How To Have Your Husband Drooling Over YOU
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00:00 intro
06:29 tip #1
10:22 tip #2
13:15 tip #3
16:54 tip #4
19:11 tip #5
20:50 tip #6
21:45 tip #7
My husband NEVER apologizes, but I had been practicing taming my tongue and really tuning in to the Holy Spirit. We had an argument and he had the perfect opportunity to apologize so instead of nagging I just prayed about it. As I was doing the dishes, he physically came to me, loved on me and apologized. I couldn’t help but laugh and smile because GOD!
we have to give men time for these things they need a loving place to embrace their faults and apologies as their egos are big they wont apologize if we are angry and looming! keep up the good work sis
Amazing!!!
Did you ever clearly communicate to him that his behavior of never apologizing hurts you?
I stopped nagging and praying instead and my relationship has gotten so much better and I find my husband apologizes instantly and I cant help but smile bc God is truly listening to our prayers. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Doesn't work for all of us unfortunately
You said several videos back to “love your husband like God loves him” and that has changed my marriage. I was constantly finding the faults in my spouse and now I constantly remind myself of how wonderfully he was made and all the qualities God loves him for. You are doing such good things and saving countless marriages with these videos. Thank you Milena!
First, I do want to say that I'm so happy that Milena is teaching biblical womanhood. There aren't many influencers out there that are this strong in their faith to spread truth in His word. I wanted to say to women who are going to attempt these suggestions Milena has put forth here: PLEASE manage your expectations of how your husband should respond to these attempts to get him to "drool" over you! You should not go into this with the expectation that you'll see immediate and positive reactions from him. In fact, if you do, you most likely will feel bitterness and resentment about your hubby if he doesn't respond by treating YOU as "expected". Please, if you start to incorporate these into your marriage, do so as an act of worshiping and obeying God. Don't expect anything in return...just obey the LORD.
Couldn’t agree with this more! I think it’s so common to be tempted to say “okay hello I’m doing all the right things where is the perfect response that I’m *owed*” and that is for sure not the heart posture God is after! Doing these things prayerfully and as an act of worship to God is such important advice!
I love this! So good!
All this is on point! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amen
Would love a video with Jordan on what men should be doing in their marriages. The wife needs to be supported and feel loved as well.
I commented this as well and can’t find my comment now.
Me too! I feel there is a lot of content on the internet / church directed at women to be good wives, but so little directed towards men to be good husbands.
It takes two to build a beautiful and holy marriage, and I feel Jordan could a great example and inspiration
Yessss
I was just thinking the same thing! I am curious what his opinion is on how husbands should be treating their wives.
Here’s the thing. While yes, you are correct, and men’s role in marriage does also need to be talked about, that’s not the point of this video OR Milena’s channel. Milena’s channel is specifically geared to women. That’s her demographical focus.
I really don’t understand when women comment on videos like this with things like “okay but what about men”…that’s not the point. The point is to focus on what WE can do and give, without expecting something in return.
Here are 7 things to do:
1. Pray instead of nag
2. Be extremely kind and generous
3. Be sexually generous
4. Meet him at the door
5. Praise him for the little things
6. Do something you don't want to do that he's asked you to do
7. All him to be his own person
And he should that to me too❤
Thank you for the summary
Thank u!
Emphasis on #3
Thank you so much!
I’m 9 months pregnant trying to manage my household today clean take care of the kids and I was lashing out on my husband while he’s at work and I sat down to rest and came across your video. Immediately changed my mood, inspired me to change my tone to him and feel renewed in my day. Thank you - you made my day so much better today.
As a husband I watched this thinking, “wow, I wish my wife did some of these things”. You definitely hit the nail on the head. But can you have your husband make a video like this for the husbands?
Hey bud as a wife who has been so many amazing marriages, the first step is to not compare your spouse. Its hard to do but we also dont know whats going on during the hard says.
Seen*** not been lol
I recommend reading the 5 love languages book. They have a free test online too. I had fun doing the test with my hubby.
You can make it a date! Go out to a restaurant and take turns doing the test (reading the questions out loud to her)
Then go over the results together! It’s a great conversation starter and leads to deep conversations that can benefit your marriage!
They have one up now 😊
Pray about it. Or I know my church had a couples Bible study for married people. I didn't attend, but I'm sure it was this kind of content. I'm still working on getting my husband to show up on Sundays.
I don't even have a husband but the title caught my attention 🤣💗 I'm enjoying my season of singleness & growing in my relationship with Jesus every day! Love your videos Milena! God bless you and your family 🥰
Love that!!
Girl same!! ❤
Same ❤😅
Single and spending this year doing The Bible Recap and REALLY getting to KNOW God, not just know ABOUT Him. But also reflecting on failed relationships, so this video is still so relevant, so that when I'm not intentionally single that I'll approach a relationship with the right mindset/actions.
I am a nagging wife😔I always have to have the last word, I tear my house down with my words. When my husband and I fight it’s usually because I can’t tame my tounge, I defile him with my words. I know God speaks to me through you always that’s why I love your content so much. You are speaking to my struggles. You truly are a blessing! ❤ Ugh 😩 Lord help me !
What you’ve done here is looked at yourself and recognised your faults. Take that to the Lord and let Him (God) help you! God Bless you
Ask God to give you the desire to not say anything bad. Tell Him take away any bad feelings or words from you. I know He will do it for you. I'm not married but even I struggled with this.
May the Lord help you in Jesus name yes amen and amen
Sweet girl let me first say that I am so proud of you. Many people are unable to see their blind spots and what they do wrong. You are already on the right path to change bc of that. I would like to encourage you to set some goals for yourself. First try doing this. If things get out of hand, have the first goal be to have it end much faster. Reflect and come to your husband with apologies. Try keeping records of this somewhere. Either in a notebook or on the notes app in your phone. This is a great way to sort of check yourself. After doing this, move on to the next goal, where you see yourself reacting differently from the get go. (I’ve been married for 12.5 years.) I chose to do it this way, bc I was not expecting immediate perfection from myself and giving myself grace, in doing so, I felt I had a higher chance of true change. And guess what? It worked! I have now consistently for quite awhile, reacted differently straight away. In situations where I was upset. You can do this! I will be praying for you. 🤍
Have you read the book "Fascinating Womanhood " by Helen Andulin? My goodness! It changed my whole attitude and I constantly go back to it! I give it to all my friends who get married. 🩷
The timing of this is perfect for me. Not looking to change my marriage but to start my marriage this way. We got married a little over a week ago now and I'm going to try to implement all these things. im so thankful to have Godly women like Milena to guide me and look up to as i start this new role as a wife 💗💗
Congratulations on your marriage girl! So happy for you. I'm in the same boat right now. We got married over a month ago too and its so amazing having someone to look up to and guide me to be the wife that the Lord wants. I pray the Lord helps you implement these tips in your marriage and that you have the most amazing, Godly marriage. Be blessed!💗😇
Ooh yes the enemy wants so badly to get us into bed together before marriage and then the enemy wants so badly to get us out of the bed after marriage!!! Spiritual warfare is so REAL!! Preach sis!!
You need Jesus Christ first.
Yes! Dude, be praying for your engaged friends to resist temptation. I've had 3 friends get engaged in the last few weeks and I've really been trying to pray for them. The temptation rises LIKE CRAZY as soon as you get engaged.
@@floethiopiawit3921 I'm confused by your comment
This has happened to us. My husband and I have been married 5.5 years and anytime he tries to
Touch me I cringe. Before marriage I was all over him. I hate it.
Ahhhh your recent content is so similar to what the Lord has been putting on my heart for the past year. Making some of these changes in the past few months has changed our LIVES. My husband pulled me aside the other morning before he left for work and said, "If I had to wait 7 years to get this woman, it was worth the wait". !!!! Submit yourselves to God's word and watch your lives and marriages be totally transformed ladies. Thank you Milena!!
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How did you put that tiny heart emoji?
Haha when I'm writing a comment there is a little icon underneath where I'm typing. But I'm on a laptop so I dont know how helpful that is lol
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Awww this is so sweet. Made me tear up! I’m so glad things have changed for you & your spouse
Thank you Milena 🤍 God bless you and your family 😇🙏
Girly pop
The hair was hairing!!!
The truth was truthing!!!
And the vibes were vibing!!!!
Wow!! I’ve been married 22 years and I needed these reminders. What a shift in my husband as I immediately started implementing all
Of them!!!! Praise God for moving in miraculous ways this week in my life. All because I walked in obedience. I prayed. I praised. I was generous. I sat and watched baseball 😂. I let him be a person. Thank you for this challenge and for calling me up!!! Let God just get all the glory!!! Loved your reminder that we should expect the enemy’s attacks. So true-but I armored up!
Meet him at the door with a smile, it is important for every human being to feel valued in his or her own home
Your puppy wasn’t distracting; he was happy and it made the video have a little bit of joy added to it ❤
Im not a wife but i totally agree with making home welcoming and warm. For example if my parents have been gone all day and i finally see their car pull up ill go meet them outside with a hug.
That is a quality we all can appreciate.
The tips in a row in case you want to copy them somewhere! Loved this video, thanks!!
1. Pray instead of nag
2. Be extremely kind and extremely generous
3. Be sexually generous
4. Meet him at the door
5. Praise him for the little things
6. Do something you don't want to do that your husband has been asking you to do
7. Allow him to be his own person
4 kids and married for 11 years, today was so rough. With him in school for masters and a full time job, I’ve been feeling so angry lately. i fell into nagging and today started an argument with him. I was looking up workout videos, then this video appeared out of no where! All this to say, half way through this video I felt heavily convicted. I called him into the room and apologized, and everything is ok now. Thank you so much for every word!! Every word!!
I’ve always loved your videos but goodness gracious!!! Your videos and insta content this year have been on a completely different level!!! They are so inspiring, beautiful, and FILLED with life and joy and scripture!!! I’m so thankful for you and your obedience to the Lord!!!
Agree 1000% it has changed my life so so much!!
Exactly what I felt!!! Keep seeking the Lord Milena and keep allowing Him to guide you!! I see such a change in you and trust, the Holy Spirit is working through you!! This was on point!! Blessings to you and your family always❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Agreed! I am loving it
Yes amen
AMEN to that!
Currently walking through a very rough chapter in our marriage, and I have to say, when we stop making excuses and do what the Bible says, God is so faithful to let us see the fruit. So much has changed in just a few short months, and it hasn’t all been gritting my teeth and bearing. I’ve found the strength in the middle of the storm when I choose to trust God instead of getting bitter. So good Milena! Thank you for sharing truth!
I needed this. 8 weeks postpartum plus a 15 month old. Finances are tighter than ever. I exclusively breast feed so I do all the night feeds. I feel so much resentment. But this? THIS is important . My husband is important. Our marriage is important. I need to find the time to heal our marriage. This video is so beyond helpful. Thank you.
Sending a small prayer your way for lots of grace and rest in your current season! I am pregnant with a 13 month old and I definitely feel the strain and have super low days. I just keep coming back to trusting that this is a short but precious season and I pray that the challenge will temper my marriage. I feel like if we have faith through these seasons, we will reap the fruit when our children are grown and our marriages mature!
You should communicate that to him so you can heal your marriage together. It is not your responsibility alone.
Congrats on having two beautiful kids! I am sorry you are going through this! I do pray you get some rest and God will provide with what you need! I also encourage you to talk to your husband. He won’t know what’s going on in your head unless you talk to him. Your not alone in this! Blessings!
I just want to encourage you even if it's hard to put these things into practice during postpartum time. Don't give up hope! You'll have the energy eventually, and until then, just being grateful instead of communicating resentment will go a Long Way toward him loving on you more.
This was / is me!! Stay in the word! Never give up! God can do anything. My best help so far is Elisabeth Elliot podcast. Recent episode telling me that self-pity is satanic. I had a lot of self-pity fits over sleeplessness and my baby business. But I am fighting it well now with gratitude and a gentler spirit and simplified focus. And more trust in God to give me the rest I need. He knows what we need. Wow thanks for your comment! I didn't feel alone. (2under two)
My husband and I were talking about how we felt like our marriage was getting boring or we were just getting used to each other. And I was very sad and he told me that God knew what he was doing and we needed to change things up. And than this morning I came across this video and when I tell y’all I cried bc I knew God was speaking to me through this! God is so good and thank you for sharing this. I’ve always loved your videos and. I pray God keeps using you. God bless! ❤
God’s timing is always right at the right time
I am not a Christian. I am also not a follower of the Bible. Since watching your videos these last few months it has opened my eyes. Your new age Christianity just makes sense to me…. It’s honestly just common sense. Who doesn’t want a HAPPY PEACFUL marriage & home?!!! Who the heck doesn’t want their husband obsessed with them?!!! I come from a very very broken family… a HOSTILE narcissistic mother who hated men. I have come a long way in building the home and marriage that I want and that I’ve always dreamed of. And you are a huge part in helping me wake up and better my marriage. I thank you so much ❤❤❤
Do you mind me asking what you mean by “new age Christianity?”
Accept Jesus as your lord and a savior because he can do so much more than just fix a marriage. Marriage is actually a symbol for how the us( the church) and him will be in heaven. You gain common sense through the word of God.
I’m also curious why you said “new age Christianity” 🤭
New age and Christianity are opposite camps bro
YES GIRL!!! Thankfully I have a church that encourages me to strengthen my faith. Part of the process is praying FIRST before doing anything. I learned very quickly that praying for my husband and allowing the Holy Spirit to move creates such peace in our marriage!!! I'm no longer tired from correcting him because it wasn't my place to do that anyway. The prayers weren't always answered right away but I still had comfort knowing I surrendered the situation to God. I agree with your other points too but this one stood out to me the most!
Ever since watching Bindi Marc, I have seen a MAJOR shift in my marriage. We have been married 5 years, 3 children under the age of 5. Let me tell you the first few years were rough, but even with a new little baby, we are now SO much happier and more in love than ever because I started making these changes. Yas! Also, I returned home from the thrift store to this video. I went to the store after seeing your videos about modesty and really wanting to break up with my skin tight jeans. I prayed before I went in that I would find everything I need with the $40 I had...and I found A TREASURE TROVE. Modest-dressy-dress-winter here I come!
Bindi Marc has also been a huge encouragement to me! Any wife would benefit from her videos. Wisdom from the Holy Spirit truly flows from her. Through her encouragement and example, the Lord has taken me from an attitude of, "wow, dresses everyday? Someone's trying hard" to genuinely being convicted of the status of my heart concerning the way I dress myself.
Love this comment, so cool that God cares so much that He even makes sure you find all you need within budget.. prayer changes everything.. wishing you a wonderful modest fall and winter😊
I love this! Modesty and thrifting is right up my alley. Sounds like a super productive shopping spree!
Yes loooove Bindi ❤
I just got married 4 months ago and this is RICH!! So so good! Thank you! And might I add that you are GLOWING! The joy of the Lord is radiating through you! 🙌🏽❤️
More of a silent viewer, I have been here since your saving yourself for marriage video. And I just want to say that it has been beautiful to watch you grow as a person and in your faith 🤍 you are literally glowing! And I see you are truly a Jesus loving woman! I have been loving your videos lately. I have implemented tips from your submission videos, and OMG I notice such a difference in my husband and our marriage. So thank you for sharing and helping me feel convicted and turn to the word of God more. 6 years of marriage and we are better then ever 😌
As someone who did not wait till marriage, I can testify that intimacy with my husband before marriage vs after marriage is mind blowing. Even though I am not proud of the things I have done God used this to show me why sex in a marriage is beautiful and healthy! Took me a while to get there but I am glad I did and that I dont ever have to go back!
As a MUSLIM. I agree and LOVED IT❤
Have a look at @richardlorenzojr he studied Islam and has a great testimony
Love this. It's so nice to see that someone is relaying this information in a biblical way
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Hey! I’ve been meaning to find a Christian who could answer this. Does lingerie come from society’s standards and not the lord? Is it something that makes sex more like objectifying a woman vs just loving her body without “dressing” it up? I wonder how many Christian couples use lingerie or not? Do you think lingerie could be coming from the devil, causing men to be more lustful over women in general? Hope this makes sense, it’s hard to put in words and would be easier to talk a lot in person lol
I guess to add, is lingerie really encouraged because is it literally invented by man, by men, in their interest. Not from God and his vision for sex 😅 hope that helps clarify this perspective.
@@amandav9753 I have been thinking about the same thing. Lingerie definately makes men more lustful, I think we can all agree on that. But when it is husband and wife? The most important thing about christian s3x is that it happens within a marriage and ends with the possibility of life. if lingerie is at play should not make any difference, unless it is used to manipulate the man to sin.
@amandav9753 I've never thought about this like that before.. My husband has said a bazillion times that lingerie does nothing for him because he just wants plain Jane me. That hasn't stopped me from wearing it because I personally enjoy it... but now I'm starting to think otherwise. This makes a lot of sense, and I could see how this could potentially be bad for some men/women especially considering if they have a sexually immoral past with porn etc etc. I don't think it's necessarily a sin, but to some it might be... something to ponder! You should write that as a comment not a reply so others can see it more easily. I think it could really help someone. Eye opening for me, and I'll be praying about that
I’m a Christian but I disagree with some things… I don’t think you should just pray. Like can’t you pray but also communicate? Just praying alone when he’s right there to communicate with seems a bit passive. Also I don’t think it should considered sinful to not have sex with your husband if your aren’t in the mood, why shouldn’t he be able to respect your mood? Like if you’re sex life is not compatible that’s obviously something that should be worked on but if you just aren’t in the mood, you shouldn’t be forced to do anything you don’t want to and he should respect that
Yes you can, but sometimes we just overly nag when it’s unnecessary and we really just need to pray and calm down. If you don’t want to have sex then you shouldn’t but if you only want to a little and he really wants to you should but obviously it’s your choice and it’s ok not to
So convicting! I love how you give us advice straight from scripture and real life examples. God is using you so well!
These videos are so practically helpful which I appreciate SO MUCH!!❤❤❤
I am a young wife of three years and have read what scriptures say but it can be challenging to take and understand how to apply them to everyday life!
God bless you and your family!!
I’m sure making these videos puts a target on your back for the enemy, but I pray a shield over you!!❤
Needed these beautiful biblical reminders sister! Thank you so much for being obedient and sharing. It’s so easy to take our husbands for granted or focus on the negative and let resentment build. Dying to the flesh and loving them and thinking of them before ourselves isn’t natural to us but not impossible with the holy spiritual living and working through us! 🙏🏼
This is so true. Every year gets MORE intimate. 12.5 years and 5 babies later. YESSSS such a deeper and more beautiful love.
Hiii I’m really excited to hear more on this! I had children before marriage and the spiritual difference since getting married 6 months ago has completely shifted our home and family! When walking in Gods will it’s so much more fruitful and I’m so eager to learn how to be a biblical wife and mother, your transition lead the Holy Spirit to conflict me in the best way and that’s also effecting my husband and children, it can be hard be so beautiful❤️ God Bless you ❤
So grateful for the biblical, spiritually uplifting and convicting content God has been guiding you to create and for the ways it has opened my eyes and heart to different ways to serve my husband, children, home and God.
Thank you ❤️
I’m not married, but I do live with my boyfriend and we have a baby girl together we’re both 22. And we wish we did things differently, but we haven’t. So here we are. I am still going to do these things for him because I nag all the time, constantly am complaining, we’ve had severe traumas from mentally ill parents with drug addictions. We are doing so great and I really do need to be easier on him. Sometimes I act like a complete brat. He is trying his very best and I want our home to be fruitful and pure for our daughter so that we can encourage her to live a lifestyle of god. Even though we may not have started our family biblically, we want our life to be biblical and I think practicing these things silently without boasting, will lead him to do the same as he is a sweet and pure soul who loves the lord.
Thank you for this video it really really encouraged me. Tame the tongue. What a great phrase. And boy do I need to practice that one. Lol
Sounds like you guys need to go to therapy… I hope it all get better between you two. Sounds like you guys are going through a difficult time.
This is so refreshing!!! I love that you're contradicting the notion that everything goes downhill the longer you're married. It IS possible to only get closer as a couple!
I don’t need to come back in one week because these are things that over the course of the last year have drastically changed my marriage. So Ill just say everything you spoke to are things that ive implemented and while I’m not perfect and always consistent, when I am showing up in these ways, it has made a world of difference! Keep sharing these tips Milena…there are many women who have never heard these ideas or need refreshers (like me!)❤ . Praying for all the women looking to see a change in their household, you can do it!
I've got to say, that I love each and every video you upload!! each of them is filled with so much wisdom
LOOVED THIS. Every now and then, I find myself slacking and this just whipped me back into shape. Thank you, Big sis🥹 I’m living for your videos.💛💛💛💛
As a single woman, I'm so grateful for these videos. It helps me alot to prepare my mindset for marriage. Thank you
I have gotten so much from your wife talk videos recently. I can’t even express how impactful they have been. Thank you so much for sharing the tough stuff, for not being afraid to ruffle those feathers, and truly just following where the Lord is leading you. I just got married a few months ago, and I’ve put into practice several things I’ve heard from your videos and I can attest to how much my husband appreciates it! You are out here doing the Lord’s work, and giving it to us straight up, and I just appreciate your openness so much. Already looking forward to the next video! 🤎🤎🤎
Also, the dog just hanging out and you apologizing for his noise, and just the setting of you on the couch, really made it feel like I had just come by for a visit and we were chatting about being a wife and what God has been teaching us, and I just really appreciate the comfort and familiarity of how you presented this topic. Keep doing what you’re doing cause we’re all out here needing to hear it 💕
Also..going along with praying instead of nagging (which...YES)...Something major that I didnt realize was even possible : commit to not arguing with your husband. If there is some kind of contention/disagreement, kindly share your opinion and thoughts, and let it go, give it to the Lord - joyfully! It's better to be at peace than to be right all of the time
YESSS so good
Really???
Amen 🙏
YES! Something I’m being sanctified in and doing this will show your husband you respect his leadership.
What if it's the other way round the husband being nagging
Milena!! I absolutely am in love with your new videos and series that you’ve been coming out with! I can see how God has been changing you as you have mentioned in earlier videos! These type of videos motivate me as a wife and new mom to be Godly, have more self control and just overall be more aware of how am I as homemaker, wife, and mom! Thank you so much for these type of videos! This week I want to be focusing on tip#1 definitely learning how to tame my tongue, not to be a quarrelsome wife!
This video is PERFECT for me as I prepare to become a wife in 5 months! I’m so thankful for these videos you make and sharing your wisdom! 🥰
Every few months I come back to this video as a refresh and to pray over my relationship with my husband. Milena, ur content is wonderful and as a young wife with her first baby on the way, it has truly been life changing
I used to watch you years ago and then when you first had your baby. It's good to see y'all this good and you embracing these truths as y'all get older n wiser. You are absolutely spot on. Bless you two!!!
I love what the Lord is so evidently doing in your life! It’s so beautiful to see just as a subscriber how much you’ve grown in your walk with the Lord. I’ve been married 2 years now and our second year of marriage was rough. New baby and life stresses, we weren’t in a rough place but definitely not thriving. Thank you for sharing these, several of them I feel deeply convicted about.
We’ve been married for 35 years. This is good advice. It took me awhile to learn these things on my own through trial and error. I am here since told me, I am in much nicer person than I was in earlier years of marriage. I spent so much time nagging and trying to be his mother versus his wife. It’s sad to think of all these years gone by where things could’ve been better but, we have loved each other through it, and God has blessed us. Now in our older years, we really do have a pleasant loving marriage. Thank you God.
The Prayers of Women and Wives influence this world MORE than you can believe.
I’ve been praying for myself and I see a difference on my entire campus🥰
My husband was just passing through the kitchen and noticed that I was watching your video and said " I'm so glad to see that Milena is doing great! She seems to have found her balance and peace in the family." I hope you'll take it the right way. I LOVE the new you🎉
Milena,thank you for your obedience. I was reading Proverbs 25 today and I just highlighted these verses.
Love your marriage videos! Seeing things in a different perspective now and I’m excited to see how it will effect my marriage. 4 years married and 4 kids together. Please keep the content coming!
Your content is so Holy Spirit filled! ❤ I thank God for sisters like you 😊
Thank you for this video Milena. Wow !
It’s been something I’ve had on my heart for a while and felt convicted in all 7 things you spoke about and really struggling to do die to my flesh.
I am so stubborn at times and hard headed I cause more dramas and problems! We are 3 years married this year and I’m ready for a turning point and this helped me out a lot. Thank you sister xx ❤️
I’m so so thankful for this video. Thank you, Milena, so much, for sharing this beautiful advice. I only wish I would have seen this video earlier today. I used my tongue (as kindly as I knew how, but still…) and I should have just prayed. Lord, help me. I’m praying about everything now and hope I haven’t hurt my wonderful husband too much for telling him the things he hasn’t been doing instead of thanking him for what he does do. I’m thankful God gives us mornings & new days & love & forgiveness 🥲❤️
Your videos have been a blessing to me this year. Thanks for being here 🤗
Thank you Milena for being obedient to The Lord and making this video!
This was sooo good Milena. A lot of these were both “ouch” and “amen” 😂. I love how much your content has changed this past year and seeing the way you are allowing yourself to be used by God and fulfilling His will when using your platform.
Side note: that poor dog’s face when you took his bone away😂😂😂 the face of a scolded child
Wowww I haven’t watched one of your videos for so long but love the growth walking with Christ! This video is so encouraging and powerful!!! Love the content!! Keep speaking wisdom and truth sis! ♥️
I can’t even begin to describe how great this video is! Thank you so much🩷🥰
Such a fantastic video. I’m really enjoying these focus style videos of pulling up scripture and applying them practically and realistically.
Milena, this new content is ministry! I am loving this and I’m am enjoying this new season with you! To God be the Glory! You are doing great things🙏🏼🧡
Oh my goodness this is literally what I needed and taking notes and being in prayer and seeking the Word to do these things! Extremely helpful and really appreciate this video! ❤
Samson is a cutie! I will never mind him being in your videos, it just shows how amazing of a dog mom you are❤
It’s such a breath of fresh air to hear a woman teach that actually LOVES and ENJOYS her husband! I feel the same, this advice really reminded me that I can do more to show him I think about him and love him. He works so hard for our family and I could be more appreciative
I’m so glad I learned #1 as a single woman it was one of those things I heard about and said that’s the kind of wife I want to be. Now that I’m married, I’m just so so thankful that I learned and practice that. I’m convinced it’s why there isn’t a lot of strife in my marriage. God is so so faithful. He cares about even the smallest of things. It’s also so fun to see such specific prayers answered.
Thank you Milena! I thank the Lord because I feel he spoke to me through this video, it feels like it was made for me lol I’m a new wife and I’m learning so many things, and I can find so much wisdom from God in what you explain and the Bible verses you’ve picked! Thank you again, God bless you and bless you marriage and family 🙏🏻 I’ll try to do this 7 things this week, I’m excited!! Praise to the Lord 🫶🏻🤗
Ahhh I love this!!! I feel convicted and excited!! 😊 I’ve definitely needed a push on a few of these! Thank you for speaking on it!
MILENA, thank you for this video. You posted it the minute I needed it. The very minute. It completely changed my thinking/mood/heart…everything! All the words you said and all the topics you covered were all meant for me to hear in that very moment. I had to come back today to write you this. Thank you. Con amor.
I’ve watched your content on the same topic in the past and one thing that I have applied to my marriage is doing things for my significant other, WITH LOVE. And man does this change the tone in my voice, man does this tame my tongue! If you know, ya know! lol I don’t have many friends but I’m appreciative of the wisdom and content you have shared with us!
wow! God’s timing is so perfect!!! I needed this video so badly!! Thank you!
wow praise the Lord 🥺
You’ve grown so much since I first started watching you! 🎉 love the route you’ve taken your channel!
I’m so glad you brought this topic. I agreed with your video. I need to pray instead of complain for my husband. Thank you for sharing this video! God bless you
Thank you so much.
I think one of the things that brings me back down to earth when I get wrapped up in his flaws is this: he’s not super human. He’s just me, but a man. He’s someone’s son. My son will be someone’s husband. These are flawed people. I’m not perfect either. So why do I keep holding him to this weird high standard.
You once said you wanted to show your husband as much grace and he shows you. That was so powerful and is so true. Thank you for this content!
This. Wow. So good. Thank you! Your video was convicting in the best way. My husband and I had a true heart to heart on some things I realized were blocking us having a better marriage. I am believing for a better future because of this! Thank you!
This is exactly the topic I was praying about this morning... wow, what an answered prayer! We're newlyweds trying to figure out this new chapter of life and all of these topics have been on my heart. Thank you for the wisdom!! 💗
Loving these biblical wife videos, definitely a few things I need to improve on from this. Thank you! ❤️
I’ve been praying for my husband so long and finally seeing crazy changes and it’s so true all you can do is pray and not nag, let god deal with them. He doesn’t even noticed he’s changed haha!
Really ???
@@sandraarita217 yes it’s so amazing! God will do things when it’s the right time!
When I tell you that this video just made me understand SO MUCH about why my husband is frustrated with me lately. The hard questions I asked myself made me realize that I need to step up and make a change because wow he does way more for me than I have ever realized. Thank you so much for this video ❤
I've been feeling so disconnected with my husband as he is in the academy to become a law enforcement officer. This video came at the exact right time, I've been praying for this exact thing 🙏🏻🫶🏻
Some of these have convicted me hardcore!! Thank you for making this video! I’m actually so so excited to do these!!!
I feel like this video was put before me today on purpose. Thank you!
A dear friend of mine sent me this video because she knew I am struggling in my marriage. Trying to have a baby and be a godly wife and all that. I have learned that my heart decided me when I really answered all these questions honestly on what I am doing for my husband. I was doing none of the things you listed. Thank you for this video and for sharing this with the world. I am going to listen to this video once a week to remind myself of all the things I could be doing for my husband. Excited to hear what else you have to say in your other videos.
You where preaching in this one girl🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 God bless you and your hubby love! Thank you for your words🤍🙏🏼
“Kids thrown at you” is such a horrible phrase I wish people would stop saying. These are HIS children.
I totally understand what you mean. We disrespect & put down our kids too often by saying things like that.
But I do know what she means. It’s more our attitude, I think, than physically dumping our kiddos on our husbands. There have been days where I am so at the end of myself and frustrated and overwhelmed by my two sweet kids and their needs that I just want to leave them with him as soon as he gets home, and tell him everything they’ve done that I’m frustrated about and go be by myself for a while. That’s what I think of when I hear “kids thrown at him as soon as he walks in the door” 💁🏼♀️❤️
Love this topic!! More please. This video blessed this new wife. Thank you!
This is so encouraging and convicting, thank you for speaking these truths!
I love this so much. Thank you girl!!!!! I am inspired to love my husband better and more by the grace of God. 💛💛💛☺️
Love this so much!! I recently asked my husband what matters most to him in our home and from me, that was so helpful! It helps me prioritize those things for him and not worry as much about the rest. Yes, I still do the other stuff. I just put his requests first.
i love getting to watch your videos and your life as i’m preparing for my future and for marriage! you’re a blessing!
Melina, it has been such a wonderful privilege to watch you grow from a babe in Christ to a beautiful mature women. Watching the Holy Spirit convict you into changing your lifestyle.. it’s inspiring❤
Thank you for this video! I can’t even express how much I needed this.
please write a book about all of the above. It is so needed and I got a tone of value just out of this video. love how straightforward your advice/the bibles advice is.
I just got engaged and came across this video!! So many gems I didn’t realize I needed. ♥️
Oh my goodness! I was just praying about how to love my husband better and then you posted this! Thank you so much! ❤
me too lol. God is good
Love it all, sister, thank you!! May the Lord bless all our journeys in our marriages!
I loved this video so much!!❤
For a bit of background, I've had some chaotic years, dealing with infertility, job loss, church loss, PTSD and finaly a car accident 3 months ago. I have not been an amazing wife, but my husband was very supportive, and never did me any reproches.
But I've been getting a lot better in these couple weeks, finaly got in therapy, and I finaly start to feel alive again!
I've really been having on my heart to keep my home better, be the real help of my husband that I want to be.
And in only the last couple of weeks, wow! It changed things.
I am implementing your advices to my daily life and it's amazing the difference it makes to only greet my husband at the door, or to pick him up at works so that he can avoid the bus 🥰
Thank you so much, it's so inspiring🥰