"If I Were You" w/Jake and Amir and special guest Bo Burnham - Bro Job

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  • @swayswaybrodie
    @swayswaybrodie 8 років тому +689

    Bo is so intelligent and open in his discussion fucking A+

  • @ramisabashar7217
    @ramisabashar7217 8 років тому +1678

    Bo is so secure in his masculinity. Very refreshing to see.

    • @ramisabashar7217
      @ramisabashar7217 8 років тому +171

      +Michael Hawk Being feminine or exhibiting feminine qualities doesn't inherently mean you're gay.

    • @TillyP
      @TillyP 8 років тому +46

      His dad wasn't it's just a part of the act

    • @formoftherapy
      @formoftherapy 8 років тому +138

      He's stated that his family have actually always been supportive and any mention of his family in his acts are just straight up for the bit. Also, I guess I have to burst this bubble, 99.99% of comedians who tell jokes about their "experiences" are actually lying. They are carefully constructed stories meant to entertain you.

    • @inconsolablepeasant1548
      @inconsolablepeasant1548 8 років тому +1

      +Ramisa Bashar If only more people thought like that.

    • @boynova1423
      @boynova1423 8 років тому +20

      I went to the same school as he did, he's a few year above me though, and it was an all guys school so it makes sense that he's comfortable with sexuality.

  • @RetrospectsToo
    @RetrospectsToo 3 роки тому +52

    I love how self aware Jake is. Also, I bet Bo gives good hugs.

  • @anushakabber2709
    @anushakabber2709 8 років тому +389

    Bo's kinda great. He really did try to put himself in motorcycle's shoes/tyres. He's really good with this stuff. Either that or he knows what it's like to have a best friend.

    • @seandiamond7625
      @seandiamond7625 3 роки тому +7

      I agree with everything you said but because you spelled tires with a y, I hate you

    • @Yolomamba24
      @Yolomamba24 3 роки тому +2

      Except. He didn't even answer the question. He basically just repeated the kid's dilemma lmao

    • @xocmwxo
      @xocmwxo 3 роки тому +9

      TYRES HAHAHHA

  • @norththelemon
    @norththelemon 3 роки тому +97

    Alternate title: bo burnham struggles with having the highest level of empathy in the room 😂😂😂

  • @ryanrichter6403
    @ryanrichter6403 3 роки тому +37

    I'm tearing up at Bo's response to all of this. This is the best conversation

  • @patriotichipster80
    @patriotichipster80 8 років тому +711

    bo is a bro. solid opinions and discussion.

    • @andrewkeillor8302
      @andrewkeillor8302 7 років тому +16

      ajnode Have you watched any of Bo's stuff? because he does not buy into shit like all whites are guilty because they're white or shit like that

    • @ethanpletcher6077
      @ethanpletcher6077 7 років тому

      ajnode wow. i totally understand where youre coming from, but i think he does have enough info for an educated guess

    • @tommytwobrews
      @tommytwobrews 7 років тому

      ajnode fuck you

  • @urbanbushing
    @urbanbushing 7 років тому +125

    watching jake trying to think through all the multiple options is one of the most real things I've ever seen.

  • @dicamillo38ify
    @dicamillo38ify 8 років тому +164

    This was kind of a beautiful, open conversation.

  • @stayjj143
    @stayjj143 3 роки тому +76

    Bo looks so good in this interview. And he's just such a gem.

  • @sarabluewind321
    @sarabluewind321 8 років тому +645

    I really like how Bo thinks, he's really smart

  • @nilek198
    @nilek198 7 років тому +105

    I kinda get where jakes coming from..guys can feel violated too and if he's just letting his friend do bc he feels kinda pressured then that could leave a mark. Like if I let some guy or girl touch just to be nice and I didn't really want it, I'd feel kinda sucky afterwards. I appreciate jake's approach to try and grow and be open minded and wow was Bo insightful!

  • @formoftherapy
    @formoftherapy 8 років тому +475

    Jake's approach to being a better person is really refreshing. He's like "I'm either homophobic or misogynistic". And the thing is, being one or the either doesn't make you a bad person. I feel like people overreact when they are told they are being one or the other.
    Like Jake's approach is actually great because he's secure with himself that he knows he's not a bad person, but that he just has a wrong thought process, and is trying to unlearn sort of years of institutionalization.

    • @Perricilus
      @Perricilus 8 років тому +16

      No he's just allowed himself to get so brainwashed by this victim culture that he's looking for this "wrong thought process" in everything regarding gays or women. Bo's approach is refreshing because he acknowledges the problem but he doesn't feel like he has to apologize everytime he talks about gays.
      Edit: to further prove my point, check out the part from 6:20, where Jake goes out of his way to call himself homophobic and that he doesn't respect women in 20 seconds. Then another 20 seconds later, he says "There might be deep-rooted homophobia in me, but i TRY REALLY HARD TO BE OPEN".
      Don't get me wrong, I've seen probably every episode of Jake&Amir and I like them, but this apologetic tiptoeing around other people's feelings is fucked up. Hell, when Bo says "no, you're not homophobic", Jake responds "no it's fine". He calls himself homophobic and when people tell them he's not, he reassures them that it's ok and he knows what an evil son of a bitch he is for his thoughts.
      Also it's a pretty bad mental state to have for a comedian if you're scared to make fun of something.

    • @nesniping6378
      @nesniping6378 8 років тому

      +Perricilus exactly

    • @ozzie607
      @ozzie607 8 років тому +9

      I don't think he's either, he is straight and bring straight obviously he's going to enjoy having a girl sucking him off rather than a guy. It's only because he's not gay, not that he hates gays

    • @aidan7899
      @aidan7899 7 років тому +3

      "institutionalization"

    • @carolinacarvalho2254
      @carolinacarvalho2254 6 років тому +2

      THIS!!!

  • @prosebuds5124
    @prosebuds5124 3 роки тому +20

    Bo is always so smart with his answers! He seems like such a genuinely amazing human being with a wonderfully open minded view on the world. AMAZING!

  • @milesschaeffler875
    @milesschaeffler875 6 років тому +43

    I literally love this so much! It's not like watching a normal "interview" where's it's like: "I AM A CRINGEY INTERVIEWER AND THIS IS FAMOUS, AMERICAN COMEDIAN, BO BURNHAM". It's just 3 bros hanging out and talking :)

  • @aeadg313
    @aeadg313 8 років тому +289

    Bo Burnham is the feminist that I didn't know I needed

    • @blancacastillo7707
      @blancacastillo7707 3 роки тому +22

      i mean the hoes knows bo’s a feminist

    • @lollaz66
      @lollaz66 Рік тому +2

      How is he a feminist here lol legit question

    • @aeadg313
      @aeadg313 Рік тому

      @Lola lazy this was 6yrs ago so I don't remember which part exactly you're referring to. I think what I was referring to was BO reminding the guy in the hat that blow jobs are a favor to men because no woman is enthralled to give blow jobs

  • @michellee4602
    @michellee4602 8 років тому +321

    Awesome episode, Bo is the best. His special is amazing. The studio looks really great, too!

    • @Headgum
      @Headgum  8 років тому +80

      Thank you!!!

  • @MeganSmithers
    @MeganSmithers 8 років тому +535

    Bo's cute af

    • @hannahhilal6018
      @hannahhilal6018 8 років тому +17

      I thought he was cute 3 years ago and now just...
      DAMN BO 😂

    • @MeganSmithers
      @MeganSmithers 8 років тому +25

      +HannahGamez right? He just keeps getting more and more attractive

    • @hannahhilal6018
      @hannahhilal6018 8 років тому +9

      Megan Smithers ITS NOT FAIR xD

    • @mugomogu2379
      @mugomogu2379 7 років тому +8

      Megan Smithers he's smart too! godd

    • @xerosilvrmun
      @xerosilvrmun 7 років тому

      Megan Smithers you're cute af

  • @discobusiness7924
    @discobusiness7924 8 років тому +74

    Damn... this is the combo of a lifetime. If I Were You + Bo is the best power couple since Dangrin and his baton

  • @beanbagboy4life
    @beanbagboy4life 8 років тому +27

    Bo is so incredibly intelligent and I love how open-minded they all are

  • @aishakhras
    @aishakhras 4 роки тому +21

    4 years later and this still slaps

  • @PepprCabbg
    @PepprCabbg 5 років тому +396

    lmao we need a LOOOT more of Bo checking J&A's internalized misogyny/homophobia

    • @chand911
      @chand911 3 роки тому +24

      You don't know what internalized means...

    • @nickydinino5651
      @nickydinino5651 3 роки тому +5

      i dont think amir said anything wrong

    • @fedea82
      @fedea82 3 роки тому +6

      @@michaelscott5468 no he did not have any misogyny. He didnt think it through, the correct answer was "lesbian girl blowing boy to experiment of her own will: it would be preferable because arguably both parties would want it".
      Bo tried to correct him on it as well when he thought it was homophobia. It was neither one.

    • @michaelscott5468
      @michaelscott5468 3 роки тому +28

      @@fedea82 internal misogyny*, and yes he did, he said that if a lesbian wanted to it’s fine and It’s hot but when the scenario was about two guys he was uncomfortable with it and thought it was weird and that it made him gay. But he corrected himself and he realized that it was internal homophobia, and although he’s right about that it’s also internal misogyny since sexualizing Lesbian relationships is rooted in misogyny. He’s not misogynistic, I never claimed he was but he does or at least did have internal misogyny in this video, everyone does, so do I. But it’s good to catch urself and correct urself like he did.

    • @fedea82
      @fedea82 3 роки тому +1

      @@michaelscott5468 nah, no internal phobias. He said what he said and it was right originally. If the guy gets horny about two lesbians sure, that's a double standard, but no hatred or phobias towards gays nor women are there, just sexual attraction to lesbians while simultaneous sexual aversion to men. That's what not being attracted to men entails, it's completely natural to feel uncomfortable watching or thinking of men having gay sex. And the whole "everyone does have x phobias" is bs. I don't, nor does many people I know. Complete acceptance. And what he did, calling himself out, was not only cringe af but also factually wrong. He should be proud of who he is, there's nothing wrong w him nor his thought process.

  • @abandonablesnowman
    @abandonablesnowman 3 роки тому +11

    I love that Bo pointed out that so much head is just a gesture 👏🏼

  • @nickcfilms
    @nickcfilms 8 років тому +48

    "Motorcycle and The Wind" the title of my next fan fiction.

  • @Linz_Chick
    @Linz_Chick 7 років тому +53

    Omg bo is freaking amazing
    I love him he understands the gay vs lesbian conundrum so much

  • @provyprov
    @provyprov 3 роки тому +32

    Bo Burnham is the peak of humanity

  • @PerryBowden
    @PerryBowden 8 років тому +7

    I wish the full episode could be found here. Out of all the podcast type formats I have seen on UA-cam, watching/listening to this was the best one yet. I didn't skip through it, or lose interest, because I like the personalities involved with the discussion, and genuinely want to hear their opinions.

  • @ChillSyl11
    @ChillSyl11 8 років тому +195

    More like Bo Job amirite

    • @kayohTM
      @kayohTM 8 років тому +39

      up top

    • @avarcake
      @avarcake 6 років тому

      Sylvia Sylveon No, no it's not... lol XD

  • @IeatBugszz
    @IeatBugszz 3 роки тому +45

    i like how people call bo homophobic and he says stuff like this. As a gay guy myself bo has actually made me feel so comfortable with my sexuality its unreal

    • @melodyhaviland9393
      @melodyhaviland9393 3 роки тому +9

      as a queer person i absolutely agree. he obviously has made a lot of gay jokes in the past but i truly don’t think they came from a place of homophobia. he treats it like it’s so normal (which it is !!) anyway i just adore him

    • @IeatBugszz
      @IeatBugszz 3 роки тому +1

      @@melodyhaviland9393 exactly! I dont think people understand that when bo is making jokes the humour behind the songs/jokes is from other peoples perspectives meaning that he is making fun of the people actually saying that. And bo has never even made a statement on his sexuality before. Ive heard alot of people say hes straight from his song “straight white man” but he has said before he has made that to make fun of straight white men, categorising them without him in it. For all we know bo might not even be straight🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @caidwab
    @caidwab 8 років тому +182

    Can I say PLEASE, damn Bo is attractive with facial hair

    • @DendyJungle
      @DendyJungle 8 років тому +2

      guesswhat iart looks like a thin scarce

    • @zacari.zarpado
      @zacari.zarpado 8 років тому +1

      Mo FUCK YES HE IS LIKE THE BLONDE TALL TWIN

    • @pigebarn
      @pigebarn 7 років тому +11

      I am so damn much in love with his beard-look. And his cute, perfect smile. And his messy-but-always-gorgeous hair. And his adorable, sad eyes. I even love his nose. I'm just completely infatuated.....

    • @jaspergrey4172
      @jaspergrey4172 3 роки тому +4

      Ngl I prefer him clean shaven honestly, but he's attractive either way ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @veronikametelkova1672
      @veronikametelkova1672 3 роки тому +5

      this aged well

  • @Zlittlepenguin
    @Zlittlepenguin 8 років тому +36

    This was the most interesting topic I've ever heard of in my whole life.

  • @Sebastian-vc4xz
    @Sebastian-vc4xz 8 років тому +7

    You guys should upload the full videos they're really great and only make it funnier :)

  • @YourPalJamieEllis
    @YourPalJamieEllis 8 років тому +37

    Came for the funny, left with some life lessons.

  • @readaholic7437
    @readaholic7437 7 років тому +52

    Bo is the only true ally

  • @eakeeper
    @eakeeper 3 роки тому +4

    And that's how you have an open minded thoughtful conversation about a topic, more of Bo!!

  • @nickleblanc4414
    @nickleblanc4414 2 роки тому +8

    "What you blow guys, that's a thing for girls"
    I have never heard anyone relate homophobia to mysogyny in the way Bo does here, holy shit that is so insightful

  • @poponater1000
    @poponater1000 8 років тому +2

    PLEASE do more with jake, amir, and bo. would love to see them do this regularly.

  • @manasavachat5101
    @manasavachat5101 3 роки тому +14

    Who's here after his Netflix special Inside

  • @GreeeenT
    @GreeeenT 8 років тому +9

    I wish bo had a podcast

  • @PixelPenguin87212
    @PixelPenguin87212 8 років тому +17

    I fucking love Bo so much

  • @tishb.5094
    @tishb.5094 8 років тому +37

    Where'd bo suddenly get that jar at 12:40?

    • @Mentro140
      @Mentro140 6 років тому +9

      Tish B. That's his pee jar.
      He was trying to call for help and alert everyone that Jake and Amir kept him trapped in the basement.

    • @s.j7423
      @s.j7423 3 роки тому +7

      he just does that sometimes

  • @triffus
    @triffus 3 роки тому +11

    I love bo and wish he was my straight best friend at that age

  • @cautiouse
    @cautiouse 8 років тому +48

    I am a simple man
    I see Bo, I click

  • @carlyfallon6304
    @carlyfallon6304 3 роки тому +9

    What is always key is enthusiastic consent. If your partner can’t give you that then it not the play.

  • @queenfrostine97
    @queenfrostine97 8 років тому +10

    I AM UNBELIEVABLY EXCITED ABOUT THIS

  • @mokoz7196
    @mokoz7196 8 років тому

    Please make more of these! Studio is really relaxed and these questions are hilarious and thought provoking.

  • @betweenXtheXstars
    @betweenXtheXstars 8 років тому +19

    Bo should totally become a permanent fixture in this show, the chemistry is undeniable. I mean, no homo.

  • @Copper0Bre
    @Copper0Bre 7 років тому +3

    This was my favorite podcast. I died at the Dangrin question

  • @brandonallen2301
    @brandonallen2301 4 роки тому +13

    Watching Jake and Bo go back and forth is like a 200iq chess match

  • @Weird_but_neat
    @Weird_but_neat 8 років тому +26

    i love bo Burnham and I really like the part where Jake was like oh shit am I homophobic hahaha great episode guys subbed!

  • @Wiizl
    @Wiizl 8 років тому +7

    Holy shit! Top 3 funniest guys on the internet in one video!

  • @MerissaMitchell
    @MerissaMitchell 8 років тому +1

    I actually really enjoyed watching this discussion wow. Kudos!

  • @pianotinkerer
    @pianotinkerer 8 років тому +19

    My bff is quite gay. I mean, she's bi but she leans towards women more, so being a good wingwoman I arranged to put her and my other bisexual friend in the same room (said friend is pretty hot). They got drunk and made out and I felt super good for making it happen.

  • @mozzstickdestroyer
    @mozzstickdestroyer 7 років тому +12

    I don't know what was weirder, seeing Bo outside of his stage persona or seeing Amir out of character.

  • @CameronBaba
    @CameronBaba 8 років тому +1

    I actually freaked out when I saw this- seriously my favorite comedians in one room together.

  • @maddiebonahue8291
    @maddiebonahue8291 8 років тому +6

    PLEASE have bo back on the podcast

  • @matty_mash
    @matty_mash 5 років тому +4

    I’m currently going through old college humor cast members and seeing where they all are now.

  • @oliviakiss02
    @oliviakiss02 7 років тому +4

    6:56 Look how mad he looks xD

  • @ascrc
    @ascrc 8 років тому +28

    At 11:45 did Bo almost say asexual?

  • @koribroadnax8717
    @koribroadnax8717 8 років тому +9

    This makes me incredibly happy
    If I didn't love Bo Before aghh

  • @gretam4509
    @gretam4509 6 років тому +14

    Why is bo such a cutie pie 😂 my heart

  • @JaneAshleyAndrews
    @JaneAshleyAndrews Рік тому +2

    bo is just great

  • @XxJiiGSAWx
    @XxJiiGSAWx 3 роки тому +6

    Motorcycle and his buddy are married now

  • @zzzzzzzzzzz6
    @zzzzzzzzzzz6 4 роки тому +12

    Bo nailed it around 11:50.. even if we're totally accepting, we don't want to be perceived as gay because then women will find us unattractive / not on the market

    • @lizchurchill6051
      @lizchurchill6051 3 роки тому +6

      I don’t know that’s true, though? As long as a guy is confident, he can be feminine and women will find him attractive. Sometimes more so.

    • @pottetplant9975
      @pottetplant9975 3 роки тому

      @@lizchurchill6051 The problem is people are very often associating "feminine" traits in men with being gay, also they're associating almost any physical contact between men as them being gay, also they're associating not wanting to have sex with women all the time or not being attracted to some conventionally attractive women with being gay, and many more. Of course a man might care if, for example, all of his friends would think he's gay because then he might miss on some girls he would like, only because they wouldn't even try to get with him, thinking he's gay, sure, but that's very specific and imo it shouldn't automatically go from that to being scared of doing anything that doesn't scream alpha male to every pottential sexual female partner in a 50km radius. I don't see men that are more affectionate, or have more feminine way of presenting themselves or are comfortable with platonic physical contact with other man like hugging etc, as unattractive. Honestly, I believe many women find those men even more attractive. So this argument doesn't make sense to me. I believe it's much more about how other men perceive them, not how women do.

    • @lizchurchill6051
      @lizchurchill6051 3 роки тому +1

      @@pottetplant9975 my point exactly 👏🏼

    • @zzzzzzzzzzz6
      @zzzzzzzzzzz6 3 роки тому +1

      @@lizchurchill6051 Sure, but if they assume we're gay, they won't hit on us and will only view us as friends. Just like if I believed a woman was a lesbian - I wouldn't want to make a woman feel uncomfortable if she didn't swing that way.
      Which is an empathetic thing to do, but very bad for our chances. So some of us have to act more straight / whatever than we might feel to be able to date most women.
      It's not a terrible thing, just how things play out.. but it is kind of annoying.

  • @Dylankeahi
    @Dylankeahi 8 років тому

    These are three of my favorite people, how did it take me 4 months to find this?

  • @GowenID
    @GowenID 8 років тому +1

    How does this channel only have 1.5k subs?

  • @tracy2919
    @tracy2919 7 років тому +11

    I was worried about the gay friend having/catching feelings for the friend the whole time

  • @katrineboucher7199
    @katrineboucher7199 7 років тому +13

    Let me just say, wtf.
    And Bo's thinking's great

  • @GreenXrays
    @GreenXrays 5 років тому +5

    Is this perhaps where Bo got the inspiration for the sign off in 8th grade?? Gucci!

  • @gj4330
    @gj4330 8 років тому

    holy heck didn't expect to find a new favorite channel

  • @timrenolds1415
    @timrenolds1415 7 років тому +5

    Shoutout from wales💯

  • @casberta9819
    @casberta9819 8 років тому +8

    6:12 Bo is having ZERO SHIT from that guy

  • @drizzzzz
    @drizzzzz 8 років тому +5

    This is essentially an episode of Jake and Amir, where Jake is being insecure.

  • @MaddisonintheSky
    @MaddisonintheSky 7 років тому +3

    This is the best thing I've ever heard

  • @nickdovolos8271
    @nickdovolos8271 4 роки тому +3

    I think Amir’s VR solution was the best option

    • @4dultw1thj0b
      @4dultw1thj0b 3 роки тому

      Wasn't that an episode of Black Mirror

  • @gretam4509
    @gretam4509 6 років тому +3

    What’s a cool dudes name?
    Bo: motorcycle

  • @DarkSaintElite21
    @DarkSaintElite21 8 років тому +1

    How have I just seen Bo Burnham and Jake and Amir made a video together.... WTF! This is like my life in a video!

  • @maggiechuang5387
    @maggiechuang5387 8 років тому +1

    Jake and Amir with a sprinkle of BO?! (Brinkle?) SUBSCRIBED.

  • @rgh1132
    @rgh1132 8 років тому +12

    don't mix friends and sex. no matter if it's boy-boy, boy-girl, girl-girl

    • @seallofapproval
      @seallofapproval 7 років тому +1

      Ryan GERMANHEAD dude where were you when i needed this advice a year ago

    • @banjoboy1223
      @banjoboy1223 7 років тому +1

      What about girl boy

  • @nesniping6378
    @nesniping6378 8 років тому +4

    6:40 that's entirely different because the guy getting blown would enjoy it and the girl was the one who wanted to try it. The other scenario is the guy getting blown wasn't sure about it or necessarily comfortable with it and the guy blowing would enjoy it. Two very different things

  • @SaldanaSean
    @SaldanaSean 8 років тому +31

    Jake isn't homophobic. He's socialized. Jake, much like me, was brought up around people where two dudes experimenting is fucking weird and two girls experimenting is hot. And Jake's feelings reflect that. It takes years to rewire your brain and undo that socialization.
    Anyhow, Bo is incredibly smart.

  • @quinsey9211
    @quinsey9211 8 років тому

    Im so with both of them. they both make perfect sense.

  • @MrGeemills
    @MrGeemills 4 роки тому

    I get where both of them are coming from honestly I dont necessarily think they disagree just are coming at it from different biases bo would and jake wouldn't

  • @temporalfemale7986
    @temporalfemale7986 7 років тому +34

    Cool about all of you being open-minded and all that, but how have you not even considered that this is a friendship that may be ruined by nothing more than sexual experimentation? Think if the story was about a straight couple of friends - a guy and a girl. Would you really advise best friends to mess around, knowing that this could very well ruin their friendship? I feel that in this case, gender and sexuality should be irrelevant. The question is: should friends experiment with friends?

  • @-cloudsaboveuscrying-6805
    @-cloudsaboveuscrying-6805 3 роки тому +2

    I love bo so much omgg

  • @Ayse-x8d3u
    @Ayse-x8d3u Рік тому

    In the future they will write ballads of "Motorcycles and The Wind"

  • @sadlystuckinreality
    @sadlystuckinreality 7 років тому +4

    Bo is the best.

  • @jovaanii
    @jovaanii 7 років тому +1

    yes! love this conversation

  • @MaLLinz289
    @MaLLinz289 8 років тому +1

    Jake you're not a homophobe, you just want everyone to have a good time

  • @wafflemaker6590
    @wafflemaker6590 7 років тому +9

    It sounds like motorcycle is being guilted into letting his friend blow him because he said he wanted let him do it to get even for all the stuff he's done for him

  • @Gorpgoop
    @Gorpgoop Рік тому

    2:20 did bo just rwhoosh j and a? twice back to back?? edit:was the words "come" and "head", intentional?

  • @barigeersful
    @barigeersful 8 років тому +2

    This is a crazy conversation. I love it tho. Lol.

  • @RemotHuman
    @RemotHuman Рік тому +1

    It might send the wrong message

  • @realemaskye286
    @realemaskye286 3 роки тому +8

    as a lesbian this is pretty good but i think given that theyre all straight men theres a lot of nuance missing when theyre talking about sexuality especially when it comes to women and lesbians. like i get that the main subject was a gay dude and i cant really speak to what they got wrong there but saying that heterosexual women feel more comfortable being seen as gay then straight men is just straight up wrong (lol). just like. they miss a lot of layers when it comes to womens sexuality and the relationship lgb women have to straight women but i do think jake and bo were right on the money about his internal bias and it was cool that they could talk about that

    • @realemaskye286
      @realemaskye286 3 роки тому +6

      @Comp uhhhhhhh i never said they were missing all the nuance when it came to mens experiences. yes they were mostly giving their own personal experiences and ill have u note i took no issue with that. but they also extrapolate what they believe the situation would look like if the sexes were reversed. im saying that from my personal expirience as a lesbian interacting with straight women, this imagined interaction is unfamiliar to me, and that they greatly underestimate the amount of homophobia straight women have because it doesnt manifest itself in the same way as it does for men. different people have different experiences, and these three men have all had very similar experiences and will inevitably get some things wrong when talking about other kinds of experiences w sexuality. in what way am i a bigot?

    • @prosebuds5124
      @prosebuds5124 3 роки тому +3

      @@realemaskye286 (as a bisexual woman) this is very well said!

    • @realemaskye286
      @realemaskye286 3 роки тому +3

      @@prosebuds5124 thank u! some people are just. like totally resistant to the idea that they might not have all the information i guess

    • @4dultw1thj0b
      @4dultw1thj0b 3 роки тому +2

      That's very true, part of me wished I could've butted into the conversation myself lol

    • @lollaz66
      @lollaz66 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah it's almost as if they were saying queer women have it easier as they continued to objectify them

  • @splashofsparks
    @splashofsparks 8 років тому

    3 of my favorite people hurrah!

  • @JustinRCampbell88
    @JustinRCampbell88 8 років тому +1

    just the thought of playing "never have I ever" after letting him do that. but in all seriousness, I'd prefer to be able to say that I've never been blown by a guy. whether it is saying it to myself or any other person

    • @jorgelujan9942
      @jorgelujan9942 7 років тому

      Right, and it's fine if YOU feel that way.
      But the question relates to "Motorcycle" who is thinking maybe he wants to go ahead and do it.
      You shouldn't project your feelings onto Motorcycle by telling him he definitely shouldn't do it; you'd be enforcing your hangups on his experiences.

  • @nateb4543
    @nateb4543 3 роки тому +1

    Couple things we need to know: straight friend says gay friend has always been there and feels like he owes him. What were these? As an extreme, he save his life? Also, does gay friend need to finish or would just putting a half chub in there for a few seconds suffice? Very important details

  • @joshm977
    @joshm977 3 роки тому +3

    i really want to know what happened

  • @tdehnert16
    @tdehnert16 8 років тому

    I NEED MORE!

  • @Decenium
    @Decenium 2 роки тому

    11:40, its so true, I was thinking "what if I go to a new workplace, and ill just say that im gay" and yet you dont do it....