The responsibility of a reschedule belongs to the person who canceled: 1. because it's good manners to offer an alternative when you are cancelling on the other party 2. because it shows that you actually cared about the meeting and arent just dodging the other person An offer to reschedule should be done at the time of cancellation and the only reasons to not do so are: 1. the reason for the cancellation makes picking a new time immediately impossible like a chronic illness or a close friend or family death 2. they didn’t really want to go in the first place and are leaving it open so that they have no obligation, yet didn't have to outright say they didn't want to go I usually put the ball in the court of the person who cancelled, although I may ask once about the reschedule depending on the person and the reason for cancel. Anything more than that is begging someone who is either not interested in hanging with you or likely has poor social etiquette. Moreover, I wouldn’t plan something again with someone who has flaked on me twice in a row. How to tell if the reason a woman or man canceled a date with you is legitimate, or if they are just simply blowing you off due to a low interest in you. When dealing with flaky people how many chances should you give them? Here's the thing: People in general are going to flake from time to time, but the key thing to PAY ATTENTION TO is How They Flake On You. When they flake or cancel are they simply saying "Sorry I can't make it" or are they saying "I'm really sorry we can't hangout today, but does another day this week work for you?". You gotta notice if the person who flaked on you is asking to reschedule because that's the greatest indicator of whether or not they're actually interested and want to see you.
Keep moving forward. If they don't wanna see you, they don't like you. Words don't matter. Clearing time for you guys to be together(and have sex) is all that matters. Stop reading into texts because, again, WORDS alone don't matter. "I'm so sorry." "I can't see you that weekend; I'll be too busy and you'll be too distracting." Never talk about negative stuff when you're together. ALWAYS have fun, if you're not enjoying yourself, BAIL. You. don't. owe. them. anything.
The responsibility of a reschedule belongs to the person who canceled: 1. because it's good manners to offer an alternative when you are cancelling on the other party 2. because it shows that you actually cared about the meeting and arent just dodging the other person An offer to reschedule should be done at the time of cancellation and the only reasons to not do so are: 1. the reason for the cancellation makes picking a new time immediately impossible like a chronic illness or a close friend or family death 2. they didn’t really want to go in the first place and are leaving it open so that they have no obligation, yet didn't have to outright say they didn't want to go I usually put the ball in the court of the person who cancelled, although I may ask once about the reschedule depending on the person and the reason for cancel. Anything more than that is begging someone who is either not interested in hanging with you or likely has poor social etiquette. Moreover, I wouldn’t plan something again with someone who has flaked on me twice in a row. How to tell if the reason a woman or man canceled a date with you is legitimate, or if they are just simply blowing you off due to a low interest in you. When dealing with flaky people how many chances should you give them? Here's the thing: People in general are going to flake from time to time, but the key thing to PAY ATTENTION TO is How They Flake On You. When they flake or cancel are they simply saying "Sorry I can't make it" or are they saying "I'm really sorry we can't hangout today, but does another day this week work for you?". You gotta notice if the person who flaked on you is asking to reschedule because that's the greatest indicator of whether or not they're actually interested and want to see you.
I'm very happy that everything I learned from coach Corey is working. I applied them on my ex. I truly think she's the most beautiful girl I've ever been with. Sometimes she texts me just to basically say hey I'm here! Although she tests me Sometimes just to see if I still have those old needy behaviors I had 2 years ago. But I pass them all! One thing she doesn't know is I'm in coach Corey university! And I'm an A+ student! Life is so good. We're not together yet obviously because it takes time and patience. So meanwhile I'm having a date tomorrow with this new girl! Good luck everyone!
I know it Fours yrs since you wrote your story I’d love too k ow how long did it take your ex too reach out? I’ve been in NC now for 64 days And not a peep from her 🤨
I used to feel so concerned when I would ask women out and they would either ignore me or cancel. Since following your work, not only do I find it easy to let go off these situations but I have also become more selective in my choice of women. I do not fall for many women like I used to before, which in my own view is the first true sign that I am becoming more and more emotionally mature. A few months ago, I asked a woman who works with me out but she was very flaky in giving me a response and I just said, well whenever you want, give me a shout. A few days ago, she asked me out. She had many opportunities to see me joking around the office and she also figured out I was seeing another woman from the office (she actually mentioned it jokingly to me). So, yeah, I am kind of indifferent now since she ignored me a while back but am willing to give her a second chance and see if something happens. Its all cool really, the way I see it, I have a date with a good looking woman I've never been out with before.
im in this situation too, girl at work is acting hot and cold towards me, starting today im gonna be indifferent and move on from her, its a shame cos I really like this girl, but oh well her loss 🤘🏽
Girl really just flaked on me for the second time for a date with another bull crap excuse. I’m glad I got Coreys how to be a 3% man audio version when I did cuz now instead of getting upset, I simply just say “forget it” and move on. Not gonna waste my time with someone who doesn’t value my time.
I have to say that I've never seen such a genuine guy being so honest about how to treat someone who mistreated you. Corey, the way you said that the guy from the fourth email should tell his ex, that he'll always love her, but he will never ever be in a relationship or marriage with her got really to my heart. I've been there and IT IS fucking hard to be brutal honest, but thats what those people deserve. One day (maybe not today or tomorrow, but some day in her life) she will wonder what would've happened, if she wouldn't have been such a cheating asshole to a person who truly loved her. I've learned a lot from you and I'm sure many others too, thank you very much, my dude.
Matched with a girl on Hinge who seemed pretty interested but cancelled on me twice. A couple weeks go by and she Matches with me on bumble and hits me up lol wtf
richcreek I've been rejected over 100 times in the last 2 years and I consider myself a fucking amazing man but it's just part of the deal...you're the shit brotha and you'll go the distance because you're a 3% man and we always find a way
I was rejected twice,ghosted,and ignored..I persisted and am with the Woman of any mans dreams..Life is good..Persistence works with class Woman,maybe not for skanks..
because of you I started standing up for my self at work and holy shit i starting to get all the female to respect me by simply saying " what your doing/saying is disrespecting and i don't like it" and that's all it takes
Seems like a lot of work for some chick that might not be worth it. IDK I would've moved on by now. Now that I'm old I don't give a rip, its just fun to read all this and look back at what I used to do in dating, lol. I feel sorry for you guys now a days with all the texting and FB and ALL that bullshit. It was bad enough before all the hi tech chats and face time. If you do find a decent girl, cherish and protect that relationship, who knows wtf will pass for dating in the next few years.
Corey, I think it should be phrased differently. The Strongest negotiating position is not to walk away but “The strongest negotiating position is to ‘Know your worth and choose yourself’”. With that mindset you think more of choosing yourself rather than play the dating game.
Dude these videos are the best. I’m of course watching because I started fucking up with a girl and I feel so much better now about it. Corey knows his SHIT! Listen to every word and implement it or suffer the consequences
I enjoyed this news letter...as I man,you have to learn to be centered. After hearing what Corey just said,i remember a lot of what he said is true....I remember I used to pursue a girl that had zero interest in me. I remember doing a lot of unnecessary things trying to get her attention. after a few years,i realize that I was chasing someone that didn't want to be cough. stop calling and texting her. I didn't realize that I was being needy and and acting like a beta male. A year ago,i started watching these news letters and I haven't stop watching them till this day. I also purchased the book and sees that it has a lot of positive information. This book speaks volume to me.
That happened to me in less than two weeks of me being weak and needing approval because of work and money stress she dumped me for a coworker. 3 weeks later she send a message saying she happy seeing me at work. Tried to be direct for a date but she didn't answer. Her last message was "the truth is that i want to see you. I never thought you would ask me to meet up"
Old video, but "Hank Moody" is a character on a show called Californication played by David Duchovny. His character embodies masculine energy much like James Bond(most of the time). Good, funny show.
So you're gonna move in with a chick that YOU want to be with and she doesn't want to be with you? You know that you are going to be tortured for an entire year of her bringing other men home. GOD forbid she's getting her back blown out by some dude and you can hear it. The guy that had his girl cheat on him with the dude for the islands, look at the Eddie Murphy standup where he talks about "Dexter St. Jox."
I really get annoyed by the people who obviously do not practice what your book says I know things may not be successful all the time but I really love hearing the guys who practiced your book’s teachings and made a successful situation I really feel the guys in the email want a quick fix or for you to agree with their intentions. I feel your advice for them may go in one ear and out the other. They have the source to change their situation (your book) but are not applying any of it.
pls help! -got rejected twice for asking out on a date -->no contact & withdrawal of my attention towards her -9 days later she initiated contact w smth like "did not forget you,much work,tonight im out with a friend.."(sent picture of her and female friend) I responded next day:good to hear from you,have a good time!;) -12 days later she initiated contact again w smth like "Hi,was busy for the last 2 weeks and this weekend goin to move into a new apartment...If you still want to get to know me after that let me know:)" So Is this a scenario of her bringing up a meetup where it is legit for me asking her out again "great so,when are you free then?" or is it not clear enough from her side?
UPDATE: decided to go for it and responded her 4 days later: "Hi,I`m busy.let me know when youre free,and well see ; )" half an hour later she responded with a picture of her on the wedding of her sister: "Ive been on the wedding of my sister :D" Think shes trying to get me chasing again, after I recently showed weak behaviour.. Now I leave her on read... If anything new i`ll keep you Updated, just in case anyone deals w a similar situation
@@GasperBregar Someone who is really interested in meeting up with you will make it easy and wont play much of a game...Never met her.Focus on yourself and dont get caught up on flaky women,thats what I have learned big time ;-)
Man sex playmates are the best, like seriously had like 5 of them before my last relationship, sorry but I’m not good to be in a relationship but I tell them straight up now
Hey coach, just started reading your book and it has made me come to realise I don't know much about woman. I'm lucky to have found out about you, to bad it wasn't earlier that way I'm positive I'd still be in a relationship. Anyways just wanted to show my appreciation and that I love the part in your book about Cats and Dogs, funny shit that makes you think. On my way to buy a cat for practice.
So how do I pull it off when the girl constantly ignores me and has cancelled several dates and turned me down multiple times. Only excepted maybe a 3rd of my offers. She tells me she has a big crush on me still. I'm trying to implement the no contact rule and act indifferent but we work together and she always texts me first. I haven't initiated texting in about a month. It really doesn't even bother me until I get to work and I see her strutting up and down the workplace like a super model so then I say and do shit I shouldn't. I mean I still have to talk to her professionally so flirting happens and she thinks I'm still wrapped around her finger. Idk any advice?? Anyone?
Same shit happened to me but she said "her friend died" got a call from her friends mother 2 hrs before our date was supposed to happen. I called the bitch out and she got butthurt and said why cant i trust her? My .02 fuck em, move along. If they dont value our time, dont give it to them.
Coach Corey, is it a good thing or bad thing if your ex sees you on dating sites? Does it signal to her that it's over as far as you're concerned or does it make them jealous and realise they may lose you of they don't act?
So, stuck in a situation. I got a girl ( which we live in different states) and she said she was down to hang out. I got us tickets to Chicago originally but had to change plans to Boston/Salem, because of the restrictions that NY has. She couldn't make it out and I saw your video of flaking and I used that to my advantage, and she says I see nothing but good vibes and she chose to reschedule to meet me in NY. I let a few days by and simply asked her if she would go check out a cool thing called Hudson Yards, now she sounds like she is flaking again, but she made it seem apologetic the first time around! She says she has every intention to respond and give her a few days and maybe be cancelling this trip. ( Any way I can flip the script so she won't flake twice?).
Hey Corey, I read your book 4 times and I got a serious question. I know that all that the man has to do is create a fun filled romantic date, and just have hangout, have fun hookup. However, when your girlfriend is doing something that pisses you off, you obviously have to stand up for yourself. But if I were to say something to her, wouldn't that create unnecessary drama, instead of me being the fun guy? Yes, I want to stand up for myself, but I also want to avoid drama, how should I go about this?
Just say what you want to say. If she doesn't like it then get rid of her and find yourself a better woman. Think about it, this woman has caused you to be afraid of being yourself.
Certainly mention that what she did bothers you just make sure you do it with love. What I mean is pay attention to your tone of voice and how you bring it up. If you do this well and she still doesn't stop then you have to ask yourself: Is this a flaw I'm willing to tolerate? If the answer is no, start dating other women asap.
Hi Corey! What's your opinion on a ghoster who keeps breadcrumbing a few times a month and then has asked me out to dinner twice via text since then...the first time I already had plans for that nite so he said to get ahold of him the next day, and when I did he said he was with his dad and didn't even mention anything about going out to dinner! The second time was about 2 weeks later. He randomly reached out to me via text again and I was much shorter with him this time...he kept trying to keep up the convo and then eventually said "We need to hang out sometime". I responded with "Oh?" and he said "Yeah, we never did get that dinner." WTF??? HE is the one who blew me off and pretended as if he never even asked me to dinner! So I said that when he has a date and time in mind I would try to make it work (due to working 7 days a week) and then I suggested that Saturday or Friday night. His reply was that he "thinks he's busy Saturday night" and would get back to me and never did. What are your thoughts on this? I don't know how to reply if he contacts me again. Ignore? Tell him off? Help please!! :(
I've been talking to a guy off and on for about months, we went out three time within that four months. The last date was the four month and we hung out all night with his friends and ended up at his house. Thay morning he took me home, I didn't let him come to my house ( wasn't sure if I should) . He texted me a hour after dropping me off, and everyday after that for 4 days. I told him I wanted to see him and he didn't reply, next day he texted me , I told him again, he said cool, but them flaked last minute, but asked what I'm doing tomorrow? ! I don't get it, I want to block him after move on afternoon this point , his 35 and I'm 29. I take this as a red flag. He's a popular guy , and nice lookong, but I'm nice lookong as well, I feel weird about it but I wont chase him, his to old for that in my eyes .
What if she says hey I really wanna see you, was hoping to see you tonight but sorry I can’t I have something planned already. Do you break the 2 times rule and ask when she’s free? Or is this a trap to get you to ask again?
ok, so she rejected me twice . I keep meeting her on her workplace once a week cause i do my own things there. She really acts interested, she talks to me a lot, she hugs me etc. how am i suppose to be with her???
I had a guy that was interested in me met twice he used to chat with me they were nice to me at first they offered an event including me in their plans and canceled it today five days before the day
She has cancelled dates 7 times but I know she is playing hard to get😊 I will send more flowers, chocolates and a nice Hermes scarf and she will consider again.
You change my life man I buying the book 📖 also I wan Skype or face book sections because my English isn’t that good better if I talk also I well appreciate if you get back to me
Alright 3%ers do you consider snapchats that dont seem to be specific to you or just sent to keep the snapstreak as reaching out or as a social media post?
That guy got so lucky that his girlfriend went off the rails before the marriage. He could have gotten married with a child and spent the rest of his life paying for it. He dodged a giant bullet.
one thing I love about Corey's work, is he don't encourage hooking up someone that has a relationship and cheating is a disguising crime, specially for women. that's a fuckin alpha male mentality right there. self worth is the important thing in the world.
"You acted weak for what? a month or two... and she's already fucking some other fruitarian dreadlock dude... fuck that! She's out!" :)))) This cracked me up! :)))
Please I just need a quick yes or no to see if I'm doing things right. My case is she said was free x day. I set definitive time and place. She agreed but hoped nothing happenes so she can go out. The day comes and she text 2 hours before to cancel because she was called to work and be out at x time. I replied thanks for letting me know. Wish you good night and let me know when your schedule is lighter so we can make plans. She said she wanted to see me but needs her job and the money. This was going to be the third date. Before that week I had asked her what was her schedule and she said she it was challenging but hope to be free next week. Then the next week this happened. So my correct course of action would be to ignore her completely right? Like no longer giving likes or watching her WhatsApp status's. Until hearing from her. Am I correct?
MrGamer5682 yes bro ignore her or she’ll start to think you are trying too much it’s all good had a similar situation . Also she might have low interest because girls usually make time for who they want to make time for ya kno
@@artworld6574 thanks for the reply man. Here's the update so far: by day 4 ignoring her completely, she texted complimenting me from a vid she saw that day. I kept it short saying thanks hope you have a great week. She replied your welcome with a heart. Next week she texted again after seeing a vid of me on an live music activity asking what was it and that she wants to come with me the next time another comes up. I replied I'll let you know in time when the next comes up. She replied thanks. Here is my question: up to this point. Is it safe to ask her out again when the next activity comes? Next one comes on three weeks
MrGamer5682 yeah bro you can , it’s more of a follow up than really asking her again . She reached out twice and said she wants to go so I’ll follow up a couple days before like “hey the fest is coming up , you still wanted to go with me ?” If she says yeah then good but if no , then I’ll leave for good man because then its as if she doesn’t know what she wants because she’s the one who wanted to go with you. And those type of girls can be a headache.
@@artworld6574 I agree. At one point I thought that too. That she doesn't know what she wants. I decided I don't want to keep up with it and went to no contact. But she kept coming back, reaching out, you know. It's been 6 months up to today.
@@artworld6574 let me share the update. Wednesday she sent and image of a place with it's scheduled activity and suggested we should go. I replied looks great what day would you want to go. She replied Sunday is most likely to be free. Saturday is busy with study and work so Sunday is free for now. Because she said "for now" I did the take away I replied ok well let me know once you figure your schedule otherwise It'll be some other time. On Saturday she ask me to call her Sunday. I replied ok I got stuff to do but will see. Sunday I call her. We talk for 5 minutes. She said she did a lot of things but will trying to get together today because we have lots to talk but because she said she still need to take care of things I did the take away I said sounds you have too many things going on so we better do this some other time. She said she's going to try cause she definitely wants to meet up at aprox x time. I said ok. About two hours she text I just had a detour and don't think i could make it. But I'm interested in going out with you another day. I replied the next morning ok. Will see throughout the week and I'll let you know. Here is my question: "is it ok to call her half way of the week or the next week to invite her out to that live music activity? This happened Sunday so I'm not sure I should call her Wednesday of that week or the following week. Please let me know what would be my best course of action.
Does anyone have any advice on texting woman after getting the phone number. Wait a couple days and text them ? I'm 27 and I am starting to notice woman my age don't like talking on the phone and a lot of dudes create attraction through texting and eventually they meet the woman because the woman feel safe because they been texting. I follow the coach but the phone calls aren't really working .
I follow your work. However the girls that I really want, don't do what you say they will do or act in your videos and books. Most of this is bullshit. Some of it is good. JS
Yeah Surprised big time Corey doesn't know who Hank Moody is. He's the essence of what his book is all about. Lady slayer. It aint just James Bond. He should start referencing Hank Moody.
The responsibility of a reschedule belongs to the person who canceled:
1. because it's good manners to offer an alternative when you are cancelling on the other party
2. because it shows that you actually cared about the meeting and arent just dodging the other person
An offer to reschedule should be done at the time of cancellation and the only reasons to not do so are:
1. the reason for the cancellation makes picking a new time immediately impossible like a chronic illness or a close friend or family death
2. they didn’t really want to go in the first place and are leaving it open so that they have no obligation, yet didn't have to outright say they didn't want to go
I usually put the ball in the court of the person who cancelled, although I may ask once about the reschedule depending on the person and the reason for cancel. Anything more than that is begging someone who is either not interested in hanging with you or likely has poor social etiquette. Moreover, I wouldn’t plan something again with someone who has flaked on me twice in a row.
How to tell if the reason a woman or man canceled a date with you is legitimate, or if they are just simply blowing you off due to a low interest in you. When dealing with flaky people how many chances should you give them?
Here's the thing: People in general are going to flake from time to time, but the key thing to PAY ATTENTION TO is How They Flake On You. When they flake or cancel are they simply saying "Sorry I can't make it" or are they saying "I'm really sorry we can't hangout today, but does another day this week work for you?". You gotta notice if the person who flaked on you is asking to reschedule because that's the greatest indicator of whether or not they're actually interested and want to see you.
Keep moving forward. If they don't wanna see you, they don't like you. Words don't matter. Clearing time for you guys to be together(and have sex) is all that matters. Stop reading into texts because, again, WORDS alone don't matter. "I'm so sorry." "I can't see you that weekend; I'll be too busy and you'll be too distracting."
Never talk about negative stuff when you're together. ALWAYS have fun, if you're not enjoying yourself, BAIL. You. don't. owe. them. anything.
Its easier to just dont seek
I give in, I'm sending you a donation, Corey! You have changed my life. Keep it up brotha!
Love it when Corey gets pissed off at the stories he's sent!
..but every word he says is the truth.
It's called passion, not being pissed off.
Coach Corey Wayne Absolutely, your passionate reactions to the stories, on behalf of these guys, show you really care.
The responsibility of a reschedule belongs to the person who canceled:
1. because it's good manners to offer an alternative when you are cancelling on the other party
2. because it shows that you actually cared about the meeting and arent just dodging the other person
An offer to reschedule should be done at the time of cancellation and the only reasons to not do so are:
1. the reason for the cancellation makes picking a new time immediately impossible like a chronic illness or a close friend or family death
2. they didn’t really want to go in the first place and are leaving it open so that they have no obligation, yet didn't have to outright say they didn't want to go
I usually put the ball in the court of the person who cancelled, although I may ask once about the reschedule depending on the person and the reason for cancel. Anything more than that is begging someone who is either not interested in hanging with you or likely has poor social etiquette. Moreover, I wouldn’t plan something again with someone who has flaked on me twice in a row.
How to tell if the reason a woman or man canceled a date with you is legitimate, or if they are just simply blowing you off due to a low interest in you. When dealing with flaky people how many chances should you give them?
Here's the thing: People in general are going to flake from time to time, but the key thing to PAY ATTENTION TO is How They Flake On You. When they flake or cancel are they simply saying "Sorry I can't make it" or are they saying "I'm really sorry we can't hangout today, but does another day this week work for you?". You gotta notice if the person who flaked on you is asking to reschedule because that's the greatest indicator of whether or not they're actually interested and want to see you.
lmao I love these videos, hes like the older brother every guy needs
I wish a had an older brother, all I have is an older sister and two younger brothers.
Corey - I have to interview you on my nationally syndicated radio show
I'm very happy that everything I learned from coach Corey is working. I applied them on my ex. I truly think she's the most beautiful girl I've ever been with. Sometimes she texts me just to basically say hey I'm here! Although she tests me Sometimes just to see if I still have those old needy behaviors I had 2 years ago. But I pass them all! One thing she doesn't know is I'm in coach Corey university! And I'm an A+ student! Life is so good. We're not together yet obviously because it takes time and patience. So meanwhile I'm having a date tomorrow with this new girl! Good luck everyone!
I know it Fours yrs since you wrote your story
I’d love too k ow how long did it take your ex too reach out?
I’ve been in NC now for 64 days
And not a peep from her 🤨
Matty Kay No Contact means there is no hope of hearing from her again, it’s not to be expecting a response. Hope that helps.
I used to feel so concerned when I would ask women out and they would either ignore me or cancel. Since following your work, not only do I find it easy to let go off these situations but I have also become more selective in my choice of women. I do not fall for many women like I used to before, which in my own view is the first true sign that I am becoming more and more emotionally mature. A few months ago, I asked a woman who works with me out but she was very flaky in giving me a response and I just said, well whenever you want, give me a shout. A few days ago, she asked me out. She had many opportunities to see me joking around the office and she also figured out I was seeing another woman from the office (she actually mentioned it jokingly to me). So, yeah, I am kind of indifferent now since she ignored me a while back but am willing to give her a second chance and see if something happens. Its all cool really, the way I see it, I have a date with a good looking woman I've never been out with before.
im in this situation too, girl at work is acting hot and cold towards me, starting today im gonna be indifferent and move on from her, its a shame cos I really like this girl, but oh well her loss 🤘🏽
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Girl really just flaked on me for the second time for a date with another bull crap excuse. I’m glad I got Coreys how to be a 3% man audio version when I did cuz now instead of getting upset, I simply just say “forget it” and move on. Not gonna waste my time with someone who doesn’t value my time.
I have to say that I've never seen such a genuine guy being so honest about how to treat someone who mistreated you. Corey, the way you said that the guy from the fourth email should tell his ex, that he'll always love her, but he will never ever be in a relationship or marriage with her got really to my heart. I've been there and IT IS fucking hard to be brutal honest, but thats what those people deserve. One day (maybe not today or tomorrow, but some day in her life) she will wonder what would've happened, if she wouldn't have been such a cheating asshole to a person who truly loved her. I've learned a lot from you and I'm sure many others too, thank you very much, my dude.
“We are not sharing a bedroom”. Peace out! ✌🏼
Com on man!!!! thats a clear sign shes not interested, Read the book!!!,
Anytime she wants to go on a girls trip without you, that's a huge red flag. I'm not surprised she cheated.
Matched with a girl on Hinge who seemed pretty interested but cancelled on me twice. A couple weeks go by and she Matches with me on bumble and hits me up lol wtf
get off dating apps! women on there dont want to date, they want hookups and free ego boost
hank moody is a character from the show "californication" played bu david duchovny. another informative video by the way
The coach rebuking and
berating those dudes who
messed up is being done
in a very fun way 😊
NC is 'No Contact" aka North Carolina lol
Brah 😂
ive been rejected 47 time in the past 6 years since ive been divorced
+occupynewparadigm burn notice omg michael is hot
richcreek I've been rejected over 100 times in the last 2 years and I consider myself a fucking amazing man but it's just part of the deal...you're the shit brotha and you'll go the distance because you're a 3% man and we always find a way
richcreek : Agent 47 ?? Is that you???😮
I’m the same
I’m not giving up
👍🏻✌🏻
I hope the ass you got on #48 was great, never give up homie
I was rejected twice,ghosted,and ignored..I persisted and am with the Woman of any mans dreams..Life is good..Persistence works with class Woman,maybe not for skanks..
because of you I started standing up for my self at work and holy shit i starting to get all the female to respect me by simply saying " what your doing/saying is disrespecting and i don't like it" and that's all it takes
Dont bother dating work related girls though, unless you don't value your job. Can be risky waters
Seems like a lot of work for some chick that might not be worth it. IDK I would've moved on by now. Now that I'm old I don't give a rip, its just fun to read all this and look back at what I used to do in dating, lol. I feel sorry for you guys now a days with all the texting and FB and ALL that bullshit. It was bad enough before all the hi tech chats and face time.
If you do find a decent girl, cherish and protect that relationship, who knows wtf will pass for dating in the next few years.
Corey, I think it should be phrased differently. The Strongest negotiating position is not to walk away but “The strongest negotiating position is to ‘Know your worth and choose yourself’”. With that mindset you think more of choosing yourself rather than play the dating game.
Just subbed. Congrats on 20k. I been watching for awhile. It's a long road but I'll learn
Dude looks like thanos
Thanos Wayne. Purple Batman lol
@Lone Lee hahahaha you killed me bru
@@TheVermifuge Thanos Wayne is spot on.
His rizz is inevitable
@@Lautaro95w 🤣🤣
Dude these videos are the best. I’m of course watching because I started fucking up with a girl and I feel so much better now about it. Corey knows his SHIT! Listen to every word and implement it or suffer the consequences
I enjoyed this news letter...as I man,you have to learn to be centered. After hearing what Corey just said,i remember a lot of what he said is true....I remember I used to pursue a girl that had zero interest in me. I remember doing a lot of unnecessary things trying to get her attention. after a few years,i realize that I was chasing someone that didn't want to be cough. stop calling and texting her. I didn't realize that I was being needy and and acting like a beta male. A year ago,i started watching these news letters and I haven't stop watching them till this day. I also purchased the book and sees that it has a lot of positive information. This book speaks volume to me.
Jean Louis i find if you ignore women they will only just ignore you back.
That happened to me in less than two weeks of me being weak and needing approval because of work and money stress she dumped me for a coworker. 3 weeks later she send a message saying she happy seeing me at work. Tried to be direct for a date but she didn't answer. Her last message was "the truth is that i want to see you. I never thought you would ask me to meet up"
Old video, but "Hank Moody" is a character on a show called Californication played by David Duchovny. His character embodies masculine energy much like James Bond(most of the time). Good, funny show.
So you're gonna move in with a chick that YOU want to be with and she doesn't want to be with you? You know that you are going to be tortured for an entire year of her bringing other men home.
GOD forbid she's getting her back blown out by some dude and you can hear it.
The guy that had his girl cheat on him with the dude for the islands, look at the Eddie Murphy standup where he talks about "Dexter St. Jox."
This is so amazing I have matured so much my confidence is through the roof thank you Coach Corey
Just bought the book off amazon, should get it tomorrow, can not wait to dive into it
What kind of post is that? That's like me writing, "I just ate a cookie, can't wait to eat another cookie tomorrow."
Hmm acting bitchy i see, i guess i didnt notice that you did your nails today. Gotta read the book another 14 times.
Good come back bro. I like your sense of humor instead of getting all pissed off.
The Coach always makes me laugh. He has a future as a stand up comedian. LOL.
Cory i need to call you, I have a hot girl i need advice with with. So far these videos are working for me. Your sh**t works.
I really get annoyed by the people who obviously do not practice what your book says
I know things may not be successful all the time but I really love hearing the guys who practiced your book’s teachings and made a successful situation
I really feel the guys in the email want a quick fix or for you to agree with their intentions. I feel your advice for them may go in one ear and out the other. They have the source to change their situation (your book) but are not applying any of it.
😂🤣 "give her a hug, and a kiss, thankyou baby" 🤣
Can’t reward ANYONE for bad behavior with YOUR time; better to be single that “with” someone that can’t/won’t love and respect you.
pls help!
-got rejected twice for asking out on a date
-->no contact & withdrawal of my attention towards her
-9 days later she initiated contact w smth like "did not forget you,much work,tonight im out with a friend.."(sent picture of her and female friend)
I responded next day:good to hear from you,have a good time!;)
-12 days later she initiated contact again w smth like "Hi,was busy for the last 2 weeks and this weekend goin to move into a new apartment...If you still want to get to know me after that let me know:)"
So Is this a scenario of her bringing up a meetup where it is legit for me asking her out again "great so,when are you free then?"
or is it not clear enough from her side?
UPDATE:
decided to go for it and responded her 4 days later:
"Hi,I`m busy.let me know when youre free,and well see ; )"
half an hour later she responded with a picture
of her on the wedding of her sister:
"Ive been on the wedding of my sister :D"
Think shes trying to get me chasing again,
after I recently showed weak behaviour..
Now I leave her on read...
If anything new i`ll keep you Updated,
just in case anyone deals w a similar situation
@@HundeDomenico How did it ended up?
@@GasperBregar Someone who is really interested in meeting up with you will make it easy and wont play much of a game...Never met her.Focus on yourself and dont get caught up on flaky women,thats what I have learned big time ;-)
Hank moody- is from "Californication", considered an ideal Alpha Male
I was gonna comment on that as well... Hank Moody from Californication... must watch!
He is stil bèta for karen
Man sex playmates are the best, like seriously had like 5 of them before my last relationship, sorry but I’m not good to be in a relationship but I tell them straight up now
fruit loop dread lock guy😂😂.. this video cracked me up
Softfire lol
Hey coach, just started reading your book and it has made me come to realise I don't know much about woman.
I'm lucky to have found out about you, to bad it wasn't earlier that way I'm positive I'd still be in a relationship.
Anyways just wanted to show my appreciation and that I love the part in your book about Cats and Dogs, funny shit that makes you think.
On my way to buy a cat for practice.
You have really the coolest videos ever on coach
By the Way, in the European Letter, I thin "NC" means No contact
Hey coach, is your book about dealing with human nature in general? I didn’t recieve it yet (shipping), so that’s why.
Hey Corey! By any chance is the book translated in Spanish? I would love to give it to my Spanish Friends.
So how do I pull it off when the girl constantly ignores me and has cancelled several dates and turned me down multiple times. Only excepted maybe a 3rd of my offers. She tells me she has a big crush on me still. I'm trying to implement the no contact rule and act indifferent but we work together and she always texts me first. I haven't initiated texting in about a month. It really doesn't even bother me until I get to work and I see her strutting up and down the workplace like a super model so then I say and do shit I shouldn't. I mean I still have to talk to her professionally so flirting happens and she thinks I'm still wrapped around her finger. Idk any advice?? Anyone?
she cancelled our date due to a funeral, legit or bs reason? she said her cousin died, she has agreed to reschedule and said thank you
Same shit happened to me but she said "her friend died" got a call from her friends mother 2 hrs before our date was supposed to happen. I called the bitch out and she got butthurt and said why cant i trust her? My .02 fuck em, move along. If they dont value our time, dont give it to them.
what if "she" ask you out for a date but cancel it?
That woman who wanted him to propose who then turned cold? As soon as I visited her, I would have dumped her on the spot.
Coach Corey, is it a good thing or bad thing if your ex sees you on dating sites? Does it signal to her that it's over as far as you're concerned or does it make them jealous and realise they may lose you of they don't act?
coach ur words are gold - im glad you realised you had treasures to share...ur truths are a big wake up call
Hank moody is the main character on californication
So, stuck in a situation. I got a girl ( which we live in different states) and she said she was down to hang out. I got us tickets to Chicago originally but had to change plans to Boston/Salem, because of the restrictions that NY has. She couldn't make it out and I saw your video of flaking and I used that to my advantage, and she says I see nothing but good vibes and she chose to reschedule to meet me in NY. I let a few days by and simply asked her if she would go check out a cool thing called Hudson Yards, now she sounds like she is flaking again, but she made it seem apologetic the first time around!
She says she has every intention to respond and give her a few days and maybe be cancelling this trip. ( Any way I can flip the script so she won't flake twice?).
Corey’s reactions from 16:22 to 16:33 has me dead😆
Friendzone that's fucked up
Hey Corey, I read your book 4 times and I got a serious question. I know that all that the man has to do is create a fun filled romantic date, and just have hangout, have fun hookup. However, when your girlfriend is doing something that pisses you off, you obviously have to stand up for yourself. But if I were to say something to her, wouldn't that create unnecessary drama, instead of me being the fun guy? Yes, I want to stand up for myself, but I also want to avoid drama, how should I go about this?
he has made a video about this, search his channel
Just say what you want to say. If she doesn't like it then get rid of her and find yourself a better woman. Think about it, this woman has caused you to be afraid of being yourself.
Certainly mention that what she did bothers you just make sure you do it with love. What I mean is pay attention to your tone of voice and how you bring it up. If you do this well and she still doesn't stop then you have to ask yourself: Is this a flaw I'm willing to tolerate? If the answer is no, start dating other women asap.
Hi Corey! What's your opinion on a ghoster who keeps breadcrumbing a few times a month and then has asked me out to dinner twice via text since then...the first time I already had plans for that nite so he said to get ahold of him the next day, and when I did he said he was with his dad and didn't even mention anything about going out to dinner! The second time was about 2 weeks later. He randomly reached out to me via text again and I was much shorter with him this time...he kept trying to keep up the convo and then eventually said "We need to hang out sometime". I responded with "Oh?" and he said "Yeah, we never did get that dinner." WTF??? HE is the one who blew me off and pretended as if he never even asked me to dinner! So I said that when he has a date and time in mind I would try to make it work (due to working 7 days a week) and then I suggested that Saturday or Friday night. His reply was that he "thinks he's busy Saturday night" and would get back to me and never did. What are your thoughts on this? I don't know how to reply if he contacts me again. Ignore? Tell him off? Help please!! :(
I've been talking to a guy off and on for about months, we went out three time within that four months. The last date was the four month and we hung out all night with his friends and ended up at his house. Thay morning he took me home, I didn't let him come to my house ( wasn't sure if I should) . He texted me a hour after dropping me off, and everyday after that for 4 days. I told him I wanted to see him and he didn't reply, next day he texted me , I told him again, he said cool, but them flaked last minute, but asked what I'm doing tomorrow? ! I don't get it, I want to block him after move on afternoon this point , his 35 and I'm 29. I take this as a red flag. He's a popular guy , and nice lookong, but I'm nice lookong as well, I feel weird about it but I wont chase him, his to old for that in my eyes .
What if she says hey I really wanna see you, was hoping to see you tonight but sorry I can’t I have something planned already. Do you break the 2 times rule and ask when she’s free? Or is this a trap to get you to ask again?
Here in 2020
What if ex sends you random snap chats every few days but won't call/text to communicate. Respond to the snap chats with randomness or don't at all?
I guess treat it the same way Corey says to treat when she reaches out on Facebook, which is to ignore it since she isn't reaching over the phone.
Damjan Visnjic church
Don’t respond don’t even fucking look at them dude
She is ghosting and bread-crumbing you. Run for the hills!!
Thanks Corey.
Why was relationship so much easier when I was younger
Nobody had bagages
ok, so she rejected me twice . I keep meeting her on her workplace once a week cause i do my own things there. She really acts interested, she talks to me a lot, she hugs me etc. how am i suppose to be with her???
I had a guy that was interested in me met twice he used to chat with me they were nice to me at first they offered an event including me in their plans and canceled it today five days before the day
She has cancelled dates 7 times but I know she is playing hard to get😊 I will send more flowers, chocolates and a nice Hermes scarf and she will consider again.
This gotta be a joke
Women just need to pick a guy and stick with him and stop look over the fence, it’s ridiculous, women need to learn the word loyalty.
Moving in together but separate rooms? LOL....she wants a cheap or free place to stay.
What if she call u out that u don’t text her and that u cut it short. Do U tell her straight up or just say it’s because your busy
You change my life man I buying the book 📖 also I wan Skype or face book sections because my English isn’t that good better if I talk also I well appreciate if you get back to me
Ahahahahaha this just killed me " you want a woman that's like Fuck YEA " xaxaxaxa
Alright 3%ers do you consider snapchats that dont seem to be specific to you or just sent to keep the snapstreak as reaching out or as a social media post?
lol dude, shared snapchats are like Facebook posts.. don’t take them personally for good or bad
That guy got so lucky that his girlfriend went off the rails before the marriage. He could have gotten married with a child and spent the rest of his life paying for it. He dodged a giant bullet.
one thing I love about Corey's work, is he don't encourage hooking up someone that has a relationship and cheating is a disguising crime, specially for women. that's a fuckin alpha male mentality right there. self worth is the important thing in the world.
"You acted weak for what? a month or two... and she's already fucking some other fruitarian dreadlock dude... fuck that! She's out!" :)))) This cracked me up! :)))
NC === No Contact
"We're moving in together but not in the same bedroom together."
Bruh...
Anyone else think this guy looks like Shawn Michaels?
Hank Moody: see Californication.
Hell yeah. Hank was an alpha in that show most of the time. He only really jacked up when he would chase Karen.
Please I just need a quick yes or no to see if I'm doing things right. My case is she said was free x day. I set definitive time and place. She agreed but hoped nothing happenes so she can go out. The day comes and she text 2 hours before to cancel because she was called to work and be out at x time. I replied thanks for letting me know. Wish you good night and let me know when your schedule is lighter so we can make plans. She said she wanted to see me but needs her job and the money. This was going to be the third date. Before that week I had asked her what was her schedule and she said she it was challenging but hope to be free next week. Then the next week this happened. So my correct course of action would be to ignore her completely right? Like no longer giving likes or watching her WhatsApp status's. Until hearing from her. Am I correct?
MrGamer5682 yes bro ignore her or she’ll start to think you are trying too much it’s all good had a similar situation . Also she might have low interest because girls usually make time for who they want to make time for ya kno
@@artworld6574 thanks for the reply man. Here's the update so far: by day 4 ignoring her completely, she texted complimenting me from a vid she saw that day. I kept it short saying thanks hope you have a great week. She replied your welcome with a heart. Next week she texted again after seeing a vid of me on an live music activity asking what was it and that she wants to come with me the next time another comes up. I replied I'll let you know in time when the next comes up. She replied thanks. Here is my question: up to this point. Is it safe to ask her out again when the next activity comes? Next one comes on three weeks
MrGamer5682 yeah bro you can , it’s more of a follow up than really asking her again . She reached out twice and said she wants to go so I’ll follow up a couple days before like “hey the fest is coming up , you still wanted to go with me ?” If she says yeah then good but if no , then I’ll leave for good man because then its as if she doesn’t know what she wants because she’s the one who wanted to go with you. And those type of girls can be a headache.
@@artworld6574 I agree. At one point I thought that too. That she doesn't know what she wants. I decided I don't want to keep up with it and went to no contact. But she kept coming back, reaching out, you know. It's been 6 months up to today.
@@artworld6574 let me share the update. Wednesday she sent and image of a place with it's scheduled activity and suggested we should go. I replied looks great what day would you want to go. She replied Sunday is most likely to be free. Saturday is busy with study and work so Sunday is free for now. Because she said "for now" I did the take away I replied ok well let me know once you figure your schedule otherwise It'll be some other time. On Saturday she ask me to call her Sunday. I replied ok I got stuff to do but will see. Sunday I call her. We talk for 5 minutes. She said she did a lot of things but will trying to get together today because we have lots to talk but because she said she still need to take care of things I did the take away I said sounds you have too many things going on so we better do this some other time. She said she's going to try cause she definitely wants to meet up at aprox x time. I said ok. About two hours she text I just had a detour and don't think i could make it. But I'm interested in going out with you another day. I replied the next morning ok. Will see throughout the week and I'll let you know. Here is my question: "is it ok to call her half way of the week or the next week to invite her out to that live music activity? This happened Sunday so I'm not sure I should call her Wednesday of that week or the following week. Please let me know what would be my best course of action.
NC stands for no contact I guess ...lol
Hank Moody!!!
Does anyone have any advice on texting woman after getting the phone number. Wait a couple days and text them ? I'm 27 and I am starting to notice woman my age don't like talking on the phone and a lot of dudes create attraction through texting and eventually they meet the woman because the woman feel safe because they been texting. I follow the coach but the phone calls aren't really working .
It depends on the woman. I prefer having a phone conversation over a text any day!
"she went with a fructarian" ... LoL
Damn I wish my x followed your work ‼️
women have responsibilities too.
Fruitarian dreadlock dude... I just spit my water out when I heard that. This guy is too much🤣
Hank Moody is from Californication. He is a pure Alpha male
If i saw them in 2014
I love how you're a profesional, but are able to say things like _she's like meeh..., fuck that_.
men do this too! how do you handle that ?
Rejected twice? Move on. One-itis isn't a strong game plan. That's beta male behavior.
I follow your work. However the girls that I really want, don't do what you say they will do or act in your videos and books. Most of this is bullshit. Some of it is good. JS
Yes fuck that noise...
The fruitarian guy! Hahahahahahahahaha LOL 😂🤣😂🤭
"Some fckn fruitarian dreadlock dude!?!"
Wow fools want the ex back!!! Meanwhile the ex is getting her insides rearranged.. Start with a new one! Weak dudes!
@10:54 😂😂😂.
Hank Moody -- Californication
Do some research Corey!
Yeah Surprised big time Corey doesn't know who Hank Moody is. He's the essence of what his book is all about. Lady slayer. It aint just James Bond. He should start referencing Hank Moody.
Fucking amazing videos
Eh, fuck that! Lol