"You take a man how he is and do not shape him. He's a finished product. You're not his mother." "If his behavior doesn't suit you, you move on." Such elegant advice ♥️
@@lycan2494How is it horrible ? Oh or would you prefer keeping a man on the leash, and try to teach him something when he’s a grown adult already? Be honest.we all need a mature man.not the one who was forced to be like that, but the one who already been a mature man.
09:39 - Duality 10:53 - Mystery/Secrecy 12:05 - Don't always answer or respond right away 12:29 - The Power of Absence/Get Your Own Life 13:38 - Emotional Independence 15:10 - Observe the man's actions & words 15:50 - Not Afraid to lose someone 16:43 - Respect men's autonomy 18:07 - Actions to show love to yourself 18:19 - Detachment 20:20 - You are the "prize" 21:04 - Let him use his imagination 22:47 - Don't mother him
Indeed men might not care about your money, but if you don’t have enough to support yourself, you will end up desperately looking for someone, not able leave a bad situation just because you don’t have any other option.
I tell my little girl, “We are tough cookies. We are so kind hearted that it shines all the way to our outside, that’s why we are pretty. Our outside is hard but covered with sweet sugar. Some people will like sweet and some will like savory. To each their own.”
To help keep the mystery, NEVER let him see you or smell you using the toilet!! There are many reasons why not. First of all, men don’t need to see that. It destroys the feminine mystique. Secondly, once he sees you do that, instantly every other female becomes more feminine than you. Thirdly, there is such a thing as being “too familiar.” You can disagree if you like, but check back with me in a few years when he isn’t bringing you flowers or romancing you anymore.
In the movie Sabrina, she was the golden retriever at the beginning and finally, she entered her black cat era. Love that movie!🐈⬛ Thank you Lisa, great video !🌹
12:26 this is so true! For example, in our country we have a famous restaurant and it is only in one city! Everyone wishes to visit that city again to eat from it again. It was highly wanted! The meals in that restaurant were a beautiful dream for us most of the time. We almost envy those people who live in that city because they have more access to that restaurant! Even when we think about what food should we order, I remember that restaurant and say, “Ohhh I wish that restaurant was located in our city. I would eat from it now, everyday and forever.” It was really an obsession! When any member of any family in other cities goes to that city, that member buys amounts of the food of that restaurant for his family and returns from traveling with that food with him, and we be extremely excited about it! After years, that restaurant opened several branches in other cities, including our city. We were very happy and began to eat a lot from that restaurant all the time until we started feeling ( full and bored ), and we no longer felt longing to taste it as we always did. It became always present and not rare anymore, I got used to it to the point that it became normal and I no longer felt eager to taste it as I always did. I didn't eat it for two years after that! I don't like it anymore! It started becoming heavy on my stomach because it's oily! But I never felt that when I was eating it rarely! And this is what they call (the power of absence) 🙂↕️♥️
5:55 these are wise words right here. I used to think I needed to look a certain way to have men fall for me. Ladies, I’m here to tell you it’s not true. What Lisa is talking about here is 💯 true. It’s our energy. We are all beautiful as we are. What men really love is our energy. I have more game now at 35 than I did when I was 25. And I don’t get asked out by just random men. I get asked out and dated by high value men.
I am so grateful I stumbled across your channel! I have never felt feminine and have in fact always felt almost afraid of it and for sure awkward in it. I grew up a tomboy and had only brothers and a few rag tag (but awesome) tomboy friends. But now I'm an adult, married, and trying to navigate (and badly, I'll admit) the male/female relationship. But your videos are really helping me to feel like I actually could be feminine and enjoy it and not be awkward... and that it will help my husband, too. Thank you!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH LOVELY!!! I’m FINALLY out of my delusional era!! Your videos were on my recommended before but I wasn’t in the mental state to be truly interested!! NOW!!, I AM SNAPPING IN AGREEMENT💞💞🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾 Everyone who’s reads this comment I send you blessings & abundance in feminine divine grace💋💋🦋✨🌈🩷
I used to chase but not anymore because is not worth chasing if he isn’t chasing I have a wonderful personality but I get attached to soon and I’m trying to change this slowly that comes with fear of rejection yes. But is worth switching your mind set. Other then Lisa being beautiful she has a reaching out energy all of her words and teaching stuck with me. I haven’t paid attention to learn something new like this in a long time.
Hey Lisa, I really appreciate your videos ❤ Can you teach us how you can stimulate more masculine behaviour in a man that has learned to be more in his feminine? I feel that a lot of man just need the all clear to pursue a woman in a more masculine way. Because they also got confused by the feminist movement that pushes women to be more in their masculinity. I think we all got confused at one point 😅 And that's the reason we see this big display of femininity and masculinity in their negative aspects.
@ 8:09 Why do I have to dim my light so he feels "masculine"? Why does his masculinity depend on me in the first place? A man shouldn't need a woman's validation or to be put on a pedestal to feel "masculine".
@@ConsciousEvolution13 I don't know about you, but when I smell blood, I turn into something else...... There's a monster inside of me, and I use his power to chase and conquer.......
I don’t do those things since I have PCS=Persistent Concussion Symptoms after a HIT against my head and I didn’t receive the proper help or health care. I’m just GLAD I survived and is still breathing. When I get BRAIN fatigued I just wanna be on my own so it’s difficult for me to take a run and hang out with friends. I also had to move far away and don’t know any girls or women here to become friends with.
Write about how not to initiate in marriage when the husband has almost no time during the week and little time on weekends, while I have a need to spend time together.
Do you have activities outside of him? Workouts, girlfriends, book clubs, etc? I’m trying to find more things to do as well because I’m in a similar situation. I make myself available for him bc he prefers me to cook twice a day and he likes a lot of time. I’m about to start taking pole dance classes again, plan more activities with friends, and we go to the gym separately now.
What does he like to do outside of work? My husband is pretty simple, he likes sports and travel. We connect on that but outside of that, our social lives only occasionally intertwine and I'm ok with that. I have my own activities. When I am too available, my husband takes it for granted. I am a sahm so it's easy to get consumed in what your husband wants. I enjoy taking care of my spouse but I had to back off because of burnout. We have more fun when I am mysterious and aloof.
@@ThePinkPantha21 I swear we sound like the same person. We both like sports and fishing so we bond there, he likes to hunt which we accidentally ended up doing that together a few months ago which was extreme bonding. I am more outdoorsy than him as far as just wanting to be outside. I cater to him and I love it but you’re right he takes it for granted after awhile so I’m learning to pull back at times. I’m not really girly so he’s had to convince me to get my nails, hair, and other things done more regularly.
@@tinawalker5335 yeah! Spend time mostly doing what you like for yourself. He will fall in where he needs to 😂 my husband likes when I brag about frolicking while he is at work, showing off something nice I bought, a place I went etc.. If he likes me to get my hair done a certain way or wear a certain color I do it as a surprise but not all of the time. I think they get bored when we are predictable 😂 I focus more on myself and I'm happier for it, I was miserable when I was catering too much to my husband and he is a good guy but he got lazy!
"You take a man how he is and do not shape him. He's a finished product. You're not his mother." "If his behavior doesn't suit you, you move on." Such elegant advice ♥️
this is horrible advice. classic example of women keeping women single 💀
@lycan2494 it's good advice for gold diggers, but suicidal for building long term healthy relationships.
@@lycan2494How is it horrible ? Oh or would you prefer keeping a man on the leash, and try to teach him something when he’s a grown adult already? Be honest.we all need a mature man.not the one who was forced to be like that, but the one who already been a mature man.
@@blackaua thank you for being honest
@@Graceful_N00by bro what 💀
People who were waiting for lisa to drop a black cat energy video 🥰🫶👇
yaaassss❤
@@Alexistxsjomg girl, you are so gorgeous!
Me🤚🏽😂😂😂
yeah this channel getting blocked. horrible advice for women
09:39 - Duality
10:53 - Mystery/Secrecy
12:05 - Don't always answer or respond right away
12:29 - The Power of Absence/Get Your Own Life
13:38 - Emotional Independence
15:10 - Observe the man's actions & words
15:50 - Not Afraid to lose someone
16:43 - Respect men's autonomy
18:07 - Actions to show love to yourself
18:19 - Detachment
20:20 - You are the "prize"
21:04 - Let him use his imagination
22:47 - Don't mother him
Thank you, was defo needed
This was a lot of work you did, thank you
very bad advice.
Be careful what you wish for ladies, this stuff really works! Get ready to be adored.
It’s powerful, isn’t it? 😉
Step 1 be financially independent otherwise none of these tips can work
Preach !! Financial independence makes you feel secure enough on your own to never really need or rely on someone to provide that for you
lol nah men don’t care about your money
@@terrellstreet2439 who said anything about men???
@@terrellstreet2439 that's not the point. It's not to advertise. It's so we aren't afraid to lose and we don't need a bad match to live.
Indeed men might not care about your money, but if you don’t have enough to support yourself, you will end up desperately looking for someone, not able leave a bad situation just because you don’t have any other option.
🎉stay unbothered: why weren't u to busy to notice he didn't call, don't want or ghosted u? phenomenal wisdom!!! 👏instant subscriber 🙌
I tell my little girl, “We are tough cookies. We are so kind hearted that it shines all the way to our outside, that’s why we are pretty. Our outside is hard but covered with sweet sugar. Some people will like sweet and some will like savory. To each their own.”
I'd love if Lisa made a video of how to keep the mystery in long-term relationships. Like 7-10 years etc.
Same❤
I believe what you seek is this video no?
Re-watch it ❤
That's up to you not her.
To help keep the mystery, NEVER let him see you or smell you using the toilet!! There are many reasons why not. First of all, men don’t need to see that. It destroys the feminine mystique. Secondly, once he sees you do that, instantly every other female becomes more feminine than you. Thirdly, there is such a thing as being “too familiar.” You can disagree if you like, but check back with me in a few years when he isn’t bringing you flowers or romancing you anymore.
The black dress matches perfectly the black cat energy
In the movie Sabrina, she was the golden retriever at the beginning and finally, she entered her black cat era. Love that movie!🐈⬛
Thank you Lisa, great video !🌹
The one with Audrey Hepburn or the 1995 movie? 🌟
@@wardahroses Audrey Hepburn version 🎶
❤❤❤❤❤
Wow! I’ve never thought of Sabrina like that before! What a wonderful perspective. Now I have to go rewatch that movie haha
What's the title of the movie
12:26 this is so true!
For example, in our country we have a famous restaurant and it is only in one city!
Everyone wishes to visit that city again to eat from it again. It was highly wanted! The meals in that restaurant were a beautiful dream for us most of the time. We almost envy those people who live in that city because they have more access to that restaurant!
Even when we think about what food should we order, I remember that restaurant and say, “Ohhh I wish that restaurant was located in our city. I would eat from it now, everyday and forever.” It was really an obsession!
When any member of any family in other cities goes to that city, that member buys amounts of the food of that restaurant for his family and returns from traveling with that food with him, and we be extremely excited about it!
After years, that restaurant opened several branches in other cities, including our city. We were very happy and began to eat a lot from that restaurant all the time until we started feeling ( full and bored ), and we no longer felt longing to taste it as we always did. It became always present and not rare anymore, I got used to it to the point that it became normal and I no longer felt eager to taste it as I always did.
I didn't eat it for two years after that! I don't like it anymore! It started becoming heavy on my stomach because it's oily! But I never felt that when I was eating it rarely!
And this is what they call (the power of absence) 🙂↕️♥️
W0W 😳🙊😭
5:55 these are wise words right here. I used to think I needed to look a certain way to have men fall for me. Ladies, I’m here to tell you it’s not true. What Lisa is talking about here is 💯 true. It’s our energy. We are all beautiful as we are. What men really love is our energy. I have more game now at 35 than I did when I was 25. And I don’t get asked out by just random men. I get asked out and dated by high value men.
Once in my life I was chasing, but at last it ended in a very sad marriage and at last in divorce.....
Me too ❤
Girl you embody the black cat energy! Looking amazing!
"My energy is too precious for that" ♥️
Loved this video and could listen to your advice for hour. I'm embracing my black cat and my man can't get enough ❤
I am so grateful I stumbled across your channel! I have never felt feminine and have in fact always felt almost afraid of it and for sure awkward in it. I grew up a tomboy and had only brothers and a few rag tag (but awesome) tomboy friends. But now I'm an adult, married, and trying to navigate (and badly, I'll admit) the male/female relationship. But your videos are really helping me to feel like I actually could be feminine and enjoy it and not be awkward... and that it will help my husband, too. Thank you!!!
I love it 😍 Miss Lisa can you please do a video of how to be black cat or keep a relation ship new and spicy even in long term relationships please!❤
Same ❤
I could've used this advice when I was a young girl! Love this video!🖤🖤
Femme fatale duality alll the way 🖤🖤🖤
I’m sure being really pretty helps
It does.. being attractive is a lot of work. Nothing is free in this world. You put the work in daily. For yourself..
Thank-you for all your great wk!!!! Much appricated!!!! Have a wonderful weekend!!! I hope bella is doing well!!!
Beautiful! 🖤🐈⬛ Elegance✨
I think im in the wrong place. I was looking at funny cat videos.
😂😂😂
1000 likes and loves Lisa!!! ❤❤❤ PREACH!
Just looking at you and feeling your aura empowers me ❤
I watch a video of yours a day as I have lost my confidence. Work in progress daily!
To be chased by the man feels so good, I love this video. You look so good 🤭😘🖤
Thank you kindly for your presence. I appreciate you 🌹
Thank you, Miss Lisa! 🥹💛🌻
Lisa you look so beautiful! ❤ and great video ❤
Every single woman needs to watch this. Doesn’t matter at what age but the younger the better!!
Yep. Should be taught in high school!! for reallies
THANK YOU SO MUCH LOVELY!!! I’m FINALLY out of my delusional era!! Your videos were on my recommended before but I wasn’t in the mental state to be truly interested!! NOW!!, I AM SNAPPING IN AGREEMENT💞💞🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾
Everyone who’s reads this comment I send you blessings & abundance in feminine divine grace💋💋🦋✨🌈🩷
Brilliant analysis
Thank you Ma'am
Fantastic discussion
Always appreciate you, and the work you do
Loving the dress. Best teacher
Thank you dear Lisa 😊🖤😺
Marvelous video! A very powerful and inspiring message 🖤🖤🖤✨💃🏻🐱 Thank you, Lisa!
Watching this video made me realize something. I have already become a black cat 😍. This makes me so happy because I haven't always been this way💖
Thank you for sharing your pov 👍🏻 nice weekend to you Lisa and all your fans 😘
Please also do a white cat energy video.
I LOVE YOUR DRESS
I love you dear❤❤❤❤❤ thank yoi for all your wonderful videos very very help women ❤❤❤❤ thank you with my heart
Hi you are 100 percent correct for sure. Be careful not be a Madame Bovary. Read or watch Jennifer Jones movie. 🙏💛
Wow Liza. Thank you for sharing this video. ❤
YESSSSSS !!! Thank youuuuu
I used to chase but not anymore because is not worth chasing if he isn’t chasing I have a wonderful personality but I get attached to soon and I’m trying to change this slowly that comes with fear of rejection yes. But is worth switching your mind set.
Other then Lisa being beautiful she has a reaching out energy all of her words and teaching stuck with me. I haven’t paid attention to learn something new like this in a long time.
Oh I’m so glad I found your page❤
Great advice . You are very intelligent 🌹glamorous 🦋
Girl you are stunning I’ll listen to whatever you say lol ❤
Loved this thank you Lisa! 💖
Subbed immediately!!!! Love this video!! ❤❤
Thank you Beautiful!😊
So good, love to hear more about on such topics.✨️💫
Hey Lisa, I really appreciate your videos ❤ Can you teach us how you can stimulate more masculine behaviour in a man that has learned to be more in his feminine? I feel that a lot of man just need the all clear to pursue a woman in a more masculine way. Because they also got confused by the feminist movement that pushes women to be more in their masculinity. I think we all got confused at one point 😅 And that's the reason we see this big display of femininity and masculinity in their negative aspects.
Lisa, you're beautiful and your podcasts are amazing! Thank you!!
Thank you for sharing 🙏❤
Thank you Lisa! Great content!
Girl u fabulous..i like ur vibe..tht works!
I need to remember this!!
Your camera is very high quality your videos look amazing
Thank you Lisa ❤
Great!!!!! I watch the video a few times to let it sink. Thanks so much!!!! ❤
Hi Lisa, I love your contents ❤
I love your videos!!! Thank you ❤
I love your advices! They work!❤
@ 8:09 Why do I have to dim my light so he feels "masculine"? Why does his masculinity depend on me in the first place? A man shouldn't need a woman's validation or to be put on a pedestal to feel "masculine".
I'm, not a golden retriever, I'm XXL American Bully pitbull retriever.....
You still want the chase and trophy!
@@ConsciousEvolution13 I don't know about you, but when I smell blood, I turn into something else...... There's a monster inside of me, and I use his power to chase and conquer.......
@@melo.lucas320 that’s definitely a masculine trait. No im not anything like that fortunately lol.
Your funny❤
@@francegagne6688 yo mama said the same thing....
lisa loveee your videos♥🌹 can we get your hometour pleasee!💝🌺 ladies please vote for this
I don’t do those things since I have PCS=Persistent Concussion Symptoms after a HIT against my head and I didn’t receive the proper help or health care. I’m just GLAD I survived and is still breathing. When I get BRAIN fatigued I just wanna be on my own so it’s difficult for me to take a run and hang out with friends. I also had to move far away and don’t know any girls or women here to become friends with.
Beautiful advice ❤
Love this video! 🖤 🐈⬛
You look so gorgeous how did you do your hair this style? it is beautiful!
Lisa! You look amazing. Do you have a workout routine?
❤❤ love that wordssss femme fatal❤❤❤
I LOVE YOU LISA
Using Gabby for the mean girl was CLASSIC 😂
He told me I’m disrespectful but I had no idea what went wrong
My grandmother once said your husband should love you a little bit more than you love him.
Amazingggg💓💓
You look stunning!
Feels so hard when I've had always been golden retriever
More clothing content please x
I really love your videos, Lisa ❤❤ kisses
Ese vestido te queda espectacular, Lisa. 🖤
Thank you🌹🙏
I love your whole outfit, Lisa. It's so elegant and so classy. It's very sexy too. Black is mysterious and alluring
Please more videos like this
You're so beautiful!
Th💖nk you!🐈⬛
✨🌹💫🧿
low-key lady demitrescu vibes ❤
You speak facts
El contenido de este video es oro.
You look better with the long nails my beautiful friend
Define “immediately” how soon should we give a man our body?
Love the black dress ❤ where is it from ?
Write about how not to initiate in marriage when the husband has almost no time during the week and little time on weekends, while I have a need to spend time together.
as a married woman, how often to you suggest i spend time with my husband? PS. He is a millionaire who doesn't go anywhere for work
Do you have activities outside of him? Workouts, girlfriends, book clubs, etc? I’m trying to find more things to do as well because I’m in a similar situation. I make myself available for him bc he prefers me to cook twice a day and he likes a lot of time. I’m about to start taking pole dance classes again, plan more activities with friends, and we go to the gym separately now.
What does he like to do outside of work? My husband is pretty simple, he likes sports and travel. We connect on that but outside of that, our social lives only occasionally intertwine and I'm ok with that. I have my own activities. When I am too available, my husband takes it for granted. I am a sahm so it's easy to get consumed in what your husband wants. I enjoy taking care of my spouse but I had to back off because of burnout. We have more fun when I am mysterious and aloof.
@@ThePinkPantha21 I swear we sound like the same person. We both like sports and fishing so we bond there, he likes to hunt which we accidentally ended up doing that together a few months ago which was extreme bonding. I am more outdoorsy than him as far as just wanting to be outside. I cater to him and I love it but you’re right he takes it for granted after awhile so I’m learning to pull back at times. I’m not really girly so he’s had to convince me to get my nails, hair, and other things done more regularly.
@@tinawalker5335 yeah! Spend time mostly doing what you like for yourself. He will fall in where he needs to 😂 my husband likes when I brag about frolicking while he is at work, showing off something nice I bought, a place I went etc.. If he likes me to get my hair done a certain way or wear a certain color I do it as a surprise but not all of the time. I think they get bored when we are predictable 😂 I focus more on myself and I'm happier for it, I was miserable when I was catering too much to my husband and he is a good guy but he got lazy!
I like your editing style. How do you get the clips from movies into your videos?
Watching this video make me realized that I am a black cat.😂
frustrating that most men just don’t appreciate nor have class for themselves
Does this work on someone who you've chased before and have already slept with and they've pulled away?
Yes, it does. Just master the art.