Seems like the video got cut off at the end. Anyways, always appreciate the honesty and today's video seemed to conveyed in a previously unseen mode of emotion that adds to the message of the video. Love is unquenchable, and it is ever increasing. It is contagious. It doesn't take, but it gives freely. Love is fruitful and multiplies. Fruits grow from Love and they nourish and inspire others to reciprocate in being fruitful as well. Too many men today are subscribing to a legalistic attitude about pursuing what they think is masculinity. A rich, physically fit man with the biggest house, the nicest cars etc. can be a completely weak man. Striving for the outward appearances IN ORDER to become more masculine does not actually make one any more masculine and does not fulfill ultimately. In fact, such an attitude is needy. This is parallel to Jesus' criticisms of those who were being legalistic, because the laws become more important than the lawgiver, and the keeping the laws became about themselves, projecting the inner neediness. And such as missing the point. It's putting the chariot in front of the horse. Jesus' parable of the widow's tithe can be applied to masculinity as well. The worth of one's masculinity is measured by an attitude of giving and serving. As for the relevance of the exterior, a serving and giving heart naturally finds ways to be more effective in giving and serving, and it actually becomes natural to make an effort, whether it's in working out, discipline, or relationships. The paradox is that one with such a heart is actually more rewarded. And changing the heart is actually about learning that one has inherent self worth. It follows that one who truly knows one's self worth does not seek worth from other people. That's what karezza is about too. Even before the mechanistic matters of slowing down and not ejaculating etc., it's about the heart posturing for connection through giving out of abundance. It's really unfortunate how distorted sex has become in culture. It has become all about the climax. And for all the conventional advice on 'good sex' being about being charitable and connecting, almost all but few also always advocate reaching for climax. I, speaking as a man, while not judging, have yet to hear a reasonable answer as to what about the male ejaculation actually is giving/serving to the partner, other than for the purpose of procreation. The conventional answer just comes down to "ah... it feels good"... But for who? For the self. It seems like only karezza practitioners come to realize how male ejaculation isn't the end all be all of sex.
You are one of a few women on the web teaching useful honest advice for us men, on what & how women think and feel.
Thank you!!
She is a gem.
Seems like the video got cut off at the end. Anyways, always appreciate the honesty and today's video seemed to conveyed in a previously unseen mode of emotion that adds to the message of the video.
Love is unquenchable, and it is ever increasing. It is contagious. It doesn't take, but it gives freely. Love is fruitful and multiplies. Fruits grow from Love and they nourish and inspire others to reciprocate in being fruitful as well.
Too many men today are subscribing to a legalistic attitude about pursuing what they think is masculinity. A rich, physically fit man with the biggest house, the nicest cars etc. can be a completely weak man. Striving for the outward appearances IN ORDER to become more masculine does not actually make one any more masculine and does not fulfill ultimately. In fact, such an attitude is needy. This is parallel to Jesus' criticisms of those who were being legalistic, because the laws become more important than the lawgiver, and the keeping the laws became about themselves, projecting the inner neediness. And such as missing the point. It's putting the chariot in front of the horse.
Jesus' parable of the widow's tithe can be applied to masculinity as well. The worth of one's masculinity is measured by an attitude of giving and serving. As for the relevance of the exterior, a serving and giving heart naturally finds ways to be more effective in giving and serving, and it actually becomes natural to make an effort, whether it's in working out, discipline, or relationships. The paradox is that one with such a heart is actually more rewarded.
And changing the heart is actually about learning that one has inherent self worth. It follows that one who truly knows one's self worth does not seek worth from other people.
That's what karezza is about too. Even before the mechanistic matters of slowing down and not ejaculating etc., it's about the heart posturing for connection through giving out of abundance.
It's really unfortunate how distorted sex has become in culture. It has become all about the climax. And for all the conventional advice on 'good sex' being about being charitable and connecting, almost all but few also always advocate reaching for climax. I, speaking as a man, while not judging, have yet to hear a reasonable answer as to what about the male ejaculation actually is giving/serving to the partner, other than for the purpose of procreation. The conventional answer just comes down to "ah... it feels good"... But for who? For the self. It seems like only karezza practitioners come to realize how male ejaculation isn't the end all be all of sex.
Gonna save this video as a good reminder
Thank you!!!