ADHD Coach Ryan Mayer
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Delegation Without Guilt: Freeing Your ADHD Self to Focus on What Matters: Episode #16
In this episode, we talk about the challenges of delegation for those with ADHD and the importance of asking for help. We also introduce a framework called Start, Stop, Continue to help you guys identify tasks you can delegate.
"Ask for help; it's okay to not do it all alone."
And you are NOT alone in this journey!
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Delegation and ADHD
02:03 Understanding the Challenges of Delegation
08:00 Mindset Shifts for Effective Delegation
09:55 Introduction to Delegation and Support
13:28 Steps to Effective Delegation
17:48 Overcoming Perfectionism and Asking for Help
23:53 Call to Action: Embrace Delegation
25:47 Outro
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Struggling to stay focused at work? Feeling overwhelmed by your endless to-do list? Fighting perfectionism?
You’re in the right place.
Ryan Mayer, Certified ADHD Coach and Neuroinclusion specialist, helps adults with ADHD conquer overwhelm, unlock their potential, and thrive in their careers and lives through his Conquer Your ADHD™️ System .
Ryan offers expert insights and real-life solutions designed specifically for ADHD brains.
🔑 What You’ll Get:
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✔️ Strategies to boost productivity without burning out.
✔️ Real-life solutions tailored to your needs.
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @jayextras8901
    @jayextras8901 10 годин тому

    Sign 8: Always saying sorry

  • @hypergigachad
    @hypergigachad 17 годин тому

    the fact that im watching this at 3:30 am

  • @Jeonkyong
    @Jeonkyong 22 години тому

    Eminem?

  • @bsidethebox
    @bsidethebox День тому

    Caffeine actually helps me sleep. I don't use it to self-medicate on the daily, so results may vary, but I do keep caffeinated options around for nights when my mind races too much. 35-50mg works like a mini Adderall for me and quiets the chaos.

    • @RyanMayerCoaching
      @RyanMayerCoaching 17 годин тому

      Love this- and have heard that it works for others too. Glad you found something that works for you! (I recently chose to give up caffeine for 90 days because I was developing a very unhealthy relationship with it!) 😬

  • @gordonlaurie1945
    @gordonlaurie1945 3 дні тому

    Dudes living with Donkey Kong.

  • @ArtwithNethu
    @ArtwithNethu 4 дні тому

    bro the start was pure comedy but cant get a diagnosis( i relate) cuz my mum thinks its normal

  • @RakibHossan360
    @RakibHossan360 5 днів тому

    Thank you for this valuable episode, Ryan. The concept of delegating without guilt, especially within the context of ADHD, is truly transformative. I particularly appreciated the exercise of categorizing tasks based on energy levels-it’s a practical tool that can make a real difference in productivity. I’d love to know, how do you suggest balancing the need for delegation with maintaining control over critical tasks that directly impact your core objectives?

  • @RyanMayerCoaching
    @RyanMayerCoaching 5 днів тому

    This is one of the ALL TIME favorites of me and my kids!

  • @BitterNor1
    @BitterNor1 5 днів тому

    Dude that happens so often it's no longer a meme but a way of life 😂

  • @heritage.home.crochet
    @heritage.home.crochet 5 днів тому

    Forgot dog barking

  • @RyanMayerCoaching
    @RyanMayerCoaching 6 днів тому

    I had so much fun making this video, lol.😂

  • @LilyOliver-58
    @LilyOliver-58 6 днів тому

    Always❤

  • @samanthas5572
    @samanthas5572 8 днів тому

    Yep

  • @chellehackett
    @chellehackett 9 днів тому

    Two years after we moved to the US, my mum gave us tickets to England for the following summer as our Christmas presents.

  • @asyrafratim3235
    @asyrafratim3235 9 днів тому

    nice moustache bro

  • @Kyle-i8u3k
    @Kyle-i8u3k 10 днів тому

    Yes I did. I had 2 ounces of water for th4 oast week 😊

  • @D-Energize
    @D-Energize 10 днів тому

    so meee haha i can relate to my adhd

  • @Hunka777
    @Hunka777 10 днів тому

    very relatable i am stressed now

  • @beckykarwitha7328
    @beckykarwitha7328 10 днів тому

    I am the most helper but somehow forget to ask for help .😭😭😭This !!😭

  • @MatthewSampey
    @MatthewSampey 11 днів тому

    I want to delegate cleaning my house! I am newly divorced and just having a hard time keeping up with everything!!!😢

    • @RyanMayerCoaching
      @RyanMayerCoaching 11 днів тому

      @@MatthewSampey you are not alone!

    • @andreamayer1255
      @andreamayer1255 9 днів тому

      Coach Matt- getting a housekeeper to come once a month was one of the best decisions we ever made. I don’t mind cleaning, but when I am cleaning, I am not spending time with the kids or doing other things. ❤

  • @RyanMayerCoaching
    @RyanMayerCoaching 11 днів тому

    Yay! 🎉❤ 👨‍🍼

  • @asyrafratim3235
    @asyrafratim3235 11 днів тому

    Thanks for the great content Coach Ryan! You're absolutely awesome!

  • @adhdcoachnj
    @adhdcoachnj 11 днів тому

    Fantastic episode Ryan. Delegating is so hard for me. Sometimes I think it’s because of my perfectionism and no one else can do it as well as me. Even though the things I should be delegating, I don’t do very well.! I love your start stop continue exercise. This will help me clarify what needs delegating! I’m gonna work on that tomorrow so I can remind myself of what I need to delegate.

  • @raefarmer5584
    @raefarmer5584 11 днів тому

    HOW CAN I FOCUS ON THE MESSAGE WHEN THE BOOKS ARE TELEPORTING, WHERE THEY GONNA BE???

  • @MsRector
    @MsRector 11 днів тому

    My task is getting help with purging the house and belongings!

  • @MsRector
    @MsRector 11 днів тому

    I love this! I need this not only for my home, but maybe my professional life shortly after! I also love the marketing voice😂😂

  • @elanmarko8831
    @elanmarko8831 11 днів тому

    Delegating. Such a powerful tool.

  • @KyleeSchecter
    @KyleeSchecter 11 днів тому

    I love the way you reframe asking for help as a strength! It’s the key to becoming comfortable in yourself and your professional capabilities👏

  • @Laz1948
    @Laz1948 11 днів тому

    Love it Ryan! The one thing I would love to delegate is everything to do with money management. To me, dealing with my taxes feels like wading through the thickest mud. I definitely need to keep trying to do better at asking for help… Thanks for the reminder!

    • @andreamayer1255
      @andreamayer1255 9 днів тому

      Getting an accountant was one of the best decisions of our lives! ❤

  • @ghopkins3
    @ghopkins3 11 днів тому

    Amazing episode. Yes, very hard for me to ask someone to do something for me! Great suggestions

    • @andreamayer1255
      @andreamayer1255 9 днів тому

      Yes very real struggle. You deserve that help!❤

  • @bornbananas
    @bornbananas 11 днів тому

    This is so powerful! Thank you for talking about guilt and steps to take!!!

  • @MariaIsabelMolina-qy3yj
    @MariaIsabelMolina-qy3yj 12 днів тому

    Great episode Ryan and really important advices. Here is a Worksitter happy to help!!

  • @saburke1771
    @saburke1771 12 днів тому

    One of the hardest things I had to let go of in my business. But with the right team in place it's a godsend for people like us

  • @michaeldickey3513
    @michaeldickey3513 12 днів тому

    Live this!

  • @investinyoucoaching
    @investinyoucoaching 12 днів тому

    Coach Ryan you are such an great coach and inspiration!

  • @SarahRose-y9k
    @SarahRose-y9k 12 днів тому

    Ryan, this is a great episode - "shoulds" = "shame" and shame sinks our emotions and our productivity so quickly! Love the idea of delegating and body doubling!

  • @CelinaColombo-f8t
    @CelinaColombo-f8t 12 днів тому

    I need to delegate the task of figuring out what I need to delegate.

  • @joemelendrez6091
    @joemelendrez6091 12 днів тому

    Thanks Ryan! You are delivering so much value! 🙌🏼

  • @RyanMayerCoaching
    @RyanMayerCoaching 12 днів тому

    The throwing of the phone 📱 was my favorite part of making this video 😂 🤷‍♂️

  • @strengthinyourmind
    @strengthinyourmind 12 днів тому

    Taxes!!!! And mail :)

  • @andreamayer1255
    @andreamayer1255 12 днів тому

    Friends don’t let friends fold alone !❤

  • @Theslaygirl-k9y
    @Theslaygirl-k9y 12 днів тому

    Yep

  • @cassaundrabellezza5776
    @cassaundrabellezza5776 12 днів тому

    Hi Ryan! Awesome podcast! Appreciate all you do. This is Tony &Cassi from Anthony’s Way-The Road to Kindness. You are spot on about “shame” and “should” and feeling inadequate for asking for help. We are trying to get better at it and really needed to hear this. We would love to delegate emails and social media, but don’t think someone else would “get” our process and mission enough to represent us. Being so close to the source of why we created our non-Profit, We wouldn’t trust a virtual assistant at this point. We are not ready -YET. Tony is a Dream Big person- love your sign 🧡

    • @andreamayer1255
      @andreamayer1255 12 днів тому

      It does take a lot of trust to delegate. We create the outline or ideas for the copy, the VA makes the copy and the email deign, then Ryan approves it before anything is sent out. We found a process that works for us!❤

  • @deannaockunzzi615
    @deannaockunzzi615 13 днів тому

    Great episode! Loved how you shared your personal/business resources that help you with delegation. So cool that your VA has specialized in the way that they have! Sharing your resources helps to show that it often takes a village to accomplish big things.

  • @toniszmagala536
    @toniszmagala536 13 днів тому

    I am retired and I think I have no excuse for getting things done. But, they are not done and feel shame that I am lazy . But if somebody helps me I can accomplish everything. Finally found someone who understands I feel better and will pick a link to help me.

    • @RyanMayerCoaching
      @RyanMayerCoaching 13 днів тому

      @@toniszmagala536 that’s amazing that you found the support you needed!

    • @andreamayer1255
      @andreamayer1255 12 днів тому

      Absolutely! You are not lazy! Your brain just works differently!

  • @NicoleAbunassar
    @NicoleAbunassar 13 днів тому

    As a small business owner, I’ve learned how important it is to delegate tasks. Letting go can be tough, but it’s a game-changer for both productivity and peace of mind. Sometimes, the more you try to control everything, the more chaotic things can feel. In the beginning, as a one-person team, I did it all-but breaking that habit was essential for growth. I love the 'draining your battery' list idea-such a great strategy I’ll definitely try out. Thank you for sharing such a valuable message!

  • @jarrodjob
    @jarrodjob 13 днів тому

    Asking for Help :: Shame :: Should

  • @ScottOckunzzi
    @ScottOckunzzi 13 днів тому

    Love the advice to focus on things that energize you and delegate things that don’t!

  • @joshuaokwemba1602
    @joshuaokwemba1602 13 днів тому

    Amazing 🎉