Treating Your Spouse Like Jesus | Jimmy Evans
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- How do you redeem your spouse? It's simple, but difficult. You have to start treating your spouse like Jesus. Watch Jimmy as he tells the story of redemption of a couple he pastored and how you can apply it to your own marriage. This is Part 2 of 2 of Redeeming Your Spouse.
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God told me many years ago before I ever met my husband- that marriage is ministry!
"The better person does the right thing first.".. Great lessons
I hope and pray that God redeems my marriage. I've said some awful things to wife throughout my marriage and now we are separated. God has started a major renovation project in my heart. I pray that my wife give me a second chance to be the Godly husband she deserves.
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I have been standing for 6 years. My husband lives at home but there is another woman in another town. I take care of my husband everyday. I do everything for him. He sleeps in a guest room but says good night to me every night and says he loves me. Same in the morning when we go to work but he is under the control and manipulation of the strange woman and it is devastating. She has convinced him twice to divorce me. I was served twice but each time, 3 months later, he retracts the divorce. He drinks every night and sits on his home office, looking so forlorn, shaking his head, mumbling to himself. It is dreadful to see what this is doing to him. I stand in faith that God is working even though I do not see any physical changes. Nothing is impossible for God.
I pray the Father honors your labour of love and I speak life over your marriage. I also pray that the bond between your husband and the other lady be severed in Jesus name. I pray your marriage is restored to a place of peace, joy and unity.
@@Emily-vd4nm Emily, I receive it in Jesus name🙏 God bless you!
May God grant you wisdom and grace
His physical manifestation is a sign that he is under spiritual oppression .. you need to bring him to deliverance ministry or believe and pray for his deliverance
Amen sis. Will join you in prayer for your husband and for restoration of your marriage! Nothing is impossible for our God indeed! Hallelujah 🛐
Best advice I’ve ever heard on UA-cam!
Scary, for sure but the greatest, most noble quest worth fighting for is our marriage!
Even if our reward is not realised until we stand before Jesus one day, it’s worth the endeavour.
After all:
‘In God I trust and am not afraid. What can man do to me?’ Psalm 56:11
I know from personal experience that this is possible and a glorious way to live.
Thank you for the timely reminder Jimmy.
Jesus, please help me every day to love like you love!!🙏
So well said
My husband has been narcissistic for years verbally abusive I prayed for us along time the holy spirit finally moved him out 4 years ago we never divorced but live separate
that story made me cry. so honest.
But you know that doesn't work with the narcissist because the nicer you are the more they take. Jimmy Evans even has a video about it
I've heard that before, but I didn't get it until now... (the best person is the one who does the right thing first"). Thank you.
This is so good thank you so much..I am praying god redeems me and my wife’s marriage
Try your best no matter the Cost not to Divorce. If you do divorce for any reason remember the words of Jesus. You cannot remarry because it would be Adultery. Jesus said anyone who marries a Divorced person commits Adultery and also makes them an Adulterer. Paul said the only way to Remarry is if your spouse dies.
Pastor Jimmy Evans is the best marriage counselor I have ever heard.
I wish I knew his teachings before I divorced. Now I must stay single unless I reconsile my first marriage.
Adulterers won't be in Heaven. Take the words of Jesus Seriously. Remember God Hates Divorce and so should we.
Try your absolute best to save your marriage. You don't want to fall into Adultery in your future.
I pray that God will give you the strength to continue in Him because you have the truth in you, even if it is not popular. Bless you!
Are you serious? If there was adultery, you can remarry.
Christian husband went and Got a girlfriend ! Said he didn’t want to be married anymore. Just being really mean !! I was not perfect but I honored him.
WISDOM!!!! ❤️🙌🏻
Potent. Amen. Kindness and gentleness redeems
Wow! Your words are life changing
So Extremely True Pastor. Thank You for being a Great Transparent Tool/Instrument for ABBA 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🙌🙌🥰💞
I hope this works out in my marriage. I truly do.
6 yrs ago I split up from my husband. We are still legally married and I know he has his tinder dates my heart aches. Thank you for all the videos you guys put out.
I split from my husband, too. What are we supposed to do when they commit adutery?
@@KETOInTheKitchenWithJasmine You can go to God and pray forr your husband salvation and treat him good as the preacher said.
Blessings.
@@jc_global I do my best to treat him with respect and honor. I pray God changes this situation and breaks his hardened heart.
Thanks for responding.
@@KETOInTheKitchenWithJasmine Am glad to know that you honour and respects him... It is God"s divine will that your husband be saved and come to the knowledge and glory of God.
Blessings
@@jc_global God Bless you. ❤ Thank you
I listened to you on Daystar Television concerning if children will be raptured (Im from Sweden btw). I totaly agree with you about children from unbeliever will stay.
I am so blessed since the divorce although I didn't at the time.On August 22 2022 he took his own life.He was so mean too me.Its been hard on my daughter.
Amen!
Thank you I always have to remember is to be the quiet spirit trust God. I have a hard time because my husband through our 33 years makes MAJOR job decisions without even telling me until it affects us
What a message, I needed this, thank you!!!!
Powerful word indeed!
God bless the martyrs.
This is something that I needed to hear, thank you!
Yes and amen. Thank you, Pastor Jimmy.
Thank you
Awesomeness
Does anyone have the link to the full message?
20 plus years of marriage. Christians. Children. Then. . . He “fell in love” with another woman who is a Bible study teacher. 🤷♀️I fought for 6 plus yesrs. Loving him and reminding him that He was Gods son and what was God saying to him. He divorced me last month after 28 years of marriage. End the end, what God said, what His word said did not matter. I am heartbroken. 💔
I’m so sorry to hear this. Horrific
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I been through a tirade of things with my husband..been together 23 years..marriage is always worth figjting for...but. one thing the LORD TOLD ME .. was if my spouse...cheated .. one more time on me...THAT. .I WOULD BE SET FREE. .I WAS HEART BROKEN AFTER MANY BETRAYELS... ..BUT I AM WATCHING GOD. CHANGE A MAN...THAT IF I WAS A BETTING WOMEN..WOULD SAY HE WOULD NEVER CHANGE...STILL..PRAY FOR THIS MAN ..BUT ASK GOD IF U SHOULD FIGHT FOR THIS..STILL..OR MOVE ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER HE HAS FOR U
I am so sorry. ISAIAH 54:5 ❤
My heart is broken for you. I do not know the circumstances behind your story, but your “X” seems to have been having at the least and emotional affair with this other woman. Sadly, this did not end the way you wanted and are heart broken. For me, my (now late wife) reconciled with me two weeks before her death from pancreatic cancer. We were still married but she had completely cut me off and I did all I could, with good Pastoral friends and Counciling. I know I was a good father, step father, and husband. It was not until 2 weeks before she passed while in hospital that she apologized and said, “I have not been the wife I should have been and made a real mess of things. I am sorry, please forgive me.” I already had…she got right with God. She passed on my arms into the arms of Jesus. I mourned her passing…but even more so, what could have been. I never trash talked her to the kids though they saw what was happening. Today I am happily remarried and we are both serving he Lord together. I know brokenness. Allow the Lord to walk with you through this. I can assure you…you can trust, He will heal your heart. New beginnings are not just for the young. God’s mercies are new every morning
How do I show my wife unconditional love when she doesn't live in the house and won't let me do anything for her?
Its hard but you can do it. I did & after 7months separated w/false accusations & a RO against me. God worked in my heart & mind & with the love of my savior jesus christ we reconciled. Long hard rd & you will feel like dying most days. Especially if kids are involved & taken away. Its everything Jimmy is telling you.
My wife moved out with the kids. How do I show her it’s not gods will? She is pushing away god right now. I need help. He had put issues but nothing we can’t work on.
Try marriage helper on UA-cam. Praying for you
Separated from my wife 7months ago she dont have time and i feel she dont love me i tryed
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Ouch!!! WOWEE
I noticed Jesus wasn't that nice to jerks. He liked to use sarcasm. But maybe that was the culture and langue of that day, maybe sarcasm was the norm for their language in that day.
Where did you notice this? Can you provide some scripture references? Was it mainly the Pharisees?
@@allybo242 Yeah, mainly the Pharisees. But several verses otherwise also seem sarcastic. Perhaps it was the translators that expressed it that way.
Jesus probably knew their hearts were hard towards Him and didn’t need to try and convince them of their need for a saviour.
Maybe he wasn’t sarcastic so much, as just leaving them to their depraved mindset.
I’m sure Jesus was sad that they missed out but we each have a choice.
Great talk. TUDaH RBaH (thank you very much). //. Anyone reading this who is not saved, ask the Messiah to be your Savior
The only one that redeems us is Jesus
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It does not work with my evil brother so now I treat him like what he deserve after 56 years he never done nothing good and he is my older
wish my wife would feel thaybway but not always the man woman bad too
Great
But why few ministers address women like Titus chapter 2 where it states that a woman’s life makes a mockery of God if she doesn’t liven this life at home
It’s too one sided
Please look into this
When you allow yourself to be a victim, you are part of the problem. Take a stand against sin. If you don’t it will continue.
I'm sorry, but some people are just unredeemable. Autistic spectrum partners and narcissistic behaviour is actually unredeemable no matter how much you do or treat them right or well. They are just relationships you have to say I tried and leave.
Did you just give your approval to a man who divorced his wife to be with a televangelist after her husband died? You essentially smeared his wife on national tv. That doesn’t sound like biblical advice to me.
So a women should take of themselves
And dress well
Lol.