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I'm a straight male, and both my parents are straight, but when I was in high school (around 2010) my mom asked if I had a girlfriend and she'd also ask if I had a boyfriend. Back then I though it was a dumb thing to ask, but in retrospect she's a great mother.
That reminds me of the time my grandma asked if I had a boyfriend. When I said no, she asked if I had a girlfriend. I was really shocked at the time, but now I can see that the closet was made out of glass... Hopefully coming out to her and my grandad as trans soon :)
Some people literally have tried that and gotten shut down by the alphabet Mafia side of the community. And before you go saying I'm one of those hateful christians, I cannot stand the bible, I would burn it on a daily if I could, and I'm bi. Guy doesn't need to say what if, there are hypocrites in both communities. I seen it. I've seen it on tiktok, twitter, ready, pretty much the exact same platforms you will find the anti gays. Just on the other side of the platform. You literally do not have to look for to find it unless you're purposely trying to only get into confirmation bias type videos. The bad apples within this community have already been doing a lot of the exact same shit. Which is why I personally don't interact with the community at all. We don't need auntie gay people to rip this community apart because it already does itself. I literally passed on posts and videos hated on straight people and thinking they should be wiped away from existence. From the same people who apparently don't know how reproduction works. If somebody tries to do straight pride on twitter, they're harassed by the alphabet mafia. If they try to do a literal pride fest, they get harassed by the alphabet mafia. Even if they're doing it as far away from them as possible. And not you know intervening with their events. There is no what if. Both sides have been hypocrites the whole time.
i'm ace and a boy from my class said: wait you don't go to parties don't have sex, drink almost never and don't smoke you are not normal and you have no reason to live you need to fix that. i said: no thanks i'm happy the way i am That was a challenge for him and he started chatting that not all men like innocent girls ( i'm not even heteroromantic ) i said shut up and he became buthurt leaving another classmate of mine to say: *J you spend most of the day whining that because of school you can't party and chase the girls when (me) have friends she cares about enjoys her education and many hobbies I have will wish i could without my smoking addiction*
But something he should’ve put into consideration, is the fact that he said “not all men like innocent girls “, like how is he not self-aware? You would only need one anyway, it’s not like you are looking to “date all men “. I thought dating is about dating one person?? Oh yeah that’s right we’re talking about the mind of an aromantic heterosexual dude XD By the way I’m very sorry you had to hear some idiot say something like that
I live in a small town in Canada and since the beginning of June a pastor where I live has been spray painting crosses over all over the pride signage downtown and has since put up a bunch of homophobic signage on his property. But it can’t be taken down cause it’s “freedom of speech”. I drove by his house last week, took a picture of the homophobia displayed on his property and now he has it in his windows instead of on his front lawn… he also lives right behind the high school where I live. My biggest fear is that this will still be up in September when school starts. No child should have to see that walking to and from school!
@@laiclaro9100 omg yes, in my town I have a homophobic parents right across the street from my house. so me and my sibling did what we'd all do in that situation, we put up a pride flag on a our window
that really sucks, I'm actually heading to a new school myself and I had to meet the kids, whilst the school is supportive of LGBTQ+ the kids seemed to really disagree, luckily nobody there knows my name, so if I tell them my name and exclude the dead name, they will never know and think thats my actual name XD apparently they were offended that people were changing their name, so I have decided to simply remain nameless, simple enough for me! Although my neighbors aren't that supportive of LGBTQ+ and often glare at me for not wearing clothing corresponding with my birth gender through their windows or garage. So on pride month I made a toy dragon and knocked on their doors and when they opened it the dragon just threw a pride flag at them and I said: HAPPY PRIDE! and then got out of there XD I have actually made a lot of custom LGBTQ+ clothing for myself to wear to school, sadly I think they might not be the best idea to wear, but at this point I say screw it, I am going to be going to school like that every single day and on pride month I am bringing the dragon to school, if anyone tries to call me a slur, I will just have the dragon throw a pride flag at their face. I would probably try to spray paint that pastor's house with LGBTQ+ positive things but of course I would probably be arrested for that.
That’s why I think the best time to discuss the fact that there is more than one type of sexuality is when they’re in middle school, because that’s the first time sex in general is mentioned. I think if we really want progression for our children, I think all of that should be taught in sex ed amongst middle schoolers, instead of teaching hetero normative sex, they could just talk about the biological part but then make sure to assure the kids that it’s completely OK I’m normal for them to not be sexually attracted to the opposite gender or that it’s OK to be sexually attracted to both or more
@@willowthesily672 Nobody’s saying that? If you’re a girl you’re a girl. If you’re a boy you’re a boy. There’s no set age that you’re “too young” to be a boy or a girl.
To add to the suicide example: if, after driving straight people to suicide, we claimed that they committed suicide because they couldn't take being straight anymore, that suicide is the inevitable outcome of being straight, and that the bullying is actually an attempt to save their lives by making them give up the straight deathstyle, they would freak out.
@@unnamed312 will you say the same thing to celibate people that refuses to have sex,or couples that refuse to have kids? You won't exist if everyone is celibate or if everyone refuses to have sex,so if your motivation in disagreeing is to perpetuate the existence of humanity i hope you attack catholic priests and childless couples with the same ferocity you display to the gay lifestyle
I think they would likely just laugh, because 'being straight' is not a predictor of suicide (altho failed relationships - even 'hetero' ones - can be a 'contributing factor'). Trying to 'reverse' all the rhetoric is not going to prove anything, in the long run.
I just want to point out, I went to a bible study on Wednesday, and in her definition of sin, it said that anything done against God or another person is sin. Even if they believe that being homosexual or transgender is wrong, which it isn't, a lot of them would be sinning with the constant harassment to our community for existing. It's very hypocritical to say love your neighbor, but turn on that same neighbor without second thought if they aren't your definition of normal. I'm a Christian, and I have noticed these patterns
One of the Christian people I've talked to justifies it by saying 'we hate the sin, love the sinner. They're just possessed by evil spirits and I won't support that.' I just... No. It's so ridiculous lol
@@juliasings6131 whenever our bible study leaders start saying homophobic and transphobic things, me and my ace friend just have to sit through it and nod because we don't have the guts to stand up, but I wish we could
@@sincerecinnamon I tried to do that as long as I could until they actively asked us 'hey, have you noticed people trying to make you agree with this?' and I was forced to answer. So we then got into a slight argument over that because no, I don't agree with you about this, people
If find it even more funny that they always assume that I believe in the same religion as them, I love the look on their face when they find out I'm not Christian but Pagan.
If I were to deny a straight person their basic human dignity for having romantic or sexual attraction. If I asulted a Cis man for wearing a tux. If I told a pastor to stop sinning and that they're going to hell for being themselves. If I stole thousands of dollars from a cis-het student then expelled them from college for daring to be themselves. I'm the monster yet it's okay when any of that happens to me.
Okay, coming from a bisexual guy, what rock have some of you people been living under? There is a side of the community that does this shit. All of it. ALL OF IT! There is no what if. This is not a fucking fantasy this is real life. They do do that shit. And before you say they're only doing it because they've gotten it first, that doesn't make it right. That doesn't make it any better. You're seriously telling me you've never seen people harassing straights for being supposedly transphobic because they don't want to try dating a trans person or homophobic because because they don't want to try dating a gay guy when they're clearly fucking straight?! I see this shit all the fucking time on tiktok and twitter. I swear I purposely try to avoid it and get it out of my algorithm and it keeps showing up every goddamn time. I stay away from the community because of this shit. Now I will still obviously communicate with certain individuals. Or reply to certain comments such as yours. But that's as far as I will go interacting with the community. Otherwise I have no part in it and want no part in it. and just be clear, I want everybody to be able to live exactly as they are. To be treated as a human being as any other person will. Everybody says fucking normal. Let's just leave it at fucking that. But there is no playing games of what if. The tables have already been turning and people already do this shit. Anytime I've tried speaking against it, I'm told I'm a traitor to the community or I'm not actually gay or bisexual I'm just pretending. So for those reasons I stay the fuck away from the community. I want nothing to do with it. It literally acts as some people say. As the alphabet mafia. Obviously this isn't the entire community. But as I did say in a comment before this reply, these people are allowed and don't know when to shut the fuck up. Anymore than the anti gays. And of course the antes are in the wrong. They always have been. I can't stand their asses trying to shove their religion into everybody else's life. But there is no what if. You're just lucky enough to not see that side of the community. I've seen the loving side of the community, and I've seen the hateful side of the community which are exactly like the antis but Gay. From one extreme end of spectrum all the way to the other. These people already do exist, you just haven't seen them and trust me, they're not worth the interaction. And just to be clear, I'm not trying to convince you to not be part of the community anymore either. I just don't like to interact with communities in general because it feels like no matter what community are you doing into whether it be a fan base of a genre or certain Media or Siri or type of people or my people, I always end up interacting with the rotten apples. Whereas the rest of the silent majority are just silence. Yes that's not always actually the case. But the bad apples are easier to find than the silent majority. Because they're silent. So I just try to avoid any communities in general. They all go to shit and they all have their hypocrites. If you're kicked me on the good side of the community, then that's great. Enjoy yourself. But believe me when I say, the right inside of the community absolutely exists. Just because you haven't met them doesn't mean they don't. And they're just as a rotten as the antis.
@@OscarDirlwoodah yes, cuz people should be so merciful that you guys don't continue your genocides. Nothing says hate like Christian love. So have you been talking to your devil lately? All that's right. You think devils are below. The real devil is the one that you believe runs to silver city. Then again, you probably just made that shit up by copying other religions. Your Bible ain't nothing but a fanfiction of a bunch of other mythologies and put into one.
@@OscarDirlwood I am a human, thank you very much, but you are the definition of pathetic. Do you hate people who aren't straight sooo much, that you feel the need to say that they aren't human? Are you so desperate to make yourself feel better that you have to put people down. That's honestly very, very sad and pathetic.
A few ideas: "I don't care if you're straight, just as long as you don't hit on me." "I don't have an issue with the straights, I just don't think they should bring their lifestyle choices into the classroom. Definitely not in front of the children." "I just don't know why it's so important for my child to know that their teacher/classmate has a mommy and a daddy." "How can you only like one gender and not multiple? That's unnatural." [opposite of biphobia, panphobia, polyphobia, omniphobia, etc.] "It's not that I hate you for being straight. I just don't want you to go to hell." "I'm tired of heterosexuality being portrayed as a normal lifestyle choice." "Straight people didn't exist before the 1990s. Where did they come from?" "I don't believe you're actually straight. I think you're just faking it to find a partner." "Back in my day, nobody talked about being straight. Now, you see it everywhere." "Don't like that I'm heterophobic? Too bad! I have freedom of speech." They would absolutely flip out if we said any of these to them. Sounds completely unhinged, right? That's what it sounds like when homophobes make similar remarks about us.
@@BahamutEx Totally. I'm talking more about how a lot of people back then considered our lifestyle "abnormal", even they wouldn't be too happy if we said something similar to them. I'd prefer if people just learned to live and let live, and treated all sexualities as co-standard.
Unfortunately, this is the case. Which is why I am so grateful for this channel providing us with a proper safe space and banning the offenders. I was specifically referring to news coverage from when Ellen came out in 1997 (which really wasn't that long ago in the grand scheme of things). I follow another channel that covered the event. A man can be seen making a similar comment. I generally find it easier to ignore these days as these types of people don't really get airtime anymore, at least where I live. Glad so many people like these! I worked hard on it. 😊
If we treated straight people existing as an inherently adult subject too sexual for polite conversation. If the first thing we think about when we find out someone is straight is them and their partner in bed. If we put cis people in the wrong prisons. If we portrayed sexual assault as a "cure" for heterosexuality in our media. If we told cishets "it's just a phase". Etc etc etc
You may be referring to what is called 'corrective rape', which is when men force themselves on a lesbian to try and 'convert' her. This is not condoned by the media, and never has been. It's actually illegal. Also, how you can put gay folks in 'the wrong prisons'? If you are referring to 'trans' folks, that is a more complicated situation. There has been at least one instance of an allegedly 'trans' person with male organs impregnating women inmates after being put in the womens facility. Don't think a women's prison is a place where ANY impregnating should happen, don't you agree?
Yeah when i first heard about alan turing and how he helped win world war II and is the the father of computer science i expeected he would have been some honored great person for his accomplishments, but no, his govt. castrated him
I wonder how they would react if they were forced to not have sex or if they were forced to not date anyone. And if they would be continously be called out if they did. (Aroace, Aphobic) Thank you for the amazing video!
@@juliasings6131 Exactly! Exactly! I bet non of them would take it nicely. I could also call them out like "What you lost your virginity?/Non virgin" or "I bet you are only with another person because you can't do anything by yourself and they took pity on you" (Parodies to the slur virgin and the common phrase "You are only alone because you are xy") (Also, some LGBTQ members could also take note of this )
@@arctury.c they'd be so annoyed. It's crazy that they think these are okay things to say to another human being. But then, they sometimes see is as less than human, so maybe that's why...
@@wolfetteplays8894 I don't think I should be the one to enlighten things to you. But I thought at least the likes I get would explain some things for you.. I'm honestly not interested in your excusionist opinion, you could have gone your way without saying anything and I'm qute disgusted at your comment. Especially if I just think of the fact that it's not only aces that get called a virgin in a negative way as a way to belittle the other.
7:43 even if we tried to ban plastic surgeries that are nothing more than aesthetic from cisgender people they'd be like that. It's really shocking how it's easy for a cis woman get bigger boobs comparing to how hard is for us AFAB trans people to get them removed.
I love this video. I only found it bc I googled “hypocritical homophobes.” And it was so much fun to watch. I’m an ally of the LGBTQ+ community, and I think it’s safe to say you’re helping them feel seen and probably even making them laugh. Keep doing what you’re doing
@@OscarDirlwood you feeling so fragile in your views that you deliberately come into a LGBT safe space to try and target us and belittle us and our views, well it's not happening sunshine, actually wait no sunshine is too positive a term for you, you cloud of darkness. Go and do something productive, find a job, or watch your favourite politician speak nonsense all day
I've come out as demisexual to my parents, but I know coming out to other members of my family would be hard. I've heard comments about demisexuals like "Oh, you're just being picky" or "isn't that how all relationships work?" or "You just haven't found the right person yet". Nearly everyone on my mom's side of the family has gotten divorced and remarried at least once, and you're talking about how _I_ haven't found the right person?
I mean, tbf, Demisexual is like not finding the right person aka forming tight bonds and starting to develop attraction towards them lol. Although those other comments are bunch of bs. “Oh you’re just being normal”, like yes, Demisexual is normal, there’s nothing wrong with it…
@@panzerinvictus Demisexual is a sexuality along the asexual spectrum. It’s where you don’t find attraction until you form a bond, a connection with someone, then you start to have attraction towards that person.
@@trxppedbsemnt4398 um no, that’s not what this is. It’s about being who you are, not being something you aren’t. You’re just trying to push a narrative, which is completely false. It’s also not an organization either. Perhaps get your damn facts straight instead of spreading misinformation, just to cause more hate.
@@trxppedbsemnt4398 You’re right. You can’t choose who you want to be. How you feel isn’t a choice. You can’t choose to be gay or trans or whatever because they were always that way. I know you won’t agree with me, but there is plenty of evidence of lgbt in history and the animal Kingdom. Besides, what does it matter to you? We’re just existing, and we don’t need people like you telling us that we don’t.
I mean, straight people do tend to sexualize children (especially young boys) an unhealthy amount. Child beauty pageants, calling a 5 year old boy's classmate his "girlfriend" after the boy just says hi to the girl, and that's not even going into everything that gets printed on baby clothes.
I know, this kind of thing reminds me of when gun nuts say that British schools have to have knife checks until someone points out America has higher knife crime anyway.
@@zombusshankus9589 then stop associating with them yourself. the label Christian carries a weight, and if the dominant narrative of that weight is negative, then it is on you to either change that narrative of to distance yourself from the label. If their God commands them to hate, and you claim to worship the same God, then something is wrong. Most of Christianity's history is that of hate and violence, therefore you are the one out of step. To change this would be, in effect, fundamentally change God, or at least how God is perceived. Killing an idea like that is no easy feat. For my part, the very soul of Christianity was poisoned long ago, at least as far back as Constatine, when Christianity burned the places of learning and cast down the schools of philosophy.
@@Cyberwar101 Tbh the whole thing about the history of Christians is true, but Christians are told to show unconditional love to their neighbours, but some idiots decided to be bigots and ruin everything for everyone else and here we are :D However not every Christian is like that though
1:44 important detail is that this is not the proud boys, this is a group is called “patriot front” and are much more violent and dangerous from what I’ve heard
My friend is a transmasc and we told someone. Then, in an attempt to nvalidate, they said "you'll never be a woman". I love it when people don't realize trans men are FTM
Talking about something we did to make ourselves look more masculine or feminine and saying things like “ I think you looked better before when you looked feminine/masculine ”
There is so much fear and hate online and in "real" life. Sad thing with UA-cam they have a way to report it but I don't think it does any good. It's very frustrating.
Hi sir I am a straight white guy I love your videos I don't have a problem with gay people your vlogs are teaching a lot I have nothing against gay people please continue to teach me about your vlogs please reply back asap sir
I actually use 14 a fair amount. Karen: "Your Just grooming kids to be gay/trans." Me: Well, if that's really how all this works, then aren't you grooming your kids to be cis/straight? How many kids movies feature straight couples? I thought you didn't want to expose your kids to sexual things!
I actually do some of those things... for example me and my friend saw a movie at my house with friends and yelled: "that's disgusting! why are they showing this to our kids! how is this allowed?!" whenever two heterosexuals kissing
Jajaja,they are stupid sometimes,I get tired of those types of people,I got one,"EeEeeEEEeew",that's the one I always see on Summer luk's videos,if we said that,they'd be crying
#12, to be completely fair I’m uncomfortable with straight people checking me out. It’s probably because I’m at the start of my transition and I’m not interested in guys.
As someone who's aroace the amount of times I've heard "you'll change your mind" is so frustrating. It usually comes from homophobes too so I just go "how do you know you're not gay?" And then they completely stop talking. Just,,, the irony man. Imagine doing that to a person and when they do the same you get annoyed??
@@godzilla964 exactly and not all christians are either. Real christians know what the bible really says. The rest arent really christians anyhow; they are wolves.
@@tonyaakaelijahdiekerofmala2662 I personally don't think there's such a thing as a real Christian. The Bible is impossible to not cherry pick. So what verse you like says more about you, rather than your religion.
This is a world where people proudly shed blood in the name of some tyrannic deity while other people offer help in the name of supposed "evil himself". Let's hope things will take a turn for the better. Stray strong, my friends. Praise Lucifer!
Many religons are like dnds bytopia while most forms of Christianity has morals that are a daanvi that forces daanvi on others.( bytopia is a neutral good paradise while daanvi is an opresive hellhole that can be good, but the evil part forces it onto others)
@@voidyvoid11 1) how many people has the devil killed compared to the christian god 2) Lucifer is a Roman God 3) have you read the bible 4) that's what christians do all the time.
I was having a "peaceful" discussion with someone in a comment section and what they said was absolutely ridiculous. They said "If it's okay to be gay, then it's okay to be homophobic", like wtf?
I didn't even know some of these events happened. I'm straight but I'm a ally. Just hearing what these people have done to you all is horrible. I understand being treated differently because of something you can't change. The fact that the people of the "norm" or majority think that they can treat people of the minority terrible says way more about them then us. Keep on fighting because this is one war they'll never win.
They not hypocrites. They simply don't see us as human. There is no reasoning with someone who thinks like that because anything we say will automatically be ignored because our percieved inhumanity makes us not worth listening to. I can see why this video can be important for younger people who need to feel a sense of control over their oppression, but as a Black Trans person, reasoning with people that hate you has never gotten anyone freedom.
I remember seeing a UA-cam comment that said “we should make it illegal for something to choose their gender until the age of 18”, so are they gonna be agender or something? Would it be illegal to be cis? What is this person’s logic?
I think what they mean is that they have to have someone else decide it for you. Your parents, a doctor, a neighbor, other kids at the school. You can only decide other peoples genders until you're 18, which is when you can decide yours too. Like you can tell your friend to change genders in the middle of grade 6, but nope, you have to wait until you're 18 to decide anything about yours.
As a closeted Aroace (and possibly trans) individual, i probably have kne that might be similar "You want to get married to THE OPPOSITE GENDER?!, but marrying someone of the same gender is good for you because our religion says so, either marry this gay person or don't get married at all" I'm very sure they (Homophobes, Transphobes, Aphobes, etc) would be fuming (and i experienced something somewhat similar where my mom and aunt were talking about marriage, and i and when my aunt asked me if i want to get married when I'm older, i made body language showing a big fat no. Around the next day or so when my mom talked about marriage to me again and i told her that I'm not thag interested in it, she said that marriage is sunnah (basically something like really good or smt) which made me feel shunned again) Edit/Update: Yeah, I'm trans (transfem) + Bi and Aroace so isn't that fun?
One thing about my country's hypocrisy about LGBTQ+ (Philippines- Filipinos) Filipinos (only homophobic Filipinos), they say the respected the LGBTQ, and love God (Jesus) but when it comes to the law, Filipinos do not agree with same-sex marriage. That my friend is LGBTQ fake friendly. It says on our internet that Philippines is gay-friendly, but to be honest, I never believe that because I know Filipinos are hypocrites on this. I mean, I can't blame them, they don't even read books. They are not that smart.
a good roast to tell homophobes is if they say "oh why do you feel the need to say how queer you are" you just say back well why do you need to tell everyone how straight you are. and thanks for teaching me a way to roast transphobes I think my crush would love that so yeah have a great day
One time me and my school's unofficial LGBT group were just chilling. A homophobic kid who often says mean stuff to us comes up, and said we are all to young to know, I asked him if he knew he was cishet. He said yes and that's different.
Wait they show them straight/ gay pornography in conversion therapy centers wouldn’t that be illegal to show to a minor? oh and of course conversion therapy is illegal as well
It’s legal because they call it religious freedom to force children to watch it. They even perform lobotomies under the claim of religious freedom. It shouldn’t be legal but in this country it somehow is. Other countries are better.
@@PoweredByRainbows Conversion therapy is controversial, but that is mainly because it doesn't seem to have worked too well for those who underwent it. Many of them claim to have been traumatized by their experiences. And lobotomies are far less common now that in the past. they were never done in the name of 'religious freedom', they were done to patients with extreme mental conditions.
i dont know much about Jesus, but from what i've seen, Judas kissed Jesus on the lips when he betrayed Him, so maybe that's where homophobes comes from (making Judas out to be a evil gay or something, again I'm not sure. it's just my little theory. I'd love to know the full story)
I think the cause of homophobia in Christian’s comes from a line that was something along the lines of “men cannot sleep with other men the way they would with a woman” which is often regarded as a intentional mistranslation of “a man cannot sleep with a boy as he would with a woman”. There might be other lines too.
@@thenyan3095 Let's be real, Jesus hung out with 12 guys and never got married? The only woman in his life was a prostitute that he denied the advances of? I'm convinced, he was either Gay or Asexual. Also, the famous images of Jesus we still use today, comes from Renaissance artists Da Vinci and Rafael, that are rumored to have modeled the image of Jesus after their gay lovers.
I'm partially asexual, I've tried to explain that I'm sex repulsed and stuff to a long-going online friend and stuff. He said something like "I don't think being asexual is a thing, but I respect your decision to be celibate..." Bro wtf?! Like I wouldn't choose this shit if I could try!! It just happened to be that way!! Thinking about just dumping him :L but I've known him for like ten years. He also doesn't agree with me being nonbinary. I just go by any/all pronouns because it's hard for me to advocate otherwise, and I'm not so bugged out about it at times.
Well... I mean I'm cis and bisexual... The thing is there is a lot of cis people and straight people in the LGBTQ+ community. It's toxic people that hurt us.
Yeah, they say it's like a panic response or something to them being not cishet. Yet I couldn't attack a man for being understably afraid of him assaulting me, causing me to panic.
saying "i love you but why does it matter if we use your name and pronouns? Just accept yourself" "Why would you want bigger boobs? just love your boobs the way it is" when they wear bras with padding on it.(like how afab folks wear binders to be flatter) "[name of cisperson] Is so SILLY why is that your name? CHANGE IT." saying theyre immature for liking the opposite gender (like how some people say people are immature for being aromantic or asexual) "oh please Ive forced myself to be gay my whole life. You cant be cisgender, you have to be trans" (an actual thing my mum said when i told her i wanted to transition socially because she never came out as bisexual to our accepting family.) For transphobic parents. Never call them the right label (mum=dad) and using your dad's name for your mom or your mom's name for your dad. or call them both mom and feminine names if its two dads or use dad for both moms and use masc names. "you looked better as a baby" like the you looked better as a boy/girl comment.
I haven't even watched this video yet but I clicked that like button so fast. I'm all about videos that tear apart terrible people's terrible beliefs. It's like the UA-cam version of comfort food to me lol
According to the Bible, you're not supposed to use bathrooms. Believe it or not, you're not supposed to follow a thousand-year old book to the exact letter.
@@thatonebonkchoyguy Also according to the bible, you cannot get a tattoo. Yet I've seen many homophobes who use the bible as an excuse who have a tattoo. Leviticus 19:28
@@sh4rky466 yea fr. Those "Christians" like to cherry pick which of God's rules are beneficial to them and use them but disregard the others that they don't like
I have a metaphor for people who use the bible to justify violence against lgbtq+ people. Imagine if you read a book written 300 years ago that says that you shouldn't eat oranges, and you use that book to justify abusing people who like oranges. Like how does that make any sense? It doesn't matter how much you don't like oranges, verbal, physical, or cyber assault is not okay, and it is not justifiable just because you read something in a book.
but if that 'book' is the basis of their belief system, they wouldn't see it that way. That is not a great analogy, because eating fruit is way different than (ahem) BEING one. Sorry, feel free to groan. lol
In reference to the discourse over Yasmin Benoit's recent tweet, showing her marching at pride in a revealing outfit as an asexual- if we told a straight person that they can't dress in a sexy way because they aren't sexually available to gay people of the same gender as them, they wouldn't be too happy about it, yet Yasmin can't dress that way just because she's asexual
Oh, I've got one for ya. "Sword skills is e-girl gay fantasy shit." ~I was told this by a homophobic freak. I replied: "Oh really? Let's hear you say that after I disable your arming hands." Slice the underside of the wrists, and temporarily, you'll make it difficult for a gun-wielder to pull the trigger/aim, potentially, such can also make them drop their weapon. Firearms are not the be-all-end-all choice, and have so many flaws. Yeah. Kevlar armor can hold back a bullet, but a thorough piercing blow with a sword or a polearm will go through it. ... Very likely, because I advocate for armed self-defense and was raised Anarchist, I will be ignored. That's fine; it's not my afterlife.
Here's another one: if a character in a TV show was revealed to be straight or if a movie had a scene of a husband and wife, and both the TV show and movie were banned in places like China and Russia, people would not be happy.
Whenever I tell someone I'm aroace and explain it to them and they say "You just haven't fallen in love yet" or some crap like that, I automatically do not like them
a response i've seen somewhere to "you're not aroace you just haven't met the right person" is that "you are a serial killer, you just haven't met the right person"
For real, who cares if you go to hell just because you're gay. Who cares if it's a sin against God. If it's not your life, then don't worry about it. Worry about your own life! Don't just sit there and hurt people just because they want to be themselves. It's not even human to hurt people in the first place. Stop the hate and take a seat before you decide to embarrass yourselves.
I’m so sorry, please know we accept you here at our show and there are millions of us in the LGBTQ who accept you. We can be your family if your family doesn’t accept you at home. Much love ❤️ and rainbows 🏳️🌈, Professor Pride
Even straight children know their romantic attraction to the opposite sex from as young as four. It doesn't take a very deep thinker to consider that this could apply to gay children as well.
Thank you for this video! It’s essential to keep these conversations going. I recently mustered up the courage to make a video on the topic as well, so anyone feel free to watch and share it if you’d like. We still have to fight for basic human rights!
@@PoweredByRainbows I meant the "reversed" discrimination. Sometimes I see bigots acting like they genuinely believe that if LGBTQ people "win", then they will "lose" and become the people facing oppression. Of course, that's not at all how any of this works, because it *should* be obvious that you don't have to take away rights from people to be able to ensure that others can enjoy those same rights.
Might want to show the correct picture to line up with your story. The photo at the 1:50 min mark is patriot front not proud boys but they are guilty of doing similar stuff
Even you want to be called Steve. Because you did not like the name your parents give you. But on our records. You name is James Earl Funkhouser. And since Steve is not your legal name. We have to go to what on this document. Until your legal change the name. Because preferred name is legal name. Until then. We keep calling you James.
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I'm a straight male, and both my parents are straight, but when I was in high school (around 2010) my mom asked if I had a girlfriend and she'd also ask if I had a boyfriend. Back then I though it was a dumb thing to ask, but in retrospect she's a great mother.
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That's amazing! Even if you're straight I'm glad you grew up with that kind of support.
That reminds me of the time my grandma asked if I had a boyfriend. When I said no, she asked if I had a girlfriend. I was really shocked at the time, but now I can see that the closet was made out of glass... Hopefully coming out to her and my grandad as trans soon :)
Tell your mom she's slaying
It's really funny when straight people ask "where is the straight pride?"... Like, bro, it's up to you to organize it
Exactly. I have no issue with straight pride, but it’s up to them to organize the event.
What would straight pride be like tho
Grey's anatomy cosplay party?
@@eaterbattery nah the whole thing would just be the color beige
Some people literally have tried that and gotten shut down by the alphabet Mafia side of the community. And before you go saying I'm one of those hateful christians, I cannot stand the bible, I would burn it on a daily if I could, and I'm bi.
Guy doesn't need to say what if, there are hypocrites in both communities. I seen it. I've seen it on tiktok, twitter, ready, pretty much the exact same platforms you will find the anti gays. Just on the other side of the platform.
You literally do not have to look for to find it unless you're purposely trying to only get into confirmation bias type videos.
The bad apples within this community have already been doing a lot of the exact same shit. Which is why I personally don't interact with the community at all. We don't need auntie gay people to rip this community apart because it already does itself.
I literally passed on posts and videos hated on straight people and thinking they should be wiped away from existence. From the same people who apparently don't know how reproduction works.
If somebody tries to do straight pride on twitter, they're harassed by the alphabet mafia. If they try to do a literal pride fest, they get harassed by the alphabet mafia. Even if they're doing it as far away from them as possible. And not you know intervening with their events.
There is no what if. Both sides have been hypocrites the whole time.
@@yourfriendlysubaruoutback BAHAHA YEA- and black and white and neutral colors
i'm ace and a boy from my class
said: wait you don't go to parties don't have sex, drink almost never and don't smoke you are not normal and you have no reason to live you need to fix that.
i said: no thanks i'm happy the way i am
That was a challenge for him and he started chatting that not all men like innocent girls ( i'm not even heteroromantic ) i said shut up and he became buthurt
leaving another classmate of mine to say: *J you spend most of the day whining that because of school you can't party and chase the girls when (me) have friends she cares about enjoys her education and many hobbies I have will wish i could without my smoking addiction*
Yeah people get mad when we don't want sexaul relationships even when discord mods don't get them and it's completely normal
The fact that they associate drinking with having sex is really creepy.
@@---oq5kb yeah it's not cool and it needs to stop
But something he should’ve put into consideration, is the fact that he said “not all men like innocent girls “, like how is he not self-aware? You would only need one anyway, it’s not like you are looking to “date all men “. I thought dating is about dating one person?? Oh yeah that’s right we’re talking about the mind of an aromantic heterosexual dude XD
By the way I’m very sorry you had to hear some idiot say something like that
@@otakumangastudios3617 don't worry i'm used to it
I live in a small town in Canada and since the beginning of June a pastor where I live has been spray painting crosses over all over the pride signage downtown and has since put up a bunch of homophobic signage on his property. But it can’t be taken down cause it’s “freedom of speech”. I drove by his house last week, took a picture of the homophobia displayed on his property and now he has it in his windows instead of on his front lawn… he also lives right behind the high school where I live. My biggest fear is that this will still be up in September when school starts. No child should have to see that walking to and from school!
His name is glen muise he has a UA-cam channel full of homophobia
I'd put pride flags and protest next to his house, equal freedom of speech
Just put a bunch of pro LGBTQ+ signs in his yard. If he complains, just use the "free speech" argument.
@@laiclaro9100 omg yes, in my town I have a homophobic parents right across the street from my house. so me and my sibling did what we'd all do in that situation, we put up a pride flag on a our window
that really sucks, I'm actually heading to a new school myself and I had to meet the kids, whilst the school is supportive of LGBTQ+ the kids seemed to really disagree, luckily nobody there knows my name, so if I tell them my name and exclude the dead name, they will never know and think thats my actual name XD apparently they were offended that people were changing their name, so I have decided to simply remain nameless, simple enough for me! Although my neighbors aren't that supportive of LGBTQ+ and often glare at me for not wearing clothing corresponding with my birth gender through their windows or garage. So on pride month I made a toy dragon and knocked on their doors and when they opened it the dragon just threw a pride flag at them and I said: HAPPY PRIDE! and then got out of there XD I have actually made a lot of custom LGBTQ+ clothing for myself to wear to school, sadly I think they might not be the best idea to wear, but at this point I say screw it, I am going to be going to school like that every single day and on pride month I am bringing the dragon to school, if anyone tries to call me a slur, I will just have the dragon throw a pride flag at their face. I would probably try to spray paint that pastor's house with LGBTQ+ positive things but of course I would probably be arrested for that.
You know if children are old enough to know they're straight and cisgender, they should be old enough to know if they aren't.
That’s why I think the best time to discuss the fact that there is more than one type of sexuality is when they’re in middle school, because that’s the first time sex in general is mentioned. I think if we really want progression for our children, I think all of that should be taught in sex ed amongst middle schoolers, instead of teaching hetero normative sex, they could just talk about the biological part but then make sure to assure the kids that it’s completely OK I’m normal for them to not be sexually attracted to the opposite gender or that it’s OK to be sexually attracted to both or more
im too young to be a girl but old enough to be a boy?
it doesnt make sense
@@willowthesily672 Nobody’s saying that? If you’re a girl you’re a girl. If you’re a boy you’re a boy. There’s no set age that you’re “too young” to be a boy or a girl.
@@willowthesily672 Where did you get that from? No one said that, you should go check your eyes
@@julbiot9768 my parents did
To add to the suicide example: if, after driving straight people to suicide, we claimed that they committed suicide because they couldn't take being straight anymore, that suicide is the inevitable outcome of being straight, and that the bullying is actually an attempt to save their lives by making them give up the straight deathstyle, they would freak out.
@@unnamed312 will you say the same thing to celibate people that refuses to have sex,or couples that refuse to have kids? You won't exist if everyone is celibate or if everyone refuses to have sex,so if your motivation in disagreeing is to perpetuate the existence of humanity i hope you attack catholic priests and childless couples with the same ferocity you display to the gay lifestyle
That is genuinely true
I think they would likely just laugh, because 'being straight' is not a predictor of suicide (altho failed relationships - even 'hetero' ones - can be a 'contributing factor'). Trying to 'reverse' all the rhetoric is not going to prove anything, in the long run.
I just want to point out, I went to a bible study on Wednesday, and in her definition of sin, it said that anything done against God or another person is sin. Even if they believe that being homosexual or transgender is wrong, which it isn't, a lot of them would be sinning with the constant harassment to our community for existing. It's very hypocritical to say love your neighbor, but turn on that same neighbor without second thought if they aren't your definition of normal. I'm a Christian, and I have noticed these patterns
One of the Christian people I've talked to justifies it by saying 'we hate the sin, love the sinner. They're just possessed by evil spirits and I won't support that.'
I just... No. It's so ridiculous lol
@@juliasings6131 agreed. This is how God made us, so why should we have to hide that? Isn't it rejecting the design that God planned for us to have?
@@sincerecinnamon yeah!
@@juliasings6131 whenever our bible study leaders start saying homophobic and transphobic things, me and my ace friend just have to sit through it and nod because we don't have the guts to stand up, but I wish we could
@@sincerecinnamon I tried to do that as long as I could until they actively asked us 'hey, have you noticed people trying to make you agree with this?' and I was forced to answer. So we then got into a slight argument over that because no, I don't agree with you about this, people
If find it even more funny that they always assume that I believe in the same religion as them, I love the look on their face when they find out I'm not Christian but Pagan.
Same! I like to say "in my religion, you're are the sinner for trying to stop people to live their truth. May Maat have mercy on you!"
Gasp! You don’t follow my beliefs??! Guess I’ll have to hate you for no reason XD
AYYYYYYYYYYYYY LESGOOOOOOOO! I'm not pagan, but good on you, pantheons are the bees knees my racoon.
@@derpatel9760 I read that in a tv surfer dude voice… thanks for making me laugh. The bees knees part really got me
I not once have heard of paganism. Wait do u guys worship Matt from Wii sports? Cause if that's who u worship I'm gonna switch from christianity
Talking about being straight is inappropriate in the work place. But talking natural thing of being gay is okay at the work place.
Big W
why would anyone need to know that in the workplace?
@@LoveFreak18 you never see how some think it not okay talk LGBT but okay talk straight and cis stuff.
Fortunately I'm not treated that way at work
If I were to deny a straight person their basic human dignity for having romantic or sexual attraction. If I asulted a Cis man for wearing a tux. If I told a pastor to stop sinning and that they're going to hell for being themselves. If I stole thousands of dollars from a cis-het student then expelled them from college for daring to be themselves. I'm the monster yet it's okay when any of that happens to me.
Okay, coming from a bisexual guy, what rock have some of you people been living under? There is a side of the community that does this shit. All of it. ALL OF IT! There is no what if. This is not a fucking fantasy this is real life. They do do that shit.
And before you say they're only doing it because they've gotten it first, that doesn't make it right. That doesn't make it any better.
You're seriously telling me you've never seen people harassing straights for being supposedly transphobic because they don't want to try dating a trans person or homophobic because because they don't want to try dating a gay guy when they're clearly fucking straight?!
I see this shit all the fucking time on tiktok and twitter. I swear I purposely try to avoid it and get it out of my algorithm and it keeps showing up every goddamn time.
I stay away from the community because of this shit. Now I will still obviously communicate with certain individuals. Or reply to certain comments such as yours. But that's as far as I will go interacting with the community. Otherwise I have no part in it and want no part in it.
and just be clear, I want everybody to be able to live exactly as they are. To be treated as a human being as any other person will. Everybody says fucking normal. Let's just leave it at fucking that.
But there is no playing games of what if. The tables have already been turning and people already do this shit. Anytime I've tried speaking against it, I'm told I'm a traitor to the community or I'm not actually gay or bisexual I'm just pretending.
So for those reasons I stay the fuck away from the community. I want nothing to do with it. It literally acts as some people say. As the alphabet mafia. Obviously this isn't the entire community. But as I did say in a comment before this reply, these people are allowed and don't know when to shut the fuck up. Anymore than the anti gays.
And of course the antes are in the wrong. They always have been. I can't stand their asses trying to shove their religion into everybody else's life. But there is no what if. You're just lucky enough to not see that side of the community. I've seen the loving side of the community, and I've seen the hateful side of the community which are exactly like the antis but Gay. From one extreme end of spectrum all the way to the other.
These people already do exist, you just haven't seen them and trust me, they're not worth the interaction. And just to be clear, I'm not trying to convince you to not be part of the community anymore either. I just don't like to interact with communities in general because it feels like no matter what community are you doing into whether it be a fan base of a genre or certain Media or Siri or type of people or my people, I always end up interacting with the rotten apples. Whereas the rest of the silent majority are just silence. Yes that's not always actually the case. But the bad apples are easier to find than the silent majority. Because they're silent.
So I just try to avoid any communities in general. They all go to shit and they all have their hypocrites. If you're kicked me on the good side of the community, then that's great. Enjoy yourself.
But believe me when I say, the right inside of the community absolutely exists. Just because you haven't met them doesn't mean they don't. And they're just as a rotten as the antis.
@@OscarDirlwoodah yes, cuz people should be so merciful that you guys don't continue your genocides. Nothing says hate like Christian love. So have you been talking to your devil lately? All that's right. You think devils are below. The real devil is the one that you believe runs to silver city. Then again, you probably just made that shit up by copying other religions. Your Bible ain't nothing but a fanfiction of a bunch of other mythologies and put into one.
@@OscarDirlwood there's two types of people. People who are capable of empathy and love and then there's you
@@OscarDirlwood I am a human, thank you very much, but you are the definition of pathetic. Do you hate people who aren't straight sooo much, that you feel the need to say that they aren't human? Are you so desperate to make yourself feel better that you have to put people down. That's honestly very, very sad and pathetic.
That wouldn't happen because you would get beat up and being straight is normal so stfu
A few ideas:
"I don't care if you're straight, just as long as you don't hit on me."
"I don't have an issue with the straights, I just don't think they should bring their lifestyle choices into the classroom. Definitely not in front of the children."
"I just don't know why it's so important for my child to know that their teacher/classmate has a mommy and a daddy."
"How can you only like one gender and not multiple? That's unnatural." [opposite of biphobia, panphobia, polyphobia, omniphobia, etc.]
"It's not that I hate you for being straight. I just don't want you to go to hell."
"I'm tired of heterosexuality being portrayed as a normal lifestyle choice."
"Straight people didn't exist before the 1990s. Where did they come from?"
"I don't believe you're actually straight. I think you're just faking it to find a partner."
"Back in my day, nobody talked about being straight. Now, you see it everywhere."
"Don't like that I'm heterophobic? Too bad! I have freedom of speech."
They would absolutely flip out if we said any of these to them. Sounds completely unhinged, right? That's what it sounds like when homophobes make similar remarks about us.
Tbh I actually am tired of (cis) heterosexuality being the "standard".
@@BahamutEx Totally. I'm talking more about how a lot of people back then considered our lifestyle "abnormal", even they wouldn't be too happy if we said something similar to them. I'd prefer if people just learned to live and let live, and treated all sexualities as co-standard.
@@friendlyninja5048 back then? From what I'm seeing online this is still a thing (sadly).
I’ve heard the first one so many times smh. Angers me, thanks for sharing! Runs away gaily*
Unfortunately, this is the case. Which is why I am so grateful for this channel providing us with a proper safe space and banning the offenders. I was specifically referring to news coverage from when Ellen came out in 1997 (which really wasn't that long ago in the grand scheme of things). I follow another channel that covered the event. A man can be seen making a similar comment. I generally find it easier to ignore these days as these types of people don't really get airtime anymore, at least where I live.
Glad so many people like these! I worked hard on it. 😊
this is completely logical, not wrong at all, theyd be freaking out so hard if they were in our shoes
No, I would shoot myself.
Let the homophobic types of straight people rot in their own sabotage
Great video and it’s kind of sad that homophobes have nothing better to do with their day than hurt others for just being themselves.
Yeah, they need to get some hobbies
@@panzerinvictus do their hobbies include being homophobic
Bro I have hobbies and I don't support LGBTQ
You gotta accept that there will always be people that hate you
@@unnamed312 amen!
@@DonKrieg-382 EXACTLY
If we treated straight people existing as an inherently adult subject too sexual for polite conversation. If the first thing we think about when we find out someone is straight is them and their partner in bed. If we put cis people in the wrong prisons. If we portrayed sexual assault as a "cure" for heterosexuality in our media. If we told cishets "it's just a phase". Etc etc etc
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You may be referring to what is called 'corrective rape', which is when men force themselves on a lesbian to try and 'convert' her. This is not condoned by the media, and never has been. It's actually illegal. Also, how you can put gay folks in 'the wrong prisons'? If you are referring to 'trans' folks, that is a more complicated situation. There has been at least one instance of an allegedly 'trans' person with male organs impregnating women inmates after being put in the womens facility. Don't think a women's prison is a place where ANY impregnating should happen, don't you agree?
If gays chemically castrated Einstein for being straight, goading him into biting a cyanide-laced apple, as was the fate of Alan Turing....
Yeah when i first heard about alan turing and how he helped win world war II and is the the father of computer science i expeected he would have been some honored great person for his accomplishments, but no, his govt. castrated him
@@bright218 there's a great movie about him called the Imitation game on Netflix
@@catroe yup, seen it
@@bright218 that’s why it’s disgusting that people defend nazi Germany
I wonder how they would react if they were forced to not have sex or if they were forced to not date anyone. And if they would be continously be called out if they did. (Aroace, Aphobic)
Thank you for the amazing video!
I love this. I mean, it's always 'what if your partner wants sex?' and never (to an allo) 'what if your partner doesn't want sex?'
@@juliasings6131 Exactly! Exactly! I bet non of them would take it nicely.
I could also call them out like "What you lost your virginity?/Non virgin" or "I bet you are only with another person because you can't do anything by yourself and they took pity on you"
(Parodies to the slur virgin and the common phrase "You are only alone because you are xy") (Also, some LGBTQ members could also take note of this )
@@arctury.c they'd be so annoyed. It's crazy that they think these are okay things to say to another human being. But then, they sometimes see is as less than human, so maybe that's why...
@@arctury.c lmaooo you actually think Virgin is a slur haha 😂
@@wolfetteplays8894 I don't think I should be the one to enlighten things to you. But I thought at least the likes I get would explain some things for you..
I'm honestly not interested in your excusionist opinion, you could have gone your way without saying anything and I'm qute disgusted at your comment. Especially if I just think of the fact that it's not only aces that get called a virgin in a negative way as a way to belittle the other.
7:43 even if we tried to ban plastic surgeries that are nothing more than aesthetic from cisgender people they'd be like that. It's really shocking how it's easy for a cis woman get bigger boobs comparing to how hard is for us AFAB trans people to get them removed.
Also how a cis person can get a nullification surgery instantly, but trans people need over 4 letters
Asking them stuff like, “When did you choose to be straight/cis?”
lmfao for real
That's stupid because being straight is the normal, we're all born straight y'all just choose your lifestyle
@@_Spider4 You’re literally proving my point. By saying it’s a choice, that implies you had to choose to not be gay at some point
@@thenightranger987 it’s default by genetics
@@_Spider4 You really should move out of your mother's basement, & out of the closet.
I love this video. I only found it bc I googled “hypocritical homophobes.” And it was so much fun to watch. I’m an ally of the LGBTQ+ community, and I think it’s safe to say you’re helping them feel seen and probably even making them laugh. Keep doing what you’re doing
This video's alternate title is "50 reasons why homophobes lack basic empathy"
Change my mind
(Edit : typo)
@@OscarDirlwood you feeling so fragile in your views that you deliberately come into a LGBT safe space to try and target us and belittle us and our views, well it's not happening sunshine, actually wait no sunshine is too positive a term for you, you cloud of darkness. Go and do something productive, find a job, or watch your favourite politician speak nonsense all day
@@OscarDirlwood get out, you don’t belong here
@@OscarDirlwood why would you comment on a gay channel in first place, giving visits to this channel? Thank YOU for supporting it!
@@OscarDirlwood I'm sure that OP isn't the warped one here...
@@OscarDirlwood well, if that's what you want to believe
I've come out as demisexual to my parents, but I know coming out to other members of my family would be hard. I've heard comments about demisexuals like "Oh, you're just being picky" or "isn't that how all relationships work?" or "You just haven't found the right person yet". Nearly everyone on my mom's side of the family has gotten divorced and remarried at least once, and you're talking about how _I_ haven't found the right person?
I mean, tbf, Demisexual is like not finding the right person aka forming tight bonds and starting to develop attraction towards them lol. Although those other comments are bunch of bs. “Oh you’re just being normal”, like yes, Demisexual is normal, there’s nothing wrong with it…
@@panzerinvictus Demisexual is a sexuality along the asexual spectrum. It’s where you don’t find attraction until you form a bond, a connection with someone, then you start to have attraction towards that person.
@@trxppedbsemnt4398 um no, that’s not what this is. It’s about being who you are, not being something you aren’t. You’re just trying to push a narrative, which is completely false. It’s also not an organization either. Perhaps get your damn facts straight instead of spreading misinformation, just to cause more hate.
@@trxppedbsemnt4398 You’re right. You can’t choose who you want to be. How you feel isn’t a choice. You can’t choose to be gay or trans or whatever because they were always that way. I know you won’t agree with me, but there is plenty of evidence of lgbt in history and the animal Kingdom. Besides, what does it matter to you? We’re just existing, and we don’t need people like you telling us that we don’t.
@@DragonHenO Yeah, fair enough.
I mean, straight people do tend to sexualize children (especially young boys) an unhealthy amount. Child beauty pageants, calling a 5 year old boy's classmate his "girlfriend" after the boy just says hi to the girl, and that's not even going into everything that gets printed on baby clothes.
IM SO HAPPY SOMEONE FINALLY BROUGHT THIS UP. Its not "cute" or "funny", it can hurt people in the future, and make them uncomfortable.
What? Why is that specific to straights? I'm not understanding your point here
@@pureteddybear_ Because straight people are the ones that normalized this type of culture
omg or the "you're going to have to be fighting off boys with a stick" phrase or "ladies man" like parents chill they're just a 3rd grader
I know, this kind of thing reminds me of when gun nuts say that British schools have to have knife checks until someone points out America has higher knife crime anyway.
There’s no greater hate than christian love. Something most of us watching this have experienced first hand.
I'm a Christian. Please don't associate me with them.
@@zombusshankus9589 then stop associating with them yourself. the label Christian carries a weight, and if the dominant narrative of that weight is negative, then it is on you to either change that narrative of to distance yourself from the label.
If their God commands them to hate, and you claim to worship the same God, then something is wrong. Most of Christianity's history is that of hate and violence, therefore you are the one out of step. To change this would be, in effect, fundamentally change God, or at least how God is perceived. Killing an idea like that is no easy feat.
For my part, the very soul of Christianity was poisoned long ago, at least as far back as Constatine, when Christianity burned the places of learning and cast down the schools of philosophy.
@@Cyberwar101 Tbh the whole thing about the history of Christians is true, but Christians are told to show unconditional love to their neighbours, but some idiots decided to be bigots and ruin everything for everyone else and here we are :D However not every Christian is like that though
I don't think you know anything about Christianity. The supposed homophobia was just a incorrect translation of the original book.
Also, I don't care enough to respond to this again, so don't bother saying anything more.
1:44 important detail is that this is not the proud boys, this is a group is called “patriot front” and are much more violent and dangerous from what I’ve heard
I've heard kids use "straight" in a mocking tone before, and it warmed by dark little heart.
My friend is a transmasc and we told someone. Then, in an attempt to nvalidate, they said "you'll never be a woman". I love it when people don't realize trans men are FTM
Talking about something we did to make ourselves look more masculine or feminine and saying things like “ I think you looked better before when you looked feminine/masculine ”
There is so much fear and hate online and in "real" life. Sad thing with UA-cam they have a way to report it but I don't think it does any good. It's very frustrating.
Hi sir I am a straight white guy I love your videos I don't have a problem with gay people your vlogs are teaching a lot I have nothing against gay people please continue to teach me about your vlogs please reply back asap sir
Alliance and solidarity at their finest 👌
I quote another commenter ‘ "not every straight person is homophobic" "not all men" same thing, different wording.’
"This is just a phase."
I wanted to add that we actually do call straight people breeders.
As we should. Until they stop baselessly calling us groomers, we won't stop calling them breeders.
One time I called straight ppl breeders online and someone said I shouldn't shouldn't bc some ppl struggle with infertility💀
I'm still gonna do it
Oh, I call them like that too! Human breeding farms or breeding machines. 👶👶👶 Causing world overpopulation. They set us up to fail as humanity.
@{𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒮𝒾𝓁𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝑀𝑜𝑜𝓃} "not every straight person is homophobic" "not all men" same thing, different wording.
@@cloud5926 slayy
I actually use 14 a fair amount.
Karen: "Your Just grooming kids to be gay/trans."
Me: Well, if that's really how all this works, then aren't you grooming your kids to be cis/straight? How many kids movies feature straight couples? I thought you didn't want to expose your kids to sexual things!
Slayyyyyyyyyyyy
"This is scout, Rainbows make me proud!"
No way scout tf2 real????
@@joltstorm64 you bet your sweet ass I am
You cannot convince me that there is an entirely straight TF2 Mercenary, not even the Spy. It's like the Tankmen.
@@marsbarr5853 Is it the gay part, or the "Whenever anyone plays Scout on the opposing team they absolutely annihilate me" part?
@@thatonebonkchoyguy HE DELETED THE COMMENT LOL
I actually do some of those things... for example me and my friend saw a movie at my house with friends and yelled: "that's disgusting! why are they showing this to our kids! how is this allowed?!" whenever two heterosexuals kissing
slayy
he's not wrong
Yeah the commentator is based
"Being gay is just a phase." Being straight is just a phase. Love your videos 11:20
Amazing video and I believe that people can love anyone you are all friends as I know I have a lot of friends that are from the LGBTQ community
this almost made me cry because it's so true. They really take our existence for granted and it's disgusting.
Jajaja,they are stupid sometimes,I get tired of those types of people,I got one,"EeEeeEEEeew",that's the one I always see on Summer luk's videos,if we said that,they'd be crying
If we said to them, "Oh, it's just a phase!"
@@marsbarr5853 Lolol,so true!😹
Oh my God this is amazing! I love your videos. :D
#12, to be completely fair I’m uncomfortable with straight people checking me out. It’s probably because I’m at the start of my transition and I’m not interested in guys.
thank you so much for including my comment!
Been doing this for decades. The meltdowns are glorious!
u should record it and post a compilation of it. it'd be funny
👍👌👏
Do not stop
Why all a sudden you say you are cis. They always think you are trans.
@@marsbarr5853 Here the thing. As a trans person. I get that you all sudden a trans. They always think you are a cis.
As someone who's aroace the amount of times I've heard "you'll change your mind" is so frustrating. It usually comes from homophobes too so I just go "how do you know you're not gay?" And then they completely stop talking. Just,,, the irony man. Imagine doing that to a person and when they do the same you get annoyed??
That never happened
I quote a commenter who was saying that a straight person was not being discriminated “that didn’t happen and you are making it up for attention”
This video has inspired me to say eww everytjme I see a straight couple
Not all straight people are homophobic.
@@godzilla964 Yeah, yeah, “not all straights”, “not all men”, “not all whites”. We’re well aware Ryan. But still, too many straights are homophobes.
Only to the homophobic ones. Otherwise you would be just as bad as them.
@@godzilla964 exactly and not all christians are either. Real christians know what the bible really says. The rest arent really christians anyhow; they are wolves.
@@tonyaakaelijahdiekerofmala2662 I personally don't think there's such a thing as a real Christian. The Bible is impossible to not cherry pick. So what verse you like says more about you, rather than your religion.
This is a world where people proudly shed blood in the name of some tyrannic deity while other people offer help in the name of supposed "evil himself". Let's hope things will take a turn for the better. Stray strong, my friends. Praise Lucifer!
Many religons are like dnds bytopia while most forms of Christianity has morals that are a daanvi that forces daanvi on others.( bytopia is a neutral good paradise while daanvi is an opresive hellhole that can be good, but the evil part forces it onto others)
Idk, I don't think I wanna praise someone who would be ok with actual murder and other horrible things.
@@voidyvoid11 Hey, that's something Christians had done before. Crusader wars, witch-hunts... Do I need to go on?
@@voidyvoid11 true, but murder for a cause that accepts others is better than murder to alienate
@@voidyvoid11 1) how many people has the devil killed compared to the christian god 2) Lucifer is a Roman God 3) have you read the bible 4) that's what christians do all the time.
I was having a "peaceful" discussion with someone in a comment section and what they said was absolutely ridiculous. They said "If it's okay to be gay, then it's okay to be homophobic", like wtf?
I didn't even know some of these events happened. I'm straight but I'm a ally. Just hearing what these people have done to you all is horrible. I understand being treated differently because of something you can't change. The fact that the people of the "norm" or majority think that they can treat people of the minority terrible says way more about them then us. Keep on fighting because this is one war they'll never win.
Thank you so much for your valued support).
how do i send this to my parents without actually sending this to my parents
Pov: your trying to find a homophobic person in this comment section like me
SAME
My mom asked me if what I watch on the internet or my friends influencing me to be who I am, they had me thinking I was straight for quite the while
50 great ideas that should be implemented immediatly
Eww how dare you push your straight agenda on me
They not hypocrites. They simply don't see us as human. There is no reasoning with someone who thinks like that because anything we say will automatically be ignored because our percieved inhumanity makes us not worth listening to. I can see why this video can be important for younger people who need to feel a sense of control over their oppression, but as a Black Trans person, reasoning with people that hate you has never gotten anyone freedom.
Fighting hate with hate ain’t gonna do shit
@@wolfetteplays8894 if that's what you need to believe, I ain't gone hold you
I remember seeing a UA-cam comment that said “we should make it illegal for something to choose their gender until the age of 18”, so are they gonna be agender or something? Would it be illegal to be cis? What is this person’s logic?
I think what they mean is that they have to have someone else decide it for you. Your parents, a doctor, a neighbor, other kids at the school. You can only decide other peoples genders until you're 18, which is when you can decide yours too. Like you can tell your friend to change genders in the middle of grade 6, but nope, you have to wait until you're 18 to decide anything about yours.
@@Jjjjjjjames Should I make every high school transphobe trans? Since they're not gonna be able to change it.
@@3G2J You should
As a closeted Aroace (and possibly trans) individual, i probably have kne that might be similar
"You want to get married to THE OPPOSITE GENDER?!, but marrying someone of the same gender is good for you because our religion says so, either marry this gay person or don't get married at all"
I'm very sure they (Homophobes, Transphobes, Aphobes, etc) would be fuming (and i experienced something somewhat similar where my mom and aunt were talking about marriage, and i and when my aunt asked me if i want to get married when I'm older, i made body language showing a big fat no. Around the next day or so when my mom talked about marriage to me again and i told her that I'm not thag interested in it, she said that marriage is sunnah (basically something like really good or smt) which made me feel shunned again)
Edit/Update: Yeah, I'm trans (transfem) + Bi and Aroace so isn't that fun?
Yeah funny I am also aroace if they red this they would be going crazy even though they already are
One thing about my country's hypocrisy about LGBTQ+ (Philippines- Filipinos)
Filipinos (only homophobic Filipinos), they say the respected the LGBTQ, and love God (Jesus)
but when it comes to the law, Filipinos do not agree with same-sex marriage. That my friend is LGBTQ fake friendly.
It says on our internet that Philippines is gay-friendly, but to be honest, I never believe that because I know Filipinos are hypocrites on this. I mean, I can't blame them, they don't even read books. They are not that smart.
a good roast to tell homophobes is if they say "oh why do you feel the need to say how queer you are" you just say back well why do you need to tell everyone how straight you are. and thanks for teaching me a way to roast transphobes I think my crush would love that so yeah have a great day
Sick of the people that think homophobia does not exist they are full of it.
One time me and my school's unofficial LGBT group were just chilling. A homophobic kid who often says mean stuff to us comes up, and said we are all to young to know, I asked him if he knew he was cishet. He said yes and that's different.
LOL
You should say. You do young to know you love girls. And you too young to know you are cisgender.
Wait they show them straight/ gay pornography in conversion therapy centers wouldn’t that be illegal to show to a minor? oh and of course conversion therapy is illegal as well
It’s legal because they call it religious freedom to force children to watch it. They even perform lobotomies under the claim of religious freedom. It shouldn’t be legal but in this country it somehow is. Other countries are better.
@@PoweredByRainbows lobotomies what impossible I thought those where illegal procedures no matter what
@@PoweredByRainbows Conversion therapy is controversial, but that is mainly because it doesn't seem to have worked too well for those who underwent it. Many of them claim to have been traumatized by their experiences. And lobotomies are far less common now that in the past. they were never done in the name of 'religious freedom', they were done to patients with extreme mental conditions.
Hating the belief and not the believer is my new go to anti-homophobia comment
i dont know much about Jesus, but from what i've seen, Judas kissed Jesus on the lips when he betrayed Him, so maybe that's where homophobes comes from (making Judas out to be a evil gay or something, again I'm not sure. it's just my little theory. I'd love to know the full story)
There are like 5 verses to greet others with a kiss but conservatives are afraid of turning gay
I think the cause of homophobia in Christian’s comes from a line that was something along the lines of “men cannot sleep with other men the way they would with a woman” which is often regarded as a intentional mistranslation of “a man cannot sleep with a boy as he would with a woman”. There might be other lines too.
Idk man, the bible do be kinda shipping Judas and jesus tbh
@@thenyan3095
Let's be real, Jesus hung out with 12 guys and never got married? The only woman in his life was a prostitute that he denied the advances of? I'm convinced, he was either Gay or Asexual.
Also, the famous images of Jesus we still use today, comes from Renaissance artists Da Vinci and Rafael, that are rumored to have modeled the image of Jesus after their gay lovers.
@@themisfitowl2595 YEAHHH LMAO
They would freak out if they were ignored and not respected if they wanted to be called their pronouns and name
Yeah my parents and classmates sort of think being gay/trans/not-cis is some sort of trend like STOP it's not
Telling straight couples with infertility that they must not be cisgender because they can't get pregnant.
I'm partially asexual, I've tried to explain that I'm sex repulsed and stuff to a long-going online friend and stuff. He said something like "I don't think being asexual is a thing, but I respect your decision to be celibate..." Bro wtf?! Like I wouldn't choose this shit if I could try!! It just happened to be that way!! Thinking about just dumping him :L but I've known him for like ten years. He also doesn't agree with me being nonbinary. I just go by any/all pronouns because it's hard for me to advocate otherwise, and I'm not so bugged out about it at times.
*Has a boyfriend*
Parents: I'm so glad she's dating a guy instead of a woman-
Also has a gf
Parents: that's not how you play the game >:(
There's nothing wrong for playing for the other team
How about reverse “super straight” if we made a whole sexuality about not wanting to date cis people, I’m sure they wouldn’t be too happy about that
Well... I mean I'm cis and bisexual...
The thing is there is a lot of cis people and straight people in the LGBTQ+ community. It's toxic people that hurt us.
Ikr, im sure they wont.
😁😁
not any more unhappy than the basic existence of non-hetero sexual identities, I would think. That is the real 'bugaboo' here, is it not?
3:11 isnt there a law in some states where you can hate crime an LGBT individual and call it self defense and get the LGBT person blamed for it?
Tha fact that I'm not surprised makes me sick
Yeah, they say it's like a panic response or something to them being not cishet. Yet I couldn't attack a man for being understably afraid of him assaulting me, causing me to panic.
saying "i love you but why does it matter if we use your name and pronouns? Just accept yourself"
"Why would you want bigger boobs? just love your boobs the way it is" when they wear bras with padding on it.(like how afab folks wear binders to be flatter)
"[name of cisperson] Is so SILLY why is that your name? CHANGE IT."
saying theyre immature for liking the opposite gender (like how some people say people are immature for being aromantic or asexual)
"oh please Ive forced myself to be gay my whole life. You cant be cisgender, you have to be trans" (an actual thing my mum said when i told her i wanted to transition socially because she never came out as bisexual to our accepting family.)
For transphobic parents. Never call them the right label (mum=dad) and using your dad's name for your mom or your mom's name for your dad. or call them both mom and feminine names if its two dads or use dad for both moms and use masc names.
"you looked better as a baby" like the you looked better as a boy/girl comment.
I haven't even watched this video yet but I clicked that like button so fast. I'm all about videos that tear apart terrible people's terrible beliefs. It's like the UA-cam version of comfort food to me lol
I like LGBT content; it makes me feel valid ❤
I’m not LGBTQ but I watch a lot of pro queer content
I'm aroace I get hated on alot cuz people think I'm a robot but this makes me feel human
God said miraged is between two man and two women. Not between a man and a women.
If you're gonna go by the Bible, then marriage is between one man and how many other women he can afford to keep under his roof.
According to the Bible, you're not supposed to use bathrooms. Believe it or not, you're not supposed to follow a thousand-year old book to the exact letter.
@@thatonebonkchoyguy Also according to the bible, you cannot get a tattoo. Yet I've seen many homophobes who use the bible as an excuse who have a tattoo. Leviticus 19:28
@@sh4rky466 yea fr. Those "Christians" like to cherry pick which of God's rules are beneficial to them and use them but disregard the others that they don't like
I have a metaphor for people who use the bible to justify violence against lgbtq+ people. Imagine if you read a book written 300 years ago that says that you shouldn't eat oranges, and you use that book to justify abusing people who like oranges. Like how does that make any sense? It doesn't matter how much you don't like oranges, verbal, physical, or cyber assault is not okay, and it is not justifiable just because you read something in a book.
No no no....a LOT longer than 300 years that has been through numberless translations and possibly tampered with
but if that 'book' is the basis of their belief system, they wouldn't see it that way. That is not a great analogy, because eating fruit is way different than (ahem) BEING one. Sorry, feel free to groan. lol
Just discovered your channel, and I love it!
Honestly if we do this they might leave us alone. (Except things that cause harm to others) Sounds like a cool rebellion. I’m in
Im not gonna lie, some homophobes out there probably imagine that THAT is a kind of world that will exist if they just allow us to exist peacefully 💀
FABULOUS AND TRUE video, thank you for this).
Thank you for the to-do list to do with
In reference to the discourse over Yasmin Benoit's recent tweet, showing her marching at pride in a revealing outfit as an asexual- if we told a straight person that they can't dress in a sexy way because they aren't sexually available to gay people of the same gender as them, they wouldn't be too happy about it, yet Yasmin can't dress that way just because she's asexual
She’s still a hypocrite though
@@wolfetteplays8894 Yasmin is? How?
Oh, I've got one for ya.
"Sword skills is e-girl gay fantasy shit." ~I was told this by a homophobic freak.
I replied: "Oh really? Let's hear you say that after I disable your arming hands."
Slice the underside of the wrists, and temporarily, you'll make it difficult for a gun-wielder to pull the trigger/aim, potentially, such can also make them drop their weapon. Firearms are not the be-all-end-all choice, and have so many flaws. Yeah. Kevlar armor can hold back a bullet, but a thorough piercing blow with a sword or a polearm will go through it.
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Very likely, because I advocate for armed self-defense and was raised Anarchist, I will be ignored. That's fine; it's not my afterlife.
"Oh really? Let's hear you say that after I disable your arming hands" is such a powerful phrase that I wish I could use in my day to day life
The “homophobic tears” mug. 😂😂😂
My God, even as a Demisexual straight Ally that cracks me up
Here's another one: if a character in a TV show was revealed to be straight or if a movie had a scene of a husband and wife, and both the TV show and movie were banned in places like China and Russia, people would not be happy.
Whenever I tell someone I'm aroace and explain it to them and they say "You just haven't fallen in love yet" or some crap like that, I automatically do not like them
a response i've seen somewhere to "you're not aroace you just haven't met the right person" is that "you are a serial killer, you just haven't met the right person"
We should absolutely do #10, it would be so funny
I'm powered by pans, pots and other kitchen stuff
For real, who cares if you go to hell just because you're gay. Who cares if it's a sin against God. If it's not your life, then don't worry about it. Worry about your own life!
Don't just sit there and hurt people just because they want to be themselves. It's not even human to hurt people in the first place. Stop the hate and take a seat before you decide to embarrass yourselves.
My dad's not accepting of my sexual orientation and gender identity.
I’m so sorry, please know we accept you here at our show and there are millions of us in the LGBTQ who accept you. We can be your family if your family doesn’t accept you at home. Much love ❤️ and rainbows 🏳️🌈, Professor Pride
@@PoweredByRainbows i came out as trans to my grandma and she said "no you arent" :sob:
I hope he will be some day. But if he isn’t, that’s ok! We accept you!
@@whatdoyouexactlymeanbyhandle not even a remote W. Go b a fragile little baby somewhere else
@@whatdoyouexactlymeanbyhandle why?
Even straight children know their romantic attraction to the opposite sex from as young as four. It doesn't take a very deep thinker to consider that this could apply to gay children as well.
Thank you for this video! It’s essential to keep these conversations going. I recently mustered up the courage to make a video on the topic as well, so anyone feel free to watch and share it if you’d like. We still have to fight for basic human rights!
I think the problem is that homophobes are probably *actually* afraid of these things becoming reality.
What are they afraid of becoming a reality? The fact that LGBTQ people exist is already a reality. Sorry I’m confused.
@@PoweredByRainbows I meant the "reversed" discrimination. Sometimes I see bigots acting like they genuinely believe that if LGBTQ people "win", then they will "lose" and become the people facing oppression.
Of course, that's not at all how any of this works, because it *should* be obvious that you don't have to take away rights from people to be able to ensure that others can enjoy those same rights.
@@PoweredByRainbows I think they mean straightphobia or having the tables turned on them like in this video
@@PoweredByRainbows Afraid of gay being "The normality". Even though we want to be equal, not "More normal than straight"
I love the homophobic tears mug just kinda sitting there
I got told by my father
ITS A HARD LIFE YOUVE CHOOSEN
MY SON
I told my dad noone chooses to be gay 11:38
Hate when my lesbian sister says being asexual at my age isn't true, because I'm too young. I received the talk, and find "that" unnecessary for me.
my brother told me that "nobody is ace forever" :/
Tell her that being a lesbian it's a choice and it's a phase, let's see how it feels.
@@AlextheHomo im lesbian and she knows that, dont think i should
@@squid-juice opps, sorry, i didn't know that
@@AlextheHomo its ok!! no big deal
Might want to show the correct picture to line up with your story. The photo at the 1:50 min mark is patriot front not proud boys but they are guilty of doing similar stuff
lol 5:49 is proven to make them mad
Even you want to be called Steve. Because you did not like the name your parents give you. But on our records. You name is James Earl Funkhouser. And since Steve is not your legal name. We have to go to what on this document. Until your legal change the name. Because preferred name is legal name. Until then. We keep calling you James.