20 Rules for Women - How To Attract A High Value Man

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  • Ladies, do you want a high-value man? In this episode, Patrick Bet-David breaks down 20 rules for young women to attract a high-value man.
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  • @Standardbredwoman04
    @Standardbredwoman04 Рік тому +1141

    As a woman 64 yrs old. A high value man is that man that will work in the fields or the factory who is a true man. He loves his wife loves his kids. Respects others. He does not need to be a millionaire.

    • @BlackCulturalPreservation2023
      @BlackCulturalPreservation2023 11 місяців тому +80

      Virtuous & responsible is more fitting to this whole high value title.

    • @cedrickiiza2310
      @cedrickiiza2310 11 місяців тому +34

      The problem is that , the market decided , what a high value man is , they can be good men , but high value is high value , just based on the market

    • @Standardbredwoman04
      @Standardbredwoman04 11 місяців тому +53

      I was married to a soldier military pay is not that great. A soldier is a soldier 24/7 even on leave. So his life is worth $1.25 an hr. A combat infantry soldier life expectancy is 2.50 seconds. Those are not the specialty trained rangers airborne the like. The more training the less your odds are. Bur married soldiers will volunteer for deployment if they know it will benefit their family. That is a high value man.

    • @user-qs8em6kg5i
      @user-qs8em6kg5i 11 місяців тому +15

      @@Standardbredwoman04 that’s a good man. Not high value man. Important to spot differences. Most high value man appreciate good hard working man’s. But man’s that work hard and love his kid is not automatically high value. Is just a good onset hard worker. Witch is grate. Most time not high value man have problem or disrespect that good guys. But women dose for sure 😂
      High value man go and take big risk. They don’t want to by on top. They had to by or at least fight to by on top. Sorry working as a factory worker or simple foot solider is not it. It’s still probably good man. But not high value. High value man will feel need of having his own factory or becoming general in army. Feel that he need to be on top 😉

    • @Standardbredwoman04
      @Standardbredwoman04 11 місяців тому +18

      @user-qs8em6kg5i I believe that high value means something different to people as a woman my vew of a high value is not about money. It is about the good man TCB honering his parents and respecting his wife and loving that same wife and children. Men with money do not impress me. Maybe in my youth. Even then as long as I had what I needed / wanted there was nothing else I did not want a rich boyfriend. I just wanted what I could afford. If I could not afford it I did not get it I am not going to say I did not save up for it

  • @spartanares4345
    @spartanares4345 Рік тому +637

    “If you see men as the enemy - you won’t find a high value man” - preach that like a prophet!

    • @mr.anonymous520
      @mr.anonymous520 Рік тому +10

      So true

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому +4

      @@mr.anonymous520 Why is it that "men" See women as the enemies?? OK, I get it, what is Allowed to men, is Not Allowed to women, yeah, the 5,000 Year Old tradition, isn't it??

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому +3

      Well, in my Case, I didn't have to See men as the Enemies, they just proved that They ARE the enemies. ha, ha, ha.

    • @spartanares4345
      @spartanares4345 Рік тому +1

      @@valentinalicheli1928 You should have your eyes examined.

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому +4

      @@spartanares4345; many men See women as their enemy, just the same way many women See men as their enemy; Capeech?

  • @yohannabee5916
    @yohannabee5916 Рік тому +308

    A high value man is not one that is rich; it is one who is kind, shares with those in need, treats others right, works hard, and does no harm, and, if married, loves, provides for, and is faithful to his wife, loves his children, provides for them and teaches them right from wrong, unselfishness, and how to get along well in life.

    • @lindachallenger1554
      @lindachallenger1554 6 місяців тому +6

      Well said….

    • @maryrankin9869
      @maryrankin9869 6 місяців тому +3

      This kind of man is rich! What are you saying?

    • @noname-qw9td
      @noname-qw9td 6 місяців тому +6

      @@maryrankin9869 their point was not 'rich' in the sense of monetary value but rich with life knowledge and skill.

    • @marietgagliardi
      @marietgagliardi 6 місяців тому +2

      100% agree

    • @blessall8856
      @blessall8856 6 місяців тому +2

      Totally 💯 agree!

  • @zoeh1964
    @zoeh1964 Рік тому +967

    I love that he mentioned the fourth model where a woman is independent and successful but wants to have the male leadership, strength and stability in her life. I'm happily serving the role of a co-pilot and i highly recommend it to any woman. It's absolutely the best and most sustainable dynamic in a relationship

    • @fuckucatchme1000rr
      @fuckucatchme1000rr Рік тому +22

      No one cares.

    • @mojo4369
      @mojo4369 Рік тому

      @@fuckucatchme1000rr
      Sounds like youre intimidated

    • @alexmaracinaru
      @alexmaracinaru Рік тому +52

      Absolutely. As the CEO of a rather successful business, I’d be thrilled to have by my side a man that leads.

    • @lacijohnson400
      @lacijohnson400 Рік тому

      @@fuckucatchme1000rr clearly you do lmao

    • @maryam_4437
      @maryam_4437 Рік тому

      @@fuckucatchme1000rr stf incel

  • @caladr9367
    @caladr9367 Рік тому +428

    Some traits of a high value guy were left out; intelligent, strong moral compass, self-disciplined, independent, generous, kind, loyal, respectful, and responsible.

    • @Palosiam124
      @Palosiam124 Рік тому

      Those values are not a thing for these soulless corporate cretin

    • @Butterflieslove2
      @Butterflieslove2 Рік тому +10

      Yes yes yes

    • @janinemillirons2927
      @janinemillirons2927 Рік тому +10

      I met a high value man recently. So refreshing!

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady Рік тому +9

      He said those…. High value - is intelligent, no only fans - is strong moral compass, he goes to the gym/takes care of his body- that’s self discipline, he’s ambitious at his goals/ not home at 5 every night - independence , he said he takes responsibility and improves- that’s respectful
      They are all generous, kind, loyal…. 😅😢

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 Рік тому +1

      @@SanctifiedLady that's what I thought lol

  • @kaylinknight4764
    @kaylinknight4764 Рік тому +224

    “You’re mine, I’m yours. Let’s roll” this mindset could solve half of all people’s relationship trouble. Spot on!

  • @kw3113
    @kw3113 7 місяців тому +156

    I’ve been married to a high value man 38 years and it’s brilliant to build a life together knowing what he needs to be successful and I’m part of this team. I told my newest daughter in law that the Webb men aren’t easy but so worth it! By the way, I taught my boys to cherish their wives like they have seen their father cherish me.

    • @SpindarellaMotloung
      @SpindarellaMotloung 6 місяців тому +5

      I’m personally praying for this ❤️
      I used to be an extremely independent and success driven women, who did not prioritise relationships.

    • @jaimeerivera8217
      @jaimeerivera8217 6 місяців тому +1

      I love this ❤️ thank you for sharing 👏🏻

    • @anonymous_5720
      @anonymous_5720 6 місяців тому +1

      Why’re you watching this video then 🤔

    • @Lekikna
      @Lekikna 6 місяців тому +1

      I am so glad that positive stories of families exist❤️❤️❤️Thank you for contributing to this world!

    • @clicktoaddtoquack6361
      @clicktoaddtoquack6361 2 місяці тому

      I want to learn from you

  • @11nica5
    @11nica5 Рік тому +458

    I’ve been Married to a high-value man for 14yrs. This vid is 💯 correct. It takes a high-value woman to keep up with a man of this caliber. It requires similar core-values, self-awareness, humility, understanding and confidence. A man, who is out negotiating $30M deals on a daily basis needs different support than a man earning $30K a year. Also, men earning this kind of money also experience losses in business equally as big; also requires a woman who can stomach that. That’s not to say it’s a 1-way street, my husband is an amazing partner and father; who has made a commitment to be at home for dinner bc we have two young kids. He’s the CEO outside of our home and I’m the CEO in our home. We respect and VALUE our roles…It’s a give and take, divide and conquer type of mentality.
    I live a quality life most women can only dream of and it has NOTHING to do with our net-worth.

    • @11nica5
      @11nica5 Рік тому

      @User Blessing give me your email and I’ll send u a message

    • @jacqnpacct1722
      @jacqnpacct1722 Рік тому +5

      Love this! ❤️ How did you meet?

    • @Ashdaesq
      @Ashdaesq Рік тому +14

      I love this! Two CEOs in and out of the home. My woman has got to be as much of a boss as I am

    • @jmorefit1
      @jmorefit1 Рік тому

      @@Ashdaesq Just make sure she is making less than you…9/10 a women will lose respect for a man that she believes is equal to her, she wants to feel like her man is superior to her and won him

    • @Jan-kw1qr
      @Jan-kw1qr Рік тому +3

      That’s great for you ! Can I ask you if you both built a life together or were one of you already established ?

  • @jamenne
    @jamenne Рік тому +429

    Even though i am 67 yrs old I still enjoyed this video very much. Why? Because good old fashioned values still matter. I am so glad to hear this. Basically just learn how to be a classy woman no matter what generation it is.

    • @wisdomok99
      @wisdomok99 Рік тому +12

      Good to hear that, nowdays people are messed up with confused so called "influencers" with no experince in life!

    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 Рік тому +10

      Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

    • @snowbird6855
      @snowbird6855 Рік тому +2

      @@discerningthetruth01
      If you're over 35 it's basically too late for you as a high value man goes for a younger partner. A 50 yr old with good income can still get one and a 45 yr old woman can't compete.

    • @queenofsheba7145
      @queenofsheba7145 Рік тому +15

      @@snowbird6855 - It all depends on how you define high value. He is defining "high value " based on a man's looks and wealth. After 40, it's all about integrity, morals, spiritual values. Yes, if they are successful that is great. Real wealth and value comes from within. Also, I have a cousin who is 53, (she looks 33), just remarried last year to a very successful man, and he is 64!. Age is just a number.

    • @SheOnEarth
      @SheOnEarth Рік тому +10

      @@snowbird6855 Men are not the prize lol some views in this video are outdated! Sure some might go for younger ones (and I know many of them), but there are ones that would go for the older women too because they want the maturity that comes with it.
      It’s not just about men choosing women, it’s about both people choosing each other.

  • @justsomerandomgirl
    @justsomerandomgirl Рік тому +345

    My husband is a mechanic, can fix anything in the home etc, plus he studies relentlessly investments. We are retiring early( I’m a teacher). I think he is a wonderful high value man. Love him so much. We are perfect together.

    • @rosali401
      @rosali401 Рік тому +20

      Your husband sounds like a great guy. God bless you union🤎

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому +16

      Just Some Random Girl: I am GLAD you mentioned Your husband. Not All High-Valued Men have to be Top Executives or Wealthy. Just Smart Man.

    • @Jason-mr2do
      @Jason-mr2do Рік тому +6

      That's not a high value man. A great guy, sure. High value? Nope.

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому +15

      @@Jason-mr2do EXCUSE ME; How DARE YOU tell a Woman who has a GEM at Home that is a Solid Rock in her life as her husband that He is not High Value!! He Surpassed HIGH VALUE already; in fact He is Above and Beyond the Stupidity of this world's "value" which has nothing to do with Real Worth and Human Value and more to do with Sick-Egos and shallowness that does nothing for You when you are in a hospital bed, or in pain, or in a car accident, or in serious trouble in life; those "high-value" men that you have in mind; many have committed Suicide when they lose All their money and businesses and they have No Character inside of them Strong Enough to Support his circumstances.

    • @valentinalicheli1928
      @valentinalicheli1928 Рік тому

      @@Jason-mr2do Let me See......Robin Williams was Considered a VERY High-VALUE Man, BUT he committed Suicide - All his Wealth, Fame, Fortune, and Fans couldn't take him Out of that Dark Place in his Mind. Charlie Sheen was considered a High-Value Man at one point, but he ruined his life by Sleeping Around and you know what happened. Tom Cruise is and has always been Considered a VERY HIGH VALUED MAN, Attractive, Successful, intelligent, Mega Star, Money-Maker, Enterprising, and how all his relationships end?? Leonardo DiCaprio has girls issues; Sleeping with girls that could be his daughters; Ah; there goes the "value" ha, ha, ha. Michael Jackson, according to You, was considered a High-Valued Man, and look how he ended up!! Bill Clinton was considered a High-Valued Man and look at the Scandals he has created. Magic Johnson was and probably will always be considered a High-Valued Man, and look at what happened to him - his Wife is the REAL HIGH VALUE there.

  • @matildamaher1505
    @matildamaher1505 6 місяців тому +18

    My husband is a high value man, he's Godly, a leader, a provider and a protector. He loves his family and reaches out to help others in need.Highly responsible and confident.

  • @psb.shakira
    @psb.shakira Рік тому +166

    “just because you got him doesn’t mean you got him forever!” soo key & a lot of women in my generation need to understand. that’s where the work AS WOMEN comes in!

    • @RealRockdidit
      @RealRockdidit 10 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely 💯 agree

    • @VicToria-sd1dn
      @VicToria-sd1dn 6 місяців тому +11

      Just because he got her doesn't mean he got her forever. That's where the work starts from.

    • @kasiatt873
      @kasiatt873 6 місяців тому +9

      I'm sorry but you need 2 to tango. It goes both ways. If both sides won't work on the marriage it'll fall apart. I'm married for over 10 years, we have kids. I know what I'm saying.

    • @goldenparachute392
      @goldenparachute392 6 місяців тому +5

      @@VicToria-sd1dnright! Hence, the majority of divorces are initiated by women because the husbands could not keep them.

    • @VicToria-sd1dn
      @VicToria-sd1dn 6 місяців тому +6

      @@goldenparachute392 Yes the majority of divorces are initiated by the wives because some husbands cheat. Also the issue of male toxicity is rampant. Both parties should want to remain together and should work on it willingly.

  • @charlescdt6509
    @charlescdt6509 Рік тому +71

    Judge Judy said it best "beauty fades but dumb is forever". Sadly if you look at social media its all about looks and zero substance and the ones with substance dont get the shine. Awesome stuff as always.

    • @DeweyJHall1
      @DeweyJHall1 Рік тому +5

      One of the best comments I've ever read. So true

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Рік тому +7

      Men go after the shiny thing. Some woman are beautiful, smart, and work hard, but they’re not likely to be blinged out with colored hair, fake nails, etc.

  • @sadiegirl5312
    @sadiegirl5312 Рік тому +162

    Excellent video and so true. Although I am 72 and not looking for anyone , married for 48 years, this is exactly how I found my man of means. If you love yourself and are true to yourself it will shine through that you are a woman who has value to any high value man.

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому +265

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Рік тому +2

      amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому +1

      @@DavidVelasquez9 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Рік тому +1

      @@peterwilliams6361 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      @@DavidVelasquez9 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @mynestintheforest
    @mynestintheforest Рік тому +44

    If there is one thing I have learnt over the years it is that the term high value means something completely different for every person. For me being of high value means being of higher consciousness, that is the greatest service a man can give to anyone.

    • @justindavis2711
      @justindavis2711 Рік тому +19

      exactly. High income men who are sociopaths are not high value. But high consciousness more often than not, results in wealth.

  • @evelincave-varosanec2399
    @evelincave-varosanec2399 6 місяців тому +8

    Been married 30 yrs to a high value man. I'm a high value woman. You attract what you put out.

  • @tamaro9641
    @tamaro9641 6 місяців тому +12

    I love my hard working man. He's a simple man who loves his family. I don't have to work hard to keep him nor him working to keep me. We flow together and we have peace and comfort. To each their own. To me, mine is high value. To our family he is high value. I'm blessed ❤

  • @aishanusoul
    @aishanusoul Рік тому +24

    A truly high value man can provide but doesn't have the entirety of his identity wrapped up in performance & material. A high value man values character & has a good heart.

    • @RealRockdidit
      @RealRockdidit 10 місяців тому +5

      How about God loving. God fearing

    • @aishanusoul
      @aishanusoul 10 місяців тому

      @@RealRockdidit amen agreed !

  • @teresacherin6624
    @teresacherin6624 6 місяців тому +6

    Met my husband at Bible study. Married for 38 years now. 2 wonderful and successful children. My husband was never well-off but we had a decent life. God provides.

  • @catzeegr8885
    @catzeegr8885 Рік тому +407

    A mom of 5, married for 11 years. I love that my husband and i have climbed these ladders together!!! I’m a coach, a chauffeur, a cleaner, a cook, an artist (not great but still doing it all), herbalist, a carpenters (my husband) helping hand, and a child of the almighty God. If one chooses to live a life he does not bless, then good luck!!!

    • @nuanceatnoon
      @nuanceatnoon Рік тому +12

      W wife, W mom!

    • @yourlogicalnightmare1014
      @yourlogicalnightmare1014 Рік тому +9

      A high value man is a man that can afford many divorces and still not be broke

    • @ahanachauhan1210
      @ahanachauhan1210 Рік тому +5

      W wife w mom , RESPECT

    • @bitrudder3792
      @bitrudder3792 Рік тому +13

      @@yourlogicalnightmare1014 - That sounds like a man who has valuable in his own mind, but not good marriage material.

    • @fireeye33
      @fireeye33 Рік тому +9

      @@yourlogicalnightmare1014 that's high quality man NOT high value. High value man is quality+compassion+integrity, it's not just about the money

  • @zerotomillions1016
    @zerotomillions1016 Рік тому +33

    At 12:30, there's an old wives saying: "If you marry a fisherman, don't be surprised when he goes fishing." Always remember the story about the woman who nursed a dying rattle snake back to health but he bit her. When she asked him why he said: because I'm a snake; we bite. You knew that I was a snake so why are you surprised that I bit you?

  • @faithhope4703
    @faithhope4703 Рік тому +39

    1)He has many options
    2)Not desperate
    3)increase worth
    4) Attract not chase
    5) He has life goal
    6) He knows the game

  • @seekingfinding6204
    @seekingfinding6204 Рік тому +23

    I met my high-value man while we were both working security. Now I have a high-value job and he's still in security, but he cooks and cleans and gets my gear ready in the morning and treats me like a queen. I had to go through two previous long-term relationships before I met the perfect guy, because I had a lot of issues that needed to be taken care of before I could really know myself and know what I needed and wanted. Heal your issues and know yourself first, and you'll find the right man with the right level of value who suits you and your preferred lifestyle as well as you suit his.

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon Рік тому +223

    Pat is the father and even mother that many women didn’t have. Imagine a fully grown female needing to be told take care of your body. That’s the current state of society

    • @CMA418
      @CMA418 Рік тому +11

      A tree is known by its fruit…

    • @malibudolphin3109
      @malibudolphin3109 Рік тому +12

      Fathers are fathers.
      Mothers are mothers.

    • @alasdairhicks6731
      @alasdairhicks6731 Рік тому

      Girls think taking care of their body is make up and expensive fads. No. Nope. Nothing bad with makeup. But the real care is taken through healthy habits, like eating healthy and exercise. Same for dudes.

    • @CMA418
      @CMA418 Рік тому +4

      @@alasdairhicks6731 I agree wholeheartedly. Dudes do not need make up to be hot.

    • @CanisoGaming
      @CanisoGaming Рік тому +4

      Bro u say that to modern women & they'll hit you with a "body positivity" & "fatphobia" cards so fast u never seen them react that fast to anything else 😂😂

  • @thraasherhell
    @thraasherhell Рік тому +281

    PBD and Valuetainment keeps delivering value. You guys never cease to amaze me.

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    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 Рік тому +5

      Pat just gave guys _”20 women to avoid”_ but made it look like _Self help for ladies_ clever 🧐😂

    • @SoulEternalPeaceWarrior77
      @SoulEternalPeaceWarrior77 Рік тому +1

      100% SEND this video to every coworker, cousin, daughter, sister you have so they can have the knowledge to better thelmselves.

    • @mrzekhnini160
      @mrzekhnini160 Рік тому +1

      @@miamitten1123 hahahaha

  • @ehitkassa8512
    @ehitkassa8512 Рік тому +91

    I'm striving to be a high value woman and very glad I watched this video. Your ideas resonate with me. Thank you Pat.

    • @MrFuchew
      @MrFuchew 11 місяців тому +2

      A high value woman isn't something you to strive to become it's something you are either born with or you aren't and you either preserve it or ruin it.

    • @ehitkassa8512
      @ehitkassa8512 11 місяців тому +7

      @@MrFuchew that's a good point. While some qualities of a high value woman may be innate, many can also be developed through personal growth and self-improvement, such as being well-rounded, a good communicator, and having strong religious values and so on.

    • @chadcadsonvii5258
      @chadcadsonvii5258 9 місяців тому +3

      @@ehitkassa8512 agreed, you are both correct imo.

    • @rhondaharris398
      @rhondaharris398 6 місяців тому +1

      Women were created by Almighty God to be high value. Use it or loose it.

    • @ItsKenyangirlAbby
      @ItsKenyangirlAbby 6 місяців тому +1

      @@MrFuchew false you’re not born immediately high value. The man I. The video literally said he changed and became a high value man later on in his life. Nobody’s born “high value” maybe in the eyes of your mother yes

  • @BestVersionofMe1
    @BestVersionofMe1 Рік тому +19

    The issue with labelling people as "high value" is how value is perceived. Not everyone perceives value the same way

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby Рік тому +8

      Not true at all. “High value man” is clearly connotated to mean a man with money, power, and influence. But a lot of women don’t like the idea of a group of men who know their worth, so they’ll try to move the goalpost of “high value” to avoid having to acknowledge any particular man as high value that they themselves don’t like. Vladimir Putin is objectively a high value man, but there are plenty of people who would sooner die than admit it.

    • @utamu777
      @utamu777 Рік тому +4

      @@AJweathersby but being married to Putin probably sucks, that's the part you're not acknowledging. Personality and character actually matter on a daily basis living with someone… More than money does

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby Рік тому +4

      @@utamu777 Being married to Putin if you’re a native born Russian woman, especially if you were raised in the Russian aristocracy, is probably amazing.
      You’re projecting your American, modern sensibilities across billions of women and cultures. We don’t even have to go outside of America. Donald Trump is liked by half the country, and there are probably millions of women in that half of the country willing to take Melania’s place if the chance arose. Just because you don’t like someone that doesn’t mean the rest of the female population shares your feelings. That’s what being high value means: Not being valuable to everyone, but being valuable to so many people that you don’t have to care who or how many people don’t like you.

    • @melamusicworld
      @melamusicworld Рік тому +1

      Right, I agree with you. A valuable man to me is someone who is capable of being loyal, has a good sense of humor, respectful and kind to all living things. But the video was good for most women.

    • @connieb.6061
      @connieb.6061 Рік тому

      @@AJweathersby Eww, not spiritually enlightening nor Godly.

  • @imeqsmd
    @imeqsmd Рік тому +164

    That’s what I call High Value information delivered succinctly, and leaving nothing to chance.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 Рік тому +3

      I have 3 precious little girls - I worry about the future, how men will treat them, that there will be men of integrity when they are in their twenties & picking husbands.

    • @imeqsmd
      @imeqsmd Рік тому

      @@davisholman8149 yes brother, I have 2 (not so little anymore) girls and my blood pressure goes up every tine I start thinking about it

  • @highvalue1195
    @highvalue1195 Рік тому +146

    Patrick, I’m a 26-year-old female and this is sad to say but I believe you are the father I never had. Thank you for all you do and this video.

    • @richardmyers7847
      @richardmyers7847 Рік тому +17

      Lmao sure you are

    • @jeremyboivin2720
      @jeremyboivin2720 Рік тому +7

      @@richardmyers7847 😂😂😂😂

    • @breakfree1949
      @breakfree1949 Рік тому +3

      How to say you’ve got daddy issues without saying it

    • @highvalue1195
      @highvalue1195 Рік тому +15

      @@breakfree1949 Well some of us didn’t grow up w a Dad and weren’t taught things Patrick talks about. Some of us do have daddy issues and want to better ourselves. Have a great day 👍🏼 😎

    • @breakfree1949
      @breakfree1949 Рік тому

      @@highvalue1195 you wrote on a previous thread how you sneak out then say your coerced to have sex with someone twice your age? Then all these other shocking behaviors.
      Don’t blame this on not having a father, take ownership and blame it on you.
      Your behavior is not your parents fault, it’s yours. While you and many other billions of people had it rough, using that as an excuse means you’re the problem. The fact you’re 26 and just starting to do something about it, probably won’t help because you left it too late.
      Your profile pic and title is also really odd.
      But k I’m salute you because I better late than never, read extreme ownership by Jocko Willink
      Then I’d say you have at least 10 years of therapy. I dated a girl with similar upbringing than you, she didn’t do anything about it except blame her parents .
      A psychopath would be an understatement.
      As a last resort I said I will attend therapy with you, but it’s not for me.
      First day of therapy she lost it because she wanted to control what I said to therapist.
      It was over right there and then. She can’t be helped.

  • @xpindy
    @xpindy Рік тому +47

    Good to hear this advice from someone who is in a successful loving marriage. I consider myself blessed to be in the same position and I've always said, "Going on 2,000 dates doesn't make you a dating "expert" any more than having 2,000 at bats with no home runs makes you an "expert" on power hitting."

  • @paceflchick
    @paceflchick 6 місяців тому +3

    " A harmless man. Is not a good man, A good man is a very , very, dangerous man, but he has it under control."
    I have my Clint Eastwood, Kurt Russell all in one. ❤

    • @paceflchick
      @paceflchick 6 місяців тому +1

      I wake before him daily, 3: 30 am, send him off to build bridges,, breakfast, lunch. Yes..

  • @darbyohara
    @darbyohara Рік тому +94

    “Not a marriage counselor, not a psychologist, not a therapist”
    oh so someone who knows what he’s talking about then!

    • @cl5193
      @cl5193 Рік тому +13

      Just a happily married man. They are a lot more credible.

    • @elliesquires2753
      @elliesquires2753 Рік тому +1

      Great! My laugh for the day🤣

    • @riverthelibra607
      @riverthelibra607 Рік тому +1

      Exactly like everyone feels they’re experts and can just provide commentary on topics like it’s no big deal.
      Pat should just stick to investing /economics commentary and spare us.😂

  • @langstonrichardson3828
    @langstonrichardson3828 Рік тому +66

    Very accurate on a lot of things. Personality, image, and personal growth matters more for high value men.

  • @LanceNRusso
    @LanceNRusso Рік тому +211

    Everything reminds me of my ex wife, i love her so much, i wish there was a way i can bring her back.

    • @wonhur885
      @wonhur885 Рік тому +2

      i felt the same way a year ago, my wife left me two years ago and i was so down because she was and is the love of my life, and i couldn't just let her go, so i did all i could to bring her back.

    • @LanceNRusso
      @LanceNRusso Рік тому

      @@wonhur885 i wont say i'm glad that you understand how i feel, it is really sad, how did you get her back?

    • @wonhur885
      @wonhur885 Рік тому

      @@LanceNRusso i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me get her back, her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, you can look her up you will find all you need to know about her online.

    • @LanceNRusso
      @LanceNRusso Рік тому

      thank you so much, this is really helpful.

    • @SarahR2D2
      @SarahR2D2 Рік тому +3

      Pray tp Jesus for her and do the self work.

  • @eliteluxurymeditations950
    @eliteluxurymeditations950 Рік тому +7

    Interesting part on the virgin experiences. I noticed men like knowing you are impressed with something and just seeing you enjoy yourself. Even if you've been there, maintain your curiosity about the experience and be thankful. He's going out of his way to please you then let him see you pleased and delighted

  • @andreahannah574
    @andreahannah574 Рік тому +15

    Thank you, Pat!! That was great and everyone needs these reminders.

  • @paintingvalues
    @paintingvalues Рік тому +9

    If he has a side chick, by default he isn’t a high value man. Promiscuity is not a respectable trait on either gender.

    • @meds888ful
      @meds888ful Рік тому

      Speak for yourself. Life is different for a desirable man. Most men will never get to the point where beautiful women make the advances.

    • @paintingvalues
      @paintingvalues Рік тому

      @@meds888ful I do speak for myself. What you described never seemed rare to me, maybe my facial feature or that I kept myself in shape. And I maintain that if a man does not have the self-control to deny the advances of a thirsty woman is by default, not a high-value man.
      Not being able to hold yourself back from an attractive woman hitting on you just tells me that guy hasn't always been desirable to women and now doesn't know how to act. It just makes you look weak, Stoicism is attractive to women and self-control is part of that.

    • @braveimposter
      @braveimposter Рік тому

      ​@@paintingvalues exactly, if a girl has side guy she's a whore, and when a guy has side chick he's a high value man? Double standards. If you have a side girl/guy you're low level that doesn't matter what your gender is.

  • @AnikeEsq.
    @AnikeEsq. Рік тому +7

    For the most part I watch your podcast, you speak intellectually and reasonably even while co-presenting on topical contemporary issues. Kudos

  • @toplobster1040
    @toplobster1040 Рік тому +14

    12:06 "Work on having real CLASS, real VALUES, real PRINCIPLES-- because there's no need to act. It's real." This!!! Training your character is so important. I just don't know where to start. How do I become that if I didn't grow up like that? Won't it always be fake?

  • @vickilau716
    @vickilau716 Рік тому +9

    Super excited to see such a video! Thank you for this!!

  • @celeste4lyfe560
    @celeste4lyfe560 Рік тому +3

    Please more content like this! This was amazing! Thank you!

  • @sahbaamini3936
    @sahbaamini3936 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for very brief and powerful lesson 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Absolutely make sense

  • @JulzMuya
    @JulzMuya 6 місяців тому +4

    Maintaining an on this level is a lot harder than I thought. It really takes a special woman to keep him for the long haul. It takes an extremely strong, loyal, persistent, whole, healed, woman who has a strong support system.

  • @AlfeCorona
    @AlfeCorona Рік тому +4

    I am sharing this video. Excellent message Patrick

  • @WorldEye88
    @WorldEye88 Рік тому +5

    Right on the target Pat. Thank you.

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
    @SowingSeedsWithChristy Рік тому

    Appreciated this video. Thank you so much!

  • @dalibofurnell
    @dalibofurnell Рік тому

    This video was excellent. I wish it was longer. Thank you

  • @inkagold547
    @inkagold547 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this video!😊

  • @shubhangishukla6112
    @shubhangishukla6112 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this video. Gives me a lot of perspective on what went wrong in my early relationships.

  • @gualbertogarcia305
    @gualbertogarcia305 Рік тому

    Patrick, Thank You for this Video. Keep on Teaching Your Wisdom.

  • @andreawindrim8235
    @andreawindrim8235 Рік тому

    Excellent video and advice. I love your approach. Blessings.

  • @JenniferAngeles
    @JenniferAngeles Рік тому +3

    I loved the video, thank you! ☺️

  • @DennyIlisevich
    @DennyIlisevich Рік тому +5

    Great advice Pat. Spot on.

  • @fitbodyworksonlinepro
    @fitbodyworksonlinepro Рік тому

    Very helpful. Thanks for sharing❤

  • @michaelparker3188
    @michaelparker3188 Рік тому +2

    I love this exchange. Thank you. 😎

  • @lavisionhomme9809
    @lavisionhomme9809 Рік тому +5

    Pat, I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I told my friends, online dating relationship last: 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and if they are lucky 2 years. Period !!!! Online dating is all about physical attraction not personality and moral attraction. Kings work on yourself and the right woman will definitely come along, she will feel your energy.

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 Рік тому +7

    I never wanted what is labeled a “high value man”…I much rather prefer an average man who treats me like a high value woman!!!….there is nothing wrong with a average looking man, making a honest living at a normal job…AS LONG as he treats you well

    • @tonyebiere551
      @tonyebiere551 Рік тому +1

      thats most people in the world, nothing wrong with it

  • @pearlgirl5643
    @pearlgirl5643 Рік тому +2

    Good stuff! I like your nonjudgmental vibe and honest advice

  • @apollo1707
    @apollo1707 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing high value information david !!

  • @fareeshahasmatally2169
    @fareeshahasmatally2169 Рік тому +3

    Felt like a Chat with a dad, caring uncle, cousin or big brother . heart felt facts.

  • @heyitsme881
    @heyitsme881 Рік тому +3

    Much needed insight in today’s society!

  • @anagonzalez8300
    @anagonzalez8300 Рік тому

    Great video, Absolutely on point.

  • @andreamarshall3883
    @andreamarshall3883 Рік тому +2

    Awesome share here & I am aligned with 95% of this wisdom!!!

  • @ageefashioninstitute6217
    @ageefashioninstitute6217 Рік тому +12

    Absolutely outstanding presentation of facts from a mans point of view. The examples brought it home. There is a clear and OBVIOUS difference from how a younger man vs a mature man online delivers this type of message to women.
    Strong but not harsh is very effective! A mans tone will help any woman receive a message and leave her “thinking”.

  • @cjsport1254
    @cjsport1254 Рік тому +3

    Really down to earth advice

  • @rickym1301
    @rickym1301 Рік тому +1

    What a great video! So much truth! Thank you pat!!

  • @magickcat7983
    @magickcat7983 Рік тому

    Excellent advice. Thank you

  • @gergana.a
    @gergana.a Рік тому +22

    Great pieces of relationship advice, I strongly agree with almost all.

  • @NicoleCarlsonARTS
    @NicoleCarlsonARTS 6 місяців тому +4

    High value = 1. honest and TRUTHFUL to one's self and to others. 2. Have a spiritual relationship with the Creator, respecting and obeying His Laws above selfish goals and desires. 3. Thirst for learning and adventure. 4. Appreciation of beauty and nature. 5. Able to balance life between the financial world and the practical world of living. 6. Value and respect family and those around him/her. 7. Balance giving to others and providing for one's self and family. 😊❤ And may I add, able to relax and enjoy life and know how to interweave romantic moments and intimacy as continuous thread of joy in daily life! 😄🥰

    • @BelieveNUToo
      @BelieveNUToo 6 місяців тому

      Wow, now that’s a wonderful man! And he didn’t say one of those things on his little podcast. Oh that’s right I hope you’re in great shape and work out because it sounds like we can’t get a man unless we work out and we’re in shape. Sounded like a bunch of superficial garbage thank you for saying your opinion on what a valuable man is

  • @unapologeticallyCece
    @unapologeticallyCece Рік тому

    Excellent advice, you hit it perfectly.

  • @qicai3682
    @qicai3682 7 місяців тому

    Love this video so much! Thank you. Bookmarked.

  • @Lepri11
    @Lepri11 Рік тому +4

    Great content Pat 🔥🔥

  • @mr.anonymous520
    @mr.anonymous520 Рік тому +5

    Patrick is real one ... Speak on uncomfortable topic most avoid ❤️

  • @theauraclesalon
    @theauraclesalon Рік тому +1

    Great timing Valuetainment. Relevant topic.

  • @oussamasaci
    @oussamasaci Рік тому

    Great video. Nothing radical or said in a provoking manner. I toke some notes as well. Thanks PBD and Valuetainment for tje work.

  • @GarretsonIndustries
    @GarretsonIndustries Рік тому +3

    Every point was spot on

  • @DerDudelino
    @DerDudelino Рік тому +15

    Lots of really good points. Men are strategic thinkers, we think about what we do. Most women just do,
    especially just talk. It's the reason why men talk less than women, because our status is very important to us
    and we tend to not let things slip - I totally agree with Patrick here, that the biggest mistake I've seen women making
    is that I take them with me to a red carpet event or a fancy business affair but they treat those business relationships
    like a private party and tell people things about me, that are strictly private. That's a big red flag, especially early on in a
    relationship. I understand it's sometimes a tough balance when you want to befriend people, but it takes ages to build a
    reputation and only one party to ruin it.

    • @thriveteam2688
      @thriveteam2688 6 місяців тому

      Yes you need to be able to trust someone...I would never trust a man who breaks a confidence...You should not trust a lady who does either...

  • @ginalouise1985
    @ginalouise1985 Рік тому +2

    I get so much from your vids. You are definitely one of my fave channels. Keep up the Awesome work!!!

  • @eunesianhassuguela3934
    @eunesianhassuguela3934 Рік тому

    I really love it, thank you so much.

  • @osnappoetwoods
    @osnappoetwoods Рік тому +37

    These are the exact same things I taught my daughters!!! 💪🏾💯🔥👑 The proof is in the pudding time will tell how well they've learned. 💯 Thx PBD

  • @drsashina
    @drsashina 6 місяців тому +8

    Nailed it! There was nothing offensive in this video at all. And if anyone took anything as a personal hit, that's a good sign that that area of your life or thinking needs some work. Thank you Patrick. As always - great video and insight!

  • @ytelevy
    @ytelevy Рік тому

    An absolutely amazing video for women...Thank You so much Mr. BD

  • @jadegreen714
    @jadegreen714 Рік тому +2

    Thank you! This was just what I needed to hear

  • @DIRTYWORKER1000
    @DIRTYWORKER1000 Рік тому +8

    Dads with daughters, appreciate this 👍
    Pat the Goat 🐐

  • @TonyMoze
    @TonyMoze Рік тому +3

    PBD just keeps on delivering.
    He’s the UA-cam United Parcel Service 🚚📦 🔥

  • @carmenfreeman693
    @carmenfreeman693 Рік тому

    Excellent post. Thank you. 🙏

  • @keepyoungtoday
    @keepyoungtoday 8 місяців тому

    Great video . Thank you so much

  • @janhavishirke4616
    @janhavishirke4616 Рік тому +22

    I've been waiting for this video for so long. I've watched the 20 rules for men video and was waiting for 20 rules for women one. I'm 18 and I guess this is the best time for me to watch this video.

    • @spenser6353
      @spenser6353 Рік тому +1

      Are you a woman?

    • @CONEHEADDK
      @CONEHEADDK Рік тому +2

      Always better to learn the easy way, than the hard ones.. Now "just" implement your knowledge..! Good "luck".

    • @mcuembedded
      @mcuembedded Рік тому +1

      These are all accurate, I think most well put together men want all of this. And if they don't care about many of these points, you probably need to avoid them because they will mistreat you in some way down the line.

  • @kbenz5849
    @kbenz5849 Рік тому +7

    This video is gold it needs to be shared everywhere

  • @shalomemejulu3500
    @shalomemejulu3500 Рік тому

    I loved it. Thank you!

  • @KalvinSmithWarriorsPathSystema

    Correct and on point 👍🏾
    Ladies take note!

  • @baggladyjayy
    @baggladyjayy Рік тому +14

    Love the honesty & bluntness I’m definitely the independent female compared to other FEMALES but when I’m business meetings with very successful man it’s a whole different ball game and I admire and want to learn from and them it’s definitely a different type of energy ‼️💯

  • @annemarie9980
    @annemarie9980 Рік тому +23

    Love this no nonsense approach Pat thank you !

  • @denilsonmoreira8667
    @denilsonmoreira8667 Рік тому +1

    Great value! I'm showing this to my girl ASAP!

  • @jlaw2288
    @jlaw2288 Рік тому +1

    We need more videos like this

  • @jesuslayalar
    @jesuslayalar Рік тому +9

    This video is on point. Gentleman pay attention and ladies take notes!

  • @remyjenney7103
    @remyjenney7103 Рік тому +13

    As a woman, I 💯 agree with you. Be wise as serpents, but innocent as doves.👍🏼

  • @elainescott6791
    @elainescott6791 Рік тому +1

    I think you absolutely on point with all 20 rules!!’
    Thank you !

  • @MMC-jp1gl
    @MMC-jp1gl 11 місяців тому +5

    I don't want a "high value man" if it means he is MIA from the family and mostly focused on worldly success. I don't marry a man for that...I marry b/c he will lead, protect and provide for the family...I marry b/c I want to love, nurture, support, console and respect him. This whole "have fun" thing is really "I'm just using her as my own personal crack pipe" which means he is an immature, destructive, selfish, moron. Give me a Godly, virtuous, strong, responsible and loving man any over a selfish money grabber. God bless~