Why Is She So Flakey?
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Why women act flakey by asking to see you, making plans but then flaking at the last minute and canceling. What to do when a woman has repeatedly flaked on you, but continues contacting you saying that she wants to see you.
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I feel a lot of the times people just want to get back together to get undumped. Then end the relationship on their terms.
That’s such a waste of time. But you might be right
Big facts 😂 like I can't jus go like that
@@thetalkinggrowthchannel9262save both of yours’ time and energy and move on if you’re doing this now! You agree that you want to end the relationship (when you get back together) but your ego/pride is preventing you from accepting the reality that you guys aren’t working out. The bigger flex is moving on and being unbothered!!! Peace & love
To me, it feels like it's something women do.
Female here...this is so right. A definete date, yes, please. I need to know what I'm doing with my schedule! I need to know he's definetely interested! I need to be respected. I'm going through this exact thing with a guy now. You sounded like a ....to me before, but now I'm lapping this up. This is great for gals also, to get a sense of the male point of view. Cheers.
If a girl flakes on you, imo, more than once, she's not worth it. Imo it's immature and shows a lack of respect for your time and efforts.
Sure, some girls are just bad at remembering events, but it seems like a lot/most of girls who are flaky are just making excuses cause they just 'decide' or don't 'feel' up for it. I guess like the video said, it takes two people to make a relationship work, and I as the guy can't be expected to do it all. I don't mind if the girl is responsive and open to hanging out, if she flakes several times, I'm either done or she has to be the one to make the effort to win back my trust.
I completely agree Tim
I even had a taken lady flake out on me
True
I can confirm, that making the date when they reach out leads to her no-showing. Don't waste the effort if she wont- you need a partner in life not a muse, tag is for kindergargers and the 97%ers!
Finally a dating coach who isn't dispensing garbage advice. This is like a breath of fresh air
Thanks for being their Coach you help me get over my break up by watching your video's and book . My attitude is starting to match how I really feel about myself .
What I needed to hear today to help me move on. Definitely made a lot of mistakes but she's also a fruit loop so pursuing any more is only hindering my own future.
Mr. Corey, I just bought your book and I have to have say it's been one of the best decisions I've made in life. I like one section where you mention that we, men, should not take women sudden indifference as rejection; they are just testing us. I look forward to seeing more of your videos.
Great information no one likes to be rushed or bombarded with contact
22:24 The "WHAT" is priceless. I cant stop laughing hahaha. Love your videos Corey !!
So true because I've done that. Reached out to guys and left it at that. There's a lot of guys who are trying not to take a woman out on a date though. It's getting bad.
Because women are very flaky
luulips reached out how ? Reached out to cancel ? Then, just didn't even try on rescheduling ? Make sense. Sounds like a woman..lol
^^^ This.
some of this is true, but if a girl has really high interest and you set a vague date, she will confirm the day of. Indifference is powerful, and if you really dgaf cuz u have options girl usually sense that and will make an initiative
Hey man with all my respect, but if she did care about you (your quote at 4:52) she would keep the date. Isn't it what you teach us?
you're missing the fact that they have a history together, things were messy.
This is happening to me right now Coach.. what can I do? everything was so perfect and the next day she lied and made an excuse to cancel the date it is so hard to move on ..
Ignore her, its hard I know, but in 30-60 days she'll be stalking your texts begging you why you havent come seen her. When she does act like your just not that interested.
@@nick421 and that way get her to fall more into you?
@@halo091 if you're a bitch that allows that type of behaviour, THE ONLY solution is to become more MANLY by studying hard and practicing your new balance - aand ignoring her at the same time, then it works
Update : Fuck that girl hahahaha who is she already not even sure which one
Here in Norway they leave the Norwegian girls behind an mas and find one in Brazil ,Pattaya etc instead.Guys in early 20,s direct to Bankok on a flight when want some gf experience.Thousands of guys just dissapear finding one from the east.A big phenomena. It,s a different culture here, many just reject r ships at all arguing that it,s not worth it.But i like the wideos, interesting stuff.
AMEN COREY!!!!!!
Oh god this is the one for me!
I've had plans to go to the bar for 3 straight weeks with this girl.. We text occasionally through the week.. And then when the day comes, I'll ask when to pick her up & she won't message me back & just completely flakes on me
She can take her drama to the street !! Walk away ..
It is hard to be a prophet in your own hometown' ; BIBLE
True 🔥
I like what you say. But I still doubtful about receiving advice from someone who hasn't been in a real long term relationship. (8 years or more).
It's not the same if the woman your with doesn't show affection and only wants to be with you for sex and sex only kinda loses MY intereste.... I'm not a fuk buddy or friend zone... NOT SORRY.
Sounds like feminine energy.
I think this one's bullshit. If a girl you've had a relationship flakes on you, it's precisely because you are pushing too hard. Look how this is the one part where he never gets the other person back and both remain resentful.
If the Woman is in love with you then she will seek you, period.
Maybe she should consider using a better dandruff shampoo.
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOKOOL
No Wayne no gain
The guy on second email needs a little more attention on reading the book. I'm on my third time now. When you see your woman a little down it means she might be upset at you. So you have to do whatever it takes to get it out of her and when she finally tells you what's wrong you REPEAT what she told you and then kiss her and apologize. After that she might say things like " I'm so glad we talked" 😊😊😊
If she can't communicate, she's out of luck.
Exactly, and women are so emotional many times they cant. I've finally learned LOGIC does not work when trying to level with women.
Everything I've heard this guy say directly matches the dating tips from my Mom. Don't be afraid, you don't need some special pick up line, put yourself out there, be honest, and respect yourself. If a girl plays games, play em back... harder. Have fun with it. This life is short and anything can happen. Roll with it. As Bruce Lee once said "Empty your mind... Be formless... Shapeless... Like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can flow or can crash. Be water my friend..."
Facts!!
It's all about your inner game and your frame that Corey's work instills. I'm good with chick or no chick and I don't get butthurt like I used to.
Ive had women flake even when I’ve sent a time and place. It doesn’t matter.
What matters is the way a woman “feels” at the time of the date. If she’s not feeling g it she will flake.
...or some beer or some weed, or ice (whatever floats your boat)
sorry for the 40 souls who really don't understand what Corey has to offer and what he basically try to teach us.
That balance is 70-80
flaking on your own plans is so fucking funny to me
I can see your frustration.
Yep
I made plans for my ex to meet with me next week at my house. I left plans up in the air and she never contacted about them. Its been almost 2 weeks. Should I ask her out with definite plans or wait for her to contact me again then do it?
Dont contact her
Don't waste your time.
You have to remember, Corey is giving MEN advice... if you're a woman, you need to hear people that give women advice... because he's setting men up for success, not women. As a woman, you don't want to be the one calling and texting all the time, regardless of how long you've been seeing each other. You want him to do it because that's what makes HIM feel invested and like you're the catch.