At my Age - Episode 13

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  • @nelnel4127
    @nelnel4127 3 роки тому +45

    UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thabothobejane6608
    @thabothobejane6608 6 років тому +16

    This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!

  • @leratomodutwane8730
    @leratomodutwane8730 5 місяців тому +6

    How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...

  • @elizabethkoenane1383
    @elizabethkoenane1383 6 місяців тому +13

    Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
    My life is fruitful because i did my part.
    God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏

  • @djvaughn2367
    @djvaughn2367 6 років тому +50

    The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏

  • @KaraboRadebe-o6u
    @KaraboRadebe-o6u 5 місяців тому +4

    This is so heartbreaking how could someone do this to their mother I feel sorry for such people who treat their parents this way

  • @happinessmalaza1762
    @happinessmalaza1762 6 років тому +9

    Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness

  • @skangezilendhlovu2537
    @skangezilendhlovu2537 3 роки тому +11

    Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖

  • @thepixiefairy4986
    @thepixiefairy4986 3 роки тому +13

    her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.

  • @Smangi2012
    @Smangi2012 6 місяців тому +11

    How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔

  • @kassiebsaili8355
    @kassiebsaili8355 4 місяці тому +3

    My heart broke into a million pieces 😢

  • @nicolettenonyane3252
    @nicolettenonyane3252 6 років тому +47

    I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?

    • @ntsoakimaibelo9198
      @ntsoakimaibelo9198 6 років тому +1

      you can say that again

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 місяців тому

      Yoo ngempela yazi

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 місяців тому +2

      Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 8 місяців тому

      True

    • @Leonliaralee99
      @Leonliaralee99 6 місяців тому

      Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤

  • @intrendingvlogs4365
    @intrendingvlogs4365 6 років тому +13

    Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi 6 місяців тому +4

    Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍

  • @tshireletsothabangmorule8670
    @tshireletsothabangmorule8670 6 років тому +16

    Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely

    • @lolomdlalose4547
      @lolomdlalose4547 6 місяців тому

      Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near

  • @earthy_12
    @earthy_12 6 місяців тому +12

    Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺

  • @galaletsang-morenamogale8040
    @galaletsang-morenamogale8040 6 років тому +57

    If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠

    • @joanpheto5538
      @joanpheto5538 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you..

    • @sarahtsotetsi2764
      @sarahtsotetsi2764 Рік тому

      One day di tla kgutla dintho tseo mohlang mme wa hao a tsamayang lefatsheng 🤞💔

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 4 роки тому +10

    God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏

  • @lufunotshivhase8076
    @lufunotshivhase8076 2 роки тому +5

    Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭

  • @ThembisileJele
    @ThembisileJele 6 місяців тому +15

    Names are very spiritual

  • @andyhlubi7
    @andyhlubi7 6 місяців тому +9

    This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 6 років тому +57

    How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 5 років тому +5

      Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos 5 років тому +5

      same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak

    • @tshepangmosime
      @tshepangmosime 6 місяців тому +2

      Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 6 місяців тому +2

      Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money

  • @refentsemokobe2105
    @refentsemokobe2105 6 років тому +22

    You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.

  • @lobelaletticia9491
    @lobelaletticia9491 2 роки тому +6

    Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
    Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @jenniferramoshaba7307
    @jenniferramoshaba7307 6 місяців тому +2

    Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve

  • @thulanyoni249
    @thulanyoni249 6 років тому +23

    How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 8 місяців тому

      Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.

  • @Thato-tee
    @Thato-tee 6 місяців тому +2

    What a touching story

  • @hilmanipanda4808
    @hilmanipanda4808 Рік тому +2

    My goodness 😢. Dj
    Gogo is such s sweet soul

  • @KealebogaGloria
    @KealebogaGloria 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks to 2 lady s and TV

  • @lungilesibiya2712
    @lungilesibiya2712 Рік тому +1

    This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.

  • @anelisanotyeke5327
    @anelisanotyeke5327 2 роки тому +4

    Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho

  • @phosa7775
    @phosa7775 3 роки тому +1

    God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭

  • @NPC6061
    @NPC6061 Рік тому +2

    Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo

  • @Kamo439
    @Kamo439 6 місяців тому +1

    This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭

  • @gogiphum915
    @gogiphum915 Рік тому +5

    I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames

  • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
    @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 місяців тому +4

    Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye

  • @Lifewithmona_x
    @Lifewithmona_x 3 роки тому +5

    This breaks my heart💔.
    Im even crying while watching this

  • @nthatijermina926
    @nthatijermina926 6 місяців тому +4

    Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae

  • @mamoseturumane2813
    @mamoseturumane2813 6 років тому +10

    This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 6 місяців тому +1

    This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 років тому +3

    This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠

  • @lifeasdollyyy8160
    @lifeasdollyyy8160 5 місяців тому +1

    No matter how a parent triggers you never do this ! My gran does trigger us always kodwa we know at the end Wuye ophethe iynhlanhla zethu 😭an elder sleeping down?no nkala

  • @elizabethjabulile3848
    @elizabethjabulile3848 10 місяців тому +1

    Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 4 роки тому +11

    Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 6 місяців тому +2

    U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense

  • @RTshidi
    @RTshidi 6 років тому +10

    Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞

  • @NokuthulaDhlamini-o5z
    @NokuthulaDhlamini-o5z 2 дні тому

    Hi, how do i get a hold of this programme, i have a neighbor who desperately needs help, or rather how do i go about to get social workers involved?

  • @nomusaphala3485
    @nomusaphala3485 6 місяців тому +1

    My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man

  • @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd
    @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd 6 місяців тому +1

    Iam touched

  • @jaytouch7214
    @jaytouch7214 6 років тому +20

    I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out

  • @ZiziphoDlova
    @ZiziphoDlova 5 місяців тому +1

    Yhoo I wanted to see lo Dideka ugezayo

  • @emeliamokoena5221
    @emeliamokoena5221 6 місяців тому +3

    Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.

    • @mlungisimazolo9986
      @mlungisimazolo9986 6 місяців тому

      I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.

  • @serve932
    @serve932 Рік тому +1

    She was really beautiful

  • @vhonaniramagwa2982
    @vhonaniramagwa2982 3 роки тому +3

    TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 5 років тому +2

    Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.

    • @bathsebabaatseba5469
      @bathsebabaatseba5469 3 роки тому

      I cried how can you abuse your mother like that😭😭😭😭

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 роки тому +2

    Freda🥰🥰😍

  • @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq
    @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq Рік тому +2

    Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔

  • @nollzdee1488
    @nollzdee1488 6 місяців тому +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 Рік тому +1

    Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️

  • @nokuthulamdokwe4107
    @nokuthulamdokwe4107 4 роки тому +5

    Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age

  • @shirleynkgadim360
    @shirleynkgadim360 2 роки тому +1

    Heart breaking

  • @DinidineoMonate
    @DinidineoMonate 3 місяці тому

    🎉Sorry gogo i wish u can get help nd live wth peace one day she will need u ❤

  • @hlonelambiko2494
    @hlonelambiko2494 6 місяців тому +1

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @LeboDlamini-g5p
    @LeboDlamini-g5p 6 місяців тому +1

    🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now

  • @MóTee1
    @MóTee1 6 місяців тому +1

    This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 2 роки тому +2

    I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.

  • @mapulaledwaba9373
    @mapulaledwaba9373 6 місяців тому +1

    My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty

  • @ThalefaneJennifer
    @ThalefaneJennifer 4 місяці тому +1

    I wish she was my mother i don't have one

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 2 роки тому +1

    Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.

  • @merriammokgothu8361
    @merriammokgothu8361 Рік тому +1

    😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 роки тому +2

    As for namanyana feela 😂😂

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia 6 років тому +13

    This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil

    • @kabelokhanye9704
      @kabelokhanye9704 6 років тому

      Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home

    • @luu_leratoluthando442
      @luu_leratoluthando442 4 роки тому

      😭

  • @thembelangcobondwana3952
    @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 років тому +4

    This is so sad man... 💔

    • @angapichy1261
      @angapichy1261 6 років тому

      very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused

    • @thembelangcobondwana3952
      @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 років тому

      This Dideka is sick man yhoo

  • @nomvulaveronicangema566
    @nomvulaveronicangema566 5 днів тому

    Cha ismanga ke lesi uDideka athi umama wakhe udidekile kodwa nguye odidekile, sbonge ngoba ugcine ehambile engambulalanga unina ngoba cishe kwafika lapho nd noNkulunkulu uyisimanga ngoba uvele wamgcina lomama nkosyam

  • @RichardZweni
    @RichardZweni 23 дні тому

    Kubhuhlungu imphela kodwa labo mam bethu bafihla izinto ezibopha thina

  • @thabangprudie1249
    @thabangprudie1249 6 років тому +4

    it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 Рік тому +1

    These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽‍♀️she must just Go..😡

  • @thegab_7
    @thegab_7 Рік тому +1

    What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious

  • @koketsoboshego8337
    @koketsoboshego8337 6 років тому +2

    💔💔💔😢

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 6 років тому +2

    My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh

  • @mapasekaclara4689
    @mapasekaclara4689 6 місяців тому +1

    Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's

  • @KhanyiswaMabusela
    @KhanyiswaMabusela 2 дні тому

    UStetelegu Media angamusiza uGogo,umuntu ongabhalela iStetelegu Media angasizakala uGogo

  • @fundiswamacamba
    @fundiswamacamba 6 місяців тому +1

    xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina

  • @zodwalydia-og7bw
    @zodwalydia-og7bw 20 годин тому

    😢😢😢😢

  • @KarenMuller-l3w
    @KarenMuller-l3w 3 місяці тому

    😂😂😂 A weak🙌🤣🤣🤣

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 років тому +5

    Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠

  • @thitikwanemokgadi6271
    @thitikwanemokgadi6271 6 років тому +2

    But God😢😢😢

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 років тому

      Thitikwane Mokgadi shuuuu this is sad and gogo is so cute 🥰

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 6 місяців тому +1

    Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz

  • @MondliMhlongo-db9vd
    @MondliMhlongo-db9vd 11 місяців тому +1

    Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅

  • @PulengLegodi
    @PulengLegodi 3 дні тому

    Haaai witchdoctor ruined a great relationship between mother and daughter hle 😢people lets run to God 🙏

  • @BlackwolfAN
    @BlackwolfAN 2 роки тому +1

    😍😍😍😍

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla Рік тому +1

    People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.

  • @tsholofelorebecca1837
    @tsholofelorebecca1837 5 років тому +3

    Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority

    • @Art4Fun937
      @Art4Fun937 6 місяців тому

      An embarrassment to our profession

  • @DinidineoMonate
    @DinidineoMonate 3 місяці тому

    ❤😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @phumlazulu5191
    @phumlazulu5191 5 років тому +2

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @lungisilekhambule6538
    @lungisilekhambule6538 4 роки тому +2

    Social development is failing older people😢

  • @filinadube6081
    @filinadube6081 6 років тому +6

    How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place

  • @lifewithanita1937
    @lifewithanita1937 5 років тому +5

    I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man

  • @rayenelevid1270
    @rayenelevid1270 2 роки тому +1

    She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 6 місяців тому +1

    How mara 💔 haai