It's amazing how Brendan has become such a phenomenal speaker he used to hold back a lot in the beginning when he started visiting Mpumy's channel now he's unpacking a lot I love it.
UA-cam is like that. First time behind the camera we hold back and are self conscious about our views and how they will be met but then as time goes we relax and become mostly ourselves 😁.
Brendens perspective on life is admirable ☺️. It's easy going. When all you do is worry n be anxious about life, encountering someone with an easy perspective is admirable. 'succeeded at failing'
I had to watch this again...Brenden is the kind of man that would help his woman, Mpoomy maximise her potential to the fullest and allow her take all the credits for it. That's a very uncommon quality to have. He's a leader.
When my husband and i disagree on something to make sure that no takes it personally. We always start first by saying "this is not a love you or don't love you conversation". Then everything goes well after that. I love love #ourloveourney
The wisdom here😭😭 I keep learning and evolving as a person daily. And definitely working towards being the person who I would like to see succeed in a relationship. I really hope my unknown future husband watches your channel😍I hope he is growing as much as I am, wherever he is.
What I love about you guys is the authenticity. You guys are so real. “Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?” Amos 3:3 NLT My wife and I really had a challenge with this one because what make us great is our uniqueness but that automatically means we won’t agree on EVERYTHING. And I have really avoided using the “I’m the man” card because it’s not constructive and it lacks wisdom. I think the subtle misconception is that becoming one means we’ll always prefer each other’s decisions but in two years of marriage I have realised that being one is more than about liking another person’s preference it’s about respecting their views and supporting them on things you may not like and sometimes on things you don’t agree with😬 Now as Brenden said on certain things it’s very important to agree and what popped in my mind is parenting. Because it’s one area I think we really have to be in agreement. URGENT vs IMPORTANT I think the kitchen one vs the 2 hour meeting boils down to which is one is urgent because you may be faced with two very important decisions or tasks but urgency should help us make decisions at least. Please keep doing what you’re doing guys. Your content helps us grow and I’m trying to get my wife to watch you guys but ke…it’s another story😄
Being a young Christian women and learning and preparing myself for future is so important thank you guys for showing us really what to look out for and what's good in marriages doing it the Godly way 🙏
How Brenden unpacked the perfect context for agreeing verses disagreeing was impactful 🙌🏿. His methods have matured like fine wine. Love how Mpumi listens in like it’s the first time, she’s receiving these 💎.
I thoroughly loved this episode. It was so real and authentic, ya'll also disagreed a bit in the beginning like how normal couples do. It shows it wasn't rehearsed this is just you guys in your realest form. Love it
This definitely has to be one video where Brendan #PUT_HIS_FOOT_DOWN!!. Mrs Mom your one lucky women. I'm sorry but I am praying for a man with such inner calmness. I'm so emotional and undesicive... Lord knows I need a man who will trust and allow me enough space to #fail. Simply becomes I'm that hard on myself. Mrs Mom the perfectionist, Mr Dad the Leader. #Lead_Indoda. You started that channel knowing what your women can become! !. #Wooow
Wow! This conversation is so enlightening, this is a good way to navigate roles in relationships. Also in the boundary context and being respectful not to overstep! Love this!
This episode helped me a lot I’m a newlywed and chile I’m struggling but it’s only now that I’m actually realising that I take everything very personally and when my husband disagrees with me I think he hates me and I’m naturally a born leader I struggle with trusting the other person’s views and actions…God help me. Thank you guys for this podcast 🙏🏾
Yah No. I’m definitely the “Brenden” in my relationship. After many months of following this journey with the two of you. My husband is much of a “Mpoomy” and I must say this podcast has honestly helped me navigate through a lot of things that would have otherwise killed me dead if I didn’t stop to apply my mind and put myself outside of the situation. Not to say without the podcast I wouldn’t know how to juggle things but it has helped me better approach situations that would have otherwise required TOO MUCH from me to dissect. I love what you’re doing. It’s so beautiful to watch you both grow and share yourselves , experiences and lessons with us.♥️ God bless this union forever & always.
12:40-13:00+ Guys Brenden his a man of his word. Previous podcast where they spoke about Boundaries he mentioned the exact same thing his talking about now. He respects your feelings/ decisions making and the only thing he can do is To allow you do you and when opinion ask he will just confirm with what your feeling until you ask his advice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Guys give this Man a Bells 🥂
This just confirmed what I am currently learning…affirming those who ask for my advice. At times our friends feel strongly about doing certain things but needs someone to affirm it but we tend to find ourselves discouraging or magnifying only risks than the potential they have to pull it off.I have really enjoyed this.I am learning so much from you two🙂
This is a beautiful conversation. The beauty of our differences as male and female and also as individuals yet so beautiful when we come together for a common goal. Brenden coming up with so much punches 👊. We appreciate you both guys, Amazing people you are!
Wooooow woooow, Such a powerful conversation.I mean I took a whole lot of lessons from this video,but the one thing that was a "AHA" moment to me was when Brendan talked about you should allow a person to mess up and do what they can possibly do,without judging or showing them some negativity in the whole process.You know sometimes we just wanna bash some people's ideas because to us they look lame,but well if that person is doing whatever he/she is doing by the lead of their intuition,then they have already won, even if they lose,they have won in their losing.Its not always that we have to control or disagree,but all we could ever do is silently watch😃 Man,this was such a powerful thought,and thank you for that🥺🌟 "LET PEOPLE BE"
I love how this topic is relevant to all kinds of relationships, parent and child, friendships, romantic relationships, siblings ect. This has to be my best topic and video ever. You guys were so real and raw here. Thank you to the both of you for these conversations. Keep them coming!!
I loved how authentic this was, its so great that you can be vulnerable enough to speak about your relationship and let us in on how you navigate your issues. enjoyed it.
I learn so much from your conversations and are always looking forward to listening to you to tackle topics. I really enjoyed this one, at times as Christians we take equally yoked to mean that we are to agree on everything, which is impossible. I love how you are still individuals and you give each other the space to be yet still support each other. The aim is to disagree gracefully.
I don’t normally engage down here but wow 🙌🏾❤️ I’m not even done watching it. Something Mrs Mom said struck a cord within me on giving and getting advice while on your journey. Sometimes those hurdles of those passing on the advice were personal to equipping them. You may have to encounter your own (or not) depending what areas need working within you. Again it’s your journey!! Own it and personalise it in a way that is open to learning and engaging with others by the leading of the spirit of God ✨🙏🏽 absolutely love you guys 🔥
I feel like every episode is my favorite at this point. I love how you guys unpacked this topic and that it works every relationship romantic or platonic.
I love what Brenden was saying about how to see if you should hold onto a relationship. Our relationship over our ego is so important for lasting relationships 🙏🏽
I loved Brandon's perspective in this episode. Letting people be, and allowing them to grow and trusting their decisions. Only give advice when you're asked. Allow ppl to follow their intuition. Constantly affirm people.❤❤❤❤❤ so dope. I'm gonna try this.
Honestly you guys are the bestest. My partner and I love your podcasts. We learn a lot and you keep adding onto our growth as individuals and a couple with each podcast shared. We appreciate you. More Grace. 🙏🙏🙏
Maybe a transparency day is an example of "over communication" in a relationship. Sometimes I find that one or both partners can get into patterns of over-communicating, where they are sharing all of their feelings and thoughts about themselves and their partner.
This episode was so beautiful, all the love from Kenya. It was so raw and authentic and the message was so profound. I find that how I will deal with disagreements in future has now significantly changed. Thank you so much and God bless your union!!
This was so refreshing, sincerely appreciated your honesty and sharing the wisdom you guys have learnt. So many takeaways I can apply in my own life. Thank you!!!
Couldn't have came at a better time❤ I love what Brenden is saying. Everyone should maintain their own way of thinking, it goes with our purpose hence we are all unique. You guys are amazing. Love it love it love it
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Yey we in there!!!
Heey Brenden, we please have the name of the book pleaase
Really love how Brenden respects people’s ideas and decisions it’s a very rare trait. Goes back to boundaries - love it!
I love that as well, and I believe it is another way of showing your support.
It's so commendable and rare.
He let's people be..he's accepting people for who they really. I really like that it's very rare
@@gugukhumalo9313 right? ❤
So much wisdom, I like how Brenden unpacks everything.
"I only give advice when asked "
"My goal is to manage how I think "
Powerful
Ey he’s so wise yaz😭🔥
Brenden has brains so much wisdom
Chris Kyle
It's amazing how Brendan has become such a phenomenal speaker he used to hold back a lot in the beginning when he started visiting Mpumy's channel now he's unpacking a lot I love it.
True he's a phenomenal speaker. It's usually the ones who hold back who have alot more to share. I'm happy he grew into himself so authentically
Right!!
UA-cam is like that. First time behind the camera we hold back and are self conscious about our views and how they will be met but then as time goes we relax and become mostly ourselves 😁.
Very true. He is comfortable and we'll spoken now
Couldn't agree with you more, he used to be shy and Mpoomy would prompt him to talk, look at him now he can hold it down
Brenden always making great points with such a profound impact. ⭐️
Yesh
Always!
Breden is just wise
Brenden is so full of wisdom. We appreciate you Mr✨
So true.
"Choose your relationship over your pride" I need to put this up on my wall! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Brandon is verbally agile
Very much so hey
Am I the only one who spends the first 2 minutes admiring mpoomy's beauty?. Then after I will watch and listen 🤣
Brendens perspective on life is admirable ☺️. It's easy going. When all you do is worry n be anxious about life, encountering someone with an easy perspective is admirable. 'succeeded at failing'
Yohhhh "one thing I'd hate to do is influence someone to not be themselves" a lot of self introspection is about to happen after this video
You guys are becoming each other's counsellors and that unfolds on screen and I love it! Your conversations are authentic.
So true it's rare to see people being this honest on the screen. I love them.
@@sandisiwemngqolo1796 it's easy to love genuine people
You know you addicted when you like even before you listen☺️
soooo true😂
I thought I was the only one😂
Lol same her I was laughing before I could listen
Me too🗣🗣
I thought I was the only one😂💖
I like that you are not scripted and you bring authenticity into the conversation. I always look forward to your videos.
Congratulations Mpoomy on 200k subscribers. Your content is always on point. Keep pushing 🙌🙌❤️❤️
I had to watch this again...Brenden is the kind of man that would help his woman, Mpoomy maximise her potential to the fullest and allow her take all the credits for it. That's a very uncommon quality to have. He's a leader.
Watched this video again, and this comment is so real🤞
When my husband and i disagree on something to make sure that no takes it personally. We always start first by saying "this is not a love you or don't love you conversation". Then everything goes well after that.
I love love #ourloveourney
Brendon's sense of humour 😂😂.
"Spiritual partners. We are together to grow, to grow together "
Wow!! What a revelation ❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The wisdom here😭😭 I keep learning and evolving as a person daily. And definitely working towards being the person who I would like to see succeed in a relationship. I really hope my unknown future husband watches your channel😍I hope he is growing as much as I am, wherever he is.
You unpack these topics so eloquently. Mpoomy gets really excited , I love it 😀. Brenden be spitting nuggets. Wisdom 👌
What I love about you guys is the authenticity. You guys are so real.
“Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?”
Amos 3:3 NLT
My wife and I really had a challenge with this one because what make us great is our uniqueness but that automatically means we won’t agree on EVERYTHING. And I have really avoided using the “I’m the man” card because it’s not constructive and it lacks wisdom.
I think the subtle misconception is that becoming one means we’ll always prefer each other’s decisions but in two years of marriage I have realised that being one is more than about liking another person’s preference it’s about respecting their views and supporting them on things you may not like and sometimes on things you don’t agree with😬
Now as Brenden said on certain things it’s very important to agree and what popped in my mind is parenting. Because it’s one area I think we really have to be in agreement.
URGENT vs IMPORTANT
I think the kitchen one vs the 2 hour meeting boils down to which is one is urgent because you may be faced with two very important decisions or tasks but urgency should help us make decisions at least.
Please keep doing what you’re doing guys. Your content helps us grow and I’m trying to get my wife to watch you guys but ke…it’s another story😄
"We can't have the same level of authority" POWERFUL!!!
Branden which books are you reading you are such a leader, just can't explain it.
So very true. He’s a strong character. A man that leads.
Probably the Bible 🤧
Aww Brenden trying to apply Jay Shetty's advise and still learning that the delivery part is important too🤣😂this was super cute!love you guys😍
🤣🤣🤣
Starting at 23:02 🤣🤣
Being a young Christian women and learning and preparing myself for future is so important thank you guys for showing us really what to look out for and what's good in marriages doing it the Godly way 🙏
Yay Mrs Mom congratulations 200k is no easy feat, 400k here we come. Inspired
🥂
Brandon's wisdom wow!! how i wish many men could come out and open up like this to see things from their percepective
"Im kanye west"🤣 brenden is hilarious.great content
Mr Daddy said I'm Kanye West😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Brendon is a good listener. He is also very real, calls a spade a spade. Very great video guys. Enjoyable
"Succeed in failure" wow that's deep😢❤
How Brenden unpacked the perfect context for agreeing verses disagreeing was impactful 🙌🏿. His methods have matured like fine wine. Love how Mpumi listens in like it’s the first time, she’s receiving these 💎.
I thoroughly loved this episode. It was so real and authentic, ya'll also disagreed a bit in the beginning like how normal couples do. It shows it wasn't rehearsed this is just you guys in your realest form. Love it
I love Brendens honesty.. he is so vocal without sugar coating anything 🙌🏾🙌🏾
As'bonge abakwaLedwaba. Me being here every week is a form of self-care, ave ningibusisa bakithi!!!
Listen, you guys are doing the most & we appreciate you guys so much 💜
This definitely has to be one video where Brendan #PUT_HIS_FOOT_DOWN!!. Mrs Mom your one lucky women. I'm sorry but I am praying for a man with such inner calmness. I'm so emotional and undesicive... Lord knows I need a man who will trust and allow me enough space to #fail. Simply becomes I'm that hard on myself.
Mrs Mom the perfectionist, Mr Dad the Leader. #Lead_Indoda. You started that channel knowing what your women can become! !. #Wooow
I also think we are friends now, without the unrealistic expectations that sometimes comes with friendships. 💕
Wow! This conversation is so enlightening, this is a good way to navigate roles in relationships. Also in the boundary context and being respectful not to overstep! Love this!
As for the Transparency Date being a war zone 😂😂😂 I loved this and thoroughly enjoyed it 🥰❤️
This episode helped me a lot I’m a newlywed and chile I’m struggling but it’s only now that I’m actually realising that I take everything very personally and when my husband disagrees with me I think he hates me and I’m naturally a born leader I struggle with trusting the other person’s views and actions…God help me. Thank you guys for this podcast 🙏🏾
I love the unpacking of topics on this channel.
Great conversation…Brenden ‘s points are always on point
Mpoomy’s laugh is so contagious, I crack up with her all the time😂❤️
Yah No. I’m definitely the “Brenden” in my relationship. After many months of following this journey with the two of you. My husband is much of a “Mpoomy” and I must say this podcast has honestly helped me navigate through a lot of things that would have otherwise killed me dead if I didn’t stop to apply my mind and put myself outside of the situation. Not to say without the podcast I wouldn’t know how to juggle things but it has helped me better approach situations that would have otherwise required TOO MUCH from me to dissect.
I love what you’re doing. It’s so beautiful to watch you both grow and share yourselves , experiences and lessons with us.♥️ God bless this union forever & always.
12:40-13:00+ Guys Brenden his a man of his word. Previous podcast where they spoke about Boundaries he mentioned the exact same thing his talking about now. He respects your feelings/ decisions making and the only thing he can do is To allow you do you and when opinion ask he will just confirm with what your feeling until you ask his advice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Guys give this Man a Bells 🥂
What I love about your conversations is that, they make us to do some introspection in ourselves in a relationship, like it like it....
You guys are awesome! So much wisdom coming from the both of you. Thank you!
Love you guys.. you’re so inspirational, thank you for the wisdom!!
🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥
This just confirmed what I am currently learning…affirming those who ask for my advice. At times our friends feel strongly about doing certain things but needs someone to affirm it but we tend to find ourselves discouraging or magnifying only risks than the potential they have to pull it off.I have really enjoyed this.I am learning so much from you two🙂
This is a beautiful conversation. The beauty of our differences as male and female and also as individuals yet so beautiful when we come together for a common goal. Brenden coming up with so much punches 👊. We appreciate you both guys, Amazing people you are!
Wooooow woooow, Such a powerful conversation.I mean I took a whole lot of lessons from this video,but the one thing that was a "AHA" moment to me was when Brendan talked about you should allow a person to mess up and do what they can possibly do,without judging or showing them some negativity in the whole process.You know sometimes we just wanna bash some people's ideas because to us they look lame,but well if that person is doing whatever he/she is doing by the lead of their intuition,then they have already won, even if they lose,they have won in their losing.Its not always that we have to control or disagree,but all we could ever do is silently watch😃
Man,this was such a powerful thought,and thank you for that🥺🌟
"LET PEOPLE BE"
I love how this topic is relevant to all kinds of relationships, parent and child, friendships, romantic relationships, siblings ect. This has to be my best topic and video ever. You guys were so real and raw here. Thank you to the both of you for these conversations. Keep them coming!!
I loved how authentic this was, its so great that you can be vulnerable enough to speak about your relationship and let us in on how you navigate your issues. enjoyed it.
I learn so much from your conversations and are always looking forward to listening to you to tackle topics. I really enjoyed this one, at times as Christians we take equally yoked to mean that we are to agree on everything, which is impossible. I love how you are still individuals and you give each other the space to be yet still support each other. The aim is to disagree gracefully.
I don’t normally engage down here but wow 🙌🏾❤️ I’m not even done watching it. Something Mrs Mom said struck a cord within me on giving and getting advice while on your journey. Sometimes those hurdles of those passing on the advice were personal to equipping them. You may have to encounter your own (or not) depending what areas need working within you. Again it’s your journey!! Own it and personalise it in a way that is open to learning and engaging with others by the leading of the spirit of God ✨🙏🏽 absolutely love you guys 🔥
Another awesome conversation. Thank you! Mpoomy’s laugh is so contagious 😂 couldn’t help but laugh everytime she laughed
This is so authentic! Thank you for this. I'm learning a lot
I just love you how you guys have grown in your marriage through your wisdom I'm learning alot about the maintainance of a relationship.
Brended is one SMART man...wow 👏
The conversations you have are so important. From start to finish I'm glued to the screen. I love you guys, I enjoy the content ❤️❤️
I absolutely loved this episode. Definitely my favourite of the season 👌🏽 Thanks for all the wisdom and transparency guys ❤️
Thank you for opening your lives up to teach us so much. ❤
I love how real y'all are, you even agreeing and disagreeing on the spot.🤣🙌🏾🔥🔥
This was profound.
I feel like every episode is my favorite at this point. I love how you guys unpacked this topic and that it works every relationship romantic or platonic.
"Preserving and managing our personality traits instead of trying to change ourselves." This part right here was deeeeeeep.
Absolutely loved this topic. I thoroughly enjoyed how raw and authentic you guys are.
Brenden is amazing. I love his wisdom. Wow
You guys are phenomenal, love the conversations and the way you are realistic about issues.
Such wisdom 🙌. We blessed the Lord. The love is amazing 👏 ❤
Thank you guys for being so vulnerable and open to us, I’m learning so much from you guys. God bless your union.
This was sooooo honest! Soooo authentic!!! I absolutely loved it❤️
Can't wait to get home and watch this with my person. We are really learning a lot from you guys. Thank you. Stupidly can't wait🥰
I love what Brenden was saying about how to see if you should hold onto a relationship. Our relationship over our ego is so important for lasting relationships 🙏🏽
I love this so much 🥺❤️ so authentic, thank you guys for this.
I loved Brandon's perspective in this episode. Letting people be, and allowing them to grow and trusting their decisions. Only give advice when you're asked. Allow ppl to follow their intuition. Constantly affirm people.❤❤❤❤❤ so dope. I'm gonna try this.
I love how raw and authentic these episodes are 🥵❤️❤️ gosh I am learning so much
“ the goal is to manage it, not change it”❤️ man I love y’all
Honestly you guys are the bestest. My partner and I love your podcasts. We learn a lot and you keep adding onto our growth as individuals and a couple with each podcast shared. We appreciate you. More Grace. 🙏🙏🙏
Yoh! Brenden is wise!
Congratulations for your 200k sunnies man, I followed you from day one, im so proud of you mama.... 🎉🎉🎉
"Growing with our audience" 👏👏👏 To growth 🥂🥂🥂
I love the authenticity of the podcasts 👏🏾👏🏾 the conversations just flow, I am learning a lot ♥️♥️
Brendon stay away from transparency date night. Women don't forget the things you tell them. Its a trap 🤣
So much wisdom guys🤗. Literally enjoyed every single bit. May God continue to use you.
🥺 My heart is full. What a way to end the week. Thank you Mpoomy and Brenden for always broadening my scope of knowledge.
thank you so much for shedding light on this topic
I needed this so much, thank you, God bless you guys. 🖤
I think this is my favorite episode this far. I loved it. Very enlightening.
Thank you guys for sharing ,thank you for being vulnerable .I am learning a lot
Maybe a transparency day is an example of "over communication" in a relationship. Sometimes I find that one or both partners can get into patterns of over-communicating, where they are sharing all of their feelings and thoughts about themselves and their partner.
This episode was so beautiful, all the love from Kenya. It was so raw and authentic and the message was so profound. I find that how I will deal with disagreements in future has now significantly changed. Thank you so much and God bless your union!!
This was so refreshing, sincerely appreciated your honesty and sharing the wisdom you guys have learnt. So many takeaways I can apply in my own life. Thank you!!!
Couldn't have came at a better time❤ I love what Brenden is saying. Everyone should maintain their own way of thinking, it goes with our purpose hence we are all unique. You guys are amazing. Love it love it love it
Absolutely enjoy watching you guys. It’s the inbetween moments
♥️You guys are amazing, and I love the fact that you guys do show us that in any relation there is ups and downs.
'Allow your thinking to come through' I love you guys so much😭
Yhoo! Brenden is such a wise guy, big up bro. you both guys are amazing
First one for the first time...yay!
I've been long waiting for the installment
Love you guys...I agree already hahahaha