The Key to Your Spouse's Heart |
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2015
- People desire to be married, but many doubt if marriage still works. Jimmy Evans discusses the perfect plan for a lasting marriage that will give you the key to fulfilling your spouse's heart.
From "The Indestructible Marriage" series by Jimmy Evans.
www.marriagetoday.com/indestru...
My husband almost walked out on us today, on this day 05/18/18 and because of just 30 minutes of this series saved our marriage of 17 years. I'm witness that this really works and is not only a marriage saver but a life saver. The money is well worth spent. Next month when we get our social security checks we're getting the series, the full series. Thank you God and jimmy & Karen for this Goldy life saver. We love you.
That's awesome. Good is good
I pray for thomas medford and i to be restored and remarried to each other all these single ladies need to leave married men alone
I've been researching how to save your marriage and found a great website at Secret fixer blueprint (look it up on google)
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect and I just stopped hurting
wow are you still married.
Marriage on the Rock was a book that helped me with seeing my faults in our marriage. This was in 1999. We were on the verge of destroying our lives and our four children’s lives. 14 years of marriage that was tossed aside because I couldn’t see how to honor my husband. My husband couldn’t see how to lay down his life for me. But thankfully, a friend told me about this book and I read it with a broken heart and it spoke to me and gave me hope.
Here we are, almost at 34 years. Happy, committed to each other and serving God every day. I’m thankful for stumbling onto this book and turning my life around.
This is so very beautiful god is so wonderful and I have learned alot from these aswell and they have helped me understand where I was going wrong and I never really knew what a healthy marriage was until now thanks to God and these videos
The most attractive thing to me is not seeing my husband doing the house work, but what's most important is his heart and to see him seeking God by reading His Word and prayer wanting to draw closer to Christ. Seeking the heart of God growing closer in a personal RELATIONSHIP wanting to KNOW God with growing deep, deep roots. May not be happening in reality, but in my prayers it's what I long for. Just to have a man that is devoutly seeking to be pleasing unto Lord with his mind, his eyes, his body, his soul..
So you like doing all the housework?
Ashley Judd-Semple I agree
I agree with you
My desire too
I totally, TOTALLY agree with you!
Love all of sermons! Everyone please pray that I can get my husband of 21 years to listen and try to save our relationship. So tired of being unhappy😢
I pray for you !!
Thank you I need alot of it. Have gotten a little of our problems brought to the light but haven't dealt with them. Thank you again!
I pray for you...🙏
Praying for all wives who are receiving this wisdom but know that their husbands are not feasting on Gods love and Wisdom of His Word. Even me.
I'll pray for you and you for me. I'm having the same problem the only difference is mine has only been 14 years but 14 unhappy years. He is never wrong about anything and we never resolve anything because he refuses to talk. The horrible thing is he has preached on marriage and come home and doesn't live it.
After being separated a year in a half from my wife, we reconciled this year and been serving her and putting her first. Taking all your advice to heart and putting them to practice. My wife has said she cares for me but doesn’t feel any love for me 😢 please pray for my marriage I hurt her a lot in the past but changed completely for the good
I teared up when he began to explain how he and his wife apologized to each other and committed to start over. Thank you for sharing. God bless!
Same here in 2021😭
Love is from God!!! He always is
Our refuge!!
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to our Ministry...On the Rock we shall build our house! Glory to God!
Thanks so much for your ministry. It is so helpful in my life. My wife and I are separated going on 4 months now. I have failed her so much. I talk to her like a dog. I am very ashamed for the things I do. I am bipolar and have to take several medications to keep it at bay. I tend to use my illness as a crutch to justify my evil doing. We are both Strong Christians and I know not to treat my wife that way . Your seminar has opened my eyes to the way. I give it all to God and ask the Holy Spirit to help me make my words the true
meaning of my Spirit filled Heart. Thank you and God bless
Jeromey Steakley l am not shure what the Lord did in your marrige.I pray for you in Christ name.thx for opening your heart to God Brother
Jeromey Steakley thanks for your heart felt response!
@Paula Luna Thank you Mrs. Luna for your thoughtful and powerful heartfelt prayers for Mr. & Mrs. Jeromey Steakley and I too agree with your Christ-centered and Sacred-Marriage-Saving Prayer for The Awesome Steakley Family After Father God's Own Heart in King Yeshua Messiah Christ Jesus Name - Amen!!!
Brother Jeromey, joining you and our Christ-centered Family of Brothers and Sisters in prayer to Abba Daddy Papa Father God, the God of All Compassion, Comfort and Hope and the Father of Many Mercies of Heavenly Lights that He will continue to train you up in the Way you should go and correct you with His Almighty Sovereign Hand of Graces upon Graces. We men need to force our mouths shut and only open them when needed with kind words of compassion and when we need to softly rebuke our wives, we need to do it with a spirit of gentleness and the very Spirit of Christ Jesus, The Spirit of Meekness and Quietness. I do feel your pain very well Jeromey for I too was diagnosed so many years ago at first with clinical depression and then the state hospital changed the diagnosis to Manic/Depression that now is called bipolar and they also diagnosed me with severe paranoid schizophrenia. BUT Thanks be to the God of Many Mercies and Healing for sending His Word (Christ Jesus) and Healing me from all diseases, sickness and death. Psalm 107:20 and that was over 26 years ago before Christ Jesus rescued me from the flesh/myself, the world and the devil. I still have a lot of issues with the bipolar episodes but truly do not hear voices any longer or visions but only hear the Voice of Christ Jesus by reading His Holy and Perfect and Loving Word. I grew up in dysfunction and my parents separated when I was 3 and then divorced when I was 8. My brothers and I went to the orphanage and then foster homes for about 2 years before our Mom fought to get us back. It was hard growing up without a dad; three failed marriages for my mother and she raised us 5 boys by herself and the help of Almighty God. It was not easy but well worth going through the hard ordeal and early life; but Praise Father God as this is how most of my brothers and I came to a Saving Knowledge of Jesus Christ. But the fight and battle and the arduous hill is all so heavy and high to climb. My beautiful wife for life keeps reminding me that "It Is Finished" And the Battle is Already Won by King Christ Jesus! But we are still here on Planet Earth and the war is still raging and we need to choose to crucify our flesh and not run off of the God's Ordained and Anointed Altar of being a Living Sacrifice and choose daily to say no to ourselves and Yes to The Lord's Best Plan for our lives. I know brothers and sisters it is not easy BUT it is well worth it for our very Eternal Destiny in either Hell forever lost without Christ Jesus' Love and Presence or in Heaven with The God of All Creation and The King of All Glory and Joy depends on what daily choices we make. These choices we make in front of people and behind closed doors. So let us choose wisely my friends and we have Father God's Holy, Eternal Word and Promise on it; "If you faint not (do not give up) you WILL reap a harvest"....Study Bible
Carry One Another's Burdens …8 The one who sows to please his flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; but the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. 9 Let us not grow weary in well-doing, for in due time we will reap a harvest, if we do not give up. 10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to the family of faith.…Galatians 6:8-10 - Berean Study Bible · Download
Pray for thomas medford and i to be remarried someday soon he and i met when were 18 yrs and our relationship we it was peaceful thats true i need communication security stability a 100 percentt this 3rd relationship brief is not right with god
"...they're operating based on the fear of what their spouse does and fear if they do the right thing they'll be taken advantage of...great marriages are based on faith.." WOW that part REALLY spoke to my spirit and soul. I will definitely medidate on this! Thank you for sharing.
Neiasha Simons so good!!
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect!
I just found your videos on UA-cam for the first time in my life, and I can honestly say you are an absolute Godsend! It couldn't have come at a more crucial time in my life..... I've had suicidal thoughts, and just wanting to give up on my marriage and life, even though I have twin 4 year olds. 😢 My inlaws have and still continue to try and get my wife to leave me..... but you have given me enough hope in myself that I believed I could go get a job, I went and applied, and got hired for a job, and I went to my wife and told her I'm ready to forget myself and put her FIRST... all because of you being an instrument in God's hands....I hope some day I can meet you in person, and thank you personally! THANK YOU! AND GOD BLESS!
Praying for you Gary! God loves you and completes the great work that has been started in you. This is only a season and you have an amazing compassionate, wisdom giving father on your side!
Father God,
Please bring my husband and I closer to eachother for a LIFE-LONG marriage. God please wind our hearts together like two vines growing in the vineyards and courts of the LORD.
In Jesus' name, amen!!!
I am recently engaged and this has been such a blessing and sending it to my Boaz. I will keep listening to these teachings as I prepare to be a Ruth and an Esther for my King.
Thank you for these sermons. You have pointed out where I have missed the mark. Pray that my wife will listen to these also and forgive me. I adore my wife and I’m praying for restoration in our marriage. Thank you, Jimmy Evans.
God bless u abundantly for what ure doing to save marriages
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to the ministry we already have ...On this Rock we shall build our home! Glory to God!
Wow, this really hit home for me. Thank God for blessing this world with the Marriage Today ministry. Thank you Jimmy & Karen Evans for what you’re doing to help save, rekindle, and reunite marriages the way God intended marriage to be. Many, many blessings to your ministry is my prayer in Jesus name, Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
i totally agree with everything pastor is saying. we both need Gods help.
Thank you Pastor Jimmy Evans my husband loves your messages and we were cooking the other day while we listened to two of your videos! God bless you!!
Its not the what you say but how you say it.....exactly what my hubby used to tell me. After going through difficulty in our marriage partly bc of me I have learned to change that by the strength of God. IT has truly changed our relationship with other changes i have made with the help of the Lord.
Thank you! We have really been struggling. Your ministry is amazing!
Thanks for another great teaching!!! May God mightily bless your ministry!!!
Thank you for saying that there is no one 'leader' in the home,
we are both leaders
Yesss
Amazing Pastor Blake's. I love what you're doing. You have helped us tremendously to move forward past toxic relationships and realized we are.
GOOD TEACHING! ....And much needed.
I've always loved Mr. Evans' view on marriage.
This teaching is incredible!!! Thank you Pastor Evans!
Thank you for making this channel. It's important to learn about being a better partner.
I am so grateful that I found Jimmy and Karen on TV. And on Utube. Have learned so much.
Yes that's very true we love what it says about our spouses , thank you so much , my eyes are now open I will do my part first
So glad I found Jimmy Evans he's totally spoke to me.I heard this before but,he makes more sense than ever as our thoughts and speech to our spouse can hurts our marriage.
Intimacy is the key to a successful marriage 💝
i love you ministry. you are a true vessel of light. thank you for allowing god to express himself and divine truth through you. you help (and teach) so many couples stay in the light and in love with each other, in a practical, realistic and accessible everyday-kind-of-way. thank you to you and your wife for sharing your stories, humor and life purpose with us
Thank you Jimmy and Karen! Love your teachings. A kind and gentle man is what I appreciate! God bless you!
I agree, but I would add exclusively attentive to that list as well.
I got teary-eyed, I really listened this time
Thank you for teaching me how to be a Godly Man & Husband, May God continue to bless you, your marriage and your ministry
Am bless with your teachings.
Wow thank you so much Pastor, I keep learning each time I watch to your teaching.
Thanks Pastor! My fiancé and I are getting ready God’s way! Great resource!
The best marriage Pastor I have ever heard!!!!
I love this.. I would like to add that women want to be respected too not just men. I guess I'm different because hate being disrespected.
We all need respect and love.
I agree
it is not mutually exclusive.
submission is to be MUTUAL
+JD Wright Yes and Amen!
If your husband loves you as Christ loves the Church (think of everything he ever did for the church) and is willing to lay down his life for you and serves you - that is more love and respect than you will ever need. :)
James Hegarty ...so glad you responded...I. Love this ministry...and when we just ask God to help us obey...we find unfailing victory. No buts...no additions...no excuses...
Chari Holloman you are right !!!
Dear sir, i want to thank you for this message i do faithfully believe this is the key to marriage. I wish my wife would sit down and watch this with me. Please remember me and my wife in prayer . thank you again.
your ministry is awesome..... taken notes . will definitely share with friends...
I need to say these magic words and work on this. Thank you :)
This is very helpful with me especially in opening my eyes to reality of world about marriages...especially I got my previous marriage...and learning from it and making things better for my new life...
This is 100% Were I was and what I needed to understand. and the cleaning part is 100% so true, my other use to tell me it was so sexy to see me cleaning. I was such a dummy to not pick this all up. I had tears hearing some of this. I really messed up.Thank you.
Your "Don't feed the monster"' statement cracks me up😂. I love it, thanx👍!
Truths that strike the right cord in both men and women!
Thank you God is awesome and he is faithful he will he do what he promoised.
I'm believing this for my husband!!!
Very beautiful and blessed teachings.
He dropped a bomb at 11:17! 👏🏾👏🏾 yes outward beauty and being handsome is great but man a person’s spirit is KEY
Excellent, clear message
Thanks Pastor, God bless you.
Thanks a lot Dr. Evans for the godly, wise advices you give to all people so they can have godly marriages! Blessings..
This word in Ephesians 5 : 22 "submit" has created many negative things between couples. By studying this word in Aramaic we find the right translation from that language is not submit but devoted, the word submit came from Greek.. The right translation for that verse is : " For wives, this means being tenderly devoted to your husbands like you are tenderly devoted to our Lord..."
See The Passion Translation By Dr. Brian Simmons... You can watch Dr. Simmons on of of Sid Roth UA-cam.
thank you for that insight...see
cbe@cbeinternational.org
christians for biblical equality
for great historical context.
I needed to hear what you said about men need honor
I started sweeping,moping and washing dishes and Nothing happened so I went outside in texas Heat and started washing my truck busting a swet in the sun that's what caught her eye was my soaked t-shirt 🙏👍
Haha! That is awesome! Happy for you both. Thank you for tuning in. Please feel free to subscribe to our channel!
This teaching is "treasure"
So true! I thank God that I am a Christian counselor with my practice in Haverhill Massachusetts. We have just started our own UA-cam channel called Christian Counseling Haverhill Massachusetts
interesting information.
Amen glory to God hallelujah jesus sounds teaching for marriage God bless you and your family pastor Jimmy
Thanks so much
Xo marriage has really helped me. So thankful for this video
I love this!
Wow this is so powerful.
I thank this your ministry i am divorced and i want to remariage and evil spirit are fighting me every day to destroy my marraige i trust in god that your ministry Will give me a hand amen !!
It was a good start.
I am at a loss and don't know what to do. Please bare with me for those willing to read this. I am not without fault and not to make excuses-- I am a disabled veteran that with my pain levels it is a great factor in my mood with anxiety and short tempered to raise my voice but never physically acted on my anger (I have been through anger management counseling 3 years ago and it has been drastically improved). My wife and I of 8 yours were both in previous marriages that had felled Both of us had been unhappy for several years in our previous marriages and we had dated briefly off and on 20 years ago while in high school we both were married and had 4 children each. Our 2 daughters were best friends in elementary school in the same grade for 5 years before either one of us had even talked to the other, long story short we had rekindled a relationship that both of us had wanted being that we were both in loveless marriages it is Sad to say that we were unfaithful to our spouses and had developed a relationship with eachother. We both had separated and had gotten together a blended family her 4 kids, my 4 kids and now 2 children together for a grand total of 10 children zoo. Anyways we had both watched a few sermons on UA-cam, After my wife had started reading The Bible on a regular basis (I'm talking sometimes 6 to 8 hours out of the day) she decided that our marriage had started in an ungodly way so according to The Bible as she would say. It wasn't long and she had come to me and told me that we started out in sin and that sex would no longer going to be for pleasure (little did I know "No Longer At All". Long story short my wife had found Life Church in Wichita Kansas and started attending with my 4 older stepchildren ages 21, 19, 17 and 13 so there wasn't room in the car for all of us, I went with her one day and we had taken our 2 younger children with us that were 5 and 7 years of age. My wife had determined that with the hour and a 1/2 drive each direction it was too much to get up early us get the kids ready and travel to church with us so it was decided for me that I would have to stay home with the 2 younger children on Sundays and watch services online. "We are unequally yoked" since I do not physically sit down and read the Bible but that is because I cannot grasp what I am reading due to my pain level I will read something multiple times so I do all of my bible reading on the Bible app were it is read to me and I can understand it that way but she insists that it isn't the same. I am trying to learn about God, Jesus and The Bible (pun intended "RELIGIOUSLY"). I feel that I am the only one fighting for our marriage she has just given up (it hurts being rejected in EVERY FORM for almost 2 years now). There is so much more to our story but I have went on longer than these fat little fingers will allow for right now. What to do ???
Thank you for any comments or suggestions in advance.
Robert
Beautiful, I pray for you and your marriage right now.
Keep seeking the Lord. Repent for the past, do whatever you can to learn and grow in relationship with Jesus and ask the Spirit to guide you as you strive to become a Godly husband. And to encourage you to get back on track when you fall. Keep God first and find solice in Him. My prayers go out to you as I see the effort behind your comment. I pray that God opens the eyes of your wife and that eventually she will see His character impacting yours. Be patient until she comes around. I pray that God opens her heart to be an honoring wife and helper to you. God Bless you.
Thank you! Thank you! And thank you!
You are so welcome! Thank you for tuning in!
Nice sermon . I feel we should learn from this sermon how to be successful in our marriage .. yes men seeks the respect from his spouse.. that is the most priority he wants.. he can change himself with the love and respect by his spouse.. faith in Jesus is the key of the union..praise the Lord .
Lol when he gives the men a secret ,made me think of when I fell in love with seeing my husband cook for the first time this year lol
Wish I still had my husband's heart.
It isn't just housework, dishes, laundry, vacuuming and the rest...for me, take care of the outside of the house...the yard
Amen i receive this bless YOU.Espesians 5 act like it Mr.Renton BE Fully Committed.And so will i but im not with games
I think the most attractive thing would be for my husband to care and protect me. He was told by someone early in our marriage NOT to protect me and this was evident in our marriage. I always longed to be protected and cared about as a human
God bless you
I needed this 11 yrs ago 10 yrs ago 9 yrs ago. Now Im divorced and I've walked out on my family twice now we are all the way done.😭😭😭😥😪
God is still the same. Keep praying. God can turn things around, even if they’re dead. If there want domestic abuse Ezekiel 36-dead bones come alive. It’s not just a song
Correct !
🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Thank You👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this sermon. I’m single woman seeking to be married. And watching this is preparing me for that role. I’m glad that you and your wife went through what you did because you’re able to share your wisdom to others. Thank you!
Shey my son is single and he is looking for god fearing woman to marry.
Don Tamuty I honestly don’t know how to respond to this message. Lol. I can say that your faith is incredible especially not knowing who or how I look like.
AMEN 💓💕💗 PRAISE GOD!!!
Blessings, love and prayers from Pakistan
Honor and security is key.
Lord I pray I can be joined with my partner soon as this back n forth is not good for us and things seems to be misunderstood. We are both frustrated with the current circumstance but we believe You are faithful and just to take care of our situation
The truth will set you free..........................:-)
Amen!
I Agree with you pastor . But the sweat! part hmm hmm not for me. Helping me around the house i love.
I don't need my husband to vacuumed. I need him to take care of the outside home details. When he does that I am very attracted to him. He rarely does that.
My late husband came home from working hard he liked that I liked his male scent.
'The more inwardly depraved one becomes the more they focus on outward appearance to compensate for lacking lasting beauty.'
“Neither spouse is the boss of the home, the boss of the home is Jesus Christ”
Jimmy, I can use your help in my marriage.
To all struggling with the assigning of “who gets respect and who gets love”. Men are instructed to give what they do not “naturally” give to their wives, and that is Love in the form that SHE receives it. Men naturally, for the most part, give out respect because thats what they naturally function on. Same for women. We naturally give out love, but respect not so much. And the big kicker here my brothers and sisters, Our spouses are NOT required to EARN it before we GIVE it. This is harder for women I think. To respect when we feel the man is not respectable is sooooo difficult. IDE love to hear the mans point of view about showing love, or demonstrating love to an unloving woman.
Ron And Laura Surman I too need help with the part about loving an angry, or unloving wife.
I'm struggling right now about this. My wife has recently filed a protective order. I don't want to lose my wife. I need help.
U da man
only mad ppl will dislike this
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My husband left two yrs im dying inside we had issues n god nos i tried i just learned to live my life with him n now i have to learn to live without we prayed n prayed n its to late i loved these clips but it just wasnt enough for him god help me..
Dear Linda, God can bring life to what was once dead.
me I enjoy you show with your wife thank you God word
Enjoy wachiing you God is amazing teacher amen given thanks praise the Lord come into the Holy house of tamayla wonderful day
This is my pastor. I wanna move to where his church is at.
Lol my husband loves to say the bible says “wife submit to your husband “ lol I love my husband so much I’m here to seek more information on marriage and how important it is for me to know and study my vows I strive to keep my husband happy.
Me and my husband out grew our wedding bands and thank Jesus I got to go to the mall to get them resized for us despite my husband never left the car to go in and size his finger I was so happy the jewelry guy said I could take the size rings out to the car to get the proper size fit for my husband I was so thankful my husband went through with it I thought he was not going to let me size his finger but he did .I was nervous the price would be 500.00 dollars to fix our rings but surprisingly it only will cost 150.00 🙏 I thought of Jesus right away !
Amen!❤️
Listening to this in only a few seconds I started to break down crying. I realize that my marriage is NOTHING like it should be. I am a believer for the past three years and my husband is an unbeliever. We have been married over25 years and he is acting out in every way a man could in a marriage without leaving me altogether. We still have two small children to raise and he acts like he has none as well as no wife. He is involved with another woman who is pulling him away from his family.
I am breaking down because I don't see us ever having this marriage the way God would want it to be. I have prayed and fasted and wonder if it is just time to move on. I love my husband but he has caused so much pain. I forgive him but I don't accept his behavior. He wants to stay but Is it really God's will?
Dee, give the man over to your Heavenly Father. Then ask the Lord for grace to do what He says in 1 Peter 3:1-2. Then if the unbelieving husband wants to depart, it's God's will. And if he wants to stay, it's God's will. Because you gave the man over to the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:12-16.