I say this as well. At best a parent can only be considered adequate, because it's not a job that you can go above and beyond. Anything good that a parent does for their child is what they should do. Now people that can have children, but chose to adopt to make a bad situation better are awesome.
I disagree there are good parents it's just most parents don't plan to have a kid physically emotionally mentally spiritually financially as well as transpersonally the better question to ask what we gonna do about be bitches and complain or properly heal and make a better change
@ElgoergiolorenzoDosSantos You're missing the point entirely. Anything "good" a parent does is negated by the fact that they brought another being into this world, against their will, to suffer and die. You can be a responsible parents, but at the end of the day, you caused suffering and death to a being that didn't need to even exist, simply for your own pleasure.
THANK YOU. My father behaves this way. He is super depressed that I won’t forgive him. Idgaf. He abused me for years. Sent me to prison-style Catholic school for 9 YEARS.
This is why many couples continously breed. They are addicted to the baby phase and if you talk to them, you will even hear them admit this directly/indirectly. I went out to dinner with 4 girls once, and 1 of the breeders video chats homes to check on her 3 boys, I asked about her older son because I did not hear him on the video chat and she says "I don't like him like that." She tried to act like she was joking, but I know deep down she was not.
This same girl's mother gifted her $12k for help on a new home downpayment, meanwhile my father is a millionaire and refuses to help his 4 children. Well he pays my younger brothers car note and car insurance.
Love the video! Biological parents are either selfish, narcissistic, or just negligent, because those are the only reasons people become parents. I challenge anyone to bring a logical argument against me.
I choose selfish; I wouldn’t make an argument against that cause it’s true. Too often we try and paint it as an altruism, or something to be worshipped when good parenting should be that bare minimum. going against that in any way seems to be an upset; but hot damn we need to stop rewarding and praising the bare minimus for parents. I don’t say that to be cruel; I say that because our parents seem to create echo chambers. I see a correlation between the narrative of altruistic service and that righteous attitude we encounter How dare we question the all loving altruism of our parents, they are only human always forgetting they made that choice.
I choose selfish; I wouldn’t make an argument against that cause it’s true. Too often we try and paint it as an altruism, or something to be worshipped when good parenting should be that bare minimum. going against that in any way seems to be an upset; but hot damn we need to stop rewarding and praising the bare minimus for parents. I don’t say that to be cruel; I say that because our parents seem to create echo chambers. I see a correlation between the narrative of altruistic service and that righteous attitude we encounter How dare we question the all loving altruism of our parents, they are only human always forgetting they made that choice.
A selfish act isn’t bad if the life you give is a life worth living; but deadass I was brought into this world to have the SHIT bear out of me for having needs at 2 years old. It’s not cash money at all At this point I’m just doing better and accepting that I will do better but also kinda sad that at 21 I’m leaps and bounds ahead of my own father emotionally and he may never grow out of his need to defend himself. I have learned from HIS mistakes
My mother said to me word-for-word a week before I went into the military because she was kicking me out and I wasn't going to speak to my father: *"We BrOuGhT YoU InTo ThiS WoRlD!"* She also called me a user even though she was taking money from me monthly and was going to keep increasing the amount that she charges. What a bitch.
You were PREACHIN here bro! As a childfree adult with a traumatic childhood, i resonated deeply with mamy points. You have articulated them with such clarity. 💯👍
Was born to a mother who was 21 when she had me and her first husband (my father) was a LOSER from the get-go, he’s now in jail for selling fentanyl. My step father is only 19 years older than me (he’s 2 years younger than my mom) and they were EXTREMELY strict. If I got a C in school I was grounded for the full 9 weeks, it if I ever talked back I was spanked and threatened with military school. I finally “went crazy” when I went to college and damn near dropped out because I finally had a taste of freedom. I’ve since graduated and have established a very successful life for myself, but I can deny that I have an arms length relationship with my parents now to keep things civil. I have a brother who’s 13 years younger than me and they were a complete pushover with him. You nailed it with the “where are my grandkids” comment. My girlfriend and I are both very successful, good looking, healthy, etc, but because of how we were parented have 0 interest in having kids of our own. It makes me sad but I have 0 pull to be a dad despite being almost 32
PREACH! My exact realization. Average grades and extraordinary looks would probably be more fulfilling. Extraordinary grades just gets people cheating off your work or asking to be tutored 😅
You describe my parents, good to have no kids, and I will never ever have them and I can't have them anymore, because when I was 24 and I am now 27, I did vesectomy, lol.
Another thing that's soooooooooooooooo dumb about some parents is when one sibling is bullying the other .. and they say : _"Can _*_you two_*_ stop fighting!"_ .. absolute maximum retrdation! i.e. accountability halving fallacy!
Yeah bro I was just talking about this with a friend. It even says in the Bible to train a child up in the way that they should go so that when they get older they will not depart from it. What a stupid failed society.
I see the case for what you said on the stipulations for being a parent, but they definitely shouldnt be enforced by any laws. That would become a disaster. Parents expecting children could take some philosophy courses though lol
one of the truth simpsons show is how bart became loser becouse hes abusive dad, but his sister lisa became succesfull in everything she did.i personally think your faith is sealed when your 8-10 years old. depending how your life were before those years it will go same pattern when youre old.
29:10 but wtf should you do otherwise? Fix cars? You went full n0rmie mode here. It's like adults should do XYZ because if they don't then... what? Ah societal pressures, so succumbing to others vision of how your life should look for them to accept you.
And if you weren't born you wouln't need to go through all that suffering for nothing.
God loves you
@@marcus8786 God is a doofus
@@trevagraham1605 LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@@marcus8786do ants go to heaven?
My family also taught me n0thing. They always assured that I will be bulied by others, because when I defended myself I was told I dibehave. Devils
IMO, there's no such thing as a "good parent". At the end of the day, we all suffer and will die against our will.
I say this as well. At best a parent can only be considered adequate, because it's not a job that you can go above and beyond. Anything good that a parent does for their child is what they should do. Now people that can have children, but chose to adopt to make a bad situation better are awesome.
I disagree there are good parents it's just most parents don't plan to have a kid physically emotionally mentally spiritually financially as well as transpersonally the better question to ask what we gonna do about be bitches and complain or properly heal and make a better change
@@ElgoergiolorenzoDosSantos Dude, you need to chill out. Let us vent. Parents honestly get enough benefit of the doubt from society already.
@@Okinawa455 cool vent but remember life must be lived
@ElgoergiolorenzoDosSantos You're missing the point entirely. Anything "good" a parent does is negated by the fact that they brought another being into this world, against their will, to suffer and die. You can be a responsible parents, but at the end of the day, you caused suffering and death to a being that didn't need to even exist, simply for your own pleasure.
THANK YOU. My father behaves this way. He is super depressed that I won’t forgive him. Idgaf. He abused me for years. Sent me to prison-style Catholic school for 9 YEARS.
This is why many couples continously breed. They are addicted to the baby phase and if you talk to them, you will even hear them admit this directly/indirectly. I went out to dinner with 4 girls once, and 1 of the breeders video chats homes to check on her 3 boys, I asked about her older son because I did not hear him on the video chat and she says "I don't like him like that." She tried to act like she was joking, but I know deep down she was not.
This same girl's mother gifted her $12k for help on a new home downpayment, meanwhile my father is a millionaire and refuses to help his 4 children. Well he pays my younger brothers car note and car insurance.
Love the video! Biological parents are either selfish, narcissistic, or just negligent, because those are the only reasons people become parents. I challenge anyone to bring a logical argument against me.
I choose selfish; I wouldn’t make an argument against that cause it’s true.
Too often we try and paint it as an altruism, or something to be worshipped when good parenting should be that bare minimum.
going against that in any way seems to be an upset; but hot damn we need to stop rewarding and praising the bare minimus for parents.
I don’t say that to be cruel; I say that because our parents seem to create echo chambers.
I see a correlation between the narrative of altruistic service and that righteous attitude we encounter
How dare we question the all loving altruism of our parents, they are only human always forgetting they made that choice.
I choose selfish; I wouldn’t make an argument against that cause it’s true.
Too often we try and paint it as an altruism, or something to be worshipped when good parenting should be that bare minimum.
going against that in any way seems to be an upset; but hot damn we need to stop rewarding and praising the bare minimus for parents.
I don’t say that to be cruel; I say that because our parents seem to create echo chambers.
I see a correlation between the narrative of altruistic service and that righteous attitude we encounter
How dare we question the all loving altruism of our parents, they are only human always forgetting they made that choice.
A selfish act isn’t bad if the life you give is a life worth living; but deadass I was brought into this world to have the SHIT bear out of me for having needs at 2 years old.
It’s not cash money at all
At this point I’m just doing better and accepting that I will do better but also
kinda sad that at 21 I’m leaps and bounds ahead of my own father emotionally and he may never grow out of his need to defend himself.
I have learned from HIS mistakes
I liked your comment btw; thank you for sharing the question
@@SupermonkeyPlaysMC This is well written, and 100% accurate.
Ungrateful for forcing a nightmare on you. The very definition of full blown insanity.
Someone in this comment section said antinatalism is growing more popular and that is such a wonderful thing to hear.
My mother said to me word-for-word a week before I went into the military because she was kicking me out and I wasn't going to speak to my father: *"We BrOuGhT YoU InTo ThiS WoRlD!"*
She also called me a user even though she was taking money from me monthly and was going to keep increasing the amount that she charges.
What a bitch.
You were PREACHIN here bro! As a childfree adult with a traumatic childhood, i resonated deeply with mamy points. You have articulated them with such clarity. 💯👍
Anti-Nat [ alism ] is getting popular for a reason
Because it's hurt folks who don't want to grow up and heal so they pushing this shit plus a lot of folks here aren't spiritual and transpersonal
Let him cook 🎉
Was born to a mother who was 21 when she had me and her first husband (my father) was a LOSER from the get-go, he’s now in jail for selling fentanyl.
My step father is only 19 years older than me (he’s 2 years younger than my mom) and they were EXTREMELY strict.
If I got a C in school I was grounded for the full 9 weeks, it if I ever talked back I was spanked and threatened with military school.
I finally “went crazy” when I went to college and damn near dropped out because I finally had a taste of freedom.
I’ve since graduated and have established a very successful life for myself, but I can deny that I have an arms length relationship with my parents now to keep things civil.
I have a brother who’s 13 years younger than me and they were a complete pushover with him.
You nailed it with the “where are my grandkids” comment.
My girlfriend and I are both very successful, good looking, healthy, etc, but because of how we were parented have 0 interest in having kids of our own.
It makes me sad but I have 0 pull to be a dad despite being almost 32
I knew from a very young age that I would never have kids.
I had one of the best grades. Being sub5 my life is a tragedy and good grades never benefited me in any way in my life
PREACH! My exact realization. Average grades and extraordinary looks would probably be more fulfilling. Extraordinary grades just gets people cheating off your work or asking to be tutored 😅
So much truth 🥲
Fabulous! Probably the most unsung issue on the internet! Truth is, most kids are accidents .. hence lifetime liabilities, hence the unfriendliness.
My mum was always shocked by what my grandmother let me and my brother get away with as kids.
You describe my parents, good to have no kids, and I will never ever have them and I can't have them anymore, because when I was 24 and I am now 27, I did vesectomy, lol.
Nice... did u test after to make sure you can't ?? I want a vasectomy ;/
Lucky
Good for you. 😌
This is one of the best videos I seen talking about parents.
Same. Glad you linked it.
A King is speaking his truth. Do not interrupt him.
Another thing that's soooooooooooooooo dumb about some parents is when one sibling is bullying the other .. and they say : _"Can _*_you two_*_ stop fighting!"_ .. absolute maximum retrdation! i.e. accountability halving fallacy!
Great video.
There is no such thing as good parents, like there is no such thing as a good slave owners
Your perspective is spot on bro lol
Half way in and you’re killing it man
The neglect is unreal
Breeders are hypocrites on many levels.
Good video you spoke facts 💯💯
Yeah bro I was just talking about this with a friend. It even says in the Bible to train a child up in the way that they should go so that when they get older they will not depart from it. What a stupid failed society.
I see the case for what you said on the stipulations for being a parent, but they definitely shouldnt be enforced by any laws. That would become a disaster.
Parents expecting children could take some philosophy courses though lol
U assume they would care
Not just philosophy but as well as healing and child psychology
one of the truth simpsons show is how bart became loser becouse hes abusive dad, but his sister lisa became succesfull in everything she did.i personally think your faith is sealed when your 8-10 years old. depending how your life were before those years it will go same pattern when youre old.
By the way, r those the DBZ mangas behind you my brother?
Are you an antinatalist?
Indeed. I have a video called True Antinatalism.
I had those 2 first scenarios combined
If you have strict parents but 6/10 at least looks then other people will get you out of your misery. If you are sub5 then you are done.
I also had a strict mom while my dad would just sit by and be quiet the whole time. smh actual coward
I can’t really say if that’s true or false
Are u sub 5 ?
@@cazimim3375 yes, You got my ugly face on blackpill chief video
@@BigSavageG I don’t think it’s that simple chads have sui sided
29:10 but wtf should you do otherwise? Fix cars? You went full n0rmie mode here. It's like adults should do XYZ because if they don't then... what? Ah societal pressures, so succumbing to others vision of how your life should look for them to accept you.
The 99.99% are normies
Look at his behind wall to the hypocrisy and lack of self awareness and normie is so cringe
Too*
It’s cringe
Gotta people please and crowd follow LMAO even if it doesn’t make you personally happy lmao