woman has zero respect and the way she's acting is disgusting and immature!
No it isnt. Sometimes you have to let you kid fail to learn a lesson. It is called life. You cant always catch them when they fall. Kids learn NOTHING from that
But this is definitely not the time nor place to say something like that. You're not always going to get along with your children's girlfriend/boyfriend but that does not excuse the fact that she belittled Madison and Peter's relationship on national TV. Especially when Madison did nothing but stick up for her morals and beliefs. Also Peter is not a child, he's a grown adult who doesn't need his parents to choose whether or not the person he loves is "good enough"
I think the mom is completely right . Madison LEFT him. hannah ann loves him whole heartedly. plus maddison completely disrespected peters mother and she was 3 hours late ?! how selfish can madison be
@@chloetheg9687 Her and Peter were late because they had to talk things out so that they could meet their parents and it wouldn't be completely awkward. Madison left Peter after his whole family belittled her into thinking that they weren't going to work. Madison was the adult in this situation
I would rather be stuck on a quarantined ship than have Barb as a mother in law. What a witch.
@Minty LOOOOL
Good one and up with the times lmao. Funny thing is, I agree with Barb said, but she handled it so bad... just...wow...
Peter will never be a man as long as his mother dictates and dominates his life.
You raise a boy to become a independent adult. I raised a boy toward becoming a man.
My son at 25 built a awesome career and built his first home and this mom never told my son who to date.
Peter move out from mommies apron strings and live on your own. You are too old to still be living at home.
Lord help any woman that he marries and don’t kid yourself mommy will hate whoever he marries.
I feel like if barb tried to back up peter and Madison. Their is going to be some resentment from peter
Carolina Blue according to Chris Harrison on rose and rosee with his girlfriend Lauren zima he said that peter is currently staying at Chris Harrison’s house
That’s not true for EVERY culture. Hispanics live with their parents till they get married and are super protective. It’s just the culture!
Peter needs to grow a pair!
Nah he just ain't a man period 😂
They may not share the same morals but...the mother in law is the worst part I wouldnt want that in my life
Thats exactly she said, they are not on the same page. You cant have a good relationship with someone who doesn't have the same values. They know their son better than any viewer.
@@niku10 She still goes about it in the worst ways, not civil at all. Egging her husband on in spanish! Shes no more mature than they are.
- Simplicity uh she was put on the spot, this show is about making relationships public that means every aspect of it
@@snapkrr Still dont find her to be my cup of tea. Vibes. Agree to disagree
- Simplicity better to be honest and straight to the point then give your son a participation trophy
It is absolutely appalling that a MOTHER would not support her own son in his journey to find love. She is a selfish and emotionally manipulative woman, I can't believe mothers like Barb exist. It is disgusting and she ought to be a shame of herself. Rolling her eyes and shaking her head at Madison for giving love to her son and then clapping on Hannah Ann who roasted the shit out of Peter. Absolutely shocking.
My thoughts exactly!!
Peter did Hannah Ann so wrong though do I don’t feel sorry for Peter
No HE SHOULD have been WITH HANNNAHHHHHHH INSTEAD OF FREAKING MADISION I HATE HIS GUTSSSSSS
Scary
Honestly after what Peter did to Hannah Ann there is no way I could be with him. Some of the things he said to Hannah Ann. Well I can see he gets his manipulation skills from dear ole Barb. I would be disgusted with myself if I did get back with him. I mean Madi can make her own choices, but she already doesn't trust Peter. Like this would make me trust him even less. I'm so proud of Hannah Ann though. Honey go off. She held her own. She told Peter the truth and did it in an eloquent and very well spoken way. I loved it. I was clapping and laughing my butt off. Honestly, Peter does not deserve either one of them. Run ladies. He is not worth it. Golden boy Peter lost his shine tonight.
peter’s mom in spanish told his dad
“say something bad too help me” right after she got booed by the crowd for outwardly saying that his and Madison’s relationship is doomed and everyone knows it.
Wtf
Such an evil witch
A snake 🐍
She really thought no one was going to catch that 🙄
Omg I herd that too she is crazy!! Straight up controlling she’s mad cause she didn’t get her way smh
The fact that Hannah Anne mentioned that Peter told her he needed to talk to Hannah B for "closure" makes it seem like he just doesn't know what he wants and he's not totally over Hannah B...
Its just to further hurt him for embarassing her
Imagine dating a few men you Really like and have come to know well over time. Please imagine that. Really: do it...
Have you done it?
This is their situation. The bachelor and bachelorette fall in love with multiple people. Closure IS needed so the one not chosen is made to feel better and hopefully deals with heartbreak a bit better.
@@markuse3472 But you should get all the closure you need BEFORE you propose to someone.
@@bunny_0288 I agree, that way marriages work out better. But that's not how it Really happens and we all know it. Many people get married after dating for about two years, but this show allows much less time so guess what? Go figure.
@@markuse3472 I guess I've never understood the whole "closure" thing. When I broke up with boyfriends, they were dead to me, and I never wanted to see them again. Lol. Clean cut and move on.
Mama didn't get her way and now she is being a spiteful child. No wonder Peter only wants people who play emotional games with him. It is what he grew up with.
You're spot on. I hope P and M move far away from her and start a life. Peter needs Maddie. She keeps him grounded.
So the fact that the dad agreed matters not to you women ?
I can't even believe his mother clapping for Hannah's words to her son. She should be so embarrassed.
You've got that right?!
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I find this so disrespectful. I can’t even bother to understand how both Peter and Madison can just sit there and listen to this! Outrageous.
Penelope Labr Madison’s facial expression said it all. She’s keeping it classy and not saying anything disrespectful even if she wanted too! I know his mom loves him at the time she needs to let Pete figure out his own path for himself.
The father is no better.
Sometimes its better to listen than be a full or put yourself in the same level.
Why? It is his parents. He loves them. They have a right to say whatever they want. Madison left Peter once and they are afraid she’ll do it again. Parents get automatic respect even if you don’t like their style or obvious anger towards Peter’s choices.
BARBARA literally said in Spanish “Di algo mal también, ayúdame”. Which translates to: say something bad, help me out. OMGGGGG THATS SO RUDE AND MEAN!!!
Alison Cucalón dang
OMFG she's DESPICABLE
Alison Cucalón I caught that too. She’s a witch!
Ohhhh I heard that!!! What a momzilla!
Wtf just went back to hear that and she did say that. Yeah she’s trying to axe Maddie. That’s just malicious. Maddie run, AGAIN girl. Doubt Peter’s willing to run with you so go far far away
She thinks that speaking on Spanish covers up what she’s saying...she does realize that other people speak Spanish too right? Lol
Luke McKnight so what did she say? I don’t speak Spanish
K T She said, “di algo mal, ayuda me” which translates to “say something bad, help me out”
Most of the audience are white sooo
@@zaynkloski9223Spanish people are white.
Ay no she is latina? That girl better run
Chris Harrison is officially Peter's adoptive father.
He should have said something to the parents just like he always defends the ladies who get vilified on social media.
Seriously
My goodness, Peter's mother just made a fool of herself on national TV. No matter what your feelings, you should not embarrass your son with YOUR feelings. What chance are you giving your son when you talk like that.....disgusting on so many levels.
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She made it about her and her feelings, not her sons. Pretty sad
Peter embarrassed himself enough this season with his own actions. That proposal... god what a moron.
& people are saying she said to his father in spanish, "say something bad to help me". can't verify but so fucked up if true.
Think about it... everyone wants to say his mom is horrible but Peter Weber came into the bachelor saying his family is very important to him before ever knowing Madison. Hannah Ann was all in and Madi never was, she always asks Peter to compromise, their relationship never sparked to me honestly, come on she like broke up with him twice and she's so rigid you can tell she's not all in, when she talks she sounds like she's trying to talk herself into the relationship logically not emotionally....his mom and family cant see any spark either so of course they are going to be honest when it comes to Peter's heart......"it's telling to me that there is so many obstacles to even get to this point, you don't even start a relationship like that ...when you're getting into a relationship, that beginning should be the brightest spot, and it was anything but.."-Peters Dad
Is no one gonna talk about how she said in Spanish “say something bad to help me”
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A previous girlfriend of Peter's came forward today saying Barb was horrible back when they dated years ago, his mother broke them up & manipulated the entire situation.
She’s disgusting.
Absolutely
Sad to hear that.
So sad! I could not even continue to imagine how Madi and her family must feel after that horrible woman's words.
Shame shame on her!
Link?
Peters Mom was so disrespectful and rude!!! No matter what she is the adult in the situation to sit there and disrespect Madison a young beautiful girl who holds so much respect for herself in today’s day and age she should be blessed if Peter ended up with her. Madison after everything Barb said about her she still said she had nothing bad to say about his parents and if she loved Peter she loved his family. She has more class than his mom could ever have.
True, Maddy is poised and so gorgeous, I really hope she and Peter work out if it is a true love, but I hope Maddy gets the support she needs and is not being attached by Peters mother and father, who seem to be very scary people.... It is almost sinister, I think his mother is more in love with her son than her own husband, she needs to see a shrink ASAP
Josephine F couldn’t of said of any better
I agree! I can see loving your child and wanting the best for them but she is out of control. She needs to have more faith in her son and believe she has raised him well enough to make good choices for himself and give him the opportunity to see this thru.
PERIODDDDD
@@carolynsenik7103 iin therapy its called manipulative controlling " enmeshed" relationship
First time ever the Bachelor's mother gets more airtime on ABC than the Bachelor.
Seeing how Peter’s Mom responds and treats him... makes me now understand where Peter gets his indecisiveness from. It seems like he grew up in a household where he could never make his own decisions... his mother controlled all the narrative. We got to see first hand her seething hatred when Peter made a decision for himself on live TV was absolutely shocking. It is very sad ...
What's sad is Peter refusing to live on his own and act like a real man. His choice.
Beautiful date Madi. You are so genuine & real.
Agreed
You could see Peter’s mom clapping when Hannah Ann gave him the ring back, too. Who does that? I understand that he wasn’t following through with what he said and he probably deserved it, but from your own mom? I just don’t get it.
Dude the glare she had last night was hilarious, and ridiculous
The mom really said “say something bad too, help me” to the dad in Spanish 😂 foolish
😁😁😂😂
The mom is a train wreck
Sounded like mas not mal to me
I had to repeat that part because I wasn’t sure I heard correct 😳 she did say that
maya definitely mal
Barbara is so angry she didn’t get her way with her son that she’s lost any sense of civility. You don’t have to like Madison but that is Peter’s choice and as a mom you should support him. Even if it is a mistake, that’s a lesson that Peter needs to learn on his own.
I mean she did literally just say and express that tho as well as express her truthful opinion when asked... its up to him if he decides to listen to his mommy who thinks she knows him so well, when clearly they dont know each other that well at all.
Only Peter knows Peter. She was more than likely excluded from the vast majority of his adult life friendships and relationships but she believes seeing him over a period of time is more information... its a who truly knows who comparison thats always been up for debate. All I can say is that Peter does indeed know Peter and Peter has a mouth and can speak for himself.
Also not all peoples definition of success or what it takes to be considered successful is the same...
Boy & King I think something Madison said on the show really applies here: both of them have no clue what real everyday life is like with eachother so I find it super reasonable to not jump into an engagement and actually put in the time and the work into seeing if the relationship is practical. Again, that’s Peter’s life to live. Also, a mom who reacts like Barbara did is not a mom who’s been excluded from the vast majority of adult life and friendships. To me, she seems like a mom that’s used to being in the middle of it and super involved. That probably added some insult to injury since Peter has decided to defy her in such a public way.
Yea true but it was obvious she wasn’t in it for the right reasons
Leah Dillon who?
Well, i get what youre saying but why would she support a decision that is not gonna work and make him sad?
The best way for the mom to lose her son. Barb has just created the largest divide in her own family
Yep
Yep!! That's what we all witnessed tonight for sure. That's the bigger story.
Janet B agreed and Peter is sitting next to his mother as a young woman. Madison is exactly the same.
Amen
@@jenniferderrickadams341 disagree. Madison is NOTHING like his mom.
this is embaressing for the mom and for her son. I would advice this girl to run for the hills. This guy has bagage. Huge bagage and this mother in law is toxic.
Nangeala i can’t believe Peter lets his mother treat her like that
when madison first met his parents, they literally loved her and now this
His mom is so controlling it reflects in Peters lack in decisiveness.
Peter's mother has very poor boundaries, is controlling of the entire household, is enmeshed with her sons, and plans on staying in control of Peter. A histrionic personality, this mom needs to be told to back off...and it seems that Madison has the backbone to do it. Now Peter needs to cut the umbilical cord that keeps him harnessed to his mother. The remedy to that is to move away and limit his time with the dysfunction in his family. Madison is a grounded young woman whose heart is huge and forgiving. With her, Peter might have the future and family he's needed all his life. Time to stand on your own Peter. The choice is Peter or Mom....that is the existential question.
There are key ingredients of borderline/histrionic/narcissism in The Soup called "Barb." Her name interesting, as a play on words. A Barb, is a sharp projection near the end of an arrow or fishhook, it's angled in such a way as to make it difficult for extraction. So, yes, she has her proverbial hook in her son, and it's going to be quite the challenge to extract himself, so speak. I hope he seeks therapy, and finds freedom.
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Exactly, she was even trying to control her husband and telling him in Spanish to "say something bad to help me out." I was horrified. I speak Spanish and many people may not have caught that soundbite who don't speak the language.
THIS IS JUST ALL ABOUT MIGRATION LIMIT GUYS, DONT GET HEART-ATTACK.
Madison, Daddy's little girl, has the "pout" routine down pat. Very controlling - Peter's mother is emotionally controlling, but Madison's lip routine is equally controlling (and she didn’t even raise him;) 🤮
Just goes to show - how we tend to choose in our partner: exactly the dysfunction we are use to - until/if we wise up.
Bruh Barbara Webber is the most ANNOYING thing ever. I realize her children and husband fly planes but she must be a pretty damn good pilot too for how close she flies that helicopter over Peter.
Also I hope Madison and Peter do workout so Barb has to see Madi at Thanksgiving and Christmas every year. Literally, Barb is being SO childish
Hayden Ehlich I AGREEEEE
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Nah. They would have way more fun in Auburn!
She’s not annoying. She’s his mother. He decided what he wanted and then changed his mind. A mother’s intuition is like no other. I think peter and Madison both didn’t know what they wanted. They were both torn and they shouldn’t have ended up with one another how can you say you’re in love with Hannah and in love with Madison, and then propose to Hannah leave her and go with Madison that makes no sense so I understand his mom. People can’t hate on her for saying how she feels about this she knows her son better than any one of is
she claims that the reason she liked Hannah Ann more was that when peter “gave his heart” to two people, Hannah Ann was the only one who reciprocated those feelings. The logic is inherently flawed, because it’s wrong to give your heart to more than one person
after seeing how his mom is, the way peter is makes so much more sense now.
Obviously Peter’s mother has controlled and manipulated that family for years. She knew after talking with Madison she wouldn’t be able to control her. Her over the top, inappropriate crying, repeatedly telling Peter “Oh I love you, Bud, I love you so much, Bud” was gross and inappropriate.
She’s disgusting and needs to take a seat in the back while her son lives his own life.
Yeah wouldnt any normal parent be supportive? Why try to control something that isnt for you to say.
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Wait how is telling your own child you love him or her inappropriate
Melanie G. I so agree. I’m a mother of two grown sons and it is difficult to see them make poor choices in some things but I let them choose and live their life. And I am always there to love and lift them up when life knocks them down. But they are adults and no one including myself needs to butt into their business. We teach our children life skills, our values, work ethics and to respect authority and them self’s as they are growing up. But there comes a time that we have to let them be independent and not try to control them.
I literally can’t watch this it’s so cringy and embarrassing. Does she realize she’s saying all this on national television and the people she’s not saying the nicest things about are in the same room as her 💀😂
“THIS IS ME CHOOSING PETER” *breaks up in two days*
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... Because she got to witness that mess of a family. How do you even start a life with someone so attached to their mother & their mother hates you? You can’t.
Too much pressure on both sides to even start this relationship to work. Barb made it clear, choose Mama or else.
lmao cuz she chose peter, not his mom and somehow she got stuck w both
Lol Jesus loves you 😂❤
I was appalled that when Hannah said that Peter wasn't a man, his mom clapped for her. As in she has Hannah's back more than her sons, that is wrong on so many levels. She will never see the good things he has with Madison when she is looking at her through such hateful goggles. I would never want my parent to humiliate and treat me the way that his mother did tonight. I'm so sorry for this situation.
Yea, basically Madi made a bad impression and Barb is not willing to give her another chance.
That's why it irks me to hear all these other people saying, "She's a mom protecting her son." No. You didn't support him or his decision. You didn't love him enough to respect him, but instead belittled him on national TV!!
Totally agree!!!
She kind of said it all when she said about Hannah "she loved me and came to me with open arms" all about her.
Hannah has major codependency, she needs therapy
Remember on Hannah’s season when everyone was like “wow omg, peters family is so great.” Look how far we’ve come.
Hannah Waldrop Everyone tries to put up a fake front. Funny how easily their true colors came out
Dr.'sorders you are right, DOESNT prevent them or exempt them from criticism
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Hannah Waldrop lol I thought they were weird then and still don’t like them
Regardless of how Barb feels, Madison absolutely does not deserve this. She doesn’t even know Madison. And she’s hurting her son by making it about herself
This! 💯 Amen!
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Peter's mom just hated Maddie when she disagreed with her when she's telling her not to change Peter. It's so insane to think Peter still should keeps party everyday when he is in a relationship. Maddie is a strong person and a fighter. She can't stand bullshit. Barb has damaged her relationship with her son, either it works out with Maddie or not.
if this mother “loves” her son, she would be sooo happy for him that he found the love of his life. period.
Peter did found love with Madison, and the Mama knows finally, this is it. Its wasn't about a woman that been bangin him like in the past. Mama was afraid of losing her son to Madison, she felt threatened, b/c the love was real.
Peter’s mom should reflect herself. That is why Peter is like that because of their upbringing. Peter is not a real MAN because Barbara is not acting like a MOM. #justsaying
Well said well said!!
Aubrey Abano I definitely agreed with you
No, I think that’s the problem. She’s acting like his mom. She’s still mothering him even though he’s a grown man. I get that no matter the age parents will always be parents and want what’s best for their child, but to hope for your adult child to fail in order to learn, that negative outlook, the passive aggressiveness, I agree, no wonder Peter is always confused and second-guessing himself.
She fits every box for Narcissistic Personality Disorder. True narcissists never self reflect or self evaluate. Instead, they find fault/blame others...their favorite people to blame is someone that failed to provide them with narcissistic supply. Narcissistic supply is their life line... they are always on the lookout for new supply. They're basically like a deflated balloon that relies on narcissistic supply to fill up. Hannah Ann successfully provided her with "love" and told her all the right things ...played the role the way Peter's Mom wanted. Madison failed to provide an adequate supply... she was authentic and unsure... truly communicating how she felt. This was of no use to Barb... it angered her that Madison didn't 'get' her purpose... to shower her with adoration and blow up her deflated balloon. Barb doesn't realize that when you have God for strength, you don't rely others to be your fuel.
@@teresachapman205 , well said!👏👏👏
I don’t get why they’re so against Madison. She was at their vow renewal. Barb was so warm and loving towards her. She done flipped the switch. Barb should turn the disappointment towards Peter for his shady actions
There are many things that happen behind the scenes that don't get aired. Most likely something happened that their whole family was against.
@@bumpin0 something happened alright! Mom talk, talk, talk, telling everyone who will listen and agree with her. I have a feeling everyone is under her spell
Better be.... or you can see how she would turn on you by the way she turned on her own son's choise & put it out there on national tv. Whooooa! She would tear you up and roll her eyes and make you feel beneath her if you didnt take her side. Why she is gonna kick and scream and cry to show her passion for (her) son. No wonder the whole family is against this union. Peter's father could not even look up when mom was speaking. Oh brother... bet he was proud. What a sweet family. Ouch!
I have no respect for peter’s mother. She is so rude and disrespectful toward Madison and peter. I’m so glad she’s not my mother and I’m glad my mother would never treat me or anyone like that
Are we all forgetting how Peter totally screwed Hannah Ann. (He pulled an Arie) I’m just glad that we saw someone man up in the finale and that was Hannah Ann, she told him!
He pulled a Jason too lol
YES! Why does no one care that he did the same thing as Arie? Lauren and Arie got death threats against their CHILD and everyone was so excited when Peter went back to Madison
Woah, so because she won't give him her body unless there's a ring on her finger and no other women involved, she didn't give her heart? This mother is crazy. Let HIM decide. Make your point, then shut up and support him. LEAVE AND CLEAVE, BABY! Everybody's get together story is different. WEIRD PARENTS.
Very wierd woman, that wig is seriously scary and she looks like a psycho from a mental ward.
That is not what the mother was saying at all
@@Artchick1972 Sounded like it to me. She doesn't KNOW her heart because she is not her. She has no right to say who loves him more.
@@pocahontas5145 she was going about what both girls said and how they acted towards him and his family
@@Artchick1972 Madison acted nice. She was just going through her own stuff. The mother should step aside and let it be about them, not her.
The whole reason why this is all so hard is because his parents don't accept her. She chooses to save herself ok... THAT IS NONE OF YOUR CONCERN!! You won't be the one sleeping with her eventually, HE is. Good golly!! If it doesn't work out, than it doesn't work out! YOUR SON IS HAPPY!! YOU SHOULDN'T BE WAITING FOR HIS RELATIONSHIP TO FAIL YOU SHOULD BE SUPPORTING HIM AND LOVING HIM THROUGH IT ALL!! Geeze!!
C Patouhas you are a crazy person if you’re siding with Barb on this. An absolute lunatic
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@C Patouhas Couldn't agree with you more. The fact that his mother said she was upset that Madison was 3 HOURS late after they traveled across the world to meet her, didn't even apologize, proceeds to say she isn't in love with their son, and then as his mother is expressing these concerns she's smiling and laughing it off. I found that SO disrespectful. Anyone who doesn't see the disrespect Madison had towards his parents, and the lack of empathy she had when his mom was expressing her concerns, clearly has something wrong with them too.
@@collintinsley4755 Lmao, no I think you're the crazy one. Everyone has a right to their opinion. Calling someone crazy just because their opinion differs from yours just screams crazy in itself.
People that are taking barbs side do not get it!!! This isn’t about Maddie at all! It’s that shes making him feel like shit for the choices he’s making. The constant eye rolling, snarky comments. even if its the wrong choice, she should support him n not do all the extra shit she’s doing to control the situation and their entire family! She’s literally whispered to the dad to say something bad about Maddie ! like what?!! She’s acting like a spoiled child that didn’t get her way! She’s only mad bc he didn’t make the choice SHE wanted!
And I said it once n I’ll say it again. She is a controlling, narcissistic ahole!Even the way she controls the dad.it’s so hard to watch.When my daughter makes shitty decisions,I give her my advice n always say to her “ but whatever u decide I support” & I have n always will.
Also...I decoded what she whispered to the dad when Peter asked his DAD not her for advice : “aver di algo mal también, ayúdame” which means, go ahead say something bad too, help me”!!! If that’s not a controlling narcissist...idk what it is!!!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️
Peter's dad is just going along with his wife, he looks ashamed and can't even look up
Gladis Garcia C. We know who wears the pants in that marriage lol.
You can clearly hear barb saying in Spanish to her husband to help me out here when Chris asked him his input in this whole situation ‼️ 2:37
Agree. He looks both uncomfortable and embarrassed. It also appeared to me like he wanted to support Peter, but nope he remembered he had to go home with Barb. Poor Man. Poor Peter.
He was walking on egg shells if he didn't stand by his wife. He goes home with her after the show.
Totally agree absolutely as a mother have one daughter my heart is very sad I strongly believe Peter and Madison both have real true relationship if focused on each orther communicated well and forget about orthers problems
2:37 Barb whispers to Peter’s Dad: “Di algo mal tambien, ayudame” 👀 Translation: say something bad too, help me.
Ayllie Lopez thank you !
whispering and speaking Spanish we understand you and we can hear you your busted
*mas. It would've been malo otherwise
Woah that was ac heard lmfaooo rip that women
Ayllie Lopez wow how did I NOT see this???
“This isn’t just Peter choosing me, this is me choosing Peter.”
Sing it sister!! Dude that mom is a crazy, controlling, and idiotic to think that this is an easy choice for him to make. Relationships are hard anyway but broadcasting it on TV? Yeah that makes it easier.
She is marrying into the family. Unless she plans on never visiting his parent ever again.
@@bumpin0 It is the son's decision who he loves. And it is the parent's decision to stand by him and support him. She is overstepping and is out of line
I'm choosing Peter and "I expect him to change everything in his life for me".
@@lamar9331 She said she wasn't ok with him having sex with other women. How is that changing everything?
Think about it... everyone wants to say his mom is horrible but Peter Weber came into the bachelor saying his family is very important to him before ever knowing Madison. Hannah Ann was all in and Madi never was, she always asks Peter to compromise, their relationship never sparked to me honestly, come on she like broke up with him twice and she's so rigid you can tell she's not all in, when she talks she sounds like she's trying to talk herself into the relationship logically not emotionally....his mom and family cant see any spark either so of course they are going to be honest when it comes to Peter's heart......"it's telling to me that there is so many obstacles to even get to this point, you don't even start a relationship like that ...when you're getting into a relationship, that beginning should be the brightest spot, and it was anything but.."-Peters Dad
I want Madi's parents to say something. They'd rip Barb apart.
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Christina Nguyen the Pruitts are allowing their daughter be lead by God and make her own choices by Gods lead unlike Peters parents
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They have too much integrity and class to respond. It's that simple!
She literally told her husband to “say something bad” in Spanish before he started speaking. She is a horrendous person.
No she didn't. She just said to say something and help her out.
Matthew Alanis “ di algo mal también ayúdame “ significa en inglés “say something bad too (as well) help me”
@@kaycie1801 stop trying to use Google translate
She said di algo mas tambien not mal. She has an accent
Matthew Alanis and that’s a fair argument, maybe her accent did alter what we were hearing. It’s common for Spanish speakers in Central America and South America to leave off the S. However, in regards to the bachelor, that doesn’t excuse her behavior towards Madison and Peter. And furthermore, I speak Spanish so I’m not sure why you’re bringing up a translator.
When Barb spoke to her husband in spanish she said “say something bad too. help me.” I’m sorry but this is who your son is in love with. Why would you wanna shame her in front of thousands if not millions of people? Have respect.
No she didn't say bad. I'm fluent in Spanish and she said 'dile algo más también, ayudame'. People mistaken her saying 'mal' which means bad. All she said was say something more, help me. People are so ridiculous and try to find reasons to hate this woman it's disgusting.
RubiiRae I’m also fluent (cuban as well as Barb) and i understood “dile algo mal tambien. ayudame.” the fact that she was still asking for help to prove her point shows a lot though. let the man say what he wants to say.
@@BB-jd9pd Well it's not even the correct way to say it in Spanish if you meant 'dile algo malo también, ayudame''. And you said you're fluent and you're Cuban? Geez I guess the education system has failed you. Anyhow, I don't agree with Barb's behavior on national TV, she should've kept quiet but what came out of her mouth isn't of malicious intent. She was already angry with the show and Peter, and then they threw in Madison, which btw, Peter didn't ask to reconcile with her, Chris made the decision for Peter and Peter stupidly went along with it. Was it irrational for her to said what she said on TV? Yes. I don't know what point you're trying to prove by attacking Barb. Maybe that shows what kind of ugly person you are on the inside.
i hope u have a blessed day. and never ever go after someone and saying their an ugly person inside. you don’t know me nor my character, and defending a young women online does not in any way shape or form make someone an ugly person.
I don’t remember the parents ever being so involved during the bachelor franchise
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Farha He’ll end up breaking up with her. As soon as he gets home and his mother starts putting serious pressure on him he’s going to break. Total mama‘s boy.
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Its a cuban family, latinos and hispanic cultures have a very over bearing nature with their family.
Peter’s mom disrespect Madison as a woman, if she is Madison’s mom, she would be proud of her for what she had done!
If peter was a real man, he would've stopped his mother mid SENTENCE, rather than letting his mother berate the one that he loves on national television. Good luck finding someone to marry you while trying to grow a backbone, pete
If you've ever mentally abused all your life don't expect to function normally
@Tracy Lands for real. I maybe caught a total of 45 minutes of this entire season and every time I watched he fucking cried
He’s not going to argue with his mom on national television. That would only make the already awful, embarrassing situation that much worse. I’m sure he had it out with her off camera.
The way Peter handled everything in the finale (especially with Hannah Ann) shows that he isn’t a real man
He probably has been controlled by her his whole life. It won’t change over a day unfortunately.
Peter's mom reactions and comments was so disturbing to me, I'm actually losing sleep over this. My mom taught me well and was very supportive of my choices. Even when my choices were not good for me. I am Madison and my husband is Peter. I'm more religious and I see my husband would rather socialize and does. There's alot of sadness because of this choice to marry. I'm a mother of sons and I would NOT do to them what Barbara did out in public. That was very disturbing to see. I understand her worry. This is an unequally yoked pair. It's workable but not the best choice. I know from experience.
I still love you both Peter and Madison. God bless you both. The mother is a issue and a bad one at that. She was very hurtful to her own son Peter and Maddie and to many of us, because we watched it.
It's time Peter, overdue at best...you need to move out your parents home.
“he has to fail to succeed” wow... that was so rude wtf
Very rude!!! How bout we fail to invite you to the wedding, fail to invite you to the hospital when your first grandchild is born and fail to invite you to your grandchild's first birthday party. Failing to include them in their successes would be exactly what her and all the naysayers deserved but Maddie wouldn't be as cruel as Barb was to her tonight.
I could not believe those words came out of her mouth. What the hell. Why blame Madison. Also, they had already met Madison on the renewal wedding vows. As far as make them wait three hours to meet them is a wrong statement. This is Peters journey.
Haley C how so?
I'll say this much... If she wants to see that relationship fail, she should just keep up what she's doing. So many times parents are the root cause of breakups. It's so upsetting to see that she can't support her son.
I feel so sorry for Maddy, she is being attacked by this middle aged woman who surs her words, cries and seems not in control of her own life . I believe Barbara has personal issues of her own .
I could not support my son marrying someone who is so unwilling to compromise. Peter wanted her because she walked away. You always want what you can’t have.
Madison knew what she signed up for.... she changed the rules. Moms can’t support what they know is so wrong.
Really Mariah totally valid argument, but would you insult your son and his girlfriend on national television? and it’s one thing to not agree with the relationship, it’s another to consistently put them both down. at some point the parent needs to realize that their opinion only matters so much. the people whose opinions matter are the ones in the relationship (so long as there is no abuse, of course)
I feel like this will only bring Peter and Madison together. Romeo and Juliet type deal
Damn barb this show isn’t about you finding the perfect daughter in law
I'm glad he standed up for the girl he loves no matter what anyone says. It's their journey let them make their own mistakes that is life you live and learn.
aka let her son fuck up his life, yeah great advice!!
He don't even love her
This is one of the worst ways possible to get into a relationship: very public, relationships should be private
ummm do you watch The Bachelor?? LOL
Pacfam42 YT did the audience clipped for Madison instead off barb.
Now we know why he wasn’t ever married before this lol. His mamas crazy.
Kiah Danyluk you are crazy if you like Maddie
also because he's only 25 lol..
Raina L his mom said “25” but I’ve read in some places that he is actually 28.
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I can't deal with a woman like this mom with so much negativity cloaked as "intuition" like its ridiculous!
As a lady in faith .... if he ain't walking the same path break up. I know people think the mom was harsh but I believe her statement true and even his brother said hey can you handle no more "fun" with the ladies...
If he truly wanted her he would of not done what he did... he thought he could and get the third later thru marriage... not my life so best to both of them
With all due respect, I disagree with how Peter’s mother handled everything. At a minimum, she could trust her son and be supportive. The fact that she has gone to such great lengths in her manipulative overreacting, it is quite clear that she is so disturbed that she cannot control Peter as to whom he will marry - and is so clearly pissed - that she will stop at nothing (now) to ENSURE her own son fails at this relationship just to feed her own pride. This has a horrible Dr. Phil episode gone wrong written all over it.
Sorry Peter. The rest of the world can clearly see your heart and that you literally proposed to Hannah Ann to please your mom. The fact that you couldn’t keep up the charade for your family is not on you - anyone with a pair of eyes can see you tried the route of keeping everyone happy - but you did what was right in the end. The heart wants what the heart wants and there’s no amount of manipulation that can prevent a bad decision if you’re being true to yourself. Be strong Peter - in the end your mom will HAVE to come around.
And Mattie? Go girl!!! Keeping it 💯
Golden comment! Very well expressed. I wholeheartedly share your opinion. We shall see what the future holds for them!
Jillyy 72 100% Disagree!!! Mad Maddie is No Better! She will be controlling Peter & holding shit over his head the rest if his life! She was so negative the hole show & decided to leave. When the going gets tough you stay period! You don't leave!
LOL well put! yes!!!
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She’s just mad cause she didn’t get her Way. I swear she’s gonna wear a funeral gown to the wedding
opposites attract, but a toxic mother in law will be the reason for them not working out..
No. Even the Bible states that when a man will leave his parents to become ONE with his wife.
Victim: “I am telling you that I love Madison and that should be enough... please” (2:17)
Instigator: mouthing and murmur - (2:27)
Target: ... - (2:30)
Host: “Dad, what is your take on this” (2:34)
Instigator: “Pero di algo mal tambien, ayudame” - “But say something bad too, help me” (2:35)
Mediator: Annoyed? Hesitant? (2:38)
meowawaywoof I think she said Pedro, because his dads name is also Peter
Her son is not a saint. He slept around and that’s why Madison was conservative about giving her heart. He has to earn it. He might fall in love too easily but not everyone is the same. She’s protecting her heart. She will know if he’s worth it by his actions... only time will tell
Its a weird situation but peter shouldnt have just tried to sleep with all of them... he shouldve made his decision by then and commited.
I love when Madison said “this isn’t just peter choosing me, it’s also me choosing peter!”
She's right, but it also shows she's self-centered and wants the spotlight for her own!
@@dolphignition7176 Nah, in this specific moment it was her standing up for herself, not being self centered. There's a difference
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Definitely feel as if Peter’s mom hates the fact that she can’t control her son. 🤣 And she absolutely 100% hates the fact that our sweet Madison speaks her mind. I’m so proud of Madison for speaking up. Mom needs to stay out of her son’s personal life because as someone who has gone through a similar situation, in the end her son will follow his heart, which means disconnecting with his family if need be to be with the love of his life. His mom needs to go find Jesus and get rid of all that hate and anger. I definitely don’t see his mom getting her way. The harder she tries the further she’ll push him away. Go Peter & Madison!
Absolutely I have one daughter 3 son all adults no one marriage yet but breaks my heart I will never want any mother to say anything like this to my daughter who ever they choose let them be all the parents need to do show your true love to your children with 100% support wish them all the blessing from God
XOKandeeXO forreal the mom is driving me nuts just because Madison is faithful doesn’t mean she is a bad person jeez
Yes, finding Jesus is what Peter needs and that should be first priority in life, not his condescending mother!
She is a manipulative whitch..sorry but thats a fact!
@@daniee8560 , exactly! The tears, the constant remarks on the side to the husband , the facial expressions...list goes on!
And now they’re not even together anymore lmao
Just wow. She is telling her husband to help her prove her case. This woman is manipulative.
Smh
Barb was completely disrespectful to Peter and Madison! Let Peter live his own life!
Amy Flowers beautifully written
Amy Flowers no that’s not true no one should like Madison she’s not right for Peter, he shouldn’t have even gone on the show if he’s gonna play the good guy while breaking someone else’s heart messed up
@@itssophieplays7522 Good guys don't screw everyone in town.
Did you not see why she doesn't like Madison? She was 3 hours late didn't want to meet them thats rude. It wasn't just his mother his whole family didn't like her. Never going to work out.
I think Barb is disappointed in her son, and hurts for him knowing as his mother that his future won't be happy with Madison. She knows her son is making a big mistake, and unlike many (but not all) American mothers out there, she doesn't just sit back. As a mother, she's going to warn him about the big decision he's making, she has every right to do so and be upset over the fact that he played with a beautiful girl like Hannah Ann's feelings. He did her wrong, and walked away from someone who would love him unconditionally. It wasn't just about the sex thing, Barb mentioned Hannah Ann's radiant energy and love that she immediately felt when meeting her, first impressions are important. Madison is a great girl, but she doesn't have that same warmth to her. I can get where Barb is coming from, she knows he son messed up big time treating a good girl like Hannah Ann like that.
No wonder Peter chose the more drama filled relationship, his mom's a drama queen. It ain't worth it, Maddie. Life will be hell
Kay X Madison ain’t worth it either she was giving mixed signals at the end hell nah he should be single
basically his mom thinks she can control everything in her sons life and dad just does nothing. thats what i got from this. he just goes with whatever she wants and has no opinion.
THEY are not worth it. Maddison should walk away from those people!
god that would be a nightmare of a mother in law to have...
Mine was worse....only Italian!!! Here we are still together after 31 years, solid as when we first married - keep your opinions to yourself and she was still causing issues until she died 4 yrs ago.....even with her own daughters' marriage!!!! Drama all about her and her knowing better we are all finally at peace 🙏
She’s so controlling that she had to speak to her husband in a different language to make sure he supported her!!! Then he was allowed to answer Chris. Yikes
Barbara's such a b for that one. Peter is the one dating Madison, NOT her. Who the hell does she think she is???
@Memcha Laishram exactly hahahahaha.
Peter picked the wrong girl. Hannah Ann was much better for him and he disgraced himself for leading her on when he proposed to her. He treated Hannah Ann like dirt
@@martinober6345 lol like dirt? No he didnt. He made the mistke of proposing while still having feelings for Madison. It was obvious he loved Madi and was gonna pick her, but his parent convinced him to pick Hannah Ann. Thats not treating her like dirt, its just making wrong decisions and saying the wrong things that hurt someone else. He is only human, he has problems and issues. The real villain here tho is the mother
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The fact that he has to beg for his mother to JUST LISTEN to him shows how much Barbra respects him!!!!
The way Peters face shines every time he sees her and the way she smiles opens her arms to Him, you know it’s love. Peter wants a closer relationship with God, and Madi is ready to walk with him through that journey. Don’t give up on your love guys!
This was VILE. I felt for Madison. I was infuriated, can't imagine what Madi's parents are feeling right now.
So true, I hope Maddy parents have a word with this alcoholic woman , she is not behaving normally. I have a young son 27 , i love and support him and I love anyone who shows him love, he got some right and some wrong, and I have never interfere, I allow him to be an adult and work it out and he did . I also show respect to people and I would never be mean to another persons child like she is to Maddy.
@@carolynsenik7103 exactly. If I was Madi's mom I'd have a few words with this woman. Unacceptable.
Peter needs to move out cause his mom is getting WAY too comfortable
With a mom like that who needs villains and enemies on this show..
If they ever break up he will have a hard time finding someone else because no woman wants to have that as a mother in law!! Yikes
Kari Nordmann 😍🙏🏼
Idk, Hannah Ann seemed pretty thrilled lol
Doesn't matter if a man's mother is good or bad person, bitches always find a reason to hate them
When the mom spoke she said “say something bad, help me”
Natalkaa96 because she’s tryna save her son from making a mistake like he’s done over and over on this show
She said "mas"
17M views I wasn’t asking for your opinion on the situation, nor asked you to explain what your thoughts where.
I was simply translating what the mom was saying in Spanish to the dad
Wow, Peter is just sitting there, he let his mother talk, Madison had to defend herself.
Adwoa Mk they actually broke my heart! Peter needs to stick up for himself you can just tell he never does when it comes to his mother. If you notice dad had the same expression throughout the whole session meanwhile his mom is mean mugging or rolling her eyes
They asked her for her opinion, so he had to let her speak. But you can tell for Madi he won't allow anything.
Reminds me of someone I know...
Landa JB I kind of wished, though, she saved face and just said “You know, Chris, I have my own opinions but I will be happy for my son” and leave it at that, but lady went for it, guns blazing. She could have been more diplomatic about it. But then again, we wouldn’t be discussing much if she hadn’t done that😂
Madison’s parents should never have allowed her go back.
She is a big girl and can make her own decisions (just like peter). I'm sure her parents trust her judgment.
@@macystewart9480 Her judgement isn't the issue, besides she broke up with Peter previously then came back. It's up to Peter at this point to handle his family.
Never allowed? Are you kidding me dude? Like what are they gonna do? Lock her up in chains and make her repeat "I hate Peter" till she actually starts to hate him? Parents can offer advice to this grown lady, that's all.
You might be confusing Madison’s parents with Peter’s. I doubt they are as controlling and involved as Barb is
I think his mom just caused damage to their relationship. Peter is a big boy let him make some choices for himself. She was pretty harsh and said words she cannot take back.....
First step for Peter is to move out of house and limit the influence his mother has on their relationship.
Even if he doesn't end up with Maddie, he's going to hold a grudge against her for quite a long time
@@kayliehorst1050 It's time that he cuts the umbilical cord that ties him to his mother. One can respect their mother without agreeing with them.
I feel like later down the road I felt like peter is going to resent of his mother. What do you all thinking 💭 share with me
@@christinanguyen5033 oh definitely...whether it works out for peter and maddie or not. Even his dad not being supportive had to be painful to him. His mother speaking in Spanish.....come on, seriously, she needs help. Its almost like she has to be in control or else she loses it and cries...waaaaaaa waaaaa ..lol
Mamas way or the highway...Peter take the first flight out to anywhere and never come back!!! His mom is an embarrassment!!
Madison doesn’t have an ounce of class if she can’t even simply apologize for being late and making comments about not wanting to meet the family... she didn’t even care to explain herself! She corny....
Why is the mom acting like she’s marrying Madison?
I know right? I said the same thing!
Because she is a controlling narcissist
My dad said "Peters dad was a wimp in that moment". Saying something you dont believe in to please your wife at the expense of your son and this innocent girl is appaling.
Tiffany Smith 😂🤣😂😂 I’m sure she is!! Lmfao!
Tiffany Smith, peter appears to be ready for weaning tho.
Barbara is just mad she can't control Madi like she could have with Hannah Ann
Chris Harrison was the best parent in that room.
Yea but to be honest... By bringing Barb into it, he sabotaged Peter ever finding a wife.... I mean what sane woman would want a mother in law like Barb.