Think and Speak Like a British Person! 🇬🇧 What we SAY vs what we MEAN!

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  • What British people SAY isn't always what they MEAN! Learn how to think and speak like a British person! 📝 Get your FREE lesson PDF here 👉🏼ewl.info/think-speak-pdf
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 433

  • @EnglishwithLucy
    @EnglishwithLucy  5 місяців тому +53

    📝 Get your FREE lesson PDF here👉🏼ewl.info/think-speak-pdf
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    • @Sunshinepower6
      @Sunshinepower6 5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks 🧡

    • @essammarie5974
      @essammarie5974 5 місяців тому

      Actually, I am required to improve my skills in English listening when I listen to someone from British. I don't understand what does he says

    • @mmhamid2300
      @mmhamid2300 5 місяців тому

      Thanks alot ❤

    • @abdi-123
      @abdi-123 5 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤beauty teacher

    • @AbraoManuel-ht9ui
      @AbraoManuel-ht9ui 5 місяців тому

      I'm keen on you teacher. I hope your lessons Will master my English skiils.

  • @ms-ht1cj
    @ms-ht1cj 5 місяців тому +183

    Aren't Japanese similar in this matter? Avoiding confrontation, I mean.
    We, Polish, love to complain. Meeting a friend and saying "Yeah, everything ok, I feel great" is something we never say. 😂 Sometimes a conversation between two people consist in "boasting" about who has it worse. 😂 So, when you ask Polish person "How's going?", the answer you get will be: "Not great/eh/same old". It means we're okay and happy. 🤣

    • @sweetsunnyvibes
      @sweetsunnyvibes 5 місяців тому

      Polish people have a reason to be upset. They've been abused for years, screwed around from all sides. The first victim of WW2, the scapegoat of WW1

    • @vanconferenceinterpreting
      @vanconferenceinterpreting 5 місяців тому +6

      Vietnamese culture shares the same indirectness

    • @JaskaJ
      @JaskaJ 5 місяців тому +14

      Love your explanation of "Not great/eh/same old".🤣🤣🤣 Although I am Polish by blood and bone, in this case I am definitely American, which means always happy, never complaining. Best from Gdańsk, Poland.

    • @benzell4
      @benzell4 5 місяців тому +1

      Human connections!

    • @D.C.1
      @D.C.1 5 місяців тому +1

      Sooo true! LOL!

  • @KayleeANNAytbe
    @KayleeANNAytbe 5 місяців тому +125

    If you want to avoid confrontation don't compliment things you don't like to avoid being fake and rude 😊

    • @adriannakiss3920
      @adriannakiss3920 5 місяців тому +7

      I actually came here to say the exact same thing, lol

    • @magdabak5797
      @magdabak5797 5 місяців тому +8

      Yes, but Some People desperately want to Say something, anything. That is why they will Say any bullshit Just to keep the small talk going.

    • @DubaiShortsChannel
      @DubaiShortsChannel 5 місяців тому +2

      Nah, that'll be too easy and honest.. Hypocrisy hooray!

    • @sujitmohanty1
      @sujitmohanty1 5 місяців тому +1

      That's y u r not British! It's an art dear!

    • @VukaGhost
      @VukaGhost 5 місяців тому

      @@sujitmohanty1 sounds like compliment

  • @paolafrancescarepetto637
    @paolafrancescarepetto637 5 місяців тому +47

    Some time ago, I wrote a letter on behalf of a friend of mine who had a disagreement with a British airline about a ticket refund. After reading it, my friend found it bland and asked me if I couldn't have been a little more forceful. I had used expressions such as "I'm feeling a bit disappointed", "I don't think your assessment is really fair" "Your answer was not exactly what I would have expected". I answered him I had been very forceful indeed and I was right: the airline answered at once and refunded the full price.

    • @TheFrewah
      @TheFrewah 5 місяців тому +4

      You did right. You can always be more forceful but it’s difficult to do it the other way round

    • @robbedontuesday
      @robbedontuesday 4 місяці тому +2

      Maybe they just wanted to avoid a scandal, not do the right thing because of your PC...

  • @tristandunn4628
    @tristandunn4628 5 місяців тому +18

    I think a lot of our culture comes from sayings/phrases we're taught as kids. For example, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all," is probably behind our fear of saying something unpleasant to the point that we'll then actively lie about it.

    • @user-no2mz9hl4f
      @user-no2mz9hl4f 5 місяців тому +2

      You might be right on that one! I was taught that phrase, too.

  • @b6983832
    @b6983832 5 місяців тому +2

    I really appreciate the time you spend advertising your sponsors...

  • @m.rubland6737
    @m.rubland6737 3 місяці тому +3

    As a German, I have to say that it's more complicated than I thought. I didn't realise that the cultural differences were so big. Here in Germany, it's considered polite to actually say whether you intend to come or not. How else is the host supposed to be prepared?

  • @schnschm1popokatepetl653
    @schnschm1popokatepetl653 5 місяців тому +11

    I really loved the phrase: I felt like death warmed up.
    I loughed my head off. It will work in german too, and I definitely will integrate it to my portfolio of pictorial phrases. 😂

  • @techslfink9722
    @techslfink9722 5 місяців тому +4

    As a regular visitor to the UK it all sounds very familiar, but it’s always good to be reminded of this kind of phrases (and tutting)! Thanks!

  • @teltevskoynick1521
    @teltevskoynick1521 5 місяців тому +1

    the describtion of some phrases is just gorgeous! Thank you so much for such a humorous manner of giving very important information!

  • @akwrite
    @akwrite 5 місяців тому +14

    The irony, it's highly regarded in expression and firmly embedded in the British culture.

    • @user-dz6sj4qj1w
      @user-dz6sj4qj1w 5 місяців тому

      Hi bro ,lm just wanna know if there is any word in English that contain a sequence of consonant in the final position more than 4 as in _ccccc????do u know,😢

  • @janeentumbao8690
    @janeentumbao8690 5 місяців тому +5

    "I'll let you get on..." I usually say something like that if I feel like I've taken up too much of someone's time.
    Or, I'd say "I know you have a thousand things to get back to".
    The different sunburnt expressions... I would jokingly say "You look well done!". 😂😂😂😂
    I'm in the Chicago area and originally from Cleveland Ohio. Our version of English is kinda different. 😊

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki 5 місяців тому +11

    I live in the UK, but am Irish and also lived in Japan so Im fluent in Japanese as well, and this indirectness seems similar to Japan actually. I don't think Irish as indirect as British though, I noticed the more indirectness after moving to the UK for sure. This was in stark contrast to when I went on holidays to Germany, where people were the opposite. I think the US is also much more direct as well.

    • @raettchen1988
      @raettchen1988 4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, German here. If you tell us to write a date in the calendar, we probably will grab our calendar and search for a good day 😂 good luck to come out of that one 😂😂
      I also had a strange moment, when I accidentally get on a private lawn and the owner came around to get me off. (I was like 12 and didn't speak English very well) I told him that I was sorry and his last words were "your welcome". Thar got me confused 😂

  • @saivyas4276
    @saivyas4276 5 місяців тому +13

    You have been really helpful for me to learn English from basic to advanced... I'm from India and from heart i just wanna thank you.... thanks alot Lucy ma'am

  • @AbraoManuel-ht9ui
    @AbraoManuel-ht9ui 5 місяців тому

    I admire how greatful is your teaching

  • @DarkDarth1984
    @DarkDarth1984 5 місяців тому +1

    That video was really great! Funny, but full of warm insight about our British friends!

  • @sameetramrakhiani9774
    @sameetramrakhiani9774 5 місяців тому +1

    It goes without saying that you wonderfully designed lesson.😊 Thank you for sharing real English conversation with us.!
    God bless you!😊

  • @noblestsavage1742
    @noblestsavage1742 5 місяців тому +5

    im an english native but also on the autistic spectrum. this is brilliant, you could do a whole series of these for the autistic community.

  • @06cdh
    @06cdh 4 місяці тому

    I lived 17 years in London, and it is so nice to listen to all this which brings back many good memories. Working in the City, I had some pretty good experiences. I loved it and miss it.

  • @kurdishblink7984
    @kurdishblink7984 5 місяців тому +12

    Thank you Lucy ❤ please make video to intermediate English learners level because this level is so difficult for us.!!🙂

  • @olafgogmo5426
    @olafgogmo5426 5 місяців тому +5

    When a German says "Can't complain" he/she means: "I feel great". And when something is considered "not bad" it's "exellent". That' s why coversation with a Brit can be difficult.

    • @valeries.5445
      @valeries.5445 5 місяців тому

      You nailed it. What I first thought, too, such an awkward moment for a German just hearing about an alternative interpretation of „not bad“ or „can’t complain“. I laugh about how the French use irony, too. Without doubt in French is about 80% for sure for example 😄

    • @BB-un2ts
      @BB-un2ts 5 місяців тому

      French do that quite often to…

  • @tigradigra
    @tigradigra 5 місяців тому +2

    That was ridiculously awesome! Thanks a lot! Now I'm forearmed!👍👏👏👏

  • @user-qs5cz6mx5h
    @user-qs5cz6mx5h 5 місяців тому

    I love this video and the way you present the conversation so much.

  • @lineanders5330
    @lineanders5330 2 місяці тому

    According to what I learned today, I am absolutely 100% British 😂 hope to visit your beautiful country soon! Greetings from Germany

  • @nickcoyshardiman2693
    @nickcoyshardiman2693 5 місяців тому +21

    I love your content and humour Lucy. I am a Brit (Welshman) lol. Your videos always brighten my day and sometimes I do learn something. Great work.

    • @Mooheda
      @Mooheda 4 місяці тому

      I'm from the UK, Good Video 'That'll do"

  • @ritamaulana751
    @ritamaulana751 5 місяців тому

    Lucy, watching this video made me remember the time when I was in London. Pleasant time.

  • @borushiki1464
    @borushiki1464 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for your videos ma'am. I'm really getting better and better everyday coz of you.

  • @davidaristideakoaamenda2022
    @davidaristideakoaamenda2022 5 місяців тому

    Really informative, thanks so much Lucy. I owe you one.

  • @sibelk3098
    @sibelk3098 5 місяців тому

    Thank you 🎉 Lots of love from Türkiye 🇹🇷

  • @arnoldpodcast3614
    @arnoldpodcast3614 5 місяців тому

    Excellent video. I had lived in Coventry for one year with my two british friends. This content brings me back to that memories! Haha.

  • @oisantos
    @oisantos 5 місяців тому

    Thanks my lovely teacher for this lesson 🙂🙏🏻
    Wish u the best always

  • @abhishekzen5993
    @abhishekzen5993 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this video. I learnt so many things from you

  • @hectorevolorio3339
    @hectorevolorio3339 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the lesson, Lucy 😊😊😊.

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 5 місяців тому

    Good job Lucy.
    Thank you so much.
    Have a good weekend. ☺👍

  • @vadim_podoliack
    @vadim_podoliack 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for the valuable insight!

  • @gabriellagirardi4741
    @gabriellagirardi4741 5 місяців тому +1

    Fantastic video. Thank you ❤️

  • @j.asiaa77h77
    @j.asiaa77h77 5 місяців тому

    That was really good. Thank you Lucy :)

  • @ldp6481
    @ldp6481 5 місяців тому

    Thank u Lucy. No word to say hw much I feel yr lesson is interesting. ❤

  • @zekibilen1775
    @zekibilen1775 5 місяців тому

    Happy New year's Lucy 🎉

  • @maryhernandez3804
    @maryhernandez3804 5 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed this lesson 😂 Thank you Lucy ❣

  • @lillymie520
    @lillymie520 5 місяців тому +1

    Your great Lucy! A true inspiration!! Your the best 🙂

  • @dark_diyar
    @dark_diyar 5 місяців тому

    Love you and your personality, dear Lucy. 💖

  • @Myriako
    @Myriako 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video! 😀🌷

  • @doffyangel3596
    @doffyangel3596 4 місяці тому

    You're absolutely amazing !!

  • @wu_lian
    @wu_lian 5 місяців тому +1

    its so useful thank you

  • @pauldevehers394
    @pauldevehers394 5 місяців тому

    FANTASTIC, LOVELY.
    THANK YOU EVER SO MUCH LUCY.

  • @tanyaloshak4600
    @tanyaloshak4600 5 місяців тому +1

    That was so fun and interesting, I wish the video was longer 🙂

  • @wizymrojasb45
    @wizymrojasb45 5 місяців тому

    Always so great! Tkank you.!

  • @fantasticaircond
    @fantasticaircond 2 місяці тому

    This is effortlessly hilarious 😂😂😂 great work Lucy!

  • @Houssem0880
    @Houssem0880 5 місяців тому +1

    Greeting from Tunisia 👋 and nice lesson as usual

  • @D.C.1
    @D.C.1 5 місяців тому +1

    What an excellent video! I laughed so hard! 😁👍

  • @ErmakBrovar
    @ErmakBrovar 5 місяців тому

    Probably the best of your videos ever. Thank you.

  • @saberkhaleq433
    @saberkhaleq433 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this amazing video ,keep going and break a leg

  • @altosanon
    @altosanon 4 місяці тому +1

    My friend's German husband always says to me "is that interesting or British interesting"!

  • @dylanthekoreanteacher
    @dylanthekoreanteacher 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much :)! Learned a lot :)

  • @antoniomartinazzo5847
    @antoniomartinazzo5847 5 місяців тому +1

    I loved this video, Lucy, snd I mean it. It is very tricky for an italian haha. I find it hilarious when a british person sugar-coates sentences with a negative, like "i am not overly keen on this". Another favourite of mine is "don't let me keep you" :)

  • @fabianmaeda1523
    @fabianmaeda1523 5 місяців тому +1

    Hello thank you por your Help. Lucy

  • @Marwa_892
    @Marwa_892 5 місяців тому +1

    Love you Lucy from Egypt 🇪🇬♥️

  • @GsmXteamFiXiT
    @GsmXteamFiXiT 5 місяців тому

    Lucy ,Lovely and cherished English teacher 😊

  • @Tamami-88
    @Tamami-88 5 місяців тому +1

    I wish your channel existed 20 years ago before I went to college in UK..!!!

  • @elizabethbekelechitima228
    @elizabethbekelechitima228 4 місяці тому +1

    Lucy I got everything right thanks ❤

  • @vanessacantos836
    @vanessacantos836 5 місяців тому

    Very interesting video. Thank you :) !!!

  • @rmgreenesq
    @rmgreenesq 4 місяці тому

    Oh Lucy, bless your heart!

  • @paulc.sesquen9992
    @paulc.sesquen9992 5 місяців тому

    I love ur videos, they have helped me a lot.

  • @user-fr5vo9yi2c
    @user-fr5vo9yi2c 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much I am great full for such a effort 😊😊😊❤❤❤ thanks a lot

  • @anho5722
    @anho5722 4 місяці тому

    Thank you, Lucy ❤

  • @ikarly2898
    @ikarly2898 4 місяці тому

    2:25 confirms you did push through with your wedding. Happy for you both!

  • @mh017509
    @mh017509 5 місяців тому

    So true! Always have to decipher my British colleagues . A hard task for an Ozzie.

  • @davesmith6436
    @davesmith6436 5 місяців тому +4

    Hmm... A pretty contradictional video! How could I understand y'all British people correctly?!! Haha!😉
    Thank you much, gorgeous Lucy for the awesome English lesson!👍👍👍

  • @Sohana_RB
    @Sohana_RB 5 місяців тому

    this was fun! and is relatable to my culture as well😂

  • @nancyg8664
    @nancyg8664 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for nice lesson

  • @Rachelbrookylnn
    @Rachelbrookylnn 5 місяців тому

    Wonderful lesson

  • @nhungcute8888
    @nhungcute8888 5 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful lesson ❤❤❤❤

  • @ingilizce_sayfasi
    @ingilizce_sayfasi 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks teacher ❤

  • @benzell4
    @benzell4 5 місяців тому

    Thanks Lucy!

  • @ebrihamakonteh5018
    @ebrihamakonteh5018 5 місяців тому

    Great effort Lucy

  • @Selfloveyoga1111
    @Selfloveyoga1111 5 місяців тому +8

    As a person who values honesty and authenticity and have lived in the UK for almost 20 years still struggle with this bit of British culture.Someone tell me please is it possible to build a trully genuine relationship with the British guy or true friends or perhaps I should take my interests elsewhere? 😅

    • @edegajoanna8241
      @edegajoanna8241 5 місяців тому +2

      My thoughts exactly.How to find friends??

    • @lewissparkes
      @lewissparkes 5 місяців тому +3

      Pretty easy if you find the right people, I’m English, I have loads of french, Italian and South African friends. You need to put yourself out there and find people with similar interests. It’s not particularly easy for British people sometimes

    • @Selfloveyoga1111
      @Selfloveyoga1111 5 місяців тому

      @lewissparkes thank you for your kind words! Yes, it's a matter to find the right people I guess and not let negative experiences affect you.

    • @user-ei9ns9hq6b
      @user-ei9ns9hq6b 5 місяців тому +1

      @@lewissparkes you call them your "friends" but what you really mean is they're your enemies XD

    • @annamari7863
      @annamari7863 5 місяців тому

      It s impossible. They hate everyone including themselves!

  • @sergepottier2382
    @sergepottier2382 4 місяці тому

    I must say, this video is really usefull!

  • @rocklobstah1876
    @rocklobstah1876 5 місяців тому +1

    Also making vague social plans is a national sport in England

  • @charlestims1851
    @charlestims1851 5 місяців тому

    Well done indeed! And, very funny on the top of it. Thanks :-).

  • @richardweems4517
    @richardweems4517 5 місяців тому +5

    Thank you oodles for your translations of British into American English. I have warned my son that texting is not the place for sarcasm nor anything which might be taken literally. English is an atonal language whereas sarcasm such as 'I love that shirt meaning you hate it requires tone, emphasis, and an alteration of cadence. Therefore I recommend to all who listen to and 'ADORE' your videos please abstain from using subtext or anything other than what is not open to interpretation. I truly do love your videos but wished to point out to all that in order to be sarcastic (or perhaps passive-aggressive9?0) that I had to capitalize adore in order to imply abhpr.

  • @Daily-English-Vocab-byLexiloom
    @Daily-English-Vocab-byLexiloom 4 місяці тому

    Well done I liked it very much

  • @kawsarkamalakter1932
    @kawsarkamalakter1932 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your video

  • @AbderrazakHouari
    @AbderrazakHouari 5 місяців тому

    Hello lovely teacher Lucy ❤let me say that you’re my best teacher forever

  • @ANDYLAM
    @ANDYLAM 5 місяців тому

    I love it, I really love the tut, especially when I said "excuse me" to a lady who was blocking the toilet corridor yesterday at London Coliseum.
    I was just taking my daughter to the man's toilet.
    Lovely country

  • @merakli2022
    @merakli2022 5 місяців тому +10

    I am not an English speaker. I prefer to speak directly, which makes communication much easier and error-free.

  • @lucyscuderi8474
    @lucyscuderi8474 2 місяці тому

    This video is very interesting. I have to say that in the Italian language too we use a lot of these expressions meaning just the opposite as for English.Or, at least, well educated people do it. Thanks for sharing.

  • @bernardmansire8642
    @bernardmansire8642 5 місяців тому

    THANKS GOOD TEACHER

  • @akbargabbar505
    @akbargabbar505 5 місяців тому

    Great leason👍💯
    ❤❤❤❤Gorgeous teacher💑 💕

  • @roohital1074
    @roohital1074 5 місяців тому

    Thanks lucy. 😊

  • @peternouwen
    @peternouwen 4 місяці тому

    There is a lót of intonation involved with this indirect communication. You usually can héar it when the words fit the meaning.

  • @helengroza
    @helengroza 27 днів тому

    Well, it's mind-blowing sometimes and definitely confusing most of the time.
    This is exactly how we complicate our lives ourselves and then complain about it being so complicated 🤦🏼‍♀️😅

  • @ushaaheibam2207
    @ushaaheibam2207 5 місяців тому

    Thank you!! ❤

  • @sebastianlindenbeck268
    @sebastianlindenbeck268 5 місяців тому

    When my dad died my mum and I we got friends who popped up unannounced which was really nice.

  • @geab.2182
    @geab.2182 3 місяці тому

    this was so cool and so funny 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @usemuseu8334
    @usemuseu8334 5 місяців тому

    Lucy, you're great!

  • @munozinni
    @munozinni 5 місяців тому

    Hola 👋 Lucy!!! Great video 😊

  • @Bitu..girl28
    @Bitu..girl28 4 місяці тому

    Oh lucy...tnx a lot...i get everything what i want

  • @rafiksalhi1917
    @rafiksalhi1917 5 місяців тому

    😊Thanks Lucy😊

  • @jancejpek9993
    @jancejpek9993 5 місяців тому +1

    Excellent! 🥰