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I've screamed in my car MANY MANY times! Beat on the steering wheel, screamed into pillows, but I can't say I've ever screamed in the woods, something I need to try! Just go full-dahmer on a tree! Hit it with a stick until the stick breaks! I seriously need to try that! I've also stood by this beautiful lake up the trail from my house, where I stood there skipping rocks through the water while listening to that reasons song by holloback! Good times! :D But nothing's holding you back from doing stuff like that! It's okay to be a little nuts sometimes! I think being too normal screws people over!

I cannot tell you how much I relate to everything you said in this video. so so so so nice to hear that someone else is going through this.

I see what you mean! And the repression of emotions and not the not admitting to how someone truly feels comes from them wanting to be burden to others, as ridiculous as that may sound! They want to be around others and feel strong, which is alright! Nothing wrong with that, of course! It's just taken too far, and that's your point! It's taken to a place where, without realizing it, they inadvertently leave people like you struggling in the quicksand! Assuming people like you are doing the same thing, that being wanting to feel strong around others! And while I also see where you're coming from when you said the world is falling apart, I also believe that that's just from the natural conflict which comes from 7 billion people, with tons of different thoughts, feelings, and life styles! But, with those seven billion people comes inner conflicts, sometimes leading to, as much as I don't like this, criminal behavior! Sometimes... Not all the times. But sometimes, inner conflict, especially repressed inner conflict, can lead to someone turning to their careless aggressive side for liberation! Anyways! That stuff is natural though, is my point! Trust me, the animal kingdom isn't any better! So I think we all see the same conflicts going on but, we all see that conflict in different ways! I personally love the world we live in now! :D

Love your thoughts! Glad I clicked. I also found my astrology birth chart and personality tests to be helpful with people pleaser recovery. They jump-started the self-discovery or rediscovery process for me for sure. I also found numerology and Tarot to be useful. Tarot's catchphrase, 'Take what resonates and leave the rest' transferred to other areas of my life and helped me practice getting back in touch with my intuition. And 100% agree that observation is key. Early on I had to just sit with myself and start noticing and journaling. Can't wait to watch more vids, thanks for sharing!

Hi girl!,, you’ve described it so well and this resonated with me. However, I’ve done plenty of personality tests and astrology in the past already as I struggled to know my self. I have been a people pleaser and got stuck in narcissistic relationships in the past. And yes I know it wasn’t the best way to solve a problem but as I also struggled so much with establishing boundaries I found it easier to cut people which I regret those decisions at times, only a few that was deeply necessary. It took some time over the years to recognize my own person and establish my own values and I hope I will find my community that truly align with me😊 thank you!

Omg guys pls lmk if you have done any of the personality tests and let me know your personality type!! I’m so intrigued

I wish you well and hope you had a great day today. If you want to grow your UA-cam and website I can help you. Thank you Tushar Sarkar

1. low expectations 2. social media detox (live in real life) 3. solo dates (cinema, cafe, library, park, museum!) 4. eat and drink well 5. movement meditation and hot girl walks etc. 6. romanticise small moments e.g waking up early to watch sunrise 7. be a main character 8. recognise this as an era and look forward to what is coming 9. document through journalling and pictures 10. take the summer to improve your situation eg no reckless spending 11. do a big spring clean and clear out!!

Thank you sm for make this video dear, you helped me❤️

Love the vid queen, and wow I remember watching ur video when u said smth like “mark my words one day you’ll see me moving out on this channel” and now it’s happening ☺️☺️ proud of u queen 🩷 and yesss Gemini here, happy bday 🥰

time stamps for you lovely people 00:00 - let’s get unstuck 01:15 - change through awareness 03:45 - get good at being bad 07:00 - stop distorting your perception of reality 10:59 - take the pressure off 🌷

❤I agree 💯

yeah u dont want advice just want to vent

I'm almost twice your age and still feel like that sometimes.

Hey, I hope you are doing better and found something that is a better fit for you! Your feelings are valid and I know what it feels like to want to just FEEL for a little bit, instead of working on a solution all the time

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Amazing notes and points you are sharing thanks a lot, keep it up with the astonishing work 😊

its not just you feelin like that. yes we have no community because families are not a thing anymore. no support because no one has family, so if they can't have families how will they have friends? its lonely because no family. Honestly you may not believe me but if you ever get successful on UA-cam you will never ever ever have a husband. rich girls never ever ever marry a guy worse off than them, if this channel gets sucessful it will curse you, it will boost your self worth so much that every guy will not be suitable in your eyes forever. this is the problem. women working. sounds bad but it ruined everything it was the beginning of the end. you will prob disagree because most girls do but most guys agree with me. Anyways focus on finding a husband and ride with him, get him to work and you raise your family at home! You will have a very fulfilling life. every problem you have right now is directly caused by not having a family i swear! I hope you get everything you pray for! Take care! you really are running out of time im not trying scare you or something because you still have time. but not much. like you need to find a husband within 12 months. give up on this feminist idea and go back to 1920's women just look up those women and research their life. this is the ideal for a woman she will be happy! my ex has 5.5m subs she is not finding a guy and shes like 27 or 28 now. shes looking but she wants someone who makes millions like her. won't happen. she wont ever have kids. you still have a chance! men don't give you more points for having a degree, or having money. they give you no extra points. None. Seriously plz take my word for it. So when you waste time on these things it hurts you. when average woman makes average money, she stops wanting average man, because she wants to date someone higher than her. the extra money brings her own self worth up, but it doesn't increase your worth to men. and it dooms women. When all women started to work, it made average women stop wanting average men, no one has a family anymore. it will get worse if you get sucessful it will really doom you. search for a man, get married quickly, 6months in or 12 months in and then have children! you will be so happy i promise! then if the mother isn't raising her kids and goes to work, she starts making decent money, gets to be somewhere close to her husband, now she starts wanting divorse she thinks she can be doing better then him, or that he should be doing better but isn't trying, when maybe he is trying. and it ends in divorse. it ends in no family, the kids start out fine and they love you until they are in their mid 20's and 30's and start to resent you. and you die alone. you have to legit do it like the 1920's.

yes you wasted all of your life. what material object would be more fulfilling than a family? that is your purpose. Anyways you gotta get a guy that is the real, then you need to have kids, then you need to not get divorced. if you can do that you will feel accomplished because not many women can do it. your kids will love you and you will die with 50 people who love you around you. your children, their children, and their children. honestly any other path results in dying alone. so im right. give it thought. your car wont hold your hand when ur sick or something. a family is the only purpose, not just for you as a woman but for a man too. there is no situation where you need to be applying for jobs. complete waste of time. doesn't do anything. just takes you one step closer to being childless and dying alone. get a husband and tell him to go apply for the job instead. thats how its supposed to work. you should be applying for husbands not jobs. You choose a degree you have no interest in because you aren't supposed to have interest in a degree, you are supposed to have interest in taking your kids to the park and teaching them to read. you aren't supposed to work 3 jobs to survive, you are supposed to work no jobs to survive, you are supposed to have a husband who works a job or 3 so you can survive. you are trying to find time for all your interests, and you would have it if you had a husband and you could just cook a couple meals for the kids and run a load of laundry and that was all you had to do in the day. you could do your hobby. you are supposed to have no anger because you are supposed to be taken care of not taking care of yourself. Anyways ditch the jobs and just embrace who you are meant to be it is a mother, not a hustler/employee.... you are litterly not supposed to feel alone. you are supposed to have an entire 5 person family by the time you are 25. you are just you tho. im not saying that to diss you but this is legit the problem. its feminism, it tricked you, it tricked your parents to even tell you to go to school to begin with, its not your fault but you been tricked and not just you. Make the next 12 month goal to find a guy who want to take care of you and then get married and then move in with him and have a baby like immediately after that. pick a guy and go all in. thats it

psyche vs. limbic system (understanding emotions vs. experiencing them) ... I get it. Definitely a challenge. Admittedly, I tend to over-cognize feelings, too. Being aware you're doing it and then, piece-by-piece, pulling that energy down into your body... it can be illuminating... Oh, and 25 is YOUNG, I promise (I'm 38). Give yourself credit, time --> you're doing GREAT! ^_^

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just found this channel. I'm a 23yr old philosophy (after a few weeks) graduate. And many of the things you talk about. Being too sensitive and average - very relatable. Thank you for being here

everything happens for a reason... thats a bullshit sentence, we dont know

25 is still young. I'm 25 too, but still I feel much younger than I am. I think it's because the pandemic knocked most of us back a few years and kind of slowed down everything while time sometimes feels like it's getting faster, if that makes sense. It feels depressing and aimless but I guess it's worth to keep pushing on to see what happens next.

boohoo

this title is me. like holy shit except im almost 23

I didnt find out everyone is being controlled till around 29-30. If your 20s are trash its because they were set up to be. Your 30s might be incredible. Your 80s might be the best most seemingly productive decade of your life. Thats just from the reality im being sent tho

I doubt you truly have nothing to show for it. For real, knowing what you DON'T want out of life can be a powerful lesson and help you find and appreciate what you DO want. Ruminate on your experiences and find meaning in what happened, and discover at the time WHY you chose those things, even if you realized it was wrong. Knowing why can tell you alot about yourself and where you want to go and what to improve on. I didn't truly get on what I felt was for me until 30. I don't regret anything because it all led in someway to where I am now. Not everything of value comes with a paper or salary. I truly do think every experience builds off each other and changes us. I think those experiences for you will contribute to you finding your desired direction and seeing the road you want to travel down. 25 years is nothing. As I said I didn't really START anything real until 30. I know people who went back to school at 50 and became very successful! Life is not a race. Even people you perceive as "being ahead" can be struggling with other aspects of life you take for granted. You get glimpses of people at a surface level. You never really know.

i watched until the end! i'm learning english. i have dyslexia. thank you for made this video! keep it up!

Am i the only one who thought shes sabrina carpenter 🤧

28, same here. life wasted

Try feeling this way at 40

got this on my recommended i feel like this is a sign

I'm only halfway through the video, but I just want to say thank you! This video was exactly what I needed to hear. I especially related to the slow progress part. That's what I've been getting hung up on lately, so this pick me up came at just the right time.

Don't dream of having an easy life; aspire to have the strength to overcome life's challenges.

There are many theories that highly sensitive people are just autistic.

Keep doing what you’re doing! Im sure you will blow up someday 💪

This is such a great video! Awesome work ❤

I used to wish I had some kind of soundproof room where I could scream it all out. Yeah I can go to the woods, but the animals there did nothing wrong and don't deserve noise. Even if I had such a room, I'd probably be too cringed to talk about my troubles. I don't speak much and I don't like verbalising what bugs me, even if I imagine what I want to say to someone, in practice I don't actually want to talk and I appear angry. I know letting it all out is healthier but I'm just embarassed

time stamps for you lovely ppl 🫶 00:00 - big dreams but no energy to reach them 01:24 - saturate your mind 08:13 - you are what you eat 14:10 - plan ahead with solutions 19:36 - hardest task first, always 22:20 - get out of your head and DECIDE ILY all ❤️

My bestie, thanks so much for sharing your story. I feel so much what your talking. I feel our lives has been so similar. I'm turning 30. Listening to your story makes me cry. Now I see I was not the only one. Thank you. We are so strong. We will win.

the love of my life never made it to 25. don't take where you are for granted. you're doing better than you think. ❤

You get to explore your vision now and walk away from the absurdity! Imagine having such a realization at age 80.