This was very interesting to watch. I'm in the same boat you are: I'm 48 and thankfully, with a youthful look. I started dying my hair at 42, the grey came in waves and I was very insecure about it because I still felt young and vibrant. My female barber always argued with me to just let the grey grow out because it would look good on me. I hesitated up until two years ago. Honestly, I like it best died because I'm stylish, I work out and I feel young still. My point is this, people close to you will most likely to tell you to just let your grey grow because you'll "look good in it". But I personally think that comes from them maybe not wanting to make you feel less attractive about yourself. However, I felt better when I died my hair because I really looked good, in my own humble opinion. Does this make any sense to you? Do you also experience these thoughts? 🤔 You look good with your hair died (no homo!), and if you like it, then fuck what everyone else thinks. I don't see women my age ever letting their grey grow out; that throws their credibility out. Lastly, thank you for your service. I am very grateful for you and those who serve this great country of ours! Just subscribed.
Thanks for subscribing! I want to make another video about Grey hair now that I’m retired and have a beard ( grey). I love your take on this subject and I believe that if dying your hair is what makes you confident and happy that it is what you should continue to do. I love the way I look right now. I think that it shows my maturity but also mysterious in a way. Catch you on my next video. Cheers! 🤙
I am 40yrs old...started greying at early 20’s and now have 80% grey but still I look very young like say 28yrs if dyed....but the problem I find with dying is it will be visible after a few weeks and esp the roots will look white and I think people will any how notice that....my whole confidence will go down when people started to look at my hair....I am seriously thinking of accepting my grey hairs and try Salt n pepper looks....I saw ‘just for men’ has some to give the salt and pepper looks....one thing I noticed is women actually find me attractive with the grey hair and youthful face.
I am 48 now but had predominant Grey hair since 38 years old. I used to worry about it but of course I don’t anymore since it is a badge of honor and a sign of serious maturity. I too still look young both my face and physique. It actually feels good to know I am in charge of any situation including being around people a whole lot younger than me. Impress only yourself brother and confidence will drive everything else!
Thanks for your comments! I agree with your take on having hair and the grey that comes with it. You have to own having hair at our age and rock it how you want it.
I am going to be like a early 80s paul mccartney allow grey hair to come through, and than dye it one of these days, I am just going go ringo starr, and dye my hair.
I’m 62 and can’t date 62 year olds, unless there is an unusual one out there. I’m not a socialite and am super active . I’m still a practicing surgeon, but am also a grease monkey. Some women will not go on a first date with me because of my age. The only thing that says 62 is my hair color. I have lots of curly hair
Hey, thanks for posting this on here. I admire your courage in asking about boosting one’s self confidence. My advice to you is to assess other parts of your life first as a young man before you focus on your looks. Appearance, believe it or not, has very little to do with self confidence. I am a whole lot older than you and found this information out much later in my 20s. Back then there were no available and immediate information sharing such as the net/UA-cam. We’ve had to rely on trial and error. Attracting someone based on looks alone was not it. You have to have other qualities such as being funny, witty, and being yourself. I think you should capitalize on your courage and practice talking to people. Start with your family and friends. The easiest way I found is to ask about them and let them talk about themselves or their experiences. Just listen, nod, smile, and think about the next question to keep conversations going. As far as meeting new people, be at places where most are hanging out nowadays. It is difficult I know since the pandemic and most young people communicate via text. Not a problem but you have to find a way for a face to face conversation to happen. Coffee shops, go to parties as allowed/available. Heck, walk around for now and find places where your age hang out. I will make a video of this sometime as a reference. If you think that dying your hair will make you feel better then so be it. You can always just let it go back to its natural state anyway. Why not go crazy and color it a different color? Just my thoughts brother and if you need more then let me know and I’ll try and help.
Thank you for reading my comment i really appreciate.i am still a student and have to be in class sometimes i feel embarrased to want to chat with them.I have some friend but not many. I have asked them do i need to dye my hair? They said yes you need to dye my hair to cover my gray hair to increase my confident and apperance.when i meet people who don't know me,they always look at my gray hair and talk about it,he said you are young but you already have a premature grey hair i feel less comfortable with it.So what do you think
@@nothingnothing847 If you want to try then try it. Nothing to lose but your time. You can always let it grow back to its normal state. I had Grey hair in my early twenties but no one really told me that I should do something about it. But even if someone did, I probably would ignore those people. That’s just my perspective and personality.
@@muhammadsyarifudin4711 Grey hair usually are genetics in my opinion much like baldness. I have not heard or know of any medical treatment for it. Either dye your hair or just rock it! My South Korean friends are all about dyeing their hair. They tried to tell me to do the same but I refused.
I’m 34 and this is my 3rd time dying my hair. My reaction from women at the club was more attention and looking younger for those that like guys looking better and more attention. I do have some that don’t want me to dye it but change their mind once they see it after.
i am getting grey hair, gray people are people who can accept the fact of life that they are old, i'm free now and no longer want to lie about myself!!
As a kid I use to think Bill Clinton would look younger if he dyed his hair. I was thinking if I was as grey as him I would. Going grey better than going bald. At least you got more options.
Good point and I appreciate the fact that I do have hair. Of course, nothing wrong with bald head. I did shave my head for a couple of summers and liked it. I’m not going to this time around because I will be growing it long after I retire from the military. Soon….
@@StylishGreaseMonkey that's good. Some if us guys always wanted to wear long hair but couldn't because our parents wouldn't let us. Then we jion the military and they don't let you of crouse. So growing your hair long after the military the way to go.
You should do a video about should men grow their hair long in their 40s, Would long hair look fake on men in their 40s, If your in your late 30s most people you would look fake with long hair your better off with short hair.
I’m 22 and have premature grey hair I like to say it doesn’t bother me but I clearly do also feel like I should being a bitch and accept it I’m blessed with genetics, and intellect have very good future prospects
22 is very young yet. You can color your hair any color you want and rock it! Something rarely anyone can pull off in their 40s. I’m 50 now and grew my hair and beard for a different look. It’s all grey btw and loving it!
ummmm... yes and no... just depends on the person lol... if they gonna dye their hair they should do so... and if they dont then thats cool too... just do what you want with your hair
You’re good to go young man! I’ll be growing my beard next year as it is obligatory for retired military personnel to do. Definitely some grey hair there too.
no way does gray hair looks good on me, i am very light skinned and when my hair is grey i look sick, as soon as i dye it i look way younger and get many compliments. just make sure you color it the correct color.
I’m glad that works for you! My point is to find what makes you feel good and go that direction. I’ve never been so grey now that I’m growing out my hair and beard! Love it!
Oh c'mon. I'm just 24 and started greying at 18. Don't be like a woman. Women always want to be beautiful. We're men. We go out bold. We don't give a f. Lol 😄
True indeed! Appearance on men comes secondary to power. Focus on improving power (confidence, finance, etc) and you’ll seem to live young (and look) forever.
You look like you're in your early 50s either way.. They're saying You look younger than you are to not hurt your feelings not a big deal ..Embrace your age
So was I. In my 30s, I had a lot and was going through phases. I did try the touch up shampoo once but gave up. I even shaved my head for two years to hide the greys. My perception changed in my 40s. I don’t mind it now and actually sport it well. So what are your plans with your Grey hair?
@@StylishGreaseMonkey Im nearly 30 and am noticed some greys especially down the sides, its not really grey yet but i definitely think ill be salt and pepper in my 30s and fully grey by 40s. It runs in my family too. I don't think ill mind it in my 40s as it suits people that age more i think, but i have a pretty young face now-if i do want to just hide and blend the greys is there much i can do right now? or is fully dying the only option
@@alexgonzalez-hy6xe I used to think that it bothered me as well having Grey hair on the side of my head but it didn’t matter since our face shows the real age. You’ll receive comments from people especially your guy friends and it will be bothersome. At that point you may consider some options: the hell with what your friends say (I bet your partner don’t mind), you can use a shampoo blend that darkens the grey hair, or you can dye the whole thing. I wouldn’t consider the last because once you start you’ll have to do it often. It is cumbersome! I would leave it alone and rock it! I’m 48 soon and more and more Grey hair is showing up but I don’t mind since the rest of me looks like I’m in my 30s!
I had the same thing when I was at your age. I never thought it was a problem since I focused on my physical health and improving my career which led to a better life. I’ll be 50 in a few months and haven’t dyed my hair at all. I grew my hair and beard long for a different look. I haven’t had anyone tell me I look old but then again I am haha.. Oh, if you feel strongly about your greys then dye it!!
The gel makes my hair look more peppery than salty. Watch some of my videos now and you will see how grey my hair is. I’ll do another updated video. My beard is also salt and peppery.
This video made me laugh. You look your age and I would never call someone with that much body fat physically fit. Maybe your cardio is good for your age but you're not fit looking. Basically if you have a turkey neck, jowls and no jaw line, you're not fit.
This was very interesting to watch. I'm in the same boat you are: I'm 48 and thankfully, with a youthful look. I started dying my hair at 42, the grey came in waves and I was very insecure about it because I still felt young and vibrant. My female barber always argued with me to just let the grey grow out because it would look good on me. I hesitated up until two years ago. Honestly, I like it best died because I'm stylish, I work out and I feel young still.
My point is this, people close to you will most likely to tell you to just let your grey grow because you'll "look good in it". But I personally think that comes from them maybe not wanting to make you feel less attractive about yourself. However, I felt better when I died my hair because I really looked good, in my own humble opinion. Does this make any sense to you? Do you also experience these thoughts? 🤔
You look good with your hair died (no homo!), and if you like it, then fuck what everyone else thinks. I don't see women my age ever letting their grey grow out; that throws their credibility out.
Lastly, thank you for your service. I am very grateful for you and those who serve this great country of ours! Just subscribed.
Thanks for subscribing! I want to make another video about Grey hair now that I’m retired and have a beard ( grey).
I love your take on this subject and I believe that if dying your hair is what makes you confident and happy that it is what you should continue to do.
I love the way I look right now. I think that it shows my maturity but also mysterious in a way.
Catch you on my next video. Cheers! 🤙
service! lol.
I am 40yrs old...started greying at early 20’s and now have 80% grey but still I look very young like say 28yrs if dyed....but the problem I find with dying is it will be visible after a few weeks and esp the roots will look white and I think people will any how notice that....my whole confidence will go down when people started to look at my hair....I am seriously thinking of accepting my grey hairs and try Salt n pepper looks....I saw ‘just for men’ has some to give the salt and pepper looks....one thing I noticed is women actually find me attractive with the grey hair and youthful face.
I am 48 now but had predominant Grey hair since 38 years old. I used to worry about it but of course I don’t anymore since it is a badge of honor and a sign of serious maturity. I too still look young both my face and physique. It actually feels good to know I am in charge of any situation including being around people a whole lot younger than me. Impress only yourself brother and confidence will drive everything else!
I’m 43 and I recently started to dye my hair. I honestly don’t care what other women think. Hair is hair. At the end of the day, it’s my own hair.
Thanks for your comments! I agree with your take on having hair and the grey that comes with it. You have to own having hair at our age and rock it how you want it.
I am going to be like a early 80s paul mccartney allow grey hair to come through, and than dye it one of these days, I am just going go ringo starr, and dye my hair.
Women will see it as insecurity about being old and use it against you.
Well said. I'm gonna do the same if mine starts going grey
@lineage13 who are you to say that us men shouldn't colour our hair just cos of what women think
I love dye my hair bloond
I’m 62 and can’t date 62 year olds, unless there is an unusual one out there. I’m not a socialite and am super active . I’m still a practicing surgeon, but am also a grease monkey. Some women will not go on a first date with me because of my age. The only thing that says 62 is my hair color. I have lots of curly hair
I am 18 i have a grey hair premature should i dye because I have no self -confidence to meet people and friend around me please what i should i do?
Hey, thanks for posting this on here. I admire your courage in asking about boosting one’s self confidence. My advice to you is to assess other parts of your life first as a young man before you focus on your looks. Appearance, believe it or not, has very little to do with self confidence. I am a whole lot older than you and found this information out much later in my 20s. Back then there were no available and immediate information sharing such as the net/UA-cam. We’ve had to rely on trial and error. Attracting someone based on looks alone was not it. You have to have other qualities such as being funny, witty, and being yourself. I think you should capitalize on your courage and practice talking to people. Start with your family and friends. The easiest way I found is to ask about them and let them talk about themselves or their experiences. Just listen, nod, smile, and think about the next question to keep conversations going.
As far as meeting new people, be at places where most are hanging out nowadays. It is difficult I know since the pandemic and most young people communicate via text. Not a problem but you have to find a way for a face to face conversation to happen. Coffee shops, go to parties as allowed/available. Heck, walk around for now and find places where your age hang out.
I will make a video of this sometime as a reference. If you think that dying your hair will make you feel better then so be it. You can always just let it go back to its natural state anyway. Why not go crazy and color it a different color? Just my thoughts brother and if you need more then let me know and I’ll try and help.
Thank you for reading my comment i really appreciate.i am still a student and have to be in class sometimes i feel embarrased to want to chat with them.I have some friend but not many. I have asked them do i need to dye my hair? They said yes you need to dye my hair to cover my gray hair to increase my confident and apperance.when i meet people who don't know me,they always look at my gray hair and talk about it,he said you are young but you already have a premature grey hair i feel less comfortable with it.So what do you think
I also have the same problem,is there a treatment for this gray matter problem naturally
@@nothingnothing847 If you want to try then try it. Nothing to lose but your time. You can always let it grow back to its normal state. I had Grey hair in my early twenties but no one really told me that I should do something about it. But even if someone did, I probably would ignore those people. That’s just my perspective and personality.
@@muhammadsyarifudin4711 Grey hair usually are genetics in my opinion much like baldness. I have not heard or know of any medical treatment for it. Either dye your hair or just rock it! My South Korean friends are all about dyeing their hair. They tried to tell me to do the same but I refused.
I have grey hair since my early teens, I grew my hair longer, and i am thinking of dying it.
I have no issues with dying our grey hair. If it makes you feel good and confident then rock on.
I’m 34 and this is my 3rd time dying my hair. My reaction from women at the club was more attention and looking younger for those that like guys looking better and more attention. I do have some that don’t want me to dye it but change their mind once they see it after.
At 34 you are still pretty young brother and do what makes you happy! 🤙
i am getting grey hair, gray people are people who can accept the fact of life that they are old, i'm free now and no longer want to lie about myself!!
Right on! Have you seen me lately? All grey, beard and all!
I adore guys with gray hair and letting it grow.
As a kid I use to think Bill Clinton would look younger if he dyed his hair. I was thinking if I was as grey as him I would. Going grey better than going bald. At least you got more options.
Good point and I appreciate the fact that I do have hair. Of course, nothing wrong with bald head. I did shave my head for a couple of summers and liked it. I’m not going to this time around because I will be growing it long after I retire from the military. Soon….
@@StylishGreaseMonkey that's good. Some if us guys always wanted to wear long hair but couldn't because our parents wouldn't let us. Then we jion the military and they don't let you of crouse. So growing your hair long after the military the way to go.
You should do a video about should men grow their hair long in their 40s, Would long hair look fake on men in their 40s, If your in your late 30s most people you would look fake with long hair your better off with short hair.
That sounds like a plan. I am growing my hair and have a beard now so perfect topic I think. Thanks!
I’m 22 and have premature grey hair I like to say it doesn’t bother me but I clearly do also feel like I should being a bitch and accept it I’m blessed with genetics, and intellect have very good future prospects
22 is very young yet. You can color your hair any color you want and rock it! Something rarely anyone can pull off in their 40s. I’m 50 now and grew my hair and beard for a different look. It’s all grey btw and loving it!
ummmm... yes and no... just depends on the person lol... if they gonna dye their hair they should do so... and if they dont then thats cool too... just do what you want with your hair
The widows peak, has nothing to do with hair color.
I feel ya I'm 38 and just starting to notice some grey hairs lol but only in my facial hair I don't think ill dye it
You’re good to go young man! I’ll be growing my beard next year as it is obligatory for retired military personnel to do. Definitely some grey hair there too.
Im 27 and i have over 50% of my hair grey, stress really fucks you up mentally and physicaly.
I agree with the negative effects of stress. Seek help brother.
I don't see why men should dye their grey hair dying your grey hair takes years off a mans age.
I prefer my really dark brown hair. I don’t like grey hair. I prefer a youthful look im age 31 years old
It is what it is gray hair makes you look old and sick. Dyed hair looks healthier
27 and have some gray hairs 9 at least 🤣
Can't wait to transform to Dr . Strange
My greys are definitely out now! Love it!
no way does gray hair looks good on me, i am very light skinned and when my hair is grey i look sick, as soon as i dye it i look way younger and get many compliments. just make sure you color it the correct color.
I’m glad that works for you! My point is to find what makes you feel good and go that direction. I’ve never been so grey now that I’m growing out my hair and beard! Love it!
Thanks for doing this Jarhead! SF!
Hoorah, SF!
He stands here with dyed hair..
That know you, not knows you
Oh c'mon. I'm just 24 and started greying at 18. Don't be like a woman. Women always want to be beautiful. We're men. We go out bold. We don't give a f. Lol 😄
True indeed! Appearance on men comes secondary to power. Focus on improving power (confidence, finance, etc) and you’ll seem to live young (and look) forever.
You speak very well but it’s “ women that know you not knows you.
Thank you. I welcome criticism like this so I can get better. Cheers!
What's ur point dude. You answered nothing
Tip. Don't worry about gray hair. Lose weight and lose the fat. IMO
You have a mistress, bro. Stop lieing
LMFAO! That’s just wrong brother. Not my style at all.
Why fixate on this. You have a wife. If you're like a celebrity, die your hair.
You look like you're in your early 50s either way.. They're saying You look younger than you are to not hurt your feelings not a big deal ..Embrace your age
Very true! I’ve embraced it for sure…
I've been having grey hair since 21 crazy I hated it
So was I. In my 30s, I had a lot and was going through phases. I did try the touch up shampoo once but gave up. I even shaved my head for two years to hide the greys. My perception changed in my 40s. I don’t mind it now and actually sport it well. So what are your plans with your Grey hair?
@@StylishGreaseMonkey Im nearly 30 and am noticed some greys especially down the sides, its not really grey yet but i definitely think ill be salt and pepper in my 30s and fully grey by 40s. It runs in my family too. I don't think ill mind it in my 40s as it suits people that age more i think, but i have a pretty young face now-if i do want to just hide and blend the greys is there much i can do right now? or is fully dying the only option
@@alexgonzalez-hy6xe I used to think that it bothered me as well having Grey hair on the side of my head but it didn’t matter since our face shows the real age. You’ll receive comments from people especially your guy friends and it will be bothersome. At that point you may consider some options: the hell with what your friends say (I bet your partner don’t mind), you can use a shampoo blend that darkens the grey hair, or you can dye the whole thing. I wouldn’t consider the last because once you start you’ll have to do it often. It is cumbersome! I would leave it alone and rock it! I’m 48 soon and more and more Grey hair is showing up but I don’t mind since the rest of me looks like I’m in my 30s!
I am 28 and my sides are about 1/4 Grey :(
I had the same thing when I was at your age. I never thought it was a problem since I focused on my physical health and improving my career which led to a better life. I’ll be 50 in a few months and haven’t dyed my hair at all. I grew my hair and beard long for a different look. I haven’t had anyone tell me I look old but then again I am haha..
Oh, if you feel strongly about your greys then dye it!!
Looks like you dyed it
Dude u look like u dyed ur hair compared to the pic
The gel makes my hair look more peppery than salty. Watch some of my videos now and you will see how grey my hair is. I’ll do another updated video. My beard is also salt and peppery.
This video made me laugh. You look your age and I would never call someone with that much body fat physically fit. Maybe your cardio is good for your age but you're not fit looking. Basically if you have a turkey neck, jowls and no jaw line, you're not fit.
Okay Steve and you want me to do what with your comment? Thanks for your motivation and watching my vids.
@@StylishGreaseMonkey Maybe be a little more self aware if you're going to try to provide helpful videos
@@stevesmith3033 Rgr Steve and hoorah!
Get to the point already. Dude, you gotta work on your pacing.
Positive enforcement I take it. This vid is a few years back so I hope I’ve improved. If not, f#ck it!