Domestic violence is so evil. Families are broken and disintegrated by violent spouses. I am so glad that Lorraine’s family reconciled, it was very touching. Khumbul’ ekhaya makes such a difference. Thanks Andile and your crew
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Dear God🙆🏽♀️She was still in a shock, now reality is setting in, she sees the pain in her children’s eyes. May they all find peace ,love and forgiveness 🙏
😭oh shame. God help this family. The agony of domestic abuse. That woman still ran even when she saw her kids, the fear that he Father of her children gave her m.. Heal them oh..God
In the first story we truly understand that being in an abusive relationship really does damage a person but for 38 years you didn't even go back for your children when you knew where they stayed? I understand SAPS can be incompetent but they could've accompanied you to take them back. I hope they build a new good relationship. Thanks for the upload Admin✌
At least she didn't kept it a secret to her other children that she left other children behind, she tried to heal herself by talking about them everyday with her other children, I think she is relieved now for seeing them again ,sad part she lost some children whom she taught she Wil met in this world. I love the way they care to each other even if their mom was absent. The story of " bicycle" their is cruel. I felt the pain when mentioned that whenever he tried to write he used to see something till he leave school, sad story ,but I love the ending they forgave each other .May God bless you and wish you good luck in your lives. You can't be that much educated due to background situations that block your ways, but always know that success don't come only if you are educated, even without education you can make it , keep on putting your faith in your beliefs and God. You are much bless you find your mom alive ,what matters now is " life" the rest is bonus.
Honestly we are where we are because of our mom 's prayer .. living without mom its hurd!! Pray to god and say thankq if you still have mom on you age 🙏🙏 respect ur mom
I know it is painful, stop shouting her she is also suffered it was your father now it is u she will dissappear again forgive her and continue with life😊🙏🏿
Abuse is real, being abandoned is painful, and worst part when you are young you'll always blame your parent (s) for neglecting you, your failures, which makes sense. Seeing my people suffer really hurt me the most. Let's keep working towards alleviating Black Community lives.
In the case of the two siblings I would say All is well that ends well. What a re-union. May God bless you abundantly going forward. This touched me greatly. What parents do, at times, in an effort to spite the other spouse.
It's a mother's job to protect and guide her children. People supporting the first story mama for leaving her children, hope you're also not leaving your children behind. If he was abusing her, an adult what more vulnerable children. More than 20yrs and she didn't look back, that's heartless. But we thank God and the ancestors, they were fortunate enough to meet and forgive each other 🙏🏾
How do you sleep for 38 years not knowing how your children are? What about the families for these women?the grannies,uncles, aunts were they not curious about where the children are
Whoever invented "Dukanezwe" really is cruel. Chances that Sam is still alive in Malawi are very very slim. However we should not lose faith. I'm just glad they found his family and will build a new relationship with them.
The abusive relationships affects people to the extent that they end up indulging in alcohol eis in an effort to forget their troubles....thanks to technology now....but these old timmers had this tendency of kid grabbing...and i remember i grew up with another lady even now i doubt she knew the mom caz the dad cross over with the kid
I feel for the mother, being told what you should have done.They all acknowledged he was brutal but still keep blaming the mother regardless. The children should be happy to see their mother.I understand they have been through a lot.
I hated how they kept blaiming her for neglecting them knowing their father was strict n brutal.its unfair how we keep blaiming without having valid facts on how they treated the people who left their kids behind.
Uncles story doesn't add up Malawi is not a Gold producing Country . Guess they were looking for illicit animal horns to fund his supposedly business venture
The uncles story is weak. He killed the father for that bag that might have contained gold. he says he took the bag and slept on it because he suspected that the guy will dodge him. So he had bad minds. Why would he dodge him. It simply means that he killed him because he thought he might be killed himself for the bag of gold
First mum prolly wouldn’t have done much even if she had been there bcz she’s terrified of their dad. They would have “hated” her for other reasons. Being there and doing nothing about the abuse they endured.
She's still making an excuse yoh as a mother I would never leave my kids behind no matter the circumstances yoh she didn't even try to go back nd look for them hai ke
It is hard for that woman to say what happened She was abused She kept talking about her children She was not enjoying life at all The man never thought the children needed their mother. All he wanted was to keep his word no matter how hurting it was to the children
She was traumatized and i really understand...she lived with fear and trauma and never looked back hence she left and never came back 38 years later As time progresses you become scared to even see the children
This show breaks my heart not because of the lost families but the poverty riddled black people these people are poor and it's so sad because we have a black government now
My Mother is from Modderrivier Ritchie. My Bro' speaks about his strict father...my father is the same. Hardly talk to him at all...he's just different. I told myself if given the opportunity, if I'm to be blessed with kids..I'll do things right by myself & for myself, parent & raise my kids different. I remember one morning I was about 6/7 years old, my mother was bathing me & she said..."look at you...look at you". "It's because you don't listen", my body was full of bruises from his beatings. For small things he'd beat me... Even my mom's sisters knew he beat me terribly. I love my mother...can not say the same about my old man. We just two different people.
These children are venting their anger at the wrong person she suffered too. Now she will die with a broken heart with her other two children who died probably blaming her 😥😥😥😥It's tough for all them including their mother. Second story uncle has kept something back. What happened with the loot?
The second story doesn't add up, malume is hiding something , there is more to this than what he's telling people, no man can just abandoned his house and family for no reason, he need to tell the truth of what happened to his brother- in law or he will never find peace.
Kona lokhu akwenza lomama akukho right, but let us not judge ngoba asazi kwenzekalani sasingekho khona kubuhlungu kodwa asingathuki abantu abadala futh esingabazi ngoba izingane zakhe azimthukanga so please...
My brother she was abused ,youv heard what the father did,he abused those children extremely bad...She was beaten while pregnant,and because of that she couldn't look back!trauma is trauma...We blame the father....
That is the Tsonga way of spelling Tshabalala. Just because you're not used to this spelling doesn't mean it's wrong. It may be in a different language.
@@sobadla30 Firstly why are you swearing at me? Let's respect each other please. I made an honest mistake. Secondly he obviously wrote into the show and maybe that's how he wrote his surname. The producers probably go with the spelling provided by the person who wrote into the show.
The mother once she realized that she really doesn't know what to say she saw the easy way out as fake cry... Parents who left their kids behind must know that once the kid start looking for you, you better have answers and not tears, coz the kid has cried frk too long, it is time for clarity and nothing else.
They cry these people. I confronted my mother about her @bu5ing me as a child and she just threw a performance. Today I have disowned her and moved out the country. As far as I'm concerned she's dead.
Domestic violence is so evil. Families are broken and disintegrated by violent spouses. I am so glad that Lorraine’s family reconciled, it was very touching. Khumbul’ ekhaya makes such a difference. Thanks Andile and your crew
Andile should receive a life time award 🥇 she is doing a great job 💯
Indeed 👏👏
I agree with you she really deserves award
That’s what I have been saying , she was created for this show❤. No one can do it like her……NEVER
All credit goes to whoever created this show....you don't know how much joy ya bringing into families
Andile should receive a life time award 🥇 she is doing a great job 💯 her voice gives hope stru 🤞🏾
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I have realized since watching Khumbule Khaya that the Tswana speaking people are very humble and good listeners always. 🙏🏾
Totally I agree with you ♥️
Yes we are😊🤗 Thanks for the compliment, how sweet of you😊
Yes we are😊🤗 Thanks for the compliment, how sweet of you😊
We were taught that 2 people cannot speak at the same time...and respect as well
I am a proud Tswana from Kimberly but currently staying in Namibia
I jus wish all admins were like this one. Thanks again admin for always doing your job well, and for never dropping the ball. keep it up.
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Amen
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Dear God🙆🏽♀️She was still in a shock, now reality is setting in, she sees the pain in her children’s eyes. May they all find peace ,love and forgiveness 🙏
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I wish this show could come to Botswana....cos i wish to know my father even the family....🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
If u can give them your story they can help you they go world wide
Ba ngwalele abuti ko Khumbulekhaya
Just write to them they might help.
But Moeladilothoko can help you in Botswana to search for him or his family
So much pain in our black community , the first story is heartbreaking 😞😞
Eish rushing to go close the gate only to find you running away from your own children! Wow it's very sad indeed
😂😂😂 I actually laughed at that one@@nkosingiphilenataschia3676
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Eigh the first story makes me cry when i saw them crying i fell that pain but I'm happy that they found here alive and forgiveness is the best healing
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😭oh shame. God help this family. The agony of domestic abuse. That woman still ran even when she saw her kids, the fear that he Father of her children gave her m.. Heal them oh..God
Healing comes after forgiveness, when everything has been sad nd done, uxolo luyafuneka to mend the broken relationship.
In the first story we truly understand that being in an abusive relationship really does damage a person but for 38 years you didn't even go back for your children when you knew where they stayed? I understand SAPS can be incompetent but they could've accompanied you to take them back. I hope they build a new good relationship.
Thanks for the upload Admin✌
Biggest fan of khumbulekhaya😊
She said she did go back with her other son but couldn't find her way
Indeed 38yrs is too much
@@vanessabanda4545 Hey 😊💜
Sometimes it is easy to speak now, it was difficult before
At least she didn't kept it a secret to her other children that she left other children behind, she tried to heal herself by talking about them everyday with her other children, I think she is relieved now for seeing them again ,sad part she lost some children whom she taught she Wil met in this world.
I love the way they care to each other even if their mom was absent. The story of " bicycle" their is cruel. I felt the pain when mentioned that whenever he tried to write he used to see something till he leave school, sad story ,but I love the ending they forgave each other .May God bless you and wish you good luck in your lives.
You can't be that much educated due to background situations that block your ways, but always know that success don't come only if you are educated, even without education you can make it , keep on putting your faith in your beliefs and God. You are much bless you find your mom alive ,what matters now is " life" the rest is bonus.
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Thanks so much admin great job indeed
Yoh this is painful 😩😩😩😭😭💔our parents passes through shit 💔😭💔😭😭😭😩I love my mom more than anything in this world ❤️
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Mxoleleni umama I understand sometimes otata bethu bayabahlukumeza omama.
Please guys forgive her please ❤❤👏👏
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Oh my favorite show when i was living in south Africa .
Really I am crying for the first episode,!!!
Honestly we are where we are because of our mom 's prayer .. living without mom its hurd!! Pray to god and say thankq if you still have mom on you age 🙏🙏 respect ur mom
I know it is painful, stop shouting her she is also suffered it was your father now it is u she will dissappear again forgive her and continue with life😊🙏🏿
Abuse is real, being abandoned is painful, and worst part when you are young you'll always blame your parent (s) for neglecting you, your failures, which makes sense. Seeing my people suffer really hurt me the most. Let's keep working towards alleviating Black Community lives.
I just love you Andile when you read isixhosa
Thank you admin
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It's the melanin for me!
Always watch from Zimbabwe we love ur show
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Yah and stay there in Zimbabwe
I'm Watching From Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇿🇦 I'm Looking forward my children life
Your children who?
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@@tshididorothy8418 😂😂😂😩
Which children 😂
Interesting set location. Love the zoo. I wonder how much they spend on food alone to feed all the animals. So 🐒 eating fruits...nice shot.
“I wonder how much they spend to feed all the animals ‘ What you smoking wena ?
@@mphumuzizwane9 what makes you say that?
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In the case of the two siblings I would say All is well that ends well. What a re-union. May God bless you abundantly going forward. This touched me greatly. What parents do, at times, in an effort to spite the other spouse.
It's a mother's job to protect and guide her children. People supporting the first story mama for leaving her children, hope you're also not leaving your children behind. If he was abusing her, an adult what more vulnerable children. More than 20yrs and she didn't look back, that's heartless. But we thank God and the ancestors, they were fortunate enough to meet and forgive each other 🙏🏾
How do you sleep for 38 years not knowing how your children are? What about the families for these women?the grannies,uncles, aunts were they not curious about where the children are
Haai mara 😭😭
Their hurtles xem
haaa this family abandon kids for 38 yrs Jesus 🙆♂️
38 yrs no money to visit from hope town to bloemhof so close areas
Well done admin
First story mama hhayi isigebengwana lesi 🤔😂😂😂
Sigebengu vele
Whoever invented "Dukanezwe" really is cruel. Chances that Sam is still alive in Malawi are very very slim. However we should not lose faith. I'm just glad they found his family and will build a new relationship with them.
Eish kunzima wena
The abusive relationships affects people to the extent that they end up indulging in alcohol eis in an effort to forget their troubles....thanks to technology now....but these old timmers had this tendency of kid grabbing...and i remember i grew up with another lady even now i doubt she knew the mom caz the dad cross over with the kid
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Am I the only one who noticed no one greeted or made mention of the baby??????
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I noticed. Hopefully the baby got a hug from granma at the end.
Second story.i dont trust malome.otseba something ka obuti wa Rakhadi.
I dont too he knows what really happened to him
I just said the same thing... 🤔
They are all the same because they know what happens to him
Andile nethimba lakho cc nenza umsebenzi omhle kakhulu niyibambe kanje ♥️♥️♥️
Yoh the first story is Painful for an emotional sensitive person. Imagine 38 years without a Mother...
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Wow!tears of happy ending you'll all be fine guys😢.
Bathong! The crocodile tears tsa the first mothers. 😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣Yeah ne
Thank you that woman was faking her cry
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You are not in the situation
Thanks admin so much
Aowa mara 38 years, and she says she ddnt hv money, for 38 years wow this woman iyooo
The lies! She’s dressed, she eats, she lives in a house.
haii🥺💔
Lorraine you have an amazingly beautiful skin sis.
Andile ur the best like u so BIG ❤
Guys this show keeps most of us going especially those who subscribed... My plea is let's press "like" and "comment" everytime we view the show...
i still remember Max,i was saddened by his passing
the first story is painful
Mosadi ape kere ke go bona almost everywhere🥰🥰
@@mosebudimoremi6163 ska njampisetsa hle 😂😂😂😂o lebella le maina a batho
@@mosimatjale6756 I do sometimes
@@mosebudimoremi6163 😂😂😂😂
I feel for the mother, being told what you should have done.They all acknowledged he was brutal but still keep blaming the mother regardless. The children should be happy to see their mother.I understand they have been through a lot.
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I hated how they kept blaiming her for neglecting them knowing their father was strict n brutal.its unfair how we keep blaiming without having valid facts on how they treated the people who left their kids behind.
our parents must understand dat once we start searching for them it means we nid them we want their love
Andile we appreciate you 🙏 ❤️
Uncles story doesn't add up Malawi is not a Gold producing Country . Guess they were looking for illicit animal horns to fund his supposedly business venture
I also trust uncle
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Abantu bakudala babedliwa zindunduma ... yin eyayisuka ibemnandi kakhulu umuntu azakhohlwe abanye ayi
This is so painful but God is great because they have meet her
The uncles story is weak. He killed the father for that bag that might have contained gold. he says he took the bag and slept on it because he suspected that the guy will dodge him. So he had bad minds. Why would he dodge him. It simply means that he killed him because he thought he might be killed himself for the bag of gold
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😢😢😢😢this so sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
It's heartbreaking 💔
no money for the train ticket=38 years=weeee😂😂😂😂
First mum prolly wouldn’t have done much even if she had been there bcz she’s terrified of their dad. They would have “hated” her for other reasons. Being there and doing nothing about the abuse they endured.
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So painful 😭😭😭😭
She's still making an excuse yoh as a mother I would never leave my kids behind no matter the circumstances yoh she didn't even try to go back nd look for them hai ke
1st story:When a mother is abused she losses her mental grip and fail her children
I'm living proof ,haven't seen my mom in 21years,guess it's easy to punish kids for their father's emotional abuse .This hits hard
Thank u admin 🙏
hayi sukaa would she look for her children if they didnt?
1st story wat language were being spoken by mama and the little brother?
Setswana and Afrikaans
Ungambizi ngenja umtomdala plz kusemhlabenila nenze Kahle bodadewthu namxolela sikhula ngamaphutha akekho umuntu ongena Sono Kona kubuhlungu umuntu ukhula ngamaphutha syabonga umaseni mtholile sibonga kuthi awbabulalanga
It is hard for that woman to say what happened She was abused She kept talking about her children She was not enjoying life at all The man never thought the children needed their mother. All he wanted was to keep his word no matter how hurting it was to the children
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She was traumatized and i really understand...she lived with fear and trauma and never looked back hence she left and never came back 38 years later
As time progresses you become scared to even see the children
This show breaks my heart not because of the lost families but the poverty riddled black people these people are poor and it's so sad because we have a black government now
Thanks admin
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Gogo why evala igate 😅😅
First story, they didn't give the mom to talk. They just bombarded her into silence.
This is so painful yooo may the good lord protect , lets forgive
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My Mother is from Modderrivier Ritchie.
My Bro' speaks about his strict father...my father is the same.
Hardly talk to him at all...he's just different. I told myself if given the opportunity, if I'm to be blessed with kids..I'll do things right by myself & for myself, parent & raise my kids different.
I remember one morning I was about 6/7 years old, my mother was bathing me & she said..."look at you...look at you".
"It's because you don't listen", my body was full of bruises from his beatings. For small things he'd beat me...
Even my mom's sisters knew he beat me terribly. I love my mother...can not say the same about my old man. We just two different people.
These children are venting their anger at the wrong person she suffered too. Now she will die with a broken heart with her other two children who died probably blaming her 😥😥😥😥It's tough for all them including their mother. Second story uncle has kept something back. What happened with the loot?
Iam so happy the auntie son that stay with her had more love n appreciation than her
But i didn't think the mother would look for them painful 😢😢😢😢😢😢 very painful yooh run away with your babies even if beg on the streets beg with them
Ke tsebele hore Hona le ya shebileng ngwana ,fla malome yena hakena Tshepo ya hae
Making children requires a qualification, some people don't deserve them
Guys what language is the first family speaking
Setswana sa Aferika Borwa
It also seems like they’ve adopted the language of the colonizer Afrikanse
And English isn't ? Hypocrisy.
Setswana and Afrikaans
That is painfully
Bomama baso bankwatisa ollelang bjanong😏😏😏😏
This is the story of my life
Sending love 💔💔
Ha drama from this Mama😢.Im not accepting her cries reli.After 38 yrs reli.She's annoying with her wolf cry haibo.😂😂
The mother made mistake but his kids should have a manner of speaking to her then fight with her with words. Humbleness is very important
So touching , Great job Andile
The second story doesn't add up, malume is hiding something , there is more to this than what he's telling people, no man can just abandoned his house and family for no reason, he need to tell the truth of what happened to his brother- in law or he will never find peace.
The first woman gosh she is a drama queen so unlikeable
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Second story the brother is no more. Atleast they have found family
what was she supposed to do when that man was abusive
Lomama unenhliziyo embi ungashiya ngane zakho kuthi wawu abuse akuna nje excuse nje leyo nxiii inja nje yomgodoyi
Kona lokhu akwenza lomama akukho right, but let us not judge ngoba asazi kwenzekalani sasingekho khona kubuhlungu kodwa asingathuki abantu abadala futh esingabazi ngoba izingane zakhe azimthukanga so please...
My brother she was abused ,youv heard what the father did,he abused those children extremely bad...She was beaten while pregnant,and because of that she couldn't look back!trauma is trauma...We blame the father....
Why the ppl writing surnames wrong in subtitles like "Tshabalala"
That is the Tsonga way of spelling Tshabalala. Just because you're not used to this spelling doesn't mean it's wrong. It may be in a different language.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 what the F*CK U talking about?.... clearly he is not Tsonga so what are you on about
@@sobadla30 Firstly why are you swearing at me? Let's respect each other please. I made an honest mistake. Secondly he obviously wrote into the show and maybe that's how he wrote his surname. The producers probably go with the spelling provided by the person who wrote into the show.
I have relatives who write their surname exactly the same way Tshabalala. I've never seen any other spelling beside that of that last name.
The mother once she realized that she really doesn't know what to say she saw the easy way out as fake cry...
Parents who left their kids behind must know that once the kid start looking for you, you better have answers and not tears, coz the kid has cried frk too long, it is time for clarity and nothing else.
I do feel for this mother, may God heal their hearts so they can all forgive and their mother can forgive herself.
They cry these people. I confronted my mother about her @bu5ing me as a child and she just threw a performance. Today I have disowned her and moved out the country. As far as I'm concerned she's dead.
Leaving your children behind for 38 years.. No maan
😲1st episode 😢
Taba ya malome ya bata
Ooh my God,So bad but who are we to judge?
Fake cry from first mama🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😜the first story’s mother is a drama queen
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah that was crocodile tears
😂😂😂🙆🏿
Yes her face is a phuza face ( in our language) she’s irresponsible but why always should the children be the one looking for a parent?