Why Did I Make Grandma Move Back To The Village?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 194

  • @chosen_one1602
    @chosen_one1602 9 днів тому +31

    You did nothing wrong. You have to keep the family at arms distance. Given the opportunity, the whole family would prefer to live with you! Dating a Filipina definitely has some pitfalls, especially ones from the province.

  • @THEPAPASMURFTHEOG
    @THEPAPASMURFTHEOG 9 днів тому +9

    grandma is a beautiful soul, I would not hesitate to have her watch my children when needed.. grandma will always be there for her family. nothing wrong with how she wants to live and where.

  • @frankinla
    @frankinla 9 днів тому +19

    “He likes to mush that
    box.” 😂😂

    • @james9044
      @james9044 9 днів тому +3

      That comment has caused me great concern moving forward unfortunately I can’t delete the image from the brains trust 😂

    • @bobnewhart4318
      @bobnewhart4318 9 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @terrenceabate1116
      @terrenceabate1116 8 днів тому +1

      @@james9044 right!! 😂

  • @markdavid4773
    @markdavid4773 9 днів тому +24

    Na Marco you did the right thing even though we love Grandma it’s the right choice 👍

    • @eddieBoxer
      @eddieBoxer 9 днів тому

      Never loan money to any Filipino, they'll never pay you back.

  • @JohnnyLawrence293
    @JohnnyLawrence293 9 днів тому +10

    the fact that they don't care about their own spouse/bf speaks volumes right there.

    • @poundtrader1414
      @poundtrader1414 8 днів тому +4

      makes you wonder and think, just saying you not wrong

    • @michaelhenry6558
      @michaelhenry6558 8 днів тому +1

      Spouse boyfriend kids... They can leave all...

  • @mitchbromwell9554
    @mitchbromwell9554 9 днів тому +14

    Peace and Quiet.. that's why. , lol 😂

  • @LarryFournillier
    @LarryFournillier 9 днів тому +6

    Big Dawg, please keep Calamansi around, she's funny and I like seeing her interact with everyone.🤣

  • @juancarrasco104
    @juancarrasco104 9 днів тому +9

    Thank you so much for this amazing video in this reading. 📚

    • @doneown503
      @doneown503 8 днів тому

      , I got lost at "enabler" , now , here is the diff! , in Texas , in South Platte, in Virginia ! , u could, just get a part-time. But this is PI ! , as a US born , u don't go taking a possible job from a Filipino. 😮

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 9 днів тому +6

    You’re always doing the right thing Marc💙

  • @seantaylor4107
    @seantaylor4107 9 днів тому +9

    100% legit reasons. Not that you needed to tell us either way. Cheers 🍻 Marcos and family.

  • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
    @RoyGJones-bd7jw 9 днів тому +10

    Brother they are always talking about you behind your back, trust me if you run out of peso, they will leave you, just like they used up taytay and leave him, brother make the back up plan just in case, get a safe from shoppe with finger print recognition, put your important things in there, that's no good what they are doing to you, I know you not making any savings now, plan to protect yourself, could be a year or three years but continue the fall back plan

  • @BoonieDocks
    @BoonieDocks 9 днів тому +3

    Just started my channel, i been watching Overstay road since the channel had 10k subscribers

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 9 днів тому +2

    All good thoughts. Great job. I am sure all your family enjoyed each other when you were able to be together.

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 9 днів тому +3

    Sir Marc, enjoy watching your vlogs. Such a good guy with a loving❤️ knowing what’s best for you/kids and her family from the village.

  • @michaelfeehily5926
    @michaelfeehily5926 9 днів тому +2

    you did great gives tatay time with his wife and she can visit anytime haha...

  • @hobbexp
    @hobbexp 9 днів тому +2

    Mush that box. Best expression I've heard in a long time.

  • @dave-d-grunt
    @dave-d-grunt 9 днів тому +3

    Good thinking. You’ve done the right thing.

  • @blackdiamond696
    @blackdiamond696 8 днів тому +1

    That's why I watch your award winning videos😅 because you are a good man with a beautiful family. ❤

  • @TheMuttonHeadDigest
    @TheMuttonHeadDigest 9 днів тому +4

    Man, that was pretty cool to let us know where your head is at!!

  • @PhilippinesMyParadise
    @PhilippinesMyParadise 9 днів тому +1

    A short, though to the point video. Another great sharing. Best of luck po/Ned 👏🎉👏

  • @bobnewhart4318
    @bobnewhart4318 9 днів тому +3

    You did the right thing once you open the door to one of them more will just sneak their way in slowly but surely. And you didn't put them out you sent them back home.

  • @14koala
    @14koala 9 днів тому +3

    You You did the right thing...with the new rental next to your place maybe grandad can come sometimes too and so he is not missing out on spending time with grand kids.

  • @twofarfromhome
    @twofarfromhome 9 днів тому +6

    In (Upper) East Tennessee, we have a rule of thumb when it comes to kin- you live far enough away so you don't see them every day, but not so far away that they need to stay overnight! 😂

    • @christopherwalker8327
      @christopherwalker8327 9 днів тому

      we got lost in the mountain roads east of Butler, beautifull area`😁

    • @twofarfromhome
      @twofarfromhome 8 днів тому

      Yeah, IMHO it is some of the most beautiful terrain on earth, until you have to hump it with a 60 lb ruck in the middle of July! ✌🏽

    • @CoconutDreams123
      @CoconutDreams123 8 днів тому

      Amen to that, twofarfromhome!

  • @scottmason6282
    @scottmason6282 9 днів тому +2

    Mark Makes Perfect Sense ! You Do You ! Hope You And The Family Have A Wonderful Day ! 🙂🙂🙂🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯

  • @mdasget-a-way376
    @mdasget-a-way376 8 днів тому

    Excellent video with a clear explanation of your reasoning. Family unity is everything, even when family members aren;t seeing eye to eye. Kudos to you for ensuring the family members remain together.

  • @PhotoDaveJax
    @PhotoDaveJax 9 днів тому +3

    Good thinking. 👍

  • @nap41hb67
    @nap41hb67 9 днів тому +3

    You do what you have to do,you are a good husband and a good dad,firm and assertive,you did right 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌⭐️⭐️⭐️🤘⭐️

  • @Thedubesdailyvlog
    @Thedubesdailyvlog 5 днів тому

    That was the right thing to do Mark, never blame yourself. You needed your space with your little family so did they, keep doing the good work

  • @retiredveteran200
    @retiredveteran200 9 днів тому +1

    You did the right thing. Thank you for being you. Thank Veteran.

  • @robertmolenaar5033
    @robertmolenaar5033 9 днів тому +1

    Fully understand where you getting at and hey shows the great heart you got. Good on you 😊😊

  • @user-jv4gn9hu1z
    @user-jv4gn9hu1z 9 днів тому +6

    It's making their life better. If they are with you all the time they are watching TV , eating junk food, living like they are single. Meanwhile their home life is on hold. Eventually things at home blow up, and you get blamed. Don't become the guy everyone blames their problems at home on. It will happen.

  • @br6021
    @br6021 9 днів тому +8

    If you really think about it, you were doing the same thing to Fatima and your kids when you used to travel everywhere and stay gone for periods of time. They all need you too.

  • @Charlieavala
    @Charlieavala 9 днів тому +7

    Right on homeboy! You're a straight-up dude in my book. You get nothing but love from my section. 💯

  • @pigadmirer905
    @pigadmirer905 8 днів тому

    I started following you recently. Good stuff. I have a pinay `digital chat mate' as you would say. So I am learning a lot from you. keep up the good work

  • @richardb.pepperman3460
    @richardb.pepperman3460 8 днів тому

    You are a very good man Sir. Much respect.

  • @lloydguarnes2021
    @lloydguarnes2021 9 днів тому +3

    Nah, you absolutely did the right thing Marcos, you did nothing bad even to hurt Grand Ma's feelings, I know she would understand the whole situation. The Good part is that you looked at the great picture, and made your decision of what's right, you are the King of the Castle and you must be followed as long every thing is nice and is with perspective. You have a wonderful Chanel Marcos, more power to your upcoming videos and as long everybody gets along we all shall continue to be happy campers.

  • @HereIGoo
    @HereIGoo 9 днів тому +7

    The king has spoken

  • @OLHIPPIE420
    @OLHIPPIE420 9 днів тому +15

    KING, Please don’t put out Kalamansi. She’s hilarious cracks me up & she’s a good girl… ❤ Kalamansi

  • @malloywest8766
    @malloywest8766 9 днів тому +1

    You made all the sense in the world brother. Good thing now too you have that home extension, you can have a guest room and this time encourage both Grandma and Grandpa to have a nice weekend or time away from the village together. This is their golden years and am certain it would be a very happy getaway place for them both.

  • @prestonhogg6086
    @prestonhogg6086 9 днів тому +8

    You are a cool dude man. You treat the Filipinas great man. Keep up the good work.

    • @jackblah5842
      @jackblah5842 9 днів тому +1

      Dang, one more 'man' at the end of the last sentence and you would have had the hatrick

  • @glenclarkchidley3637
    @glenclarkchidley3637 9 днів тому +4

    Sobriety equals Clarity

  • @stussy8472
    @stussy8472 9 днів тому +3

    Public enemy number fun😊

  • @randybarlow8822
    @randybarlow8822 9 днів тому +2

    Younger generations don't think like us.

  • @tboyz1
    @tboyz1 9 днів тому +2

    You made the right calls for the right reasons and the kingdom is better for it - Long live the king 👑

  • @rp2pierce
    @rp2pierce 9 днів тому +2

    You might be a little rough on the outside? But you have a big heart and great father and husband.

  • @hitechburg
    @hitechburg 9 днів тому +2

    MARK what you did will help 3 families.

  • @nicklanger9600
    @nicklanger9600 9 днів тому +2

    Nice

  • @sunnydazz7
    @sunnydazz7 9 днів тому +3

    DOCTOR PHIL ALWAYS says HOWS THAT WORKING FOR YOU? and it wasn't NOT FOR TAI TAI Husband and wife NEED to SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER 😎You did NOTHING WRONG💯

  • @HWYHUSTLA
    @HWYHUSTLA 9 днів тому +1

    Mush that box😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️. Thx for the visual

  • @billshepard6664
    @billshepard6664 9 днів тому +3

    Right thing King.

  • @manuelcamomot5152
    @manuelcamomot5152 9 днів тому +1

    Good day

  • @dwork9451
    @dwork9451 4 дні тому

    ​Grandma and Grandpa need to stay together. I like you, you understand life.

  • @janetceniza8091
    @janetceniza8091 9 днів тому +1

    husband speaking age 81 Saw this story up near the Canadian Boarder yesterday on my I-phone but does not always allow me to comment.
    My mother - in - law was with us for many years in the U.S. - only works if the daughter is willing to let her mother be the boss in " her " house. The husband
    is out of it. IF the wife wants to be the Boss in the home, there is going to be conflict.. Had some heated arguments between them ( glad I do not speak their
    language ) Mom had a serious stroke and we were able to put her into one of our Adult Care Homes - and give her a good as pollible rest of her life. She never
    stoped working around the garden , always wanting to do something. She got to travel with us though to Vegas ( wow ) Canada, Calif., and several other states.
    "" If we were in the PH., mom would NOT be living with us, wife would let her stay in her own home surrounded by HER old friends. "" Nice Story.

  • @dennisharte23
    @dennisharte23 9 днів тому +3

    All around good decision.

  • @milypang
    @milypang 9 днів тому +2

    You did nothing wrong your a good son in-law

  • @MRSTONE969
    @MRSTONE969 9 днів тому +2

    NO FLO IS NO SHOW!! nah just kidding...HALFWAY KIDDING! but seriously...your reasoning is correct.

  • @crazykiwican
    @crazykiwican 9 днів тому +2

    In-laws are outlaws and in-laws need to be outlawed . You have done well for yourself no need to self destruct just keep on smiling and winning

  • @jaime8974
    @jaime8974 9 днів тому +3

    Poor grandma

  • @Gixxxer1300R
    @Gixxxer1300R 8 днів тому

    Your not a robber. Your an educated man that is only devoted to care and take care of your family. That alone is highly respectful. With that said, you have changed your life in a great way. Partly day's were good but now your becoming a more respectful man. I only wish I have the same power. Godspeed and your service is highly appreciated and respected.
    I think important men need to wash out the bull .... thank you for the truth and quality entertainment. Your family is beautiful. More people should understand y our journey. Your a very good example of a father.

  • @ropineapplehead2198
    @ropineapplehead2198 9 днів тому +1

    It’s good to be in demand, Grandma and Grandpa can occasionally occupy your newly acquired Southern Castle next door as to not to meddling in your kingdom. Happy wife, happy life AND happy king, happy kingdom!

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga 9 днів тому +2

    Your a bloody good man buddy don't forget it

  • @bgarrard9456
    @bgarrard9456 9 днів тому +3

    U did the right thing

  • @GregVT
    @GregVT 9 днів тому +2

    That cloud formation looks like a Manatee

  • @chuck5553
    @chuck5553 9 днів тому +1

    That’s a good common sense move KM….

  • @23FABILA
    @23FABILA 9 днів тому +1

    You are the king of your castle, but I could have done without that lunch box visual😬jokes aside, them are some good hearted family❤

  • @pbrewer32
    @pbrewer32 8 днів тому

    Marcos, Chicago on station. You have to make some tough decisions at times. Your heart is very big, and you do take care of your family well. This is what a husband does to take care of his direct responsibilities. Tough love is still love.

  • @mrbHanoi
    @mrbHanoi 9 днів тому +3

    Be a boss Stay in control A real man in a sea of simps.

  • @natesquestyouknowthatsrigh8269
    @natesquestyouknowthatsrigh8269 9 днів тому

    Good job. 👍🏼

  • @danny208YT
    @danny208YT 8 днів тому

    Good move. Keep her their and you'll end up being a caretaker. That's something her family needs to do in the village

  • @davelangi3913
    @davelangi3913 9 днів тому

    Looking out for the family. Great job

  • @43coralsea
    @43coralsea 9 днів тому +4

    Jax on the scene #5

  • @joemcgrath7446
    @joemcgrath7446 9 днів тому

    Good job You're a good dude

  • @TravisBicknel
    @TravisBicknel 9 днів тому +1

    Great decision making King. However, I do have one question. Who the heck will carry the case of soft drink now? :)

  • @stevengonyaw1617
    @stevengonyaw1617 9 днів тому +4

    Guys , find an orphan girl with no family , problem solved !! 😜

  • @RedneckPinay
    @RedneckPinay 9 днів тому +2

    UA-cam should pay you double. You have to endure a lot of stress to film a video. Good video

  • @Lifeisforreallad
    @Lifeisforreallad 9 днів тому +5

    You have the place next door, now the family is on their way brother. Grandma and Ti Ti

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga 9 днів тому +3

    I'd rather her look after my children then getting in the way of others there, nothing wrong with that bud

  • @andyh5822
    @andyh5822 8 днів тому

    Great video Marcos. You are on the right. We miss flo but she needed to be a mom. Now the only issue is flo will have another baby soon.

  • @aicsusa
    @aicsusa 8 днів тому

    You did good! Don’t worry!

  • @mannyc4224
    @mannyc4224 8 днів тому

    Got to keep them ladies in line! 😆

  • @charlesalvarez2421
    @charlesalvarez2421 9 днів тому

    You a cool buddy to me so keep doing what you doing okay ✅ 😊

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga 9 днів тому +2

    Closer to everything she needs

    • @jenniferregana1334
      @jenniferregana1334 9 днів тому +1

      And make sure everyone are well feed,no empty stomach!

  • @xaviervillasenor7622
    @xaviervillasenor7622 6 днів тому

    I agree with you 💯

  • @morningstarstorey5609
    @morningstarstorey5609 9 днів тому +1

    ❤ Don't beat yourself up! ❤ We let people do What they want to do! I feel if I stop now I won't come Back! Marcus I JUST KEEP ON KEEPING ON! it works for me! I'm 62yrs old. And set in my ways! 😉⭐🇺🇲

  • @colin4797
    @colin4797 9 днів тому +1

    It amazes me why these bloggers get so fixated on the negative comments instead of being thankful for all the good subscribers they have..they nearly all do it and usually put on a funny voice while playing the part of the negative comment 😅

  • @randellt
    @randellt 8 днів тому

    Likes to munch that box! 😅 U did the right thing!

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga 9 днів тому +2

    Everybody needs loving lol😅😅😅

  • @charlesetienne6037
    @charlesetienne6037 9 днів тому +1

    Right man

  • @doneown503
    @doneown503 8 днів тому

    , I knew I was in a different country, when u see a sign announcing the town coming up (long distance bus) , exclaiming : Welcome to our Village ! Please note , there is no gossiping , no lazy people , no spitting on sidewalk,

  • @mojavedxer
    @mojavedxer 9 днів тому +1

    Your going to get judged by the peanut gallery no matter what you do. Why even care. I always watched your videos because you are a no nonsense practical guy. Your new relaxed persona on your videos really agrees with you.

  • @darlenehinton7152
    @darlenehinton7152 9 днів тому

    You did the right thing ! Your ❤ was in the right place !

  • @jones4334
    @jones4334 9 днів тому +1

    Grandma leaves for 2 months until school starts and it will give everyone a fresh start when she comes back. Definitely a Hall Pass!

  • @Melsey1027
    @Melsey1027 9 днів тому +1

    You have my pass. You did the right thing.

  • @johnlim8727
    @johnlim8727 9 днів тому +1

    That’s the way to do it.

  • @simgrant98
    @simgrant98 9 днів тому +1

    Enabler #1, whatever you do you always do it with style and heart! What about calamansi is she in essence a nanny?is she finished with school please give us a clue in your videos

  • @jackieslone4714
    @jackieslone4714 9 днів тому

    Marco's you definitely did the right thing

  • @ndyajeff
    @ndyajeff 9 днів тому +2

    new shirt?

  • @sapalot5660
    @sapalot5660 9 днів тому +1

    The King being the King. I see nothing wrong with that.

  • @HereIGoo
    @HereIGoo 9 днів тому +4

    No not grandma

  • @richarddates3265
    @richarddates3265 9 днів тому +1

    no you did the right thing