I'm struggling with the fight between lustful thoughts and m*sturbation and I know I have a problem. I've been struggling from pre-teens-present. I've made small steps but I keep falling into sin over and over again. I know for every man it's hard to not look away from women of how they dress themselves with the imagery. I've wasted most of my life with p*rn. It's been contaminating my life. I know it's wrong but I don't guard my heart and eyes. It's been hard to quit. Prayers would be needed.
Don’t worry man. God freed me from it. I had the issue from ages 11-14, up until my baptism where God changed my life. Stay faithful man know God is faithful. I prayed for you. I recommend taking efforts to kill the flesh and distance yourself from the world and it’s desires, and to pursue God like never before. I don’t know your current position in that but don’t worry man. I also recommend getting baptized and if you need anything lmk👍👍
@@Andrew_creates I just prayted for you brother. I completely feel you. I wasted my life aswell as a teen with porn and lust. Just know we all fall short brother ❤. This stuff is wayyyy to available to the mind of a literal child. God freed me from this and he can WILL do this same with you.
I currently have the same issue. I deleted apps that led me back to lust and porn but I eventually fall back. I need to start praying more and read the Bible more. I pray for you and those who struggle with this problem.
God has got you, Isaiah! It is very hard to quit but it is totally possible. For many people, the change isn't instant but gradual. The best thing about it is that you are aware you have a problem and that you have a desire to quit and God is faithful to his promises. I will be praying for you too! I also agree with GrenadePlays to take efforts in killing the flesh and distancing yourself from the world. Sometimes you will need to do a Joseph and run away because of the temptation. Ask God to reveal to you ways to distance yourself from the provocative media, to keep changing your heart daily by filling those empty spaces with him and his Word. Pray also Ephesians 6:10-19 over yourself everyday. You are understood and you are an overcomer!!! Have a good day :)
This is exactly what the Lord revealed to me just 2 days ago. I was tempted to go look at something that inherently wasn't too bad, but ultimately led to something horrible. The Holy Spirit convicted me and told me that if I were to watch it, it would open a door for the devil to come in and bring me back into sexual sin. God bless you!
As a African American Woman who is a Christian, I’ve had a Porn Addiction since I was 15. As of this year I’m 20 and I haven’t been watching porn ever since I tried to break my porn addiction
@@tscravenger7825 I have quit all pornography yet still struggle with masturbation and what I can tell you is that every time you want to watch it you have to think of God and how deep your relationship with him is and how much he doesn’t want this for you
@@tscravenger7825 1. Write down your reasons. ... 2. Remove any physical evidence. ... 3. Be aware of your triggers. ... 4. Think of a healthy distraction. ... 5. Tell someone about your problems. ... 6. Join a support group. ... 7. Try Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) ... 8. Get medication for porn addiction.
@@tscravenger7825 I started imagining evil spirits laughing and egging me on. One time I was in bed with my current partner, and literally felt the presence of Satan sitting on a chair in the corner, gleaming with pride at his handiwork. I immediately jumped out of bed. Then later I noticed how porn was a form of demonic worship....there are spirits being transfered. Plus the other people (actors or authors for erotica) are being used and in bondage. So then it's hard for me to use their work as a fantasy escape from real life. I realize I am using their demonic bondage for a personal lust...so I became convicted by the Holy Spirit and lost all desire for it.
I’m 22 days clean of pornography and feel amazing and don’t have any social media. Jesus is still working in my heart and I know I’ll get better and better each passing day. Pray me Isaac and God Bless!!
I did one week without my phone a few months back. Even though I never visited any even remotely questionable websites or came across any weird content or material, by temptations died down by more than 50% immediately. It was crazy. There were still some stimuli I didn't realize were there.
It’s amazing how modern society puts harmful effects of porn down under the rug a if it’s not a really big deal. Personally, it has rot my mind to the core. Top that with losing my virginity before realizing just how much I should have valued it, I ended up getting addicted to lust, reimagining the act of sleeping with my ex. In a way, it made me more tied down to keeping her in my mind. Each time I let the temptations of masturbating to feel that void, it leaves nothing me with more regret and depression because of my now one year battle of getting over my ex. Now I’m trying to do what it takes to quit porn for good and overcome lustful temptations for my self-healing process. I hope anyone battling something similar will get through this too. God bless
I pray the power of lust and his co worker break off you in Jesus name! Scripture says, "E Even the lawful captive will be set free! And the prey of the mighty shall be delivered....I asked for Jesus the stronger man to come into your life and drive away every strong man! I purge your mind and heart... Amen. It's important that you fill yourself with the word! And make sure you keep rebuking whenever you feel the urge. Stay blessed.
Here are some guidlines that God has revealed to me on how to quit Masturbation/Lust/ Porngraphy for good. - Your body is not yours. It was a given to you with a price. Sanctify your body as commitment to God. Christian must glorify and sanctify everything. Your body is not yours ,but only for Lord. (1 Corinthians 10:23) - Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, why would you want to seek hedonistic self-indulgence (which is a slippery slope for egocentricity and self-worship) that may lead you to be tempted with other sins, such as pornography. Your body was never about you, but about glorifying God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:20) - Flee from every temptation. The fact is its not only stopping from doing sin but its also fleeing from temptation. Just as we flee from danger, we need to flee from sin. A clear example of someone fleeing temptation is found in Genesis 39 when young Joseph, Jacob’s son, was targeted by his master’s wife for an adulterous affair. - Abstaining from any sexual immorality, will help you gain discipline and self-control. Once your learn that you will have a better relationship with your walk with God. ” (1 Corinthians 9:27, Galatians 5:22-23). Self-denial is difficult, but self-discipline is worth it. - Everything is permitted and but not everything is beneficial. Have you studied the negative impacts of masturbation, like higher chance of devloping porn addiction, increased brain fog, laziness, sense of meaningless/purposeless in life, toll in your relationships etc? - God is not dumb. He knows your heart, your true intentions. Please don't use the common excuses for masturbation as you will be lying to yourself. You are not masturbating because its its "healthy for you" or it helps with exploring your sexuality. Nonsense. What is the true intention of masturbation? Masturbation is mainly used for sexual self-pleasure and exposes your lack of self-control. Christians to flee from any form of self-gratifcation. (Galatians 5:16-17) - Masturbation gives you guilt then leaves you a sense of condemnation. And you may cope using the same self-gratifcation (masturbation) left with a sense of guilt. which leads to never ending cycle. - The only purpose for your penis is to have to sexual intercourse with your wife. The other uses is for bodily functions, i.e execretion of the urinary system. Although, sex isn't solely for procreation. It's meant to be a joyful, intimate experience between partners. But to fully understand the 'penis', study Urology. ( Mark 10:6-9, Romans 8:29, Genesis 1:28) - Masturbation is the keeping of one’s body to oneself. Masturbation is sex disconnected from relationship. Foundational to God’s plan for sex is giving one’s body to another. Don't worship CREATION, worship THE CREATOR. Obey the will of God. Do as "not my will, but thy will be done". (Mark 14:36, Luke 22:42, Genesis 1:28) - So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If we cannot give God glory for something, we should not do it. - Don't give power to sin. Sin will control you and if you masturbate, you are a slave (in bondage) to Masturbation(1 Corinthians 6:12). Christians have a responsibility to avoid anything that might enslave them. - We are to be pure in everything, including our body. (2 Timothy 2:22) Prayers for when you're tempted: Matthew 26:41 Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Romans 12:1-2 ESV I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. 1 John 3:6 No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him. Matthew 26:41 Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” Proverbs 4:14-15 Do not enter the path of the wicked, and do not walk in the way of the evil. Avoid it; do not go on it; turn away from it and pass on.
And remember that we are not strong enough to overcome lust/pornography/masturbation by our selves. We need to trust God and ask God for strength and remove any impure thoughts that will lead into temptation. We need to seek him and deny ourselves daily. Thats why God fights the battle for us. Your will is incapable of overcoming your sinful desires. You need power from above to help you. This is why its important to ask the Holy Spirit to guide and direct you to Fathers will I hope this helps, as God helped me. You will conquer your sin in Jesus Name, AMEN.
I assure you your efforts DO NOT go unapreciated! This was so good brother! Thank you for always keeping it REEL many other teachers or Christian public figures are scared to dive into this area of the faith. Thank you for always staying as close as possible to the truth od GODS word. Love you brother!
Sooo true:) I'm a girl, but I've experienced this exact thing before! I used to watch this youtuber casually, a while after I gave my life to Christ, and he used to make jokes about sexual themes now and then, very brief, and one time he caught me in the wrong mindset and I actually fell back into the addiction...also happened a few months before that when I was watching anime. It is such a big danger that you wouldn't even think about, because it's not always very explicit, but that thought still lingers in your mind! Guys, please be careful what you consume on the Internet!
I feel your comment. I love reading romance books, webtoons, manhwas, mangas, etc. ! But so many of them these days are just smut. And it’s a huge temptation for me, it’s actually triggered me a few times and I gave into temptation. While I still read romance, if it has anything explicit or even smutty. I stop reading it. I’ve had to return a few books due to this. There was this one book that I was so excited to read because the synopsis sounded really good and it didn’t mention smut at all. I get to chapter 3 and bam smut. I was so disappointed, because the first two chapters were really interesting. The anime portion is hard too. But luckily the covers usually give me an idea. So if I see b00bies or anything like that I just don’t watch it. I also tend to watch more shonen than shoujo. So it doesn’t tempt me.
wow, I feel you! I also used to read manhwas and they were such a big trigger for me! I also agree, shounen is a lot better, most times😅 because the anime that I was talking about in my original comment was actually shounen. I think it also depends how you deal with temptation. Do you rebuke the thought as soon as it comes into mind or do you just let it sit there, creating a nest? The struggle to find a good book these days that does not containt smut😭
@@tinadaisy0307 It tough, I found myself doing the same thing and the temporary pleasure really ruined my walk with God. I am trying to be better now and whats crazy the more you resist the harder the temptation gets over time. This is where we would need to cry out to God more and more, without him we are nothing.
I don't consume any sexual content of any kind in the social media area. I only consume Christian content or content that isn't sexually explicit in any way. Not even joking... But when you've been sexually abused as a very young child, it messes with you and the need for intimacy can become overwhelming. And if you're not married that can be a huge problem. My thoughts are my biggest enemy. The brokenness from trauma is another big enemy. I am struggling to stay faithful. If I'm being honesti feel it's a fight I can't even win sometimes. 😢 Thank you for this video.
For me I went as far as getting rid of all social media and setting up blockers. Once I did that temptations almost immediately stopped. The problem isn’t just the temptations on our screen it’s our hearts. If we strive with everything we have for intimacy with Jesus the rest falls into place.
I like that toilet water analogy cause it’s a mora accurate one. I feel like most people see it as a diet where they have like a really unhealthy snack or meal those 2-5% of the time. We try to justify it since a small portion of unhealthy food is fine every now and then. I think people underestimate it tho cause it’s not like donuts or a chocolate bar they’re eating, it’s tiny amounts of poison they’re feeding their soul if we’re sticking to that analogy
Also something to think about, social media platforms are algorithm driven. If you spend more time listening to something as simple as sexual humor that signals to the algo to push more content relating to it. Before you know it you suggestions and shorts are pushing content that are sexual in nature.
I’m broken. A work in progress. Your words about “this will be hard” hit home I’m realizing where my issues are stemming from and there’s a lot of dirt to dig through to get to bedrock; the foundations on which my decisions are built.
This is so true. I’ve desensitized myself to worldly thinking and ideas by allowing it to be repeatedly presented to me as comedy and entertainment. I used to not consume any media that was not explicitly God-honoring or clean and I feel the Holy Spirit calling me back to that walk. It’s time to delete playlists, comb through my subscriptions, and filter the voices that are coming in again! Thank you so much for this video, it’s truly an anointed teaching. God bless!
Spot on. It's important for everyone to recognize that the same pathways that were established by p*rn usage are stimulated and maintained by all other less overtly sexual but still suggestive media. There is no gray area during the day when we should be idly scrolling and mindlessly navigating on these platforms which have landmines of depravity. Most won't admit it, but those very landmines may just be exactly why you keep "innocently and harmlessly" coming back for more.
I really appreciate that you talk about this because so many guys make excuses for watching sexually inclined things even the more “subtle” things. Thank you!!!
I’ve been on the clean and purification journey for over a year now. I can promise is makes a huge difference. The choices we make as Christian’s are hard. But we are supposed to be in the world, not of it.
UPDATE: I’m back, and this was a great video. I saw my mom watching Firefly Lane and they had an episode mentioning a woman’s chest (it had to do with cancer) and even showed a cake shaped like it (I’M NOT EVEN KIDDING). When I saw that while drying dishes, I felt offended and teased cause I’m not trying to get tempted to go back to sexually immoral things.😣🙏
I have been working on overcoming over 10 years of using sexual behavior to avoid any sort of discomfort in my life including growth towards God. I’ve used porn, had sex with my ex and my current relationship we have crossed lines that we initially set for ourselves. I was meditating while driving and felt God tug at my heart that I keep going back to all that because I am scared of letting go of control. These acts have been self-soothing for me and I have held them away from God. I know He wants me to learn to trust Him with my sexual nature and learn l that He will provide for that in His timing. This was a wonderful message that helps those of us that still fall into porn like a dog returns to its vomit. And it will help us realize that we aren’t alone, and people that shame us for our sin are just as capable even if it’s not to the same “sinfull” degree that porn is. That’s a major thing for me is feeling like I’m worse off than anybody who isn’t struggling with this
Abstain from every form of evil ( 1 thessalonians 5:22 ) is what this video is really about ❤️❤️ thank you soooo much for sharing this, it's such an underated topic that people don't pay close attention to ❤ God bless your life!!
I myself struggle with a porn issue and I know I’m not the only person in my 20s that does but I really appreciate this video and the topic you are addressing these subjects keep it up brother! ❤
Definitely not alone. I've struggled with it but overtime I have defeated it by God's grace. I would go months without watching but would always fall back, the eventually I defended it. Take the necessary steps, cut out all the things that lead you to sin. Remember Jesus said of something causes you to sin, get rid of it So do that and don't give up
It was so hard for me to give up, watching and listening to David Dobrik and his friends. Every five seconds on his podcast they were talk about m*sturbation. It was awful, and I just had to get rid of in my life. That was one of the hardest things ever though. Because he was so funny, and I loved everything about it except for that one part that I thought I could just gloss over
Hey everyone, a gr12 boy here. I’ve been struggling with my own battles with lust and pornography for a few years now. I’m going on a high school fellowship retreat next week and I just really felt like the Holy Spirit was urging me to share my own battle and God’s grace, goodness and mercy throughout it with everyone there. If you guys have the time, please just pray for guidance, wisdom and boldness for me as I prepare what I want to say and for the spirit of God to work through me. Thanks everyone 🙏🙏
The compound effect and the slight edge talk about how little things done for a period of time can become big things and habits I recommend reading one of them to understand the concept you randomly see that applied everywhere 4:30
I really feel your message. I’ve been finding myself, unfollowing accounts on fb that show seductive photos. I start to notice how subtle are the strings that all of that content attach to your heart and mind. How subtle the spiritual warfare is in our own eyes.
This is so true. On youtube I’m subscribed to all christian channels but that doesn’t stop youtube from placing provocative short vids as I swipe. Doesn’t matter if I remove the channel another takes it’s place. Time to take a break….
I think music is a big factor that often goes ignored. I've found myself listening to more and more rap music lately, and I've always said that I don't really pay attention to the lyrics, I just like the sound if it "sounds cool". But after a while I started to comprehend what the lyrics are actually saying and meaning and it's quite appalling to understand what is being said. Even if you aren't comprehending the lyrics, or participating in actions that they are singing about, it still pollutes your mind with evil.
Dude I really appreciate this! Just today I was watching standup and there was so many s*xual jokes but the comedian was just so good that I continued watching it and justifying it. This was a great wake up call. God bless you man!
relate to this so much. just today I was scrolling through stuff and I came across such content and I got to a point where I felt "oh it's just a little 15 second video it's not much". but those little seconds could easily lead to me falling into it thank you for this wake up call Isaac! God bless your ministry
That part where you mentioned marriage and how we say we'll take so much care of that relationship and yet don't do the same with our relationship with God really hit me It's a lot of things I do which I've pretty much told myself that God is okay with, and though I know I'm not yet at the point where I twist Scripture to make my claim, that's where it eventually gets because a person's heart becomes hardened.
God is amazing. I have been seeing to many videos and church services about stopping these sinful acts and it’s at the perfect time for me. I have struggled with sexual thoughts and actions and I want and need to stop. And I think I’m on the road to stopping thanks to people like you who spread the much needed word of God. Thank you🤍✝️
God bless you Isaac. The more and more I walk with God, the more I realize a lot of things you talked about. The effectiveness of a trap is in its ability to blend, and the devil is a master at blending. It’s the little compromises that tear down our faith and hurt our relationship with God. I gave up basically every social media and honestly, my walk with the Lord has never been better.
It’s really hard to escape it all, once you’re cognizant of the fact that what I’m going to call “soft pron” is everywhere, and it’s constantly trying to get your mind that direction. I’m pretty much down to just UA-cam, but even that can be dangerous if doomscrolling
GREAT ANALOGY. Thanks for always speaking the Truth 🥲 As a Catholic Christian, I appreciate your call for others to strive to follow the commandments and what the Bible calls us to be as disciples.
Roman Catholic? As in papist? That is not the same as Christian. If you follow and believe the teachings of the Roman Catholic church you will be among those whom Jesus says He never knew. For example if you are practicing idolatry, and believe in salvation through works (even if that is faith and works), you have not put your trust in Christ. The Roman Catholic church work really hard to get their hooks into children to make it hard for them to leave, but all things are possible through Christ. I love you and want you to go to heaven so please look into the errors of the Roman Catholic church and come to the real Christ
@@user-or4ut2qi3q idk in what propaganda have you grown up in but the catholic church isn't an evil sect like what you are describing. Our priests literally say sometimes that there are people who honor church more that God and point it out as a BAD example. Newer (than catholicism) denominations tend to see our faith as "church is more important than the bible" but its more like the church's interpretation of the bible is closer to the truth than some random dude's because our priests know each verse's context and they have to study the bible for 6 years in a seminary before they become priests. And there is at least some (we believe it to be a lot) truth in that. Especially when we look on some of the newer denominations who have gay marriages and pastors who promote watching porn.
Sounds crazy but I had a dream that you texted me to call you ASAP. I didn’t even follow you just saw your shorts a few times. It looks like you have a powerful message to share! I look forward to hearing more of what the lord says through you.
I completely agree. I too had to stop listening to all of the podcasts that I used to enjoy. It was really hard at first but once I found other options I didn’t even miss those anymore.
Issac this video came at a great time! I was praying about this earlier. There is nothing wrong with secular things or consuming secular media but if it takes our focus away from God then it is dangerous.
This is such a good point! I feel guilty for watching shows like Drag Race and wonder if I'm not protecting my heart by doing so. Sending prayers for us all 🙏🏻
I would say that you shouldn’t be watching RuPaul and shows like that. I watched the bachelor for a little while, and I really loved it but the whole premise of it is being with someone that you barely know and ending up having s*x with random people. It’s really hard to get rid of watching shows that we enjoy and is a guilty pleasure, but it’s a GUILTY PLEASURE.. those words are enough to know that it’s not okay. Hope this helps! We all struggle with this media and no one’s alone!
@Sydney Bell says someone that joined UA-cam a month ago 🙄 no not hurting anyone, just maybe my own soul. Nothing to worry about there.....right? His video just got me thinking.
@Sydney Bell that just screams troll to me, but ok. Is that what you tell young adults who watch po*n. It's ok you're not hurting anyone by watching it?!?!....until they try to have a family one day and find themselves getting aroused by wearing their wife's cloths. Yeah you should really reconsider your own advice. It's not very good.
Man it never ceases to amaze me. Ive literally been thinking about this just before my nightly pray before bed about this UA-cam show ive been watching for probably ten years now as a sleep aid called the game grumps. And something in my spirit has been telling me every time i heard a sexual joke or when they would say the Lord's name in vien i would get very uncomfortable and have been thinking about stopping to watch them for those facts about joke podcasts u mentioned and i just came across your vid randomly. God i think saw this coming and he sparked the hey i know what u are listening to and i shouldn't be.
Exactly. I deleted all my social media and havent been back for the past 7 years! I personally had to take drastic measures. This country is oversaturated with sex. I wish I could own a farm. Off the grid..
I would also say that those things are a stepping stone to falling into actual pornography. That is how I relapsed 3 years ago. I was in a bad place. I was depressed. So I started to look at images of women in bathing suits on pinterest. From there it spiraled down to nude art. That I didn't go all the way back to watching videos is only the grace of God. Now, I've been free from pornography for 3,5 years. By God's grace alone. For those who struggle with masturbation, I would like to give some advice. I've discovered that seeing any pretty women, even clothed decently, can be a subconscious trigger. Especially for those who have a past like me. What I'd suggest is stop watching tv shows, content online, anything really that contains girls you find attractive. At least temporarily. I've discovered that it really helps.
Thank you for this video! I love your content and wish to pursue ministry in the future and so much of your content is helping so much the spiritual fight!✝️ Also off topic but I really like that hat where did you get it?
Hey I'm early I just want to say thank you I've just sinned, if committed sexual immorality, I've done what you have said in the start of the video I feel that I needed this good timing, just prayed funny isn't it 😊
I struggle with this sin too, but I know we can overcome it. The Lord will help us.🙏 Deuteronomy 31:6-8 "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”
Thanks my brother in Christ, your video confirmed a lot of my doubts, I just started following the Lord in this past few months ( I've been a Christian my whole life but I just really got on the "caring my cross" thing recently),so I thank u 🙏🙏
Believe me. You are not blowing anything out of proportion. I am currently struggling with the results of desensitizing my own consciousness I've been so deep in the pornography spiral that I know, morally and biblically, that everything that I look at is wrong but at the same time my conscience is so seared at this point that I don't even have any guilt about it. And this is something that I'm struggling greatly with at the moment.
Run to Jesus. Are you filled with his Holy Spirit. Because the lack of conviction says a lot…. Repent. Ask God to help you with this and to convict you. When you are living for Christ and His Holy Spirit is dwelling in you, you will be disturbed by that stuff.
I was just thinking about this. I went to Facebook's "Watch" section for the first time and it was disgusting. Even FB Marketplace has some yikes posts. I thought FB was just lame, not outright degenerate.
The way ladies dress is 50% of the porn we struggle with already...a gateway itself to wanting to check the real thing in comfort. Abstaining from the porn itself has a way of flushing your mind if also you don't allow those other input methods like movies or music videos or horrible tiktoks etc; but as soon as you decide to step out of the house you're sure to have them all over the place from, school, office, gym etc...even church! Crazy man!! Man a wiked and adulterous generation; who shall save us from us!!! 😶😒
Okay, so I've been making a conscious effort to try and read the Bible and walk the right past, but it's pretty hard to not whack off when you're a single guy in his early '30s. And I've tried before and noticed that when you finally do give in and hit up the, "Hub" you end up blowing a load so big you have to mediately drink a gallon of water to rehydrate yourself before you die of dehydration. So that's kind of a pain in the ass, but a little bit of self-control and strong will, I think I can overcome that. The problem is, sometimes you'll wake up in the middle of the night having busted a nut the middle of your sleep, and when you wake up you can't even remember what the hell you were dreaming about. So I mean how are you supposed to walk the right path when your own natural human urges will take over when you're not even conscious!? Does that mean you broke the rule? Or is it treated like Muslim people with pork. When they accidentally eat pork without knowing, it's not a sin because they didn't know. Is it the same thing as that? I don't know... Also saw a video on UA-cam where somebody said that looking at pornography is a sin, but jerking off is not. And that's kind of confusing because I don't know about you guys, but when I'm going to jerk off and my phone died or something add a close your eyes and, "imagine" something to get you off. Well that goes back to breaking the commandant where you can't have lust in your brain, because you might as well have acted on it because according to God it's the same thing. I just don't know. I don't know how any of this works... Also,
Comes down to what you love more really. How much are you willing to sacrifice to have the best life that God wants for you? For me I think of the broad path that leads to destruction and many find it but narrow the one that leads to salvation and only few find it. Take up that cross if you just think and try to imagine going through how Jesus had to suffer for us. Love Him more for it than the temporary pleasures. You will most likely fight the urges of the flesh for most of your life but it will get easier even the "dreams" fade. Make important lifestyle changes and pluck out the eye (anything that makes you burn with that passion and cause you to fall). Hope that helps
This is the most marketed issue in today's culture .......it is very important to open our eyes and guard our heart, “But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head” - Ephesians 4:15 (KJV)
There is a growing onslaught of sexual content infesting almost every corner of the digital world. Especially advertisements. How many mobile games have ads that include sexually provocative characters or themes? At certain points of the year, the UA-cam algorithm seems to throw a lot of suggestive videos on the homepage. And yes, it may be my fault I keep getting them, because I gave into temptation once, and clicked on one. But being on the internet and trying to avoid sexual content is like trying to not get wet in a rainstorm in an open field with barely any shelter. People on the internet try to defend sexual content and will insist that there's nothing wrong with it. They will even try to make you think it's okay. It's like a heroine addict, trying to get you to do heroin. Just leave me alone!
I agree 100% with your views on guarding your heart from these things. You are not alone! God has been continually convicting me of the media I consume. I think the Lord really delights in the decision of a person to sacrifice such things for him. Thank you for the honest video :)
I love this video so much and strongly agree. I managed to overcome lust and porn addiction completely, all thanks to Jesus, he completely set me free from it, and I have no desire to go back. After being free from those things for a time I came to realise more and more and began to observe and pick up on just how much content on social media and UA-cam is sexually charged, and I was realising there was a lot of temptation intertwined with the content that I was seeing. I got to the point where I actually deleted social media for large periods of time just to stay away from that kind of content and monitor who and what I’m watching. Keeping the stuff I consume to fulfilling things like Christian podcasts/sermons or just worship music, just focusing on Jesus and growing to know him more. I would definitely suggest deleting most forms of social media, I will say it can be very difficult and it can take alot of discipline to do so, but it’s really been quite freeing and really opened my eyes to how much content on these apps are sexually charged and how much they can feed into lustful tendencies. If there’s anyone reading this who’s struggling with porn/lust, just bring it Jesus, ask him for help, to remove those desires, genuinely surrender it to him and set you free from those things. I asked for his help and he removed those desires entirely and I’m growing to know him more than ever before. I’ve been free for about 4 months now and though sometimes there’s temptation in the beginning, as you pursue Jesus and leave porn/lust/masturbation behind, you’ll find it’s truly freeing and gratifying to leave that part of your life behind, I never want to go back. If you ever feel tempted, just pray, spend time in the word or worship and ask for help, in scripture it says that God always gives you a way out of temptation, always. Praying for you, God bless. - E
I have been off porn for about 7-8 months now, I feel very proud of myself for that. However, I consume social media and from time to time the urge to look at sexually explicit content gets me. There are times though, when the main issues doesn’t even come from social media, just looking at women at the street with their shorts and tight dressing can make even the toughest men succumb. This is a serious issue we are dealing with. I never thought I would ever be the type of person to criticize how others dress, but sometimes it’s just too much…
I play a lot of a game called VR Chat, and in that game is a lot of worldly people. I specifically play it in a group that's for adults, but it isnt specifically meant to be explicit. However, due to the nature of the game and the type of person that usually plays it, a lot of people have "avatars" that are quite sexually provocative. And the people there, of course, dont mind this. I want to be a light in that world, but I need to remind myself every single time I go into there, that this is not safe, and I need to keep my guard up. I can block avatars if they are really just *too much* but I dont block that many. I always remain cautious, to make sure its not effecting me. But it is certainly an area of my life, that I can give up, if I need to.
Cut off the temptation, my friend. If it’s even remotely an issue, cut if off while you are weak. Not worth even the slightest temptation. You can block all you want but there will always be the next tempting avatar that will show up. It sucks to cut “fun” things off but if you know it’s a source of danger for your heart, cast it out! I’ll be praying for you!
@@olestrangs I was just acknowledging the possible danger. I dont think you can cut yourself off from *everything* that could possibly be a temptation. Lets take this idea to its most possible extreme, cant walk down the street because what if there's some lady out there wearing revealing clothing? Heck, cant even have the windows open, put curtains over them all because what if I look outside and see that? Cant go outside whatsoever, must just stay inside and see nothing. I think obsessively avoiding "temptation" at all costs while it sounds good, can limit what you can do for God if youre too scared to just live in the face of it and not be tempted.
Thanks Isaac, I just wanted to mention that I think there's a typo in the thumbnail. It says "suduction" but I think it was supposed to be "seduction". 😅
Examples, please. Like Sausage Party or Shimoneta, or The Little Mermaid (that one time where Ariel just got her legs), that one scene from Coraline with the theatre scene? This is how you made CRAZY PEOPLE. People that go into fetal position because they saw curves.
I'm struggling with the fight between lustful thoughts and m*sturbation and I know I have a problem. I've been struggling from pre-teens-present. I've made small steps but I keep falling into sin over and over again. I know for every man it's hard to not look away from women of how they dress themselves with the imagery. I've wasted most of my life with p*rn. It's been contaminating my life. I know it's wrong but I don't guard my heart and eyes. It's been hard to quit. Prayers would be needed.
Don’t worry man. God freed me from it. I had the issue from ages 11-14, up until my baptism where God changed my life. Stay faithful man know God is faithful. I prayed for you. I recommend taking efforts to kill the flesh and distance yourself from the world and it’s desires, and to pursue God like never before. I don’t know your current position in that but don’t worry man. I also recommend getting baptized and if you need anything lmk👍👍
@@Andrew_creates Thanks for the encouragement man. It's been a struggle. I'm glad God freed you from it.
@@Andrew_creates I just prayted for you brother. I completely feel you. I wasted my life aswell as a teen with porn and lust. Just know we all fall short brother ❤. This stuff is wayyyy to available to the mind of a literal child. God freed me from this and he can WILL do this same with you.
I currently have the same issue. I deleted apps that led me back to lust and porn but I eventually fall back. I need to start praying more and read the Bible more.
I pray for you and those who struggle with this problem.
God has got you, Isaiah! It is very hard to quit but it is totally possible. For many people, the change isn't instant but gradual. The best thing about it is that you are aware you have a problem and that you have a desire to quit and God is faithful to his promises. I will be praying for you too! I also agree with GrenadePlays to take efforts in killing the flesh and distancing yourself from the world. Sometimes you will need to do a Joseph and run away because of the temptation. Ask God to reveal to you ways to distance yourself from the provocative media, to keep changing your heart daily by filling those empty spaces with him and his Word. Pray also Ephesians 6:10-19 over yourself everyday.
You are understood and you are an overcomer!!! Have a good day :)
This is exactly what the Lord revealed to me just 2 days ago. I was tempted to go look at something that inherently wasn't too bad, but ultimately led to something horrible. The Holy Spirit convicted me and told me that if I were to watch it, it would open a door for the devil to come in and bring me back into sexual sin. God bless you!
As a African American Woman who is a Christian, I’ve had a Porn Addiction since I was 15. As of this year I’m 20 and I haven’t been watching porn ever since I tried to break my porn addiction
Can you tell me any tips on how to break it
@@tscravenger7825 I have quit all pornography yet still struggle with masturbation and what I can tell you is that every time you want to watch it you have to think of God and how deep your relationship with him is and how much he doesn’t want this for you
@@tscravenger7825 1. Write down your reasons. ...
2. Remove any physical evidence. ...
3. Be aware of your triggers. ...
4. Think of a healthy distraction. ...
5. Tell someone about your problems. ...
6. Join a support group. ...
7. Try Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) ...
8. Get medication for porn addiction.
For forty days, write out 1 cor 6:18-20 by pen or pencil. Do this every dy for forty days. That's what I'm doing right now and it's working.
@@tscravenger7825 I started imagining evil spirits laughing and egging me on. One time I was in bed with my current partner, and literally felt the presence of Satan sitting on a chair in the corner, gleaming with pride at his handiwork. I immediately jumped out of bed. Then later I noticed how porn was a form of demonic worship....there are spirits being transfered. Plus the other people (actors or authors for erotica) are being used and in bondage. So then it's hard for me to use their work as a fantasy escape from real life. I realize I am using their demonic bondage for a personal lust...so I became convicted by the Holy Spirit and lost all desire for it.
This came right on time, God bless you man
For real
Same
Same
I’m 22 days clean of pornography and feel amazing and don’t have any social media. Jesus is still working in my heart and I know I’ll get better and better each passing day. Pray me Isaac and God Bless!!
It’s basically why I’ve dissociated from almost all social media. It truly was a slippery slope for me.
For real.......that alone sets you free...it reduces chances of falling.
I did one week without my phone a few months back. Even though I never visited any even remotely questionable websites or came across any weird content or material, by temptations died down by more than 50% immediately. It was crazy. There were still some stimuli I didn't realize were there.
It’s amazing how modern society puts harmful effects of porn down under the rug a if it’s not a really big deal. Personally, it has rot my mind to the core. Top that with losing my virginity before realizing just how much I should have valued it, I ended up getting addicted to lust, reimagining the act of sleeping with my ex. In a way, it made me more tied down to keeping her in my mind. Each time I let the temptations of masturbating to feel that void, it leaves nothing me with more regret and depression because of my now one year battle of getting over my ex. Now I’m trying to do what it takes to quit porn for good and overcome lustful temptations for my self-healing process. I hope anyone battling something similar will get through this too. God bless
I pray the power of lust and his co worker break off you in Jesus name!
Scripture says, "E
Even the lawful captive will be set free! And the prey of the mighty shall be delivered....I asked for Jesus the stronger man to come into your life and drive away every strong man!
I purge your mind and heart... Amen.
It's important that you fill yourself with the word! And make sure you keep rebuking whenever you feel the urge. Stay blessed.
Here are some guidlines that God has revealed to me on how to quit Masturbation/Lust/ Porngraphy for good.
- Your body is not yours. It was a given to you with a price. Sanctify your body as commitment to God. Christian must glorify and sanctify everything. Your body is not yours ,but only for Lord. (1 Corinthians 10:23)
- Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, why would you want to seek hedonistic self-indulgence (which is a slippery slope for egocentricity and self-worship) that may lead you to be tempted with other sins, such as pornography. Your body was never about you, but about glorifying God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:20)
- Flee from every temptation. The fact is its not only stopping from doing sin but its also fleeing from temptation. Just as we flee from danger, we need to flee from sin. A clear example of someone fleeing temptation is found in Genesis 39 when young Joseph, Jacob’s son, was targeted by his master’s wife for an adulterous affair.
- Abstaining from any sexual immorality, will help you gain discipline and self-control. Once your learn that you will have a better relationship with your walk with God. ” (1 Corinthians 9:27, Galatians 5:22-23). Self-denial is difficult, but self-discipline is worth it.
- Everything is permitted and but not everything is beneficial. Have you studied the negative impacts of masturbation, like higher chance of devloping porn addiction, increased brain fog, laziness, sense of meaningless/purposeless in life, toll in your relationships etc?
- God is not dumb. He knows your heart, your true intentions. Please don't use the common excuses for masturbation as you will be lying to yourself. You are not masturbating because its its "healthy for you" or it helps with exploring your sexuality. Nonsense. What is the true intention of masturbation? Masturbation is mainly used for sexual self-pleasure and exposes your lack of self-control. Christians to flee from any form of self-gratifcation. (Galatians 5:16-17)
- Masturbation gives you guilt then leaves you a sense of condemnation. And you may cope using the same self-gratifcation (masturbation) left with a sense of guilt. which leads to never ending cycle.
- The only purpose for your penis is to have to sexual intercourse with your wife. The other uses is for bodily functions, i.e execretion of the urinary system. Although, sex isn't solely for procreation. It's meant to be a joyful, intimate experience between partners. But to fully understand the 'penis', study Urology. ( Mark 10:6-9, Romans 8:29, Genesis 1:28)
- Masturbation is the keeping of one’s body to oneself. Masturbation is sex disconnected from relationship. Foundational to God’s plan for sex is giving one’s body to another. Don't worship CREATION, worship THE CREATOR. Obey the will of God. Do as "not my will, but thy will be done". (Mark 14:36, Luke 22:42, Genesis 1:28)
- So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If we cannot give God glory for something, we should not do it.
- Don't give power to sin. Sin will control you and if you masturbate, you are a slave (in bondage) to Masturbation(1 Corinthians 6:12). Christians have a responsibility to avoid anything that might enslave them.
- We are to be pure in everything, including our body. (2 Timothy 2:22)
Prayers for when you're tempted:
Matthew 26:41
Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
James 4:7
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Romans 12:1-2 ESV
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
1 John 3:6
No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him.
Matthew 26:41
Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
Proverbs 4:14-15
Do not enter the path of the wicked, and do not walk in the way of the evil. Avoid it; do not go on it; turn away from it and pass on.
And remember that we are not strong enough to overcome lust/pornography/masturbation by our selves. We need to trust God and ask God for strength and remove any impure thoughts that will lead into temptation. We need to seek him and deny ourselves daily.
Thats why God fights the battle for us. Your will is incapable of overcoming your sinful desires. You need power from above to help you. This is why its important to ask the Holy Spirit to guide and direct you to Fathers will
I hope this helps, as God helped me.
You will conquer your sin in Jesus Name, AMEN.
@@user-in5ru2cd9lthank you for sharing this you helped me and have given me hope
I assure you your efforts DO NOT go unapreciated! This was so good brother! Thank you for always keeping it REEL many other teachers or Christian public figures are scared to dive into this area of the faith. Thank you for always staying as close as possible to the truth od GODS word. Love you brother!
Sooo true:) I'm a girl, but I've experienced this exact thing before! I used to watch this youtuber casually, a while after I gave my life to Christ, and he used to make jokes about sexual themes now and then, very brief, and one time he caught me in the wrong mindset and I actually fell back into the addiction...also happened a few months before that when I was watching anime. It is such a big danger that you wouldn't even think about, because it's not always very explicit, but that thought still lingers in your mind! Guys, please be careful what you consume on the Internet!
I feel your comment. I love reading romance books, webtoons, manhwas, mangas, etc. ! But so many of them these days are just smut. And it’s a huge temptation for me, it’s actually triggered me a few times and I gave into temptation. While I still read romance, if it has anything explicit or even smutty. I stop reading it. I’ve had to return a few books due to this. There was this one book that I was so excited to read because the synopsis sounded really good and it didn’t mention smut at all. I get to chapter 3 and bam smut. I was so disappointed, because the first two chapters were really interesting.
The anime portion is hard too. But luckily the covers usually give me an idea. So if I see b00bies or anything like that I just don’t watch it. I also tend to watch more shonen than shoujo. So it doesn’t tempt me.
wow, I feel you! I also used to read manhwas and they were such a big trigger for me! I also agree, shounen is a lot better, most times😅 because the anime that I was talking about in my original comment was actually shounen. I think it also depends how you deal with temptation. Do you rebuke the thought as soon as it comes into mind or do you just let it sit there, creating a nest? The struggle to find a good book these days that does not containt smut😭
@@dyanimoriah I had to remove webtoons and webnovel because it bus riddled with erotica
@@tinadaisy0307 It tough, I found myself doing the same thing and the temporary pleasure really ruined my walk with God. I am trying to be better now and whats crazy the more you resist the harder the temptation gets over time. This is where we would need to cry out to God more and more, without him we are nothing.
I don't consume any sexual content of any kind in the social media area. I only consume Christian content or content that isn't sexually explicit in any way. Not even joking...
But when you've been sexually abused as a very young child, it messes with you and the need for intimacy can become overwhelming. And if you're not married that can be a huge problem. My thoughts are my biggest enemy. The brokenness from trauma is another big enemy. I am struggling to stay faithful. If I'm being honesti feel it's a fight I can't even win sometimes. 😢
Thank you for this video.
For me I went as far as getting rid of all social media and setting up blockers. Once I did that temptations almost immediately stopped. The problem isn’t just the temptations on our screen it’s our hearts. If we strive with everything we have for intimacy with Jesus the rest falls into place.
The Lord is speaking to me, this is one of the handful of times I’ve been told to guard my heart this week and it’s only Tuesday. Praise God.
I like that toilet water analogy cause it’s a mora accurate one. I feel like most people see it as a diet where they have like a really unhealthy snack or meal those 2-5% of the time. We try to justify it since a small portion of unhealthy food is fine every now and then. I think people underestimate it tho cause it’s not like donuts or a chocolate bar they’re eating, it’s tiny amounts of poison they’re feeding their soul if we’re sticking to that analogy
Dude Jesus is so real. I literally have been going thru this the last whole week.. Thank you God🙏🏽
Also something to think about, social media platforms are algorithm driven. If you spend more time listening to something as simple as sexual humor that signals to the algo to push more content relating to it. Before you know it you suggestions and shorts are pushing content that are sexual in nature.
I had to double check myself, but can confirm, it’s spelled “seduction”
I’m broken. A work in progress.
Your words about “this will be hard” hit home
I’m realizing where my issues are stemming from and there’s a lot of dirt to dig through to get to bedrock; the foundations on which my decisions are built.
God bless you, man. Keep digging.
This is so true. I’ve desensitized myself to worldly thinking and ideas by allowing it to be repeatedly presented to me as comedy and entertainment. I used to not consume any media that was not explicitly God-honoring or clean and I feel the Holy Spirit calling me back to that walk. It’s time to delete playlists, comb through my subscriptions, and filter the voices that are coming in again! Thank you so much for this video, it’s truly an anointed teaching. God bless!
Spot on. It's important for everyone to recognize that the same pathways that were established by p*rn usage are stimulated and maintained by all other less overtly sexual but still suggestive media. There is no gray area during the day when we should be idly scrolling and mindlessly navigating on these platforms which have landmines of depravity. Most won't admit it, but those very landmines may just be exactly why you keep "innocently and harmlessly" coming back for more.
I really appreciate that you talk about this because so many guys make excuses for watching sexually inclined things even the more “subtle” things. Thank you!!!
I’ve been on the clean and purification journey for over a year now. I can promise is makes a huge difference. The choices we make as Christian’s are hard. But we are supposed to be in the world, not of it.
Its so easy to fall but its even harder to get back up again us christians have to move on and get better
This is part of the sanctification process, understanding this concept will help us grow in spiritual maturation. Thank you brother!! God bless you
I have a stomach ache, and I’m saving this video in watch later to come back to it when I feel better.😅🙏
UPDATE: I’m back, and this was a great video. I saw my mom watching Firefly Lane and they had an episode mentioning a woman’s chest (it had to do with cancer) and even showed a cake shaped like it (I’M NOT EVEN KIDDING). When I saw that while drying dishes, I felt offended and teased cause I’m not trying to get tempted to go back to sexually immoral things.😣🙏
I have been working on overcoming over 10 years of using sexual behavior to avoid any sort of discomfort in my life including growth towards God. I’ve used porn, had sex with my ex and my current relationship we have crossed lines that we initially set for ourselves. I was meditating while driving and felt God tug at my heart that I keep going back to all that because I am scared of letting go of control. These acts have been self-soothing for me and I have held them away from God. I know He wants me to learn to trust Him with my sexual nature and learn l that He will provide for that in His timing.
This was a wonderful message that helps those of us that still fall into porn like a dog returns to its vomit. And it will help us realize that we aren’t alone, and people that shame us for our sin are just as capable even if it’s not to the same “sinfull” degree that porn is. That’s a major thing for me is feeling like I’m worse off than anybody who isn’t struggling with this
Abstain from every form of evil ( 1 thessalonians 5:22 ) is what this video is really about ❤️❤️ thank you soooo much for sharing this, it's such an underated topic that people don't pay close attention to ❤ God bless your life!!
I myself struggle with a porn issue and I know I’m not the only person in my 20s that does but I really appreciate this video and the topic you are addressing these subjects keep it up brother! ❤
Definitely not alone. I've struggled with it but overtime I have defeated it by God's grace. I would go months without watching but would always fall back, the eventually I defended it. Take the necessary steps, cut out all the things that lead you to sin. Remember Jesus said of something causes you to sin, get rid of it
So do that and don't give up
It was so hard for me to give up, watching and listening to David Dobrik and his friends. Every five seconds on his podcast they were talk about m*sturbation. It was awful, and I just had to get rid of in my life. That was one of the hardest things ever though. Because he was so funny, and I loved everything about it except for that one part that I thought I could just gloss over
Come on Isaac! Let the Lord use you! You preached today! Seriously timely and true discerning word.
Hey everyone, a gr12 boy here. I’ve been struggling with my own battles with lust and pornography for a few years now. I’m going on a high school fellowship retreat next week and I just really felt like the Holy Spirit was urging me to share my own battle and God’s grace, goodness and mercy throughout it with everyone there. If you guys have the time, please just pray for guidance, wisdom and boldness for me as I prepare what I want to say and for the spirit of God to work through me. Thanks everyone 🙏🙏
The compound effect and the slight edge talk about how little things done for a period of time can become big things and habits
I recommend reading one of them to understand the concept you randomly see that applied everywhere
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I really feel your message.
I’ve been finding myself, unfollowing accounts on fb that show seductive photos. I start to notice how subtle are the strings that all of that content attach to your heart and mind.
How subtle the spiritual warfare is in our own eyes.
This is so true. On youtube I’m subscribed to all christian channels but that doesn’t stop youtube from placing provocative short vids as I swipe. Doesn’t matter if I remove the channel another takes it’s place. Time to take a break….
I think music is a big factor that often goes ignored. I've found myself listening to more and more rap music lately, and I've always said that I don't really pay attention to the lyrics, I just like the sound if it "sounds cool". But after a while I started to comprehend what the lyrics are actually saying and meaning and it's quite appalling to understand what is being said. Even if you aren't comprehending the lyrics, or participating in actions that they are singing about, it still pollutes your mind with evil.
Dude I really appreciate this! Just today I was watching standup and there was so many s*xual jokes but the comedian was just so good that I continued watching it and justifying it. This was a great wake up call. God bless you man!
relate to this so much. just today I was scrolling through stuff and I came across such content and I got to a point where I felt "oh it's just a little 15 second video it's not much". but those little seconds could easily lead to me falling into it
thank you for this wake up call Isaac! God bless your ministry
Absolutely right! Continued sanctification more and more. As society gets worse the more we need to pull away from what is considered normal.
Thank you! I really needed this. I deleted a social media app just for this reason. My friends don't understand why
Convicting. Good word man.
That part where you mentioned marriage and how we say we'll take so much care of that relationship and yet don't do the same with our relationship with God really hit me
It's a lot of things I do which I've pretty much told myself that God is okay with, and though I know I'm not yet at the point where I twist Scripture to make my claim, that's where it eventually gets because a person's heart becomes hardened.
God is amazing. I have been seeing to many videos and church services about stopping these sinful acts and it’s at the perfect time for me. I have struggled with sexual thoughts and actions and I want and need to stop. And I think I’m on the road to stopping thanks to people like you who spread the much needed word of God. Thank you🤍✝️
Prayin for ya :)
@GrenadePlays thank you!
we get use to the idea of labeling and that block our sense of discerning.
God bless you Isaac. The more and more I walk with God, the more I realize a lot of things you talked about. The effectiveness of a trap is in its ability to blend, and the devil is a master at blending. It’s the little compromises that tear down our faith and hurt our relationship with God. I gave up basically every social media and honestly, my walk with the Lord has never been better.
Man, this was a good one brother! Commenting for the algorithm.
It’s really hard to escape it all, once you’re cognizant of the fact that what I’m going to call “soft pron” is everywhere, and it’s constantly trying to get your mind that direction.
I’m pretty much down to just UA-cam, but even that can be dangerous if doomscrolling
Just dislike everything that you know isn’t good for you. Click do not recommend and not interested. The algorithm will adjust
Yup half naked women on Facebook I Instagram TikTok posting pictures and doing half naked livestreams. You’ll think some of those women are shirtless
Thank you for making this, brother. It wasn’t revolutionary material for me, but it’s so encouraging hearing someone else encourage me like this🙌
GREAT ANALOGY. Thanks for always speaking the Truth 🥲 As a Catholic Christian, I appreciate your call for others to strive to follow the commandments and what the Bible calls us to be as disciples.
Roman Catholic? As in papist?
That is not the same as Christian. If you follow and believe the teachings of the Roman Catholic church you will be among those whom Jesus says He never knew.
For example if you are practicing idolatry, and believe in salvation through works (even if that is faith and works), you have not put your trust in Christ.
The Roman Catholic church work really hard to get their hooks into children to make it hard for them to leave, but all things are possible through Christ.
I love you and want you to go to heaven so please look into the errors of the Roman Catholic church and come to the real Christ
@@user-or4ut2qi3q idk in what propaganda have you grown up in but the catholic church isn't an evil sect like what you are describing. Our priests literally say sometimes that there are people who honor church more that God and point it out as a BAD example. Newer (than catholicism) denominations tend to see our faith as "church is more important than the bible" but its more like the church's interpretation of the bible is closer to the truth than some random dude's because our priests know each verse's context and they have to study the bible for 6 years in a seminary before they become priests. And there is at least some (we believe it to be a lot) truth in that. Especially when we look on some of the newer denominations who have gay marriages and pastors who promote watching porn.
@@oliwox8492"Our priests say sometimes" isn't something I would hold much trust in
@@user-or4ut2qi3q Christians are people who belives in Jesus. Co Catholics and other factions
@@user-or4ut2qi3q its've been 2k years of Catholic Church. If it isnt real, why it has stayed that long?
Amazing analogy and way to help me self-reflect.
Love it man, no one talks about the tempations after you've overcome your porn addiction
Sounds crazy but I had a dream that you texted me to call you ASAP. I didn’t even follow you just saw your shorts a few times. It looks like you have a powerful message to share! I look forward to hearing more of what the lord says through you.
I completely agree. I too had to stop listening to all of the podcasts that I used to enjoy. It was really hard at first but once I found other options I didn’t even miss those anymore.
Amen. This was amazing, thank you. May God bless you and keep blessing you with more wisdom. THank you I'm going to pray about this.
LOVE this. Thank you for spreading the word🙏
Issac this video came at a great time! I was praying about this earlier. There is nothing wrong with secular things or consuming secular media but if it takes our focus away from God then it is dangerous.
This explains a lot of what I have been going through. Thank you
This is such a good point! I feel guilty for watching shows like Drag Race and wonder if I'm not protecting my heart by doing so. Sending prayers for us all 🙏🏻
I would say that you shouldn’t be watching RuPaul and shows like that.
I watched the bachelor for a little while, and I really loved it but the whole premise of it is being with someone that you barely know and ending up having s*x with random people. It’s really hard to get rid of watching shows that we enjoy and is a guilty pleasure, but it’s a GUILTY PLEASURE.. those words are enough to know that it’s not okay. Hope this helps! We all struggle with this media and no one’s alone!
@Sydney Bell says someone that joined UA-cam a month ago 🙄 no not hurting anyone, just maybe my own soul. Nothing to worry about there.....right? His video just got me thinking.
@Sydney Bell that just screams troll to me, but ok. Is that what you tell young adults who watch po*n. It's ok you're not hurting anyone by watching it?!?!....until they try to have a family one day and find themselves getting aroused by wearing their wife's cloths. Yeah you should really reconsider your own advice. It's not very good.
Bahahaha they deleted their comment. Good maybe they will think twice before giving advice like that to a potential young adult 🤔
@Sara Chavez-Rice thanks for your comment Sara. It actually did help me. I agree it's a guilty pleasure. It's weird how we justify it.
this is so good! call it what it is!! 🙌🙌
Great video, thank you Isaac. Stay strong men (and women). CHRISTOS ANESTI!
Man it never ceases to amaze me. Ive literally been thinking about this just before my nightly pray before bed about this UA-cam show ive been watching for probably ten years now as a sleep aid called the game grumps. And something in my spirit has been telling me every time i heard a sexual joke or when they would say the Lord's name in vien i would get very uncomfortable and have been thinking about stopping to watch them for those facts about joke podcasts u mentioned and i just came across your vid randomly. God i think saw this coming and he sparked the hey i know what u are listening to and i shouldn't be.
Needed this. my spiritual life has been very rocky lately
That thumbnail is not nearly blurred enough
Got me red handed. Thank you for this video!
Exactly. I deleted all my social media and havent been back for the past 7 years! I personally had to take drastic measures. This country is oversaturated with sex.
I wish I could own a farm. Off the grid..
Thanks for speaking on this.
Thank you for this video. Means a lot.
God bless you brother.
I would also say that those things are a stepping stone to falling into actual pornography. That is how I relapsed 3 years ago. I was in a bad place. I was depressed. So I started to look at images of women in bathing suits on pinterest. From there it spiraled down to nude art. That I didn't go all the way back to watching videos is only the grace of God.
Now, I've been free from pornography for 3,5 years. By God's grace alone.
For those who struggle with masturbation, I would like to give some advice. I've discovered that seeing any pretty women, even clothed decently, can be a subconscious trigger. Especially for those who have a past like me. What I'd suggest is stop watching tv shows, content online, anything really that contains girls you find attractive. At least temporarily. I've discovered that it really helps.
Thanks for the great word!
God bless you brother
Thank you man, im really needed this. Thank you
Thank you for this video! I love your content and wish to pursue ministry in the future and so much of your content is helping so much the spiritual fight!✝️
Also off topic but I really like that hat where did you get it?
Such a great video brother! This is something not enough believers acknowledge! God bless you brother!
Brother, God is using you to speak to me, thank you for allowing God to use you, I pray for you!
Hey I'm early I just want to say thank you I've just sinned, if committed sexual immorality, I've done what you have said in the start of the video I feel that I needed this good timing, just prayed funny isn't it 😊
Don’t worry man God is faithful. He freed me and changed my life
I struggle with this sin too, but I know we can overcome it. The Lord will help us.🙏
Deuteronomy 31:6-8
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”
Thanks my brother in Christ, your video confirmed a lot of my doubts, I just started following the Lord in this past few months ( I've been a Christian my whole life but I just really got on the "caring my cross" thing recently),so I thank u 🙏🙏
Keep it up! The clouds of witnesses are cheering you on!
These last two videos you posted struck me hard. Thank you so much for sharing the Word.
Believe me. You are not blowing anything out of proportion. I am currently struggling with the results of desensitizing my own consciousness I've been so deep in the pornography spiral that I know, morally and biblically, that everything that I look at is wrong but at the same time my conscience is so seared at this point that I don't even have any guilt about it. And this is something that I'm struggling greatly with at the moment.
Run to Jesus. Are you filled with his Holy Spirit. Because the lack of conviction says a lot…. Repent. Ask God to help you with this and to convict you. When you are living for Christ and His Holy Spirit is dwelling in you, you will be disturbed by that stuff.
God Bless you brother your videos are wonderful
I was just thinking about this. I went to Facebook's "Watch" section for the first time and it was disgusting. Even FB Marketplace has some yikes posts. I thought FB was just lame, not outright degenerate.
The way ladies dress is 50% of the porn we struggle with already...a gateway itself to wanting to check the real thing in comfort. Abstaining from the porn itself has a way of flushing your mind if also you don't allow those other input methods like movies or music videos or horrible tiktoks etc; but as soon as you decide to step out of the house you're sure to have them all over the place from, school, office, gym etc...even church! Crazy man!! Man a wiked and adulterous generation; who shall save us from us!!! 😶😒
Great video, that needs to be heard by alot of people. Keep on fighting the good fight bro! 🙏🏾
Okay, so I've been making a conscious effort to try and read the Bible and walk the right past, but it's pretty hard to not whack off when you're a single guy in his early '30s.
And I've tried before and noticed that when you finally do give in and hit up the, "Hub" you end up blowing a load so big you have to mediately drink a gallon of water to rehydrate yourself before you die of dehydration. So that's kind of a pain in the ass, but a little bit of self-control and strong will, I think I can overcome that.
The problem is, sometimes you'll wake up in the middle of the night having busted a nut the middle of your sleep, and when you wake up you can't even remember what the hell you were dreaming about.
So I mean how are you supposed to walk the right path when your own natural human urges will take over when you're not even conscious!?
Does that mean you broke the rule? Or is it treated like Muslim people with pork. When they accidentally eat pork without knowing, it's not a sin because they didn't know.
Is it the same thing as that? I don't know...
Also saw a video on UA-cam where somebody said that looking at pornography is a sin, but jerking off is not.
And that's kind of confusing because I don't know about you guys, but when I'm going to jerk off and my phone died or something add a close your eyes and, "imagine" something to get you off. Well that goes back to breaking the commandant where you can't have lust in your brain, because you might as well have acted on it because according to God it's the same thing.
I just don't know. I don't know how any of this works...
Also,
Comes down to what you love more really. How much are you willing to sacrifice to have the best life that God wants for you? For me I think of the broad path that leads to destruction and many find it but narrow the one that leads to salvation and only few find it.
Take up that cross if you just think and try to imagine going through how Jesus had to suffer for us. Love Him more for it than the temporary pleasures. You will most likely fight the urges of the flesh for most of your life but it will get easier even the "dreams" fade. Make important lifestyle changes and pluck out the eye (anything that makes you burn with that passion and cause you to fall). Hope that helps
Thank you brother I needed to hear this so bad🙏🏾
Thank you so much brother, I really needed to hear this. God bless!
This is the most marketed issue in today's culture .......it is very important to open our eyes and guard our heart,
“But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head”
- Ephesians 4:15 (KJV)
There is a growing onslaught of sexual content infesting almost every corner of the digital world. Especially advertisements. How many mobile games have ads that include sexually provocative characters or themes? At certain points of the year, the UA-cam algorithm seems to throw a lot of suggestive videos on the homepage. And yes, it may be my fault I keep getting them, because I gave into temptation once, and clicked on one. But being on the internet and trying to avoid sexual content is like trying to not get wet in a rainstorm in an open field with barely any shelter.
People on the internet try to defend sexual content and will insist that there's nothing wrong with it. They will even try to make you think it's okay. It's like a heroine addict, trying to get you to do heroin. Just leave me alone!
Thank you for this message. God bless you brother!
If you turn Grayscale on color filters in settings helps with getting sucked in so much
U saved me bro!!! God bless you 🙌
Bollocks
I agree 100% with your views on guarding your heart from these things. You are not alone! God has been continually convicting me of the media I consume. I think the Lord really delights in the decision of a person to sacrifice such things for him. Thank you for the honest video :)
Thank you for this video it really means a lot and helps remind that god wants me to be free as much as I do
Great video
I love this video so much and strongly agree. I managed to overcome lust and porn addiction completely, all thanks to Jesus, he completely set me free from it, and I have no desire to go back. After being free from those things for a time I came to realise more and more and began to observe and pick up on just how much content on social media and UA-cam is sexually charged, and I was realising there was a lot of temptation intertwined with the content that I was seeing. I got to the point where I actually deleted social media for large periods of time just to stay away from that kind of content and monitor who and what I’m watching. Keeping the stuff I consume to fulfilling things like Christian podcasts/sermons or just worship music, just focusing on Jesus and growing to know him more. I would definitely suggest deleting most forms of social media, I will say it can be very difficult and it can take alot of discipline to do so, but it’s really been quite freeing and really opened my eyes to how much content on these apps are sexually charged and how much they can feed into lustful tendencies. If there’s anyone reading this who’s struggling with porn/lust, just bring it Jesus, ask him for help, to remove those desires, genuinely surrender it to him and set you free from those things. I asked for his help and he removed those desires entirely and I’m growing to know him more than ever before. I’ve been free for about 4 months now and though sometimes there’s temptation in the beginning, as you pursue Jesus and leave porn/lust/masturbation behind, you’ll find it’s truly freeing and gratifying to leave that part of your life behind, I never want to go back. If you ever feel tempted, just pray, spend time in the word or worship and ask for help, in scripture it says that God always gives you a way out of temptation, always. Praying for you, God bless.
- E
This hit hard
I have been off porn for about 7-8 months now, I feel very proud of myself for that.
However, I consume social media and from time to time the urge to look at sexually explicit content gets me. There are times though, when the main issues doesn’t even come from social media, just looking at women at the street with their shorts and tight dressing can make even the toughest men succumb.
This is a serious issue we are dealing with. I never thought I would ever be the type of person to criticize how others dress, but sometimes it’s just too much…
Don’t look at women. Stay focused on your mission
I play a lot of a game called VR Chat, and in that game is a lot of worldly people. I specifically play it in a group that's for adults, but it isnt specifically meant to be explicit. However, due to the nature of the game and the type of person that usually plays it, a lot of people have "avatars" that are quite sexually provocative. And the people there, of course, dont mind this.
I want to be a light in that world, but I need to remind myself every single time I go into there, that this is not safe, and I need to keep my guard up. I can block avatars if they are really just *too much* but I dont block that many. I always remain cautious, to make sure its not effecting me. But it is certainly an area of my life, that I can give up, if I need to.
Cut off the temptation, my friend. If it’s even remotely an issue, cut if off while you are weak. Not worth even the slightest temptation. You can block all you want but there will always be the next tempting avatar that will show up. It sucks to cut “fun” things off but if you know it’s a source of danger for your heart, cast it out! I’ll be praying for you!
@@olestrangs I was just acknowledging the possible danger. I dont think you can cut yourself off from *everything* that could possibly be a temptation. Lets take this idea to its most possible extreme, cant walk down the street because what if there's some lady out there wearing revealing clothing? Heck, cant even have the windows open, put curtains over them all because what if I look outside and see that? Cant go outside whatsoever, must just stay inside and see nothing.
I think obsessively avoiding "temptation" at all costs while it sounds good, can limit what you can do for God if youre too scared to just live in the face of it and not be tempted.
Thanks Isaac, I just wanted to mention that I think there's a typo in the thumbnail. It says "suduction" but I think it was supposed to be "seduction". 😅
Examples, please. Like Sausage Party or Shimoneta, or The Little Mermaid (that one time where Ariel just got her legs), that one scene from Coraline with the theatre scene?
This is how you made CRAZY PEOPLE. People that go into fetal position because they saw curves.
Thank you so much for this video, it was really helpful
I needed this video, God bless you David✝️🙏