As a 39 year old male, the only women that I'd stay away from are the ones that feel entitled and the ones that haven't dealt with their past issues. Emotional intelligence is key folks.
If you want a chocolate black man just say that we can be like Martin and Gina😊jk but your pretty and beautiful though. You got to follow Gods word in the Holy Bible perspective to get a wife and maintain a marriage its a reminder for the wife too you should always be aiming for a marriage. Marriage is actually a relationship between a man, woman, and God its a holy relationship if you don't know Jesus Christ don't get in a marriage because without the proper foundation it will break apart the world perspective on a relationship is too many opinions and different views on what a relationships should be like which the worldy out look on a relationship becomes flawed because it doesn't involve God and everything is done out of emotions and past trama plus a worldy relationship allow demonic forces to enter in your relationship a worldy will never go right or be true always invalid its one big lie. God created marriage and the word of God is the only truth
Sis doesn't get it, but women usually don't. It's very simple though. It's about attraction. You're just not as attractive when you get older. Men are attracted to youth just like women are attracted to height. Men have accepted that women are attracted to height. Women need to accept that men are attracted to youth. These things will never change, it's just how we're built.
@@candyxoxo19 There are always unicorns in the comments. I bet he's 4 foot 1, too, huh? Yeah, well when he gets back from the traveling circus, tell him to come and drop a comment here...
the argument is more about young womens fertility, and how it progressively goes down as they age, while men build themselves up to be more desirable later on in their lives
@@candyxoxo19 Any woman that has gotten so old that she has to resort to science experiments to have a kid, has completely lost the plot of life and needs to examine every decision she's ever made as a possible mistake.
Men are generally talking about being sexually tainted though(having more bodies, not being able to pair bond effectively). Yes we may also think that emotional trauma is effecting older women more, making them more jaded than younger women. But being sexually tainted is more of a concern for us. Of course some younger women are carrying a lot trauma also, but its logical for men to think that younger women may be carrying less. Men also considers a woman's age for having babies. Women in their 30's are medically deemed to have geriatric pregnancies. Younger women also seem to be more agreeable, less argumentative. So in a man's mind a younger woman is usually considered a more logical choice.
I'm going to date younger because I want kids. There are some attractive older women, but I want some kids and I want them healthy. And, kids is expensive. I'm not trying to be mean but if I'm putting a down payment on something I want to know I can have it when I get done with the payments. Might go back to older but I got goals
The last 40 years many women chose the bad boys over the good guys! So it's not the fault of good guys perferring to be careful when choosing! Thats the origin of the tainting! So hopefully that culture will change, but Pookie & Ray Ray are still the one's many choose to procreate with! Leading to so many single parent households in the last 40 years! Hmm, those stats seem to match! It's NOT the fault of good guys who constantly got ignored by women of ALL social & economic levels! Have to get out of that race-race, then improvements will follow! If you don't believe me, just look around!
What's funny about a lot of these experts that actually believe they know what they're talking about I've been married over 20 some years and this is all for a joke
This conversation about youth is foolish. Youth is fleeting!!! If you are gonna be foolish, do it while you are young. People expect you to move better by the time you are thirty.
As a 39 year old male, the only women that I'd stay away from are the ones that feel entitled and the ones that haven't dealt with their past issues. Emotional intelligence is key folks.
I wanna holla at ya!!
If you want a chocolate black man just say that we can be like Martin and Gina😊jk but your pretty and beautiful though. You got to follow Gods word in the Holy Bible perspective to get a wife and maintain a marriage its a reminder for the wife too you should always be aiming for a marriage. Marriage is actually a relationship between a man, woman, and God its a holy relationship if you don't know Jesus Christ don't get in a marriage because without the proper foundation it will break apart the world perspective on a relationship is too many opinions and different views on what a relationships should be like which the worldy out look on a relationship becomes flawed because it doesn't involve God and everything is done out of emotions and past trama plus a worldy relationship allow demonic forces to enter in your relationship a worldy will never go right or be true always invalid its one big lie. God created marriage and the word of God is the only truth
younger men don't seem to think so..
This! 😂
Sis doesn't get it, but women usually don't. It's very simple though. It's about attraction. You're just not as attractive when you get older. Men are attracted to youth just like women are attracted to height. Men have accepted that women are attracted to height. Women need to accept that men are attracted to youth. These things will never change, it's just how we're built.
My bf is short
True
Physicality is important to a lot of people
Everything matters
There's someone for everyone
@@candyxoxo19 There are always unicorns in the comments. I bet he's 4 foot 1, too, huh? Yeah, well when he gets back from the traveling circus, tell him to come and drop a comment here...
the argument is more about young womens fertility, and how it progressively goes down as they age, while men build themselves up to be more desirable later on in their lives
With embryo adoption it’s still possible
@@candyxoxo19 Any woman that has gotten so old that she has to resort to science experiments to have a kid, has completely lost the plot of life and needs to examine every decision she's ever made as a possible mistake.
No it really depends on the female
The women that would date me now would not date me when they were younger
Men are generally talking about being sexually tainted though(having more bodies, not being able to pair bond effectively). Yes we may also think that emotional trauma is effecting older women more, making them more jaded than younger women. But being sexually tainted is more of a concern for us. Of course some younger women are carrying a lot trauma also, but its logical for men to think that younger women may be carrying less. Men also considers a woman's age for having babies. Women in their 30's are medically deemed to have geriatric pregnancies. Younger women also seem to be more agreeable, less argumentative. So in a man's mind a younger woman is usually considered a more logical choice.
I'm going to date younger because I want kids.
There are some attractive older women, but I want some kids and I want them healthy.
And, kids is expensive.
I'm not trying to be mean but if I'm putting a down payment on something I want to know I can have it when I get done with the payments.
Might go back to older but I got goals
The last 40 years many women chose the bad boys over the good guys! So it's not the fault of good guys perferring to be careful when choosing! Thats the origin of the tainting! So hopefully that culture will change, but Pookie & Ray Ray are still the one's many choose to procreate with! Leading to so many single parent households in the last 40 years! Hmm, those stats seem to match! It's NOT the fault of good guys who constantly got ignored by women of ALL social & economic levels! Have to get out of that race-race, then improvements will follow! If you don't believe me, just look around!
What's funny about a lot of these experts that actually believe they know what they're talking about I've been married over 20 some years and this is all for a joke
When they say they’re tainted, they mean they 304’s. The men will play with them, but they don’t want them.
Not if they remain together. That's the goal anyway.
This conversation about youth is foolish. Youth is fleeting!!! If you are gonna be foolish, do it while you are young. People expect you to move better by the time you are thirty.
You should take up gardening or knitting… stop offline ma’am
I’m sorry you feel so offended. Maybe you could practice your own hobby to take your mind off it 🫶🏼