How We Get My Son With Autism's Hair Cut
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Hair washing and hair cuts are the hardest thing for my autistic son. He’s almost 3 and hates nothing more than water on his head or the sound of hair cutting/paper ripping. We’ve found a hairstylist who specifically cuts hair for autistic children. It’s been a blessing!
Do headphones help?
@@detective8205 unfortunately, no. He doesn’t like anything touching his head like hats, headphones, water, etc. We tried headphones because he loves music so much and responds to it so well but it was the actual muffs on his ears and the band across his head that he just can’t tolerate right now.
@@katietye3673maybe an ear plug will help? I'm not sure as I have no experience with autistic kids 😅
@@minxbella9342 as someone who’s autistic myself, earbuds definitely help better, I love the look of headphones and their shape but when it comes to sensory stuff the buds are the way to go. The sound sounds clearer, your ears don’t get pushed flat to your head, nothing on the top of your head, no worries abt sound leaking out, being able to both block out noise and still hear it if I keyed in also really helps.
Earbuds just feel like they fit, and headphones feel like a nuisance, especially for sensory issues.
@@BB-TheCandleFairy I agree.. I just recently knew about the earbuds because of Cooper mom channel.. She have a deaf child with hearing aid implant and she says that the earbuds definitely help a lot for her to still listen to her child and respond to him but at the same time it helps reduce the noise so it won't be too much for her
I remember as a teen I had to take my 4yo sister with extremely hyperactive ADHD (and probably ASD as well, but never diagnosed cause back then you had to pick one or the other) to get a haircut. I don't remember if she didn't want to or she was just bouncing off the walls, but she refused to get it. In the end what got her to get the haircut was me telling her "After you're done, we're gonna go buy a BIIIG bag of candy and you don't have to share anything with your brother". She sat perfectly 😂
I got her a big bag of candy and the first thing she did when she saw her brother was run at him, bodyslam him into the ground and yell "I GOT CANDY DO YOU WANT SOME?"
I was pretty proud of that one 😁
Awww that’s so sweet
Is she okay? It kind of sounds like you're talking about her as if she was dead 😅
As an autistic woman, I’m really proud of this generation of parents of kids w autism for doing what previous generations didn’t, and that’s working with their autism rather than fight against it or try to erase it. I can tell you put him first in your approach. He’s going to grow up to be so well-adjusted and in tune with his needs and abilities. Every autistic kid deserves a mom like you ❤
As an autistic person, I have a GREAT mother 😊
As an autistic kid, I have amazing parents who I am very greatful for! My dad is also autistic, so we relate to things a lot. And my mom has ADHD, I’m very glad that I’m not the only one in the fam with autism!
@@buggo_bug There's nothing wrong with being autistic. We just a lil different that's all
@@itsJayden461 I understand that, it’s just I don’t want to be “ misunderstood “ when I get sensory overloads or something. I’m just glad that my parents know how to help me instead of either panicking or telling me to suck it up.
@@buggo_bug same here 😊
As an autistic 11 year old, I find these videos very heartwarming and comforting. I can relate to some parts of these so much and it's nice to see others who are a little bit like me. ❤
hi! please dont share your age online, esp below the limits! it can be dangerous to do so as some people out there specifically look for younger kids. i get the motivation behind it, but i’ve made that mistake ^^
he is literally so adorable
He is so adorable
His eyes are very beautiful
You must be a very happy mom ❤
The worst part of hair related sensory input for me, being autistic myself is the hair dryer and washing my hair. I hate how loud the hair dryer is as it dries around my ears, and I usually just let my hair dry out naturally to avoid it all together. I don't like washing my hair because of how heavy your hair can feel after and the actual water being dumped overly hair so close to my ears. My hair is really short now for that reason.
Yeah I never blow dry my hair for the same reason. I'd rather go to bed with wet hair than blow dry it, and I frequently do lol.
maybe try out earplugs for the noise? it could be worth a shot
That’s good he was doing so well my brother is autistic(verbally) but he stems a lot one off the things he hates is hair cuts so he is doing very well in my opinion
I live in Colorado and I get soo excited every time you say colorado
I absolutely love salons like this, I'm the second to youngest of 6 and have two autistic siblings ❤
You manage that well with your little guy. My wife could only cut our sons hair while he was sleeping (birth to 5 yrs. Old). A bit of a challenge which could take several days to complete. Since he turned 5 he tolerates a hair cut (finally 😀)
Can I ask, was he diagnosed with autism?
His eyes are so big and cute
And he also probably wants to be a nicely behaved boy ❤️
I’m just ADHD to my knowledge and I remember being terrified of haircuts for so long when I was younger. My mom always tried to convince me I was being silly because it didn’t hurt but I just hated being touched… I still do
Hi! I'm hoping this comment doesn't come across wrong at all, I noticed in the beginning of the video Sawyer seemed sensitive to sounds in the room. As someone who is also super sensitive to sound I use loop ear plugs when I'm in a place that has too many sounds or is just too loud. Hope this helps!
So awesome! One of my mom's best friends is a hairstylist she would do it at her house a place my brother felt comfortable with. He calls her aunt as an adult just to give you an idea of how close they're
He’s such a cutie
Hey I noticed you had comments off on your video about your daughters dyspraxia, I wanted to let you know I did dance for years and it helped me so much with my dyspraxia. I went to a dance school that did most common types of dance and they were so patient and would even do one on ones when I struggled with a movement or would give me an easier alternative for me in harder routines. If it wasn’t for my adhd (undiagnosed and unmedicated st the time) and issues with my joints I’d still do dance but honestly it’s the reason why I can do a lot more today and it massively improved my dyspraxia to the point it hardly effects me, it usually shows up after a seizure cus my brain has to kinda recalibrate but that’s it and even then I can still walk in a semi straight line and do “complex” movements I couldn’t do as a kid. It also improved my spacial awareness as you had to make sure you gave others enough space to dance in so it’s helpful for a bunch of skills.
Anyway stay awesome, I just found your family and have fell in love with your positivity. I know my disabilities are most likely going to be genetic and pass to my children in the future and I can only hope I can have the same outlook as your family of and when the time comes
He looks like he's just the tarp in the thumbnail lmao 💀
What no he doesn't??
Why not just turn the chair when he's focusing on something? As long as he's not whipping around, if he wants to look at something, let him! Hairdressers and barbers turn their chairs all the time.
I totally agree with you let the child look at what he sees.
Smart to krep iy regular. I was surprised the stylist kept turning his head back though - an accomodating salon would move themselves amd let him look at what he found appealing surely?
The barber: GODDAMNIT CHILD QUIT TURNING YOUR HEAD AWAY FROM WHERE I PUT! (This is a joke where he kept turning his head after the barber moved it)
Our kid is ALSO named Sawyer! He also has autism. I was looking for tips on how to cut his hair and came across this video, jeez it’s a small world
Would Sawyer ever potentially tolerate an earplug? I'm an adult with sensory processing disorder and love earplugs like Loop, which I believe has a kids' option. It's like turning the volume down, but still allows me to communicate and experience life. But I know it can be hard to have even something small/comfortable in-ear.
I live in Colorado as well and I am exactly 10 years older then sawyer and Griffen I was also born September 8th and I also have disabilities.
He did so good. Haircuts were always traumatic for my son until he got about 10. Especially if they/we used clippers. I think it was the buzzing in his ear. He is 15 now and is still scared to death pf anything ghat buzzes especially bees and even hummingbirds. But at least he will allow them to use clippers on him now😊
Thanks for being a great mother, i wish I was your kid, my mom beat me up when i do things wrong and she know that i have autism, she tell me everytime that im disabled
Hey girl, I love the attention you're putting into your son, but how are your other kids? I think I saw them in another video. I know having a disabled sibling can make you feel neglected, how are they doing?
You’re such a good momma!!!
What the heck was that Intro-
" mY SOn HaS Autism AnD ADhD"
And today we are gonna give him a haircut!
WHAT
My 3yr old screams the whole time. Im glad its my husband friend that does it he handles him well.
Something that will help him is when he starts to hyper foucas draw that focus to you as you stand in front of him. I have adhd and high functioning autism I may have a different type of autism but this typically helps me.
I had to watch this twice because I literally zoned out in the middle of it
How good he is ………..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
GET THIS YOUNG MAN A LOLLIPOP (I’m joking but my best friend’s little brother has autism and hates haircuts and he always asks if he can get a lollipop)
My 7-year-old has autism and we love the barbershop he goes to it is for kids with special needs and the lady gave him a bin of toys and he walked around and she just followed him and cut his hair
i was just watching your other videos!
I have aurism ans honsetly even as a adult I have trouble with 2 things those buzzing sound or loud trimmers which is mostly find really but the thing I hate is the hairdryer thing to blow away the loose hair. I mean I love what it does or like the end result and really it is not really the noise but the hot air
As a Autistic adult I remember when I was a kid I hated getting my hair cut. But it changed as I grew up and now I can dye it.
I fell like almost every one of your children has a disorder or something .I fell so bad for y’all because my cousin has a child with autism and all he does is spin toys in circles all day . He just turned 2 and he’s still does not talk are look at you when you say his name . But when I pick him up and spin him around he likes the wind blowing and he giggles it’s so cute .
I'm autistic and have adhd and washing and caring for my hair is really hard
I love the hair salon in northfeild
Your so lucky you managed to get his haircut my brother with Down syndrome wont get his haircut its been 2 years now, (and yes I know autism and down syndrome are very different)
She didn't need to keep turning his head she could've moved with him.
I am autistic and haircuts bother me. I can tolerate them for a bit but maybe only 15-20 minutes at a time. My mum cuts my hair now as she can do it a lot quicker than the hairdresser can. She also does a great job at keeping me distracted.
I understand the method of a person with autism and ADHD tends to me overwhelmingly; especially when its hard for them to stand still and distraction. They tend to have anxiety
It seems like all your kids have a condition or something like that what’s that baout
I feel you buddy I have autism and ADHD too
aww hes so cute, i love that
Great looking haircut!
I don't get the 6 week cycle instead of 8 weeks, but okay.
video idea a nighttime routine whith soya and a Room tour xxxx
@Francesca Jeune ohh sorey I have dyslexia I strugle spelineg
Why do you care if he hyperfocuses on things he's interested in?
Wondering how patient the barber is
I am also very proud of him 🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊
I have autism and ADHD ik how he fills in just older then hem
He did well!
Well done sawyer you look great 💙
I always struggle with washing my little sisters hair the most because she hates the sensory, and since she has curly hair I also have to blow dry it so that way I can style it foot the week. Seeing her cry makes me sad because I can see real tears in her eyes. Do you guys have any suggestions as to how I can help her feel more comfortable?
I also have autism and ADHD
My brother has both too!!!
Great job sawyer lollipop earned Mr. Fresh cut 😊
Every six weeks kind of seems like a lot to me
I recommend giving him the Lollypop first or letting him watch a tv show
Hes so cute❤
Girl how many kids u got!?
6
@@FaerieLoki wow that’s a lot
3 have disabilities
No offense but why do so many of your children have different conditions?? Are they adopted or are they yours?? Just wondering..
Also a special needs Coloradan! I'm up in woodland park!
I am too.
Its weird. I looove getting my hair cut. Its almost a stim for me 😄
My brother has autism and he is so bad when he gets his hair cut he is screaming so loud it sounds like he is dying but we try to do everything to make sure he is calm
He's soo cute babe ♥️
This mother is so disturbing. Someting is not right. It send me chills down my spine.
What is disturbing you? I'm not getting any negative vibes!
🤷♀️
lol what? literally what is disturbing about this video?
Fr
My 4 year old brother has autism and my mom is lookinng for a barber for him in harrisburg pa
are you married to your cousin to have this percentage of not-perfectly-normal children?
Incest doesn’t fucking cause autism and adhd. Please just go outside and do something with your life
I’m also autistic as well but not ADHD
Sawyer is so handsome
My freainds brother also has autism he is 10 and alwase gets his hair cut with my mum and gets a toy and he has a great hairstylists and enjoys getting his hair cut now ,everyones different but haircuts alwase seem to worrie people with asd my sister also has asd and she hates hair cutes when she was about 12 she got to play on a i pad wile getting her hair cut correct me if im wrong about any of the terms i use.❤
Would you post information about hair salon that you went.
Have you tried the headphones?
I am in Melbourne, Australia, and I can't find a hairdresser for my autistic 3 year old son. Tried one just for kids, but he hates it. One kid starts crying they all do. Need one accommodates kids' special needs. Search continues..
I have both what he has
How hard was it in the beginning to start with haircuts? My son is now five and every time he hears the machine he goes completely insane. He doesn’t like the noise that she gives. He also doesn’t like things touching his hair any water touching his skin face washing his hair… I would appreciate any advice you could lend me. I just try to do the haircut when he’s asleep now at home.
Maybe find a hairstylist who doesn't use a machine and can just use scissors. My uncle has a very short haircut with no machine, the barber only uses scissors
He gets a haircut to be more intimidating
I have 1 disability and that is Deaf
I cannot hear anything so I use CI
I use to had hearing aid but it didn’t work
I have added to it just means your hypper what dose it have to do with a HAIRCUT😂
There is no way my son would sit there. He can't stand his head or hair touched not at all. X
Handsome boy❤❤❤
I wish l can do this, l give my son Haircut at home but is getting harder every time because he hates the noise.
Can you stop stating their disabilities?
Why?
I'm the exact same I fill for him
Youre teaching him that acting wrong is acting right.
nope
is.disability a generational thing because all your kids have one
Um no not all her kids do I think it's only like 3 of them
Oh my God so when you went to Colorado you must’ve sold my cousin because he works at sky zone it’s so fun when he plays dodgeball if everyone I mean with everyone he’s so sweet so what are you in Colorado then?
I am prepared
Me when i was younger
Does he ever blink 💀
Yes..he does..and he did..also the video has cuts so even if I didn't blink in the video doesn't mean he don't blink
I also have ADHD
What symptoms were seen to diagnose him with ADHD? I don’t see it in any of the videos with him
What's the salon called please?
I have ADHD and ig ADHD can have a little bit autisum
no…. you can have both but they are two different things
@@kirimeansmist I have ADHD and I was saying that ADHD can have a bit of autisum
@@Aurorainwonderland17 adhd can’t have autism it can have similar symptoms but they are very different
Colorado no way I live there to