Naomi Judd death: Daughter Ashley Judd opens up about losing mother to 'disease of mental illness'
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- Опубліковано 11 тра 2022
- On April 30, the actress took to Instagram to share the tragic news that her mother, Naomi Judd, one half of the Grammy-winning duo, The Judds, was lost "to the disease of mental illness." Naomi Judd died just one day before her induction into the Country Music Hall of Fame. MORE: abc7.com/naomi-judd-death-ash...
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"To make the distinction between our loved one and the disease" SOME OF THE MOST PROFOUND WORDS EVER SPOKEN ON THE SUBJECT!!!!!
I'm glad you pointed this out. We are not our depression. For example sometimes I just want to hide away. That's the depression controlling me. Some people may call me antisocial but in reality I love being with and around people.
@Abby- very true!
The same is relative to any disease.
I found myself telling my family this when my Dad was going through dementia.
Amen, Abby.
@@Yellow-Rose Yes. This is very hard -- really impossible -- for most to understand. It is not in their experience, but they *think* it is, so it gets minimized. I would ask only that people understand that they do not understand, know that they cannot know, and respect what is unknowable to them.
@@nspector as someone who hasn't gone through it. It must be awful if someone would want to take their own life when they have so much to live for.
I love how Diane Sawyer didn't say a word, and just hugged Ashley. Beautiful. Prayers go out to the Judd family. 😥😥
My mom just committed suicide on Monday July 25th 2022 by a self inflicted gun shot at the age of 75 and I had distanced myself for my mental and health safety! I blame myself for her suicide but I realized yesterday that it hit me so hard I could hardly breathe!! I’m devastated!! Please pray for our family as we also walk this horrible road .. Thank you 🙏🏻
Prayers and hugs blessings and love for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Prayers and hugs blessings and love for you and your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Condolences on your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
God bless all with peace, love, health, safety, prosperity and protection!
My God, the pain in her voice is heartbreaking. I cannot imagine having to share on camera something so private. Good for her for trying to reach out to help others at such a painful time.
she didn’t HAVE TOO
@@livinginthemitten160 respectfully, a gentle reminder, she felt she had to, to get in front of the gossip mill, in a way, simply a daughter shielding her mother's dignity. I would've done the same ... I don't envy celebrities at all in these matters, my heart goes out to the sisters.
@@kellythomas5596 n n n n1
@@livinginthemitten160 Of course she did, and she explained why. The gossip machine would have told it "their way" had she not been proactive.
Shes the one that found her thats even more devastating
As someone with anxiety and depression… the way Ashley describes mental illness is completely true. All love to Naomi and the Judd family ❤️
Depression is spiritual suffering. From my own experience. But caused by humanity, not God.
@@maplecosy9429 I want to agree for the most part but mental illness is also passed on to generation after generation in the same families and God made humanity.
I agree with you
@@maplecosy9429 agreed. I don't recognize that i am depressed, but I plan my own death often. I have been forced to hold off a few times, but I know that I will end up taking my own life. It gives me peace to know that I can end this nonsense whenever I get too tired of it all. I don't want anyone to eventually misunderstand my motives....I am content.
@@leanie5234 that's so hard to hear.... suicide is such a horrible way to die....I lost my best friend to it ....and there's no closure......
"She drank me in", she said of when her mother would see and hold her. Now that is how I want my babies to describe how I looked at them when I'm old. Beautiful.
That part got me
@@lindzriddb Me too because it reminded me of my mom and how I miss that so much.
Aww 🥰 they will ❤️
They will,my dear,they will. @ almost 80,I now sit back & bask in the warmth of their love for me! It’s amazing!😊
@@bravom9 same for me but I miss my dad. No one hugged me like him.
When Ashley said her Mom's "mind hurt" .. I felt that. Mental illness is a daily battle. My heart goes out to the Judds. God Bless 🕯🕊 ;
For me too. I find myself talking about dying in a humorous way...but way too often.
And that it is a physical pain. If you’ve never experienced it, it’s hard to understand that. It actually physically hurts.
Me too
So true. Yes, that is a good description of depression. I do feel like my mind hurts. So many times I wish I would just not wake up. Each day is such a struggle. RIP Naomi. I send all my positive energy for the family.
Ashley Judd is a person one not often sees. A person with a history of mental illness/emotional instability with such level of self-awareness, reflection about their journey in life, acceptance and understanding that bringing a child into this world was not just/fair option. Just like not everyone can be a ballet dancer, a neurosurgeon equally not everyone is equip to be a parent because it requires a level of emotional, psychological /mental stability to care for a vulnerable human being. Many are the children whose parents are suffering from mental illness and they are alone in their journey about what entails being raised and live with a parent that cannot be fully there for them. Worldwide there are very few resources to assist, support and provide respite to those children.
My heart breaks for all of you. I've lost my sister, age 38, my dad, age 83, and my son, 23 to suicide. My sister and dad never talked about it. They just did it. My son talked about it since age 15 and also took his own life. I am totally devastated but also have a deep passion to live. Mental illness is very prevalent in my family. Unfortunately, we don't know who is going to suffer with it until sometimes we are shocked to our core by something like this. I pray every day that we all honor and acknowledge how important our mental health is and take steps to protect it. My life is sad but I'm choosing to live it anyway with the help of an antidepressant, medicine for anxiety, and a good counselor every other week. I pray we can drop the stigma and treat mental illness as it should be treated, like any other illness.
I lost a very close aunt to suicide. She was only 9 years older than me and very much like a cooler older sister. Many of my family members suffer from depression and anxiety. My aunt was bi-polar. I’ve dealt with depression and anxiety since I was 14 and I’m 51 now. It really hit me hard in my 20’s after a car accident left me with 24 hour, 7 days a week chronic pain. The combination is something I can’t describe. I also can no longer find an antidepressant that works anymore. It does not come and go. For at least the last decade it’s everyday.I’m thankful I have a doctor who treated my pain as serious as it is. I would be dead years ago if not for my pain medication. Yes it’s oxyneo and it’s medicine. Just the stigma of that has been a huge battle. But it gave me ability again to do SOME normal life things again. The depression has taken that away. Even self care is ….like I’ve missed family events because I can’t get in the shower for two r even 3 months. I used to be so put together. I have lost interest in absolutely everything. I’ve been in therapy the majority of my life. I’ve tried everything. This disease is just like cancer or any other deadly disease. I can only say living like this is not living. I’ve talked to family members…this will sound shocking…. that I don’t know how much longer I can suffer and that I am thinking of ending my life. It’s the hardest conversation to have but they love me enough to understand. I don’t have children. We put our pets down to end their suffering. This is cancer of my mind. I’m 51 not in my teens or 30’s. I understand why my aunt took her life. I miss her so deeply, but her pain of living was so hard to watch. She over came some huge battles in her life. I won’t leave this earth in a gory way. I’ll save my loved ones that. Sometimes the cancer spreads all over the body. My depression will not go away. I’ve had 3 great therapists over my life. I also found out I have advanced cerebral atrophy for my age. I don’t have Alzheimer’s but my cognitive abilities are declining. And Yup, I’ve prayed. I hope maybe I can help you understand it a bit more? Because yes, it is a disease and depression can get worse over time. Much stronger. I feel like if I put this as a stand alone comment I’d be called selfish and that Satan has me and jesus can cure me. Satan is a fairy tale. Relinquishing responsibility is all that is. I do have faith. Thanks for listening. I wish you a beautiful life and your depression goes in remission.
God bless. 🙏
I commend you for choosing to seek help for many do not chose that journey. Stigmatization presents for many reasons but one of them is identifying the correct terminology for a presentation such as there is mental illness (requires medication, a course of treatment specifically designed for the patient’s needs and a medical team), mental disorder (psychological, many times maladaptive behaviors) and mental health (how stressors or situations affect the social, psychological, and emotional well being) but the terminology is mingled together when there is a vast difference among them.
I’m so sorry 😞 💔
Blessed Be 😊😊😊
In her grief, Ashley was so composed and well spoken. I feel the love from her and Her sister even if it was through written form. My heart feels for their family.
and her sister left her to do the public work.
God bless the family
@@berighteous she couldn’t take it
Why do we give credit to grieving loved ones when they're "composed"? Does it really matter how they present at a time like this?
@@berighteous not everyone can be in the public attention that way. I remember Ashley just a few yrs ago ranting about bloody tampons and women's rights that was sickening. Careful how and who you judge. Some people do things for attention. Only God knows
"My mother is entitled to her dignity and her privacy," waterworks held at bay until that moment. Sobbing for this woman and her pain.
😔😔💔
YOU are the ones bringing this to the limelight!! LEAVE HER ALONE!!! She chose this because she WANTED to. This is HER decision. Get off the internet and the public display! LEAVE HER ALONE!!! Let her spirit rest in pease and go to a higher level! ENOUGH!!!!
😔 😔 😔 RIP 🙏 🕊
Ashley,you described,how your mom felt,and you are so right to share her story,with such love and respect.Forget the public now.Take time out now,and May your family find peace,and cherish the happy memories,you shared with each other.Your mom would certainly be proud of you,and your words.Think that there is beautiful singing in Heaven each night.
is evident that mother and daughter love each other inmensely which is a blessing on its own, sadly some of us can just imagine that kind love, you were blessed !!
So heartbreaking. When she said, she accepted the love, her Mother was capable of giving, spoke volumes. May this family find peace and healing.
🙏
Ashley is having to be incredibly strong...she's the one who found her mom and now she has to be the point person with the media. My condolences to the whole family, but I especially hope Ashley has a strong support network.
I couldn’t agree more I hope she doesn’t carry guilt of leaving her mom for that moment to run downstairs to let the friend in she will be traumatized for life bc of what she experienced and saw she needs a lot of prayers herself!
@@katiemichelle9983 Even when death is from natural causes, there seems to always be some regret, some remorse that stubbornly sticks to our minds, even down to the tiniest, most insignificant things that, transversely, can feel tragically huge in the "if only" moments that we wish we could go back in time and change. Ashley will carry this distinctive pain with her for the rest of her life, but God is always there to strengthen her. God's grace is sufficient!
@@katiemichelle9983 😭😥
@@katiemichelle9983 I agree. I feel like she always knew this outcome could be an option. Doesn’t make it easier. Hope she gets all the help she needs. My father took his life when I was 13. It taught me to carefully monitor my own mental health. Therapy is for everyone.
Mental illness is nothing to joke about. I don't think people realise how devastating it is. I'm so, so sorry. My heart felt condolences to the Judd family.
People needs to be educated about it
exactly alot of people don't get it. when I was growing up. I use to listen to the judds alot. when I found out that Naomi passed. it broke my heart. she is in a better place nomore pain and suffering.
Well, Ashley Judd has talked about shooting herself, so I think this is a generational thing. I hope not, but I remember this from things I've read.
I’m bipolar and attempted suicide once. I feel like people relate more to depression and anxiety, which I understand. But I hope this tragedy raises all boats, so to speak.
My siblings we give to charity in lieu of gifts and this year I donated to my favorite hospital I’d been a patient at. It wasn’t fancier healthcare/babysitting with better doctors. It was just dignified. Not more dignified, just dignified (shout out to Bon Secours).
Even as her heart breaks and the trauma sets in, Ashley still finds a way to be so strong, brave, intelligent, a powerful speaker, and so incredibly eloquent. I see why her family wanted her to speak on their behalf.
I'm so sorry for this family's great loss. My heart goes out to them all.
She did an amazing job speaking
@@whirlwind8825 there are a lot of missing pieces in this story but time may tell more or this interview will be the end.
Whirl Wind, you are an awful human being to say that.
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@@whirlwind8825 5 so 62
My mother also took her life in a harsh way, something unusual for a woman to do they say. For me it explains how deep the pain. My mother suffered for years with depression. All I can say to the family is cry, support one another, remember the good times, don't torture yourself with the how's or why's. Time will heal you....nothing but time. Trust me, it will get better. You can't see that now from where you are standing....but it will. Get counseling to help with your healing. I had a dream after my mom passed where she was across a street on a hill. My mom slid her hands up and down her arms to show there were no longer any wounds (referring to emotional wounds), she smiled at me and was gone. This dream let me know my mom was in a good place. Your mom is in a good place too.
I'm so sorry for you both losing your mom. That is very heartbreaking to hear! God bless you both & sorry you both had to experience that & I'm sorry your mother's felt like their was no hope.
@Emma Hawke as I mentioned in the comment below. I just wanted to say I'm so sorry you lost your mom , that is heartbreaking to hear. I'm sorry you went through that and I'm sorry she felt their was no hope. God bless you!
This family has no idea how many lives they're savings through their lost by speaking out. May God bless them always, please.
Diane did an exceptional job during this interview shes always been so professional and kept it together while I'm over here bawling
She may have cried off camera . I’m sure it wasn’t easy .
Agreed.👏🏻👏🏻
I cried so sad
I bawled my eyes out, this really hit me
Mmmmhmmmm … Britney Spears interview?
I deal with depression every day of my life.
People say to talk with someone or share with family. Many of us become so isolated and withdrawn, there is no one to talk to or share with. That's sometimes a big part of the problem.
My husband died in June 2023 and this is Dec and I can’t even talk without breaking down, so I ask God to bless this child for having to give this interview so soon after her moms death.
Condolences on your loss.
God bless all with peace, love, health, safety, prosperity and protection!
I survived taking my own life, I know the darkness of depression. I know the toll it took on my family afterwards. But it's amazing the place we are in now and I couldn't have done that without the wonderful help of my medical team and therapy team. After two years of a lot of in depth deep hard core work I'm able to hold down a job and have a roof over my head. This work will never end for me or it for my family. That is something that people don't realize things will trigger you and you have to be open to know your trigger.
Thank you judd family for sharing your story.
Exactly right. It's about changing wrongly learned thinking.
The trauma Ashley is going through from finding her, is something beyond the loss that is a whole other level of devastation. May god bless you and keep you…. 💕
How awful is it that we live in a world where someone has to actually explain all this. This is absolutely heart breaking. God rest her soul and may this family have some peace.
Sadly many people still dont believe mental health matters. There are also people that are pro help for others but they themselves refuse to get help.
God Rest Her Soul🙏🏼🙏🏼
God be with you girls always.
I also thought that exact same thing. Just because they are famous, Ashley had to do this. Just another depth of their pain. She spoke with such a quiet grace. I pray they find some measures of comfort and peace.
But the fact that Ashley found her is even more heartbreaking. I know a few people who were the first to find their loved one, and they have never been the same. One has since passed after making 7 attempts. So much pain and torment.
@@jerik214 well said
So sad, as someone who has lost 2 family members to suicide, this breaks my heart. My heart goes out to Ashley, Wynonna and Pops.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss.
Accepted the love that my mother was capable of giving. This is a beautiful statement. Ashley we appreciate your honoring your mom , praying for you and your family.
The elderly are the forgotten demographic when it comes to this disease. My grandfather had a very similar story. No matter how much life you’ve lived, leaving even a day before you’re meant to is too soon.
Well said, indeed. 💔
Too soon for who?
@@kathymontgomery1445 Those left behind.
Beautifully put.
So true ❤🙏
Ashley spoke so beautifully and eloquently. May her Mother rest in peace ♥️🙏🏽. Mental health is no joke and I’m glad that this interview can hopefully help others🤗
I didn’t even know this happened. Wow!! Depression is so serious!! I was suicidal as well back in 2009. But God answered my prayer and he saved my life. He healed me as well. So I am so so sorry that she was not able to get out of her depression and anxiety. It is definitely spiral out of control. It’s important to do have intense healing. As for me the Bible and school was my healing. It healed me mentally and from addiction of alcohol and self sabotage. That is and was the only way I could and would have healed. I pray for all who are going through severe depression and suicidal ideation and planning. You are worthy!! You matter!! You are worthy to heal! In Jesus Christ mighty mighty Name!! Amen Praying for Judd family and friends. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️💔😢💔😢💔😢💔🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼💔💔🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰💔
thank you for your oh so sweet and kind message you don't know it but you have helped me 🌻🌻🙏🙏💖💖🥀💐🪻🪻🪷
This breaks my heart. Depression is no joke. I am so sorry for their loss. My heart and prayers go out to them.
For real. I thought Naomi might have taken pills, but a firearm? I'm so upset and devestated.
This hit straight to the heart. Our younger brother took his life 17 years ago and there will never be a day I dont think of him and miss him DEARLY.
He would be 50 this year and never go to meet my grandchildren.
Ashley has so much love and dignity in her heart which is a great testament to her mother.
May God continue to bless them all
What courage, love, intelligence, and sincerity from a truly beautiful daughter. Now, we are holding you and your family in our hearts and prayers.
As a 15 year EMT veteran, I have PTSD due to seeing the heartbreaking scene Ashley walked into. My heart and prayers are with the Judd family.
Paula, you are doing God's work. I have the deepest respect for EMT who face pain and suffering most of us cannot comprehend.
Sending you endless prayers and support in your healing ❤️🙏
My heart hurts for them...if I went through what she did seeing her mom like that...they would have to commit me I wouldn't be able to handle it...god bless them🙏
@@democraticdialogue7271 nanny. Vvvvv
God was waking beside you.
As someone who has lived with depression and anxiety since the age of 12, I understand and appreciate Ashley's message about this condition.
God bless and heal you
I have depression and anxiety myself since I was a little kid and I feel Ashley's pain and agony anguish 😭💔
Tears fill my eyes as I listen to your interview. I lost my husband 10 years ago May 10th in the same manner, struggling with mental illness. You are not alone in your grief….prayers are with you and your family & loved ones. 💐🙏🌷🙏🌹
Oh Ashley. As a daughter who also found her mother, my heart aches for you and your family. I am convinced that she is healed, and happy, watching over you all. I pray peace overcomes your grief. 💗
As your mama is as well! At peace and no more pain❤️
I’m sorry you had to experience that. I can’t imagine how difficult that must have been.
I experienced the death of my mother as well.
I was right there and watched her take her very last breath.
What I saw was death swallowed up in beauty.
I have never seen a more beautiful sweet quiet death in my life.
When my mother died, I felt a release.
My mother has been gone for 20 yrs.
I found my ex’s body the same way as well. It aches me so much to watch this clip & I couldn’t stop crying. Hugs to all who have experienced this ❤️
The real "envy" shouldn't be the riches of this world but the envy of those resting in a peaceful afterlife.
My Brother committed suicide 7 years ago. He was the last person you would have thought would do this. How I wish I knew he was struggling. It's not the same when you lose someone to suicide than an accident or disease. It's traumatising. My heart goes out to these two ladies.
I’m sorry about your brother.
@@A_Hale Thank you
I'm so very sorry to read your story. I lost my dad seven years ago suddenly. Not to suicide but it was still the biggest shock. I did however know someone who took their own life. Grief is so difficult. My heart goes out to you and your family.
@@zoep4755 I am sorry for your loss as well.
So sorry about your brother. What an enormous loss
My heart is so broken for this beautiful family.😭😭😭 I’ve suffered from depression for most of my 66 years, and can relate 💯.
Depression is terrible to live with. My heart goes out to Wynonna and Ashley. Your Mom was an incredible woman. May she rest peacefully now. Naomi will always be a star in my heart and eyes.
I am crying…..I know that deep depression…thanks to Naomi I just made an appointment with a therapist. My heart was so touched by her death. I understood it!
@@kellythomas5596 I am doing okay! Thanks for asking….much appreciated! Happy I made an appointment to see my therapist this week. I realized that sometimes we just need extra help when overwhelmed. You are so kind to care! ❤️
@@kellythomas5596 I am from Indianapolis, Indiana! I was raised down the street from the Indianapolis 500…we would stand in our yard to listen to the cars! I now live about three miles from the track, so stayed in the same area! Married going on 57 years to the love of my life! God sent him to me during the darkest days of depression! I was born with it. Use to watch other children having fun, and laughing and I wondered what it felt like to be that happy. God walks with me, and because of Him, and my family I never wanted to harm myself, but sure understand why some are hit with those feelings. I know God took Naomi home with Him…He understood her pain! Thanks for writing!
Wow. Heartbreaking for them, but they handled this in the classiest way possible. I have tremendous respect for their courage, respect, and openness..
Naomi was like a mom to me she was so up lifting to me. She has helped me a lot in my own struggles , I know what it's like to keep silent. I love this. Family .
Naomi had people around her that truly loved her. They understood what was going on. Bless the ones who are walking the path of suicide and depression alone. The ones who have no one that cares. It's a very lonely path. Peace to all! Bless this beautiful family.
The ones who are walking this path alone, PLEASE focus on the LIGHT. I truly love you. Yup, even though I do not know you personally, I love you with the love of God. You matter.
@@Katteyezz I was led to tell you whenever you are in a dark space call out the name of Jesus! Simply say Jesus, Jesus, Jesus and watch how he work. God bless you.
@@kellythomas5596 My day has been very mediocre. Thank you so much for asking. I hope you have had a beautiful day!
I am so so very sorry Ashley and Wynona for the loss of your dear mother. I know what a terrible disease that depression is as my son and I also suffer with it and I can attest to the fact that the pain in your brain is tremendous. This disease makes you feel that you just don't want to live anymore. Only someone who suffers from this disease knows what it feels like. Please therefore people don't judge. Dear Ashley I am sending you a very big hug.
Being someone who grew up with alcoholism in my family, depression was for me part of my youth. Anxiety, fear, emptiness, and emotional sadness at times consumes you. Mental illness is nothing for anyone to judge. The pain is REAL, the fear and misery is real and for that person who suffers, that pain is so hard to break away from. I lost a sweet and wonderful friend. Her pain was hidden. She was always upbeat around me, then one day she didn't come to work. Another day went by, still nothing. When I heard she was gone it crushed me. Never ever judge. HELP, BE THERE, CARE FOR THEM. THESE PEOPLE NEED OUR HELP. I PRAY TO GOD THAT THEY CAN BET HELP.
This is so tragic. Words can't express the sadness and pain. Please let's help each other!
Best wishes to the Judd family, love them all
@@EdsterIII Yes we certainly need to. Depression is just like any physical disease and people who suffer from it should not have to feel like they can't talk about it. We need to treat them with love. I thank God that I have the support of my family.
Wynonna
So encouraging to read these comments. Depression/Anxiety/Panic Attacks have been a battle my entire life and it is as real and the most difficult thing to try to overcome. You fear Doctors and others you want to ask for help will think you're crazy or just trying to get "drugs." God bless everyone and thank you all for sharing. God bless this family for bringing this to the public, truly pray it brings more awareness and help for all those suffering.
Suffering from anxiety and depression myself...I understand...and Suffering the great loss of my mother just 8mnths ago... I understand.. my heart goes out to the Judd family ❤❤
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom. I understand how the loss affects you. I lost my Mom January 6,2021. No matter how old we are we are never ready to lose our Moma. I pray God bring you and your family peace and comfort.
No one ever understands until it's too late. Mental illness is NO JOKE 😢Appreciate the time you have with your loved ones and don't judge what you don't understand. 🙏 RIP Naomi, you're free now! 💔💔💔
The greatest words..."don't judge what you can't understand"...
exactly!
“No one understands until it is too late” this is false ! Many people understand mental illness and seek help and encourage their loved ones to get help. Yet they still lose their battle just like someone fighting cancer . When someone does from cancer do you say cancer is misunderstood ???
@@none2951 Cancer is misunderstood. Sloan Bella said it's like an entity of its own, like a parasite.
@@none2951 What I meant is, in my opinion,no one could truly understand a person's suffering because it's an invisible illness. It isn't something that can be seen by the naked eye or even shows up in a blood test. Also, the word depression has been used so loosely that even when someone does express it, others couldn't fathom the pain. Unfortunately it's only once the final symptom has reared it's ugly head that hindsight brings enlightenment. Not judging or blaming... just hits too close to home 💔
The grief in Ashley's voice just guts me.
I don't know how she was able to handle herself with such grace in that interview.
I couldn't imagine a camera in my face if I were to lose my own mom so tragically.
Keeping her and Wynonna in my prayers and hoping they feel peace and know that their mother loved them both so very much.
@Ashley 1988 - Very well said. You can definitely feel her grief as she speaks. Ashley Judd's pain pours through her voice and her eyes, yet she was so strong and poised for this interview.
My husband took his life 3 years ago. My daughter just took her life 6 months ago. Im very lost now and no one to really talk with. I hold it all inside and Im so ready to get out of this painful life. Both of my loves are gone forever.
I hope you're doing better❤
My condolences. You are in my heart and prayers.
Please tell us your still alive and going through healing.
I'm going thru depression also Lost my moma, husband, son n 5 grandchildren If it wasn't for my faith in God I wouldn't be here today Praying for you May God touch your heart n heal you
God bless all with peace, love, health, safety, prosperity and protection!
Being a survivor of losing a sister to suicide, my heart bleeds for the Judd girls and Pop. Unless you have experienced it, you don’t know the incredible pain they leave with the living. It takes guts to do such a tragic thing and I will always love the beautiful music and concerts I heard and saw. I wish you all peace and she is in a much happier place. God Bless you all🙏🙏
Thanks for
It is the most brutal pain to endure.
She represented her mother well, she would be proud of her daughter. It's so sad to hear of the torment she went through even though she was dearly loved.
I feel sorry for Ashley for her loss, as I do anyone and everyone who deals with the death of a parent, that being said, she is a nut job and my sympathy for her grief doesn't change the fact that she has been a Lefty mouthpiece for decades, nor does THAT fact take away her acting talent, which I used to enjoy until I could no longer watch the characters she portrayed without seeing Ashley Judd, the radical fruit cake in every roll, in every character. Actors, for this very reason, should stick to acting and let the activism to the activists...stop alienating half (or more, in reality) to appease the crazies...they will never be appeased. Just a business pointer.
@@allhopeabandon7831 Wow you really have alot of hostility, don't you. Might want to get medical help for that. Last I checked, citizens' right to free speech doesn't exclude those who work in show business. I wouldn't call anyone nuts and crazy if I were you.
@@allhopeabandon7831 you're vile. Even on a piece that's showing respect to HER MOTHER you can't help but turn it political. How pathetic.
@@allhopeabandon7831 So you speak for “more than half” of the US? Do tell 🙄I’m sure you feel the same way about Trump, right? After all, he was an entertainer too.
@@kamwickw933 I wouldn't have cared who wants to secure our southern border, bolster the economy, create jobs, achieve oil independence, retain domestic business, bring off shore money home, make peace with our enemies and start NO WARS. The fact that it was Donald Trump meant little to me, save for the fact that he was too abrasive for people who vote with their feefees and not their brains. Biden is what we get when (voter fraud issue aside) more than half our country becomes this stupid.
My heart is broken for this family... depression is such a formidable evil. I pray for them, their loss, their memories, and ultimately their peace. God bless them
Sending so much love to Ashley & the her family. I can't even imagine the trauma this experience has brought. Keeping the family & the spirit of Naomi Judd in my prayers
My heart just goes out to this precious family. As a suicide survivor, I know the pain and guilt you can feel. Many prayers and love to the whole family. It’s a hard road to walk.
What a beautiful, articulate and lovely daughter. My heart aches for her.
Poise, tenderness, wisdom, vulnerability. Ashley is precious and did a beautiful job with this interview and represented her family beautifully. May they find eventual comfort and rest. And I hope others find help in hope should they seem lost in depression.
I suffer from depression. It is very difficult when you have that voice inside bring you down. It’s hard. I’m so sorry for their loss.
I just lost my mother to natural causes in September and I'm still grieving so I can't imagine the pain this family is going through. I find myself crying out of nowhere (which is rather embarrassing as it has happened in the most inappropriate of places) and other times I feel her near me.
I can relate, as I lost my father to natural causes, too, 4 years ago. I just never know when or where the crying jags will strike as swiftly and suddenly as lightning! I know that he is with the Lord, and that is truly wonderful! Still, it hurts so much to be separated from our loved ones, left behind to carry on in a world that seems suddenly a much colder place without the warmth of their love.
i lost my mother 9 years ago and it was at least 5 years before i stopped crying unexpectedly. now my heart cries. just not my eyes as much.
my daughter is getting married this summer 🥲
@@livinginthemitten160 I'm sorry for your loss and hope the wedding is a huge success. Your mom will be there so take a moment to acknowledge her spirit
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I lost my dad 15 years ago in June. My heart still aches and I still cry. I don’t think this pain will ever fade. I’m sorry for everyone’s loss of a loved one here.
I’m so sorry, to hear about your mom. She was such a beautiful person. I lost my daughter when she was only 37 to depression and diabetes. She decided to no longer take dialysis. It’s so hard to understand that there is nothing you can do to make it better, for them. My thoughts are with you, in this very painful time.
So sorry for your loss
@@sexinochica5 …thank you, so much.
The fact that this is the first I'd heard that it was suicide tells me the family was absolutely right to tell this on their own terms, desensationalizing it.
I'm so sorry for the Judd family going through such pain and anguish. Especially Ashley, for the trauma of discovering her momma. God please ease the pain they're going through.
Ashley has such a profound way of articulating grief and emotions. Each word resonates. Her mother must have been so incredibly proud of this highly intelligent, genuine, strong & loving woman. ❤
The poise and eloquence of these ladies is a testament to the woman, the mother, the mentor, who created the life of a family for her girls. Hard times cause hard mental battles that one must constantly "flip the script" away from to keep afloat. Naomi must have been tired with no fight left. Bless her and give her a beautiful rest. Praying for all who loved her!
Ashley was so strong to do this interview. It must have been excruciating. This is one of the aspects of stardom that no one wants. I pray the public give the family space to mourn for as long as they need. The Judds are a lovely family, may they find peace.
Well said Lynn. I was thinking the very same thing.
I agree with you
I wish Oprah could have done this interview, not Dianne Sawyer. Sorry, but that's how I feel.
Mental illness isn’t from being a celebrity ,lady.. it’s hereditary
@@BigDaddy-vr2ut I was referring to the public peering on them during a very tragic time in their lives being an aspect of stardom no one wants.
My hear goes out to both sisters. Can't imagine what that pain feels like. Incredibly brave of her to speak about it right after her mother passed. Rest in Peace, Naomi. Sisters, take care of each other.
Ashley Judd represented her family, especially her mother and sister perfectly. I am sorry for their loss. RIP beautiful Queen of music!
I want to thank Ashley for the encouraging message she sent, I made an appointment to talk to a therapist because her moms death shook me to the core. Naomi reminds me of my own mom who struggles with mental health and I do check in with her regularly.
The Judds raised me in a way. Their music really sang to my soul. I’m so so sorry for her family! Your mom was a hero to so many women!
Losing your parents is so hard. I have lost both my parents, and my brother. The strength of the family is amazing. To do this when the pain is so recent, shows the power they have.
So incredibly sad. Truly admire Ashley's courage speaking on behalf of her family during this heartfelt time.
I can’t imagine the difficult time they must be going through. It made me cry just listening to Ashley. I loved the Judds and wish them all the best and strength going forward. Rest In Peace Naomi, you were loved and were enough.
You don’t owe an explanation to anyone Ashley anyone who knows your family just loves you all and we’re keeping you in our prayers. My condolences to the family and friends. Naomi will forever be in our hearts ♥️
I wish I could put 27 like to your comment!
Very true.
And what about those of us who have heard of the family but are not ardent fans?
I have been wondering about the manner in which she died.
Some with mental illness OD on meds, Robin Williams hung himself.
Knowing that Naomi shot herself is truth that needs to be known, rather than folks (like me) making presumptions.
@@joadams9074 Jo thank you, so many people suffer and get told you’re going to be fine yet the question is when will this happen. 100 thumbs up to you my friend and wishing you health and happiness.
I suffer from the same thing, my depression started when my husband left me with 5 girls to support. He hurt me beyond belief. I bet the abuse she suffered is what caused it. I feel so so bad for them. I understand why she did it. I've come close a few times to want to end my life.
So your happiness depends on what another person will or will not do? He decides?
Please think of those girls and what they would go through, and you won't harm yourself ever. Trust God, the girls are a great gift from him, even if their father didn't value them as he should have.
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I do not appreciate your comment to someone who is going through a tough time .
Learn some compassion and empathy .
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful, beloved mother, she's been an incredible inspiration to us all.
Heartbreaking that this lady has to go on national television to share the details of her mother's suicide because she wanted the TRUTH out there before the media digs up the details. Terrible terrible, especially the fact she found her.
Sadly it won't stop the rapids from trying to dig in deeper and making stuff up
This is the dark side of fame. This poor close family is truly, deeply devastated. And yet “forced” to go on national television ahead of the “Media” to explain her passing.They need to be with their family and close friends, not dealing with public scrutiny at this time. She was a national treasure and loving mother she will be truly missed. May she rest in peace now. 💜🙏
she's chosen to go on air this quickly. any normal person would not be going on camera
@@swolfe9668 Lol. Ashley didn’t “chose” to do this. She was Forced to. To beat the Medias false narrative to her own mom‘s death. I guess reality isn’t your strong suit. Keep living in your little bubble. 🙄
@@momwithaplan1287 it's still a CHOICE
Ashley is so well spoken and pensive in her manner and everyone reading this understands her completely.
What a horrible time for this family. You just never know what day will be the last and when that last hug will happen.
So very true. I know this so well.
I sat here and I watched this and I cried through the whole interview. I am losing my mother to ovarian cancer and it’s like watching slow torture. I realize that her mother had mental illness but when you watch somebody you love the tortured with an illness but they just can’t control and will eventually lose the battle. It’s torture for the entire family. My heart and prayers go out to the Judd sisters. I pray your mother has found peace
I just lost my mother to cervical cancer in January, so I know what you're dealing with. God bless you.
Sending love, we just lost a step son the same way. Mental illness is so hard and heartbreaking. I know you’d heart physically hurt. ❤️God bless you!
I FEEL SO HURT LISTENING TO ASHLEY'S PAIN. MY DEEPEST AND GENUINE CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! I'LL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU...
You'll do anything for her, COME ON NOW
@@unicornmadness6286 yes I will!
@Jam You are so cold I recommend you stay out.
No one knows the depth of mental illness unless you’ve walked the road. Mental illness touches Everyone no matter your status in this world. Thank you Ashley & Winona for your unconditional love towards your dear Momma. She was a beautiful spirit full of light & love. She was seen. I absolutely love your family. I remember during a very difficult time in my life when I was angry about not having my father, cousins and grandparents in my life because of the actions of my biological Dad. It was 1982 when I turned on the radio and heard your song “Grandpa, tell me ‘bout the good old days” 🎶
I decided right then and there to be a present Mother & Grandmother. To be available with my children and future grandchildren. I am now blessed with 13 grandkids. My prayers to you and your family for peace, strength & comfort during this very difficult time 💝
It sounds like you have the family you’ve always wanted now and it’s such a good feeling to know that they are your own people. I feel this way too when I’m with my kids and their partners and my grandkids, they are what makes life worth living. I’m happy you have that wonderful family now.
Naomi was a beautiful woman who is gone too soon! Prayers and condolences to the family! Thank you for being so brave in speaking out to help others❤️
Ashley so Brave to speak of her momma for her Family. So heartbreaking. Prayers
Her emotional is real and raw. At first I was going ask why giving an interview so quick but now I see why the family made the decision to so. She discovered her mother, OMG that got to be the most painful thing a person can go through.
*I lost my Mother when I was six, I am sixty-six now. Listening to this precious daughter of course caused a flood of memories, but most of all I give my heart to all in the Judd family, specifically her two daughters. A heart filled with that kind of trauma does deserve ALL the privacy and kindness from every person, everywhere. Mental health is already a destroying illness, so give kindnesses to the survivors, or just walk away. There is no place more sacred than the hearts left behind*
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Beautiful.
Sincerest condolences to the Judd family. And may all those who struggle daily with mental illness, reach out, always. You are loved.
Diane just wrapped her arms around Ashley ❤️ she hugged her like a Mom. Sweet. She needed it. Bless you Diane.
That was pure strength. My daughter took her own life in July and I can't imagine having to go through this Infront of the public.
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I’m so so sorry 😢
Condolences 💐 and prayers t
I’m sorry 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your daughter was fighting a really large battle. I hope you can find someone to talk to or a support group. I can’t imagine losing your beautiful child. Love to you and your baby girl.
We lost our dad in 2017 and thought how are we going to get past this. Ashley was smart to get ahead of this before anyone else could put their spin on it or mar the legacy they worked hard to build.
I lost my dad a month ago, although to a different illness. The pain is excruciating, I have no idea how Ashley got the strength to do this interview. Bless her heart. So much grief to process & so publicly. I’m kind of in the reverse, I feel so alone and lost. Daddy’s & Mamas are suppose to be here with us forever, or so we often feel is this case. Sadly, it’s not. May God comfort and bless the Judd family.
Nothing but love Ashley ,nothing but love . The memory of your mother will remain as a great woman ,singer ,song writer .
This is heartbreaking in a personal way. In 2004, my brain tried to kill me. It hit home when Ashley said her mother's brain hurt. That's what it felt like. I felt aches and pains all over my body. It took about three years to lift. Naomi didn't want to die. She just couldn't live with that pain anymore.
Yes. Exactly.
I am glad you survived. Much love to you.
Yes. The physical pain is thee most gawd awful pain!!!!! People that have never
experienced it simply do not understand the depths and that includes doctors.
Unfortunately Naomi was resistant to the meds and treatments. So sad. God Bless her!
@@salgaldenco I am almost 45 and feel constant nerve pain and sometimes it gets to this point. Only thing keeping me going are my kids. I feel y’all’s pain. ❤️
That hit me too. "Her brain hurt." I felt that. My brain hurts too. The pain is just unbearable. No one can see it on the outside. It hides in my insides.
@@rupertperiwinkle4477 It's a silent agony that words can't capture. People would have to experience it to know what we're talking about, and I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, as I'm sure you feel likewise.
Oh bless your heart. You are such a strong woman to talk about this. Depression runs in my family - my grandmother had a frontal lobotomy. My prayers are with you!
I’m sorry for your loss. Did the frontal lobotomy work? I’ve been depressed since child hood.
@@yamisomad3486 i lady in one of my groups did that. i personally felt she was never the same..work with a doctor on your depression ..you will find what is right for you..God Bless ♥️
@@beckyhook8864 Thank you 😊
@@yamisomad3486 My grandmother was the only one who survived it from the doctor who did it. He was banned from practicing. No, it did not help. She still sobbed all day, every day. I am sorry you even consider it. I hope you are okay. I'm here if you need anything!
I'm so sorry for you and esp your grandma's pain🙏🏿🕊😥
My heartfelt condolences to the entire Judd family. The strength and Grace Ashley showed through this interview is astronomical. My heart is breaking for you all.
Naomi was so blessed to have a family that was able to hold her with love, accept her as the woman she was, without her being the disease.
Rest now Naomi, peace be with you.
God bless this beautiful family as only You can.
No words can be said at this time to express everyone sadness for the Judd family. Your mother was inspiring to watch and listen to. She will be missed.
May she rest in peace. Her death is truly heartbreaking. She was a beautiful person inside and out. I wish mental illness never touched our lives. My mother has schizophrenia and bipolar and would tell her if I had a wish between all the money of the world and her not having mental illness I chose for her to have never gotten any sort of mental illness. I was thrown away at 13 years old but she kept my baby sister and I don't talk to her often because of the pain she has caused me since I was 12 1/2. I want to have a mother in my life. It feels I have no parents and I'm 50 years old. My dad kept my 2 brothers younger than me and let me be thrown into the system till I was 18 years old. So much suffering my mom went through and continues to go through and same with me. I have bipolar depression and PTSD and anxiety pretty badly. I take meds for my Brain to function normally. I wish Naomi could've held on I'm really sorry for the families pain. ❤️🙏❤️
I am so sorry for tha pain you went through.
Bless you ♥️..
Treat yourself for being a kind person, you seem very intelligent and nice.
Hugs for you xoxo
Mental illness hurts the sufferer and those who love them. I'm so sorry both your parents abandoned you, Carrieann. I hope you can find comfort in a "family by choice," others to whom you connect most deeply.
This has been a great loss for me! Music has been such a joy and healer! My heart goes out to this lovely family!
Ashley reminds me of her mom. It's her gentle way of her explaining.,
You did well Ashley. We love you all. ❤️
I want to express my condolences for the loss of your loving mother. I know your pain only to well. I was 20 years old when my mother lost her life to mental illness. I am 73 years young now and still have a large hole in my heart because she is gone. Be gentle with each other. Stay strong🙏
I'm sorry for your loss.
This disease is everywhere!! My fiance took his life in Feb 21st of this year. I knew we both suffered with Depression, it's always there. I never, ever thought he would put that gun to his head and leave all of us with so much! May he find the peace that this life didn't give him. My heart aches for the Judds!! My prayer is that Momma Judd has also found her peace!! May God continue to wake us up every morning with purpose and understanding. Rest in peace!!
Dawn I am so sorry for your loss. I too battle depression.
May you find peace and healing. ❤️🩹
I’m so sorry Dawn. 😢 Please take care of yourself, I know how hard it is. I have a family history of depression, schizophrenia, and suicide. You aren’t alone. 🙏🏻💐
I’m so sorry for your loss, and I just want to say, Ashley, you’ve done a great job as a daughter. May God bless you. ..
My daughter did 2. My heart is breaking for you. It's so hard to take in. I know that feeling gonna spend 3 years and I feel like it was yesterday. I can't get over it adjust miss my precious babies
Having lost a loved one 30 years ago in a similar manner, I so appreciate the family statement saying she died from mental illness. It certainly helped me with my pain all these years later. My deepest condolences, love and respect for Ms. Judd’s family.