As a guy, just tuning in to learn what a healthy woman looks like in a relationship. Agree with all the points. Ladies are a lot more powerful than they realize. It is good to see the perspective of both sides. Thanks Stephan. Good luck Ladies!
I agree that a woman has great influence and can set the atmosphere of the relationship!! However, this only occurs if he’s really into you and cares about you.
I think we have to be very careful who we are kind and sweet to. If we turn down a man’s advances, there is a tendency for the man to get very upset about being rejected
I am woman and I agree with everything you said. I stopped putting my walls up and man are more drawn to my energy. being feminine comes with boundaries not attacks. you can walk away if he doesn't care to change the behaviour that hurts you. it's so freeing to stay in your feminine. Heal your nervous system ladies Regulate your system so you don't operate from your wounded masculine. Don't allow anyone or any place that dyregulate your nervous system. never stay in survival mode for long period of time.
I'm a very feminine and compassionate woman, but i noticed walking in this energy the man that was in my life got very comfortable and i felt like I was like his mamma. At a point i was completely drained and lost the motivation to show affection... I'm leaving my best life now just pouring into myself and I don't want to get so comfortable being by myself...
Women are always calling themselves our mammas when they need to keep up the house, but have no problems getting their bills paid by a man. Just be quiet. You're not a wife.
You need to expect more of him and stop stepping up for him. If you step down from the things you need him on, give him some time but if he doesn’t step up then he’s just taking advantage. Make sure you get with a man you don’t have to mother .
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
😂 sounds scary and are you selling something that doesn’t even exist? 😂 I would need to pinch myself or faint. They run away and I thought maybe just maybe this one guy whose parents have been married for a long time maybe don’t think he really wants a relationship. Bachelor #2 my therapist is helping me with the dating process that I should enter a bachelor number 3 I’m thinking hell no!! I guess I really don’t believe in love even though it’s I’ve seen it. It’s just rare. I don’t think it’ll happen to me, but maybe it will. I would’ve thought of marrying just the guy that I fell in love with this personality that didn’t work. Marriage now I’m at point my life where the stakes are high. It’s like the stock market. You must play the safe game!!! and adding more bachelors would be a really bad deal😂🤦♀️ Right now I got Mr too good to be true and Mr hides a lot or also known as Mr. disappearing act. The other ones more like Mr I can have any girl I want and the other one said the same thing in a different way he didn’t see how that was disrespectful. Don’t you think? Isn’t it ironic to men with money it too ironic, don’t you think?🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. Bachelor number three and four should be poor and down earth. You may already met Mr. wonderful???? time will tell if somebody is for shit or not
Women should be treated better than queens are nothing really. And it matters how he treats her. That's the nature. That's the way it works. Women react to men. He treats her right, she will treat him right.
Been leaning more into my femininity & being in a state of flow in life & in my marriage. The difference I’ve seen within only a few months is astonishing. My attitude lately had been very “I give you what you give me,” & that got me absolutely nowhere other than exhausted. But by applying some of these principles & diving a little more with my femininity coach, I’m so happy to see my husband & I making progress & our love for each other has only deepened.
A Femininity Coach? Wow. Didn’t know that existed! No disrespect- and it’s amazing the results you have had, but., gotta say, it’s awfully hard to be “ feminine “ with a lot of men who are so insecure within themselves , looking for a woman to depend on financially, emotionally, and otherwise. Perhaps if more men would step up to the plate, and actually Be a Man- many of us could and would enlist our femininity a lot more. Another perspective. And this video really has a big vibe of “ Now Ladies, you need to learn how to behave for your Man” . How Archaic. Lol. But whatever works for yaall! Peace Out…
There was a guy who I tried to uplift and be a support to him and give him what he wanted, but he would be antagonistic and disrespectful. I would get upset after being pushed too far and then he’d act like I was the problem. I should have just left way sooner. I have to take responsibility for my part in putting up with that longer than I ought have. Some men will never respect you no matter how hard you try to be a good woman to them.
Happened to me too, but he has Asperger syndrome. He wasnt choosing to be an a hole , but he def could be nice when he really wanted to but I would have to be nice all the time , that’s draining
When a person changes for the better, they change those around them. If they're for you, they'll meet you there, or they'll go away to leave room for the right one to come along. ❤
I am a very compassionate, caring woman but do find it can be hard at times to not have a protective wall and match energy. It’s a good reminder to focus on being more open from the start.
I love this channel because it helps keep me in check sometimes I can be kind of mean or have a bad attitude but watching this channel really helps remind me how to behave especially when my partner is trying and when he isnt how to set boundaries so I dont get hurt. This channel really helps females and males.
Both men or women will see huge difference, just wait until you reach 50's . . you will finally meet someone isn't settle for less, things isn't exactly be easy without respect or unconditional love ..
Same here! I sometimes think that I am doing what I am meant to do to keep him interested and in love with me, and what I believe I am doing is what I think he wants because that's what I would want in the scenario when that's to the case. Watching Stephan'a videos keeps me in check too and accountable with knowledge
Wow! You got me like a punch in the gut. I've been a big giver in relationships with some big time takers. I've had to be the Alpha in a couple of relationships but I've also been put down by some guys dissing me, calling me their "cousin", instead of a girlfriend (that was in college). Now my most recent guy, calls me his "pal, or buddy", in a teasing way but it's so hurtful. But I know it's because I am trying to match his energy. What really hit me and made me tear up, was when you said, you asked your girl to, "Come on over here," to sit near you and they put up walls and took it the wrong way. What I wouldn't do for a Guy to say that to me, to invite me to sit with him and watch a movie, hold my hand and give me a sweet kiss. I used to beg my husband of 27 years to sit next to me, hold my hand even for a little bit while out shopping or put his hand on my back. I'm still hopeful I can welcome in this type of man with letting go of the alpha and becoming more feminine. I need to let go of the warrior in me and be the feminine. Thank you very much.
Stephan- we need more of these. My dad passed when I was 14 and I’m 35 now. I’m only realizing that I don’t know the dynamic between a man and woman and what a man needs or how to treat him since he traveled a lot for work and then passed when I was young and I was aware of the dynamic btwn him & my mom. I’d love to see more about how I can use my strength and femininity as a woman to better my dynamic & relationship with men.
This is a big problem of mine of putting up walls as a defense when not realizing how much I am doing it. Still working on this issue, good points, the negativity is definitely a issue as well. Have a hard time opening up to people. Many bad experiences.
7:59 in and stopped to comment. So far best advice I've heard on feminine energy, and who would of thought coming from a man! Started looking up these videos from a man's perspective because they just think differently than women do. This video, so far as I've watched, is a great reminder of what feminine energy looks like and is very refreshing to hear. Thanks!
I clicked this because I met a man I’m very serious about and highly respect and although I’m very mature and rarely make mistakes in relationships now, I recently made a mistake. He is so important to me I don’t ever want to make that mistake again, I want to make sure I improve myself. So I clicked this video. And in the very first 2 points, that’s where I made my mistake. Even though I had a good reason to feel bothered and upset, I should have been more feminine and soft and approached the issue more gently. I should have been more open and receptive instead of jumping the gun and putting up a wall immediately before he had a chance to speak. I appreciate your wisdom! Thank you for all of the time you take to help us all freely!
Thank you for giving us much needed support with this bc a lot of us dealt with some damage men and never got the lesson on how to treat a “GREAT” man. Thank u 🙏🏽 ❤
Yes thank you for breaking this up for me. I had a good man in a person that was closed up and never opened up to me to tap into his inner self. He would accuse me of sharing information about him that I didn’t even know of. 8 1/2 years 😢
Thank you Stephan. I use your videos to teach myself about staying in my lane, changing my behaviors in order to have the relationship I’ve always wanted. I pass on your videos to my adult girlfriends as we are all in the same position with relearning what a healthy relationship looks like. ❤
I was told that (even though some people make of fun of cheerleaders) cheerleaders are like potential wife material in the making 🤷🏻♀️ because later in life, it'll make everyone's life easier if they encourage, uplift and "cheer on" their husbands. Instead of tearing down, it's like training to build up ☀️
A few days ago since I found your videos Stephan, I said to myself why have I not found them earlier, because I have been having failed datings, some were heartbreaking, some were frustrating, blaming the other parties. When I started watching your videos, I realized that I have been doing things the wrong way… but on the other hand, I am kind of thankful because right now, I’m getting to know someone whom I find a lot better than the previous guys, so this time, I need to learn more from your insights, I really want to work things out with this new guy. 💕
As a married woman wanting to improve my relationship dynamics I am open to a lot of healthy relationship suggestions. I tend to be friendly kind and respectful to others but what I’ve seen on the rise is the level of garbage and sexually inappropriate men and behaviors is ASTOUNDING. It is never okay to comment sexually towards a woman or hit on a woman especially knowing they are married. Our society in general is so overtly sexualized and disrespectful towards women. I have zero problems with boundaries and shutting that down but it never fails to astound me the audacity and forward was of some men that obviously don’t value women. That being said I appreciate your suggestions on asking those closest to evaluate your style and energy. I also want to meet my husbands needs and desires thanks for the valuable info and culture of respect
Great video, Stephan. I've become a student of men and love learning and growing becoming the best that I can be. All my male friends love me at the gym, and I'm always giving compliments to the gentlemen because I love to uplift and speak life into others.I always say there are a lot of good men in this world and it's actually the type of men I'm attracting into my Universe. My male friends are always complimenting me saying I'm wonderful, my energy is beautiful, I'm sweet,kind,and caring. I always say thank you for the compliment, and I'm a reflection of you 🥰 Sending you and all the beautiful souls out there Love and Good Energy. 🩷💥🧡💥💙💥💜💥
I had to learn how toxic my life had been w/ my dad & husband. But your the first thoughtful posturing helping me for on my side ameliorations that I know we all need.
Thank you for helping us to be our best loving and feminine selves and for helping keep the good men we love happy and appreciated! This is spot on and right on time. 🥰
1:43 THANK YOU for this video. I 💖 the title & am excited to listen. It’s EXACTLY what I’ve been looking for. I didn’t have an example. And as much as LOVINGLY TRIED for decades I failed my family. Ty again…
As a woman I loved this video! Real meaning of take your power back! You are in charge of you. Matching energy isn’t powerful taking charge and standing in your power and setting boundaries keeps you in control of what you can control. Hell yeah
Great video as always Stephan! These principles are not only how to treat a man, but Great ways to treat all people in our relationships. Very important. ❤
FACTS..FACTS..FACTS! I agree with EVERYTHING this man has spoken. It’s all about ACCOUNTABILITY! First, we have to BE the Love, Joy, and PEACE we want to attract. I would Rename this to “How SPIRITUAL BEINGS should treat one another.” Namaste!🙏
I really needed to hear this and this has rewired my mindset during a very confusing traumatic time for me. Thank you 🙏 I am so thankful you made this video.
Great point he made about teaching the men. At the end of the day it's up to us to recognize questionable behaviors and respond to it in the best way possible. That's why we love and need Stephan's videos, the man dtops nothing but gems. We appreciate you, Stephan!❤😊😊😊😊😊
Dear Stephan, I've been listening to you for a while and while listening to this podcast my walls suddenly came tumbling down and tears poured my cheeks as I felt how much in love I am with the guy I'm dating. I had not realised it till now 😍 thank you for all the good wirk you do, loving your podcasts😊
He does he had a separate channel for the men. But your name sounds female anyway lol I watch both his channels for men and for women anyway they're so good even my boyfriend will pay attention to Stephan and we're both acting right cause of it
Love watching these videos because it really helps me maintain postive relationships not only with a guy I’m seeing but all relationships. I’m really trying to improve myself daily.
Hi Stephan. I really enjoy listening to your preachings. You articulate exactly want I want in my relationship that I have not been able to express because of the wrong men I’ve had in my life. Your videos have been motivating and up lifting and has helped me to understand how to be more open. I thank your for insight and keep up the Great work.
54 and divorced after 26 years marriage. But I been single almost 8 years. I wanted my son to graduate High School before I brought someone into my life, now Its been almost 2 years, how I could have this bad of luck is beyond me, lol.. I have found dating nowadays is not easy. I love treating my man with love and respect, if only I could find someone wanting the old school love. I feel I'm wasting away instead of giving all my love to another. I healed from the betrayal pf porn addiction and cheating, not wanting to carry it with me into the future. I just want my partner, I'm so ready. If my hunny said, Come Here......I'm jumping on your lap or crawling into your arms.I have learned so much from your videos, thank you sweetheart for the good and the bad I've learned about myself. Happy Thanksgiving , Stephan
A woman should show respect I feel that is important the same Respect that is afored on to her . As each one when granted the opportunity can only flourish in this knowledge and or approach.
I absolutely love this. Especially the beginning, it’s SO true. Like when my energy used to be aggression my whole family would be tense when I would spend time with them. Our energy has so much influential power on our environment. The true power of feminine is in being, embodying - not doing.
Worth Repeat...ultimately what we do & how we feel is our choice...worth asking, ‘Am I *Choosing How I want To Be* or reacting? *Thank You for the highlight on this Stephan
My baby father is verbal abusive and my tone with him is different from when I interacted with others. And I learned that People bring out different sides of you based on energy
To us believers a man is always considered the head of the home Ladies there,s nothing cute in been demanding and possessive Man only love to be directed and ordered druing intamacy 😂 To take the lead in a relationship as a woman only creates problems And eventually ends in seperation,men are so so sexy in their God given masculinity, men dont settle for less Power packed video From our number one Coach
I was upset my man wasn’t being more manly, but when he tried I shut him down by being difficult and not going with his flow. Tough lesson learned! Thank you for naming this. I am still learning and your teachings have been very helpful.
New subscriber here! I have enjoyed watching your videos. It's good to know that there is still someone out there with quality wisdom about the roles in a healthy relationship and wants to share those with singles! Genuinely grateful I came across your channel!
🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for sharing! Well needed!!!💯🙏🏽💪🏽 Love the way you say “learn” these things bc some ppl grew up in bad environments and dysfunctional families that things need to be Unlearned!! In order to heal and succeed. 💚🙏🏽 Sometimes us good women (not perfect but willing) come across men who been hurt and are afraid to express certain things and doesn’t fully explain situation or desires so we’re stuck trying to guess and see where he takes it…this situation was stretched out for months with lack of communication…I finally just called it quits. I now understand that he just simply isn’t fully healed yet! 🙏🏽 WALKING IN MY FEMININE ENERGY!!! 🔥
Stephan your skin is looking especially well and maintained. Keep taking care of yourself it shows and your handsome is winning 🏅. Take care! Love your content😍
Thank you for validating what I did today. Expressing my SIMPLE NEEDS/ WANTS to our relationship. I told him if I said I MISS YOU, it didn’t mean that I wanted to have a S_X with him. I want a non-sexual interaction to know each other better. Especially about hugging and cuddling. I told him from my past toxic marriage, I was deprived of HUG!! Now I am still waiting for his feedback. Then I crossed this video while having my lunch. So thank you Stephan. At first I feel embarrassed when I send those messages but I realized it’s time to send those messages. I took me a lot of courage to send that. Now if he pulls away, then IT IS NOT MY LOST. IT’S HIM. By the way you have similar name😊
Myself and the woman I know already do all of these. We have been doing the work and are emotionally intelligent. The true issue is that men do not do the work, are not interested in growing in relationships, and take our feminine for granted to be used for compulsive sex. I am in Southern California and it is a real epidemic . Men have no idea how to be intimate physically or emotionally. I wish you could step in our shoes. The behaviors are downright scary and threatening.
I remember when I was a kid the mood of EVERYONE'S day was set by the energy mum gave out in the morning, if it was light, you could relax, if it was dark, you knew you were in for a bad time!
I really learn a lot from you. Thank you for these videos. I have a note book 😁 and I'm using a check list to better my relationship with my man. I'm excited to know I can communicate with his love language and make our friendship better. If he's good 👍 I'm good. Team work 🎉🎉❤
Thanks for your advice, I'm just entering a new relationship and don't want to make the same mistakes again. You're so wise and also have a great sense of humour, you make me laugh! ❤😂
...you are SO right. Praying, being humble to ask "a Higher one" that knows all things....I mean to Almighty God and, God will direct us always to do and say with wisdom what needs to be done. Thank you soooo much sir for your such videos of blessings. Special greetings all the way from the Caribbean. 🎉
This video is helpful. God began to show me that men are to be respected and held to a good regard. If not for anything but the fact that we are made in His image after His likeness. I'm hopeful that letting my guard down and being as loving as I truly want to be to all men won't leave me wounded.
Perfect timing. I just messaged to him im learning how to love support and show up for him in a way he needs and is helpful and fulfilling for him and i both. ❤
10:00 Having a wall up causes unnecessary worry & stress. Someone you really like can pull you outside of those walls & that can make you scared- that alone can derail the situation.
I love this comment section. It’s full of people learning and recognising their own downfalls. Some comment sections where both sexes are attacking each other are so hard to digest. We are all individuals, none of us have walked the same path. There is no generalisation going on here, love it, we are all willing to learn and be better. Peace 💛
I really appreciate your advice in this segment. My significant other says I have a smart mouth & that my tone is what irritates him. So this advice will help me make the adjustments I need to make t bring more peace & harmony into our relationship. I'm not a person who likes to argue, I'm a peace maker at my core. Thank you for this wonderful message ❤
Great video, Stephan! Giving examples from your personal life helps with allowing us to better understand some of your points that we might initially not agree with. Both men and women have to work together to create a happy relationship. You're the best!!!
Mr Stephan, you got a standing ovation from me for this video. I have been working on myself for the past 2 years and this was absolutely useful. Thank you ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎉
@Stephenspeaks you really have to understand a person and who they are you really able to help give me more clarity thank you Stephen have a great day & new year
Can you make a video about miscommunication causing a rift between the relationship that results with a breakup with the person trying to repair the relationship
Regarding 23:20, i think it's related to the first point you brought up in this video - how you show up sets the stage for what happens. I have the tendency to speak dominantly too but all my life I have been told to tone it down. It took me a long time to understand why, and to train my subconscious to speak in a kinder way. I understand what you mean by going with the flow, but if your partner doesn't appreciate the way you're talking and tells you that, maybe it's something you should think about too. It's not about letting the man take the lead, its about the woman feeling disrespected by the way the man talks. As you said, it is how you say it, not what you said. I feel like there's a conflicting argument here, just wanted to point that out. I do understand the point you're getting at but perhaps it was just the wrong choice of example. That aside, thank you for this video!
Im grateful for this content. I crave to be the best woman for him who has chosen me. I have no issue flowing and adjusting, letting him lead. I just needed boundaries and my self autonomy and be able to stand up for me. That was my problem and that made me feel unsafe, now im figured out myself and yah, im ok with being myself, i just needed to protect myself also
As I'm listening to this I'm wondering how and what I can apply to online dating. The compliments! That has revived stalled conversations. Thanks and looking forward to what happens next. 😀
Stephen for years women have been told, taught how to treat a Man, what he wants what he needs with him just sitting on the sideline as the recipient. I think there needs to be balance for both however, Men for years have been taught to just be. The idea of matching energy surfaced as a result of women simply being tired. We were told you gotta know how to cook, clean now be feminin and master your energy....All the same tiptoeing around the man
So true. We're expected to cater to and please the man and not get anything back from them. Just be a convenient doormat and take whatever they dish out. This gets old. All while they like and sexually text women online. It's just getting too old ond one-sided
How to shut down ( or limit) that feminine energy? I am in committed relationships as long as I remember, but my energy keeps attracting other men, and I swear I didn’t mean to. Can’t lock down myself and it brings discomfort to my life.
Great advice! And on a completely separate note - the quality of the camera and in turn the video is sooo good! A pleasure to watch. Dunno if you changed something 🤔 but it looks great 👍🏼
This is truly helpful. Simple things that we think are normal and knowing them,but we just forget about in this process life. We truly need to remember all these things like we remember our name. Thank you for the efforts you do,hope will help many women and men,and having more happiness in our lives.
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Thank you so much I’m finally getting the part I play.
As a guy, just tuning in to learn what a healthy woman looks like in a relationship. Agree with all the points. Ladies are a lot more powerful than they realize. It is good to see the perspective of both sides. Thanks Stephan. Good luck Ladies!
I love this! ♥
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
We are and it is important that we use it for good, to be a helpmate and support emotionally.
You are a good man
Thank you 😊
Pray before you speak to somebody. This has saved me from making avoidable mistakes while addressing issues!
Thank you for sharing. It really helps when we embrace that ❤ 🙏
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Word! Before you step into that room or pick up that phone, whisper to the Holy Spirit to go ahead of you and make it right
This is some good advice!!!! From now on…
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I agree that a woman has great influence and can set the atmosphere of the relationship!! However, this only occurs if he’s really into you and cares about you.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Amen 🙏🏼 if he doesn’t care about you at the end you becoming a fool 😁I’m sorry to say but it is true ❤️
If he doesn't care then walk away.
I agree women set the boundaries about how they are to be treated in a relationship
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I agree totally! When you remain positive and respectful, even when the relationship doesn’t work you’ll be held in high esteem.
but still all alone 'cause they don't get what they want how they want....
I think we have to be very careful who we are kind and sweet to. If we turn down a man’s advances, there is a tendency for the man to get very upset about being rejected
Women really have the power to change a man’s entire outlook on life. Treat our hearts well.
It's not a woman's job to change grown men. Enhance but not change. Men should already be doing the work on their own self improvement. Grow up!
@@SupremeCorineyou took what they said completely wrong
We got a loser in the comment section here
@@VaporwaveLover2000 go heal. It's obvious you grew up in a fatherless home!!
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I am woman and I agree with everything you said. I stopped putting my walls up and man are more drawn to my energy. being feminine comes with boundaries not attacks. you can walk away if he doesn't care to change the behaviour that hurts you. it's so freeing to stay in your feminine. Heal your nervous system ladies Regulate your system so you don't operate from your wounded masculine. Don't allow anyone or any place that dyregulate your nervous system. never stay in survival mode for long period of time.
Truths. Working on it.
I especially love your advice “pray before you speak” that is a game changer
I'm a very feminine and compassionate woman, but i noticed walking in this energy the man that was in my life got very comfortable and i felt like I was like his mamma. At a point i was completely drained and lost the motivation to show affection... I'm leaving my best life now just pouring into myself and I don't want to get so comfortable being by myself...
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Women are always calling themselves our mammas when they need to keep up the house, but have no problems getting their bills paid by a man. Just be quiet. You're not a wife.
You need to expect more of him and stop stepping up for him. If you step down from the things you need him on, give him some time but if he doesn’t step up then he’s just taking advantage. Make sure you get with a man you don’t have to mother .
He’s the wrong man
@@TanzaniteHayley offcourse, he was. The right man will pour back into me.
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
Yes, this truly resonates. Very well said. 🩵
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😂 sounds scary and are you selling something that doesn’t even exist? 😂 I would need to pinch myself or faint. They run away and I thought maybe just maybe this one guy whose parents have been married for a long time maybe don’t think he really wants a relationship.
Bachelor #2 my therapist is helping me with the dating process that I should enter a bachelor number 3 I’m thinking hell no!! I guess I really don’t believe in love even though it’s I’ve seen it. It’s just rare. I don’t think it’ll happen to me, but maybe it will. I would’ve thought of marrying just the guy that I fell in love with this personality that didn’t work. Marriage now I’m at point my life where the stakes are high. It’s like the stock market. You must play the safe game!!! and adding more bachelors would be a really bad deal😂🤦♀️
Right now I got Mr too good to be true and Mr hides a lot or also known as Mr. disappearing act. The other ones more like Mr I can have any girl I want and the other one said the same thing in a different way he didn’t see how that was disrespectful. Don’t you think? Isn’t it ironic to men with money it too ironic, don’t you think?🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️. Bachelor number three and four should be poor and down earth. You may already met Mr. wonderful???? time will tell if somebody is for shit or not
When will this happen? First need actions to see a man is really invested in me not just want only one thing from
Me.
It works both ways, women and men should treat each other like kings and queens. ❤❤
Women should be treated better than queens are nothing really. And it matters how he treats her. That's the nature. That's the way it works. Women react to men. He treats her right, she will treat him right.
In a perfect world
Been leaning more into my femininity & being in a state of flow in life & in my marriage. The difference I’ve seen within only a few months is astonishing. My attitude lately had been very “I give you what you give me,” & that got me absolutely nowhere other than exhausted. But by applying some of these principles & diving a little more with my femininity coach, I’m so happy to see my husband & I making progress & our love for each other has only deepened.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
can you please share what did you change in your behaviour? and how did you go more into your femininity?
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A Femininity Coach? Wow. Didn’t know that existed! No disrespect- and it’s amazing the results you have had, but., gotta say, it’s awfully hard to be “ feminine “ with a lot of men who are so insecure within themselves , looking for a woman to depend on financially, emotionally, and otherwise. Perhaps if more men would step up to the plate, and actually Be a Man- many of us could and would enlist our femininity a lot more. Another perspective. And this video really has a big vibe of “ Now Ladies, you need to learn how to behave for your Man” . How Archaic. Lol. But whatever works for yaall! Peace Out…
@@helenfalco7601you absolutely nailed it .
There was a guy who I tried to uplift and be a support to him and give him what he wanted, but he would be antagonistic and disrespectful. I would get upset after being pushed too far and then he’d act like I was the problem. I should have just left way sooner. I have to take responsibility for my part in putting up with that longer than I ought have. Some men will never respect you no matter how hard you try to be a good woman to them.
True, and what’s even worse they HAVE WOMEN IN THEIR LIFE THEY DO NOT PLAY WITH!!! They KMOW WHO TO PLAY WITH
@@DarlingLove-ku3euI totally agree I've been there
Give him what he want, and do not loose ur self trying to be perfect one for him.
Sounds like my ex 😂
Happened to me too, but he has Asperger syndrome. He wasnt choosing to be an a hole , but he def could be nice when he really wanted to but I would have to be nice all the time , that’s draining
When a person changes for the better, they change those around them. If they're for you, they'll meet you there, or they'll go away to leave room for the right one to come along. ❤
... Or they are jealous narcissists, who will just try to tear you to shreds, as they are
de mon ised
wild beasts...
Beware!
I am a very compassionate, caring woman but do find it can be hard at times to not have a protective wall and match energy. It’s a good reminder to focus on being more open from the start.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I love this channel because it helps keep me in check sometimes I can be kind of mean or have a bad attitude but watching this channel really helps remind me how to behave especially when my partner is trying and when he isnt how to set boundaries so I dont get hurt. This channel really helps females and males.
Yes….. watching his videos changed my whole ATTITUDE.
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Both men or women will see huge difference, just wait until you reach 50's . . you will finally meet someone isn't settle for less, things isn't exactly be easy without respect or unconditional love ..
Same here! I sometimes think that I am doing what I am meant to do to keep him interested and in love with me, and what I believe I am doing is what I think he wants because that's what I would want in the scenario when that's to the case. Watching Stephan'a videos keeps me in check too and accountable with knowledge
Wow! You got me like a punch in the gut. I've been a big giver in relationships with some big time takers. I've had to be the Alpha in a couple of relationships but I've also been put down by some guys dissing me, calling me their "cousin", instead of a girlfriend (that was in college). Now my most recent guy, calls me his "pal, or buddy", in a teasing way but it's so hurtful. But I know it's because I am trying to match his energy. What really hit me and made me tear up, was when you said, you asked your girl to, "Come on over here," to sit near you and they put up walls and took it the wrong way. What I wouldn't do for a Guy to say that to me, to invite me to sit with him and watch a movie, hold my hand and give me a sweet kiss. I used to beg my husband of 27 years to sit next to me, hold my hand even for a little bit while out shopping or put his hand on my back. I'm still hopeful I can welcome in this type of man with letting go of the alpha and becoming more feminine. I need to let go of the warrior in me and be the feminine. Thank you very much.
Such a wholesome channel. Daddy’s need to be teaching this to their daughters and sons so they know what’s expected of them/for them
“Pray before you speak” wow! Thank you Stephan
Stephan- we need more of these. My dad passed when I was 14 and I’m 35 now. I’m only realizing that I don’t know the dynamic between a man and woman and what a man needs or how to treat him since he traveled a lot for work and then passed when I was young and I was aware of the dynamic btwn him & my mom. I’d love to see more about how I can use my strength and femininity as a woman to better my dynamic & relationship with men.
I am 40 year old woman and this is first time i am learning such a good things. You are best. Thank you ❤
This is a big problem of mine of putting up walls as a defense when not realizing how much I am doing it. Still working on this issue, good points, the negativity is definitely a issue as well. Have a hard time opening up to people. Many bad experiences.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
7:59 in and stopped to comment. So far best advice I've heard on feminine energy, and who would of thought coming from a man! Started looking up these videos from a man's perspective because they just think differently than women do. This video, so far as I've watched, is a great reminder of what feminine energy looks like and is very refreshing to hear. Thanks!
I clicked this because I met a man I’m very serious about and highly respect and although I’m very mature and rarely make mistakes in relationships now, I recently made a mistake.
He is so important to me I don’t ever want to make that mistake again, I want to make sure I improve myself. So I clicked this video.
And in the very first 2 points, that’s where I made my mistake. Even though I had a good reason to feel bothered and upset, I should have been more feminine and soft and approached the issue more gently. I should have been more open and receptive instead of jumping the gun and putting up a wall immediately before he had a chance to speak.
I appreciate your wisdom! Thank you for all of the time you take to help us all freely!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Amen, go in and be yourself. Know your boundaries and stand on them.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
Thank you for giving us much needed support with this bc a lot of us dealt with some damage men and never got the lesson on how to treat a “GREAT” man. Thank u 🙏🏽 ❤
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Yes thank you for breaking this up for me. I had a good man in a person that was closed up and never opened up to me to tap into his inner self.
He would accuse me of sharing information about him that I didn’t even know of. 8 1/2 years 😢
Thank you Stephan. I use your videos to teach myself about staying in my lane, changing my behaviors in order to have the relationship I’ve always wanted. I pass on your videos to my adult girlfriends as we are all in the same position with relearning what a healthy relationship looks like. ❤
I was told that (even though some people make of fun of cheerleaders) cheerleaders are like potential wife material in the making 🤷🏻♀️ because later in life, it'll make everyone's life easier if they encourage, uplift and "cheer on" their husbands. Instead of tearing down, it's like training to build up ☀️
Funny my friend told me he needs a cheerleader I said ok😂
I love these videos because I know any time I feel even a twinge of defensiveness, it’s showing me that’s something I need to work on more
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
A few days ago since I found your videos Stephan, I said to myself why have I not found them earlier, because I have been having failed datings, some were heartbreaking, some were frustrating, blaming the other parties. When I started watching your videos, I realized that I have been doing things the wrong way… but on the other hand, I am kind of thankful because right now, I’m getting to know someone whom I find a lot better than the previous guys, so this time, I need to learn more from your insights, I really want to work things out with this new guy. 💕
🙏 ❤️
As a married woman wanting to improve my relationship dynamics I am open to a lot of healthy relationship suggestions. I tend to be friendly kind and respectful to others but what I’ve seen on the rise is the level of garbage and sexually inappropriate men and behaviors is ASTOUNDING. It is never okay to comment sexually towards a woman or hit on a woman especially knowing they are married. Our society in general is so overtly sexualized and disrespectful towards women. I have zero problems with boundaries and shutting that down but it never fails to astound me the audacity and forward was of some men that obviously don’t value women. That being said I appreciate your suggestions on asking those closest to evaluate your style and energy. I also want to meet my husbands needs and desires thanks for the valuable info and culture of respect
Sad because we as women are raising these kids 😔
EPIC. Wonen are often taught to be responders, men initiators.
Never realized the power of positivity a woman could have.
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I’ve come a long way & I’m in my late 40’s…but I say better late than never….I’m enjoying walking in my feminine energy; it’s so refreshing 🙏🏾…
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
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11:43: There are moments when you allowed a negative feeling to get the best of you & you did not realize how sharp your tongue was.
Great video, Stephan. I've become a student of men and love learning and growing becoming the best that I can be. All my male friends love me at the gym, and I'm always giving compliments to the gentlemen because I love to uplift and speak life into others.I always say there are a lot of good men in this world and it's actually the type of men I'm attracting into my Universe. My male friends are always complimenting me saying I'm wonderful, my energy is beautiful, I'm sweet,kind,and caring. I always say thank you for the compliment, and I'm a reflection of you 🥰 Sending you and all the beautiful souls out there Love and Good Energy. 🩷💥🧡💥💙💥💜💥
I had to learn how toxic my life had been w/ my dad & husband. But your the first thoughtful posturing helping me for on my side ameliorations that I know we all need.
Thank you for helping us to be our best loving and feminine selves and for helping keep the good men we love happy and appreciated! This is spot on and right on time. 🥰
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
1:43 THANK YOU for this video. I 💖 the title & am excited to listen. It’s EXACTLY what I’ve been looking for. I didn’t have an example. And as much as LOVINGLY TRIED for decades I failed my family. Ty again…
As a woman I loved this video! Real meaning of take your power back! You are in charge of you. Matching energy isn’t powerful taking charge and standing in your power and setting boundaries keeps you in control of what you can control. Hell yeah
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Great video as always Stephan! These principles are not only how to treat a man, but Great ways to treat all people in our relationships. Very important. ❤
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@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you 😊
@@MeetStephanSpeaks God is working through you! AMEN
I really love tuning in to your videos and I just wanted to tell you that! Thank you, Stephan. 😊💯❤
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
FACTS..FACTS..FACTS! I agree with EVERYTHING this man has spoken. It’s all about ACCOUNTABILITY! First, we have to BE the Love, Joy, and PEACE we want to attract. I would Rename this to “How SPIRITUAL BEINGS should treat one another.” Namaste!🙏
I really needed to hear this and this has rewired my mindset during a very confusing traumatic time for me. Thank you 🙏 I am so thankful you made this video.
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You make sooo much sense!!! I feel like we all just level up, every time you pop off 😂
I knew all this intuitively but never phrased it, named it. It is so much clearer now! Thank you for doing that.
My pleasure ❤️
Great point he made about teaching the men. At the end of the day it's up to us to recognize questionable behaviors and respond to it in the best way possible. That's why we love and need Stephan's videos, the man dtops nothing but gems.
We appreciate you, Stephan!❤😊😊😊😊😊
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I love the message about energy. When im happy and postive within myself, i create a more harmoneous life! Love you!!! ❤
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Dear Stephan, I've been listening to you for a while and while listening to this podcast my walls suddenly came tumbling down and tears poured my cheeks as I felt how much in love I am with the guy I'm dating. I had not realised it till now 😍 thank you for all the good wirk you do, loving your podcasts😊
I'm interested to hear what the the 5 ways a man should treat a woman are. You should make that video.
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
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He does he had a separate channel for the men. But your name sounds female anyway lol I watch both his channels for men and for women anyway they're so good even my boyfriend will pay attention to Stephan and we're both acting right cause of it
We've been learning so much with you, Stephan Labossiere. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us always. Much appreciated. ❤
Love watching these videos because it really helps me maintain postive relationships not only with a guy I’m seeing but all relationships. I’m really trying to improve myself daily.
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Hi Stephan. I really enjoy listening to your preachings. You articulate exactly want I want in my relationship that I have not been able to express because of the wrong men I’ve had in my life. Your videos have been motivating and up lifting and has helped me to understand how to be more open. I thank your for insight and keep up the Great work.
Glad I could help 🙏
54 and divorced after 26 years marriage. But I been single almost 8 years. I wanted my son to graduate High School before I brought someone into my life, now Its been almost 2 years, how I could have this bad of luck is beyond me, lol.. I have found dating nowadays is not easy. I love treating my man with love and respect, if only I could find someone wanting the old school love. I feel I'm wasting away instead of giving all my love to another. I healed from the betrayal pf porn addiction and cheating, not wanting to carry it with me into the future. I just want my partner, I'm so ready. If my hunny said, Come Here......I'm jumping on your lap or crawling into your arms.I have learned so much from your videos, thank you sweetheart for the good and the bad I've learned about myself. Happy Thanksgiving , Stephan
Why would you say you wasting away? My God!
So, I shouldn't say how I feel cause you're offended or dont understand? Another turd in the punch bowl😂
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A woman should show respect I feel that is important the same Respect that is afored on to her . As each one when granted the opportunity can only flourish in this knowledge and or approach.
I absolutely love this. Especially the beginning, it’s SO true. Like when my energy used to be aggression my whole family would be tense when I would spend time with them. Our energy has so much influential power on our environment. The true power of feminine is in being, embodying - not doing.
Worth Repeat...ultimately what we do & how we feel is our choice...worth asking, ‘Am I *Choosing How I want To Be* or reacting?
*Thank You for the highlight on this Stephan
My pleasure ❤️
My baby father is verbal abusive and my tone with him is different from when I interacted with others. And I learned that People bring out different sides of you based on energy
To us believers a man is always considered the head of the home
Ladies there,s nothing cute in been demanding and possessive
Man only love to be directed and ordered druing intamacy 😂
To take the lead in a relationship as a woman only creates problems
And eventually ends in seperation,men are so so sexy in their
God given masculinity, men dont settle for less
Power packed video
From our number one Coach
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I was upset my man wasn’t being more manly, but when he tried I shut him down by being difficult and not going with his flow. Tough lesson learned! Thank you for naming this. I am still learning and your teachings have been very helpful.
New subscriber here! I have enjoyed watching your videos. It's good to know that there is still someone out there with quality wisdom about the roles in a healthy relationship and wants to share those with singles! Genuinely grateful I came across your channel!
Glad to hear that. Welcome aboard, and don't forget to subscribe and click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏
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Thank you for sharing!
Well needed!!!💯🙏🏽💪🏽
Love the way you say “learn” these things bc some ppl grew up in bad environments and dysfunctional families that things need to be Unlearned!! In order to heal and succeed. 💚🙏🏽
Sometimes us good women (not perfect but willing) come across men who been hurt and are afraid to express certain things and doesn’t fully explain situation or desires so we’re stuck trying to guess and see where he takes it…this situation was stretched out for months with lack of communication…I finally just called it quits. I now understand that he just simply isn’t fully healed yet! 🙏🏽
WALKING IN MY FEMININE ENERGY!!! 🔥
Stephan your skin is looking especially well and maintained. Keep taking care of yourself it shows and your handsome is winning 🏅. Take care! Love your content😍
Totally agree 💯 Films like this can be very helpful and informative, thank you 😊😊
Love how you make a point and then use an example that helps a lot! Thank you
Thank you for validating what I did today. Expressing my SIMPLE NEEDS/ WANTS to our relationship. I told him if I said I MISS YOU, it didn’t mean that I wanted to have a S_X with him. I want a non-sexual interaction to know each other better. Especially about hugging and cuddling.
I told him from my past toxic marriage, I was deprived of HUG!!
Now I am still waiting for his feedback. Then I crossed this video while having my lunch.
So thank you Stephan. At first I feel embarrassed when I send those messages but I realized it’s time to send those messages.
I took me a lot of courage to send that.
Now if he pulls away, then IT IS NOT MY LOST. IT’S HIM.
By the way you have similar name😊
Myself and the woman I know already do all of these. We have been doing the work and are emotionally intelligent. The true issue is that men do not do the work, are not interested in growing in relationships, and take our feminine for granted to be used for compulsive sex. I am in Southern California and it is a real epidemic . Men have no idea how to be intimate physically or emotionally. I wish you could step in our shoes. The behaviors are downright scary and threatening.
I remember when I was a kid the mood of EVERYONE'S day was set by the energy mum gave out in the morning, if it was light, you could relax, if it was dark, you knew you were in for a bad time!
I really learn a lot from you. Thank you for these videos. I have a note book 😁 and I'm using a check list to better my relationship with my man. I'm excited to know I can communicate with his love language and make our friendship better. If he's good 👍 I'm good. Team work 🎉🎉❤
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Thanks for your advice, I'm just entering a new relationship and don't want to make the same mistakes again.
You're so wise and also have a great sense of humour, you make me laugh! ❤😂
...you are SO right. Praying, being humble to ask "a Higher one" that knows all things....I mean to Almighty God and, God will direct us always to do and say with wisdom what needs to be done. Thank you soooo much sir for your such videos of blessings. Special greetings all the way from the Caribbean. 🎉
This video is helpful. God began to show me that men are to be respected and held to a good regard. If not for anything but the fact that we are made in His image after His likeness. I'm hopeful that letting my guard down and being as loving as I truly want to be to all men won't leave me wounded.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Thank u so much I learn to say no when i feel i have to Say no, I have my own boundries staying calm and strong and sweet at same time ❤
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Perfect timing. I just messaged to him im learning how to love support and show up for him in a way he needs and is helpful and fulfilling for him and i both. ❤
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Great points to ponder, discuss, and fullfill for the man in our life.
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Many thanks Stephan. This should be a daily reminder to us ladies. Thank you
My pleasure ❤️
10:00 Having a wall up causes unnecessary worry & stress. Someone you really like can pull you outside of those walls & that can make you scared- that alone can derail the situation.
Heard that and immediately thought "Walls up sky high!"
I love this comment section. It’s full of people learning and recognising their own downfalls.
Some comment sections where both sexes are attacking each other are so hard to digest.
We are all individuals, none of us have walked the same path.
There is no generalisation going on here, love it, we are all willing to learn and be better. Peace 💛
I really appreciate your advice in this segment. My significant other says I have a smart mouth & that my tone is what irritates him. So this advice will help me make the adjustments I need to make t bring more peace & harmony into our relationship. I'm not a person who likes to argue, I'm a peace maker at my core. Thank you for this wonderful message ❤
I LOVE the way you explain everything. Thank you Stephan🥰
Great video, Stephan! Giving examples from your personal life helps with allowing us to better understand some of your points that we might initially not agree with. Both men and women have to work together to create a happy relationship. You're the best!!!
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As a woman, I totally agree with everything that you said
I needed to hear this message today🙏🏽
Mr Stephan, you got a standing ovation from me for this video.
I have been working on myself for the past 2 years and this was absolutely useful.
Thank you ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎉
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Agreed. This was absolutely inspiring.
@Stephenspeaks you really have to understand a person and who they are you really able to help give me more clarity thank you Stephen have a great day & new year
Thanks so much Stephan. Always had this question in mind and your video came through. I have done so much of reflective thinking. God bless you❤
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Women’s energy sets the stage for engagement, and men create the environment around that. It’s really is a complimentary dance.
Thank you for the knowledge brotha! Got disrespected by my neighbor after jumping through hoops for her this eased my soul so much
Can you make a video about miscommunication causing a rift between the relationship that results with a breakup with the person trying to repair the relationship
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
i loved this! "Come here!" (personally, I would have loved this but I can understand the concept, lol" great example!!!Flow with me!!! Brilliant!!!
Regarding 23:20, i think it's related to the first point you brought up in this video - how you show up sets the stage for what happens. I have the tendency to speak dominantly too but all my life I have been told to tone it down. It took me a long time to understand why, and to train my subconscious to speak in a kinder way. I understand what you mean by going with the flow, but if your partner doesn't appreciate the way you're talking and tells you that, maybe it's something you should think about too. It's not about letting the man take the lead, its about the woman feeling disrespected by the way the man talks. As you said, it is how you say it, not what you said. I feel like there's a conflicting argument here, just wanted to point that out. I do understand the point you're getting at but perhaps it was just the wrong choice of example. That aside, thank you for this video!
Im grateful for this content. I crave to be the best woman for him who has chosen me. I have no issue flowing and adjusting, letting him lead. I just needed boundaries and my self autonomy and be able to stand up for me. That was my problem and that made me feel unsafe, now im figured out myself and yah, im ok with being myself, i just needed to protect myself also
Finally had a chance to listen to this and this is encouraging me to know I’m in a better place than I thought and I’m more ready to be with a man.
As I'm listening to this I'm wondering how and what I can apply to online dating. The compliments! That has revived stalled conversations. Thanks and looking forward to what happens next. 😀
Stephen for years women have been told, taught how to treat a Man, what he wants what he needs with him just sitting on the sideline as the recipient. I think there needs to be balance for both however, Men for years have been taught to just be. The idea of matching energy surfaced as a result of women simply being tired. We were told you gotta know how to cook, clean now be feminin and master your energy....All the same tiptoeing around the man
So true. We're expected to cater to and please the man and not get anything back from them. Just be a convenient doormat and take whatever they dish out. This gets old. All while they like and sexually text women online. It's just getting too old ond one-sided
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
he is also teaching how to create a submissive way of thinking for women
How to shut down ( or limit) that feminine energy? I am in committed relationships as long as I remember, but my energy keeps attracting other men, and I swear I didn’t mean to. Can’t lock down myself and it brings discomfort to my life.
Interesting video…. thanks for the breakdown it surely explained a lot! 🙏🏾
Glad I could help 🙏
thank you so much for this valuable informations God bless you
Great advice! And on a completely separate note - the quality of the camera and in turn the video is sooo good! A pleasure to watch. Dunno if you changed something 🤔 but it looks great 👍🏼
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Good point. There is a lot of going on because of the energies existing
This is truly helpful. Simple things that we think are normal and knowing them,but we just forget about in this process life. We truly need to remember all these things like we remember our name. Thank you for the efforts you do,hope will help many women and men,and having more happiness in our lives.