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Good on you , it could be a best seller. Alot of gay related material wasn't published years ago. Because straight people deemed it not suitable . Things have loosened up a little over the years. But straight people still control and make decisions. Be careful with straight people , some of them will say they don't mind gay people but under the surface they do. I've had alot of negative experiences unfortunately. I'm 65 in age. I never heard anything positive growing up about gay men. How was i to feel good about myself back then when i was young. I wish you well with your endeavor.

Thank you for sharing your experiences here or in a book. I hope we can get to read it as soon as it comes out. Your channel is very helpful. Best wishes! 😃

Dylan. I'm not sure where you are currently located, however, if you are still in the Deep South neo-con Bible belt, I'm sorry, but it is not a healthy environment for you. The first thing you should consider is moving to a more progressive place. It hurts me to see men like you, good, decent people, who have had to go through an environment that died in the 1960s. I am not suggesting that you need to lose your faith but think about this. The best definition of Evil is this: "Something that appears good and is not." Your country is on the brink of Civil War because of the appalling level of ignorance (don't confuse this with intelligence) that saturates the Mid-West and Rural Southern areas of the USA.). I was fortunate to have been born in London, England. I have dual citizenship and my home is in Toronto, Canada. Do not put down "Book-larnin." Sorry, but your accent only amplifies your situation. Now I'm not saying you need to get a PhD like I did. Not everyone is an academic or seeks a professional degree. Use your better instincts. All of us have a bell in the back of our unconscious that rings when we sense someone is "just like that other person who told us that they would be more than willing to teach us. Knowledge will make you Free. Read and read and read. The internet is not the greatest source of knowledge. And please, refrain from mentioning things like "I wish I had an older mentor." That is precisely what you do NOT need. You will be deluged with men older than you who will be only too happy to be your "friend and mentor". Just like the rest of this world, there are gay folk who are not very good human beings. You are a young and attractive man, and the last thing you need is some old man leading you through "the Valley of Death". From what I am hearing, you have already stumbled in that direction. Keep to people who are your own age. Seek out wisdom, not "older". Please do not use these kind of expressions on the internet. Now I am smiling, but take a look at me. If you see someone that has grey hair, smile and avoid them like the plague. I truly wish you had been born in Canada or the UK. You would not be facing the nasty ordeal you have been through. Go Northeast young man. Slow down! Think before acting, and don't fall for cheap flattery from dreadful, older men. Keep to people of your own generation. I wish you all good fortune. I am so sorry you have had to face the worst of bigotry. There are places where you will find a healthier environment and people who do not think the Baptist Evangelical Bible is the only book on the shelf. Hatred is not a message from Christ. Remember, don't leap...try walking first. And use your higher self to make decisions. You have been through enough crap.

I'm not watching this video or any more of these videos. It's time to find a real person and a real relationship and not be used for this anymore. It is worthless and pointless, and I will not be doing it anymore.

Looking forward to your book. Love your vids.❤

Congratulations on all of your future endeavors Dylan 🎊 👏 💐 🥳

As someone who has written 3 fiction books, I whole heartedly encourage you to follow your dreams and do this :) You can also consider self-publishing which, despite detractors, is a very valid way to get your book in front of readers. Just remember to have someone else proof your book (it's impossible for a writer to proof his/her own works as your mind "fixes" mistakes) and if you need an excellent cover designer, let me know as I have one who does excellent work at extremely reasonable rates. Oh, and remember audio books as well - these can get your stories out to a much wider "reader" base! Good luck!

Dylan, superb!! You have a great goal in life now. Absolutely do this. It will make it better for those awakening to their true selves to know someone like you has felt alone and without guidance. Herman

Wishing you good luck in your project king.

A life without regrets is not worth living.

You are a selfish and self-centered person, Dylan St. Gabriel. All you think about it is yourself and using men for a cheap "hook-up." "HASHTAG" pages are a demoralizing joke, demoralizing sex. All people are to you are random identities in a commentary box. All you care about is your own social media profile, and no one else exists on UA-cam other than yourself. It was nice to know I was worthless and never existed, and I didn't miss anything you had to say to me personally as YOU HAD NOTHING TO SAY. Permanently out of here and Goodbye.

This is one of the most demoralizing and abusive videos I have ever seen, and you have the audacity to spread it all over demoralizing hashtag pages, disregarding the identity of women. Go stuff yourself. I will not miss videos like these.

I'm sorry you have been thru that. I have the idea that if I'm cheated on, or if he lifts a hand toward me, that's it - I'm out of there.

Being in a relatiionship with a narcissist is hard. Having one as a SIBLING is worse. After a childhood of being picked on and beaten up, he moved out of the parents house. We then met up at a Gay bar (I had come out much earlier than he had), and decided to try to be friends. After 20 years of putting up with that, I had to put him OUT of my life, he was so toxic. Imagine, he told me that coming out before he did made it harder for him to do so! We had a group we played cards with on Sundays; everyone else got there early and the main topic of conversation was "Wonder what kind of mood Jim will be in?" It actually colored our dealings with him. He blamed everyone else for all of his problems, and THEN kept his HIV status a secret from all of us for over 10 years. It's been over 20 years since I disowned him, and I have become a much stronger person for it.

Been there and it still has affected me over the years.......

I have posted what I need to say on this video on my own UA-cam channel. You have no right to completely disregard my comments. You are disrespectful and rude, and I will not be investing any more of my valuable time on your UA-cam channel. Goodbye.

How about having a discussion with your partner before you resort to cheating.

You have gained a lot of wisdom from your experiences and past. You are moving forward to help others become better every day. People enjoy watching you and connecting with you. You take care.

Good information. Love your vids.❤

Dylan St. Gabriel ⚡️💪🏻&🔥 I respect you & admire you for always sharing, honestly & truthfully events in your life that have challenged you and helped you remember & know that in your relationship with your narcissistic partner, it was his insecurities causing the problems in the relationship, not you.👍🌷

Yes, dating them is hard but exciting at first. Being married to one is living hell.

My mom kinda a narcissist.but as she becomes older .it's lesson..still love her ..

This is all per my experience. Dating is horrible. Getting older as a single gay man is horrible. Dating and being poz is horrible. I'm in my mid-50s and I have accepted that I will probably be single for the rest of my life.

There's a difference between being a clinical Narcissist and being narcissistic.

Dylan, I'm a cradle Catholic and I'm Gay. I've never missed Sunday Mass unless I was not well. I love the Catholic church. It's a home away from home. Friends, even Catholic ones question why I still remain Catholic. I'm 86 yo, time is running out for me. It is a great comfort to me. God love you.

Another thing is ive found some people want someone to make them happy. They want to be entertained . Its all one sided. They are very needy.

There is a little narcissism in all of us. But some people are extreme.

Since my dad was a narcissist , I was attracted to them over and over. Nothing made sense. Finally broke the pattern.

Glad you got out of that toxic relationship and sharing what you were faced with will help someone watching. Coming from a 12 step community myself we can all learn from one another's experiences. Be well. Happy New year!

You are very resilient, Dylan. I felt into a three year long treatment resistant depression after just three months in a sort of relationship with a narcissist. Now I am able to recognise red flags in others I would have previously disregarded. Best wishes and thank you for your video!

I love you, brother.

U should change this tittle as it isnt the app, is the users. Lets b honest n real about this. Grindr is a SOCIAL net working app, not a sexual networking app. Porn n ignorance is to blame, not an app.

Happy New Year Dylan, we appreciate you.

Cheating is always a bad thing in both the gay and heteroxexual communities.

Hey man. Stay strong. ❤️

I had a stalker to it was so scary glad when he was gone

Happy New Year Dylan! In one of your videos you said you took some time off to improve and work on yourself. If this is too personal, please let me know, but how and what did you do? Thanks! -Ken

I went on Grindr at age 60 and it has allowed me to have so many incredible experiences with so many different and amazing men that I can only give it good reviews. The best part is that all of these men are pursuing me!

You are so wise beyond your age. This coming from a 70 year old man.😎

I'm 64 , i have never lived a lie and pretended to be straight. It was hard living in the 1970s/ 80s as a teen and in my twenties. But i thought i needed to be true to myself. I have met other men over the years who have been in a straight relationship. I know a guy who is married to a woman , and he says he doesn't want to be alone.

Dylan, this is the same as me, I am just NOT into hookups!!!!

I love your accent........do you like daddies?

I'll never have to worry about a stalker; people eventually get to know me so well that the problem takes care of itself!

Thank you for making this video. I have always wanted to have this conversation with someone about the struggles of not wanting to participate in hookup culture. Watching this video gives me hope and reassurance that there are guys out there who understand that sex is important, but do not wish to make it the only way to form a connection with someone.

Happy New Year Dylan!!!!

Shirtless thumbnail thirst trap?!? Lame.

Happy New Year Dylan

Happy New Year Dylan. Hope you have a new year ahead.

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Same here . I don't like any sexual relationship without emotions.As 19 year single gay ,i also never ever been a relationship which makes me feel like disgusting