Harry’s biggest mistake is disconnecting with his family in front of the whole world & making millions off of it while throwing them completely under the bus… this is not how one fix trauma.
@lcox6468..."My Truth" is a feeling, an opinion. Everything this Dr. has stated is from what Harry has told him. I'm sure King Charles has a different view.
Harry was after a money making opportunity and then only recognized how selfish and self serving that was after the fact. I don’t think he is sincere or humble.
He was already very rich. He was looking for love. But Megan is the one used him for fame and money . I would recommend you read Narcism maybe you would understand Megan’s intentions
Correct, and neither is Mate. We all know that Markle is behind the money-making, she is the one who is blocking with the lawyers, the harch reality is, when you sign up for these big deals, you sell your ability to be authentic.
Harry didn't disconnect. He stayed very much connected by slandering his family and making money out of it. When you truly what to disconnect, you sever your ties with your family and live happily ever after, without mentioning them - because that's what you wanted, right? His behavior is despicable, unsavory, entitled, and, in the end, pathetic.
Same stuff happened in my family except I don't even talk about it to extended family. Even cousins. Never talked ish so any kids would know. I didn't go telling everyone in the world everything including close friends. What he did was for money. No other reason. It was money money money. The way he treated his grandparents while they were dying is all I need to know
But let's be real here. I suspect it's harder to detach from his family without giving up his previous normal and standard of life, yet he doesn't have practical "normal people skills" to survive in our "peasant" world. Because, you know, this guy was made to prop up this song and dance and put up an appearance for the royal family since he was born. I can bet whatever these royalty scions are made to study are also often some out-of-touch stupid university courses like political science or some shit. So yeah, literally all he can do is do this. But all people see is him "slandering" his family. Yet who put him in this position in the first place?
@@LorienzoDeGarciaHarry did. He is a middle aged adult who ostensibly has two children. How can he love his children while lugging around so much anger?
And Harry’s pathological sense of entitlement and lack of empathy. Harry has shown his lack of empathy many many times throughout his life. As a child his was incorrigible. By itself that isn’t proof of narciasscm, but then as a young adult he uses drugs, finds fun in being cruel to other children and mistresses at his school. In his book he lies and disrespects the young woman with whom he shared his first sexual encounter. Then there is Harry’s history of animal abuse such as when he demanded to ride a pregnant mare for a polo match. He then drove the mare to such an extent that she died mere hours after the match. Then on another occasion he inflicted terrible injuries on another polo pony whose flesh he impaled and slashed with the utterly unnecessary spurs he wore. And then there was his grotesque cruelty and disrespect to his grandfather and grandmother before their deaths and his bizarre sexual innuendos about his Mother and his appreciation for Megan and how she reminds him of his Mother. Remember,Mefan is the women he has sex with. For most well adjusted men, the scent of their mother’s perfume may evict feelings of love, but not erotic love. So why didn’t Gabor examine and discuss any of these bizarre and narcissistic and deeply inappropriate behaviours that Harry has displayed?
@@DaVinci368 excellent observations. I’ve read what you pointed out as well. Harry, the little boy that everybody felt sorry for that was never confronted. In an interview with Bill Simmons, the Spotify exec, he recounts he had a meeting with Harry, whose ideas For podcasts included interviewing the Pope and Putin to name a few. The world he lives in of his own imagined importance is tragic. I wonder if Harry’s caught onto the fact that people in Hollywood are only interested in him if he can provide royal drama, gossip and dirt …..nothing he brings to the table is of interest, except the fact that Invictus Games is well respected. I wonder if Harry is aware that he’s becoming or has become a rent-a-royal. The fact that these new Netflix projects that Harry and Megan will produce are actually being produced by another production company not Archwell and they’re being credited as executive producers amongst many, this is very very telling.
You can be traumatized and still not sell your family. Doc handled the interview very naively. Good for him to apologize but it was a major mistake. Also I think a therapy session is not meant to be on TV, since a therapist is meant to be neutral and open to their clients feelings, which doesn't go well with a client who already used the public to take revenge on their family and make a living of it.
Sell your family?????? The guy wrote a book about himself and sold it. No families were sold. The guy, Harry, was in a tortured situation. He's not a plastic icon in a chess set. He's a man. Grow up.
At age thirty-five and thirty-eight and single, I had built and opened two businesses and owned two residential properties! I came from a single-parent family. You rise above what you are given as a child and make something of yourself for yourself and your family; otherwise, whose fault is it if you do nothing? You and no one else are to blame! Be exemplary and break the cycle! GG from Texas.
Agreed, I came from very humble beginnings but by Harry’s age I also had a business, a home and two children. If I had kept looking at the past I would still be living in it and not making a future for myself and my family.
Most of the world have a very different opinion of Harry too. I can not believe this man believes what Harry says is honestly said. Based on this as a nurse of 40years of age I would never go to him for advice or help. Stop blaming parents for adult children’s despicable behaviour. Prince William doesn’t behave that way was always there for Harry yet he also is out to hurt him Catherine was not there in his childhood was extremely supportive of Harry yet he now turns on her too. Why didn’t this man look at the influence of Meghan on Harry. More likely to find the answer there
Since Haz said after writing Spare book he feels free and secure his freedom and happy to be disconnected from his family. Good for him! Why now he is begging to go back to the family? He is a very sick man - sick in his HEAD. Doesn't know what he is talking about. All he wants the Royal Family keep throwing money at him. Then he and that witch will be happy. Go and work and earn your living why betray others for a handful of "GOLD". Another "Judas Iscariot" of the Royal Family. Good grief.
Happy for you. Piers is just making clear who in society he is allied with. Let’s keep looking after ourselves and being loving with healthy boundaries ❤.
Harry is hooked on blame and self pity. I have never heard him show the slightest understanding or empathy for anyone else. His brother carried the big brother hero role when he was suffering as much or more, but had to be the strong and brave one. I think blame is highly destructive, but we all need to look at our own role in causing or increasing our own suffering and problems. Harry doesn’t show any capacity or willingness to do that self examination.
Harry, as millions of us, have had traumatic experiences and are still dealing with those traumatic events. However, he acts as if no one else has suffered from trauma. He’s brother also dealt, and probably is until this day dealing with traumatic events. I am quite aware that we are all different people and deal even with the same issues/trauma, differently. But this guy acts as if he’s the only one in the world, that has suffered. He had the privilege, the money to hire 100 therapists if he wanted to at his disposal, and at his wife’s disposal as well. But he and her chose to trash and sell off his family to the highest bidder in order to “fight” his trauma”. Thats not dealing with trauma. Thats called betrayal and selling your own family. He could had dealt with this privately like ALL of us do. We pay a private therapist to help us. Confidentiality!!! He’s a child trapped in a man’s body. And, unfortunately, he met the perfect person to indulge his ego.
When talking about trauma, of course one's going to talk about themselves to get it out. It is not like he acts like he's the only one. Plus, he is so-called royalty, and you're not. So yeah, there are fucked up things you probably will never experience in your lifetime. I am not defending him, guy has a lot of issues, but he's a puppet to the royal family to play a role for decades. He's stunted and probably now this is all he can do to make a living and still keep his normal standard of lifestyle. You would be surprised how desperate people get to go back to "normal" to feel safe. Not saying what he did was right or wrong though. It is a bit of both.
Admit it, Harry couldn’t be sincere. He was promoting his book. He threw the publisher under the bus when the book purchase turned sour. Harry is a ruthless man exploiting his family. He seeks happiness by causing trauma to his family. Dr. Mate’s defense makes himself look worse. Should we forgive murderers and war criminals because they did not have happy childhood? The answer is right in front of him but he refuses to see: why William and Harry turn out so differently and made different choice of life partner who profoundly impact their lives? William was right. Those shrinks ruined Harry.
Great to hear he feels FREE. That’s what he needs to do and has done. You have made yourself “free”. Go and stay free. Leave your family and the rest of us alone. We are going through our own tough times. We don’t need your baggage.🤷🏻
Please… This doctor is endorsing Haz’s hatred. So what if Haz is traumatized … it doesn’t excuse his horrible lying and selling out of his family. Just move on and get a life man!
I can't wait to read Dr Matés book. I wonder if Harry will ever regret involving the media in his fall out, or if he will develop the empathy to see how damaging his and Megan's campaign has been to Will and Kate's children, as well as the extended cousins. Those kids have no reason to ever trust that Harry or his kids won't use big media in the same way he has done.
The court decision is based on the laws. The laws were created by people. So the laws are not the absolute truth also if you want to put it that way. Also, this is not murdering a person. He was leaving the family based on his free will. So you cannot compare it with the court trial.
"If we can belong and connect and be our true selves, that's ideal. But what do we do if in order to be our true selves our families or our communities won't accept us?" Thank you, Dr Gabor, that is exactly the words I need to hear.
Oh come on Dr. Gabor, you and Harry knows exactly what you are doing. You did it for money and glory and so has Harry, he is like a snake biting the hands that fed him. Harry did not just made “some mistakes“, he knows exactly what he is doing. Stop making excuses about his evil motives.
It is obvious Dr Mate has believed the various lies Harry has told him. William has been through the same experience as Harry yet he is totally different. William is strong, dependable, kind and caring and has a beautiful wife and children, Harry is weak, easily manipulated, cares for no one but himself and can be exceptionally cruel and selfish. Married the wrong woman who has brought out the very worst in him. God help his children what a difficut life they have.
I'm not following. What lies did he tell him? And it's not correct in saying they've been through the same experienced; different people experience and process trauma differently.
@@Dr_Lucozade Harry said his father did not help him or comfort him when his mother died. Charles did but in his own way, which was not good enough it appears for Harry. People may process trauma differenty but the trauma Harry and William experienced was exactly the same. The both lost their mother in tragic circumstances and had to deal with a very public funeral and media speculation. They both had a loving and extended family around them to help them. Harry had a very good relationship with his father, with William and Kate until Meghan came on the scene. She changed him and the narrative he spouts today is very different from that which was evident to all at the time.
William hated the interviews Diana did. She had total disregard for William and Harry. She just sought revenge on her ex. He has always expressed she suffered from a mental illness.
@@sarikakanwar Yes it is. It feels like a compliment at first to be called your beautiful , smart, beloved Mother 's soulmate. But it's not a great way to grow up. William and I have that in common. I think I might still be able to have a relationship with my brother, so I still hope for these "boys" as well. My brother and I are 54 and 55.
I know most are here for the Prince Harry bashing (Can't blame the few that find confort in thinking multi millionnaires care about their opinion, whatever if that make you bare your misery) but Dr Maté views on the Israel-Palestinian conflict was so wise and sensitive, hope you invite him again, can you publish that part of the conversation?
I may not care for all the things Harry has done, but I do believe he has childhood trauma. I think his childhood trauma left him open to Meghan Markles manipulation. He is a grown man and will have to come to this realization on his own. I like what dr. Gabor Mate has to say about trauma and healing from trauma. He can’t be held responsible for Harry’s choices.
I do wish these idiots would stop saying "my truth". It IS NOT your truth - there is only one truth. IT IS YOUR BELIEF - it is what you believe - which still may not be THE TRUTH.
The real question is :can somebody find freedom by cruelly harming others in this freedom process? The fact he cut all links with the family is understandable but why did he have to trash everybody in the family along his process?
Piers, I am so proud of you for listening and giving another pov a chance to speak. I am liberal and I miss you. Before all of this, you were so balanced. I didn't agree with everything you said, but I respected you for speaking your truth. I hate that you're associated with trolls. Please, come home.
What kind of drama did his family pass to him ? Title, Money , Security, Attention … 😢😢😢 BS ! Everybody must challenge difficulties , issues !!! Everybody suffers of lack of love , lack of money , lack of health . Everybody fights against adversity to find job , grow a family , build a home , mourns the tragic death of a parent , a child . But everyone must deal and move on because we haven’t staff to take care and make the thing better for us . When you have nothing to do except to think about you , sure , you always find something wrong : Just two sausages and not three for breakfast ! Just a narrower bedroom , probably just a lack of intelligence . Idleness is mother of all the vices . Wake up Harry ! In this world , children are starving , under 💣… not under full of money 💰 !!!
@@soheilay6778 You don’t know me and don’t know about my grief . Lost my mother at the age of 10 and alone with two brothers one of 6 years and one of 8 months olds. Nobody for taking care . So If you give me money I take the deal . No problem !!!
HARRY LIVE IN A FAMILY WHO DO BELIEVE IN FORGIVENESS THEY DOES WHATEVER THEY WANT AND BELIEVE IT TO BE OK PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HARRY HURTING HIS FAMILY WHAT ABOUT CHARLES WHO HAD HIS MISTRESS AT HIS WEDDING TREATED HIS WIFE LIKE CRAP FOR THE MISTRESS AND ABANDONED HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FOR THE MISTRESS DONT U THINK HE SHOULD BE FORGIVEN FOR ALL THE NASTY THINGS HE DID TO HIS FAMILY ESPECIALLY WHEN CHILDREN IS INVOLVE? WHAT HARRY DID WAS EXPRESS HIS TREATMENT OF HIM AND HIS WIFE BY THE BRF AND THE U PEOPLE THINK HE DID UNTHINKABLE WHAT HIS FATHER DID TO HIS MOTHER IS FAR WORST THAT ANYTHING HARRY DID OR SAY. TALKING ABOUT DISLOYALTY TO FAMILY CHARLES HAVE A BETTER STORY THAN HARRY IT ALL STARTED WITH HIM. MOST OF THE TRAUMA THAT HARRY EXPERIENCED IS BECAUCE HE SAW HOW HIS FATHER MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSED HIS MOTHER.
A relationship needs two people. Two people working together, listening and sharing. We can’t put the responsibility of rekindling just on one person. Children need their parents to survive. Children truly inherently love their caretakers and it takes them years to prioritise themselves and realise that their survival no longer depends on their parents. Children will try everything before giving up on their parents. A mother’s love isn’t innate. Not like a child’s love is.
yeah... "his truth", LOL well, seeing as everyone gets their own "truth", here's mine: My truth is that Mr Gabor is a charlatan posing as a psychologist who broke countless ethics rules that his profession is supposed to be bound to by doing "therapy" in front of cameras knowing it would be broadcast to millions (not allowed, ever), which anyway was actually a propaganda exercise designed to rehabilitate Harry's appalling reputation. Piers should have asked Gabor about his total lack of ethics and, importantly, how much he was paid. Watching him try to talk his way around that one would have been amusing.
All of them around the world? Statistically Democratic monarchys are the best places to live. I don't see any other country with a monarchy complaining. In fact countries like Iran. The people reminisce of the days of the Monarchy. Especially vs the Hellhole republic the find themselves in today. I think this would be the case for a lot of countries. The grass isn't always greener.
Harry has monetised his beef with his father, for that there is no excuse. Gabor admitted that he regrets the interview being monetised, but he would have known this prior to the interview being released, and I am fairly certain Gabor would have been paid for the interview. Gabor said that at 38 he made a lot of mistakes, clearly, he is still making dumb mistakes at seventy-nine, it is all well and good to be true to yourself, I think that is important that you are authentic in life, being authentic is very different to being true to your self, being authentic is saying that my word has a price, and that price was lower than he would have liked, which is what I am hearing in this interview. Your integrity should have no price at the level of money that Harry and Gabor have, alas, neither is authentic or have great integrity, money is more important to them both than doing the right thing, I do accept that both think that being true to themselves is cathartic, but in this life, you have to carry your cross, else chaos and division take hold, life should not be about taking sides.
He has no regrets whatsoever...ik enough about him to know. GM is/was UNethical to tell a stranger in a public interview they've ADHD... unethical and inappropriate. Money and fame has always been his primary goal.
I am sorry Gabor you got the history wrong . The jews are not colonisers . I srael is and always has been their historical homeland , on the other had there has never been a palestinian people . The palestinians are actualy jews who converted to islam when the muslims conquered the land of israel.
There is no such thing as historical land, it doesn’t apply to the nations of the world, otherwise there would be wars everywhere. White Americans. Australians would have to return to their historical lands, African Americans too. You name it, where every nation lived 3000 years ago. And why it shoukd be exactly 3000 years ago, not 4000? Palestinians are genetically dependents of Kanonites, who lived in those lands before Jews. And Italians can claim those terrotiries for themselves as well, as there was Roman Empire there 2000 years ago.. and so on… So this claim says nothing, and it is ridiculous to the people of the world.
Hope you hold the same sentiment for all indigenous ppl. The same sentiment for the Australian aboriginal, American native ppl and the Africans of Africa 😒😒😒
Depends on the family! Piers revealed himself there. Those who know, know what I mean with the family under all costs and “will someone ever be free or happy” talk. Yikes
Dry Mate is not a psychologist he is family practice. He may be “interested” iin childhood trauma, but he is not a licensed psychologist or psychiatrist nor child therapist.
Really quite amusing to read the nasty comments about Harry here. The role of king - whether it's Charles or William - is purely ceremonial and has no real power. Indeed , the role of the royal family seems to mainly be about making yourself media fodder. Witness what happened to Kate recently. She couldn't even recover from a serious operation without people on social media and in the mainstream media making up horrible stories about her. She and William weren't treated with any dignity or respect. You seem to hate Harry because he took some power into his own hands and exercised some control. And exposed to some extent the myth of the royal family. He fought back and the ghouls don't like that. His mother would have been proud of him!
Reading comments that harry took advantage of his situation to make money out of it, you know that princes are rich. Right? Like genuinely they live in palaces, they have properties, land, gold. Right? Just saying
'his role as future king '- what a joke. Many of us here in the UK would prefer not to have a king. In any case, it's a ceremonial role with no real power, doesn't mean much in real life.
So nice to see Pierce keeping his mouth shut and actually listening.
Piers is laughable at this time and day
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Harry’s biggest mistake is disconnecting with his family in front of the whole world & making millions off of it while throwing them completely under the bus… this is not how one fix trauma.
He has to cause his life was already in the spotlight.
People who say “ my truth” isn’t always the truth. There are always 2 sides to the story,2 versions and omissions of THE truth.
True that! GG Texas.
@lcox6468..."My Truth" is a feeling, an opinion. Everything this Dr. has stated is from what Harry has told him. I'm sure King Charles has a different view.
@@Elizabeth-dw6lcHonestly, the whole truth and nothing but the truth is fine with me. I prefer it, quite honestly. 🙂
That’s exactly what Dr Mate said
“My Truth” is a load of shit imo.
Harry was after a money making opportunity and then only recognized how selfish and self serving that was after the fact. I don’t think he is sincere or humble.
He was already very rich. He was looking for love. But Megan is the one used him for fame and money . I would recommend you read Narcism maybe you would understand Megan’s intentions
@@PerihanAlici-w8eExactly
Correct, and neither is Mate.
We all know that Markle is behind the money-making, she is the one who is blocking with the lawyers, the harch reality is, when you sign up for these big deals, you sell your ability to be authentic.
But they took the money ha!
Harry didn't disconnect. He stayed very much connected by slandering his family and making money out of it. When you truly what to disconnect, you sever your ties with your family and live happily ever after, without mentioning them - because that's what you wanted, right? His behavior is despicable, unsavory, entitled, and, in the end, pathetic.
Same stuff happened in my family except I don't even talk about it to extended family. Even cousins. Never talked ish so any kids would know. I didn't go telling everyone in the world everything including close friends. What he did was for money. No other reason. It was money money money. The way he treated his grandparents while they were dying is all I need to know
But let's be real here. I suspect it's harder to detach from his family without giving up his previous normal and standard of life, yet he doesn't have practical "normal people skills" to survive in our "peasant" world. Because, you know, this guy was made to prop up this song and dance and put up an appearance for the royal family since he was born. I can bet whatever these royalty scions are made to study are also often some out-of-touch stupid university courses like political science or some shit.
So yeah, literally all he can do is do this. But all people see is him "slandering" his family. Yet who put him in this position in the first place?
@@LorienzoDeGarciaHarry did. He is a middle aged adult who ostensibly has two children. How can he love his children while lugging around so much anger?
Daisy, I appreciate your comment. Thank you.
yes but Dr Mate, you missed the elephant in the room, Harry's addiction problems
Harry is also emotionally immature and mentally disturbed to this day.
Dr. Mate would say that Harry's substance abuse issues are the result of the traumas he has experienced.
And Harry’s pathological sense of entitlement and lack of empathy. Harry has shown his lack of empathy many many times throughout his life.
As a child his was incorrigible. By itself that isn’t proof of narciasscm, but then as a young adult he uses drugs, finds fun in being cruel to other children and mistresses at his school.
In his book he lies and disrespects the young woman with whom he shared his first sexual encounter.
Then there is Harry’s history of animal abuse such as when he demanded to ride a pregnant mare for a polo match. He then drove the mare to such an extent that she died mere hours after the match. Then on another occasion he inflicted terrible injuries on another polo pony whose flesh he impaled and slashed with the utterly unnecessary spurs he wore.
And then there was his grotesque cruelty and disrespect to his grandfather and grandmother before their deaths and his bizarre sexual innuendos about his Mother and his appreciation for Megan and how she reminds him of his Mother.
Remember,Mefan is the women he has sex with. For most well adjusted men, the scent of their mother’s perfume may evict feelings of love, but not erotic love.
So why didn’t Gabor examine and discuss any of these bizarre and narcissistic and deeply inappropriate behaviours that Harry has displayed?
@@DaVinci368 excellent observations. I’ve read what you pointed out as well. Harry, the little boy that everybody felt sorry for that was never confronted.
In an interview with Bill Simmons, the Spotify exec, he recounts he had a meeting with Harry, whose ideas For podcasts included interviewing the Pope and Putin to name a few. The world he lives in of his own imagined importance is tragic.
I wonder if Harry’s caught onto the fact that people in Hollywood are only interested in him if he can provide royal drama, gossip and dirt …..nothing he brings to the table is of interest, except the fact that Invictus Games is well respected. I wonder if Harry is aware that he’s becoming or has become a rent-a-royal.
The fact that these new Netflix projects that Harry and Megan will produce are actually being produced by another production company not Archwell and they’re being credited as executive producers amongst many, this is very very telling.
You can be traumatized and still not sell your family. Doc handled the interview very naively. Good for him to apologize but it was a major mistake. Also I think a therapy session is not meant to be on TV, since a therapist is meant to be neutral and open to their clients feelings, which doesn't go well with a client who already used the public to take revenge on their family and make a living of it.
It wasn’t a therapy session. Gabor is a physician.
Sell your family??????
The guy wrote a book about himself and sold it.
No families were sold.
The guy, Harry, was in a tortured situation.
He's not a plastic icon in a chess set. He's a man.
Grow up.
The Doc fuked up big time and he trying to plug his book
At age thirty-five and thirty-eight and single, I had built and opened two businesses and owned two residential properties! I came from a single-parent family. You rise above what you are given as a child and make something of yourself for yourself and your family; otherwise, whose fault is it if you do nothing? You and no one else are to blame! Be exemplary and break the cycle! GG from Texas.
The difference is that Harry is a spoiled entitled immature man.
Agreed, I came from very humble beginnings but by Harry’s age I also had a business, a home and two children. If I had kept looking at the past I would still be living in it and not making a future for myself and my family.
Ginger and Mandy, who supported you in achieving your goals? Someone did. No one makes it in this world alone.
Most of the world have a very different opinion of Harry too.
I can not believe this man believes what Harry says is honestly said. Based on this as a nurse of 40years of age I would never go to him for advice or help. Stop blaming parents for adult children’s despicable behaviour. Prince William doesn’t behave that way was always there for Harry yet he also is out to hurt him Catherine was not there in his childhood was extremely supportive of Harry yet he now turns on her too. Why didn’t this man look at the influence of Meghan on Harry. More likely to find the answer there
I feel bad for your patients that you were a nurse 😂
@@godisgoodallthetime3845She is right. Harry betrayed his familly for money!!
Since Haz said after writing Spare book he feels free and secure his freedom and happy to be disconnected from his family. Good for him! Why now he is begging to go back to the family?
He is a very sick man - sick in his HEAD. Doesn't know what he is talking about. All he wants the Royal Family keep throwing money at him. Then he and that witch will be happy.
Go and work and earn your living why betray others for a handful of "GOLD". Another "Judas Iscariot" of the Royal Family. Good grief.
@@godisgoodallthetime3845 You laugh at everything you say? Laughing at yourself, yep, makes sense.
And His truth is so woke why Gabor still feeding us with this bull???
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I have emancipated myself from my toxic narcissistic family in the last week and its a load lifted from me and that gives me freedom
Good for you! I hope you heal from your trauma.
Good for you it took me 20 years and lots of loses and illness put yourself first
Happy for you. Piers is just making clear who in society he is allied with. Let’s keep looking after ourselves and being loving with healthy boundaries ❤.
He said it was a discussion not a therapy session. I think this was confused by the media.
How can you be happy after having hurt his whole family and publicly? He could just have gone to live abroad, quietly!
Perhaps you can see it this way. He was already used ad a child. He was not happy in the family also. As the doctor said, he is a traumatic child.
Whoa, who would ever pay to watch an interview with Harry?!!! Comical
Millions would, that is a fact
As a dr, this guy seems like he needs help too. The ginger poppet is just jealous of his older brother.
Harry is hooked on blame and self pity. I have never heard him show the slightest understanding or empathy for anyone else. His brother carried the big brother hero role when he was suffering as much or more, but had to be the strong and brave one.
I think blame is highly destructive, but we all need to look at our own role in causing or increasing our own suffering and problems. Harry doesn’t show any capacity or willingness to do that self examination.
Harry, as millions of us, have had traumatic experiences and are still dealing with those traumatic events. However, he acts as if no one else has suffered from trauma. He’s brother also dealt, and probably is until this day dealing with traumatic events.
I am quite aware that we are all different people and deal even with the same issues/trauma, differently. But this guy acts as if he’s the only one in the world, that has suffered. He had the privilege, the money to hire 100 therapists if he wanted to at his disposal, and at his wife’s disposal as well. But he and her chose to trash and sell off his family to the highest bidder in order to “fight” his trauma”. Thats not dealing with trauma. Thats called betrayal and selling your own family. He could had dealt with this privately like ALL of us do. We pay a private therapist to help us. Confidentiality!!!
He’s a child trapped in a man’s body. And, unfortunately, he met the perfect person to indulge his ego.
When talking about trauma, of course one's going to talk about themselves to get it out. It is not like he acts like he's the only one. Plus, he is so-called royalty, and you're not. So yeah, there are fucked up things you probably will never experience in your lifetime.
I am not defending him, guy has a lot of issues, but he's a puppet to the royal family to play a role for decades. He's stunted and probably now this is all he can do to make a living and still keep his normal standard of lifestyle.
You would be surprised how desperate people get to go back to "normal" to feel safe. Not saying what he did was right or wrong though. It is a bit of both.
Admit it, Harry couldn’t be sincere. He was promoting his book. He threw the publisher under the bus when the book purchase turned sour. Harry is a ruthless man exploiting his family. He seeks happiness by causing trauma to his family. Dr. Mate’s defense makes himself look worse. Should we forgive murderers and war criminals because they did not have happy childhood? The answer is right in front of him but he refuses to see: why William and Harry turn out so differently and made different choice of life partner who profoundly impact their lives? William was right. Those shrinks ruined Harry.
Murderers and war criminals? What?
h and gabor deserves each other.
Great to hear he feels FREE. That’s what he needs to do and has done. You have made yourself “free”.
Go and stay free. Leave your family and the rest of us alone. We are going through our own tough times.
We don’t need your baggage.🤷🏻
Exactly. Very well said.
Totally agree
“a mother that had multiple affairs and a father that had an affair”… I fixed it for him
I used to respect Dr. Maté, now thats all totally lost.
"My Truth"...once it's uttered, all credibility is lost.
(Court oath says "THE".)
Dr Mate is now back peddling, just like H. He originally said he regretted the interview and should never have participated in it.
*Thank you...I thought it was just me who heard him say that he regretted*
*doing it Katherine!*
Please… This doctor is endorsing Haz’s hatred. So what if Haz is traumatized … it doesn’t excuse his horrible lying and selling out of his family. Just move on and get a life man!
I can't wait to read Dr Matés book. I wonder if Harry will ever regret involving the media in his fall out, or if he will develop the empathy to see how damaging his and Megan's campaign has been to Will and Kate's children, as well as the extended cousins. Those kids have no reason to ever trust that Harry or his kids won't use big media in the same way he has done.
3:00 Wow i wanted to cry at his answer
This doctor looks like he’s on drugs
Harry partner 😂😂
Same thing crossed my mind, two stoners having a conversation. 😂
He's 80 years old now. You are free to search some of his videos in his younger years and compare.
Probably they both had a few snorts before interview
He knew everything.
You talk through ignorance!
Can I go to court with my truth? 🎉
The court decision is based on the laws. The laws were created by people. So the laws are not the absolute truth also if you want to put it that way.
Also, this is not murdering a person. He was leaving the family based on his free will. So you cannot compare it with the court trial.
It was a scoop for Gabor. Where was the wisdom and maturity to not need to go public.
Gabor is reacting extremely calm and knowledgeable, remaining an open mind. Unlike the interviewer.
Unlike you you mean, given your childish and passive aggressive interjections 😊
Gabor's authentic self is about as inspiring as brown wallpaper
"If we can belong and connect and be our true selves, that's ideal. But what do we do if in order to be our true selves our families or our communities won't accept us?" Thank you, Dr Gabor, that is exactly the words I need to hear.
Oh come on Dr. Gabor, you and Harry knows exactly what you are doing. You did it for money and glory and so has Harry, he is like a snake biting the hands that fed him. Harry did not just made “some mistakes“, he knows exactly what he is doing. Stop making excuses about his evil motives.
Correct correct 1005% correct
Harry humble!? Sorry Doc he’s arrogant
Lying snake
"Speaking MY truth" apparently is the same as lying if that suits you the best. Sorry, but I can't take that man seriously.
Yeah, something doesn’t right with most of what he said, it’s a gut feeling
It is obvious Dr Mate has believed the various lies Harry has told him. William has been through the same experience as Harry yet he is totally different. William is strong, dependable, kind and caring and has a beautiful wife and children, Harry is weak, easily manipulated, cares for no one but himself and can be exceptionally cruel and selfish. Married the wrong woman who has brought out the very worst in him. God help his children what a difficut life they have.
I'm not following. What lies did he tell him? And it's not correct in saying they've been through the same experienced; different people experience and process trauma differently.
@@Dr_Lucozade Harry said his father did not help him or comfort him when his mother died. Charles did but in his own way, which was not good enough it appears for Harry. People may process trauma differenty but the trauma Harry and William experienced was exactly the same. The both lost their mother in tragic circumstances and had to deal with a very public funeral and media speculation. They both had a loving and extended family around them to help them. Harry had a very good relationship with his father, with William and Kate until Meghan came on the scene. She changed him and the narrative he spouts today is very different from that which was evident to all at the time.
Grifters indeed all they want money.
He said and I quote"Harry was not happy too"
Totally agree
Would have been interesting to see Piers comments
The one thing Harry isn’t and that is sincere. Dr Mate was completely duped.
Boy you got that right.I would have listened to Harry and tell him to suck it up and grow some balls.
I think Diana passed on her trauma to her younger one! William was the stronger one always. That’s why she called William her soulmate
William hated the interviews Diana did. She had total disregard for William and Harry. She just sought revenge on her ex. He has always expressed she suffered from a mental illness.
That’s a bit creepy.
@@sarikakanwar Yes it is. It feels like a compliment at first to be called your beautiful , smart, beloved Mother 's soulmate. But it's not a great way to grow up. William and I have that in common. I think I might still be able to have a relationship with my brother, so I still hope for these "boys" as well. My brother and I are 54 and 55.
Why did you agree to do it anyway!
The only sensible voice l have ever heard in this Harry and Royal family situation
I know most are here for the Prince Harry bashing (Can't blame the few that find confort in thinking multi millionnaires care about their opinion, whatever if that make you bare your misery) but Dr Maté views on the Israel-Palestinian conflict was so wise and sensitive, hope you invite him again, can you publish that part of the conversation?
Definitely sensitive! what makes you think it was wise?
Harry regrets disconnecting though, that’s why he’s desperate to get back. Either that or he is skint.
I may not care for all the things Harry has done, but I do believe he has childhood trauma. I think his childhood trauma left him open to Meghan Markles manipulation. He is a grown man and will have to come to this realization on his own. I like what dr. Gabor Mate has to say about trauma and healing from trauma. He can’t be held responsible for Harry’s choices.
Just because harry is traumatized doesn't mean he has to live that way... over and over again. He actually has the choice!!❤
…and the click bait possibly derogatory misleading title on Diary of a CEO AND here. FACT - Gabor does not regret his interview with Prince Harry.
I do wish these idiots would stop saying "my truth". It IS NOT your truth - there is only one truth. IT IS YOUR BELIEF - it is what you believe - which still may not be THE TRUTH.
This guy looks like he's been hit by the grave diggers shovel.😂
Love dr Gabor Mate he is absolutely amazing as a doctor but most importantly as a human being with a heart
The book made him a laughing stock and this doctor us laughable now to
But Henry has proven he lied in his book on his interviews and to you
The real question is :can somebody find freedom by cruelly harming others in this freedom process? The fact he cut all links with the family is understandable but why did he have to trash everybody in the family along his process?
Piers, I am so proud of you for listening and giving another pov a chance to speak. I am liberal and I miss you. Before all of this, you were so balanced. I didn't agree with everything you said, but I respected you for speaking your truth. I hate that you're associated with trolls. Please, come home.
What kind of drama did his family pass to him ? Title, Money , Security, Attention … 😢😢😢 BS ! Everybody must challenge difficulties , issues !!! Everybody suffers of lack of love , lack of money , lack of health . Everybody fights against adversity to find job , grow a family , build a home , mourns the tragic death of a parent , a child . But everyone must deal and move on because we haven’t staff to take care and make the thing better for us . When you have nothing to do except to think about you , sure , you always find something wrong : Just two sausages and not three for breakfast ! Just a narrower bedroom , probably just a lack of intelligence . Idleness is mother of all the vices . Wake up Harry ! In this world , children are starving , under 💣… not under full of money 💰 !!!
i give you money but take your mother good deal to yoy?
@@soheilay6778 You don’t know me and don’t know about my grief . Lost my mother at the age of 10 and alone with two brothers one of 6 years and one of 8 months olds. Nobody for taking care . So If you give me money I take the deal . No problem !!!
Very well said and 100% correct. The trouble is he married a snake, who then changed his tiny tiny mind
I actually listening buying the book .
What a beautiful, wise, and humble man.. Thank you, Dr. Maté! ❤❤❤❤
I appreciate the Dr.s’ sincerity.
He is an actor...don't uk??
He thinks Hawwy is humble?
Trying to redeem oneself.......😮....
HARRY LIVE IN A FAMILY WHO DO BELIEVE IN FORGIVENESS THEY DOES WHATEVER THEY WANT AND BELIEVE IT TO BE OK
PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HARRY HURTING HIS FAMILY WHAT ABOUT CHARLES WHO HAD HIS MISTRESS AT HIS WEDDING TREATED HIS WIFE LIKE CRAP FOR THE MISTRESS AND ABANDONED HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FOR THE MISTRESS
DONT U THINK HE SHOULD BE FORGIVEN FOR ALL THE NASTY THINGS HE DID TO HIS FAMILY ESPECIALLY WHEN CHILDREN IS INVOLVE?
WHAT HARRY DID WAS EXPRESS HIS TREATMENT OF HIM AND HIS WIFE BY THE BRF AND THE U PEOPLE THINK HE DID UNTHINKABLE
WHAT HIS FATHER DID TO HIS MOTHER IS FAR WORST THAT ANYTHING HARRY DID OR SAY.
TALKING ABOUT DISLOYALTY TO FAMILY CHARLES HAVE A BETTER STORY THAN HARRY IT ALL STARTED WITH HIM.
MOST OF THE TRAUMA THAT HARRY EXPERIENCED IS BECAUCE HE SAW HOW HIS FATHER MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSED HIS MOTHER.
You can see the difference between Dr Mate and Jordan Peterson
Dr Mate is learning the sharks in his new spotlight
A relationship needs two people. Two people working together, listening and sharing. We can’t put the responsibility of rekindling just on one person. Children need their parents to survive. Children truly inherently love their caretakers and it takes them years to prioritise themselves and realise that their survival no longer depends on their parents. Children will try everything before giving up on their parents. A mother’s love isn’t innate. Not like a child’s love is.
That book made him feel free?
Hurting other people, especially people who love you, cannot be the cost of your "freedom".
Thank you for being so honest Gabor
gabors "his truth" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yea! Gabor means whore in Arabic! His truth indeed
yeah... "his truth", LOL
well, seeing as everyone gets their own "truth", here's mine:
My truth is that Mr Gabor is a charlatan posing as a psychologist who broke countless ethics rules that his profession is supposed to be bound to by doing "therapy" in front of cameras knowing it would be broadcast to millions (not allowed, ever), which anyway was actually a propaganda exercise designed to rehabilitate Harry's appalling reputation. Piers should have asked Gabor about his total lack of ethics and, importantly, how much he was paid. Watching him try to talk his way around that one would have been amusing.
Why are they trying to twist what he is saying to fit the narrative of hate toward Harry😢
Greedy Mator regrets being caught out. We now see him for what he is another money grabbing celebrity....
Just like Harry
Where is the rest of the video where he speaks about Israel palestine issue? Sky news' hypocrisy and obvious biases laid bare and naked here.
What a goof this dude is
I absolutely dislike Harry's wife. But Dr. MATE says it is perfectly. Hopefully the Prince will find himself and go back to his family.
I Love Piers Morgan! This doctor - omg bla bla bla .. . full of bullshit,sorry
The monarchy shouldn't exist. It's gross imho.
All of them around the world? Statistically Democratic monarchys are the best places to live. I don't see any other country with a monarchy complaining. In fact countries like Iran. The people reminisce of the days of the Monarchy. Especially vs the Hellhole republic the find themselves in today.
I think this would be the case for a lot of countries. The grass isn't always greener.
blah!blah!😂😂😂😂😂😂
He has a very shallow perspective about Jews. He thinks Jews in Arab only came from Europe.
Harry has monetised his beef with his father, for that there is no excuse.
Gabor admitted that he regrets the interview being monetised, but he would have known this prior to the interview being released, and I am fairly certain Gabor would have been paid for the interview.
Gabor said that at 38 he made a lot of mistakes, clearly, he is still making dumb mistakes at seventy-nine, it is all well and good to be true to yourself, I think that is important that you are authentic in life, being authentic is very different to being true to your self, being authentic is saying that my word has a price, and that price was lower than he would have liked, which is what I am hearing in this interview.
Your integrity should have no price at the level of money that Harry and Gabor have, alas, neither is authentic or have great integrity, money is more important to them both than doing the right thing, I do accept that both think that being true to themselves is cathartic, but in this life, you have to carry your cross, else chaos and division take hold, life should not be about taking sides.
He has no regrets whatsoever...ik enough about him to know. GM is/was UNethical to tell a stranger in a public interview they've ADHD... unethical and inappropriate. Money and fame has always been his primary goal.
See the family don't want it really when he said trapped UK not bothered if family there are not realky
Stop interrupting Pierce.
I am sorry Gabor you got the history wrong . The jews are not colonisers . I srael is and always has been their historical homeland , on the other had there has never been a palestinian people . The palestinians are actualy jews who converted to islam when the muslims conquered the land of israel.
There is no such thing as historical land, it doesn’t apply to the nations of the world, otherwise there would be wars everywhere. White Americans. Australians would have to return to their historical lands, African Americans too. You name it, where every nation lived 3000 years ago. And why it shoukd be exactly 3000 years ago, not 4000? Palestinians are genetically dependents of Kanonites, who lived in those lands before Jews. And Italians can claim those terrotiries for themselves as well, as there was Roman Empire there 2000 years ago.. and so on…
So this claim says nothing, and it is ridiculous to the people of the world.
Hope you hold the same sentiment for all indigenous ppl. The same sentiment for the Australian aboriginal, American native ppl and the Africans of Africa 😒😒😒
@@annabondaruk4583you are correct.
I love this man he makes so much sense to me
Not to me
Not where Harry is concerned
A lot of rubbish and mumbling blah blah
Is this one of Harry’s therapists?
Depends on the family! Piers revealed himself there. Those who know, know what I mean with the family under all costs and “will someone ever be free or happy” talk. Yikes
Dry Mate is not a psychologist he is family practice. He may be “interested” iin childhood trauma, but he is not a licensed psychologist or psychiatrist nor child therapist.
Thank you, I really like Dr. Mate.
this doctor is a lefty
Left of what? Progressive folks do not exploit others.
Really quite amusing to read the nasty comments about Harry here.
The role of king - whether it's Charles or William - is purely ceremonial and has no real power.
Indeed , the role of the royal family seems to mainly be about making yourself media fodder. Witness what happened to Kate recently. She couldn't even recover from a serious operation without people on social media and in the mainstream media making up horrible stories about her.
She and William weren't treated with any dignity or respect.
You seem to hate Harry because he took some power into his own hands and exercised some control. And exposed to some extent the myth of the royal family. He fought back and the ghouls don't like that.
His mother would have been proud of him!
What about Dr.Mate opinion on Israel? 😂 We want that instead Harry and Meg
Ah, Harry did what he needed to do, He is happy now and still loves his family that lives "abroad"
Reading comments that harry took advantage of his situation to make money out of it, you know that princes are rich. Right? Like genuinely they live in palaces, they have properties, land, gold. Right?
Just saying
Nice, gullible man!
Gabor Mate is the GOAT
So William is not traumatized ou he is the only that respect his family/ father and his role as future King?
'his role as future king '- what a joke. Many of us here in the UK would prefer not to have a king. In any case, it's a ceremonial role with no real power, doesn't mean much in real life.
This so caleed doctor is just like harry full of bs. As if gabo did not know about the book selling.
Felt great to be free, yet on another site he's saying he was made to leave. hawwy causes me trama. Wasn't loveless marrage, those r yr words doc
I love Dr Gabor