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Ester has become such an icon. I deeply admire her and her work. I'm an avid listener of her podcast. She really models what it is like to be a femenist and yet have a deep compassion for men. In a time when people are so divided and ego driven, she is a champion for relationships and what holds us together, despite our flaws, our mistakes and our diferences.
When I saw that Esther Perel is on Rich's podcast I got excited and started listening right away! I love Esther and ponder on the things I learned from listening to her on UA-cam a lot. I love her perspective on things. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Thinking outside the box has been very helpful in my relationship. Peace from a subscriber in Ukraine.
Esther is wonderful and full of wisdom, as always. We could all listen to her for hours. But I also wanted to salute and thank Rich for opening up the way he did in the second half of the episode. It's not easy and it was beautiful to see. I also loved the way she called him out on his "narrative", she does it in the best, kindest, humorous way possible. Really wonderful episode, thank you both for sharing!
These 2 people Esther Perel and Rich Roll are among my favourite people to listen to. I have been following Rich Roll for many, many years and i simply think he is my favourite podcaster on youtube and i respect him enormously and i have listened to all the podcasts Esther Perel has done and i totally love her and everything she does. When i saw they were together in this podcast i felt soo happy to see them together interacting. Such an interesting interview and a total pleasure to listen and watch. Thank you Rich one more time for being soooo good to convey the reality of being human expressing it soo well and thank you Esther for bringing soo much wisdom and brilliance to the table. You both together are a beautiful treat!
I love Ester! I’ve been following her for a little bit and I feel she is such a gift to everyone! There is always something you can gain from what she puts out to the world 😊
Great interview. Especially the second hour. From his responses to Ester's advice, I don't get the sense that Rich is truly motivated to move beyond the status quo in his relationship with his wife. He always has excuses to justify holding back. And that is risky, if not riskier than taking the needed leap.
I agree also that focusing on just romantic relationships is far too limiting and many of us do not give enough attention or value to friendships which can be just as important for our wellbeing and happiness and there are plenty of couples who do not have other relationships/friendships outside of their partnership and it can be very insular and limited and closed off to new experiences and people
Very valuable conversation and yes it is interesting that people can have sex with each other and yet not able to talk about it,what they want,what they desire,whay they don't want...etc probably alot of very unsatifaying sex going on out there !! sex lacking intimacy and yes that "binary between the salacious and puritanical"is exactly it,the acessiblity of porn etc but a total lack of psycho-emotional side of sexual education is totally lacking,its recipe for disaster
I would suggest that if you need to be aware of all of this ‘analysis’ then you are flogging a dead horse of a relationship.. the main beneficiaries of this advice are those selling it
She was not as good looking as Dr. Ruth Westheimer who at 4'7" tall well, er, uh, if I was that height and came up to a man's crotch, I would also be a sex therapist.
What is romance ? whats romantic to one is not for another...its more complex than that,shes talking about our deepest emotional needs ....it goes so much deeper than "whats romantic"...learning to love well is one of the hardest and greatest lessons in life whether romantic or otherwise
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Ester has become such an icon. I deeply admire her and her work. I'm an avid listener of her podcast. She really models what it is like to be a femenist and yet have a deep compassion for men. In a time when people are so divided and ego driven, she is a champion for relationships and what holds us together, despite our flaws, our mistakes and our diferences.
When I saw that Esther Perel is on Rich's podcast I got excited and started listening right away! I love Esther and ponder on the things I learned from listening to her on UA-cam a lot. I love her perspective on things. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Thinking outside the box has been very helpful in my relationship. Peace from a subscriber in Ukraine.
Esther is wonderful and full of wisdom, as always. We could all listen to her for hours. But I also wanted to salute and thank Rich for opening up the way he did in the second half of the episode. It's not easy and it was beautiful to see. I also loved the way she called him out on his "narrative", she does it in the best, kindest, humorous way possible.
Really wonderful episode, thank you both for sharing!
These 2 people Esther Perel and Rich Roll are among my favourite people to listen to. I have been following Rich Roll for many, many years and i simply think he is my favourite podcaster on youtube and i respect him enormously and i have listened to all the podcasts Esther Perel has done and i totally love her and everything she does. When i saw they were together in this podcast i felt soo happy to see them together interacting. Such an interesting interview and a total pleasure to listen and watch. Thank you Rich one more time for being soooo good to convey the reality of being human expressing it soo well and thank you Esther for bringing soo much wisdom and brilliance to the table. You both together are a beautiful treat!
I've been listening/ watching Esther Perel from different podcasts for a while. She's my rock. Thank you both so much!
I love Ester! I’ve been following her for a little bit and I feel she is such a gift to everyone! There is always something you can gain from what she puts out to the world 😊
This is the best podcast with her that I've listened to (and the standards were high)
I agree 😊
Great interview. Especially the second hour. From his responses to Ester's advice, I don't get the sense that Rich is truly motivated to move beyond the status quo in his relationship with his wife. He always has excuses to justify holding back. And that is risky, if not riskier than taking the needed leap.
I agree also that focusing on just romantic relationships is far too limiting and many of us do not give enough attention or value to friendships which can be just as important for our wellbeing and happiness and there are plenty of couples who do not have other relationships/friendships outside of their partnership and it can be very insular and limited and closed off to new experiences and people
EASILY IN THE TOP 5 RICH ROLL EPISODES
"When you're not in control, you're not safe." Dang, I paused on that one, too. Worthy of reflection.
Thx so much Rich Roll for having this gem of a person on the show! Thx for enriching my life w/ your show.
People don’t abandon the ones they love. They abandon the ones they use.
Thank you for this AMAZING episode. And most importantly for time stamping the episode 😊 🙏
Yeah, need the timestamps
WOW. Thanks Esther Perel and Rich Roll. This is so beautiful & powerful. You have enriched my Life and I am grateful.
59:52 Was holding up til this part 🥹 Such a beautiful yet tangible concept for a long-lasting relationship.
39:30: No, life within the tribe is much more harmonious than this.
Amazing guest and terrific episode🫶
Rich so needed to hear the cold hard truth. “Your story is stale and self serving”
Me 2 😅
Did no one else feel that Esther wasn’t allowed to interject which would have made the conversation flow as almost all of her interviews do?
What a wonderful conversation
Immediate like just because of of Esther!😍
Very valuable conversation and yes it is interesting that people can have sex with each other and yet not able to talk about it,what they want,what they desire,whay they don't want...etc probably alot of very unsatifaying sex going on out there !! sex lacking intimacy and yes that "binary between the salacious and puritanical"is exactly it,the acessiblity of porn etc but a total lack of psycho-emotional side of sexual education is totally lacking,its recipe for disaster
9 languages. What a brilliant woman.
"the truth" like if there is one
I can‘t have it with these clickbait titles.
💚💚💚🕊️🍀
10:30: No, the biology of love hasn’t changed the last few million years. One is strongly advised not to deviate from that biology.
21:50: Conflict resolution much better among three partners than among two.
1:38: Keeping alive comes from honesty (including having multiple partners), not scheduling.
I would suggest that if you need to be aware of all of this ‘analysis’ then you are flogging a dead horse of a relationship.. the main beneficiaries of this advice are those selling it
00:45: No. You maintain spontaneity in long-term relationships by regularly inviting in additional partners.
No
11:30: The obligation of a human is to the tribe, not to one partner.
She was not as good looking as Dr. Ruth Westheimer who at 4'7" tall well, er, uh, if I was that height and came up to a man's crotch, I would also be a sex therapist.
58: High time to add partners!
1:12: Just be romantically and erotically honest throughout (this means forming additional relationships).
14:20: Keep adding partners.
1:34: Sex for procreation - that was only the previous less than 10,000 years.
We need to teach men and women about romance🤍
What is romance ? whats romantic to one is not for another...its more complex than that,shes talking about our deepest emotional needs ....it goes so much deeper than "whats romantic"...learning to love well is one of the hardest and greatest lessons in life whether romantic or otherwise