I deleted my social media yrs ago. Just more peaceful that way for me. It’s crazy because you have the same EXACT thoughts as me. I started feeling uncomfortable with people having so much access to me.
❤ the transparency! All of influencers seem so desperate for attention! Same apts, same furniture, same bags,shoes and home decor!! Everyone waking up, opening the blinds and making coffee! I’m done. I love cleaning and home decorating décor but authentic. Love how you put your family and friends above all!
YESSSSS! Everyone is wigs and lace fronts, hauls galore and shop with me when they are barely buying anything or doing RETURNS! Yes, I have definitely reduced my viewing of UA-cam vlogs! So repetitive!!!
I couldn’t agree with you more! I have sat in my room scrolling through social media knowing I could be doing something else. Social media gives you so many highs and lows, it does get to your subconscious. Good for you making a step towards what makes you happy and what’s better for you and your family. I deleted my Facebook a long time ago and contemplate on deleting my IG all the time. Thanks for sharing and being real!
Happy for you! You stated what I’ve been saying - everyone is doing the same thing. The influencers are doing whatever possible to sustain their careers because this has become their ONLY way to make a living or because they have other goals that they’re trying to attain. HAPPY for you is an understatement. I’m here for it and salute you for taking a stand for what’s right
You are so right! It seems like every influencer is doing just that and pretty buying the same item. I see how this can be overwhelming....it's a mess just to watch some of the FAKENESS as Amayi stated!
Yes I been feeling like this for months!!! Like I’m just tired of it…social media is super draining now. I literally seek to just go touch some grass & read a book. I literally felt like I had mental overload. Like you said: Too many different emotions and information on the timeline…It’s not good for the human psyche. I feel so much better & I’ve gotten back to my LIFE!!! I realized how much energy I placed in it & how distracted I was😭😭😭
This was just confirmation for me. Things are changing and the world is getting crazier so our mental health and time is priority. I just got back in a good head space and was thinking I need to get rid of my social media accounts. Thank you for saying everything I have been feeling.
I watch you because you are real. I understand how hard it is to be a full time mommy and working a full time job, and then trying to post. I follow you on the gram as well and I don’t have any pictures and I hardly post. I took myself off of Facebook years ago. But you are correct about social media!
I deleted mine for a year and half. I felt the same way. I was gaining a lot of followers but I don’t know these people. I feel so happy and calm now not posting anything. I totally understand. Keep up the good job.
Everything you are saying is so true. I just asked myself yesterday do content makers have a schedule to follow everybody is doing the same thing and yes I agree with you 100% it's not even Fall/Autumn yet😂😂 I am over here awaiting for patio furniture to go on clearance.
You have to do what’s best for you and your family but I’m so glad you didn’t get off UA-cam as well, I really look forward to Wednesday’s and Sunday’s. You have a beautiful home and family and your style is immaculate!🙏🏾
Girl I am not a content provider nor am I an influencer. I'm just a regular mom, grandma, wife, school teacher, small business owner. But this last week, I realised; social media is taking up ALL of the little spare time I have!!! So, I am going to take a break.. mama needs to re-focus!!!!! I say this to say, I can only imag what it must be like for you. You're doing the RIGHT THING FOR YOU AND YOURS! 👑💕
This is refreshing to hear. I am 60 years old and lived a lot of life before social media. Don't add stress and strife to your life doing UA-cam, Instagram, TicToc or anything else. Put that energy into your husband and beautiful children. Time moves quickly, before you know you'll be an empty nester like me and my husband. The internet is evolving.....this too shall pass.
Listen!! Your words have spoken straight truth to me!! I’ve been content creating for 5 years, with the last 2 years being full time. I’ve been burnt out and have been toying with the thought of letting it go. The anxiety you speak of I’m currently going through and don’t feel it’s worth it. Kudos to you sis that you were able to make that decision and stand on it!!!❤
Sis……….. this is why I stopped my UA-cam you hit so many points! I get it I really get it! Crazy but your page brings me joy ….. I needed my privacy and my presence. I am thinking about coming back maybe once a month but whew I get it! You can’t leave us on UA-cam I loooooove your family!
Bravo for taking a stand to get off social media and prioritize yourself and family. Love all your content on UA-cam and appreciate you sharing it with the AP Gang!
I agree 100% I going to take a break from watching. I was never one to watch social media. I had to retire last year to take care of my mom and it has become my outlet. But it does mess with your mind. I’m constantly comparing myself saying things like I wish I could travel I wish I could just go out to lunch or dinner whenever I want. This was confirmation that it’s time for me to take a break. Thank you. PS I absolutely love your house and all your decor.
Finally a content creator who is sincerely honest and transparent when it comes to the social media world . I agree with EVERYTHING you said - life is staged and everyone is doing the same thing ! Like nothing is original or even authentic! It’s sooooo time consuming as well . I appreciate you more than you know for saying this !
You are so right. Social media is messing with people’s mental wellbeing. I limit myself and what I watch now. Every thing is so fake and people are not seeing it.
Oh I get. Now, alot of these influencers wouldn't even buy have of the stuff they get sponsored for. How can you say $400.00 is a good price for a pot set or vacuum but yet you're in Homegoods shopping the clearance sections. Just seems fake to me. Also, funny how people drink so much coffee now, use storage containers in their frig, attend wine tastings, burn candles and set up charcuterie boards. The average person doesn't do this. Like Amayi mentioned....when you have a family and work a REAL 9 to 5...this fakeness is not doable! Amayi, THANKS FOR KEEPING IT REAL!
Kudos to you mama! 👏🏽 You are so right! Everything is starting to look the same and it's so boring & fake lol. That's why I love your channel because you are REAL! I'm not a fan of social media & can't wait to delete it but unfortunately I can't just yet because of something in the works. And it's so crazy that people make you feel like it's something wrong with you if you choose not to do social media. Yay to you for doing what's best for YOU!
I deleted Twitter just yesterday it was becoming too much, Instagram I still have, but have little engagement b/c i was wasting too much time on there too, but it may be next. Glad you are staying on YT b/c I love your content. Can’t wait for the future content❤️
I understand the feeling of deleting social media from your platforms because it’s too much dealing with the negative comments and just being overwhelmed. Watching your videos really lifts me up because I love you sharing your videos with home decor, cleaning and family. Watching your home decor videos are such an inspiration to me because you provide many ideas of how I want to decorate my house when I move. There’s a lot I would love to say, but take your time out for yourself and your family. We’re here for you regardless. Your channel plays an important part in my mental state to be honest. Love you 🥰 ❤
Influencers plagiarize each other’s content and I am just over it too. I only watch UA-cam not social media platforms so you’re not alone! Blessings my Beloved!!
Glad you said it. I feel like I can be the most authentic on UA-cam. And omg this whole decorating for seasons way early it’s ridiculous in my opinion but here I go at my own pace. IG isn’t as fun anymore and so now I post when I want and if I don’t post it is what it is. I think I’ll eventually delete them for good too
And this is the reason why I watch your UA-cam channel. You are more relatable as a grown women with a husband and family….just being you sets you apart 💞
Thank you Amayi! You are the only UA-camr that has been truthful, down to the T. I myself said was seeing the same thing as a viewer. I asked myself what is so creative about a UA-camr if they all act like the Stepford wives. Everybody look the same, act the same and say the same thing. It’s like they got caught up in the algorithm, lost in the computer. It’s so bad that I’m not having much interest in watching UA-cam as I have before. UA-camrs suppose to be unique and different. I’m glad you woke up to the madness and not get caught up in zombie world.
You are so real for this!!!!! This is exactly how I felt when I once considered content creating and “influencing”. We are ppl at the end of the day, not machines or “things” and not wanting ppl to have access to you and your life all the time is valid ! ❤
Totally feel you on not wanting to be seen by everyone I'm currently on a social media fast for this very reason. We are in a crazy time right now and its a huge distraction
I’ve never had Facebook, Instagram, none of it. I’m very private & whatever I buy to wear people will see it on me instead of me showing it off on social media
Im planning to delete social media as well because especially for us who arent content creators, you can start trying to compare your life even though a lot of it is “fake”/curated.
When I tell you this video was total confirmation for me, WOW! I have a small UA-cam channel that I'm currently trying to continue to grow. I also work a 9-5. I didn’t realize how hard editing & filming would be! I have been going back & forth with getting on Tik Tok & Instagram. But for some reason, my heart was telling me NOPE, stick with UA-cam. I really appreciate you being open & honest about being on multiple platforms. Blessings!
Thanks for being so open and honest. I love all your content so keep doing you. So if you ever need a break from UA-cam just know we will be here when you decide to come back.
You are so correct! I have taken a break several times in a year. IG used to be fun but looking at most content people are posting the same thing everyday.
Hi Lisa here, I'm a baby when it comes to social media. I was just talking to my sister about it tonight. I'm in my mid 40's and still trying to figure it out. That's all young people know, nowadays and this society. They make me feel so old. Amayi, I love your content and I love how real you are, I'll miss you on Instagram, but I'm glad I'll get to socialize with you here on UA-cam. Thanks for the motivational and inspirational videos. Keep them coming, lol. Sometimes I laugh sometimes I cry, you do that thank you. May the grace of God continue to bless you and your family ❤
Thanks for always being so open and honest with your message. I hope that you find that peace and balance that so many of us working moms with creative outlets are looking for. I remember the days when social media really was fun and it has really evolved. I watched that documentary Social Media Dilemma it was sobering to see how many negative effects these platforms have and the psychological tactics these companies use to keep us “hooked”. See you on Wednesday and as always wishing you and the fam the very best!! - Ash
Yes...Thanks Amayi for speaking the truth! Some of these creators gotta post these copy cat videos bc this is their only job and they gotta post something. Every day, a new creator hit my UA-cam page. Just think....it's overwhelming for the watchers to watch videos of hauls, clean with me, table scapes, dyi's, early holiday decor every season, make up, nails, fake gym workouts, sponsorships, outfits of the day. Hell, i have definitely limited my time on UA-cam bc I'm tired of seeing the same thing!
Omg, love the story behind it. It's crazy how as you mentioned, folks will watch your every move but never like or comment to support, but make sure to see what you posted and where you and your husband went. Story of my life, I never get any other support but the moment I'm out with my family or husband and I don't post my location it's a DM to ask how much was that and etc. I watch all of your content and like your videos, I just don't always comment, and I'm working on that. Thanks for sharing your reason...
Thank you for sharing. I definitely understand. I get very frustrated with social media and the fakeness of it. I enjoy your UA-cam and look forward to more. Take care!
I agree with you sis. I often take breaks from posting on IG because it becomes too much. Most of my videos are views of my home without me being seen. I don't have time to always get dressed and make sure my hair is good and all of that. It's a lot of pressure but making batch content and a schedule has helped me out alot. I'm going to miss you over there but a least I'll still get to see you here.
I understand completely I feel the exact same way that’s why I don’t have it and plan on keeping it that way protecting my peace is most important more than opinions online ..so happy for you Amayi 🧡
I soooo appreciate your transparency. I often look @ some vlogs/ videos & say… “ this is so fake”.. too staged.. people stressing out bcuz as u said.. trying to be sooo perfect & we all know life is NOT that perfect everyday. Keep being real sista.
I love it! I started to feel like that about facebook over 2 years ago. I can’t do it. I have not missed it once. I love UA-cam. It’s my new TV because like you said. “I get to control what I consume”. I get it.💕 Thank you for your truth. Praying for you!
Yes!!!!!!! I have been feeling this way for a very long time. Just the overwhelming emotions you can experience in a short amount of time brings so much depression and anxiety.
I completely agree! I was over social media in my late 20s (now 42). Unfortunately, as a Blogger (with a website), brands usually want a written blog post along with social media posts, and that's the only reason why I have them. But I just do my required posts and hop RIGHT off. Haven't posted anything personal in years. I don't have time for the address stress and need for validation that it seems to cause. 😫
Such a smart decision!! You're so correct, it does mess with moods/thoughts/family time etc. I had a huge UA-camr prankster filmed me at my job, it went viral and now I have an imaged broadcast all over social media and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it!! People are ruthless with their opinions...lol. Protect your peace 💕🌷
Thank you for being honest and expressing your feelings. I don’t have social media and I feel perfectly fine. I watch UA-cam and I’m perfectly fine. So im so happy for you 🎉
This was a much needed video to see you be able to just delete your social media accounts is just so motivating ❤ that you’re not following the trends and just being true to yourself. And prioritizing yourself and your family . I did enjoy your content on instagram. But I’ll continue to support your channel you’re positive and very motivating ❤❤ you girl.
You do you! I never had Facebook I have Instagram never posted anything on there. Do what makes you happy. Feeling anxious and overwhelmed is not a good feeling, and for what? Being present in your family life is way more important. I give you credit and I totally get why you did it. I’m glad you made the right choice for you.
Just got to watching you after wanting to redo my living room....and your video poped up.....absolutely beautiful. You helped me decide, and be confident on the choices I finally made. Thank you. Appreciate your honesty in this video. Looking forward to my continued weekly fix on youtube.
YES YES YES YES!!!! I had the same break through in the beginning of this year. I didn’t delete my pages, but I am barely on social media. It’s to the point where someone will have to tell me to look on there because they sent me an invite or they want to show me something. My breaking point is when my daughter kept asking me a question and I kept telling her to wait….. I had to look at myself like, “did I really just tell my child to wait because of this crap?” Right then and there I went cold turkey for months and it feels soooo good!!! I’m proud of you because there are a lot of people who don’t realize how much it effects your personal life and mental health. Don’t delete your UA-cam though sis. This is like my weekly night tv show 😂😂😂
Yes Yes Yes to all of this!!! I completely agree. I deleted all but 5 of my pictures in December and haven’t posted since for the exact reasons you listed. I only get on now to chat with girlfriends from time to time. I stopped using Facebook years ago. I’ve been so much more peaceful and productive!
Your exactly right!!! Everyone is copying and pasting ideas on SM and sometimes it becomes so repetitive to watch. SM is soo time consuming and I’m not a content creator 😅 so I could only imagine. TY for being so honest love your home btw😊
Thank you for being honest i love watching your content,I have been feeling the same way about Instagram I truly love just posting and making content for UA-cam ✨
You are absolutely right. Your family is your top priority. Time flies and before you know it they will be in college and have families of their own. My youngest daughter is 16 going on 17 and I came to the conclusion a few years ago that my family is my top priority. I still take time for myself but if I have to choose between them and others they will always win! I don't really know you but you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders as the elders say lol. And you seem real. Even though I am much older than you we are both Moms who wants what is best for the family. I think you made a good decision and I look forward to seeing more of UA-cam videos. Thanks for sharing 🥰💖
I’m happy for you. I don’t do a lot of commenting because I just don’t. I love your videos and the way you interact with your family…mainly your daughter. She’s your ride or die when it comes to being present on the video😊. But keep doing you and be your authentic self love ❤❤
I deleted my social media yrs ago. Just more peaceful that way for me. It’s crazy because you have the same EXACT thoughts as me. I started feeling uncomfortable with people having so much access to me.
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Same
Same! I deleted my instagram 6 months ago and have never looked back.
Same.
❤ the transparency! All of influencers seem so desperate for attention! Same apts, same furniture, same bags,shoes and home decor!! Everyone waking up, opening the blinds and making coffee! I’m done. I love cleaning and home decorating décor but authentic. Love how you put your family and friends above all!
YESSSSS! Everyone is wigs and lace fronts, hauls galore and shop with me when they are barely buying anything or doing RETURNS! Yes, I have definitely reduced my viewing of UA-cam vlogs! So repetitive!!!
Thank you for being so honest. You're prioritizing your family and being authentic. Good for you Amayi
I stopped being on social media years ago, not only is it emotionally draining it's also time consuming and it's too much.
I couldn’t agree with you more! I have sat in my room scrolling through social media knowing I could be doing something else. Social media gives you so many highs and lows, it does get to your subconscious. Good for you making a step towards what makes you happy and what’s better for you and your family. I deleted my Facebook a long time ago and contemplate on deleting my IG all the time. Thanks for sharing and being real!
Happy for you! You stated what I’ve been saying - everyone is doing the same thing. The influencers are doing whatever possible to sustain their careers because this has become their ONLY way to make a living or because they have other goals that they’re trying to attain. HAPPY for you is an understatement. I’m here for it and salute you for taking a stand for what’s right
You are so right! It seems like every influencer is doing just that and pretty buying the same item. I see how this can be overwhelming....it's a mess just to watch some of the FAKENESS as Amayi stated!
Yes I been feeling like this for months!!! Like I’m just tired of it…social media is super draining now. I literally seek to just go touch some grass & read a book. I literally felt like I had mental overload. Like you said: Too many different emotions and information on the timeline…It’s not good for the human psyche. I feel so much better & I’ve gotten back to my LIFE!!! I realized how much energy I placed in it & how distracted I was😭😭😭
I deleted my IG, Facebook , LinkedIn and Twitter. I’m done and got so much clarity and rest.
@@Summer_li53 Same!!!😮💨I can finally see and enjoy my real life and I ain’t goin’ back😭 #thematrix
I appreciate your honesty and realness. Social media has gotten to be so toxic. I don’t blame you at all.
This was just confirmation for me. Things are changing and the world is getting crazier so our mental health and time is priority. I just got back in a good head space and was thinking I need to get rid of my social media accounts. Thank you for saying everything I have been feeling.
I watch you because you are real. I understand how hard it is to be a full time mommy and working a full time job, and then trying to post. I follow you on the gram as well and I don’t have any pictures and I hardly post. I took myself off of Facebook years ago. But you are correct about social media!
I deleted mine for a year and half. I felt the same way. I was gaining a lot of followers but I don’t know these people. I feel so happy and calm now not posting anything. I totally understand. Keep up the good job.
Dropping truth bombs.
Well said and the truth.
Thank you for being honest and keeping it real.
Putting on our faces, puttn flowers in our vases. Guuuuurl I love you😂
Everything you are saying is so true. I just asked myself yesterday do content makers have a schedule to follow everybody is doing the same thing and yes I agree with you 100% it's not even Fall/Autumn yet😂😂 I am over here awaiting for patio furniture to go on clearance.
You have to do what’s best for you and your family but I’m so glad you didn’t get off UA-cam as well, I really look forward to Wednesday’s and Sunday’s. You have a beautiful home and family and your style is immaculate!🙏🏾
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Girl I am not a content provider nor am I an influencer. I'm just a regular mom, grandma, wife, school teacher, small business owner. But this last week, I realised; social media is taking up ALL of the little spare time I have!!! So, I am going to take a break.. mama needs to re-focus!!!!! I say this to say, I can only imag what it must be like for you. You're doing the RIGHT THING FOR YOU AND YOURS! 👑💕
This is refreshing to hear. I am 60 years old and lived a lot of life before social media. Don't add stress and strife to your life doing UA-cam, Instagram, TicToc or anything else. Put that energy into your husband and beautiful children. Time moves quickly, before you know you'll be an empty nester like me and my husband. The internet is evolving.....this too shall pass.
Listen!! Your words have spoken straight truth to me!! I’ve been content creating for 5 years, with the last 2 years being full time. I’ve been burnt out and have been toying with the thought of letting it go. The anxiety you speak of I’m currently going through and don’t feel it’s worth it. Kudos to you sis that you were able to make that decision and stand on it!!!❤
Sis……….. this is why I stopped my UA-cam you hit so many points! I get it I really get it! Crazy but your page brings me joy ….. I needed my privacy and my presence. I am thinking about coming back maybe once a month but whew I get it! You can’t leave us on UA-cam I loooooove your family!
We are definitely here with you Love!!!! Many Blessings to you and yours!!!! Wishing you so much success Beautiful!!!! ❤❤❤
Family and self preservation first. Your spirit knows exactly what it needs. And girl you’re looking amazing.
Thanks for this video! I’m glad you didn’t delete UA-cam! Stay blessed
Bravo for taking a stand to get off social media and prioritize yourself and family. Love all your content on UA-cam and appreciate you sharing it with the AP Gang!
I agree 100% I going to take a break from watching. I was never one to watch social media. I had to retire last year to take care of my mom and it has become my outlet. But it does mess with your mind. I’m constantly comparing myself saying things like I wish I could travel I wish I could just go out to lunch or dinner whenever I want. This was confirmation that it’s time for me to take a break. Thank you. PS I absolutely love your house and all your decor.
Finally a content creator who is sincerely honest and transparent when it comes to the social media world . I agree with EVERYTHING you said - life is staged and everyone is doing the same thing ! Like nothing is original or even authentic! It’s sooooo time consuming as well . I appreciate you more than you know for saying this !
You are so right. Social media is messing with people’s mental wellbeing. I limit myself and what I watch now. Every thing is so fake and people are not seeing it.
Oh I get. Now, alot of these influencers wouldn't even buy have of the stuff they get sponsored for. How can you say $400.00 is a good price for a pot set or vacuum but yet you're in Homegoods shopping the clearance sections. Just seems fake to me. Also, funny how people drink so much coffee now, use storage containers in their frig, attend wine tastings, burn candles and set up charcuterie boards. The average person doesn't do this. Like Amayi mentioned....when you have a family and work a REAL 9 to 5...this fakeness is not doable! Amayi, THANKS FOR KEEPING IT REAL!
Kudos to you mama! 👏🏽 You are so right! Everything is starting to look the same and it's so boring & fake lol. That's why I love your channel because you are REAL! I'm not a fan of social media & can't wait to delete it but unfortunately I can't just yet because of something in the works. And it's so crazy that people make you feel like it's something wrong with you if you choose not to do social media. Yay to you for doing what's best for YOU!
I deleted Twitter just yesterday it was becoming too much, Instagram I still have, but have little engagement b/c i was wasting too much time on there too, but it may be next. Glad you are staying on YT b/c I love your content. Can’t wait for the future content❤️
I understand the feeling of deleting social media from your platforms because it’s too much dealing with the negative comments and just being overwhelmed. Watching your videos really lifts me up because I love you sharing your videos with home decor, cleaning and family. Watching your home decor videos are such an inspiration to me because you provide many ideas of how I want to decorate my house when I move. There’s a lot I would love to say, but take your time out for yourself and your family. We’re here for you regardless. Your channel plays an important part in my mental state to be honest. Love you 🥰 ❤
Influencers plagiarize each other’s content and I am just over it too. I only watch UA-cam not social media platforms so you’re not alone! Blessings my Beloved!!
Glad you said it. I feel like I can be the most authentic on UA-cam. And omg this whole decorating for seasons way early it’s ridiculous in my opinion but here I go at my own pace. IG isn’t as fun anymore and so now I post when I want and if I don’t post it is what it is. I think I’ll eventually delete them for good too
And this is the reason why I watch your UA-cam channel. You are more relatable as a grown women with a husband and family….just being you sets you apart 💞
Thank you Amayi! You are the only UA-camr that has been truthful, down to the T. I myself said was seeing the same thing as a viewer. I asked myself what is so creative about a UA-camr if they all act like the Stepford wives. Everybody look the same, act the same and say the same thing. It’s like they got caught up in the algorithm, lost in the computer. It’s so bad that I’m not having much interest in watching UA-cam as I have before. UA-camrs suppose to be unique and different. I’m glad you woke up to the madness and not get caught up in zombie world.
You are so real for this!!!!! This is exactly how I felt when I once considered content creating and “influencing”. We are ppl at the end of the day, not machines or “things” and not wanting ppl to have access to you and your life all the time is valid ! ❤
I’m glad that you are listening to your self and, and do what is best for you and your mental health!
So happy for you. Taking a break is so necessary!!
Totally feel you on not wanting to be seen by everyone I'm currently on a social media fast for this very reason. We are in a crazy time right now and its a huge distraction
You are the REAL DEAL❤
I’ve never had Facebook, Instagram, none of it. I’m very private & whatever I buy to wear people will see it on me instead of me showing it off on social media
I totally agree with you. Social media will have you on an emotional roller coaster. It’s a black hole.
I’ve already detached from FB. Next up IG.
I turned off my notifications because I felt consumed by social media as well. Proud of you for having the courage to take action.
Thank you so much sis 💕
Happy you made the best choice for you and your family. I’m also happy your UA-cam wasn’t deleted .
Stay true to who you are & those who are true to you will continue to rock with you…
Im planning to delete social media as well because especially for us who arent content creators, you can start trying to compare your life even though a lot of it is “fake”/curated.
When I tell you this video was total confirmation for me, WOW! I have a small UA-cam channel that I'm currently trying to continue to grow. I also work a 9-5. I didn’t realize how hard editing & filming would be! I have been going back & forth with getting on Tik Tok & Instagram. But for some reason, my heart was telling me NOPE, stick with UA-cam.
I really appreciate you being open & honest about being on multiple platforms. Blessings!
Thanks for being so open and honest. I love all your content so keep doing you. So if you ever need a break from UA-cam just know we will be here when you decide to come back.
You are so correct! I have taken a break several times in a year. IG used to be fun but looking at most content people are posting the same thing everyday.
Hi Lisa here, I'm a baby when it comes to social media. I was just talking to my sister about it tonight. I'm in my mid 40's and still trying to figure it out. That's all young people know, nowadays and this society. They make me feel so old. Amayi, I love your content and I love how real you are, I'll miss you on Instagram, but I'm glad I'll get to socialize with you here on UA-cam. Thanks for the motivational and inspirational videos. Keep them coming, lol. Sometimes I laugh sometimes I cry, you do that thank you. May the grace of God continue to bless you and your family ❤
I Agree it becomes too much & rushing thru all of the Holidays.
I feel like social media is draining. Especially if you care about what people think.
Happy to see you're doing what's best for you and your family. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ALL. 🙏🏾
I think that’s what made you different right there. Focusing and growing on ONE platform. How it all started.
I was wondering where my boo go! Okay I’m glad you are okay! I totally understand I definitely take a break sometimes
Thanks for always being so open and honest with your message. I hope that you find that peace and balance that so many of us working moms with creative outlets are looking for. I remember the days when social media really was fun and it has really evolved. I watched that documentary Social Media Dilemma it was sobering to see how many negative effects these platforms have and the psychological tactics these companies use to keep us “hooked”. See you on Wednesday and as always wishing you and the fam the very best!! - Ash
Yes...Thanks Amayi for speaking the truth! Some of these creators gotta post these copy cat videos bc this is their only job and they gotta post something. Every day, a new creator hit my UA-cam page. Just think....it's overwhelming for the watchers to watch videos of hauls, clean with me, table scapes, dyi's, early holiday decor every season, make up, nails, fake gym workouts, sponsorships, outfits of the day. Hell, i have definitely limited my time on UA-cam bc I'm tired of seeing the same thing!
What a word, thank you for your transparency & prioritizing what serves you!
Omg, love the story behind it. It's crazy how as you mentioned, folks will watch your every move but never like or comment to support, but make sure to see what you posted and where you and your husband went. Story of my life, I never get any other support but the moment I'm out with my family or husband and I don't post my location it's a DM to ask how much was that and etc. I watch all of your content and like your videos, I just don't always comment, and I'm working on that. Thanks for sharing your reason...
Thank you for sharing. I definitely understand. I get very frustrated with social media and the fakeness of it. I enjoy your UA-cam and look forward to more. Take care!
Thank you for sharing. I just purged as well. Didn’t realize how much time I was spending in scrolling while life is passing by.
Put this on a PSA girl! I feel like all of the prepping for reels and posts gives very staged and disingenuous, i totally get it
I agree with you sis. I often take breaks from posting on IG because it becomes too much. Most of my videos are views of my home without me being seen. I don't have time to always get dressed and make sure my hair is good and all of that. It's a lot of pressure but making batch content and a schedule has helped me out alot. I'm going to miss you over there but a least I'll still get to see you here.
That's right sweetie, protect your peace! Great decision!
I agree with you putting you and your family first is the ONLY thing that matters. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you for sharing! Social media is a bad distraction. I agree with you 100% on everything you discussed in this video.
I understand completely I feel the exact same way that’s why I don’t have it and plan on keeping it that way protecting my peace is most important more than opinions online ..so happy for you Amayi 🧡
I soooo appreciate your transparency. I often look @ some vlogs/ videos & say… “ this is so fake”.. too staged.. people stressing out bcuz as u said.. trying to be sooo perfect & we all know life is NOT that perfect everyday. Keep being real sista.
Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your truth. Here to support
I love it! I started to feel like that about facebook over 2 years ago. I can’t do it. I have not missed it once. I love UA-cam. It’s my new TV because like you said. “I get to control what I consume”. I get it.💕 Thank you for your truth. Praying for you!
Yes!!!!!!! I have been feeling this way for a very long time. Just the overwhelming emotions you can experience in a short amount of time brings so much depression and anxiety.
I don’t normally comment, I love what you are doing, beautiful home and family. But your peace of mind comes first. ❤
I applaude you for this, Amayi! Taking control of your time and priorities is commendable. So much respect for you, girl.
I completely agree! I was over social media in my late 20s (now 42). Unfortunately, as a Blogger (with a website), brands usually want a written blog post along with social media posts, and that's the only reason why I have them. But I just do my required posts and hop RIGHT off. Haven't posted anything personal in years. I don't have time for the address stress and need for validation that it seems to cause. 😫
Such a smart decision!! You're so correct, it does mess with moods/thoughts/family time etc. I had a huge UA-camr prankster filmed me at my job, it went viral and now I have an imaged broadcast all over social media and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it!! People are ruthless with their opinions...lol. Protect your peace 💕🌷
I am glad you chose your mental health and family first before social media. I see a lot of family fall apart due to social media.
The truth! 🙏🏾❤️ proud of you!
You are so right, and it's quite time consuming.
💯 good for you hon 👏🏾
Road to 20k 🎉
Thank you for being honest and expressing your feelings. I don’t have social media and I feel perfectly fine. I watch UA-cam and I’m perfectly fine. So im so happy for you 🎉
This was a much needed video to see you be able to just delete your social media accounts is just so motivating ❤ that you’re not following the trends and just being true to yourself. And prioritizing yourself and your family . I did enjoy your content on instagram. But I’ll continue to support your channel you’re positive and very motivating ❤❤ you girl.
You do you! I never had Facebook I have Instagram never posted anything on there. Do what makes you happy. Feeling anxious and overwhelmed is not a good feeling, and for what? Being present in your family life is way more important. I give you credit and I totally get why you did it. I’m glad you made the right choice for you.
Just got to watching you after wanting to redo my living room....and your video poped up.....absolutely beautiful. You helped me decide, and be confident on the choices I finally made. Thank you. Appreciate your honesty in this video. Looking forward to my continued weekly fix on youtube.
YES YES YES YES!!!! I had the same break through in the beginning of this year. I didn’t delete my pages, but I am barely on social media. It’s to the point where someone will have to tell me to look on there because they sent me an invite or they want to show me something. My breaking point is when my daughter kept asking me a question and I kept telling her to wait….. I had to look at myself like, “did I really just tell my child to wait because of this crap?” Right then and there I went cold turkey for months and it feels soooo good!!! I’m proud of you because there are a lot of people who don’t realize how much it effects your personal life and mental health. Don’t delete your UA-cam though sis. This is like my weekly night tv show 😂😂😂
I love your transparency! Do what is best for you and your household.
👏🏽 Good for you! Not all people recognize the more important things in their life.
Yes Yes Yes to all of this!!! I completely agree. I deleted all but 5 of my pictures in December and haven’t posted since for the exact reasons you listed. I only get on now to chat with girlfriends from time to time. I stopped using Facebook years ago. I’ve been so much more peaceful and productive!
Balance and accountability is real deal!
Your exactly right!!! Everyone is copying and pasting ideas on SM and sometimes it becomes so repetitive to watch. SM is soo time consuming and I’m not a content creator 😅 so I could only imagine. TY for being so honest love your home btw😊
Friend. Do You!!! Family first , I’m here for you on this decor journey. You inspire me with the Authentic vibes you send!!!!
I applaud u for making your decision. You have to do what's best for you and your family. ❤
Good for you ! I don’t know how you guys do it ,enjoy your family … Less stress is so much better for you ❤❤❤
👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 Supporting your decision 💯 percent.
So proud of you Mayi - keep doing you baby!! In the end, the content creators that are real will be the ones who last!! Have a wonderful weekend Suga
100% agree with everything you said. Do what’s best for you first.
Good for you! I’m happy you chose yourself. 👍🏽
Thank you for being honest i love watching your content,I have been feeling the same way about Instagram I truly love just posting and making content for UA-cam ✨
I totally agree. Good for you prioritizing your family and your mental health. ❤
I totally agree do what brings you peace. You know I’ll go missing from UA-cam and instagram if I need to 😂so no explanation needed I get it
You are absolutely right. Your family is your top priority. Time flies and before you know it they will be in college and have families of their own. My youngest daughter is 16 going on 17 and I came to the conclusion a few years ago that my family is my top priority. I still take time for myself but if I have to choose between them and others they will always win! I don't really know you but you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders as the elders say lol. And you seem real. Even though I am much older than you we are both Moms who wants what is best for the family. I think you made a good decision and I look forward to seeing more of UA-cam videos. Thanks for sharing 🥰💖
I’m happy for you. I don’t do a lot of commenting because I just don’t. I love your videos and the way you interact with your family…mainly your daughter. She’s your ride or die when it comes to being present on the video😊. But keep doing you and be your authentic self love ❤❤