Best advice to stay with a man who brings us those three kinds of safety: physically, emotionally and financially. Very important also, to know, those different types of attachments. Thank you Lisa 🥰
@@Isabelle.B tbh it feels like you are a selfish shallow being who just wants everything and not know how to give this is not love or maybe it is but if it is then i never want a woman like you who only comes in relationship with man because of his money and status i don't understand women yet but your answer gives me that kind of feeling
Bad boys overrated. Glad I don’t go for bad boys. Only go for good men. No time for bad boys. Love men who value and put me first and loves and honors me. Definitely manifesting this. I am beautiful and deserve men who values and honor me. ❤
I loved your video! Excellent! I liked the part where you said, "I'm not attracted to men who want 50/50 or aren't even able to respond to a text message" I can relate a lot! that's the mentality I need!
I’m 31 and I’ve never been in a relationship. What I look for in a man is that he’s kind, empathetic, loyal, helpful and funny (I like a man who can make me laugh). I love The Swan Princess and my favorite animated men are Beast (in the second half of the movie after he saves Belle from getting eaten by a pack of wolves), Dimitri (He treats Anya/Anastasia as his equal), Aladdin, and Flynn Rider.
You’re so beautiful and talanted woman (watched you music videos). And you definitely have this feminine energy Lisa talks about. I was single for a very long time too. And I was blessed to meet a man with whom I’m happily married for 11 years. And it is the only relationship in my entire life. So, I believe you will meet the man of your dreams. 🙏🌹
YES. I needed this. I always get approached by losers that nobody wants and idk why, but good guys doesn't approach. I keep wandering why. I get so irritated and frustrated that I even googled about this but got no reasonable answer or solution. Thanks to you for the video.
Lisa you just described the way I’m approaching relationships and men from now on. The importance of standards can not be stressed enough and us ladies also want a man that sets standards and has a desire for structure in life.
I love this video. And it warmed my heart hearing how that man spoke about his beautiful wife. Seen this interviewer on my feet a few times now and he always targets women who are confident and beautiful. He once told this gorgeous girl (who was a lot taller than him) that ger life must be "Lonely" because dating is hard for her. He assumed she was single which she wasn't. He is SO insecure and tries to put down other people, it's disgusting.
I've done a lot of shadow work on the issue at hand. I attract people with narcissistic tendencies who are downright toxic as I'm an undiagnosed autistic female with a mother who has narcissistic traits and treated me like I'm not good enough in my formative years she was controlling and I realise now it's because she was insecure in herself and felt like I was an easy target. I've realised I have an insecure attachment style and a mother wound as a result. After being abused in two relationships one after the other I'm done. I'm drawing a line in the sand and entering my queen era. If I guy wants me he's going to have to roll his socks up and make a damn effort and no I will not settle for less than I'm worth. I will not settle for inauthentic people who aren't able to hold themselves personally accountable for shit
If the mother is narcissistic, then the child will display the behaviors and may not know it. There is a lot of talk recently about attachment theory, but it’s worth it to go past the surface level where they categorizes these things. The categorization makes it easier for therapists to follow a script, which barely solves the root of the problem anyways. John Bowlby is the guy you’re looking for. I decided to look up what advice women are giving to other women on attracting high quality men and it seems most are clueless. Go ask the real men. What most of the women are teaching you will get you in trouble and if men listen, they will also get themselves in trouble. It’s what some guys call simps. And when the guys listen to what influencer men tell them, they become assholes. So it seems none of these influencers know what they’re talking about. Pay attention to the comments and what the influencers are saying, me me me me me, what you must give to me for me to accept you. They are teaching you to be selfish energy vampires, the same narcissism you fear. Personality disorders are learnt and normalized by the environment. Do what you love, love yourself, go to places you enjoy for yourself and you will find people like you doing the same. If you for once start thinking in the direction of what can you gain from the relationship or a man, that relationship is already dead. Good luck.
@shawnmclean7707 I get what you are saying. It's one of those things in my healing journey where I can realise the negative traits I learned from my mother and I'm unlearning and re-parenting myself. One thing I noticed as it was normalised in our household. My mother would bond with people over gossiping about people she worked with.. Probably because she had nothing else going for her so her work was everything to her. I'm so focused on my spiritual journey I can now see it's a low vibrational behaviour and I don't want that for myself. My problems with emotional dysregulation go back to both parents and I'm learning to do better and be better. Influencers are just one side of the coin and is not the be all and end all of what I'm doing. I've also managed to get myself into some EMDR to help me with emotional flashbacks and panic response I get when I feel threatened by every day things. I have a tendency to make a mountain out of a molehill and get pretty hypervigalent to the point I can stress myself out so much unnecessarily. I don't agree that these teachings don't have some value as a people pleaser I was settling for less and I can see now that I'm better than the losers I was settling for who all ended up hurting me in the end. I was throwing myself under the bus for others. I'm not doing that any more. I think it's okay to be a little selfish as opposed to being completely selfless to my own detriment. Like I was putting myself in harms way as I wasn't looking after my own needs. I'm learning to be happy by myself and if a guy is able to bring to the table value to my life then brilliant but if not I'm happier without them as I have enough going for me outside of that connection. I'm realising in the past I was going for men with similar behaviour traits to my mother to get the approval from them I couldn't get from her as closure and that will never happen. I got myself stuck in a vicious cycle and couldn't fathom why I was being hurt all the time. I now realise it's self sabotage. I don't need my mother's approval or some random guys to just exist and take up space. I'm now realising I am enough and don't have to jump through hoops to prove myself to people which is what I was doing before. So I'm going about doing me and the things that I enjoy. If a dude is interested then brill but I'm done chasing after people and begging people for basic respect. I'm not teaching a guy emotional intelligence. They either have it or they don't. Same with my parents. I'm now holding them at arms length because they won't ever hold themselves accountable. I'm working on myself constantly to be better but they're unable to practice self reflection. I don't care about the money or princess treatment. I'm disregarding that and I'm de-centering men. So this is just one facet of my journey. I have come so far in the 9 months since I left the comment you responded to and in the next year or so I plan to have turned my life around completely. I have a strong network of friends to which end I no longer feel the need for male validation. I know plenty of men that want to bone me but it's not enough. I want to see dudes with emotional intelligence and I view people with no emotional intelligence (essentially people on the narcissism scale) as low value. I plan on turning my life around as I'm tired of being stuck with complex trauma. I'd like to enjoy life
@@FrankenFunder If you can get the book "Power of Now" by Eckart Tolle, that one can also help. Psychoanalysis methods, such as therapy, reparenting, journaling, emdr, brainspotting, hyponosis, nlp, cbt, etc, can hit limits. Do them yes, know when they work and when they don't work and timebox it so you don't spend too much time on a single method, and waste money too as remember, psychology and mental health is an industry. Ensure you're eating good clean whole in season foods and getting your sunlight, spend time in nature. The environment, people included, have massive impact, so optimize on outside and inside environments. Good luck!
Listen to her young ladies. She knows what she is talking about. Long story short. Believed that I could change the BAD BOY. Gave him the prize. He dumped me for another girl. I then found another guy, he was a good guy, but because of the fear of being dumped, I sabotaged the relationship. One after another after another. People started asking why I was still single. I had no CLUE what I was doing wrong. I mean, I made it EASY for guys, Why were they not falling all over themselves for me? I met and married a bad boy. Guess what happened. Cheated on me. I then went through the gambit of emotions, leaving a trail of lost relationships with below bear-minimum men. FINALLY, I had enough, I decided that I would at least ACT like the prize. 3 loser men TRIED to get through, But NOPE, I spotted them right off the bat. FINALLY, I have my Mr. Man. He is AWESOME! Treats me like a princess. DON'T settle ladies, you ARE the PRIZE! and if we all start acting like it? then the men will have no CHOICE but to STEP UP!
Thank you Lisa, for sharing this. Am currently separated from my husband, and I see your point. He started not treating me right, gaslight me, and prefered ny former friend then me. I left him.
also, I’m so sorry to hear that… If you have a friend that will sleep with your significant other … That’s a red flag 🚨 for both genders… Cause it tells me who you surround yourself around
@@maryamadedeji24 he was a gentleman to me. We talked every night, see each on the weekends, we were affectionate, had fun, were building the fundamental building blocks . He was a god send.
Thank you so so much Lisa for sharing this video and this was so so helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you have a wonderful week ahead💗🥺🥺✨
8:05 ngl I am in healthcare with never ending training so I won't have much $ for an engagement ring, but when the time comes I hope she recognize that my stability, social safety provided by the power of healthcare will outweigh just the financial quantity. I have access to elite social clubs around NYC as a provision. Money doesnt necessarily buy that. Summary there is more to value that just a number of dollars. Connections etc.
Thanks for this Pearl of truth, darling. I'm like you: I perfectly know how I want to be treated and what do I find acceptable and what not, thus I don't even see the guys that are low value, and so insecure to play tricks on women; I notice them almost immediately and it ends there, very uninterested. I'm lucky enough that my very loyal, very committed and very admirable man is also blue eyed and such a good seducer! Simply everything I've ever wanted 😍 But you need to focus on it a lot if you really want it. Just saying: I've been single for longer than most of my peers as a teenager, because there was just this culture of I use you and I go to the next one, and for me it was a nope. Then when I found love I've only had very long relationships with guys who wanted to marry me. I guess one of my deal-breakers is that he has to be truly committed and serious about us and our relationship.
I was used to chaos and then after I was cheated on I went with the opposite, at first I felt “bored” bc he was all in from the get go. I was the issue so I changed my ways and been with him 9 years married 6.
I would ebjoy a video in which you go in depth on the different types of attachment styles. This was already quite informativ but there is so much more to understand about these different styles.. Thank you for your beautiful content!!!
Now that I'm listening to you, I've realized I thought I was dating a high value man but he totally wasn't, he was totally a narcissist 😮 I love your videos! ❤
I have a video request I’m planning on starting up online dating again in the new year but want to create a great profile, could you please devote a video to setting a high value profile to attract better men? Like an advise video on this subject.
The only thing is that the wife in the example has a very conventional (media accepted, eg kardasian) beauty and he still mentioned her beauty « he’s never been around such a beautiful women ». Her beauty had a lot to do with it. Will a guy say that about beauty they’re not socially conditioned to pay attention to?
Hello, beautiful Lisa for sharing this information, im a young woman (23) and im learning a lot from you! I've been applying your advices and actually worked!❤❤ It would be possible that you make a video for winter outfits? I live in Vincent and im not get used to this weather (im from México) so, here its super rainy and cold but i want to dress féminine, please and thank you🎉❤ i love your videos
Hi Lisa! I saw other videos about not dating a feminine man, ect. But, here is my question for you, what to do if there is a man approaching you through for example, in my case LinkedIn he found me I think after a group interview for a job a few months ago, and doesn't stop talking to me with a lot of confidence as if he was my boyfriend though IG? What to do in this situations? I tried to blocked him but he appears back on other social media...After seen your videos, and having other bad experiences with other men, I know like you said I'd like a real partner with me! But like, I think he's in Dubai and I'm in Argentina! He might be a sweet guy, with good intentions but, he doesn't know me enough en he is not with me really..He took the 'pen pals' theme really seriously.
Society is now back to our animal instincts, polygamy. Beneficial for men and detrimental for women. We need to be exigent with our partner, but who is there left to meet our criteria?
Okay, so what if you’re already in a 6 year relationship with someone and have 4 kids under 4 with them? How do I stop being in my masculine era so that I stop feeling unsafe, and not taken care of? I have put him first for so long that I am a load of stress and shit now. How do I regain myself while also being with him so either he leaves or changes?
Some men (AND women) honestly think if they have low standards or a dreadful reputation will think superficiality is all that matters. Imagine requesting services from someone and only talking solely ABOUT THAT. Even if there's little to no attraction, disrespecting boundaries and being desperate along with needy is appalling. There's more rejection and termination of communication once the ugliness of the personality is reveal. Damon Salvatore was a ying yang as much as Stefan. The dark masculine aura but the light masculine aura. Kai Parker was just a BAD guy from beginning to end.
Thank you! We attract with our vibration, but we should not take our boyfriends to sinister places where they can be easily parasitized by lower astral entities. I try to sustain my marriage but when they become organic portals, coexistence is very painful. What I consider the most important thing is to see the Light in their eyes, they must be someone who is sensitive towards animals, other people, fellow humans and YES they treat you like the queen that you are. Your heart will guide you to make the decision to stay or run because sometimes they are true demons, psychopaths who will want to destroy you.
If you're beautiful and enchanting you attract all types of men, all men love that. the first statement in the video is correct- its who you let in and that's all based on self worth and self esteem
Bah, les filles, si vous galérez à trouver un homme bien, je conseille le livre "SÉDUIRE L'HOMME DE VOS RÊVES", de Nathan Stone. Le gars est psychologue et tout apparemment. Une copine m'a dit qu'il y a tout ce qu'il faut savoir, clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Elle dit que ça a changé sa vie et ses relations carrément !
I’m reimagining my dating life for 2024, so I needed this
Same !
Me too!
"Stop allowing those loosers to even talk to you"😅 well said. Thank you for this great video!
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden". I have studied men before.
Best advice to stay with a man who brings us those three kinds of safety: physically, emotionally and financially. Very important also, to know, those different types of attachments. Thank you Lisa 🥰
@@ashifarman4813 A loser wouldn’t understand.
@@Isabelle.B tbh it feels like you are a selfish shallow being who just wants everything
and not know how to give
this is not love or maybe it is but if it is then i never want a woman like you who only comes in relationship with man because of his money and status
i don't understand women yet but your answer gives me that kind of feeling
Bad boys overrated. Glad I don’t go for bad boys. Only go for good men. No time for bad boys. Love men who value and put me first and loves and honors me. Definitely manifesting this. I am beautiful and deserve men who values and honor me. ❤
Omg, the man in that TikTok is so sweet! Money aside, you can tell by the way he talks about his wife how much he loves and appreciates her 🥰
Omg! I love that mindset, “ My future husband would never…” Using this! Thank you Lisa!
I loved your video! Excellent! I liked the part where you said, "I'm not attracted to men who want 50/50 or aren't even able to respond to a text message" I can relate a lot! that's the mentality I need!
Treat yourself like a queen to attract the king who deserves you ✨
I’m 31 and I’ve never been in a relationship. What I look for in a man is that he’s kind, empathetic, loyal, helpful and funny (I like a man who can make me laugh). I love The Swan Princess and my favorite animated men are Beast (in the second half of the movie after he saves Belle from getting eaten by a pack of wolves), Dimitri (He treats Anya/Anastasia as his equal), Aladdin, and Flynn Rider.
You’re so beautiful and talanted woman (watched you music videos). And you definitely have this feminine energy Lisa talks about.
I was single for a very long time too. And I was blessed to meet a man with whom I’m happily married for 11 years. And it is the only relationship in my entire life.
So, I believe you will meet the man of your dreams. 🙏🌹
I loved that you said “you won’t even see them!” So true! ✨
YES. I needed this. I always get approached by losers that nobody wants and idk why, but good guys doesn't approach. I keep wandering why. I get so irritated and frustrated that I even googled about this but got no reasonable answer or solution. Thanks to you for the video.
Lisa you just described the way I’m approaching relationships and men from now on. The importance of standards can not be stressed enough and us ladies also want a man that sets standards and has a desire for structure in life.
We can attract all kinds of men. It’s who we entertain that is the issue. Don’t entertain toxic men. ❤
I love this video. And it warmed my heart hearing how that man spoke about his beautiful wife. Seen this interviewer on my feet a few times now and he always targets women who are confident and beautiful. He once told this gorgeous girl (who was a lot taller than him) that ger life must be "Lonely" because dating is hard for her. He assumed she was single which she wasn't. He is SO insecure and tries to put down other people, it's disgusting.
That interviewer was trying so hard to put the woman down and her man was not having it.
I've done a lot of shadow work on the issue at hand. I attract people with narcissistic tendencies who are downright toxic as I'm an undiagnosed autistic female with a mother who has narcissistic traits and treated me like I'm not good enough in my formative years she was controlling and I realise now it's because she was insecure in herself and felt like I was an easy target. I've realised I have an insecure attachment style and a mother wound as a result. After being abused in two relationships one after the other I'm done. I'm drawing a line in the sand and entering my queen era. If I guy wants me he's going to have to roll his socks up and make a damn effort and no I will not settle for less than I'm worth. I will not settle for inauthentic people who aren't able to hold themselves personally accountable for shit
Amen sister!! Right there with you!! 👍
So happy for you, I hope you attract everything you desire 🤍
If the mother is narcissistic, then the child will display the behaviors and may not know it.
There is a lot of talk recently about attachment theory, but it’s worth it to go past the surface level where they categorizes these things. The categorization makes it easier for therapists to follow a script, which barely solves the root of the problem anyways.
John Bowlby is the guy you’re looking for.
I decided to look up what advice women are giving to other women on attracting high quality men and it seems most are clueless.
Go ask the real men.
What most of the women are teaching you will get you in trouble and if men listen, they will also get themselves in trouble. It’s what some guys call simps.
And when the guys listen to what influencer men tell them, they become assholes.
So it seems none of these influencers know what they’re talking about.
Pay attention to the comments and what the influencers are saying, me me me me me, what you must give to me for me to accept you.
They are teaching you to be selfish energy vampires, the same narcissism you fear. Personality disorders are learnt and normalized by the environment.
Do what you love, love yourself, go to places you enjoy for yourself and you will find people like you doing the same.
If you for once start thinking in the direction of what can you gain from the relationship or a man, that relationship is already dead.
Good luck.
@shawnmclean7707 I get what you are saying. It's one of those things in my healing journey where I can realise the negative traits I learned from my mother and I'm unlearning and re-parenting myself. One thing I noticed as it was normalised in our household. My mother would bond with people over gossiping about people she worked with.. Probably because she had nothing else going for her so her work was everything to her. I'm so focused on my spiritual journey I can now see it's a low vibrational behaviour and I don't want that for myself. My problems with emotional dysregulation go back to both parents and I'm learning to do better and be better. Influencers are just one side of the coin and is not the be all and end all of what I'm doing. I've also managed to get myself into some EMDR to help me with emotional flashbacks and panic response I get when I feel threatened by every day things. I have a tendency to make a mountain out of a molehill and get pretty hypervigalent to the point I can stress myself out so much unnecessarily. I don't agree that these teachings don't have some value as a people pleaser I was settling for less and I can see now that I'm better than the losers I was settling for who all ended up hurting me in the end. I was throwing myself under the bus for others. I'm not doing that any more. I think it's okay to be a little selfish as opposed to being completely selfless to my own detriment. Like I was putting myself in harms way as I wasn't looking after my own needs. I'm learning to be happy by myself and if a guy is able to bring to the table value to my life then brilliant but if not I'm happier without them as I have enough going for me outside of that connection. I'm realising in the past I was going for men with similar behaviour traits to my mother to get the approval from them I couldn't get from her as closure and that will never happen. I got myself stuck in a vicious cycle and couldn't fathom why I was being hurt all the time. I now realise it's self sabotage. I don't need my mother's approval or some random guys to just exist and take up space. I'm now realising I am enough and don't have to jump through hoops to prove myself to people which is what I was doing before. So I'm going about doing me and the things that I enjoy. If a dude is interested then brill but I'm done chasing after people and begging people for basic respect. I'm not teaching a guy emotional intelligence. They either have it or they don't. Same with my parents. I'm now holding them at arms length because they won't ever hold themselves accountable. I'm working on myself constantly to be better but they're unable to practice self reflection. I don't care about the money or princess treatment. I'm disregarding that and I'm de-centering men. So this is just one facet of my journey. I have come so far in the 9 months since I left the comment you responded to and in the next year or so I plan to have turned my life around completely. I have a strong network of friends to which end I no longer feel the need for male validation. I know plenty of men that want to bone me but it's not enough. I want to see dudes with emotional intelligence and I view people with no emotional intelligence (essentially people on the narcissism scale) as low value. I plan on turning my life around as I'm tired of being stuck with complex trauma. I'd like to enjoy life
@@FrankenFunder If you can get the book "Power of Now" by Eckart Tolle, that one can also help.
Psychoanalysis methods, such as therapy, reparenting, journaling, emdr, brainspotting, hyponosis, nlp, cbt, etc, can hit limits.
Do them yes, know when they work and when they don't work and timebox it so you don't spend too much time on a single method, and waste money too as remember, psychology and mental health is an industry.
Ensure you're eating good clean whole in season foods and getting your sunlight, spend time in nature. The environment, people included, have massive impact, so optimize on outside and inside environments.
Good luck!
your advice is worth gold, because currently relationships between men and women are catastrophic, you will save humanity, kiss.
It's not just our beauty, brains, etc.
I am an Essence.
My essence of Lorraine is what I bring. ❤
You changed my life with your videos. You are one of the women I look up to. Thank you ❤🙏🏼
Listen to her young ladies. She knows what she is talking about. Long story short. Believed that I could change the BAD BOY. Gave him the prize. He dumped me for another girl. I then found another guy, he was a good guy, but because of the fear of being dumped, I sabotaged the relationship. One after another after another. People started asking why I was still single. I had no CLUE what I was doing wrong. I mean, I made it EASY for guys, Why were they not falling all over themselves for me? I met and married a bad boy. Guess what happened. Cheated on me. I then went through the gambit of emotions, leaving a trail of lost relationships with below bear-minimum men. FINALLY, I had enough, I decided that I would at least ACT like the prize. 3 loser men TRIED to get through, But NOPE, I spotted them right off the bat. FINALLY, I have my Mr. Man. He is AWESOME! Treats me like a princess. DON'T settle ladies, you ARE the PRIZE! and if we all start acting like it? then the men will have no CHOICE but to STEP UP!
Thank you..very inspiring!
I just absolutely love your energy! You’re so unique and make me always feel uplifted 💛🌻
Thank you Lisa, for sharing this. Am currently separated from my husband, and I see your point. He started not treating me right, gaslight me, and prefered ny former friend then me. I left him.
what you said is interesting, what attracted you to him to begin with?
also, I’m so sorry to hear that… If you have a friend that will sleep with your significant other … That’s a red flag 🚨 for both genders… Cause it tells me who you surround yourself around
@@maryamadedeji24 he was a gentleman to me. We talked every night, see each on the weekends, we were affectionate, had fun, were building the fundamental building blocks . He was a god send.
@@maryamadedeji24 got rid of the friend. Any friend that would do that,is no friend of mine.
@@jennifersinclair3421 OK that’s good, she was never your friend… Not everyone is your friend and truly has your best interest in mind
Thank you so so much Lisa for sharing this video and this was so so helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you have a wonderful week ahead💗🥺🥺✨
Thank you dear wishing you a beautiful week as well ! 😘
It'd be great to see a video on texting/calling etiquette! Love your videos, they always inspire me ❤️
You’re so necessary for me at this point of my life ❤
8:05 ngl I am in healthcare with never ending training so I won't have much $ for an engagement ring, but when the time comes I hope she recognize that my stability, social safety provided by the power of healthcare will outweigh just the financial quantity. I have access to elite social clubs around NYC as a provision. Money doesnt necessarily buy that. Summary there is more to value that just a number of dollars. Connections etc.
❤❤ i will keep clapping for others until it's my turn 🎉🎉
Thanks for this Pearl of truth, darling. I'm like you: I perfectly know how I want to be treated and what do I find acceptable and what not, thus I don't even see the guys that are low value, and so insecure to play tricks on women; I notice them almost immediately and it ends there, very uninterested. I'm lucky enough that my very loyal, very committed and very admirable man is also blue eyed and such a good seducer! Simply everything I've ever wanted 😍
But you need to focus on it a lot if you really want it.
Just saying: I've been single for longer than most of my peers as a teenager, because there was just this culture of I use you and I go to the next one, and for me it was a nope. Then when I found love I've only had very long relationships with guys who wanted to marry me. I guess one of my deal-breakers is that he has to be truly committed and serious about us and our relationship.
I am desperate to learn. I really do not want garbage.
I got rid of most of my piercings except the ones I can hide. And I’m dressing classy now and soft pretty colors. I think it’s working hehe ❤
As a man, that's a great move. Men value purity so all a girl has to so is just preserve what she was born with
I was used to chaos and then after I was cheated on I went with the opposite, at first I felt “bored” bc he was all in from the get go. I was the issue so I changed my ways and been with him 9 years married 6.
In the video clip of the question about the ring 💍 cost. THAT ❤ is a top tier high value man.
yes i saw the video of the guy defending her honor and had so much respect for him and appreciation.
This rings so true! Lots of falsehood in 27years.
Working to better myself now ❤
Thanks for your wonderful videos and great wisdom❤ ❤❤❤❤
Youre hair is gorgoeus! Have you a video on what products you put into it or how you maintain it ❤
Lisa, can we know where the dress is from? I’m obsessed it’s so classy! I loved this video as well per usual.
Yes it is from Lipsy London 😘
I love this! I feel the same as you. Thank you ❤
I have the right standards, however too much low value men these days! Be careful ladies!😘
Thank you so much ❤I really needed to hear this
Beautiful video 🌺👑thank you queen
Great job!!! Food for thought 💭 !!!!
Une vidéo qui tombe à point! Je ne l’ai pas encore visionnée mais j’y vais 😊 Merci Lisa 🥰
Thank you so much Lisa! I am always grateful to watch your videos it’s so helpful! You deserve millions of subscribers Merci et Bisous 😘 ❤
So good 💗💗💗
So fabulous Lisa ✨❤️
Your future husband would never cheat on you
How we treat the family is also depends upon how they treat us
Absolutely !
I would ebjoy a video in which you go in depth on the different types of attachment styles. This was already quite informativ but there is so much more to understand about these different styles..
Thank you for your beautiful content!!!
This reminds me to keep myself high value ❤ Do you have any videos with your husband? (I'm new to the channel)
Simple explained. Well done. ❤
Now that I'm listening to you, I've realized I thought I was dating a high value man but he totally wasn't, he was totally a narcissist 😮
I love your videos! ❤
Some of these comments are really sad. It makes me glad I'm out of the dating game. I married an angel, not a human.
Completely agree!
Thank you. This video was great
Darling Lisa! Is that an ENGAGEMENT ring on your finger? I'm so excited for you! 🥰
I don’t think so, her ring is on the middle finger ☺️
Hi Lisa can you speak more on secure attachment, so many people talk about other attachment but not much into secure attachment. Thank you ❤
Your content is so good. So grateful for this channel ❤
I love seeing you videos as soon as they post 🥰
Thank you for your content you are so so beautiful!
I have a video request I’m planning on starting up online dating again in the new year but want to create a great profile, could you please devote a video to setting a high value profile to attract better men? Like an advise video on this subject.
Yes! This is what we need!
Where is your dress from?
Yes it is so cute
Baby where did you get this outfit from? It's pretty ❤
Beautiful dress! Where did you get it from?
The only thing is that the wife in the example has a very conventional (media accepted, eg kardasian) beauty and he still mentioned her beauty « he’s never been around such a beautiful women ». Her beauty had a lot to do with it. Will a guy say that about beauty they’re not socially conditioned to pay attention to?
I really need this video.Thankyou lisa ❤
Queen, love you❤
You look so elegant in that dress
Merci Lisa ❤
I tried pretending I am engaged, in a rel, nothing ever worked.
You are very beautiful and high value women you are really inspiring, than you for your videos ❤
Hello, beautiful Lisa for sharing this information, im a young woman (23) and im learning a lot from you! I've been applying your advices and actually worked!❤❤
It would be possible that you make a video for winter outfits? I live in Vincent and im not get used to this weather (im from México) so, here its super rainy and cold but i want to dress féminine, please and thank you🎉❤ i love your videos
Hi Lisa! I saw other videos about not dating a feminine man, ect.
But, here is my question for you, what to do if there is a man approaching you through for example, in my case LinkedIn he found me I think after a group interview for a job a few months ago, and doesn't stop talking to me with a lot of confidence as if he was my boyfriend though IG? What to do in this situations?
I tried to blocked him but he appears back on other social media...After seen your videos, and having other bad experiences with other men, I know like you said I'd like a real partner with me! But like, I think he's in Dubai and I'm in Argentina! He might be a sweet guy, with good intentions but, he doesn't know me enough en he is not with me really..He took the 'pen pals' theme really seriously.
THANKS❤
You are realy wise to be so young.
Society is now back to our animal instincts, polygamy. Beneficial for men and detrimental for women. We need to be exigent with our partner, but who is there left to meet our criteria?
You look amazing, my dear Lisa ❤ beautiful dress ❤❤
Okay, so what if you’re already in a 6 year relationship with someone and have 4 kids under 4 with them? How do I stop being in my masculine era so that I stop feeling unsafe, and not taken care of? I have put him first for so long that I am a load of stress and shit now. How do I regain myself while also being with him so either he leaves or changes?
It was never my fault. :(
I love youu sm
Some men (AND women) honestly think if they have low standards or a dreadful reputation will think superficiality is all that matters. Imagine requesting services from someone and only talking solely ABOUT THAT. Even if there's little to no attraction, disrespecting boundaries and being desperate along with needy is appalling. There's more rejection and termination of communication once the ugliness of the personality is reveal.
Damon Salvatore was a ying yang as much as Stefan. The dark masculine aura but the light masculine aura. Kai Parker was just a BAD guy from beginning to end.
THAAAAANK YOU
You Look fabulouse Lisa 💌👍
What if my man was PERFECT at the beginning, there were no red flags, nothing, he genuinely was perfect. And after marriage changed completely?
A real 👸🏻😊
omg where can we get this dress?!
isn t there a love button? Lisa you are a goddess darling
Thank you! We attract with our vibration, but we should not take our boyfriends to sinister places where they can be easily parasitized by lower astral entities. I try to sustain my marriage but when they become organic portals, coexistence is very painful. What I consider the most important thing is to see the Light in their eyes, they must be someone who is sensitive towards animals, other people, fellow humans and YES they treat you like the queen that you are. Your heart will guide you to make the decision to stay or run because sometimes they are true demons, psychopaths who will want to destroy you.
Can you explain what are astral entities?
If you're beautiful and enchanting you attract all types of men, all men love that.
the first statement in the video is correct- its who you let in and that's all based on self worth and self esteem
I was acting normal, myself.
What do you mean you don’t recommend a coffee date for the first date ?
Where the heck are these high quality men?
Try church. You want a man who's values come from God himself rather than from friends or a bad father
Amen 🙏🏻
You should be a therapist you would be outstanding I could help a lot of people
Do these quality men really exist!?!?😂
Try looking in church
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Bah, les filles, si vous galérez à trouver un homme bien, je conseille le livre "SÉDUIRE L'HOMME DE VOS RÊVES", de Nathan Stone. Le gars est psychologue et tout apparemment. Une copine m'a dit qu'il y a tout ce qu'il faut savoir, clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Elle dit que ça a changé sa vie et ses relations carrément !
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