How To Be Witty In Conversation

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2021
  • In this video, you'll learn how to be witty in conversation.
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    Today, we're going to about how to be witty and humorous. If you've ever wondered how to be witty and charming and how to be witty and clever, make sure you watch the whole thing.
    You'll discover how to be witty and funny and how to be witty with comebacks. By the end of the video, you'll figure out how to be witty and quick and how to be witty and sarcastic.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 198

  • @noahblevins8007
    @noahblevins8007 2 роки тому +392

    1: stop caring
    2: expand knowledge
    3: create unexpected associations
    4: Prepare for future scenarios
    5: Be in the moment
    6: Confident
    7: Pay attention to how you make people feel
    8: Remember the good jokes
    9: Be courageous
    10: keep it short and sweet

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +19

      I appreciate you summarizing the video!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +13

      Which one was your favourite tip?

    • @noahblevins8007
      @noahblevins8007 Рік тому +3

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery keep it short and sweet

    • @kiloocal8763
      @kiloocal8763 Рік тому +5

      No. 1, 4 and 5 are contradictory.

    • @aaronniehaus2224
      @aaronniehaus2224 Рік тому +4

      @@kiloocal8763 Not necessarily, you can prepare yourself for future conversations while being secure in playing it be ear

  • @jhilmilgil4512
    @jhilmilgil4512 Рік тому +398

    There is this problem that I and many people face and I think this needs to be talk about so badly... We can't seem to come up with a comeback at the moment we need but, when we're out of that situation then all sorts of comebacks, sassy retorts comes flooding in our mind which aren't of any use later on.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +25

      You can always prepare ahead of time!

    • @jhilmilgil4512
      @jhilmilgil4512 Рік тому +7

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery How?

    • @hudakuzai804
      @hudakuzai804 Рік тому +28

      @@jhilmilgil4512 for me I rehearse every scenerio I possibly can get into so when it comes im ready usualy this happens in th shower

    • @choxomoxxo565
      @choxomoxxo565 Рік тому +20

      ​@@jhilmilgil4512 by seeing the future duh

    • @dadical3534
      @dadical3534 Рік тому +3

      ​@@choxomoxxo565 I knew you were gonna say that

  • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
    @YeshuaIsTheTruth 6 місяців тому +60

    "I can assure you, most people would have forgotten you by the time you get home." 😂 Ouch

    • @meepmorp99
      @meepmorp99 5 місяців тому +3

      I find this actually freeing

  • @Gman0440-Gamer
    @Gman0440-Gamer 2 роки тому +70

    Thanks my dude-very analytical and “boring” person here. Thanks for helping me spice up my conversations🙏🏻

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +2

      Happy to help!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +2

      Which tip did you like the most?

    • @Gman0440-Gamer
      @Gman0440-Gamer 2 роки тому +8

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I really liked living in the moment. I feel like generally, I dont have anything funny or clever to say, hopefully this helps ease the pressure and make it easier to say something spontaneous and funny.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +3

      @@Gman0440-Gamer Definitely! Hard to be quick-witted if you're mind is somewhere else.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +1

      @@Gman0440-Gamer You might find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/gD3wMCgmxqw/v-deo.html

  • @ethansmith7693
    @ethansmith7693 Рік тому +26

    Ugh if only if I could think of witty remarks and comebacks in the moment but then think of so many later, when I’m out of the situation 🤦‍♂️

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +5

      What's holding you back? Let's see if we can solve it together here.

    • @Carcroven
      @Carcroven Місяць тому +2

      I’m the same way! When I’m in the moment I have NOTHING, but 60 seconds later I have GOLD!

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 14 днів тому

      Always shower while in a conversation

  • @nathanael_rzf
    @nathanael_rzf Місяць тому +8

    I'll put it there, my e it will help someone
    Some years ago, i realise that i restrected my self too much. Especialy in social situation
    I was very shy boy in class, and i really hated when i got a good joke on my mind and not telling it,
    So one day I decided to improve myself and my social skill, I started work out and most importantly cultivate my wittiness.
    So i read book on make jokes and socializing and watching vidéos too,
    and all of the best tips on making jokes are in this video
    Literaly, Just apply then and you will improve in few months or even weeks
    My best tips is to try to make connection between very opposite things (said in the vidéo)
    And a useful tip is to watch podcast and standups
    Edit: i am the famous Guy on yt comments, Who dont really speaks english ( so be indulgent :)

  • @rohankore3504
    @rohankore3504 9 днів тому +1

    Is this the most important video of my life bcoz this applies to all languages

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому

    Watch this other video to help you become wittier
    👉 How to be quick-witted and funny: ua-cam.com/video/SJVTBa6mz8w/v-deo.html

  • @literallydasein8790
    @literallydasein8790 Рік тому +37

    I'm perplexed by the fact that I've known/thought each and every point in this video before watching it. The real challenge is to really get into and apply them constantly in different life situations.
    This information right here is pure gold fellas. Work your way with it cause it is 100% accurate.

  • @leslierachellepierre
    @leslierachellepierre 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks I learned a lot 😊

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful 2 роки тому +6

    You are awesome-the best teacher I've come across👏👏🤝🤝👊👊🙏🙏 You've literally turned me into James Bond 007.
    I'm subscribing right away.

  • @questionable69
    @questionable69 2 роки тому +10

    This is what I do all the time, and I think it's a good idea 💡 to pull out these things and be suitable for the discussion.

  • @critique4372
    @critique4372 Рік тому +10

    Its kinda crazy how there was a little voice telling me this exact thing deep down this whole time that I was neglecting more than I was embracing. Thank you. Christ bless thee

  • @prayaanshmehta3200
    @prayaanshmehta3200 19 днів тому +1

    (0) stop pressurising self
    (1) acquire more knowlez
    (2) create unexpected associations
    -exercise?
    3:05 (3) do your HW
    -exercise?
    3:50 (4) be present
    4:28 (5) appear more friendly
    5:09 (6) self belief
    5:46 (7) don’t put people down
    -would i like to be on the receiving end of that comment?
    6:36 (8) remember your good jokes
    7:05 (9) take more risks
    7:52 (10) learn from funny people
    8:34 (11) know when to stop

  • @kaylamaddox5082
    @kaylamaddox5082 2 роки тому +43

    Thank you so much! as someone with social anxiety this really helps 🙌🏾

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +1

      You are so welcome Kayla!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +1

      Which tip did you find the most helpful?

    • @dogguyful
      @dogguyful 2 роки тому

      Kayla Maddox oh hello lovely Kayla, me too. But I used hypnosis recordings and absolutely overcame social anxiety. I've made quite a big improvement. They are available in UA-cam. Good luck out there.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa 27 днів тому

      ​what exactly do you think is a good hypnosis recording to improve social anxiety.

  • @timpook
    @timpook 2 роки тому +9

    Thanks for the video. Very helpful!

  • @professional2104
    @professional2104 2 роки тому +10

    I find the tip that has to do with associations very helpful. For example the chair example you mentioned.

  • @danila466
    @danila466 2 роки тому +5

    I really like this video 😍.thanks

  • @zahir1016
    @zahir1016 2 роки тому +1

    Great video man

  • @jFiire
    @jFiire 6 місяців тому +6

    Can anyone recommend books on increasing knowledge? I don't know where to start and learn new things.

  • @bonobostv1250
    @bonobostv1250 Рік тому +7

    Go to work, go home, and play videogames. He just described me, and it makes me think.

  • @sougatabiswas164
    @sougatabiswas164 2 роки тому +8

    I know it's irrelevant, but I can't help staring at your hair,..its just great!

  • @GaryWare
    @GaryWare Місяць тому +1

    This is a great video with actionable insights. A lot of these tips I learned while taking improv classes.

  • @kaizenborntowin
    @kaizenborntowin 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @ITS_R4HUL
    @ITS_R4HUL 10 місяців тому

    I just subscribed your channel after watching 0:20 sec o video 😂

  • @d.o3927
    @d.o3927 Рік тому +1

    Helpful :)

  • @user-tr5qx4bz4p
    @user-tr5qx4bz4p 4 місяці тому

    Please list all time favorite books ideally, not commercially well known 🙏🙏

  • @pankajkushwaha4323
    @pankajkushwaha4323 Рік тому +2

    Great tips bro

  • @aditigupta7105
    @aditigupta7105 4 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou for such good tips.❤

  • @saumitragautam6579
    @saumitragautam6579 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks.

  • @vishalchhabra4004
    @vishalchhabra4004 28 днів тому +1

    This video is gem for someone who understood each and every word correctly

  • @pinkitten1712
    @pinkitten1712 Місяць тому +1

    Really great advice! I love this video and all the. tips. I’m a very boring so i hope this helps me be less bland with conversations

  • @mexonclover5408
    @mexonclover5408 2 роки тому +3

    Love you 🌙🌟💥⚡️

  • @westernartifact4163
    @westernartifact4163 10 місяців тому +7

    One trick is to actually answer questions logically, but in a funny delivery. Sometimes the actual situation sounds funnier than the imagery you can create with said scenario.

  • @user-nl1gz6df7p
    @user-nl1gz6df7p 3 місяці тому +5

    Basically....respectfully be care free and curiously confident...let loose and find you humor.

  • @wojownicza12
    @wojownicza12 20 днів тому +1

    thanks !!

  • @1minutefacts952
    @1minutefacts952 15 днів тому +1

    U r so underrated

  • @hipsnmusic7617
    @hipsnmusic7617 11 місяців тому

    Comebacks😏

  • @bendis9273
    @bendis9273 24 дні тому +1

    This video helped me so muchh

  • @SmileFreestyle-hx2rc
    @SmileFreestyle-hx2rc Рік тому +2

    A good wit is a better self defense than jiu jitsu

  • @daniellennie6544
    @daniellennie6544 Рік тому +1

    Hi, I have been trying to be witty my entire life. I always asked open ended questions, and sometimes this works. But I never get asked any questions from anyone else. I say something to add to the conversation (finally),and the conversation stops cold , noon

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +2

      Being witty comes down to saying something that's unexpected, positive and relatable.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому

      If you're having awkward silences during your interactions, that sounds like a different issue.

  • @user-gk6gz7dn2u
    @user-gk6gz7dn2u 21 день тому

    You look like Tam from the big bang theory

  • @YG-sd1jp
    @YG-sd1jp 18 днів тому +1

    Grass: Weed, Trees, lawnmower, summertime, fun, money, blades, dirt, neighborhood, boogers

  • @mr.v1845
    @mr.v1845 Рік тому +5

    Hey, If someone can write his personal experience after he listen to this video
    I need something to motivate me, and thank you

  • @mitotv6376
    @mitotv6376 Рік тому +1

    Nice

  • @wilma.espiritucrowley
    @wilma.espiritucrowley 2 місяці тому

    I’m generally a funny person and always have inside jokes. I’m one of the funniest in my different circles of friends. But when I moved to the US it seems to have changed and I know some reasons are language barrier and some cultural differences. I’d love to be able to bring that old self back

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 14 днів тому

      People who call themselves funny are generally not funny

    • @_showvoid_2428
      @_showvoid_2428 13 днів тому

      @@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266humor is subjective so he may actually be funny to some.

    • @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266
      @hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 13 днів тому

      @@_showvoid_2428 No shit, that doesn't change what i said

    • @_showvoid_2428
      @_showvoid_2428 13 днів тому

      @@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 It quite literally does dumbass
      “People who call themselves funny are generally not funny”
      Which is false because humor is SUBJECTIVE I can say I’m the funniest man on earth while you think I’m not funny just cause I’m making a statement based on myself, but someone among many people would agree.
      Your statement holds no merit because it’s based on your opinion which is irrelevant because as I said
      HUMOR IS SUBJECTIVE 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @dimitarnikolov7563
    @dimitarnikolov7563 5 місяців тому

    Is this guy reading from a blog ? I found this same info on some blog and its like hes readinng from it

  • @FerreroRashaie
    @FerreroRashaie 8 місяців тому +3

    Herro 🤗 so I'm autistic and have this thing when I experience big mental breakthroughs I also shut down verbally. I get more serious. Loosey humor and have a slower speech along with poor mental recall. I'm here now trying to Relearn how to Mask for society. Because these phases really bring down everyone around me. I say this for education purposes and also as a hidden meaning thank you for making these videos. Also do you have specific advice in not over analyzing the situation?

  • @EstNineteen90
    @EstNineteen90 15 днів тому

    Guys just watch the UK show 'would i lie to you'

  • @jaxxavier4480
    @jaxxavier4480 Місяць тому +2

    If all u do is go to work, go home and play video games… lol bro called me out😂

  • @ajay7665
    @ajay7665 4 місяці тому

    5:10 7:30

  • @madi9016
    @madi9016 Рік тому +1

    how should i get started on research?

  • @Arabiscuits1
    @Arabiscuits1 2 роки тому +2

    Do you do any coaching ?

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому

      Yes I do, what's your email?

    • @kiloocal8763
      @kiloocal8763 Рік тому

      Don't do it man. Just like he said, be carefree. Why would you give a fuck about his coaching.

  • @SlinkHailX
    @SlinkHailX Рік тому +3

    sometimes I feel like I'm a terrible person

  • @Amarthescientist
    @Amarthescientist 23 дні тому +1

    Your face cuts are amazing

  • @Exen88
    @Exen88 12 днів тому

    I must be pretty evil. I’m only watching this so that I can destroy people better with comebacks.

  • @mrmac3971
    @mrmac3971 2 місяці тому

    i also want to be Woody

  • @ryancafferty4973
    @ryancafferty4973 8 місяців тому

    being witty is the opposite of this. it’s knowing you’re fucking armed to the strakes in any conversation and sit there and pray nobody drops a house on them. this level of fast genius… it’s cute. y’all cute.

  • @Dondesku
    @Dondesku 25 днів тому +1

    What to do if you find some ppl really boring?

  • @nicholasstefanoski6308
    @nicholasstefanoski6308 21 день тому

    HI.😀 I have to stop over worry and I am learning something.😐 Goodbye.😀

  • @Aajkashravankumar
    @Aajkashravankumar 25 днів тому +2

    It's natural...you can copy but can't learn

  • @smokenojoke8182
    @smokenojoke8182 2 роки тому +3

    “Can’t just work and play video game” Ight im a head out

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому +1

      It's hard to be creative if you don't do new things, right?

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  2 роки тому

      Out of curiosity, what other hobbies do you have?

    • @smokenojoke8182
      @smokenojoke8182 2 роки тому

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I get it..sarcasm doesn’t translate well through text. What would a sarcasm emoji look like?

  • @fey879
    @fey879 Рік тому +3

    2:30 a chair makes you think of those?
    Geez man I would hate to hear what you think about a banana.

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  Рік тому +2

      You might find it amusing at the very least haha

    • @fey879
      @fey879 Рік тому

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery ohhh cmon I know you meant "we"😉

    • @alexshaji6747
      @alexshaji6747 Рік тому

      A chair and a rope 🥸

  • @Youdidnthearme
    @Youdidnthearme 3 місяці тому +2

    What works for me is when I smoke marijuana I’m very witty

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 місяці тому

      Good for you!

    • @SocialConfidenceMastery
      @SocialConfidenceMastery  3 місяці тому

      How often do you have to do that to be able to banter with others?

    • @Youdidnthearme
      @Youdidnthearme 3 місяці тому

      @@SocialConfidenceMastery I smoke weed invariably

    • @Exen88
      @Exen88 12 днів тому

      Same! It’s like the weed unlock this special conversational chat bot area of my brain. Bro the speed is unmatched! It’s basically instantaneous.

  • @ABC-cw7zv
    @ABC-cw7zv 3 дні тому

    That's seems like a scam. The army will teach you how talk, sing, communicate, analyze, and react. Probably learn a lot of humor from your drill instructor. They're very witty.

  • @parasraina9915
    @parasraina9915 2 роки тому +3

    Rule no 1 : Be an asian

  • @magiktrafik6470
    @magiktrafik6470 Місяць тому +1

    This video is boring not witty at all